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I Am Tired of Women Being Mean to Other Women

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    Uneasy Feeling....

    I've noticed that around men I don't feel that uncomfortable hostile sort of tension that seems to fill the air when I'm with a group of women. I feel like every facial expression, every tone inflection in their voice, every look out of the corner of their eye, every half-hearted...
    explainit2me explainit2me 22-25, F 2 Responses May 2, 2011

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    What' Up Ladies?

    For all of the hype about how women are more sensitive, caring and nicer than men, it has been my observation that this is not true when they are dealing with other women. In the work place or in personal life, most women are very territorial. Their sensitivity is just to their...
    tomt88101 tomt88101 56-60, M 4 Responses Sep 28, 2010

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    Self Sexism.

    I have experienced this since kindergarten. It's terrible. People talk about sexism by men against woman. But I think society has brainwashed so many woman into being sexist towards their own gender! It's tragic.
    midvacent midvacent 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 17, 2007

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    Backstabbers At Church

    Back stabbing women are the worst.  I had twelve years of back stabbing behavior by supposedly christian women at church.  It is so hard to describe the horrible behavior of these women however they made my experience at church unbearable.  The lies, and ...
    vjviolet vjviolet 51-55, F 5 Responses Feb 11, 2010

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    Just Stop It!

    I hate it when girls get into cat fights. ITS DUMB. Now if you get into a fight because of something that needs to be fought about, then I understand. But mumbling that the girl standing next to you in the elevator is fat/a *****/stinky/nasty/a *****, whatever, causing a...
    cyceiro cyceiro 16-18, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2008

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    Whats Wrong With The World Today :/

    i came across this video and it made me sad to watch..whats wrong with people today..why are people so rude.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e4nhWtP_SeY&feature=related
    CuriousBunny CuriousBunny 18-21, F Jul 7, 2011

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    It Took Me Years

    It took me years to figure out what was really going on . I took hurtful comments into myself. I would think"I have been nothing but nice to them, why are they so mean" . Now I feel sorry for these people. ..By the way most never stop,so stir clear of them !!I This has been my...
    Dislecksic Dislecksic 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    Why Pick Her Apart?

    Ok so we all talk about how unfair it is to see only skinny people in magazines; yet when I go out to lunch with my g/fs they are constantly picking apart other females. or I see somone who isnt super skinny but still very attractive and someone bigger than her calls her fat...
    mommyxo1990 mommyxo1990 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2009

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    We're Human

    Women are mean to other women for many reasons. Could be jealousy, self-esteem problems, frustrations, problems with someone else ... maybe just pure meanness embodied in her. Things is ... it's human nature. Even men engage in the same behavior. I too would like to see it...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 3 Responses Nov 25, 2008

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    Tell me about it!

    I have always had a terrible relationship with my mother and sister, and was incredibly close to my father, so from the get-go, I have always distrusted other women. If I ever start dieting, or God-forbid, actually lose weight,  or wear an outfit that my mom or sis...
    wondergirl97 wondergirl97 36-40, F 2 Responses May 17, 2008

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    One More Time

    I was just terminated because I was "unprofessional." I am retired from education so I thought that being a student teacher supervisor would be fun and keep me in touch with the educational profession. On my last assignment, I made an appointment to see the principal, a woman...
    simplywrong simplywrong 61-65, F Feb 12, 2010

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    A Valuble Tool

    Fellow Goddesses, Since I have learned about "bully broads", I have gained insight on why women attack other women. This is valuable tool to know if you are a female working in retail. "Bully broads" target women more than 70% over men. When women...
    Shunka Shunka 31-35 1 Response Aug 12, 2009

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    It's Like a Self Fulfilling Epidemic

    I'm actually kinda scared of women. It's really hard for me to have any female friends because it is so hard to trust them. Because of the epidemic of women hating women, it is like all women are on guard. I find myself not wanting to show vulnerability until the other female(s...
    paradoxical paradoxical 22-25, F 7 Responses Feb 17, 2008

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    Toxic Friends

    I had a friend online who met and liked a man who liked me. I had been friends with him online since I was twenty five years old. She persisted in becoming good friends with me. I had not-so-good feelings about her. She joined a gaming league I was a tournament director in. She...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F Sep 26, 2013

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    I Am Tired Of Women Being Mean To Other Women

    Ever since I was little women have disliked me. I remember when I was small older women would pick on me as well as little girls my own age. I never understood why.Despite their unexplained aggression I stayed myself and was always really outgoing and active but my...
    ninjarabbit ninjarabbit 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 24, 2010

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    If This Is Sisterhood...

