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I Am Tired of Women Being Mean to Other Women

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    Women Against Women?

    This is so real.  Once a friend of mine, who was divorced with three kids and have to support them on her own ( kids 2 -8-13) because her  irresponsible ex husband was not giving her a coin to help her.  She is an attorney and found a job very easy, but then she...
    MyNameIsCecilia MyNameIsCecilia 46-50, F 1 Response Feb 27, 2010

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    If This Is Sisterhood...

    I'm sticking to my bros! Come on ladies, history has demeaned us enough. Must we do it to each other? Build a freakin' bridge and get the hell over it! Did she steal your man? - No, he went willingly. Does your butt look big in that? - Yes, but who cares? You think that you...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 12, 2008

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    Tell me about it!

    I have always had a terrible relationship with my mother and sister, and was incredibly close to my father, so from the get-go, I have always distrusted other women. If I ever start dieting, or God-forbid, actually lose weight,  or wear an outfit that my mom or sis...
    wondergirl97 wondergirl97 36-40, F 2 Responses May 17, 2008

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    Yeah I'm Sick of It

    The drama, gossiping, lies, rumours, backstabbing, isn't going to end as long as other women see each other as natural competition. Even with a good kick in the arse. It's so much different having a bunch of guy friends compared to girl friends I'll tell you that much 10000000...
    Marowit Marowit 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 9, 2009

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    Whats Wrong With The World Today :/

    i came across this video and it made me sad to watch..whats wrong with people today..why are people so rude.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e4nhWtP_SeY&feature=related
    CuriousBunny CuriousBunny 18-21, F Jul 7, 2011

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    This is so true that-its not-even funny.

    ..... there is absolutley next to no sisterhood left at all. I have a rediculous amount of friends and aquaintances and maybe three of them are women. Out of the three; one i have known for 4 years (if youve read my other stories on my profile youl know i met her on here when i...
    EternalOptomist31 EternalOptomist31 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    I Am Tired Of Women Being Mean To Other Women

    Ever since I was little women have disliked me. I remember when I was small older women would pick on me as well as little girls my own age. I never understood why.Despite their unexplained aggression I stayed myself and was always really outgoing and active but my...
    ninjarabbit ninjarabbit 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 24, 2010

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    And Envy Men Friendship

    I don't understand why women are so mean to each other, especially friends. The talking behind backs, gloating over problems/difficulties/flaws of other women and so on and so forth :(Sometimes I envy friendship that guys have. When they have each other's back no matter what.
    SunnySmile SunnySmile 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 1, 2011

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    Uneasy Feeling....

    I've noticed that around men I don't feel that uncomfortable hostile sort of tension that seems to fill the air when I'm with a group of women. I feel like every facial expression, every tone inflection in their voice, every look out of the corner of their eye, every half-hearted...
    explainit2me explainit2me 22-25, F 2 Responses May 2, 2011

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    Women Plights

    We females are trying to no longer be second class to the males who only come into existence from another female birthing them. We need to have a united wall even if we do not agree on things. Some of the things females say to other females are just horrible, especially the ones...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F Sep 26, 2013

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    It's Like a Self Fulfilling Epidemic

    I'm actually kinda scared of women. It's really hard for me to have any female friends because it is so hard to trust them. Because of the epidemic of women hating women, it is like all women are on guard. I find myself not wanting to show vulnerability until the other female(s...
    paradoxical paradoxical 22-25, F 7 Responses Feb 17, 2008

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    Girls Are Vicious

    Honestly, I think girls are the most malicious towards their own kind; many females have no sense of solidarity what so ever.  I think if women stopped being so catty, there could be so much more progress and so much less drama.
    JustMara JustMara 16-18, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2007

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    Self Sexism.

    I have experienced this since kindergarten. It's terrible. People talk about sexism by men against woman. But I think society has brainwashed so many woman into being sexist towards their own gender! It's tragic.
    midvacent midvacent 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 17, 2007

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    Men If You Are Looking For Love On Ep

    Then look at how the woman you have eyes for treats other women on EP. That will give you a great indication of her true character and who you will one day end up with if you choose to be with her.
    Kindal Kindal 46-50, F 12 Responses Aug 8, 2009

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    A Valuble Tool

    Fellow Goddesses, Since I have learned about "bully broads", I have gained insight on why women attack other women. This is valuable tool to know if you are a female working in retail. "Bully broads" target women more than 70% over men. When women...
    Shunka Shunka 31-35 1 Response Aug 12, 2009

