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I Am Tired Of Being Used And Abused

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    GIVE but don't allow yourself to be used LOVE but don't allow your heart to be abused TRUST but don't be naive LISTEN to others but don't loose your own voice!!
    Sandyshaw13 Sandyshaw13 36-40, F 6 days ago

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    We have been together for 6 yrs and i regret every moment of it.i forgot to love-me and it hurts, I Have no friends every excuse is to keep my family and friends away. I have no...
    secretlyashamed secretlyashamed 31-35 Apr 2

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    I feel like every one is using me for something I hate being used
    nadirah96 nadirah96 16-17, F Mar 26

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    I am done being used!! Only good enough when someone isn't around!! We were friends we talked I always listened when you two were fighting!!! And now everything is fine and...
    browneyedgirl0409 browneyedgirl0409 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I'm a 16 year old girl. My whole life I have been trying to make my parents proud, but I've never been able to socialize properly with kids my age, I was always numb or upset...
    AGirlSearchingForAnswers AGirlSearchingForAnswers 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have long been used and abused by friends, family and co-workers. i am a guy that just can't say no and everyone takes advantage of. its not that I don't stand up for myself. i...
    DPBRNEYES DPBRNEYES 41-45, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    my wife of 14 years is treating me like a slave she never does anything around the house cooking cleaning etc she is only interested in Avon cosmetics and it takes up all of her...
    justchris123 justchris123 46-50, M Mar 17

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    Looking for a female online s€x slave Willing to complete tasks to satisfy my every s€xual desire unquestioning! Main rules 1 you will not question my tasks, unless there is a...
    bemyslavegirl bemyslavegirl 26-30, M Apr 5

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    My girlfriend is a sl*t! I have been a good little girlfriend for long enough but its time to complain! She has me, to fill her p*ssy needs but than she also has a boyfriend for...
    BarelyAdulterated BarelyAdulterated 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 25

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    I hate how my sister is trying to use me to get to my boyfriends money that's bullshit I hate when she does this she will never see a penny of his money
    nadirah96 nadirah96 16-17, F Mar 26

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    In college, there's obv going to be those who are without... But sheesh, just because I have a car and exceptionally helpful parents does not mean I'm not struggling. I'm learning...
    littlemissplur littlemissplur 18-21, F Mar 28

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    Real mean don't only say nice things before they get the sex. Real men treat their women with respect before and after.
    acidxxxfire acidxxxfire 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    My friend asked me to drive him and his girlfriend to a place an hour away and now were waiting outside some building for god knows why. I only got myself to blame because I didn...
    royalanarchist royalanarchist 18-21, M Apr 3

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    I hate that men only seek me for my looks and expect someone shallow. I met someone on ep who I connected with. We had a great relationship, and when he found out I had feelings...
    ambic68 ambic68 41-45, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    My boy-friend only uses me to do well in math class and his homework. Three weeks ago he forget an important method at school so my friend had to retract it to him.
    nklein nklein 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    People use me all the time, it seems that I can not say No!
    cowboy331 cowboy331 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My mom just told me the other day that I might have been sexually abused when I was 4. I was like, "What do you mean, "might" ? " She would drop me off at daycare when she went to...
    innerself000 innerself000 18-21 1 Response Apr 7

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    Whenever I look in the mirror I think about how I used to weigh 210 pounds. And when I think about that, it makes me hate the person I see in the mirror, and it makes me want to...
    Technickcolor Technickcolor 18-21, M Apr 6

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    I feel stupid for trying to seek out other people who could tolerate me, but I miss the sense of companionship. Lately, I kind of need it. It sucks being used to being alone, then...
    Sinaname Sinaname 26-30 Apr 4

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    I used to be to overly obsessed with materialistic endeavors and open to anyone and almost everything, after being used for this I have changed dramatically and no longer intend to...
    Life1sinteresting Life1sinteresting 18-21, M Mar 29

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    My stepfather screwed me for years when I was a teenager. Don't think my mum ever found out. It was a combination of events and I guess I wasn't completely innocent but he took...
    fi36 fi36 36-40, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Cut💨 Scratched💨 Bitten💨 Burned💨 Starved💨 Bruised💨 Scarred.... You name it and I've probably done it. I have been self harming since the age of seven and...
    bulimicbixtch49 bulimicbixtch49 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    Everybody who I've told what she does to me says that she is abusive, but I'm still not sure. I know that she's narcissistic because in all the articles I read about it almost all...
    jules401 jules401 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    So I wake up yesterday morning to a fight. Actually I didn't even make it out of bed before she started. This is a continuation of the lice story. The night before I had a 20 hour...
    j21043 j21043 31-35, M Mar 16

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    [A/N]: I'm only telling this to those who trolls. o.o I am also tired of all pretentious freaks! By creating an EP account from the very start you probably already know that you...
    yuichie yuichie 13-15, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and we love each other to bits but last June his visa ran out and he had to go back to his country I told him I would wait and that some...
    xbubblesxboo xbubblesxboo 22-25, F Apr 4

