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I Am Tired of Feeling Betrayed

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    My Heart Shattered Into Pieces...

    we've been married for 4 years with 2 wonderful daughters. He cheated on me and i know the woman. At first, my hunch told me that there's something going on between them and it came out true. I saw their texts for each other and i think that the whole world collapsed right in...
    survivingheart survivingheart 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 20, 2013

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    After 12 Years

    my parents r divorced since i was young,i had a really bad childhood though both my parents r really rich enough to get me everything i want but they never really made me feel secured so everything i had was meaningless.i was a very lonley child never talking to anyone never...
    re4567 re4567 22-25, F Aug 20, 2009

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    its too intense these feelings .

    .why are people not honest about feelings for that other person ..it just crosses over into the next relationship and hurts people because i sense it so strongly and feel betrayal ..always me that looks like the victim that falls hard and then it results in emotional crisis...
    psychicprayer psychicprayer 36-40 Mar 1

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    Continuous Betrayal

    I am 32, Got married a second time to a married man. He cheated me time and time again. One day just packed up and left, only found out his wife is back in town and could not handle this. I dont know what to do............feel so hurt. I love him. Tells me to be friends. I cannot...
    Maliha Maliha 31-35 2 Responses Sep 1, 2008

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    I Just Cant Trust Her

    I always thought I could trust my best friend but I cant, shes overweight a lot so she generally meets guys on the internet i think hoping to make them fall in love with her personality first, so she meets this guy italian guy on the internet and starts throwing around the words...
    Bstuffxbox Bstuffxbox 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    Kicked Out

    I have, for about a year, served as a moderator at a popular forum I visit. I've had to work for a long time to gain this position. Today, without a warning or choice, I was kicked out of the staff team. A member who has been very nasty to me for a long time took my position. I...
    MylesPrower MylesPrower 16-17, M 2 Responses Sep 29, 2009

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    life is just far too hard,

    i cant wait to get away its the only thing keeping me alive things must be better on the other side of the world, a fresh start,
    thedudefromearth thedudefromearth 18-21 3 days ago

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    Cheated.

    I am 19 years old. A month ago I found out that my mom cheated on my dad. My dad doesn't know, and I'm the only one who knows. My mom has asked me to keep this from everyone. I just feel so hurt. She's my mom. Moms aren't supposed to make their children feel this way. I shouldn't...
    allyanon allyanon 18-21 2 Responses Oct 19, 2010

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    I Don't Know How I Should Feel.

    I recently went to hang out with one of my closest friends.  I thought it would be a good night with some drinks and some catching up.  Little did I know that another girl I haven't talked to since high school moved in with this friend.  A girl that my friend said...
    thatonegirl18 thatonegirl18 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 28, 2010

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    Still In Love With My Crush

    I've grown up in a smaller country where I've gone to school as well. Had my first crush while I was only 16 on a teacher. He came to know abt it nd treated me bad. Finally after being 3 yrs in his class we left school. Heard he got married. Now 15 yrs later he sents me a friend...
    Fairy10 Fairy10 36-40, F Mar 30, 2013

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    Betrayed By My Family

    For 8 years I have been battling bipolar disorder and anxiety. My family has never supported my mental illness and is always asking when I am going to be "cured?" Recently, I moved and of course noone helped me. All my family could do was ask when I was going to be finished. I...
    my2angels22 my2angels22 36-40, F 4 Responses May 3, 2007

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    Lies and Alcohol

    every time he drinks alcohol more than 3-4 drinks he talks about personal things and he uses it against me the more he drinks,,,he always blames me for the things that other people do.
    benarswench benarswench 46-50, F 2 Responses May 20, 2007

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    Again And Again

    First time, I forgave her and took her back. Second time, I said, "Well, she's young, she doesn't know what she wants." Third time, fourth time, fifth time... You get the idea. It's always come back crying a few months later with I Miss Yous and I Need Yous. Like a sucker, I fall...
    pilgrim19 pilgrim19 31-35 1 Response Apr 2, 2013

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    I have amazing boyfriend.

