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I Am Told By My Mum to Be a Tough Person

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    Mum Wants Me to Be Tough?

    but i want to be a sissy person? ev en if someone stabbed me with knifes she would expect me not to cry? i have to hold all my tears in because she tells me never let anyone know your upset and they do think i am tough and can take any pain and i cant? my mum is funny she...
    twinky twinky 31-35 Apr 8, 2009

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    When I Was Younger.........

    Before I was diagnosed with panic disorder & PTSD. She use to tell me to suck it up & get over it. That the past was the past & it wasn't something to be talked about. I did my best to hide all my emotions away & become the daughter she wanted, but it led to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 7, 2009

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    Not Allowed to Cry.

    A couple years ago my mom and I got into an argument because she was dating this guy and I said something, IDK what, but I said something and she got mad.  Even to this day, as I am an adult, if I say something that my mom doesn't like she will make me feel like I...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 9, 2009

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    I'm so lucky to have such a loving mum and is so alike to me xx love you mum xx
    bexthelez bexthelez 22-25, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    two days ago my mum caught me using my dummy (as I have tbdl feelings) and she teased me for a little while and then on I keep wanting to kill myself again (after 3 months) I'm...
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    When I was 7 I started to wonder about a things in my life, like why I lived with my Grandmother and why I could only see my actual mother and father (separately) 4 times a year...
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    I have Asthma and I am pretty sure it is due toy Mother smoking during her pregnancy with me. Also I was a secondhand smoker all throughout my childhood and then took up the...
    LetsWasteTime LetsWasteTime 31-35, F 8 Responses Feb 21

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    I stole my boyfriend from someone else and now I am unable to trust him. We've known each other for a long time. I always knew he liked me but I friend-zoned him. After all, he...
    elocinitis elocinitis 26-30, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I know that I should feel better after getting it out here, but this is anonymous. I felt I had to tell at least one person that I dress in feminine attire who knows who I am...
    closetedcd60 closetedcd60 61-65, M 8 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Personally i don't talk much but when i do girls tend to say that my voice is very soothing. they said its something about the way i talk that relaxes them. to me its just my voice...
    Sladetgx57 Sladetgx57 18-21, M 4 hrs ago

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    We met at my office for our second meeting. He leaned against my massage table and we kissed and he rubbed my breasts. I told him I wasn't wearing a bra. I went down on him and he...
    IlovePinkpanties IlovePinkpanties 41-45, F 3 hrs ago

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    I feel like I'm on a roller coaster, I'm constantly going up and down. I feel confident and raring to go one minute and I'm feeling despair, desperate and empty the next. I hate...
    dte21 dte21 18-21, F Feb 19

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    Mabel was "Mummy" most of the times, She signalled when she was available by either a red or a green flower vase in the side window of her house. I had been unable to visit for 4...
    Lin79 Lin79 31-35, T Feb 9

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    Just the once & she was cool, just suggested that I might like to close the bedroom door when I needed to. I think she must have told my sisters to knock if my door was shut since...
    Capitaldad Capitaldad 51-55, M Feb 15

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    I really do not know from where i have to start !!!!!!!!!!!!! , anyway i will do , in my childhood when i was studying in the primary school i faced many difficults in making...
    umayyad umayyad 31-35, M 3 Responses Feb 7

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    I utterly resent my mum for what she has done. She thinks it's okay that SHE acts like the daughter and takes on all my natural, inherent feelings that I am used to and I've had to...
    Misscoconut Misscoconut 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    Shes the most amazing woman ever! I'm proud to call her my mum and my best friend. She means everything to me, what ever she says I always listen to. She always makes me laugh...
    wonderland63893 wonderland63893 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I look tough and I act tough. I hate crying in public and I always act happy when I am not... Because I dont like to talk about my thoughts or feelings. So, to avoid questions I...
    orcaliber orcaliber 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 8

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    I have just recently found out that I am pregnant. Yes, I am excited. But, I'm also terrified because of the havoc pregnancy is already wreaking on my fragile emotional state...
    whiskeyprincess37 whiskeyprincess37 18-21, F 13 hrs ago

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    I caught my mum with another woman when I was younger n she now a lesbian and in a relationship with another woman! I love my mums so much
    jon22 jon22 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 12

