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I Am Tired of Women Being Mean to Other Women

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    [Or however it´s written.. English ain´t my first language and I´ve never even been somewhere they speak English] I noticed a couple of things.. When I feel intimidated by a girl, because she looks good and dresses nice and seems to be smart, and she´s...
    utopianmefi utopianmefi 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 28, 2008

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    I Don't Get It

    I don't understand why so many women are mean to each other. This isn't just women who are younger but those who are into their forties onward. Are they that insecure that other women must be destroyed through gossip and jealousy?
    CrazyWaterSpring CrazyWaterSpring 51-55, M Feb 23, 2011

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    If This Is Sisterhood...

    I'm sticking to my bros! Come on ladies, history has demeaned us enough. Must we do it to each other? Build a freakin' bridge and get the hell over it! Did she steal your man? - No, he went willingly. Does your butt look big in that? - Yes, but who cares? You think that you...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 12, 2008

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    This really bugs me. Women always attack other

    women like what? Women are the first to call other girls *******, ***** and all that. I'm just like why? Why can't we be friends. This show I was watching was so right. "Guys just fight and get it over with. A few punches sometimes not even that and it's over permanently,no...
    LovelyDeadly LovelyDeadly 16-17, F Jul 18, 2014

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    To Be Treated Equal

    A man *******/slags about a women and the surrounding women will pipe up and stand up for her telling him he is a bastered for insulting her. A women *******/slags about another women and the surrounding women will laugh. What is wrong with us? We go own about sisterhood and...
    Zzzgirl Zzzgirl 22-25, F Feb 1, 2009

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    What' Up Ladies?

    For all of the hype about how women are more sensitive, caring and nicer than men, it has been my observation that this is not true when they are dealing with other women. In the work place or in personal life, most women are very territorial. Their sensitivity is just to their...
    tomt88101 tomt88101 56-60, M 4 Responses Sep 28, 2010

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    Women Plights

    We females are trying to no longer be second class to the males who only come into existence from another female birthing them. We need to have a united wall even if we do not agree on things. Some of the things females say to other females are just horrible, especially the ones...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F Sep 26, 2013

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    Girls Are Vicious

    Honestly, I think girls are the most malicious towards their own kind; many females have no sense of solidarity what so ever.  I think if women stopped being so catty, there could be so much more progress and so much less drama.
    JustMara JustMara 16-18, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2007

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    Self Sexism.

    I have experienced this since kindergarten. It's terrible. People talk about sexism by men against woman. But I think society has brainwashed so many woman into being sexist towards their own gender! It's tragic.
    midvacent midvacent 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 17, 2007

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    Sticks And Stones May Break My Bones, But Words Can Never Hurt Me. This Is A Lie.

    I belong to another friendship site.  There are a lot of women there who hate me.  They write blogs about me and all their friends would jump in and ridicule me.  I don't know these women, they don't know me.  I had reported them to the site administrators for...
    Tuesday1946 Tuesday1946 61-65, F 5 Responses Oct 4, 2010

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    It's Like a Self Fulfilling Epidemic

    I'm actually kinda scared of women. It's really hard for me to have any female friends because it is so hard to trust them. Because of the epidemic of women hating women, it is like all women are on guard. I find myself not wanting to show vulnerability until the other female(s...
    paradoxical paradoxical 22-25, F 7 Responses Feb 17, 2008

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    Just Stop It!

    I hate it when girls get into cat fights. ITS DUMB. Now if you get into a fight because of something that needs to be fought about, then I understand. But mumbling that the girl standing next to you in the elevator is fat/a *****/stinky/nasty/a *****, whatever, causing a...
    cyceiro cyceiro 16-18, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2008

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    Uneasy Feeling....

    I've noticed that around men I don't feel that uncomfortable hostile sort of tension that seems to fill the air when I'm with a group of women. I feel like every facial expression, every tone inflection in their voice, every look out of the corner of their eye, every half-hearted...
    explainit2me explainit2me 22-25, F 2 Responses May 2, 2011

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    It Took Me Years

    It took me years to figure out what was really going on . I took hurtful comments into myself. I would think"I have been nothing but nice to them, why are they so mean" . Now I feel sorry for these people. ..By the way most never stop,so stir clear of them !!I This has been my...
    Dislecksic Dislecksic 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 5, 2011

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    Yeah I'm Sick of It

    The drama, gossiping, lies, rumours, backstabbing, isn't going to end as long as other women see each other as natural competition. Even with a good kick in the arse. It's so much different having a bunch of guy friends compared to girl friends I'll tell you that much 10000000...
    Marowit Marowit 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 9, 2009

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    A Valuble Tool

    Fellow Goddesses, Since I have learned about "bully broads", I have gained insight on why women attack other women. This is valuable tool to know if you are a female working in retail. "Bully broads" target women more than 70% over men. When women...
    Shunka Shunka 31-35 1 Response Aug 12, 2009

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    We're Human

    Women are mean to other women for many reasons. Could be jealousy, self-esteem problems, frustrations, problems with someone else ... maybe just pure meanness embodied in her. Things is ... it's human nature. Even men engage in the same behavior. I too would like to see it...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 3 Responses Nov 25, 2008

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    Women Against Women?

    This is so real.  Once a friend of mine, who was divorced with three kids and have to support them on her own ( kids 2 -8-13) because her  irresponsible ex husband was not giving her a coin to help her.  She is an attorney and found a job very easy, but then she...
    MyNameIsCecilia MyNameIsCecilia 46-50, F 1 Response Feb 27, 2010

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    Whats Wrong With The World Today :/

    i came across this video and it made me sad to watch..whats wrong with people today..why are people so rude.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e4nhWtP_SeY&feature=related
    CuriousBunny CuriousBunny 18-21, F Jul 7, 2011

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    You women are my sisters.

