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I Am Tired Of People's Rudeness, Cruelty And Thoughtlessness

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    High School students constantly judged

    and made fun of an older woman who may have been disabled. It angered me so much. This poor woman was enjoying her journey on the bus and made some random comments (as if she wasn't fully aware she was on the bus) and a group of girls constantly laughed and judged her. I had to...
    Shiznitone Shiznitone 18-21, M May 28

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    have a neighbor who rides around with tunnel

    vision or is he just being rude
    stickinme5755 stickinme5755 56-60, M 1 Response Jun 3

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    Okay so I post a question by accident saying

    "ilovemybabyboy" about my son. And then people just kinda attack me. I mean usually I stick up for myself , cuz I'm not the **** to **** with, but I'm too tired for this ****. People said a lot of hateful things, and I thought this website was to find people with stuff in common...
    HeartBigBeatsQuiet HeartBigBeatsQuiet 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2013

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    If you are going to destroy all humans' habitat,

    don't destroy their minds as well.
    Supercat8835 Supercat8835 13-15, M Jun 23

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    kimmylovely74 kimmylovely74 18-21, F Feb 7

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    I Give Up.

    I simply give up with life. I have tried to keep everything in ¬ complain but I just dont care anymore. Im not getting anything from me being miserable &always helping others. If I were to cry no one would care. If I do something bad all hell breaks loose. Im just tired of it...
    Riiaa Riiaa 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 11, 2012

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    Without Even A Thought

    For another person, people are rude and cruel and thoughtless. I wish that people did think before they act but most people don't. It seems like most people don't really care how their words or actions will effect others. I am really sick of it. This world could be a much nicer...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 18, 2009

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    Come on man! Stop asking

    for pictures and my Skype username. Stop being creepy as ****. Honestly, just stop thinking you're all that. I sure as hell am not horny, let alone interested in being your entertainment. If you message me with that intent, yea bro, be prepared to be blocked.
    theFirstcut theFirstcut 18-21, F 1 Response May 3

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    I just recently had a friendship break up

    because I moved to another state and there wasn't a point in texting me if I wasn't going to hang out with her. Also when I moved my boyfriend broke up with me because he was planning to do so (it was easier for him to do over text while I was many miles away and nowhere in...
    Cory45 Cory45 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    I hate that I'm always giving my all

    and I don't get the same from others, especially my family. When I'm at my lowest I feel like everyone backs down. It hurts to know that there are ugly people in the world, and those ugly people can be your own family.
    cowboys11 cowboys11 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    Ok so people were being kinda " rude"

    because I said I needed a boyfriend... Tf?
    brokengirl2123 brokengirl2123 13-15, F 2 Responses May 11

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    I Have Cerebrel Palsy And People Can Be Jerks

    life living in a wheelchair can suck but what makes it even worse is that some people are jerks big time and sometimes i notice it but sometimes i hear it from my "friends"so yes i hate it when people are rude and mean so think twice when you see someone in a wheelchair.
    JustChrisCarter JustChrisCarter 18-21, M 10 Responses May 5, 2012

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    A boy just through a brick at an elderly man.

    ... That's what my friend just told me :(
    ParisMaisie ParisMaisie 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 25

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    Self-centered...

    How to be miserable: "Think about yourself. Talk about yourself. Use "I" as often as possible. Mirror yourself continually in the opinion of others. Listen greedily to what others say about you. EXPECT to be appreciated. Be suspicious. Be jealous and envious. Be sensitive to...
    Helper96 Helper96 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 21, 2012

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    Why do people feel the need to be negative

    towards others? I mean yes I give into bouts of self-pity, anger, and dissatisfaction but I don't go out of my way to take out on others..*just a thought*
    143ily 143ily 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    My Personal Rant

    Some people can't accept people's happiness. It's just a matter of how simply they are trying to bring down others in order to make them feel superior. I don't know why they are insecure or having self-esteem issues but I hated it whenever a person was judged and criticized...
    maynee maynee 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 18, 2013

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    kristinaloo kristinaloo 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 8

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    Too Harsh

    I think a lot of the problem is that people are just way too harsh and inconsiderate of other people and their feelings nowadays. People are way too quick to put someone else down or say something negative to someone rather than trying to say something positive or make someone...
    explainit2me explainit2me 22-25, F 2 Responses May 11, 2011

