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I Am Tired Of People's Rudeness, Cruelty And Thoughtlessness

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    Bear with me as I rant a little today.

    There are three heavy doors that I need to push open before I can bring my lovely bicycle into storage, where it can be safe and dry. I am a petite person and it is a tricky manouevre to push the bike through and hold those heavy doors open while on the move. It is very...
    Injoy1767 Injoy1767 46-50, F 3 Responses Jan 2

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    For people who think #bodypositive is just a

    reason for people who isn't on your so called 'standard' of attractiveness to stop 'trying' (whatever that means). I just wanna ask "Why?". It's like you're looking at people that feel good about themselves and think, "Oh, no. You shouldn't feel that. It's a sin for you to feel...
    restartingit restartingit 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 18, 2015

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    I will always be polite to you,

    especially if you are a complete stranger that has done me no wrong. I just expect a little of that back. Almost everyone in this world deserves to be treated with kindness, and to not be put down or discriminated against. We're all people just trying to live.
    WeMermaid WeMermaid 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 3, 2015

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    Why

    What benefit is it to betray your friends.  It's cruel and hurtful to share confidences in public forums for no other reason than to bring shame and embarrassment to them. What purpose is served by putting others down, by making fun of people who have facial deformities...
    DrewBerry DrewBerry 46-50, F 65 Responses May 14, 2010

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    Seriously, stop being insulting towards me

    and saying it's just a joke. It is not cute or funny at all.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 30, 2015

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    deegaf420 deegaf420 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 18, 2015

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    Im Fed Up With Yahoo Messenger

    why do ppl add u and then in middle of a conversationjust disappear without even saying adios. doesnt take much to say on ttys ttyl etc. its just ****** rude and such a waste of time. i get mad about it then theyhave the cheek to contact you and ask where youve gone and why u...
    prettyflamingo prettyflamingo 41-45, F 23 Responses Nov 21, 2012

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    This is kinda long but I need to vent!

    I've been going to the same hairstylist for a couple years now, since she first graduated cosmetology school. I had received a gift certificate to the salon she first started working for. She is quite a bit younger than me but I thought she did a decent job on my hair and...
    Kianfosi Kianfosi 31-35, F 5 Responses Dec 20, 2015

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    I am so tired of peoples selfish ways.

    I think most people are so wrapped up in their own world that they don't see anything beyond. I always thought of myself as kind and always wanted to lend a hand but I have to say I am becoming hardened. Maybe it's just the people I thought were friends. When you need them the...
    sunflowergirl78 sunflowergirl78 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 7, 2014

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    Uggh! Why can't everybody be nice

    and caring.Instead of wanting to rip someone's head off
    BeautifulAnna234 BeautifulAnna234 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 8, 2015

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    I've loved and I've lost.

    I've learned people are forever temporary. Somebody can tell me they love me then turn on me in a split second. It makes me question why; why did they waste their time in the first place. Why do they take out their negativity on me and want to hurt me when I was the one who gave...
    Slayoncee Slayoncee 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 31, 2015

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    My husband has an anger problem.

    I'm really passive and soft. But little things will turn him into this mean raging man. The rest of the time he's super affectionate. Often inappropriately so in public. If I don't feel super kissy because I'm tired or stressed from school or busy working on something, he can...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Oct 2, 2015

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    LionShine LionShine 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 22, 2015

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    The ART Of A SH!TTY Naive

    An eagle was sitting on a tree resting, doing nothing.A small rabbit saw the eagle and asked him, "Can I also sit like you and do nothing?"The eagle answered: "Sure, why not."So, the rabbit sat on the ground below the eagle and rested. All of a sudden, a fox appeared, jumped on...
    ar93 ar93 22-25, M 7 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    Why would you want racist friends?

