I Am Tired of My Inlaws

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    Not Even Married

    but I am drained by my bf's family. I feel so sad, they are so judgemental- they are not very obvious about it, but it is there- I have never experienced a feeling like this. I am not perfect, I have had probelms in my life- I struggle with health issues, and was out of work...
    violett8 violett8
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 28, 2009

    Like Clockwork

    My in-laws are, for the most part, nice people.  MIL has some drug issues (she's 70), FIL has some chauvenist views (he's 74) but otherwise, they live for church on Sunday, Sunday night, Wednesday night and any other "beck and call" the church may have.  They...
    noexcuses noexcuses
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jan 31, 2008

    In Law Help!

    We are currently casting for a new docu-series about In-Law relationships. Please see the casting notice below. If this isn't something that you are interested in, please pass the message along to everyone you know. It may be something that could help someone you know. Thanks...
    inlawcasting inlawcasting
    31-35
    Dec 8, 2010

    Paid Casting For New Show About Family Relationships

    Do you and your In-Laws have different ways of doing things that cansometimes be frustrating? Do your In-laws old-fashioned values differfrom your modern lifestyle?  Does the statement, “When Mom says no,ask Grandma” ring true in your family? Whether you wish your Mother-in...
    CastingforInlaws CastingforInlaws
    36-40
    Dec 22, 2010

    I really need to vent,

    especially because I don't have any friends to vent to. They all spread rumors about me and stabbed me in the back 2 years ago. Recently I got married in December, ever since seems like nothing has gone right. I have Fibromyalgia and so i'm constantly in pain. Also my husband...
    Aquamarine221 Aquamarine221
    18-21, F
    Mar 13

    Who Wants To Sleep With Aunt Vicky?

    I seriously am wondering about my SIL. Here is the first story. Vicky lives in another state and before we were married, we (me, future husband & my 2 sons from previous marriage) drove there for a visit. Let me preface this by saying Vicky is in my DH’s words “an old hippy...
    2flyaway 2flyaway
    51-55
    1 Response Jun 30, 2011

    Life In Her House Is Hell On Earth

    its been two years now since i got married and moved into her house, my husband's family home. to tell you the truth life since then, has been hell on earth. i regret ever being married. i also regret having to met with the family at all. the day we arrived at their house...
    vimbs vimbs
    26-30
    4 Responses Sep 12, 2008

    Inlaws

    My sister-in-law has major issues.  I think sometimes she says mean things to people because she is trying to make her life seem better somehow.  She has verbally attacked me many times.  She tried to upset me the night before our wedding by telling me how horrible...
    hllbllygrl hllbllygrl
    36-40, F
    Jul 14, 2008

    i ve been married 10 years,

    i love my husband and his family hates me,it feels like i dont have one mil but three my fil and my sil are both just as worse.i ve 3 beautiful boys ,i try to be a better mom everyday but my family finds a way to pull me down every chance they get.i m getting tired frankly,i...
    rainblue rainblue
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 20, 2014

    Are You Struggling With In-law Drama?

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    inlawcasting inlawcasting
    31-35
    Oct 6, 2010

    In-laws Stabbed Us!!

      finally if you guys have followed up my stories...yeah my BIL and his wife SIL had moved out because they stopped getting along with my MIL.  Before they moved out they came downstairs to tell us y they were moving out how MIL was so awful to live with.  ...
    espy espy
    26-30
    2 Responses Dec 31, 2008

    I feel like my inlaws always need something.

    They are poor and we are borderline, how can we ever get anywhere if we have to supplement there income all the time, but you have money for cabling packages and expensive supposedly better for you smokes ?
    gomae16 gomae16
    22-25, F
    Aug 6, 2014

    Your Mother

    YOUR MOTHER MAKES ME FEEL 2 FEET TALLSHE MAKES IT HER POINT TO TALK TO YOUR EX IN FRONT OF ME WHEN I SPEND TIME WITH HER, I FIND IT VERY CONVENT THAT SHE JUST HAS TO CALL HER WHEN I'M NEAR.SHE PULLS YOU ASIDE TO TELL YOU "SECERTS" THAT YOU TELL ME LATER WHY IS THAT?DOESN'T SHE...
    fallenrach fallenrach
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 24, 2013

    The Perfect Disaster

    The skills required are as follows: A- You should be cunning B- You should work as a team C- Always carry a backup Lookalike D- You should have a funny bone E- Envious, retarted and very very outspoken Ingredients of the perfect disaster 1/2 cup Oops! I told a lie about us...
    HelenParis HelenParis
    22-25
    Mar 5, 2012

    Do You Have Major In-law Drama? Help & Compensation Offered!

    Are your In-Laws ruining your life? Is your marriage and family life suffering as a result of their destructive behavior? Are you at your wits end, with nowhere to turn for help? If the happiness of your marriage and your family is in jeopardy because of your In-Laws' crazy...
    inlawcasting inlawcasting
    31-35
    Oct 11, 2010

    Frustrated By My In Laws

    I had an awkward moment this morning when picking up my daughter from spending the night over her aunt and cousin's house. (my sil).  First they didn't call and ask if she could spend the night they just kept her after taking her to an outing at the mall.  They stay around the...
    Jeaniousrn Jeaniousrn
    36-40
    2 Responses Oct 16, 2011

    You Are Not My Daughter, You Are Only My In-law!

    To all with troubled in laws issues, Before I got married, I wanted to be the best in law on earth. I wanted to treat my parents in law as my real parents since my real parents are living overseas. My husband and I lived with his family after marriage cos' he is still...
    Tiredbones Tiredbones
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 16, 2009

    Not Appreciated :(

    I have been married to my husband for 6 years. And for all those 6 years we've lived with my in-laws & I have helped them in any way I can. I sacrificed my own wants & needs so I can help them with bills & all the birthdays, wedding & events they have. Last year my brother inlaw...
    unhappyyoungwife unhappyyoungwife
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 26, 2013

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    realitycastingproducer realitycastingproducer
    41-45
    1 Response Dec 9, 2010

    So, I really just wanted something short

    and sweet for a wedding or a courthouse wedding. I just didn't want to spend tons of money on a wedding. I can see doing it, if you made it to twenty years and you renewed. That would be something in this day and time, to be married 20+ years. So, did I get my way, of course not...
    Confucius125 Confucius125
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Dec 26, 2013

    Living At The In-Laws

    So I am living at my husbands parents house soon to be moving out in Aug. But we have a 8 month old little girl we have been living here since before she was born and she will be a year in Nov. I'd say we have been here almost a year and I have been nice I clean up after ourself...
    LiveLaughLove4Life LiveLaughLove4Life
    22-25, F
    Jul 13, 2013

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