I Am Tired Of Cold Men

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    Heartless

    He knew id been sexually abused by my father. he knew my dad was dead. he knew i was a virgin... he knew i was an easy target. we had grown up together... and i was 15. i was lonely and confused, and fell right into his trap. a venus fly trap, he was attractive and seemed sweet...
    lonelygirl123 lonelygirl123
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jun 17, 2010

    Frostbitten And Ice-shy

    You know when you touch something really cold and it hurts? Yeah. Some people are like that. Unlike ice cubes, they don't generally melt when you hold on (i.e. with generosity, patience, forgiveness, kindness)... they just give you frostbite. I can't take it anymore. My heart...
    IAMNOWHERE IAMNOWHERE
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Dec 30, 2010

    Unhealthy Relationships

    I think they pick me because I accept them.  I don't judge I don't hate.  Then they take it to the extreme and use me and my love against me.  They knock me down and wonder why I no longe see them in the same light.  They wonder why I leave. 
    honeygram12 honeygram12
    51-55
    Dec 31, 2010

    Warm At First

    I really should quit being so rough with them on the first date.  They get all stiff and boring and cold after that.  Then they start to stink.  What is it with men and personal hygiene, anyway?  I mean, don't you know you need a bath.  Oh...wait...you...
    unobserver unobserver
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jun 16, 2010

    Wtf!! I may as well turn gay.

    I see women are able to be more sensitive to their significant other.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses May 19, 2014

    Cold Men

    my man was so cold if you put him in the sun it would freeze over. If you have a truley cold man they have no soul get away from him you cant change him all they do is rub off on you
    pammielou pammielou
    46-50, F
    Jun 16, 2010

    Kill Joy

    and when you killed our love you killed yourself but I did not die I rose like a phoenix from the ashes blown and scattered and I regarded your burned corpse with numbness and with knowledge that you could destroy the dream of love but you could not destroy me and when you tried...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 2, 2013

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