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    Backstabbers At Church

    Back stabbing women are the worst.  I had twelve years of back stabbing behavior by supposedly christian women at church.  It is so hard to describe the horrible behavior of these women however they made my experience at church unbearable.  The lies, and ...
    vjviolet vjviolet 51-55, F 5 Responses Feb 11, 2010

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    To Be Treated Equal

    A man *******/slags about a women and the surrounding women will pipe up and stand up for her telling him he is a bastered for insulting her. A women *******/slags about another women and the surrounding women will laugh. What is wrong with us? We go own about sisterhood and...
    Zzzgirl Zzzgirl 22-25, F Feb 1, 2009

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    One More Time

    I was just terminated because I was "unprofessional." I am retired from education so I thought that being a student teacher supervisor would be fun and keep me in touch with the educational profession. On my last assignment, I made an appointment to see the principal, a woman...
    simplywrong simplywrong 61-65, F Feb 12, 2010

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    You women are my sisters.

    I look at all of us as a sisterhood.
    MadameMM MadameMM 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 9

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    We're Human

    Women are mean to other women for many reasons. Could be jealousy, self-esteem problems, frustrations, problems with someone else ... maybe just pure meanness embodied in her. Things is ... it's human nature. Even men engage in the same behavior. I too would like to see it...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 3 Responses Nov 25, 2008

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    Automatized Response

    [Or however it´s written.. English ain´t my first language and I´ve never even been somewhere they speak English] I noticed a couple of things.. When I feel intimidated by a girl, because she looks good and dresses nice and seems to be smart, and she´s...
    utopianmefi utopianmefi 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 28, 2008

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    What' Up Ladies?

    For all of the hype about how women are more sensitive, caring and nicer than men, it has been my observation that this is not true when they are dealing with other women. In the work place or in personal life, most women are very territorial. Their sensitivity is just to their...
    tomt88101 tomt88101 56-60, M 4 Responses Sep 28, 2010

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    Sticks And Stones May Break My Bones, But Words Can Never Hurt Me. This Is A Lie.

    I belong to another friendship site.  There are a lot of women there who hate me.  They write blogs about me and all their friends would jump in and ridicule me.  I don't know these women, they don't know me.  I had reported them to the site administrators for...
    Tuesday1946 Tuesday1946 61-65, F 5 Responses Oct 4, 2010

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    Why Pick Her Apart?

    Ok so we all talk about how unfair it is to see only skinny people in magazines; yet when I go out to lunch with my g/fs they are constantly picking apart other females. or I see somone who isnt super skinny but still very attractive and someone bigger than her calls her fat...
    mommyxo1990 mommyxo1990 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2009

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    It Took Me Years

    It took me years to figure out what was really going on . I took hurtful comments into myself. I would think"I have been nothing but nice to them, why are they so mean" . Now I feel sorry for these people. ..By the way most never stop,so stir clear of them !!I This has been my...
    Dislecksic Dislecksic 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    Sick of It

    I am totally and absolutely sick of it!!  I;m not in high school anymore damn it.  As a woman with other women it feels as though we never left high school.  If your pretty someone is going to hate you for it.  If your fat then your not perfect.  I'm...
    crazyinlove88 crazyinlove88 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2008

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    Just Stop It!

    I hate it when girls get into cat fights. ITS DUMB. Now if you get into a fight because of something that needs to be fought about, then I understand. But mumbling that the girl standing next to you in the elevator is fat/a *****/stinky/nasty/a *****, whatever, causing a...
    cyceiro cyceiro 16-18, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2008

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    Toxic Friends

    I had a friend online who met and liked a man who liked me. I had been friends with him online since I was twenty five years old. She persisted in becoming good friends with me. I had not-so-good feelings about her. She joined a gaming league I was a tournament director in. She...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F Sep 26, 2013

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    I am his wife but yet I feel like I'm the other woman. It's about to be two months since I gave the hubby an ultimatum his family or this other woman. As I suspected he choose her...
    Itonlytakesone Itonlytakesone 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    This is the actual e-mail I have sent to him just now: I can't even talk to you about this. I'm about to break. Please explain to me what are you doing? It makes me feel like...
    highnlow highnlow 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    Letting you go has been a slow process but I know it in my blood - the worst part is over. On Dec 31, 2013 I told myself that exactly one year from then, I would not be in the same...
    celticwarrior96 celticwarrior96 36-40, F Apr 9

