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I Am Too Indecisive

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    I don't know what to do with myself.

    I struggle to make decisions from anything like what I'd like to eat before work or what career path I'd like to attack. I find myself second guessing everything. I strive for the best of the best but it never seems to be enough. I truly feel there's always something better out...
    blackathlete1 blackathlete1 26-30, M Apr 25, 2014

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    Used To Be

    I used to be indecisive , but now i am not so sure .lol
    satman satman 46-50, M 7 Responses Mar 19, 2010

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    Oh, My!

    Uh oh, I'm suffering from a severe case of indecisiveness! I can't make up my mind, yo!
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Nov 27, 2011

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    Don't Want Regrets

    I can't handle dealing with any regrets, which make it harder for me to make decisions for myself. I'm a twin, so naturally I followed after whatever decisions she made, but now that we're grown up and apart I have to make my own decisions and I can't do it! I even use silly...
    crazybananas crazybananas 19-21, F Mar 4, 2008

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    Maybe Yes, Maybe No

    Yes and I hate when I do that! I start to buy something and change my mind.Get dressed to go here and end up going there..wasn't sure if I should write this ..am I indecisive..oh yeah.What a pain that habit is.
    wiseowl wiseowl 61-65, F Feb 22, 2008

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    This Is Pathetic

    When my friends and I are planning on going out we literally sit in a conference call asking "I don't know, what do you want to do?", again and again and again.
    desieyez desieyez 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 22, 2008

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    Wavering And Conflicted.

    I love too much and not at all. I have no middle ground, no medium. These emotions swell, burst, and drown me. And then these emotions dry up like they never existed.
    ilikeraccoons ilikeraccoons 18-21, F Aug 17, 2013

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    Scared Somehow

    Sometimes I feel like life just gives me way too many options. I have about a zillion possible futures, and I have to pick ONE. Only one. Every decision I make is going to have consequences, and I dread facing the point where there's no turning back. I'm still young, I don't want...
    TheRealJade TheRealJade 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 22, 2011

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     I Don't Know Mayb...

     I don't know maybe, maybe not, Im not sure...
    PrivatePisces PrivatePisces 36-40, F Jul 26, 2009

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    So Scared of Making the Wrong Decisions That I Cant Make Them At All

    no matter what it is.. i worry my decision will be irreversible and if i make the wrong choice.. i'll be a failure its this fear that makes me so indecisive and means i find it very difficult to make choices because im scared i will regret them. its good because it...
    aussiedreamer aussiedreamer 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 24, 2009

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    I'm stuck between wanting to live out in a

    forest in a shack like a swamp with and wanting to live in a huge castle like royalty.
    Alwaysrabbit Alwaysrabbit 16-17, F Dec 31, 2014

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    Marriage Proposal- Indecisive

    Just to give you a bit of history about myself to understand my situation better: Always dated wrong guys...who mistreated me, took me for a ride, false hope.... Finally met the right guy who treats me with the upmost respect and appreciates me for Me .. he is truly a...
    Michella Michella 31-35 1 Response Jun 16, 2009

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    Diseased.

    I AM DISEASED. I CAN NOT DECIDE. I CAN NOT COMMIT. I AM INSANE. Can someone help me? Please......put me out of my misery......
    transienthope transienthope 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 13, 2012

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    Just About the Little Things!

    I can make big lifechanging decisions fairly easily - I know what I want to do, I make a decision and I do it...but ask me what i want for lunch, where i want to go for a drink etc and i am completely lost!! I have thought a lot about this - very surprising, I know!! But I...
    Flugelblues Flugelblues 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 5, 2008

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    Just Me

    BUT I"M STILL CUTE!!!!!!!lmao
    gingerruffin1 gingerruffin1 16-18, F Feb 22, 2008

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    Indecisive ...

    I am so indecisive i thought ''hmm yeah i'll join that group'' then thought ''no actually i won't it will be full of indecisive people'' ... and here i am people! x
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F Aug 17, 2013

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    I Am Having Problems At Work.

    My mind could not comprehend what I was seeing. A coworker was lying on paperwork, not doing her job duties, not able to enter basic reports into a computer, allowing lines to run at our work without being approved, not performing quality checks on a line for 8 hours. And after...
    maggie0285 maggie0285 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 14, 2012

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    I need to go to school like now.

    I'm torn. Physician assistant for dental hygiene? I'm almost 30...and would like to have kids you know...but how will I be able to do that going to school? II'm already in the dental field but want something more rewarding...which is why I'm seeking PA. But Idk anything about...
    kmarie05 kmarie05 26-30, F Dec 24, 2013

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    Why is it that some decisions take FOREVER to

    make? I spent 90 mins looking at luggage today and in the end only got 1 of the 2. What is the though process behind indecision? Sometimes I wish Harvey Dent was my counsel..
    LillBills LillBills 26-30, F Jan 12

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    I tend to think I have become this way because of my childhood, I have always been the only son, so I played mostly alone, hence I had to talk to my self, friends aren't...
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    I like that everyone posts experiences about thinking too much. I can relate alot!. I think about this and that... "Oh no".. something. Or some idea i will puzzle with all day...
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    Valentine's Day and I took a chance. All too often I talk myself out of doing or saying things I really want to out of fear of rejection. But today I took a chance and there was...
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    I have way too much on my plate and I'm not even HUNGRY!! I have so many things to do and NEVER enough time to do it all! On the other hand I have plenty of time to all I need to...
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    i wont change for no one!! ok, granted that when the going gets tough,i stand firm and stand up for myself, but what i dont get, is why so many nice people,want to become...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 1 Response Feb 10

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    Maybe they should have an expiry date on how long you can stay here. After which your account just blows up. Kind of like the movie Logans Run, where when you reached the age of 30...
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    I can't be even the tiniest bit rude or mean to anyone, even if they deserve it. I feel absolutely terrible if I hurt someone's feelings... It's too bad being "too nice" leads to...
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    I have been worrying too much since I was a little kid. If my mother comes to pick me up a little bit later I would start to worry if she were killed by someone or killed someone...
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    Hello everyone! I took this personality test called the "Jung Typology Test". I knew of this test long before taking it, but when it was sent to me as a link in a response I...
    Unalike Unalike 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 17

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    ummm. yeah, they're too short: let's start with the five day work week (or school if you're too young) hell, I'm in college and work part time. and if you're into church then you...
    PorkythePig PorkythePig 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 19

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    I think too much to the point where I spiral into despair. I worry I'm not making the most out of my life or I'm not living up to the person I set out to be. It got so bad that I...
    eveylind eveylind 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 22

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    what if my family stops caring about me all together? what if i never get married? what if suddenly i had no friends at all? what if next year i go to college and i don't do good...
    randomgirl42 randomgirl42 18-21, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    I mean to say I think we're encouraged to think too much. I've thought about it a lot. Too much actually. My parents were pretty strict but fair.I was encouraged to think for...
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