    I look at all of us as a sisterhood.
    CascadingCoquette CascadingCoquette 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 9, 2014

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    And Envy Men Friendship

    I don't understand why women are so mean to each other, especially friends. The talking behind backs, gloating over problems/difficulties/flaws of other women and so on and so forth :(Sometimes I envy friendship that guys have. When they have each other's back no matter what.
    SunnySmile SunnySmile 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 1, 2011

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    Tell me about it!

    I have always had a terrible relationship with my mother and sister, and was incredibly close to my father, so from the get-go, I have always distrusted other women. If I ever start dieting, or God-forbid, actually lose weight,  or wear an outfit that my mom or sis...
    wondergirl97 wondergirl97 36-40, F 2 Responses May 17, 2008

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    One More Time

    I was just terminated because I was "unprofessional." I am retired from education so I thought that being a student teacher supervisor would be fun and keep me in touch with the educational profession. On my last assignment, I made an appointment to see the principal, a woman...
    simplywrong simplywrong 61-65, F Feb 12, 2010

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    Backstabbers At Church

    Back stabbing women are the worst.  I had twelve years of back stabbing behavior by supposedly christian women at church.  It is so hard to describe the horrible behavior of these women however they made my experience at church unbearable.  The lies, and ...
    vjviolet vjviolet 51-55, F 5 Responses Feb 11, 2010

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    This is so true that-its not-even funny.

    ..... there is absolutley next to no sisterhood left at all. I have a rediculous amount of friends and aquaintances and maybe three of them are women. Out of the three; one i have known for 4 years (if youve read my other stories on my profile youl know i met her on here when i...
    EternalOptomist31 EternalOptomist31 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 18, 2014

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    I Am Tired Of Women Being Mean To Other Women

    Ever since I was little women have disliked me. I remember when I was small older women would pick on me as well as little girls my own age. I never understood why.Despite their unexplained aggression I stayed myself and was always really outgoing and active but my...
    ninjarabbit ninjarabbit 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 24, 2010

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    Why Pick Her Apart?

    Ok so we all talk about how unfair it is to see only skinny people in magazines; yet when I go out to lunch with my g/fs they are constantly picking apart other females. or I see somone who isnt super skinny but still very attractive and someone bigger than her calls her fat...
    mommyxo1990 mommyxo1990 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 28, 2009

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    Toxic Friends

    I had a friend online who met and liked a man who liked me. I had been friends with him online since I was twenty five years old. She persisted in becoming good friends with me. I had not-so-good feelings about her. She joined a gaming league I was a tournament director in. She...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F Sep 26, 2013

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    Sick of It

    I am totally and absolutely sick of it!!  I;m not in high school anymore damn it.  As a woman with other women it feels as though we never left high school.  If your pretty someone is going to hate you for it.  If your fat then your not perfect.  I'm...
    crazyinlove88 crazyinlove88 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2008

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    i'm tired of being that friend that is alway's there for you and listens to all your problems and in return gets ignorned when i have a problem or need help end vent :)
    sefphera sefphera 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    Rational thought and logical reasoning means you should be able to make a point without having to resort to being mean.
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm hurt. How can it possibly be that hard to write down two very simple, small words? Well, as anyone that may be reading this and can empathize with being "the other woman" knows...
    latenightthinker latenightthinker 31-35, F 5 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    I lost my best friend Sept 29/14. He was a great guy. We had a lot in common. We became friends through work. We used to share our stories with each other every morning over coffee...
    nataliavr2003 nataliavr2003 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    m moving out when I turn 18, and I'm absolutely terrified. I'm... feeling really small right now, so I guess that's why I'm writing this. My story is long, but relevant. I was...
    theydunnomyname theydunnomyname 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 8

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    minnieccaa minnieccaa 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I just need to vent. I am feeling frustrated and stressed out. I'm trying not to be, but I don't really know if it's working. My family has had it so incredibly rough, we just can...
    Aimee17 Aimee17 41-45, F 43 Responses Jan 13

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    I'm tired all the time. It's dragging me down now and I'm fed up with it. I also get gas and feel genuinely ill a lot too. It feels as if the toxicity is moving down over a few...
    cloudsoflife cloudsoflife 26-30, M 3 Responses Jan 18

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    i dont enjoy being single. im so young at heart...so healthy and viral..nuturing and responsive. i love women.. they are amazing.
    gpj1962 gpj1962 51-55, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Like always, I'm always left out on things, and no one really cares about me. I attempted and tried to socialize with people at a gathering, but I was never welcomed to join any...
    caactas caactas 16-17, T 1 Response Jan 2

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    I just slept for 9 hours which is more than enough right? And I'm still tired, like I slept 7 hours then was still tired so I decided to sleep some more. I went back to sleep for...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    I am so tired of having to deal with all the backstabbing and lying my sons father throws at me. I'm just exhausted from being so emotional. We have been through a lot together...
    britlx3 britlx3 18-21, F Jan 4

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    Did I do something wrong? I chose Nate and he knows I'm in love with him SO WHAT DID I DO WRONG? All I did was invite naomi and Chris to the amusement park with us and for some...
    ChildOfHarmony ChildOfHarmony 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I feel like NO ONE gets it, There are so many of us dealing with health issues and since no two people are the same no two issues are the same.... Sure they can be dealing with the...
    LoveWhitz LoveWhitz 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 4

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