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I Am Tired of Helping People Who Hurt Me

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    I'm Tired Of Helping People... - Whether they hurt me or not, I'm just tired of helping people in general.  A 17yo girl lives with us.  We're preparing her for adulthood...
    SHWA SHWA 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 7, 2010

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    .. - it seems every time u go out of ur way to help people, once u do help them, and they no longer need u, they toss u aside, like u r trash, and just **** on u.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 1, 2009

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    Don't Trust Anyone. - Basically, I moved to England for around 6 months. I came back to Ireland ( where I'm from ), I came to visit my friends, and they'd just made friends with...
    PennyForYourThoughts PennyForYourThoughts 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 1, 2010

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    ~ Fam!ly Farew3ll ~ - The FAMILY FAREWELL came last year : )  I let my FAVORITE COUSIN & KIDS stay with me 4 a couple of months . It was going 2 B so GREAT, 2 families living...
    MzMoneymaker MzMoneymaker 31-35, F Feb 7, 2010

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    Lovely Feeling Of All Your Effort Been Thrown Away! - I meet a stranger online posting teenage advice on a teen website. I was amazed how we both had the same thoughts on changing...
    SemiBulletProof SemiBulletProof 18-21, F Jan 15, 2012

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    Marraige - hi i been married 20 years dont no if i should be still do we fight alot lately when he drinks he is different person treats me like **** but it is always my fault well...
    joyd1972 joyd1972 36-40 May 26, 2010

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    Neither Friends Nor Family No One Values Me - I always help people, I dont like to help, an 1 reason is because I help people and people dont help me, I always listen to my friends...
    mccintosh mccintosh 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    Everytime - I have a bad habit, I date women who are hurting. I tend to draw women who are hurting or wounded to me, I end up helping them. I guess I'm one of those guys who just...
    jfrost092 jfrost092 18-21, M Feb 23, 2013

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    I Question The Tail About Those Who Give And Help Gain The Most - I have spent my whole life helping other people be what they want at the expense of my own needs and desires... I...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 6, 2011

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    This Is A Story Of A Girl... - There once was a girl who liked hearing stories, who liked solving problems, who just wanted one friend....The girl was alone most of her life. Being...
    Angelofloveandlife Angelofloveandlife 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 15, 2012

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    So Disallusioned With Life..... - It's a harsh lifelesson to learn. Ruthless, self absorbed and materialistic people do tend to get better on in life. It's all I have ever known...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 21, 2011

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    Being Hurt - I have a friend , sorry had a friend of many years  she as three girls all grown between them they  have nine children, none of the girls have partners , and i would...
    shazreid04 shazreid04 56-60 1 Response May 4, 2012

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    To That Point - It's seems Every ******* time you go to help someone, They Try and hurt you. I am Fed up with it. I help someone and they want to **** you over. I am to that Point...
    matthewsmommy matthewsmommy 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 31, 2008

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    She Came, She Took, She Left - My husband and I took in a single mom and her eight children last summer.  We loved those kids with all our heart.  It wasn't easy...
    SHWA SHWA 36-40, F 6 Responses Feb 7, 2010

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    I Know, It's My Own Fault. - I have been told more than once it was my own fault because I ALWAYS let myself be used.  I accept that, I am a sucker.  But MUST people be...
    patchworkofmistakes patchworkofmistakes 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 18, 2010

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    My family has no need for me anymore and no longer understands me as a person. Also, my boyfriend continually corrects my character due to multiple, conflicting reasons. I'm tired...
    ruthlessObsession ruthlessObsession 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    Mentoring Mistakes - I wasn't long ago I started mentoring a few younger girls who asked me for help in getting their lives together.Like all mentoring projects I went in with...
    warstorm warstorm 46-50, M Oct 6, 2012

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    It Is Really Upsetting. - the more you try to be nice and help someone, the more people try to hurt you.i some times get so mad i say i will never help anyone again.but i know i...
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 1 Response Apr 24, 2009

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    These people should go to hell for all eternity :/
    CharlieSchreiber CharlieSchreiber 16-17, M Mar 17

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    Helping people who are in trouble can be a little dangerous I have found. You cant give people money or else they come back with their hands out. Fellow males view you as being...
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    I am tired of people who make snap judgments, people who assume they know you based on a number of limited experiences they've had with you, people who are convinced that their...
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    i always forgive people that hurt me,my mom has this same habit even she forgives people who hurt her i dont know why i have such a soft heart i dont like to take revenge,even if i...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M 20 hrs ago

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    Some things you just can't change & I have to forgive the people who hurt me so I can let go and move on. Something traumatizing happened in my life and I need to change the way I...
    Lucky1217 Lucky1217 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    Despite having a bit of social anxiety and have been negatively influenced by people around me, I like to help people who need it. Sometimes I've got to break down those barriers...
    Katami Katami 16-17, F Mar 24