    We have been together since the summer of 2010. Really, I thought I were the luckiest girl on Earth with having this kind of man in my life. But this February well, I discovered it is not true. I'm so torn to pieces between two feelings. When all is good, it really is good. My...
    Jici Jici 22-25, F Dec 28, 2013

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    I walk around with the knives in my back

    that people left when they stabbed me...
    Seblett Seblett 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    What's the Deal?

      I'm the Friend,nice guy. Here i am 37 and even my ex's say they screwed up bye cheating on me. i was the best they for them . I was married for 9 monthes, 1.5 of that in the begining she cheated on me. Same with my last g/f we were together 3 yr.'s most of that she did...
    Rockworth Rockworth 36-40, M 2 Responses Oct 6, 2009

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    You told me to stop talking to you

    and stay away from you and today u asked me why I did that? After yelled at me and mad at me you ask me whether I was being serious or not. You told me that you're free so you chat me? You told me that you just trying to be nice and im mad? Well, yeah im just a toy that...
    bviita bviita 18-21, F Dec 7, 2013

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    Trust Who?

    As the years pass in my life, I noticed I always to reach out and stay intouch with many people I known (due to being a military child) people because I have a hard time keeping friends. It seems like everyone that i thought was a friend, did become associates because I feel like...
    1Deep 1Deep 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 12, 2012

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    My Troubles In a Nutshell

      I am an adopted 15 year old girl. It is hard for me because my birthmother lied to me about her real name so now it is impossible to find records on her or my siblings. I do not even know who my father is because she had kids with many different guys and we dont...
    southernloyalty93 southernloyalty93 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 19, 2008

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    So there you are, out in some club past midnight still getting drunk with the "boys", getting hit on by numerous thirsty hoes no doubt, and where am I? At home, nursing my rapidly...
    RebeccaLouise9541 RebeccaLouise9541 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    okay, im thirteen and in about 5th to 7th grade ive had really bad pimples and right now, their gone but i have black spots. my friends say they make me look cute but i cant help...
    swavvy123 swavvy123 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    people define life to be miserable, but this misery can take many faces...mine takes the form of fear, acute disappointment, hopelessness, anger, repressed rage, or self harm...
    Nishitaa Nishitaa 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm new here. I recently made the decision to uproot my life and move far away from my MM. I just got tired of dealing with it all. His broken promises, his lies.....everything...
    movingon2014 movingon2014 41-45, F 5 hrs ago

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    Betrayed isn't the word I was looking for, more let down than anything. When you're there for close friends when they need it you'd expect the same in return. That's what true...
    Fabulousboy91 Fabulousboy91 22-25, M Aug 10

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    Tired, dancing back and forth with my SO. Tired of not making ends meet. Tired of having the feeling I do not control my life. Tired of feeling sorry for myself. Tired of wating...
    Blanche08 Blanche08 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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    I think I am just emotional exhausted. I am tired of feeling. I am tired of crying, of being depressed. I am tired of the occasional bouts of happiness that give me false hope. I'm...
    littlegirl03 littlegirl03 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I loss my mom and the same week loss my relationship only to find out he was playing me to get back to his ex girl friend . All three of us attend the same church . He told...
    Clarineclarice Clarineclarice 31-35, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    so he started with excuses to go out in the afternoons and evenings, I checked his phone and he has deleted all history calls and text even website searches and this raise a flag...
    LadySoledad LadySoledad 31-35, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    Ok here's the deal. I have always been a pretty independent person. I had a perfect childhood. Two very loving parents. I had a vision of the way life is supposed to be. Fast...
    slim156 slim156 41-45, M 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    She invited me over "to fix her computer." Over and over she invited me over, and we'd sit and talk, and sometimes I'd hug her or rub her shoulders, but she wouldn't let me kiss...
    wundayatta wundayatta 56-60, M 2 Responses Aug 3

