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I Am Tired Of Cold Men

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    Unhealthy Relationships

    I think they pick me because I accept them.  I don't judge I don't hate.  Then they take it to the extreme and use me and my love against me.  They knock me down and wonder why I no longe see them in the same light.  They wonder why I leave. 
    honeygram12 honeygram12 51-55 Dec 31, 2010

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    Wtf!! I may as well turn gay.

    I see women are able to be more sensitive to their significant other.
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 2 Responses May 19

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    Heartless

    He knew id been sexually abused by my father. he knew my dad was dead. he knew i was a virgin... he knew i was an easy target. we had grown up together... and i was 15. i was lonely and confused, and fell right into his trap. a venus fly trap, he was attractive and seemed sweet...
    lonelygirl123 lonelygirl123 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 17, 2010

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    Warm At First

    I really should quit being so rough with them on the first date.  They get all stiff and boring and cold after that.  Then they start to stink.  What is it with men and personal hygiene, anyway?  I mean, don't you know you need a bath.  Oh...wait...you...
    unobserver unobserver 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 16, 2010

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    Kill Joy

    and when you killed our love you killed yourself but I did not die I rose like a phoenix from the ashes blown and scattered and I regarded your burned corpse with numbness and with knowledge that you could destroy the dream of love but you could not destroy me and when you tried...
    PoetryNEmotion PoetryNEmotion 51-55, F 3 Responses Aug 2, 2013

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    Cold Men

    my man was so cold if you put him in the sun it would freeze over. If you have a truley cold man they have no soul get away from him you cant change him all they do is rub off on you
    pammielou pammielou 46-50, F Jun 16, 2010

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    Frostbitten And Ice-shy

    You know when you touch something really cold and it hurts? Yeah. Some people are like that. Unlike ice cubes, they don't generally melt when you hold on (i.e. with generosity, patience, forgiveness, kindness)... they just give you frostbite. I can't take it anymore. My heart...
    IAMNOWHERE IAMNOWHERE 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2010

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    I usually supress my problems but I can't hold them in. It's getting worse. I am tired physically, mentally and emotionally. I am only 17 and I have been cheated out of my life...
    shesbizarre shesbizarre 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm not a cynic by any means. I'm just saying what I'm saying based off of my personal experiences and the experiences of others around me.I don't have an all-encompassing...
    relating2u79 relating2u79 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 3

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    ok so its been like hmmm two days and lets see 19 hours and a half so thats 48 + 19=67 if im not wrong hours and im so fuckign tired and sick and stomach sick and cold very very...
    Insomniac77 Insomniac77 16-17, M Jul 11

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    I often think of the phrase "Nothing changes if nothing changes". Although I see my own responsibility towards my attitude and place in life, I still feel like I'm spinning my...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 15

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    Yes, I do love Jewish men, but I could never eat a whole one--could you?
    Tannasheart Tannasheart 46-50, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Late twenties all the way to mid-forties. Preferably on the older side...Let me call you daddy ;) I find older men really sexy. Why might I feel this way? I have a dad and we're...
    Oliviammc Oliviammc 18-21, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Tired of their games, the lies, the sluttery, the fakeness everything. I've wanted love and relationships since I was really young. Maybe I'm just not that hot, but I can't find a...
    JayLee23 JayLee23 26-30, M Jul 16

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    Hi all. I'm so sick and tired of crying. I love two people- my daughter and my partner. I've been accused of everything and I can't stand anymore the mental anguish which was...
    marypython marypython 51-55, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I am definitely not a writer and my English sucks. I always wanted to write. I want to keep a diary. I've tried many times in the past in doing that. But every each time after I...
    candicedxj candicedxj 18-21, F Jul 3

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    I too have received pictures that made me want to rip out my eyes....and I'm not even gay...it says 18-21M right there. And yet, I still get "do you like being spanked?" Or " I'll...
    yourguardingangel yourguardingangel 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 18

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    I have a headache and I can't focus on what I should do. I always wanna have mental support from others. I don't know why I just can't do what I should at the moment.
    thelostsongbird thelostsongbird 22-25, F Jul 19

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    I feel like I have to get this off my chest as it is making me increasingly ill. My life in general is making me increasingly ill. I am 21 year old with Borderline personality...
    Daisypie Daisypie 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Seriously, there's no need for it. This ***** of a co-worker of mine gave me one today. I asked her a simple question, smile on my face and all, in the most nice, respectable...
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I feel like a broken person like I can't make any connection with people emotionally, being cold hearted you don't actually realise you even are cold hearted until you turn around...
    ElizaChloe ElizaChloe 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    You know how when my heart was broken and didn't want to pick up the pieces? Well soon I picked them up, but the hurt and pain was still present. I was just a shell of a man. No...
    LuckyGuy001 LuckyGuy001 13-15, M Jul 13