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    Ok so when I was a little girl I used to be really close to my dad and all the time I would lay next to him on the couch and he would always pet me on my arms and head but then be...
    ninaaba14 ninaaba14 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    U dont understand tho. And u never will. Idk what parents I'm coming home to? Jesus freaks that care about what I'm doing every second? Awesome parents? Or maybe the parents...
    sleepingolipiercedthebronx sleepingolipiercedthebronx 13-15, F Mar 28

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    I am so done. I'm tired of always been depressed. I'm tired of never being good enough for anybody. I'm tired of always coming in second place to my friends. I'm tired of being the...
    unfaiir unfaiir 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I was depressed all the time a mother of toe and one on the way I felt lost I had a home And husband a car a boat a family.. No reason I know now to be depressed I lost my 7 month...
    laceykight laceykight 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I smoked pot daily for over 6 years in an attempt to not deal with the trauma that I experience in my life. I lost my job, my friends and my will to even live. Anytime I had a...
    bellafyre bellafyre 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    If your going to lie to me then whatever relationship we had is over.I used to sit there and take it but not I'm sick and tired of lies.So i don't care if it's the tiniest lie it...
    Skittlesluvsrainbows Skittlesluvsrainbows 13-15, F Mar 30

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    I am just so tired of being depressed. Tired of being angry. Tired of having anxiety. Tired of my anxiety getting so bad that it manifests physically. Tired of the down days. Tired...
    NoClueWhoIam NoClueWhoIam 18-21, F Apr 7

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    Hi, it's Dakota again. I've already told my story of being raped by my uncle and three strange men last summer, just after I turned 14. One of the men was killed in a bad drug deal...
    mouthdakota mouthdakota 18-21, M 9 Responses Apr 4

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    How can I put this into words? I started dating a very beautiful, intelligent and funny woman. It was going great, we would hang out and do things like most couples would but, she...
    No551 No551 26-30 Apr 6

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    I'm so tired. This isn't a post about self-harm, it's just a post about being so damn tired. Of pushing and pushing. Of having to be so, so strong. Being so, so alone. All the time...
    RubyLemon RubyLemon 22-25 1 Response Mar 17

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    This is something I have a hard time admitting and even though I have talked about the abuse to people I trust, I never let them know it was him. 10 years after the last incident...
    shierahawke88 shierahawke88 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I'am tired, tired of everything. Tired of feeling this way, tired of people, tired of this feeling in my chest that gets bigger and bigger each day, tired of not having anyone to...
    jaylawr jaylawr 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    My mom psychologically tortured me and my two older siblings growing up. She is an extremist Christian and has borderline personality disorder. She is not diagnosed by I am a...
    SilianRail SilianRail 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    my mom married 3 times. each guy treated her worse than the one before. the last one was my dad who abused her, his kids, her kids by previous marriages, and anyone else within...
    Transluminal2010 Transluminal2010 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 6

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    All through my childhood my mother abused me, physically, mentally and sexually. A lot of people never understand that a woman can sexually abuse a child but believe me there are...
    liberosis liberosis 41-45, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Well finally I thought of sharing something after thinking for a while because I am sure I am not the only one who go through some thing like this. I am from a mix family Russian...
    PB90210 PB90210 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    I claw the dark circles hanging low around my eyes. Stay up an eternity thinking of you. The same she I plotted and schemed my escape from. You tired me out... I contemplated...
    faintking faintking 26-30, M Mar 18

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    I am fed up of the accusations.  Of it being made out that I played a game and led you on.  I did so much for you and should be bloody grateful rather than acting like a baby...
    mangomonkey mangomonkey 26-30, F Mar 24

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    My mom used to bully me, she used to hit me and call me fat. She made me do things that a child shouldn't have done.
    jimijmay jimijmay 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I had a good childhood in some respects. I was provided all of the material items that I needed and many times that I wanted. My parents were mentally. emotionally, physically and...
    abused2 abused2 22-25 1 Response Mar 27

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    No Witnesses- "Noah! Noah! Where are you,girl?" Out in the hall Papa,my adopted father,was calling for my little sister. She was in her bedroom just like every other day and he...
    UnwantedMutt UnwantedMutt 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    My family really is a chaos. They boss me everything, I'm controlled. They can't take me seeing doing nothing. They want me to work her, work there, work everywhere. It's okay if...
    RickaLorraine RickaLorraine 13-15, F Apr 6

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    I am his wife but yet I feel like I'm the other woman. It's about to be two months since I gave the hubby an ultimatum his family or this other woman. As I suspected he choose her...
    Itonlytakesone Itonlytakesone 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    It's honestly the worst thing ever and I would never wish abuse upon my worst enemy. I can't take back this past year and a half and I regret it every day. It truly does suck. I...
    cak22 cak22 18-21, F Mar 31

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    I'm just sick and tired of it all. The feelings and being so emotionally sensitive all the time. The mood swings and not being happy for long. The stupid thoughts of you and I and...
    EmoSakurachan EmoSakurachan 16-17, F Mar 31

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    I woke up this morning with so much on my mind. It's rare for me to just burst out into tears, but I just couldn't help myself. I'm the type of person that just like to brush...
    CallMeNiesha94 CallMeNiesha94 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 24