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I Am Too Indecisive

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 223 People

    I Am Having Problems At Work.

    My mind could not comprehend what I was seeing. A coworker was lying on paperwork, not doing her job duties, not able to enter basic reports into a computer, allowing lines to run at our work without being approved, not performing quality checks on a line for 8 hours. And after...
    maggie0285 maggie0285 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 14, 2012

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    Indecisive ...

    I am so indecisive i thought ''hmm yeah i'll join that group'' then thought ''no actually i won't it will be full of indecisive people'' ... and here i am people! x
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F Aug 17, 2013

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    Diseased.

    I AM DISEASED. I CAN NOT DECIDE. I CAN NOT COMMIT. I AM INSANE. Can someone help me? Please......put me out of my misery......
    transienthope transienthope 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 13, 2012

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    Oh, My!

    Uh oh, I'm suffering from a severe case of indecisiveness! I can't make up my mind, yo!
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Nov 27, 2011

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     I Don't Know Mayb...

     I don't know maybe, maybe not, Im not sure...
    PrivatePisces PrivatePisces 36-40, F Jul 26, 2009

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    I'm stuck between wanting to live out in a

    forest in a shack like a swamp with and wanting to live in a huge castle like royalty.
    Alwaysrabbit Alwaysrabbit 18-21, F Dec 31, 2014

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    Just About the Little Things!

    I can make big lifechanging decisions fairly easily - I know what I want to do, I make a decision and I do it...but ask me what i want for lunch, where i want to go for a drink etc and i am completely lost!! I have thought a lot about this - very surprising, I know!! But I...
    Flugelblues Flugelblues 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 5, 2008

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    Scared Somehow

    Sometimes I feel like life just gives me way too many options. I have about a zillion possible futures, and I have to pick ONE. Only one. Every decision I make is going to have consequences, and I dread facing the point where there's no turning back. I'm still young, I don't want...
    TheRealJade TheRealJade 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 22, 2011

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    Used To Be

    I used to be indecisive , but now i am not so sure .lol
    satman satman 46-50, M 7 Responses Mar 19, 2010

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    I need to go to school like now.

    I'm torn. Physician assistant for dental hygiene? I'm almost 30...and would like to have kids you know...but how will I be able to do that going to school? II'm already in the dental field but want something more rewarding...which is why I'm seeking PA. But Idk anything about...
    kmarie05 kmarie05 26-30, F Dec 24, 2013

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    Just Me

    BUT I"M STILL CUTE!!!!!!!lmao
    gingerruffin1 gingerruffin1 16-17, F Feb 22, 2008

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    Why is it that some decisions take FOREVER to

    make? I spent 90 mins looking at luggage today and in the end only got 1 of the 2. What is the though process behind indecision? Sometimes I wish Harvey Dent was my counsel..
    LillBills LillBills 26-30, F Jan 12

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    So Scared of Making the Wrong Decisions That I Cant Make Them At All

    no matter what it is.. i worry my decision will be irreversible and if i make the wrong choice.. i'll be a failure its this fear that makes me so indecisive and means i find it very difficult to make choices because im scared i will regret them. its good because it...
    aussiedreamer aussiedreamer 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 24, 2009

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    Maybe Yes, Maybe No

    Yes and I hate when I do that! I start to buy something and change my mind.Get dressed to go here and end up going there..wasn't sure if I should write this ..am I indecisive..oh yeah.What a pain that habit is.
    wiseowl wiseowl 61-65, F Feb 22, 2008

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    This Is Pathetic

    When my friends and I are planning on going out we literally sit in a conference call asking "I don't know, what do you want to do?", again and again and again.
    desieyez desieyez 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 22, 2008

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    Marriage Proposal- Indecisive

    Just to give you a bit of history about myself to understand my situation better: Always dated wrong guys...who mistreated me, took me for a ride, false hope.... Finally met the right guy who treats me with the upmost respect and appreciates me for Me .. he is truly a...
    Michella Michella 31-35 1 Response Jun 16, 2009

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    Don't Want Regrets

    I can't handle dealing with any regrets, which make it harder for me to make decisions for myself. I'm a twin, so naturally I followed after whatever decisions she made, but now that we're grown up and apart I have to make my own decisions and I can't do it! I even use silly...
    crazybananas crazybananas 18-21, F Mar 4, 2008

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    Wavering And Conflicted.

    I love too much and not at all. I have no middle ground, no medium. These emotions swell, burst, and drown me. And then these emotions dry up like they never existed.
    ilikeraccoons ilikeraccoons 18-21, F Aug 17, 2013

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    I don't know what to do with myself.

