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I Am Tired Of Being Used And Abused

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    for 6 yrs and i regret every moment of it.i forgot to love-me and it hurts, I Have no friends every excuse is to keep my family and friends away. I have no where to turn i'm just really lost. He''s a liar, manipulator. every argument is him trying to intimidate me I can't take...
    secretlyashamed secretlyashamed 31-35 Apr 2

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    NoOneImportantNow NoOneImportantNow 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 3

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    It gets on my nerves, when I realise that somebody has been keeping in touch with me only because I could be useful. Most of the times I already have this feeling of being used...
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    talking to someone online and just being used for online sexual use.. but i enjoy the attention even if it is negative
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    I want to have one day where I cry the whole entire day so I don't have to cry anymore for the rest of my life. But with that I want to be held while crying so I know that I am...
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    So many people on here have used me for nude pics (not saying I sent them), or they just think I'm "attractive." Listen, if that's what you intend on doing with me, I will block...
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    Usually I'm a very happy person. But not today. No I'm suicidal. I'm just sad. 7 years being friends or so called friends with someone. And they only stayed around cause you loved...
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    14, in West Virginia, looking for someone to do this to me. Message me guys. I love bondage and rough sex.
    haleyj55 haleyj55 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    I'm so sick of it! They only message me asking for help of homework or whatever relationship problems! After they're well gone off, i realized they toke my help for granted!!!!
    LRxIce LRxIce 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I feel like there is nothing I can do. Everyone is smarter than me and can use me just at the snap of their fingertips. I fall for it every single time and most of the time it's by...
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    I haven`t yet worked out where to place this yet, but it will probably be under "I love my wife", or a site somewhere on these lines. I actually placed it in "I love", but then I...
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    I can't remember my childhood, I barely remember anything that happened before I hit age 7. I've been to therapy a lot since I was in 3rd grade. I started hating myself in 3rd...
    mysteriousanonymous mysteriousanonymous 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 7

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