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I Am Tired of Helping People Who Hurt Me

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    it seems every time u go out of ur way to help people, once u do help them, and they no longer need u, they toss u aside, like u r trash, and just **** on u.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 1, 2009

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    Marraige

    hi i been married 20 years dont no if i should be still do we fight alot lately when he drinks he is different person treats me like **** but it is always my fault well thats what he says verbal abuse he says very hurtfull things but still my fault i think its control thing any...
    joyd1972 joyd1972 36-40 May 26, 2010

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    This Is A Story Of A Girl...

    There once was a girl who liked hearing stories, who liked solving problems, who just wanted one friend....The girl was alone most of her life. Being made fun of for things like her teeth being to big and bucked, how she developed large boobs in kindergarten, how she was so...
    Angelofloveandlife Angelofloveandlife 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 15, 2012

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    It Is Really Upsetting.

    the more you try to be nice and help someone, the more people try to hurt you.i some times get so mad i say i will never help anyone again.but i know i will.not everyone is like that.and the ones who really appreciate it more than make up for the rest.
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 1 Response Apr 24, 2009

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    I Know, It's My Own Fault.

    I have been told more than once it was my own fault because I ALWAYS let myself be used.  I accept that, I am a sucker.  But MUST people be such ***** when all you are trying to do is be a friend or show compassion?   It just makes me sick...people are always...
    patchworkofmistakes patchworkofmistakes 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 18, 2010

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    I'm Tired Of Helping People...

    Whether they hurt me or not, I'm just tired of helping people in general.  A 17yo girl lives with us.  We're preparing her for adulthood because her own parents failed her.  This is the second 17yo girl we've done this for.  We also get called when people's...
    SHWA SHWA 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 7, 2010

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    Mentoring Mistakes

    I wasn't long ago I started mentoring a few younger girls who asked me for help in getting their lives together.Like all mentoring projects I went in with high hopes and what I thought were  low key expectations, self help is generally the slowest progressing of all...
    warstorm warstorm 46-50, M Oct 6, 2012

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    Don't Trust Anyone.

    Basically, I moved to England for around 6 months. I came back to Ireland ( where I'm from ), I came to visit my friends, and they'd just made friends with this girl, who was a lot younger than us. She was 16 we were like 18/19. We both became really good friends. She told me...
    PennyForYourThoughts PennyForYourThoughts 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 1, 2010

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    Neither Friends Nor Family No One Values Me

    I always help people, I dont like to help, an 1 reason is because I help people and people dont help me, I always listen to my friends problems, and I try to help, but when I need help my friends never help me, or say that I cant do anything, also when I can do something. In case...
    mccintosh mccintosh 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    Being Hurt

    I have a friend , sorry had a friend of many years  she as three girls all grown between them they  have nine children, none of the girls have partners , and i would do anything for them bye cloths help them with money and even food that goes for my friend to. i classed them...
    shazreid04 shazreid04 56-60 1 Response May 4, 2012

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    To That Point

    It's seems Every ******* time you go to help someone, They Try and hurt you. I am Fed up with it. I help someone and they want to **** you over. I am to that Point Where I am beginning to say **** people. Just Turn away and be about myself. Because Every time Not just Here...
    matthewsmommy matthewsmommy 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 31, 2008

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    Lovely Feeling Of All Your Effort Been Thrown Away!

    I meet a stranger online posting teenage advice on a teen website. I was amazed how we both had the same thoughts on changing society. Stupidly being typical me I offered to help her build her own website. Putting hours of my life into it, everything else I put on hold (work...
    SemiBulletProof SemiBulletProof 18-21, F Jan 15, 2012

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    She Came, She Took, She Left

    My husband and I took in a single mom and her eight children last summer.  We loved those kids with all our heart.  It wasn't easy managing a home with 14 kids, but we did it!  And loved it!   We payed her car insurance, got her a trailer to live in, fed her...
    SHWA SHWA 36-40, F 6 Responses Feb 7, 2010

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    I Question The Tail About Those Who Give And Help Gain The Most

    I have spent my whole life helping other people be what they want at the expense of my own needs and desires... I don't get much back in return for helping those who I have cared for and all they do is abuse me and say that I must be taught lessons all the time year after year...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 6, 2011

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    ~ Fam!ly Farew3ll ~

    The FAMILY FAREWELL came last year : )  I let my FAVORITE COUSIN & KIDS stay with me 4 a couple of months . It was going 2 B so GREAT, 2 families living under one roof. WOW !!! Not so much ??? WHAT IS THIS I asked myself constantly. WE totally could not have had the same...
    MzMoneymaker MzMoneymaker 31-35, F Feb 7, 2010

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    Everytime

    I have a bad habit, I date women who are hurting. I tend to draw women who are hurting or wounded to me, I end up helping them. I guess I'm one of those guys who just needs to be needed. I stay with them through the hard nights, and through the hard memories. I help them get...
    jfrost092 jfrost092 18-21, M Feb 23, 2013

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    My family has no need

    for me anymore and no longer understands me as a person. Also, my boyfriend continually corrects my character due to multiple, conflicting reasons. I'm tired of feeling obligated to cater to so many people. I end every day restless and unable to sleep because I've spent no time...
    ruthlessObsession ruthlessObsession 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    So Disallusioned With Life.....