    I struggle to make decisions from anything like what I'd like to eat before work or what career path I'd like to attack. I find myself second guessing everything. I strive for the best of the best but it never seems to be enough. I truly feel there's always something better out...
    blackathlete1 blackathlete1 26-30, M Apr 25, 2014

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    It's so weird how the actions of people before you ripple outwards and impact your life. I can't stand the thought of just "trusting" someone. People have never given me a reason...
    ThatSenpaiWithTheHat ThatSenpaiWithTheHat 18-21, M 5 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    So the other day I was contacted by my ex-husband's now ex-girlfriend who is now 22. She was in dire necessity and need to speak to me about him and some of the things that just...
    Bssanglergrl1 Bssanglergrl1 36-40 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    I think I'm broken. I have been broken. There have been too many things in my life that have left too deep an impact. I have trouble being happy. I know what could make me happy...
    aquiver aquiver 26-30, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I knew i was getting a little heavy. I knew I had gotten pretty chunky bit I didn't care. My belly started to bulge and hang a little. My pecs got a little soft and bulbous. My...
    Feedeebyaccident8 Feedeebyaccident8 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    I do everything too much. I drink too much, I smoke too much, I have too much sex, I do too many drugs. But it's still fun.
    CigaretteEater CigaretteEater 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    i feel too deeply for people, i feel i push people away or make them feel awkward. i just think think think and its always negative. i think i scare people away that i care for. i...
    ForgetableMe ForgetableMe 31-35, M 3 days ago

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    Last night I decided to reorganise my "bucket list" into a "pre baby list". To be honest- I was far too complacent to get my a*se in gear to get anywhere with the bucket list...
    GalateaSpheres GalateaSpheres 36-40, F 11 Responses 3 days ago

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    So, it's two and a half hours after I took the second pills, when I was reading, I learned most people take four pills, I was only given three. I expect the reason behind this was...
    RedcatFringeAvenger RedcatFringeAvenger 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Anyone else has this please? I click "me too", but nothing happens. Some "me too" buttons" even show upside down. Is it the computer or a temporary problem? I might try again...
    AngelicLights AngelicLights 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    its just too much so alone no one to talk too no to love me care for me all alone scared feeling loser i don't want to live i want help but who will oh god are you even there...
    evilkilllingme evilkilllingme 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    Yes it's true, I drank too much! WATER! I beat the heat with a constant drink in my hand. The weekend was great! All people and animals made it through the terrible heat safely...
    HotMessExpress101 HotMessExpress101 31-35, F 10 Responses 6 days ago

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    It was an unusually busy day for the hospital staff on the sixth floor. Ten new patients were admitted and Nurse Susan spent the morning and afternoon checking them in. Her friend...
    aliveisawesome aliveisawesome 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I have a hard time of finding a middle ground. Either i care too much or not enough.. I can't stop thinking about things that most of the time i shouldn't even be worried about.. I...
    EternityF EternityF 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I always say, I don't talk to fast, you listen too damn slow. I talk fast already, so when I get excited it does not help. I do Tech Support for a living and when I am stumped...
    ThatGirlIsPoison23 ThatGirlIsPoison23 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I tried I failed There is no safety in living my truth Only regret The explosion of my heart and mind The joy The sorrow The fascination The anger The love It is too much to...
    jacquelinejones jacquelinejones 46-50 2 Responses Jun 26

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    God, I’m so tired... 12:26 am. The sound of my own breathing is annoying me and I can’t sleep. Every little twitch and itch feels like a spider taking a stroll cross my arm...
    drfate drfate 31-35, F 8 Responses Jun 26

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    seriously. that'll be 26, too young to be, but too old to be.lol
    vf702 vf702 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 25

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    I have very few female friends in my life, all of them are online (like all 3 of them lol) because I have trouble talking to girls, i either come off as really awkward or really...
    TheReverseFlash TheReverseFlash 16-17, M 3 Responses Jun 25

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    I am that guy you were too shy to talk to. Yes, I know I'm awesome (at least now I do but didn't always). No I don't accept shortchange. No, I don't just assume that you would be...
    Mossonarock Mossonarock 41-45, M 3 Responses Jun 24

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    Hello everyone! There is this guy that I like, he is already 34 and im 22. I really like him and he knows it but I guess he thinks Im too young and immature for him thats why he is...
    chrisdee26 chrisdee26 18-21, M 3 Responses Jun 24

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    I used to think that I took a wrong turn with life somewhere along the lines. That was because I couldn't be bothered to ask for some directions or some help. Yeah I know before...
    Jericho7 Jericho7 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 23

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    It was my 25th birthday. I wanted to get away and do something different, go some where scenic, connect with nature, pay homage to the blessing of life that the universe has...
    inthyvibe inthyvibe 22-25, F Jun 23

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    I've posted this before, a long time ago. I've struggled with a certain aspect of my personality a lot this year. It's going to be challenged again, to a greater extent, pretty...
    LolaRosa LolaRosa 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 23

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