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I Am Too Indecisive

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    Like right now I'm asking myself do I want to

    play skyrim some more or do I want to go back to sleep :/
    TheAmazingSpiderJoe TheAmazingSpiderJoe 18-21, M Jul 17

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    Used To Be

    I used to be indecisive , but now i am not so sure .lol
    satman satman 46-50, M 7 Responses Mar 19, 2010

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    So Scared of Making the Wrong Decisions That I Cant Make Them At All

    no matter what it is.. i worry my decision will be irreversible and if i make the wrong choice.. i'll be a failure its this fear that makes me so indecisive and means i find it very difficult to make choices because im scared i will regret them. its good because it...
    aussiedreamer aussiedreamer 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 24, 2009

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    Just Me

    BUT I"M STILL CUTE!!!!!!!lmao
    gingerruffin1 gingerruffin1 16-18, F Feb 22, 2008

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    I don't know what to do with myself.

    I struggle to make decisions from anything like what I'd like to eat before work or what career path I'd like to attack. I find myself second guessing everything. I strive for the best of the best but it never seems to be enough. I truly feel there's always something better out...
    blackathlete1 blackathlete1 26-30, M Apr 25

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    Maybe Yes, Maybe No

    Yes and I hate when I do that! I start to buy something and change my mind.Get dressed to go here and end up going there..wasn't sure if I should write this ..am I indecisive..oh yeah.What a pain that habit is.
    wiseowl wiseowl 61-65, F Feb 22, 2008

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    Just About the Little Things!

    I can make big lifechanging decisions fairly easily - I know what I want to do, I make a decision and I do it...but ask me what i want for lunch, where i want to go for a drink etc and i am completely lost!! I have thought a lot about this - very surprising, I know!! But I...
    Flugelblues Flugelblues 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 5, 2008

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    This Is Pathetic

    When my friends and I are planning on going out we literally sit in a conference call asking "I don't know, what do you want to do?", again and again and again.
    desieyez desieyez 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 22, 2008

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    I Am Having Problems At Work.

    My mind could not comprehend what I was seeing. A coworker was lying on paperwork, not doing her job duties, not able to enter basic reports into a computer, allowing lines to run at our work without being approved, not performing quality checks on a line for 8 hours. And after...
    maggie0285 maggie0285 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 14, 2012

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    Wavering And Conflicted.

    I love too much and not at all. I have no middle ground, no medium. These emotions swell, burst, and drown me. And then these emotions dry up like they never existed.
    ilikeraccoons ilikeraccoons 18-21, F Aug 17, 2013

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    Indecisive ...

    I am so indecisive i thought ''hmm yeah i'll join that group'' then thought ''no actually i won't it will be full of indecisive people'' ... and here i am people! x
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F Aug 17, 2013

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    Don't Want Regrets

    I can't handle dealing with any regrets, which make it harder for me to make decisions for myself. I'm a twin, so naturally I followed after whatever decisions she made, but now that we're grown up and apart I have to make my own decisions and I can't do it! I even use silly...
    crazybananas crazybananas 19-21, F Mar 4, 2008

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    Oh, My!

    Uh oh, I'm suffering from a severe case of indecisiveness! I can't make up my mind, yo!
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M Nov 27, 2011

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    Diseased.

    I AM DISEASED. I CAN NOT DECIDE. I CAN NOT COMMIT. I AM INSANE. Can someone help me? Please......put me out of my misery......
    transienthope transienthope 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 13, 2012

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    At least I think I am.

    Sometimes I am sure I am then other times I am not sure....... Get it? x
    jumpersforgoalposts jumpersforgoalposts 46-50, M May 5

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    I need to go to school like now.

    I'm torn. Physician assistant for dental hygiene? I'm almost 30...and would like to have kids you know...but how will I be able to do that going to school? II'm already in the dental field but want something more rewarding...which is why I'm seeking PA. But Idk anything about...
    kmarie05 kmarie05 26-30, F Dec 24, 2013

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    Scared Somehow

    Sometimes I feel like life just gives me way too many options. I have about a zillion possible futures, and I have to pick ONE. Only one. Every decision I make is going to have consequences, and I dread facing the point where there's no turning back. I'm still young, I don't want...
    TheRealJade TheRealJade 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 22, 2011

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    Marriage Proposal- Indecisive

    Just to give you a bit of history about myself to understand my situation better: Always dated wrong guys...who mistreated me, took me for a ride, false hope.... Finally met the right guy who treats me with the upmost respect and appreciates me for Me .. he is truly a...
    Michella Michella 31-35 1 Response Jun 16, 2009

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     I Don't Know Mayb...

     I don't know maybe, maybe not, Im not sure...
    PrivatePisces PrivatePisces 36-40, F Jul 26, 2009

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