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I Am Tired of Feeling Betrayed

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    Kicked Out

    I have, for about a year, served as a moderator at a popular forum I visit. I've had to work for a long time to gain this position. Today, without a warning or choice, I was kicked out of the staff team. A member who has been very nasty to me for a long time took my position. I...
    MylesPrower MylesPrower 16-17, M 2 Responses Sep 29, 2009

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    My Troubles In a Nutshell

      I am an adopted 15 year old girl. It is hard for me because my birthmother lied to me about her real name so now it is impossible to find records on her or my siblings. I do not even know who my father is because she had kids with many different guys and we dont...
    southernloyalty93 southernloyalty93 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 19, 2008

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    I Just Cant Trust Her

    I always thought I could trust my best friend but I cant, shes overweight a lot so she generally meets guys on the internet i think hoping to make them fall in love with her personality first, so she meets this guy italian guy on the internet and starts throwing around the words...
    Bstuffxbox Bstuffxbox 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    Cheated.

    I am 19 years old. A month ago I found out that my mom cheated on my dad. My dad doesn't know, and I'm the only one who knows. My mom has asked me to keep this from everyone. I just feel so hurt. She's my mom. Moms aren't supposed to make their children feel this way. I shouldn't...
    allyanon allyanon 18-21 2 Responses Oct 19, 2010

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    I Don't Know How I Should Feel.

    I recently went to hang out with one of my closest friends.  I thought it would be a good night with some drinks and some catching up.  Little did I know that another girl I haven't talked to since high school moved in with this friend.  A girl that my friend said...
    thatonegirl18 thatonegirl18 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 28, 2010

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    Trust Who?

    As the years pass in my life, I noticed I always to reach out and stay intouch with many people I known (due to being a military child) people because I have a hard time keeping friends. It seems like everyone that i thought was a friend, did become associates because I feel like...
    1Deep 1Deep 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 12, 2012

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    its too intense these feelings .

    .why are people not honest about feelings for that other person ..it just crosses over into the next relationship and hurts people because i sense it so strongly and feel betrayal ..always me that looks like the victim that falls hard and then it results in emotional crisis...
    psychicprayer psychicprayer 36-40 1 Response Mar 1

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    Lies and Alcohol

    every time he drinks alcohol more than 3-4 drinks he talks about personal things and he uses it against me the more he drinks,,,he always blames me for the things that other people do.
    benarswench benarswench 46-50, F 2 Responses May 20, 2007

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    I have amazing boyfriend.

    We have been together since the summer of 2010. Really, I thought I were the luckiest girl on Earth with having this kind of man in my life. But this February well, I discovered it is not true. I'm so torn to pieces between two feelings. When all is good, it really is good. My...
    Jici Jici 22-25, F Dec 28, 2013

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    After 12 Years

    my parents r divorced since i was young,i had a really bad childhood though both my parents r really rich enough to get me everything i want but they never really made me feel secured so everything i had was meaningless.i was a very lonley child never talking to anyone never...
    re4567 re4567 22-25, F Aug 20, 2009

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    My Heart Shattered Into Pieces...

    we've been married for 4 years with 2 wonderful daughters. He cheated on me and i know the woman. At first, my hunch told me that there's something going on between them and it came out true. I saw their texts for each other and i think that the whole world collapsed right in...
    survivingheart survivingheart 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 20, 2013

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    Betrayed By My Family

    For 8 years I have been battling bipolar disorder and anxiety. My family has never supported my mental illness and is always asking when I am going to be "cured?" Recently, I moved and of course noone helped me. All my family could do was ask when I was going to be finished. I...
    my2angels22 my2angels22 36-40, F 4 Responses May 3, 2007

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    Still In Love With My Crush

    I've grown up in a smaller country where I've gone to school as well. Had my first crush while I was only 16 on a teacher. He came to know abt it nd treated me bad. Finally after being 3 yrs in his class we left school. Heard he got married. Now 15 yrs later he sents me a friend...
    Fairy10 Fairy10 36-40, F Mar 30, 2013

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    What's the Deal?