    I'm fighting with Kari now because she doesn't want to "pick sides" between her other friend Rae and I. I don't like Rae because she's racist.(the type of “I'm not racist but..." And "Cultural appropriation is not a Thing") last year we were fighting because she said the n...
    MissyHolland MissyHolland 13-15, F Oct 6, 2015

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    People are so incredibly cruel,

    mostly when they don't get their way. You really have to have a thick skin to survive in life nowadays.... Especially on this site.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jun 5, 2015

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    What bugs the **** out of me the most?

    When people post **** about how bored they are and then expect other people to entertain them. Argh!!!
    AnotherAngryWoman AnotherAngryWoman 36-40, F Jan 5, 2015

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    Chernobylplayground Chernobylplayground 36-40, F Jan 6

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    Not Tired, Exhausted!!!

    I'm not just tired of it....I'm totally exhausted by it.  The thoughtless, rude, and downright cruel statements some people make suck the life right out of me lately.  I'm putting a stop to it right here and right now!  If you screw with me, you are out of my...
    giggles4488 giggles4488 56-60, F 22 Responses Apr 16, 2010

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    Really !!??.. Sometimes I wish i can be just

    as Rude & disrespectful as they are to me .. But something inside me is always telling me Dont fall for it dont stoop your a better person than that & show them!.. I take the high road & walk away or just ignore the whole thing and move on and I think ive done the right thing by...
    missyluvsmissy4me missyluvsmissy4me 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 20, 2015

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    I Have Cerebrel Palsy And People Can Be Jerks

    life living in a wheelchair can suck but what makes it even worse is that some people are jerks big time and sometimes i notice it but sometimes i hear it from my "friends"so yes i hate it when people are rude and mean so think twice when you see someone in a wheelchair.
    JustChrisCarter JustChrisCarter 22-25, M 10 Responses May 5, 2012

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    I just turned off my Facebook

    because all I can see there are every type of negative and bad news coming from around the world. People there are fighting in comments with each other and I see no one, no one over there who have compassion, understanding, patience, care, kindness, and a spirit of spreading...
    DAKtheligislator DAKtheligislator 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 1, 2014

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    Arrogance is one thing

    that I cannot tolerate in anyone. If someone is an arrogant person, I will not be friends with them and I will avoid talking to them.
    PapaSun56 PapaSun56 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 23, 2015

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    I get upset when adults on here try to tell us

    we're stupid just because we are young. All because someone is old, that doesn't mean they're smart. Age doesn't define maturity and intelligence.
    moose73630 moose73630 16-17, M 3 Responses Apr 13, 2014

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    I wanna say **** off to all

    who blocked me ....and suspended my account ****#off epallie and **** off ep ......
    rockhard15 rockhard15 22-25, M Jan 8

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    "Never play with the feelings of others

    because you may win the game but the risk is that you will surely lose the person for a lifetime".... You were right Shakespeare, but maybe they just don't mind losing you.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 7, 2015

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    I find it so rude when you add input into a

    conversation and the other people either a) ignore you b)talk over you, or c)try to deconstruct your point of view on the very basis of them not liking you. It doesn't happen to me to often anymore, but when it does I make a mental note to avoid having any sort of social...
    jasminecg311 jasminecg311 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 11, 2015

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    A year ago or so I met a guy

    who told me he loved me. I fell for it because he seemed eager to intensify the friendship. We used to talk a lot, and I confided many things in him - including a few things that are not so easy for me to tell to anyone. Maybe a few months later he became mean. He told me the...
    Ic3Queen Ic3Queen 22-25, F 8 Responses Nov 14, 2015

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    Come on man! Stop asking

    for pictures and my Skype username. Stop being creepy as ****. Honestly, just stop thinking you're all that. I sure as hell am not horny, let alone interested in being your entertainment. If you message me with that intent, yea bro, be prepared to be blocked.
    theFirstcut theFirstcut 18-21, F 1 Response May 3, 2014

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    I'm tired of stumbling across people

    who want nothing more to do than tear me down or argue with me or worse case scenario accuse me of things i didn't do. They claim to care, but last time i checked caring doesn't equal insulting and belittling me and repeatedly telling me how much they don't care anymore . I'm...
    ThePrettyOnee ThePrettyOnee 16-17, F Apr 12, 2015

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    some people are just freaking rude,

    and when u get back at them rudely in revenge, they will immediately pick offence..... hmmmmmmm.... ain't that real funny?
    Francescacutie Francescacutie 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 15, 2015

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    My dad always brings me down.