    I'm sticking to my bros! Come on ladies, history has demeaned us enough. Must we do it to each other? Build a freakin' bridge and get the hell over it! Did she steal your man? - No, he went willingly. Does your butt look big in that? - Yes, but who cares? You think that you...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 12, 2008

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    Girls Are Vicious

    Honestly, I think girls are the most malicious towards their own kind; many females have no sense of solidarity what so ever.  I think if women stopped being so catty, there could be so much more progress and so much less drama.
    JustMara JustMara 16-18, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2007

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    Automatized Response

    [Or however it´s written.. English ain´t my first language and I´ve never even been somewhere they speak English] I noticed a couple of things.. When I feel intimidated by a girl, because she looks good and dresses nice and seems to be smart, and she´s...
    utopianmefi utopianmefi 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 28, 2008

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    This is so true that-its not-even funny.

    ..... there is absolutley next to no sisterhood left at all. I have a rediculous amount of friends and aquaintances and maybe three of them are women. Out of the three; one i have known for 4 years (if youve read my other stories on my profile youl know i met her on here when i...
    EternalOptomist31 EternalOptomist31 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 18, 2014

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    Women Plights

    We females are trying to no longer be second class to the males who only come into existence from another female birthing them. We need to have a united wall even if we do not agree on things. Some of the things females say to other females are just horrible, especially the ones...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F Sep 26, 2013

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    This really bugs me. Women always attack other

    women like what? Women are the first to call other girls *******, ***** and all that. I'm just like why? Why can't we be friends. This show I was watching was so right. "Guys just fight and get it over with. A few punches sometimes not even that and it's over permanently,no...
    LovelyDeadly LovelyDeadly 18-21, F Jul 18, 2014

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    I Don't Get It

    I don't understand why so many women are mean to each other. This isn't just women who are younger but those who are into their forties onward. Are they that insecure that other women must be destroyed through gossip and jealousy?
    CrazyWaterSpring CrazyWaterSpring 51-55, M Feb 23, 2011

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    Women Against Women?

    This is so real.  Once a friend of mine, who was divorced with three kids and have to support them on her own ( kids 2 -8-13) because her  irresponsible ex husband was not giving her a coin to help her.  She is an attorney and found a job very easy, but then she...
    MyNameIsCecilia MyNameIsCecilia 46-50, F 1 Response Feb 27, 2010

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    And Envy Men Friendship

    I don't understand why women are so mean to each other, especially friends. The talking behind backs, gloating over problems/difficulties/flaws of other women and so on and so forth :(Sometimes I envy friendship that guys have. When they have each other's back no matter what.
    SunnySmile SunnySmile 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 1, 2011

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    To Be Treated Equal

    A man *******/slags about a women and the surrounding women will pipe up and stand up for her telling him he is a bastered for insulting her. A women *******/slags about another women and the surrounding women will laugh. What is wrong with us? We go own about sisterhood and...
    Zzzgirl Zzzgirl 22-25, F Feb 1, 2009

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    Yeah I'm Sick of It

    The drama, gossiping, lies, rumours, backstabbing, isn't going to end as long as other women see each other as natural competition. Even with a good kick in the arse. It's so much different having a bunch of guy friends compared to girl friends I'll tell you that much 10000000...
    Marowit Marowit 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 9, 2009

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    Sticks And Stones May Break My Bones, But Words Can Never Hurt Me. This Is A Lie.

    I belong to another friendship site.  There are a lot of women there who hate me.  They write blogs about me and all their friends would jump in and ridicule me.  I don't know these women, they don't know me.  I had reported them to the site administrators for...
    Tuesday1946 Tuesday1946 61-65, F 5 Responses Oct 4, 2010

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    You women are my sisters.

