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I Am Tired of Losing People Whom I Love

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    Buried Next To Them

    I am more than tired of losing people I love and care for. Whether the feelings are in the past, present, or future, that is one of my greatest annoyances and fears: to watch people go. Sure, a great constant is change, but must it always be the change of loosing people you are...
    DustToAshes DustToAshes 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 21, 2010

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    Love Hurts

    I had a wife once who I allowed to stay at home and raise the kids I gave her everything she asked for that I could afford.After 10 years she had packed her bags one day when i got home from work and was waiting on a guy to pick her up.So I called the guy and told him to come get...
    coonly coonly 36-40 1 Response Apr 27, 2009

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    Gone, But Never Forgotten

    I know it is just part of life to lose loved ones to death, but that does not make it any easier to accept when a death occurs. I have lost all 4 grandparents, my father, a baby I miscarried, and a close aunt & uncle, all to death. They may be gone from this Earth, but they...
    snowlady snowlady 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 13, 2009

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    I Am Tired Of Losing People Whom I Love

    I lost my husband a year ago, before that my mother. Yes I am sick of death. I know we all have to die, but frankly I am sick of it. Living without the person who you love with all your heart and soul is an event in life I could have done without. I am lonesome even when I am...
    murphykaren45 murphykaren45 56-60 1 Response Oct 13, 2010

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    I Lost My Grandfather (dad's Side) On Nov. 27th

    This is the poem I read at his funeral...... :DON'T CRY FOR ME: DON'T CRY FOR ME, DON'T SHED A TEAR, OR FEEL SORROW ON THIS DAY. FOR AS LONG AS YOU REMEMBER ME, THEN I HAVEN'T PASSED AWAY.... DON'T CRY FOR ME, FOR I HAVE LIVED MORE LIFE THEN I COULD DREAM. I THANK THE LORD FOR...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 13, 2009

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    No More Leaving....please!

    I can't stop you dying, but please my beloveds, don't leave me otherwise....please.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 14, 2009

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    I Have Lost So Many People I Love In the Last Few Years

    Right after Hurricane Katrina, the young man who had been living at my house whom I had known since childhood fell off of a scaffold 120' up in the air.  In 2006, within a month I lost one of my closest friends to cancer and another fairly good friend to hepatitis...
    suigeneris suigeneris 41-45 1 Response Mar 12, 2009

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    I'm mentally tired. I can't fight anymore I'm so tired of trying to be someone else, why can't people just love me for me and not take me for granted, I'm not trying to play victim...
    staytrue123 staytrue123 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 11

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    Everyone leaves because of me it has to be me doesn't it? I want things to go back to normal and start over I fear losing people but they always do anyway :(
    lela201465 lela201465 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    The thought genuinely terrifies me - I HAVE lost people I love, and people have abandoned me. It's a fear I've got and people wonder why I'm so clingy, and that makes me scared I'm...
    DisguisedAsMe DisguisedAsMe 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 11

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    It is funny how life works always taking away from me the people I love. I want to believe everything happens for a reason - why I have to go through so much loneliness and pain in...
    Francoise25 Francoise25 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I fear having to disappoint certain people I love I don't even like it when people say that to me. Example: I disappointment a girl I used to like and I cried my eyes out
    MaxwellMoonHoof MaxwellMoonHoof 18-21, M 11 hrs ago

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    I'm losing everyone one by one.
    xDarkxxAngelx xDarkxxAngelx 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I'm losing everyone one by one.
    xDarkxxAngelx xDarkxxAngelx 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I'm losing everyone one by one.
    xDarkxxAngelx xDarkxxAngelx 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I'm losing everyone one by one.
    xDarkxxAngelx xDarkxxAngelx 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I'm losing everyone one by one.
    xDarkxxAngelx xDarkxxAngelx 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm losing everyone one by one.
    xDarkxxAngelx xDarkxxAngelx 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    That's the reason I'm so sick of love songs So tired of tears So done with wishing you were still here Said I'm so sick of love songs so sad and slow So why can't I turn off the...
    ChangingFaces5 ChangingFaces5 22-25 Nov 5

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    My best friends that I've known since 5th/6th grade are making new friends and getting closer to other people and I love them a lot whether they felt that about me or not I still...
    Jee102 Jee102 13-15, F Nov 6

