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I Am Too Indecisive

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    Wavering And Conflicted.

    I love too much and not at all. I have no middle ground, no medium. These emotions swell, burst, and drown me. And then these emotions dry up like they never existed.
    ilikeraccoons ilikeraccoons 18-21, F Aug 17, 2013

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    Scared Somehow

    Sometimes I feel like life just gives me way too many options. I have about a zillion possible futures, and I have to pick ONE. Only one. Every decision I make is going to have consequences, and I dread facing the point where there's no turning back. I'm still young, I don't want...
    TheRealJade TheRealJade 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 22, 2011

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    Just Me

    BUT I"M STILL CUTE!!!!!!!lmao
    gingerruffin1 gingerruffin1 16-17, F Feb 22, 2008

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    I'm stuck between wanting to live out in a

    forest in a shack like a swamp with and wanting to live in a huge castle like royalty.
    Alwaysrabbit Alwaysrabbit 18-21, F Dec 31, 2014

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     I Don't Know Mayb...

     I don't know maybe, maybe not, Im not sure...
    PrivatePisces PrivatePisces 36-40, F Jul 26, 2009

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    Just About the Little Things!

    I can make big lifechanging decisions fairly easily - I know what I want to do, I make a decision and I do it...but ask me what i want for lunch, where i want to go for a drink etc and i am completely lost!! I have thought a lot about this - very surprising, I know!! But I...
    Flugelblues Flugelblues 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 5, 2008

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    I need to go to school like now.

    I'm torn. Physician assistant for dental hygiene? I'm almost 30...and would like to have kids you know...but how will I be able to do that going to school? II'm already in the dental field but want something more rewarding...which is why I'm seeking PA. But Idk anything about...
    kmarie05 kmarie05 26-30, F Dec 24, 2013

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    I Am Having Problems At Work.

    My mind could not comprehend what I was seeing. A coworker was lying on paperwork, not doing her job duties, not able to enter basic reports into a computer, allowing lines to run at our work without being approved, not performing quality checks on a line for 8 hours. And after...
    maggie0285 maggie0285 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 14, 2012

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    Used To Be

    I used to be indecisive , but now i am not so sure .lol
    satman satman 46-50, M 7 Responses Mar 19, 2010

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    This Is Pathetic

    When my friends and I are planning on going out we literally sit in a conference call asking "I don't know, what do you want to do?", again and again and again.
    desieyez desieyez 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 22, 2008

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    So Scared of Making the Wrong Decisions That I Cant Make Them At All

    no matter what it is.. i worry my decision will be irreversible and if i make the wrong choice.. i'll be a failure its this fear that makes me so indecisive and means i find it very difficult to make choices because im scared i will regret them. its good because it...
    aussiedreamer aussiedreamer 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 24, 2009

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    Don't Want Regrets

    I can't handle dealing with any regrets, which make it harder for me to make decisions for myself. I'm a twin, so naturally I followed after whatever decisions she made, but now that we're grown up and apart I have to make my own decisions and I can't do it! I even use silly...
    crazybananas crazybananas 18-21, F Mar 4, 2008

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    Diseased.

    I AM DISEASED. I CAN NOT DECIDE. I CAN NOT COMMIT. I AM INSANE. Can someone help me? Please......put me out of my misery......
    transienthope transienthope 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 13, 2012

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    Maybe Yes, Maybe No

    Yes and I hate when I do that! I start to buy something and change my mind.Get dressed to go here and end up going there..wasn't sure if I should write this ..am I indecisive..oh yeah.What a pain that habit is.
    wiseowl wiseowl 61-65, F Feb 22, 2008

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    Marriage Proposal- Indecisive

    Just to give you a bit of history about myself to understand my situation better: Always dated wrong guys...who mistreated me, took me for a ride, false hope.... Finally met the right guy who treats me with the upmost respect and appreciates me for Me .. he is truly a...
    Michella Michella 31-35 1 Response Jun 16, 2009

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    Why is it that some decisions take FOREVER to

    make? I spent 90 mins looking at luggage today and in the end only got 1 of the 2. What is the though process behind indecision? Sometimes I wish Harvey Dent was my counsel..
    LillBills LillBills 26-30, F Jan 12, 2015

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    I don't know what to do with myself.

    I struggle to make decisions from anything like what I'd like to eat before work or what career path I'd like to attack. I find myself second guessing everything. I strive for the best of the best but it never seems to be enough. I truly feel there's always something better out...
    blackathlete1 blackathlete1 26-30, M Apr 25, 2014

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    Indecisive ...

