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I Am Tired of Helping People Who Hurt Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 185 People

    Being Hurt

    I have a friend , sorry had a friend of many years  she as three girls all grown between them they  have nine children, none of the girls have partners , and i would do anything for them bye cloths help them with money and even food that goes for my friend to. i classed them...
    shazreid04 shazreid04 56-60 1 Response May 4, 2012

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    She Came, She Took, She Left

    My husband and I took in a single mom and her eight children last summer.  We loved those kids with all our heart.  It wasn't easy managing a home with 14 kids, but we did it!  And loved it!   We payed her car insurance, got her a trailer to live in, fed her...
    SHWA SHWA 36-40, F 6 Responses Feb 7, 2010

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    So Disallusioned With Life.....

    It's a harsh lifelesson to learn. Ruthless, self absorbed and materialistic people do tend to get better on in life. It's all I have ever known and so I can't see it any different. I no longer believe in karma, I have seen horrible and self absorbed people with great lives...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 21, 2011

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    This Is A Story Of A Girl...

    There once was a girl who liked hearing stories, who liked solving problems, who just wanted one friend....The girl was alone most of her life. Being made fun of for things like her teeth being to big and bucked, how she developed large boobs in kindergarten, how she was so...
    Angelofloveandlife Angelofloveandlife 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 15, 2012

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    My family has no need

    for me anymore and no longer understands me as a person. Also, my boyfriend continually corrects my character due to multiple, conflicting reasons. I'm tired of feeling obligated to cater to so many people. I end every day restless and unable to sleep because I've spent no time...
    ruthlessObsession ruthlessObsession 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 12, 2014

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    Mentoring Mistakes

    I wasn't long ago I started mentoring a few younger girls who asked me for help in getting their lives together.Like all mentoring projects I went in with high hopes and what I thought were  low key expectations, self help is generally the slowest progressing of all...
    warstorm warstorm 46-50, M Oct 6, 2012

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    I Question The Tail About Those Who Give And Help Gain The Most

    I have spent my whole life helping other people be what they want at the expense of my own needs and desires... I don't get much back in return for helping those who I have cared for and all they do is abuse me and say that I must be taught lessons all the time year after year...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 6, 2011

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    Everytime

    I have a bad habit, I date women who are hurting. I tend to draw women who are hurting or wounded to me, I end up helping them. I guess I'm one of those guys who just needs to be needed. I stay with them through the hard nights, and through the hard memories. I help them get...
    jfrost092 jfrost092 18-21, M Feb 23, 2013

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    ~ Fam!ly Farew3ll ~

    The FAMILY FAREWELL came last year : )  I let my FAVORITE COUSIN & KIDS stay with me 4 a couple of months . It was going 2 B so GREAT, 2 families living under one roof. WOW !!! Not so much ??? WHAT IS THIS I asked myself constantly. WE totally could not have had the same...
    MzMoneymaker MzMoneymaker 31-35, F Feb 7, 2010

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    It Is Really Upsetting.

    the more you try to be nice and help someone, the more people try to hurt you.i some times get so mad i say i will never help anyone again.but i know i will.not everyone is like that.and the ones who really appreciate it more than make up for the rest.
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 1 Response Apr 24, 2009

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    I Know, It's My Own Fault.

    I have been told more than once it was my own fault because I ALWAYS let myself be used.  I accept that, I am a sucker.  But MUST people be such ***** when all you are trying to do is be a friend or show compassion?   It just makes me sick...people are always...
    patchworkofmistakes patchworkofmistakes 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 18, 2010

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    Neither Friends Nor Family No One Values Me

    I always help people, I dont like to help, an 1 reason is because I help people and people dont help me, I always listen to my friends problems, and I try to help, but when I need help my friends never help me, or say that I cant do anything, also when I can do something. In case...
    mccintosh mccintosh 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 3, 2012

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    I'm Tired Of Helping People...

    Whether they hurt me or not, I'm just tired of helping people in general.  A 17yo girl lives with us.  We're preparing her for adulthood because her own parents failed her.  This is the second 17yo girl we've done this for.  We also get called when people's...
    SHWA SHWA 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 7, 2010

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    ..

    it seems every time u go out of ur way to help people, once u do help them, and they no longer need u, they toss u aside, like u r trash, and just **** on u.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 1, 2009

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    Don't Trust Anyone.

    Basically, I moved to England for around 6 months. I came back to Ireland ( where I'm from ), I came to visit my friends, and they'd just made friends with this girl, who was a lot younger than us. She was 16 we were like 18/19. We both became really good friends. She told me...
    PennyForYourThoughts PennyForYourThoughts 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 1, 2010

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    To That Point

    It's seems Every ******* time you go to help someone, They Try and hurt you. I am Fed up with it. I help someone and they want to **** you over. I am to that Point Where I am beginning to say **** people. Just Turn away and be about myself. Because Every time Not just Here...
    matthewsmommy matthewsmommy 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 31, 2008

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    Lovely Feeling Of All Your Effort Been Thrown Away!

