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I Am Tired Of Cold Men

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 28 People

    Frostbitten And Ice-shy

    You know when you touch something really cold and it hurts? Yeah. Some people are like that. Unlike ice cubes, they don't generally melt when you hold on (i.e. with generosity, patience, forgiveness, kindness)... they just give you frostbite. I can't take it anymore. My heart...
    IAMNOWHERE IAMNOWHERE 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2010

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    Heartless

    He knew id been sexually abused by my father. he knew my dad was dead. he knew i was a virgin... he knew i was an easy target. we had grown up together... and i was 15. i was lonely and confused, and fell right into his trap. a venus fly trap, he was attractive and seemed sweet...
    lonelygirl123 lonelygirl123 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 17, 2010

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    Wtf!! I may as well turn gay.

    I see women are able to be more sensitive to their significant other.
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F 2 Responses May 19, 2014

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    Cold Men

    my man was so cold if you put him in the sun it would freeze over. If you have a truley cold man they have no soul get away from him you cant change him all they do is rub off on you
    pammielou pammielou 46-50, F Jun 16, 2010

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    Kill Joy

    and when you killed our love you killed yourself but I did not die I rose like a phoenix from the ashes blown and scattered and I regarded your burned corpse with numbness and with knowledge that you could destroy the dream of love but you could not destroy me and when you tried...
    PoetryNEmotion PoetryNEmotion 51-55, F 3 Responses Aug 2, 2013

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    Warm At First

    I really should quit being so rough with them on the first date.  They get all stiff and boring and cold after that.  Then they start to stink.  What is it with men and personal hygiene, anyway?  I mean, don't you know you need a bath.  Oh...wait...you...
    unobserver unobserver 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 16, 2010

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    Unhealthy Relationships

    I think they pick me because I accept them.  I don't judge I don't hate.  Then they take it to the extreme and use me and my love against me.  They knock me down and wonder why I no longe see them in the same light.  They wonder why I leave. 
    honeygram12 honeygram12 51-55 Dec 31, 2010

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    ugh. seems like every time I pray for a warm day it only gets (((colder))) That's it, I'm moving to Florida!
    Prettyboy82 Prettyboy82 31-35, M 1 hr ago

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    AN76 AN76 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2014

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    Xenasdreams Xenasdreams 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Im attracted to the maturity, intelligence, and knowledge of the world men have to offer. I look at boys my age and think they are unattractive imbecile and look at 25-40ish men...
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    lovex2 lovex2 46-50 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    sadly203 sadly203 18-21 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Dec 26, 2014

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    Jennabybel Jennabybel 22-25, F Jan 5

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    I am so tired of having to deal with all the backstabbing and lying my sons father throws at me. I'm just exhausted from being so emotional. We have been through a lot together...
    britlx3 britlx3 18-21, F Jan 4

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    minnieccaa minnieccaa 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    There's a difference between older men, much older men, and old men. When I was 21, I was tired of only older men being attracted to me (30's, 40's, 50's). I felt like they were...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Jan 4

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    m moving out when I turn 18, and I'm absolutely terrified. I'm... feeling really small right now, so I guess that's why I'm writing this. My story is long, but relevant. I was...
    theydunnomyname theydunnomyname 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 8

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    Thank you so much for your response and for giving attention to my concerns I'm sending this email thank you and secondly to inform you that I will not use the affective disorder...
    Anonymous79ea Anonymous79ea 31-35, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    It's because your going for men that you like instead of the men that love you. You are looking in all the wrong places.(:
    jreyn2000 jreyn2000 13-15, M Dec 26, 2014

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    I just don't understand this girl! She said something painful to me last night and i just said good night i love you (yes we have a mutual feeling) and have a great life and i know...
    Itsjamessy Itsjamessy 16-17, M Jan 2

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    I'm so tired mentally, the only reason I haven't walked out the door on my family is because I would lose my husband. I am a sorry excuse for a mother. They deserve better, he...
    vault101 vault101 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 3

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    I feel like NO ONE gets it, There are so many of us dealing with health issues and since no two people are the same no two issues are the same.... Sure they can be dealing with the...
    LoveWhitz LoveWhitz 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    Has Anyone A Clear Answer? I am 16 years old guy and i feel this power inside me.I feel it cold,clean like ice it fills like when u are outside and is -20 deg celsius but inside...
    CriticCryo CriticCryo 16-17, M Jan 7

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    Yes i LOVE masculine men, i love them, I'd love to have a man to make me feel safe, I'm tired of little boys who can't make me feel secure or even talk to me because they're to...
    Prettygirl345 Prettygirl345 18-21, T 1 Response Jan 16

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    I am so being played by a friend of mine, it's insane. I'm supportive of her all the way through her depression, but when I say what's on my mind I'm just having an existence...
    CactusHugger CactusHugger 18-21, F Jan 17

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    psychedeliica psychedeliica 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Seriously, I believe I'm going for a Guiness World Record the way I've had non-stop colds since December 21st. Coincidence? It is the official start of winter no? Every time...
    OldPervBen OldPervBen 41-45, M 19 hrs ago

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    A Scopio Mind hurt...... I am tired of my mind (BPD mind)...... tired of what thoughts it holds and what they do to me...... I am tired of life being a drag and fighting to make...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    Sleep..sleep, I just want to be in a deep sleep filled with dreams and nightmares forever, and never ever wake up again. I'm just going with the flow no plans no goals, tired..just...
    KatisGone KatisGone 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My whole life has been burnt by men starting from molestation to rape to abuse; the pain never stops and it's unbearable to the point where I'm in emotional traumatizing pain. I...
    tcholoe1488 tcholoe1488 26-30, F Dec 25, 2014

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    Yeah, because it awesome when you constantly have to check if whats happening is real or just another hallucination, or have an ever present whisper at your back promising to...
    thetalkingmushroom thetalkingmushroom 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 27, 2014

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    In college, I always wear the King Style Balls in One Erector Briefs (www.internationaljock.com). Pictured above, they fit a boy's p-enis perfectly with two distinct pouches:1...
    Triangulate Triangulate 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 4

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    I hate how the media is constantly portraying women as sex objects showing that the way to achieve perfection is to have a perfect body and that the way to attract men is to show...
    Darkanddesolate Darkanddesolate 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    I am tired...it is like a heavy weight inside like a thousand pounds inside me, each day I try to move it wants to hold me back, like walk up against the strongest winds......I am...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F Jan 7

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    It's cold, it's cold, it's really. Really cold!!!! Four blankets doesn't satisfy.
    Angela5398 Angela5398 16-17, F Dec 30, 2014

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