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    I still love him and think about him everyday. It's almost like I'm haunted by him. He showed up unexpectedly ay my work with a couple friends of his, and I had to fight to keep an...
    renae85 renae85 26-30 1 Response Feb 15

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    I get this a lot. Usually I don't mind but it can be weird. One day I was home alone and I answered the phone. It was some guy trying to get us to switch phone companies. I...
    AbbyS94 AbbyS94 70+, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    I'm a pretty shy person. I don't normally introduce myself to people. But once we get to know each other it's hard to shut me up. It's weird though cuz at home I'm super crazy and...
    therealpinkpony therealpinkpony 13-15, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    Since I have been on EP, I have done a lot of writing. I share my stories, feelings, hopes and dreams with you because it's a good outlet for me. I come here and feel very much at...
    lavendersea lavendersea 41-45, F 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    We met in person about a month ago. I wanted to wait until after I had my hair done and could look my prettiest, but he had this amazing coercive ability to get his way. I met him...
    IlovePinkpanties IlovePinkpanties 41-45, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I finished my postgraduate degree at the end of 2014 and since then I have been looking for a stable job and a chance to kick-start a career in a political policy/education/NGO...
    JTeire90 JTeire90 22-25, M 4 Responses Feb 14

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    nothing hotter then a tough and out going woman. especially if they are dominate I love that. I know it is weird but for sure what I like.
    chrisgambino9 chrisgambino9 31-35, M Feb 16

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    I wouldn't know how to handle life and it's tough situations had I not been through what I've been through growing up. It made me who I am today.
    Born2Inspire Born2Inspire 18-21, M Feb 18

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    I am becoming even more and more sensitive everyday , I wasn't like this before. It is becoming a little ridiculous. I wonder why, what's the reason .. I thought we are supposed...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 20

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    I'm older,wiser,not as naive. Life can make one very thick skinned and much tougher,when it knocks you down over and over again. So I live one day at a time,expecting nothing,yet I...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M 2 Responses Feb 20

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    We adopted a four-month-old puppy Saturday and when we put him in his crate at night he whines and keeps us all awake. We put him in the same room as our other dog's kennel tonight...
    PearlRose PearlRose 18-21 Feb 23

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    It's difficult to admit but I do. It has been so long since I've had the slightest bit of affection or intimacy. I try to deny it, as it makes me feel like a failure for not...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    She thinks she's always right! And just can't stand anyone contradicting or not agreeing with her! Everytime I don't agree with her she starts talking with me very agressively and...
    escapemyreality escapemyreality 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    there is nothing I want more than to be a mum, but due to problems with fertility its just not happening and my boyfriend refuses to adopt or foster what should I do??
    honeycustard honeycustard 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 10

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    my mum drains the hell out of all her kids with manipulation and control. she constantly seeks negative attention and puts her boyfriend first. I'm lucky I can see it and moved...
    MrsBitcher MrsBitcher 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    Well today I finally got the courage to walk up to my mum and grab her ***. But I chickened out at the last second and didn't do anything, just sort of, awkwardly shimmied past her...
    weirdanimelover weirdanimelover 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 22

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    I'm still grounded and I dunno when I'll get another chance to be on. My Mum is being really really strict and I'm sorry. I miss you all so much! I'm alive for now and I hope to...
    AleaAndLexi AleaAndLexi 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 23

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    I wannna **** my mumy doo hard :(
    lelog lelog 22-25, M Feb 24

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    Just found my mum's panties that she wore today, I licked and sniffed them for a good few minutes. Feel really nervous now
    weirdanimelover weirdanimelover 26-30, M a week ago

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    hello everyone It took me some time to understand my husband's behaviour because over the years he has successfully made me feel crazy. He seemed to be a charming, quiet...
    froggy7827 froggy7827 56-60, F 5 days ago

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    He wants to go to a hotel for a night, so no-one can bother us when we do it. Great idea, I have to admit I'm a bit nervous but he's too so that will be fine. But, It's my first...
    ABACDEE ABACDEE 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Love is... being happy for the other person when they are happy being sad for the person when they are sad being together in good times and being together in bad times Love Is The...
    ImForYouOnly ImForYouOnly 36-40, M Feb 8