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    I was betrayed by my bestfriend when she dated my recent Ex, is it bad to forgive her and yet i despise her? Is it wrong to feel betrayed and hate her? Or is it wrong to say she's...
    wargoddess1 wargoddess1 18-21, F Aug 15

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    I am entirely too tired. My body aches but my mind hurts the most. I'm tired of feeling like a burden. I'm tired of hearing her talk all the time about insignificant things. She...
    Confusedsadlonely Confusedsadlonely 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    of feeling guilty. i am tired of people telling what to do and what to not do. i guess that's why I've stopped listening to people. i guess i'm surrounded by controlling people. i...
    boredandreading boredandreading 18-21 Aug 1

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    I am sick and tired of everything. I am tired of my parents always blaming me for every wrong thing my sister does. I'm tired of being judged. I'm tired of feeling lonely and...
    wherehorizonsmeet wherehorizonsmeet 16-17, F Aug 3

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    So yesterday I find out the guy I thought was my next forever....which I know you guys have seen on my experiences has moved on completely and found himself a new girl....how do I...
    teardrop12 teardrop12 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I'm 22 years old and bipolar. When I was in senior high school i get my bipolar so bad. I hate my society, human and everything seem sick. I hate talking with other people and I...
    creepgirls creepgirls 18-21 Aug 6

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    Lonliness is the worst feeling I hate that even tho I have friends that I feel no one really knows me and just feeling so alone like no one is there for me or cares I'm tired of...
    Daletheloner Daletheloner 18-21, M Aug 18

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    Told a dear friend of mine (well I thought she was a friend) a secret and I recently found out she told a couple of people. I feel so betrayed. I want to confront her but I don't...
    ttaK ttaK 31-35, F 6 Responses Aug 6

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    It's not why I was betrayed or what it was about it's the fact that I was betray by someone I trusted so dearly that matters to me
    renguard renguard 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 9

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    My so called 'best friend' has been flirting with my crush ever since I've introduced them.She knows I like him very much,pretty much in love with him.She told me he likes me yet...
    AnushaSohraab AnushaSohraab 13-15, F Aug 11

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    This human being I called my "mother" is not what she appears to be; motherly, caring, quiet, sweet & innocent. Here's how I found out I got married few months ago, husband and I...
    sydnew sydnew 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    The only person I loved highly has betrayed me , my father. his evil wife who pretended to be my friend in order to get him and his money and she did it . she destroyed everyone's...
    anna57 anna57 31-35, F Aug 16

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    I was hurt a lot and lied to a lot and betrayed a lot. So much I have trust issues and it is hard to find a person I can trust but I have. I found my best friend I can trust her...
    cutemonkey cutemonkey 13-15, F Aug 18

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    It's always /something/. Always. There's always a problem or distraction. If it's not one medical thing or another, it's a family problem. It's petty drama. It's stupid stuff that...
    BlandSpaghetti BlandSpaghetti 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 6

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    My husband works out on the road for two weeks at a time and come homes for two days then leaves out again. We talk for a total of ten minutes a day about nothing so we don't...
    LilDrgnFly LilDrgnFly 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I've kind of lost the feeling of wanting to have a relationship with a girl. I've had my heart ripped to pieces all too often. So often that I'm impervious to my emotions - I no...
    funkymonkey2024 funkymonkey2024 22-25, M Aug 12

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    For years, you've constantly said to me "why are you like this?","why do you care soo much?", "you never want to wear this", but have you ever considered the answer yourself...
    chuacarielle chuacarielle 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    What the hell is wrong with people thinking that they can just use other!?!?!? Like seriously!?!? Does it make them feel better?!?! or am I just the stupid one for having fallen in...
    dexxie dexxie 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    Ive been through quite a lot and i feel like ive lost my self battling through them.. My story is quite..i must say uncommon. Basically my whole family lied about my own identity...
    eyeris2195 eyeris2195 18-21, F Aug 19