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    Politeness Is Kindness

    I for one am fed up with the decline of good manners and the fact that so many people feel it is cool to be rude. After all it is simple to be polite in that politeness can be so easily defined as doing nothing to hurt other people. Why then do we put up with so much bad language...
    Happymedium Happymedium 56-60, M 4 Responses Nov 16, 2011

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    I just don't understand

    why everyone I meet is all three of these, I'm starting to wonder if I come across as that to others and that's the reason why I've never been treated nicely by anyone who I've called a friend over the years
    thelostgirl25 thelostgirl25 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    Title says it all. I'm just intolerant of

    inconsiderate, hypocritical idiots. I adore honestly and I adore respecting one's opinion, BUT...if you are going to shove your opinions onto me and keep persisting to insult my own opinions (opinions meaning...there's no right or wrong. They are your intake on subjects, issues...
    Imaginarionify Imaginarionify 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I get upset when adults on here try to tell us

    we're stupid just because we are young. All because someone is old, that doesn't mean they're smart. Age doesn't define maturity and intelligence.
    moose73630 moose73630 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 13

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    I hate when people bully over the internet to

    total strangers. You have no idea what that person is going through and how much your words could make or break them. Especially on this website, people should be nice. Some people need this website to vent or need someone to talk to. A lot of people apparently never heard the...
    SouthernBe11e SouthernBe11e 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    I am so tired of peoples selfish ways.

    I think most people are so wrapped up in their own world that they don't see anything beyond. I always thought of myself as kind and always wanted to lend a hand but I have to say I am becoming hardened. Maybe it's just the people I thought were friends. When you need them the...
    sunflowergirl78 sunflowergirl78 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    Why

    What benefit is it to betray your friends.  It's cruel and hurtful to share confidences in public forums for no other reason than to bring shame and embarrassment to them. What purpose is served by putting others down, by making fun of people who have facial deformities...
    DrewBerry DrewBerry 46-50, F 73 Responses May 14, 2010

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    Being Public Unknown

    This dream this life is left on this public EP boardThe public diary from an unknown faceWe write anonymouslyWe leave a traceThis is not my homeThis is not my bearingI live somewhere elseI wonder who will fly away off into the mazeBack to being an unknown face
    1UNITY 1UNITY 56-60, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2012

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    beeyan28 beeyan28 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    Deafened To The Message

    I was taught as a young child, that to be heard and understood, to get my point and message across fully, speak softly. When one shouts, and berates, and blathers accusations about everyone and anything that is not on the stated agenda...the message...no matter how worthy, is...
    Toby2day Toby2day 51-55, F 3 Responses May 14, 2010

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    Why Be So Heartless

    i came by this site by accident and after reading a few profiles i decided to be honest about myself for the first time in my life about my like of wearing womans clothes,and seeing so many others like myself felt very happy about finally being able to say who i am/what i am...
    pantieslips pantieslips 46-50, M 12 Responses Jun 9, 2012

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    Its so rude to be rude & to call anyone out to

    be rude cuz then ur rude!! Ugh!! Best thing is to do is ignore the rudeness & move on!!. I dnt mean to be rude i really dont but people have bad days & i kno ive been rude to people but i do feel bad after and such like a hypocrit for doing so i try to apologize to them & to...
    missyluvsmissy4me missyluvsmissy4me 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 2

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    I met someone on EP that I really liked

    and we talked everyday. I thought they had liked me too. At first it was great, then after awhile they were distant. I know that being busier was part of it, but it felt like it was more. Like they didn't want to talk to me anymore. In the middle of conversations, they would...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 26-30, F 5 Responses May 23

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    These people mask their rudeness

    as honesty and being "real"- no, it's just being mean! But it's so hard for me to talk with others and just not care how my words affect them. Screw it n them!
    roarnleo roarnleo 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    I do something kind and draw something

    that takes forever just to please you. I also make you a bracelet and you promise to wear it but then you just throw everything back in my face. It costs nothing to be kind and I shouldn't get punished for something my friend did and now you hate me 😭😭😭😭
    nicolexo12 nicolexo12 16-17, F Mar 30

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    Treated Like Dirt

    I'm so tired of people treating me like I'm less than human, or like I'm an idiot. I'm completely sick of people judging me and being rude to me just because they heard someone talk bad about me when I'd never done anything to them. I know I'm weird. Just because I am different...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 25, 2013

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    I really am anymore. People on here,

    are completely different. That's why I love it here. Nobody makes you feel like you're just a last resort. In reality, everyone makes me feel like a last resort. Hell, even the girl I like. Even after bringing her out to Dinner/Ice Skating on Valentines Day. They blame it on...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 23

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    Not Tired, Exhausted!!!