    I am so indecisive i thought ''hmm yeah i'll join that group'' then thought ''no actually i won't it will be full of indecisive people'' ... and here i am people! x
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F Aug 17, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I do too, and everything is pushing them including but not limited to school, media, & peers. It is terrible. They need to be children , they will be grown up forever.
    silverwings2012 silverwings2012 61-65, F 1 hr ago

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    Life is too short to wake up with regrets. Believe everything happens for a reason. If you get a second chance, grab it with both hands. If it changes your life, let it. No one...
    Q2013 Q2013 46-50, F 3 hrs ago

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    I think that I over think things too much. I've tried to meet women and I'm very open from the very beginning and start enjoying chats but on 9 out of every 10 times the women are...
    BigDean1471 BigDean1471 41-45, M 6 hrs ago

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    I aaaaaaaalways think toooooo much!! 😖😑 I think if the tiniest detail especially when I'm with my close friends I always think about what I said and how I reacted , what...
    tachibana12 tachibana12 18-21, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    What do you think too skinny is? I think under 700 lbs
    flabforlife flabforlife 13-15, M 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Each scar that has healed over my torn flesh is mine. No one else’s. Many by my own hand. Most hidden beneath the skin. But why do so many insignificant of happening bother me to...
    SeekingMyUnkown SeekingMyUnkown 26-30, M 20 hrs ago

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    Suffocating head locked down, feel you crenching my throat Was knocked by the blood clot to my brain I tried to make peace but it seems nothings better without you Hopeless...
    LeahLovee LeahLovee 70+, F 2 days ago

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    Screwing me good, that’s what I sought to have you do Use to be us now you're gone I'm here working hard to improve So far away I'm here doing good without you Working hard...
    LeahLovee LeahLovee 70+, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    This is really funny! I took the quiz and it says I'm supposed to smell like a peach, plus all this other stuff below. You are sensual and flirtatious. You always make sure to...
    MaddietheGoalie MaddietheGoalie 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    Ugh especially at school when the lunch room area or a class room gets too loud. All those voices talking at once. It gets too loud that I get annoyed and I feel like yelling at...
    EnigmaticPerson EnigmaticPerson 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    i write and pour out on these pages. far too much of myself. mostly because i dont care anymore. i have a lot to sort out in life so writing here sort of helps. i doubt i...
    ArnoldJRimmer ArnoldJRimmer 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 25

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    Do you ever read people's stories and never talk to them, but feel a connection? Just go, yep, I know how you feel. I'm, most of the time, too shy to talk to people anywhere but...
    justonelk justonelk 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 23

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    Its so easy for me to get emotionally attached to someone and it could even be someone who doesn't feel the same for me. The sad thing about getting attached too easy is that in...
    bluesky1223 bluesky1223 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 22

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    I'm too young to feel this old. >)):( the amount of worries I have for my age is astounding.
    hellokitty206 hellokitty206 22-25 1 Response Jan 22

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    ive been slacking a lot, lacking in some stuff too. i want too ask for help but im to pride full to do so
    callmeally callmeally 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    I need help with my eating disorder and see someone but I'm too proud to admit how bad it is and that I need more help
    beccahayley beccahayley 18-21, F Jan 22

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    I think I am done with Ebay , too many bad experiences!!!!
    theusunghero3 theusunghero3 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 21

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    At the moment I feel painfully traumatised and I feel deeply hated and it is hurting me so much ... I hate my mother and I won't allow her to abuse me anymore ..she never liked me...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 21

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    At the moment I feel painfully traumatised and I feel deeply hated and it is hurting me so much ... I hate my mother and I won't allow her to abuse me anymore ..she never liked me...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 21

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    By intense meaning deep... into serious talk (not all the time of course), and really into getting to know people who want to either be in my circle or maintain a conversation with...
    LadyHeartnMind LadyHeartnMind 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 21

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    How do you look? what are you wearing? can you send me a picture? are some of the questions I get asked on ep because I am a female. Remember I am a minor and if you creeps go too...
    OnlySomeSparkle OnlySomeSparkle 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    its funny that most people find it hard to believe that am 20 and that my sister looks is 4 years younger than me lol she is even much taller than me am only 5'4.5 too bad I cant...
    prettykatey prettykatey 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 20

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    i was very slim at 130 but now i weight 175, the last year i started to eat too much junk food at college but i didnt notice my gain until a close friend told that my belly was...
    Fattyboy1990 Fattyboy1990 22-25, M Jan 20

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    I've always thought it was silly how people criticized athletes, entertainers, or actor/actresses for making too much money, or comparing them to soldiers, teachers, or police...
    brownowleyes brownowleyes 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 20

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