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    I'm Tired of not being able to trust my mother. I'm Tired of failing at school. I'm Tired of feeling left out by my mother and her husband. I'm Tired of crying over the guy that...
    HighOnMisery HighOnMisery 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    PSA: Men I love your body parts. Trust me I really do BUT please I am getting tired of seeing your manhood. If you want my attention tell me a corny joke or something other...
    foreignindulgence foreignindulgence 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 9

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    I hate the mean things that people say about girls that date older man, I'm so tired of people saying young girls that date older men have daddy issues...That is so stupid and...
    ForeverShades ForeverShades 18-21, F 14 Responses Jul 12

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    I will not bow down to you because you are nice to me. You're supposed to be nice without wanting something in return, it's called being a decent human being. Too many males have...
    kbeary kbeary 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I am really tired of everyone , tired of working , tired of thinking I will have goo future one day , tired of waiting of good days , tired of being alone , tired of people who are...
    Johnnystha Johnnystha 26-30, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    When I was small I had a couple of paper routes, and in the winter it was so very cold here, that I would become terribly chilled. We had poor winter clothing and the adults were...
    therepurposedmale therepurposedmale 61-65, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm going to try to be vague because i don't really want to say it. But i also really do want to say it. Maybe i just can't. Maybe i don't know how. Or maybe i just don't know what...
    experiencedyetunprepared experiencedyetunprepared 16-17, F Jul 7

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    I'm so tired I cant stop thinking of food and calories, I can't stop weighing all the food before I eat. I'm so tired of counting calories, so damn tired of being me. Tired of...
    madeofbones madeofbones 22-25, M Jul 9

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    I love to be warm, I guess I must have cold blood. Waking up and the day feels warm is a lovely feeling. I love the summer months. I always feel more relaxed. I get chilled easily...
    TamaraTheWorld TamaraTheWorld 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 11

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    winter in australia adelaide to be precise ive never known a winter to be so bone chilling cold and storms with golf ball sized hail here is unheard of it was so cold it snowed at...
    Barraman Barraman 46-50, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I am so tired of being sick... So sick of being tired.. Nothing I do ever seems to be working out.. No one seems to be ever keeping their promises around me. That's not even the...
    outtamymindz outtamymindz 18-21, F Jul 16

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    People always tell me that I look sad and tired. I know I look sad and tired. I AM SAD AND TIRED!!!!!
    Goliath2014 Goliath2014 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 18

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    i hear it every day, that voice that says my god your ugly, you're strange, you talk to loud, you laugh funny - that voice inside that tells me ill never be good enough for them...
    Kate197979 Kate197979 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 18

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    I know we all have to do it sometimes, and it's necessary to try again (if we are ever going to have what we want), but I am SOOOOOOooooooooo tired of starting over. I guess it's...
    moonchile moonchile 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am tired of my life. I am tired of all the bullshit I have to put up with. I am tired of living. Suicide sounds better and better everyday.
    Melove2012 Melove2012 13-15, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    This girl at my part-time job (pizza restaurant) and not my full-time job (Direct Support for people with disablities) is emotionally and mentally draining. I've been dealing with...
    betweenlustandlove betweenlustandlove 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    I must admit it has never happened to me before and it scared me... I was sitting yesterday, just at the table, no where special, talking to the person I love over FB and I...
    wombatron wombatron 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    I currently reside at a house that I have been sleeping, eating, laughing, crying, loving, growing, living in for the past 15 years. I have experienced many things at this...
    chanee730 chanee730 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    This just applies to various men hitting on minors on EP. Don't do it... It's gross, creepy, and straight up disturbing as all hell.
    KismetWrites KismetWrites 31-35 2 Responses Jul 5

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    Maybe I'm weird but there is nothing better than wearing sweaters and shorts, and curling up in a blanket. I like warm weather too but I love that feeling when I'm curled up with a...
    lilzaybae lilzaybae 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 7

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    I don't have no friends anymore well I do but it's summer and we are all going to university in September so we are going our seperate ways so it's an end of an era. I do nothing...
    rubina18 rubina18 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    Some people have only lost a few dear ones in their lives, that is difficult in any way, shape or form. I however have lost people my whole life, since age 5. A continual line...
    rowenbumble rowenbumble 56-60, F Jul 9

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    Why do women like assh0ls - because they are often successful, powerful, and attractive. Why are they so often the ones who are successful, powerful, and attractive? That's...
    Ajushi Ajushi 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 11

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    Just had a very good 3 way encounter, my gf is very tired now