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    Its not so much that i admire the people who are being themselves its more that i dislike people who are fake and superficial and pretentious.
    anovasiangel anovasiangel 13-15, F 1 Response 10 mins ago

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    Growing up i liked helping people mostly in high school i would help classmate and friends with social studies homework it felt good helping out plus they graduated :) helping...
    saints56 saints56 16-17 Apr 8

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    I like to talk to people who can listen to my opinions and then form their own opinions and discuss them with me. All to often when I tell my friends really interesting stories...
    pjpaul pjpaul 16-17, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I get impatient with people who are lazy to improve themselves. Especially at work, they constantly ask for help without trying on their own. They seriously need to know that I am...
    mytinycupcake mytinycupcake 26-30, F 16 mins ago

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    Alright guys this is my experience from earlier chatting. I'm tired sick of people who judge others for not sharing the same opinions and calling them bad names. Thinking you are...
    HarmBlackstar HarmBlackstar 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    i do so much! i want you guys to know i wont judge you by your past, or your present id love to meet some genuine people who would actually like to talk (i message quite a bit so...
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    I am really tired of people on here who totally misconstrue what I am saying and are looking to start trouble. They are the ones who take themselves way too seriously. If I don't...
    johnny048 johnny048 46-50, M 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    No. It does not work like that. You do not forgive because you want people to walk right over you...even though sometimes it could be interpreted that way and they call you a...
    Psychologica Psychologica 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    And I'm tired of those who claim to be happy all the time just to never have to dig deep into anything ever.
    Akurou Akurou 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I would give up my life for animals. People that hurt animals are not normal people and they need to all be locked in a room together, be tortured then burned alive.
    Jahhh Jahhh 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    People who share their true feelings are people who are brave and confident. I admire people who are able to share their true feelings because it really isn't just something...
    ccxc910 ccxc910 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    I can't really say I admire myself... so I will just say I admire people like myself as 'going your own way' can be very admirable but sometimes.. costly. I see allot of people who...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    This is a major pet peeve. I hate when people think they can predict things about me or they "know me sooo well". All the people who REALLY know me (and I wouldn't say that's a lot...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Mar 23

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    I know they say to forgive and forget, but, I find it really hard to forgive people who knowingly do things that are wrong, meanwhile, playing the innocent role. These people will...
    NeedMoreSunnyDays NeedMoreSunnyDays 41-45 Mar 31

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    I do admire people who adopt children. There are so many children in the foster system that need good homes to, and people who open those homes up to, are good people in my book.
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    yeah like people who are comfortable wid their thoughts and dont go on the moral high ground standards set by some unknown people society etc etc in short like people who challenge...
    romell romell 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    I do admire people who can keep clam in pretty much every situation. I am someone who has a hard time keeping calm, I don't know if it is the anxiety, or the hot-headed-woman in me...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F Apr 7

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    In all honesty, I do appreciate people who legitimately care. I know not everybody out there understands panty-lovers, or nudists for that matter. It's nice to THINK people care...
    jsdiapsfjidpa jsdiapsfjidpa 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    I wish people were more honest with me. I have more respect for people who just tell it as it is and not lie than people who just tell you what they think you want to hear. I...
    pip34 pip34 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    I don't know about any of you, but I'm so sick of people who are on their forties, assuming they know more just because of their age... There are so many 'young' people who have...
    Lunarflowerrr Lunarflowerrr 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    yes yes i so do in a world of copy cats i truely adore the ORIGINALS!people so change their personalities out of fear..peer pressure....complexs...soo i respect people who stand as...
    romell romell 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 21

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    I especially admire people who adopt children from orphanages here in America. It annoys me when people act like they need to go to Africa or China to adopt....that's great and all...
    Orchid284 Orchid284 26-30, F Mar 22

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    I admire people who are able to be honest about their feelings and tell me how they really feel. It takes courage to express yourself, especially when you are unsure of how the...
    smhinterrupted smhinterrupted 36-40, F 6 Responses Mar 22

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    I try to be an open minded and thoughtful person and whilst I'm definitely thoughtful and considerate I am not as open minded as other people. I don't run around "hating" people...
    CaptainCalculus CaptainCalculus 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 23

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    I do adore people who are not afraid to share their true feelings and emotions about things. I have always been someone who has always had a hard time sharing my thoughts and...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    Well this makes sense right? And I always try to be one of those people who gives it straight. I tell you what I am really thinking and if I tell you something, believe me I mean...
    KenzieluvsRupert KenzieluvsRupert 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    i admire people who adopt children even i love to adopt orphan children but im helpless now i cannot adopt because still im single.But i will adopt once i get married i want a wife...
    Roadguy Roadguy 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 29

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