    It's a harsh lifelesson to learn. Ruthless, self absorbed and materialistic people do tend to get better on in life. It's all I have ever known and so I can't see it any different. I no longer believe in karma, I have seen horrible and self absorbed people with great lives...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 21, 2011

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    I just want to help some people who are special to me. I'm tired of being nice to people just so they give me something in return. I want to be good to them no matter what
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    I love helping people no matter what. A lot of my friends come to me about anything such as boyfriend troubles, make up tips even, family problems. If anyone has any problems just...
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    So do you hate fake people or fake people who claim to be something they aren't? Hating someone is wrong. We've all lied and have done wrong things we aren't proud of. I notice...
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    I guess I'm "judging" people because I dislike the way they judge others but I don't understand. I mean, you have people that make it obvious and known that they won't accept...
    BallinBae BallinBae 16-17, F Aug 22

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    Nowadays, there's so many people who think they're the bees balls. Women who flaunt their physical appearance, men who wear flashy clothes and meaningless hats. what ever happened...
    almostblue almostblue 18-21, M Sep 1

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    >They are beautiful.They look original..They look adorable..Gorgious..and really much more.You wonder where they come from?Just type in address bar Crossdressers in saree images...
    ExUser007 ExUser007 18-21 1 Response Sep 4

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    These people are some of society's greatest heroes. They take kids who are often disturbed and have been ill treated by life and people and they shower love upon them. There had...
    Jilly53 Jilly53 56-60, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    I hate people who try to one-up everybody else by hating people who try to one-up the people who hate being one-up'ed by everybody else.
    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    There are two types of people on welfare: those who just leach off the system for free money on the taxpayer dime, which I retch at thinking my tax dollars I worked to earn are...
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    Absolutely. People who go into fostering and adoption are the most increadibly patient and understanding people. To be able to cope with your own fears and troubles is one thing...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Aug 31

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    i cant get interested in ukip, as they are packed full of haters, i wont be freinds with people who are bigots, as their negativity grinds me down. i take people as i find them...
    kuminme kuminme 26-30 Sep 8

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    People who do are immature bunch of lowlives how can they stoop so low!?! It just shows me their stinking attitude and that they're sick in the head! I mean why would people do...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 12

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    People who take advantage of the Elderly parents or elderly people should never be mistreated, disrespectful or never allowed to be near elderly people. They all needed love & be...
    DiscoNight1970s DiscoNight1970s 46-50, F 6 days ago

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    There are people who think they know me and have me all figured out. I laugh inside at their overconfidence and stupidity. I have never been the one to exhibit my vulnerability and...
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I like people who show their real personality and not hide wherever they are. Online and offline. I noticed most people go online, create a fake name for themselves and show their...
    StupidM StupidM 22-25, M Aug 23

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    freenfair freenfair 70+, M 2 Responses Aug 24

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    Im currently living in new York . I feel that i don't meet enough people who live in my area . This has made my life pretty boring since im always by myself. It would be nice
    Imadesk Imadesk 18-21, M Aug 24

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    Why do so some people who have backyards never use them? Instead, they insist on doing everything out front, on the porch, and annoy the hell out of me and the rest of the block in...
    Cristofori Cristofori 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 30

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    A person can be right, but they cant always be right! I really dont like people who assume they are always right! You not always friggn right!! Get over urself! Sorry i just had to...
    staystrongsu staystrongsu 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    Okay, hate maybe abit extravagated. I am not sayings its not dumb. But it does not make one dumb dumb. I could easily come with an counter attack of how dumb the other person is...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 31

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    I have great admiration and respect for people who adopt children. There are so many children on this earth who need parents, and to be loved. I plan to adopt children when I'm...
    oathtoorder oathtoorder 18-21, F Sep 5

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    And I love people who can make me laugh even when i'm in bad mood or can't smile at all.
    Rinkika Rinkika 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 8

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    i love passing by people who smell good , when i miss someone i love i miss the way he/she smell!!
    lulutaa lulutaa 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 12

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    KaiWong KaiWong 18-21, M Sep 13

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    My friend's brother has orchestrated the divorce of his elderly parents for his own financial gain. The parents are elderly and the mother has beginnings of dementia. The brother...
    crede800 crede800 51-55 6 days ago

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    I like people who say what they think what ever is is and in whatever way they want. Direct openess and honesty is my policy throughout everything I do and say.
    Thesoutherner Thesoutherner 66-70, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    There isn't only a way to do things, and in every situation we can make our decision based on goals and constraints. I like to spend time with people who can reason in this way...
    CrookedMat CrookedMat 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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