I Am Tired of My Mothers Immaturity

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    Mother Love?

    Being a Mother myself and probably quite soon a grandmother I rationalise that I can get over the numerous hurts, injustices metered out by my Mother over the years. I feel ashamed and puzzled that I am having difficulty with this. To feel safe I have distanced myself from...
    zillion zillion
    1 Response Sep 30, 2008


    Immaturity is one of the many eternal traits of my mother that I find annoying.  I can pick up on her mood within the first few seconds of talking to her.  I knew she was in a bad mood today and I should have just let it go and hung up.  I continually try to have a...
    Krypton Krypton
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Feb 2, 2009

    It's not really immaturity.

    She just doesn't know what freedom is. She has this image of a perfect daughter and she expects me to fill it in. I'm supposed to be EXACTLY like her. And if I'm different then I am scolded for it. I'm tired of being put down just because I'm trying to be myself.
    sammylynn333 sammylynn333
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 27, 2014

    Soul Vacation

    October 17th 2005 around three am. I was fifteen years old, there was a knock at the door. It was a police officer I was watching through the Peephole and my dad had this indescribable look on his face. a year previous to this my mother had divorced him and in the process she met...
    yayasgirl yayasgirl
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 3, 2012

    I am so angry at my mother.

    .. She is a cow and plays games and manipulates every situation so she gets what she wants!!! She's such a two faced ***** and I'm sick of her fakeness!!
    Ginger2014 Ginger2014
    36-40, F
    May 27, 2014

    She wants me to wear make up

    and tight clothing. Don't be so quiet, smile at people, stand up straight. She keeps trying to change me into someone I'm not, id rather be known as a shy girl who wears sweatpants than the gross egotistical girl that no one likes. I'll stick with my 2 best friends, it's...
    Lilred17 Lilred17
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 10, 2015

    Green Eyed Monster

    My Mother is almost 60 years old and acts like a bratty kid.  She is so jealous of any relationship her children or husband have that she tries to sabotage at both ends.  I have a ton to share but lets just start with her most recent thing. She called me a few minutes...
    bayoubaby bayoubaby
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 10, 2008

    Every Junkie Is Like the Setting Sun.

    My mother, and her 25 years of heroin and or methadone use, has me at my wits end.  I'm so tired of having to play the 'adult' in the relationship.  I'm tired of dealing with hurt feelings from my children(one recent birthday trip was ruined due to my...
    piscesgal piscesgal
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jun 3, 2009

    My mom is the type of person

    who loves control. This problem comes in to play when she try's to control the uncontrollable. Such as her 21 year old daughters life, she has a right to put an input but I'm not objected to take the way you say because in the end of this comment my one basic reason for not...
    higherminded higherminded
    22-25, F
    Apr 28, 2015
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