      I'm the Friend,nice guy. Here i am 37 and even my ex's say they screwed up bye cheating on me. i was the best they for them . I was married for 9 monthes, 1.5 of that in the begining she cheated on me. Same with my last g/f we were together 3 yr.'s most of that she did...
    Rockworth Rockworth 36-40, M 2 Responses Oct 6, 2009

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    Continuous Betrayal

    I am 32, Got married a second time to a married man. He cheated me time and time again. One day just packed up and left, only found out his wife is back in town and could not handle this. I dont know what to do............feel so hurt. I love him. Tells me to be friends. I cannot...
    Maliha Maliha 31-35 2 Responses Sep 1, 2008

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    Again And Again

    First time, I forgave her and took her back. Second time, I said, "Well, she's young, she doesn't know what she wants." Third time, fourth time, fifth time... You get the idea. It's always come back crying a few months later with I Miss Yous and I Need Yous. Like a sucker, I fall...
    pilgrim19 pilgrim19 31-35 1 Response Apr 2, 2013

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    Its 2 am, and I am literally on my laptop- im supposed to be studying for a test but I just cant find it in me to do anything. I'm tired of being alone, not having that person to...
    LuckyNumber3 LuckyNumber3 16-17, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I should have left before I never thought about it though ,, not seriously anyways I love you but I think I may be done. If something does not change I can not stay any more I'm...
    Lonelyandyoung Lonelyandyoung 22-25, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I work. Get home. 23. Live with my mother. Not sure what to do with my life. No College. No Car. No Motivation for life. I am not sure why. It could be my addiction to video games...
    SuohSin SuohSin 22-25, M 7 hrs ago

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    So I am a musician and I really take the time and put the effort in to promoting, writing, and really trying to let my close friends know how important this is to me. However, I...
    livingfornothing livingfornothing 31-35, F 3 Responses 25 mins ago

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    I was betrayed by a girl in high school I was pregnant at the time and this girl who doesn't have any decorum or integrity about herself asked in front of a whole classroom "are...
    Bella70 Bella70 41-45, F 2 days ago

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    My nephew's wedding! Growing up my nephew and I were close. He always privately said I was his favorite Aunt. I babysat him, attended all his functions, gave gifts etc. I...
    lagatta lagatta 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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    I'am tired, tired of everything. Tired of feeling this way, tired of people, tired of this feeling in my chest that gets bigger and bigger each day, tired of not having anyone to...
    jaylawr jaylawr 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    I noticed that nearly every time I'm shopping in a predominantly white neighborhood, whether it's for clothing or food or whatever, there's a store employee trying to follow me out...
    adorea adorea 70+, F 6 hrs ago

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    Never as tired as when in waking up.
    tarkovsky tarkovsky 26-30, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I am just so tired of being depressed. Tired of being angry. Tired of having anxiety. Tired of my anxiety getting so bad that it manifests physically. Tired of the down days. Tired...
    NoClueWhoIam NoClueWhoIam 18-21, F Apr 7

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    I am tired of being a placeholder for the guys I spend time with until they find the woman they "want" to be with. I am tired of feeling like I am not good enough. What am I...
    TigerLily1211 TigerLily1211 26-30 Apr 13

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    I'm just sick and tired of it all. The feelings and being so emotionally sensitive all the time. The mood swings and not being happy for long. The stupid thoughts of you and I and...
    EmoSakurachan EmoSakurachan 16-17, F Mar 31

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    It's all just pain... I'm so tired pretending.. I'm so tired holding on to someone I can't really have. I'm tired of being all alone. I'm tired of feeling all these feelings...
    kaaat101 kaaat101 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I didn’t think I would post about this one so soon. But I hate having it hanging over my head so I’m just going to do it. I was with my last boyfriend for 5 years and 9 months...
    peachespicnic peachespicnic 22-25, F 17 Responses Mar 26