    I look at all of us as a sisterhood.
    CascadingCoquette CascadingCoquette 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 9, 2014

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    Sick of It

    I am totally and absolutely sick of it!!  I;m not in high school anymore damn it.  As a woman with other women it feels as though we never left high school.  If your pretty someone is going to hate you for it.  If your fat then your not perfect.  I'm...
    crazyinlove88 crazyinlove88 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    The wife knows about me. She knows that we're together. I guess this isn't a typical "other woman" post. But he and I were at a bar with his friends. They all know me and the wife...
    heatherrrbee heatherrrbee 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    i would like to share my experience with a mean girl so there is this mean girl in my class and last year she always teased and buged me she is very nice to some and mean well to...
    liona9 liona9 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    I hate always being the bad guy and being blamed as the reason why things went bad, Nd fights. I try to talk things out Im complaining, I show I care, love, and concerned I worry...
    AngelWithoutWingsx AngelWithoutWingsx 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 17

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    There is a forum where I was a moderator for 5 years and spent countless hours helping grow it from nothing to a forum with over 1,000 members, thousands of Twitter followers, and...
    AggieGuy AggieGuy 36-40, M Jan 31

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    I'm tired of being compared with my twin sister. We may look like the same but we aren't...it hurts to be the bad twin. Not a lot of people know how it feels like.
    sweetdisaster17 sweetdisaster17 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    I'm tired of being fat. I want to be thin and considered attractive. I feel like there's a thin outgoing party animal buried deep inside my fat folds. I want to party and drink and...
    RaigaKurosuki RaigaKurosuki 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 18

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    I used to only halfway believe how badly social media could impact someone until it happened to me. It’s given me a lot of thought, actually, and while I’m completely done with...
    musicpuns musicpuns 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    I'm my own complete person. I'm always being compared to my cousin by my family. How I never have my shoes clean (while hers shine) to how we dress. She has her style and I have my...
    Gracie94 Gracie94 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 30

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    I hate trying to get through every day, just to wake up and feel the same way. I'm only here for my kids and wife. I always say it could be worse and soon after it actually is...
    IWasHereOnce IWasHereOnce 41-45, M 2 Responses Feb 12

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    So yeah, I'm 15,a guy, and I'm around 5'2. I'm tired of just being shorter than my classmates, and being compared to them. I'm thin too, but not too thin. I don't know if I'll grow...
    S4G4R S4G4R 13-15, M 3 Responses Feb 2

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    ...Yeah, it stinks. Many will start assuming things of you that aren't necessarily true; ie, that you're a glutton... when the reality could be different (and it's rude to say that...
    Ewoo Ewoo 16-17 Feb 17

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    I grew up just like anyone else. Birth, toddler years, kindergarten, elementary through high school. And now, at the end of my sophomore year of college, I sit in a very different...
    redowens redowens 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    My step dad compared me to my brother (his son) today. I looked him in the eye and I could feel the anger and rejection filling mine. Your son is a pedo*****! He molested me! He...
    Sarabell00 Sarabell00 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 7

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    I just need to vent and get things out of my system, tired of feeling like an outcast in my own house, because my mother and brother are such **** wads that it annoys me to even...
    Tyfly Tyfly 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 5

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    I have survived 11 years of abuse from the age of 9, I have survived the accidental death of my closest friend, my elder brother, the accidental death of my grandmother, and...
    slclondon slclondon 41-45, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm quite the athletic person I played many sports for years but that doesn't mean I'm the "ideal" skinny person. I'm athletic but I'm still type chunky. I know I'm a bit...
    PoeticallyBlessed9 PoeticallyBlessed9 16-17, F Feb 20

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    Im tired of losing the close people in my life.. Its a rare thing already to have someone to be close to me and every time theyll always leave, no matter who they are, where they...
    TheLeftBehind TheLeftBehind 16-17, M Feb 3

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    So at school today , a good friend of mine was giving out roses & she gave one to me . As I was walking around school , I was constantly asked who gave me the rose . A guy friend...
    domino00 domino00 13-15, F 4 Responses Feb 13

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    I have been sick, and getting worse, for so many years. I had many doctors and "loved ones" tell me that it was in my head, that I'm just lazy and that there was nothing wrong with...
    Sarahberrycakes Sarahberrycakes 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I feel like I get compared to my brother a lot, especially when we have cousins or friends of my parents come over. They compliment my brother a lot on how GOOD he is at sports...
    DrowningInRed DrowningInRed 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 31