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    Well I'm free. Not exactly from my own accord. I found out my MM was chatting with someone else. I promptly kicked him out of my house. I will never put myself in a crazy...
    lee1898 lee1898 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 21

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    Im tired of being a good friend. Most of my friends knew what i had to go through during middle school, now it's high school. I have a friend of mines, she immature-ish. Whenever...
    ThatOneGirlWhoSmiles ThatOneGirlWhoSmiles 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    I crossed a self created boundary line today. It is not a line dividing good and evil but perhaps dividing right and pleasant! The frail emotional fool that I am, I let myself go...
    nightoceanbreeze nightoceanbreeze 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 3

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    "Noo i will not text him even is he says sorry ..he needs to do way more hmp!"Ok i no i sound like a ***** but first hear what i have to say. It all started a day ago we had a day...
    missunperfectly missunperfectly 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    Can someone please help getting fatter??? I am so tired og being skinny. I want that soft chubby belly. Please help me!
    mrphil2105 mrphil2105 13-15, M Mar 28

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    Dinner is more important. Getting to bed on time is more important (even though they don't have a job and don't need to be anywhere in the morning). Everything is more...
    MatureNotDead MatureNotDead 51-55, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    Tired of being fat. I lost 70lbs in a year and I am finding myself gain 35 lbs back. It's depressing
    ileon89 ileon89 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Im sick and tired of being laughed at for how I look so I have decided to start my battle against the fat. All I need now is the support and motivation to keep going!!
    minxie20 minxie20 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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    I've always been alone, starting in grade school. I had a few friends once in a while, but they left me too. It was like that until college. Nobody seemed to like me. And when...
    churchworker churchworker 46-50, F 1 Response 36 mins ago

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    I read lot's stories about affair,,, all the women had the affair never blame the man she had sex with or her self ,,, it all way the husband fault ,,, why he busting his but to...
    pullupgirl103 pullupgirl103 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    So what if I'm the oldest! I'm still a person. I can't control others anymore than they can control me. My sibling doesn't listen. Oh well it's not my problem. If the kids at camp...
    BleedingOrchids BleedingOrchids 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I woke up this morning with so much on my mind. It's rare for me to just burst out into tears, but I just couldn't help myself. I'm the type of person that just like to brush...
    CallMeNiesha94 CallMeNiesha94 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 24

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    Long story short, controlling boyfriend. He is especially controlling when I am adamant against something. Definitely a power issue, loves controlling people. Thing is, we broke up...
    SashaAmazon SashaAmazon 31-35, F Apr 2

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    Where can I get some energy? I was diagnosed with mono in 2007. . . I was told by several doctors that it cannot come back. (However several of the nurses, one of the doctors, and...
    RebekahWriter13 RebekahWriter13 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and we love each other to bits but last June his visa ran out and he had to go back to his country I told him I would wait and that some...
    xbubblesxboo xbubblesxboo 22-25, F Apr 4

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    I have always put myself into other peoples shoes ..I go through life thinking that if I was someone else .. maybe I'de hate me too. I know that I would make fun of the girl who is...
    BelieveTheEscape BelieveTheEscape 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I m so crew helmed by work. I work so much over time for 3 years that I am serious lack of sleep and have drained out all my energy. I look so sick and tired that everyone in the...
    Ssslm Ssslm 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I feel stupid for trying to seek out other people who could tolerate me, but I miss the sense of companionship. Lately, I kind of need it. It sucks being used to being alone, then...
    Sinaname Sinaname 26-30 Apr 4

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    im tired of having nobody.. ive never felt so low in my life.. im thinking about hurting myself. its making me sick ive never harmed anybody before or hurt myself..i bottle a lot...
    matthu21 matthu21 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 20

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    My roommate was checking to see if I felt warm, like I had a fever.. And when he put his hand on my neck I felt like I was going to die of a heart attack!!!!!! I just want some one...
    bizzyann bizzyann 18-21, F Apr 3

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    Supposedly I have a significant other but I feel more alone when he's around. We have nothing in common but the kids. He is rarely here and when he is, we're in separate rooms. We...
    SingleLizAgain SingleLizAgain 41-45, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm tired of always being the bad one. Like legit screw yourself you've made as many mistakes as me, you have done the exact same thing as me, yet you act as if you're innocent and...
    Batchick420 Batchick420 18-21, F Mar 25

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    Sometimes, or a lot of times actually, I want to forget about all the responsibilities I have and be able to relax a little more. I think I often take on too much, and I'm a...