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    I guess it's from reading all these books where the main character's life has worked itself out, but I'm just really disappointed with where my life is headed. I always get this...
    KristyKreme KristyKreme 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    Love is a wonderful feeling until you are betrayed.. Why does it happen that you love someone so much and they leave you saying that you have changed.. If you try to adapt your...
    misterweirdo misterweirdo 22-25, M Mar 30

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    I wake up every morning feeling useless and pointless and irrelevant. The only reason I haven't off'd myself yet is because I wouldn't want to make my parents feel like they...
    eMojave eMojave 16-17, M Mar 31

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    Its been a rough few months but I guess some things are easier to see with hindsight. HEres my story... Have never argued with wife much and to outward appearances we are always...
    MJ7770 MJ7770 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 13

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    I'm not going into what exactly the two friends of mine did but it was to me the ultimate betrayal. I trusted them completely ,trusted them with my life, loved them, shared...
    liberosis liberosis 41-45, F a week ago

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    I am so tired of everything I am tired of being tired I am tired of stupid people I just wish everyone would just leave me alone and kind their own business stop spreading rumors...
    MissSkye MissSkye 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    For some time now I've been struggling with this issue. I barely "feel" any feelings, this doesn't mean I don't have emotions, I like animals, I hate stupidity. If I experience...
    Zer000 Zer000 22-25 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I woke up this morning with so much on my mind. It's rare for me to just burst out into tears, but I just couldn't help myself. I'm the type of person that just like to brush...
    CallMeNiesha94 CallMeNiesha94 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    I'm sick and tired of feeling like crap every single day. I'm sick and tired of being alive. I hate this feeling and it never, never goes away.
    mysteryhatcat mysteryhatcat 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    At my worst time, and when I needed someone most in my life, he shut me out. I later learned he had begun dating my best friend. I felt outraged, humiliated, completely alone, and...
    captaintera captaintera 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    I hate the feeling of shame... I feel so much shame from everyone else that i cant allow myself to be happy. I feel i am supposed to feel upset and uncomfortable in my own skin...
    VioletViolence VioletViolence 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    my girlfriend betrayed me! she broke up with me to be with another guy is what she told me. then she broke up with him and went out with another guy
    americanfledgling americanfledgling 18-21, M Apr 2

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    Just recently, i got an award for Best in Clinical in our hospital training. This meant that I get to be hired first on my station of choice. So I did. I passed my application, I...
    nikkim143 nikkim143 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    My friend betrayed me by trying to go out with my ex. She has a "bf" in Jamaica though. That's girl code you don't go out with your friends ex's or if you do wait 4months. She's...
    juliaek1 juliaek1 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    My brother went through nasty divorce ten years ago. I helped him for 18 months preparing paperwork, consulting with his attorney, etc. so his ex-wife wouldn't take him to the...
    fourjacks fourjacks 61-65 2 Responses Apr 13

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    I'm tired of having this constant need and emptiness in my heart. I'm tired of being in love with love. I just want to love myself and be a whole and complete person with out the...
    Allrandom Allrandom 26-30, F Apr 14

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    I feel betrayed right now and I can't express it into words, which is upsetting me almost more than the actual situation. Sigh. And then I realize that this is karma.
    yourguardianangel9613 yourguardianangel9613 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    The feeling always stays. For this reason I have trust issues and I have a problem with letting people into my life. The first success in solving a problem is admitting you have...
    DeAundreVP DeAundreVP 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    So why is it that you can be in a room full of people and feel so alone. I have friends but none I feel I can trust as they betrayed me before, and people always want to hang out...
    drodd39 drodd39 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    My ex changed as soon as he got his police badge. I noticed for a whole year an increase in arrogant self esteem. By the second year he had become emotionally and physically...
    Francesca004 Francesca004 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 9