    I meet a stranger online posting teenage advice on a teen website. I was amazed how we both had the same thoughts on changing society. Stupidly being typical me I offered to help her build her own website. Putting hours of my life into it, everything else I put on hold (work...
    SemiBulletProof SemiBulletProof 18-21, F Jan 15, 2012

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    Marraige

    hi i been married 20 years dont no if i should be still do we fight alot lately when he drinks he is different person treats me like **** but it is always my fault well thats what he says verbal abuse he says very hurtfull things but still my fault i think its control thing any...
    joyd1972 joyd1972 36-40 May 26, 2010

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    I'm tired of stumbling across people who want nothing more to do than tear me down or argue with me or worse case scenario accuse me of things i didn't do. They claim to care, but...
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    I like helping people with their computer problems. I can't fix everything though, I'm not an expert
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    they tell you to trust they get close then they turn around and throw that trust in your face, you tell them its OK they say the same then they make it worse they take all they can...
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    I want to say this: I Like People Who Can Handle Different Opinions What Being Open Minded Is Really About I want to post my thoughts in this group here hoping that there is...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    I wish the ones who hurt them would die. In agony.
    ShogunInTheShadows ShogunInTheShadows 22-25, M 3 Responses Apr 17

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    I put others needs in front of mine. I don't like seeing people who are hurt. So I try to help as much as I can.
    randomart4lives randomart4lives 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    it makes me so mad when people make fun of illed people. In my class there was a group a students making fun of people who have epilepsy, I wanted to tell them that that isn't nice...
    Francisco5 Francisco5 13-15, M Apr 17

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    I hate cheaters people who thinks it's ok I read some post people having affairs or being the other woman and are ok with being with married man or woman. To me it's All BULLSH*T...
    Lezsoccermom75 Lezsoccermom75 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 17

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    I have always had to deal with people who have read my cover before even letting me speak. Since middle school, I have been called a poser, been exiled from other black kids...
    Babygirl872901 Babygirl872901 26-30, F Apr 4

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    I get so frustrated when I see people who don't appreciate what they have. They use their words too easily. I know a person who said she is irritated by her brother's existence. I...
    delusi0nal delusi0nal 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    My mum teaches in a school for disabled children.She taught me from a young age not to make fun of or laugh at anyone disabled.I hate the word 'disabled' anyway.I reckon it makes...
    hazelflower12 hazelflower12 13-15, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    I usually take public transports every where I go. There are some small cars that take passengers in the neighborhood. Sometimes, I am the only passenger that takes that car and...
    venusaquila venusaquila 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    I feel more comfortable with people who are honest about how they feel. It allows me to open up more as well. If you hide your feelings then I will hide mine as well.
    GreenEyess GreenEyess 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    People who are genuine not imitation 😃
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09 46-50, F 5 Responses Apr 9

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    For a super shy guy like me i really respect people who aren't afraid to share their feeling with the world
    Cubeball Cubeball 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 9

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    I like people who are open minded open to new ideas and have the ability to see things from different perspectives
    philabe90 philabe90 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 17

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    I love people who can keep a conversation going forever. I wonder about things others don't usually question. Just looking for friends with deep connections!
    Indomitable6811 Indomitable6811 18-21, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    People who make fun of disabled kids should get their legs broken and their head bashed in so that they can't walk or think straight anymore. They won't think so its so funny then...
    paradox42 paradox42 31-35, M 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Well, that's true. I admire people who are not being afraid to just be themselves. I think that just be yourself was the best than be like other girls.
    Sakuramizuki Sakuramizuki 13-15, F 3 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Seriously guys, I know you think I won’t notice. I know you think I’m not aware that you’re trying to manipulate and trick me but I am. And it erases any kind of amicable or...
    mishale80 mishale80 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    i wish i could just help others all the time. All i ever want is to do good for others out there. Like from helping them with problems to helping with poverty. i don't care what...
    internationalkoala internationalkoala 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 17

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    sometimes in the midst of helping.other s I loose myself. Ybut on the other hand I help myself throigh helping others. the advices i give them are usefull for me too
    energymustmove energymustmove 18-21, F Apr 17

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    Why is it that HURT people, HURT people? Is it all that they know HOW to do is HURT others.....simply because they are hurting. It is because they were never truly taught HOW to...
    Tr3asur3dLuv Tr3asur3dLuv 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Do you know what your body and its needs? Many people are not properly educated about a proper diet and vitamin supplements. Your body needs many minerals and nutrients everyday...
    waypuma73 waypuma73 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I love helping homeless women. Sometimes men as well.. But yeah.
    JewishIreland JewishIreland 26-30, T 1 Response Mar 29

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