    I'm not just tired of it....I'm totally exhausted by it.  The thoughtless, rude, and downright cruel statements some people make suck the life right out of me lately.  I'm putting a stop to it right here and right now!  If you screw with me, you are out of my...
    giggles4488 giggles4488 56-60, F 23 Responses Apr 16, 2010

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    I am not fake!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I totally get this! I am a pretty happuy go lucky guy and anyone I know would agree.s I am usually always cheerful and i smile and act d=crazy a lot of the time. and even during school.s he other day, I was accused of being fake and compensating for insecurity by being...
    storm10123 storm10123 18-21, M 5 Responses May 22, 2010

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    I give up. I cannot express

    even the mildest dislike for anything, but those around me are completely within their rights to demean and disrespect me. My life is a living hell full of people who would like me to be their whipping boy. Every step I make is a step in the wrong direction, and the nicer I am...
    clearandbrightandclean clearandbrightandclean 22-25 2 Responses Apr 25

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    It's pretty annoying how most of you people

    judge so early.. judging at all is annoying itself..people need to shove there rudeness somewhere it cant be seen...who hates when this happens?
    SomeRandomGirl12 SomeRandomGirl12 13-15, F Mar 30

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    1LilLefty 1LilLefty 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    Im Fed Up With Yahoo Messenger

    why do ppl add u and then in middle of a conversationjust disappear without even saying adios. doesnt take much to say on ttys ttyl etc. its just ****** rude and such a waste of time. i get mad about it then theyhave the cheek to contact you and ask where youve gone and why u...
    prettyflamingo prettyflamingo 41-45, F 23 Responses Nov 21, 2012

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    This girl at my part-time job (pizza restaurant)

    and not my full-time job (Direct Support for people with disablities) is emotionally and mentally draining. I've been dealing with her for a month now and it seems like nothing I do makes her change her actions towards me. She does everything that would frustrate and irritate...
    betweenlustandlove betweenlustandlove 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    I was at Universal Studios with my family

    and we were having a great time, those places can get pretty crowded and I zoned out while walking and nearly bumped into this little girl walking in front of me. I stopped before making contact when I heard this woman start screaming,"GO AROUND." I was confused at whether it...
    mahnouls mahnouls 16-17 2 Responses Apr 13

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    If you knew my family,

    you would know they are very opinionated. If you do one thing they do not approve of they get mad. They say very mean hurtful things. It gets to the point where they make us younger ones cry. Its pathetic.
    MissCheekyFaced MissCheekyFaced 16-17, F Jul 6

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    Everytime I'm happy or making progress,

    someone always tries to drag me down and blame me for their misery. I'm going to watch and wait for every worthless person in my life to be removed. I'm trusting that every person who wants to tear me down will be removed by the grace of God.
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 22-25, F May 29

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    So Tired Of It...

    If people put the energy they do in being rude, cruel, and thoughtfulness...they would be in a better place in their lives, it is just wated energy on their parts, so why do they do it? they get all caught up in doing this...what they are miserable so everyone else has to be...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 6 Responses Jun 24, 2010

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    The ART Of A SH!TTY Naive

    An eagle was sitting on a tree resting, doing nothing.A small rabbit saw the eagle and asked him, "Can I also sit like you and do nothing?"The eagle answered: "Sure, why not."So, the rabbit sat on the ground below the eagle and rested. All of a sudden, a fox appeared, jumped on...
    ar93 ar93 18-21, M 10 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    Stop thinking on your own ego

    and paying with others your problems,frustrations and bad mood.Ok,we all can have a bad day...or do unwanted things but c'mon,doing it on purpose? Really? You had such a good life if you dont care for how others suffer and have problems too.If you really know suffering you dont...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F Jul 19

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    Especially strangers.

    I don't even know them.. I would love to give them a smile and say hello, but to look like a grouch towards me and give me attitude over the silliest thing? Just go away. I understand that they may have issues and assume the worse, but don't take it out on me.. I just want to...
    TearfulNights22 TearfulNights22 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 18

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