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    I hate to find people I like to eventually find out that they are leaving or just don't want to talk to me anymore. It hurts b/c I enjoy talking to them, but when they leave it's...
    Asia06 Asia06 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm scared that if i told you i love you and you don't feel the same our friendship will be over :(
    LoveHadassah LoveHadassah 18-21, F Nov 2

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    I finally start to speak my mind And now it seems to push you away I just want to be there for you but it seems more like I am a bother I want to hear about your day but you don't...
    wil137 wil137 26-30, M Nov 10

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    I love to smile and I'm happy most of the time. I think I have a nice smile. And I when I smile other people usually smile back. But I'm not blessed with one of those mouths that...
    MichaelYoung MichaelYoung 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 14

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    I dont mean that i hate people or anything like that. Its just always been a struggle for me to be around people that it makes me feel exhausted even thinking about being around...
    shinjorai shinjorai 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 13

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    We all didnt like rude people. Atleast me. But i think that people are secretly attracted to rude people and abusers. That doesnt speak for me, but for others. Ive been nice and...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    I go to this school called Scotland high school and most of the people I know there are the most rude , inconsiderate , thoughtless, unoriginal people I've ever met. It's crazy. I...
    Dynasty2000 Dynasty2000 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 12

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    I have little acknowledgement for your apologies, and I don't need it. Personally I haven't breached any ethics, you presented yourself under a different persona with mental...
    Arkhana Arkhana 31-35, M Oct 29

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    I wish I could get fat without people judging me! It's definitely the biggest thing holding me back.
    ifrive1974 ifrive1974 13-15, M Oct 30

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    Don't let people hold you back..
    jacqueline212 jacqueline212 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 9

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    I lost my first wife to MS. I cared for her at home for nearly 10 yrs. she was paralyzed from her eyes down. She needed a lot of care. We were married for 18 yrs. She passed away...
    KDHARDY KDHARDY 56-60, M 1 Response Nov 20

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    I fell in love with my best friend that I met 4 years ago before I could tell him how I felt about him he was gone and I have to live with loving him so much and never getting to...
    elizbeth123 elizbeth123 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 9

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    I miss her so much her smile the simple things life isn't the same I wish I would've spent more time with her I find myself still crying over the loss I remember holding her frail...
    neonpinkcupcakelover neonpinkcupcakelover 16-17, F Nov 20

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    I'm a senior, and I've dated a guy on and off since freshman year. Today he told me he doesn't love me anymore....I feel so stupid and ridiculous crying in my room while he's...
    shiya924 shiya924 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    I lost my mom this January. actually she is my step mother but she raised me since I was 8 so she is my mom to me. her death was slow and painful and a very long time coming. I...
    omgeezus omgeezus 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 19

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    I cannot accept your friendship if you love taking selfies. We won't be able to get along.
    findmeholdmehateme findmeholdmehateme 18-21 3 Responses Nov 2

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    Thanksgiving is near!!! So excited to cook for those I love! ♥️
    JordynIsHere JordynIsHere 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 13

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    theres only one person on here , and she knows who she is ;) this applies for you.
    xxSTEVE7xx xxSTEVE7xx 31-35, M Nov 8

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    😔I never thought someone I was so close to and trusted so much could change so easily He was so easy to talk to and was so sweet and kind I could tell him anything Our...
    DontLeave14 DontLeave14 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 9

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    Today marks 5 months since I've lost a good friend of mine to suicide. Cherish every moment you have with one another, you never know when it'll be your last day with someone..
    honey878 honey878 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I lost my brother. We dont know where he is. He's been gone for months.
    jaykubean jaykubean 13-15, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My guy best friend literally deleted me from everything and stopped talking to me and honestly it hurts so much to know this I don't know what to think I don't know what I did.
    jordanevens16 jordanevens16 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 3

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    You know what I find funny? That there was a point in time where you had a best friend and you literally told them everything & now they don't even text you to see if your okay or...
    jordanevens16 jordanevens16 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 9

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    If you're in a bad mood just don't even talk to me
    Ebolaa Ebolaa 13-15, M Nov 10

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    Today my art teacher which is a male, wanted to pick some "helpers" I like to call them maids, because we apparently have to clean the room. I wasn't even raising my hand, and he...
    AtlPunk1D AtlPunk1D 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 12

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