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I Am Told By My Mum to Be a Tough Person

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    Mum Wants Me to Be Tough?

    but i want to be a sissy person? ev en if someone stabbed me with knifes she would expect me not to cry? i have to hold all my tears in because she tells me never let anyone know your upset and they do think i am tough and can take any pain and i cant? my mum is funny she...
    twinky twinky 31-35 Apr 8, 2009

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    Not Allowed to Cry.

    A couple years ago my mom and I got into an argument because she was dating this guy and I said something, IDK what, but I said something and she got mad.  Even to this day, as I am an adult, if I say something that my mom doesn't like she will make me feel like I...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 9, 2009

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    When I Was Younger.........

    Before I was diagnosed with panic disorder & PTSD. She use to tell me to suck it up & get over it. That the past was the past & it wasn't something to be talked about. I did my best to hide all my emotions away & become the daughter she wanted, but it led to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 7, 2009

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    Actually I have two... My mum and my beautiful baby daughter. My mum is my best friend and I don't know what I'd do without her.
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    I always ask people why and the most common answer is "It's your face". Lol some people say I walk like im tough, and other people say it's the way I talk. When I talk my words...
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    What's the point of "fitting in"? Why not go against the grain? I've been told by many I'm absolutely crazy. I wasn't always like this though. In high school I found myself and...
    charmen95 charmen95 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm not a very nice person, simple as. I'm rude and I'm easy to tease which people like to exploit. I'm loyal to my friends but I am unsociable and like to be alone. I find that...
    HelpIneedsomeone HelpIneedsomeone 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm now a 21 year old alcoholic pending legal action... I thought life was tough in high school... Ok.
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    ****VERY LONG DEscriptION****I've never told anyone about this before and it's one of my darkest secrets. But I have 3 alters that make up "me." They don't have names so I gave...
    Ikebanna69 Ikebanna69 16-17, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    barcaaintcheats barcaaintcheats 26-30, M a week ago

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    Check out my photos of my hot step mum
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    GeorgiaAllender13 GeorgiaAllender13 13-15, F Aug 27

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    I'm moving down to London from Manchester in a few days, and she'd promised that she'll drive me down. But now she's just said she can't because her man's got back pain and she's...
    so24601 so24601 22-25, F Aug 25

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    Sexyrachel1406 Sexyrachel1406 22-25, M Aug 24

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    Sexyrachel1406 Sexyrachel1406 22-25, M Aug 24

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    BeautifullySickkk BeautifullySickkk 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    I am nice to everyone... Yet the one who I thought was my closest friend.. One who I've told lots of things to..blames all her faults on me when she is confronted about her...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 23

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    I used to be so open, innocent, happy, confident, lively and had a good self esteem. Ever since I started high school two years ago, it's changed me. I now have very little self...
    taytay1401 taytay1401 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    ...cause maybe it's putting myself out there in fear rather than in love. i want to enjoy life. i like to have a good time, but in my own way. i guess i'm an isolated, loner person...
    clearlytransparent clearlytransparent 31-35, F Aug 20

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    My mum and my dad was in a decent relationship with each other. They had me so that made the relationship even amazing. If I was a boy they would of called me Reece but because I...
    CazzaDai CazzaDai 13-15, F Aug 20

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    furrycats furrycats 31-35 Aug 20

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    I've been told this thousands of times and really it all comes down to trust for me. I don't trust easy, so I remain a closed book. Plenty of people have asked me "don't you trust...
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    I told him it would stay between that no one would know about us I told one person I thought I could trust I don't know whats going to happen now.
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    JordanO198 JordanO198 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 16

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