    He says that I'll never get anywhere and that I won't even get a job.
    trappedinmy trappedinmy 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 9, 2015

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    I am not fake!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I totally get this! I am a pretty happuy go lucky guy and anyone I know would agree.s I am usually always cheerful and i smile and act d=crazy a lot of the time. and even during school.s he other day, I was accused of being fake and compensating for insecurity by being...
    storm10123 storm10123 18-21, M 5 Responses May 22, 2010

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    We live in a dog eat dog world,

    this shouldn't be the case. What happened for decency and morals in this society?
    theotherusernamesweretaken theotherusernamesweretaken 26-30, M 3 Responses Jan 7

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    Society has progressed,

    modern technology has provided knowledge and capabilities only dreamt of decades ago... The Internet has allowed time not to matter so much and documents etc can be sent anywhere in the world in the blink of an eye! Yes..technology is a great thing as well as proving mediums...
    MistyGoddess MistyGoddess 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 1, 2015

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    Being kind and considerate

    and a joy is the best way to receive that back. Hateful rude comments are not needed on a social site where people come to gather to escape the crap of life. Social sites are not meant to replace psychiatric care and obviously MANY people are neglecting their mental health...
    LbQueen961 LbQueen961 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 31, 2015

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    "I am slowly learning

    that some people are not good for me, no matter how much I love them. I deserve someone who is gentle and kind, because my soul is getting tired. Realizing that I deserve something good is one of the first steps." —Michelle K., Why I Need To Say Goodbye To You
    Qtrelle Qtrelle 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 28, 2015

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    Okay so I post a question by accident saying

    "ilovemybabyboy" about my son. And then people just kinda attack me. I mean usually I stick up for myself , cuz I'm not the **** to **** with, but I'm too tired for this ****. People said a lot of hateful things, and I thought this website was to find people with stuff in common...
    HeartBigBeatsQuiet HeartBigBeatsQuiet 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2013

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    I need to buy a giant eraser!

    ! Because you were a mistake and I need to erase you from my life! Ya ****!
    deegaf420 deegaf420 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2015

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    So I went out with a friend

    who was recently transferred to our team. For the entire time, he was complaining and resenting about his transfer and how much our team/department is so useless. I kinda felt that it was a bit brash and rude to say something like that. But really I'm in that point in life where...
    itcheru itcheru 22-25, F Jun 23, 2015

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    I was getting to know someone here,

    he seemed nice enough, but I guess I was wrong again. He insisted I call him, but I don't feel comfortable talking to someone I have not spent enough time with. I was going through a hard time, then he told me I am unintelligent because I blow people off. It was not intentional...
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 3, 2015

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    Some people on this site are arrogant.

    I've come across some "Hi, I'm new here" posts and it takes everything in me to refrain fro saying to some of them: "Go back to Facebook or Twitter, etc. Because there are some people on here who are nasty, perverted, mean, cruel and vile. Some will shoot you down for no reason...
    Logic34 Logic34 31-35, M 5 Responses Jul 8, 2015

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    Yes. the world is becoming a more terrible

    place to live in, day by day. What with ISIS and global warming, we seem to be trying our best to destroy the world! And the don't carish attitude of people irritates me
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 5, 2015

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    Words hurt people! I am tired of people saying

    rude, cruel, thoughtless things. Some people hold things in way too long and take everything to heart. I am one those people. It truly eats you up in the inside and any self confidence you had goes down the drain.
    boo864 boo864 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2015

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    Sometimes we waste too much time to think about

    someone that doesn't think about us for a second.
    sekodiane sekodiane 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 3, 2015

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