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I Am Too Indecisive

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 224 People

    Wavering And Conflicted.

    I love too much and not at all. I have no middle ground, no medium. These emotions swell, burst, and drown me. And then these emotions dry up like they never existed.
    ilikeraccoons ilikeraccoons 18-21, F Aug 17, 2013

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    Just About the Little Things!

    I can make big lifechanging decisions fairly easily - I know what I want to do, I make a decision and I do it...but ask me what i want for lunch, where i want to go for a drink etc and i am completely lost!! I have thought a lot about this - very surprising, I know!! But I...
    Flugelblues Flugelblues 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 5, 2008

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    I Am Having Problems At Work.

    My mind could not comprehend what I was seeing. A coworker was lying on paperwork, not doing her job duties, not able to enter basic reports into a computer, allowing lines to run at our work without being approved, not performing quality checks on a line for 8 hours. And after...
    maggie0285 maggie0285 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 14, 2012

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    I don't know what to do with myself.

    I struggle to make decisions from anything like what I'd like to eat before work or what career path I'd like to attack. I find myself second guessing everything. I strive for the best of the best but it never seems to be enough. I truly feel there's always something better out...
    blackathlete1 blackathlete1 26-30, M Apr 25, 2014

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    Scared Somehow

    Sometimes I feel like life just gives me way too many options. I have about a zillion possible futures, and I have to pick ONE. Only one. Every decision I make is going to have consequences, and I dread facing the point where there's no turning back. I'm still young, I don't want...
    TheRealJade TheRealJade 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 22, 2011

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    Maybe Yes, Maybe No

    Yes and I hate when I do that! I start to buy something and change my mind.Get dressed to go here and end up going there..wasn't sure if I should write this ..am I indecisive..oh yeah.What a pain that habit is.
    wiseowl wiseowl 61-65, F Feb 22, 2008

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    Marriage Proposal- Indecisive

    Just to give you a bit of history about myself to understand my situation better: Always dated wrong guys...who mistreated me, took me for a ride, false hope.... Finally met the right guy who treats me with the upmost respect and appreciates me for Me .. he is truly a...
    Michella Michella 31-35 1 Response Jun 16, 2009

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    This Is Pathetic

    When my friends and I are planning on going out we literally sit in a conference call asking "I don't know, what do you want to do?", again and again and again.
    desieyez desieyez 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 22, 2008

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    Indecisive ...

    I am so indecisive i thought ''hmm yeah i'll join that group'' then thought ''no actually i won't it will be full of indecisive people'' ... and here i am people! x
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F Aug 17, 2013

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    Why is it that some decisions take FOREVER to

    make? I spent 90 mins looking at luggage today and in the end only got 1 of the 2. What is the though process behind indecision? Sometimes I wish Harvey Dent was my counsel..
    LillBills LillBills 26-30, F Jan 12

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    Don't Want Regrets

    I can't handle dealing with any regrets, which make it harder for me to make decisions for myself. I'm a twin, so naturally I followed after whatever decisions she made, but now that we're grown up and apart I have to make my own decisions and I can't do it! I even use silly...
    crazybananas crazybananas 18-21, F Mar 4, 2008

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    Used To Be

    I used to be indecisive , but now i am not so sure .lol
    satman satman 46-50, M 7 Responses Mar 19, 2010

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    I'm stuck between wanting to live out in a

    forest in a shack like a swamp with and wanting to live in a huge castle like royalty.
    Alwaysrabbit Alwaysrabbit 18-21, F Dec 31, 2014

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    Oh, My!

    Uh oh, I'm suffering from a severe case of indecisiveness! I can't make up my mind, yo!
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Nov 27, 2011

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    I need to go to school like now.

    I'm torn. Physician assistant for dental hygiene? I'm almost 30...and would like to have kids you know...but how will I be able to do that going to school? II'm already in the dental field but want something more rewarding...which is why I'm seeking PA. But Idk anything about...
    kmarie05 kmarie05 26-30, F Dec 24, 2013

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     I Don't Know Mayb...

     I don't know maybe, maybe not, Im not sure...
    PrivatePisces PrivatePisces 36-40, F Jul 26, 2009

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    Just Me

    BUT I"M STILL CUTE!!!!!!!lmao
    gingerruffin1 gingerruffin1 16-17, F Feb 22, 2008

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    So Scared of Making the Wrong Decisions That I Cant Make Them At All

    no matter what it is.. i worry my decision will be irreversible and if i make the wrong choice.. i'll be a failure its this fear that makes me so indecisive and means i find it very difficult to make choices because im scared i will regret them. its good because it...
    aussiedreamer aussiedreamer 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 24, 2009

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    Diseased.

    I AM DISEASED. I CAN NOT DECIDE. I CAN NOT COMMIT. I AM INSANE. Can someone help me? Please......put me out of my misery......
    transienthope transienthope 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 13, 2012

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    I am 26. I miss being 21. I allowed it to pass me by because I was too worried about 26. I feel too old. Damn society, put so much emphasis on "youth" that a 30 year old is a...
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    I don't thing there's a such thing as being too open about sex. People need to stop acting like sex is such a bad thing. We all know we enjoy it lol
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    I'm so tired hearing about kids my age and even much younger having boyfriends, thinking they really grown. I don't care if you're a teenager. Just because you're a teenager doesn...
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    Well, I made my own until last week, when I visited the dentist and the hygienist recommended I stop doing that. Apparently baking soda is too abrasive on the enamel to use every...
    Jillbill8 Jillbill8 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I started asking myself if I was too sensitive yesterday and I got kind of excited about it, since maybe that's the reason why I have so many problems? People have called me too...
    AmIAMaleHSP AmIAMaleHSP 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    Do you know what it's like to hide your feelings, because you don't want to get that person in trouble? Do you know what it's like to throw your studies aside, just to be by his...
    Fuzzies Fuzzies 61-65, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    A few years ago - when I was 10 years old - I was raped by my stepfather. It was a terrifying experience for me to say the least and because of that I never let anyone get too...
    hannahphillips hannahphillips 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I took a long break but I'm back. I deleted all of my stories and friends before I left. looking back now, I feel like I shouldn't have done that. I was mad at the world and wanted...
    Louder4life Louder4life 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I took my accounting 355 test on chapters 5-7. I barely paid attention to Chapter 8 in class today because I was so focused on remembering. I took a concerta and about a tablespoon...
    Chrossy Chrossy 22-25, F Jul 23

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    Some people tell me this. But I do talk to others, even more than people talk to me. Just like one of my friends, she said I am too quiet, but when I am tgt with her, she doesn't...
    Acrylic19 Acrylic19 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I'm not sure I've I'm necessarily indecisive, or if I'm just too concerned with what others may want... Like, if someone asks me what song I want to listen to, I always tell them...
    dwyli33 dwyli33 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    I'm great at making friends but not great at keeping friends. I'm great at dating but I suck at relationships. I feel loved but I don't know how to give it. I lose interest in...
    LanaKane LanaKane 70+, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I come here a lot since I am disabled and have tons of my own problems. It does a lot of good reading and replying to the posts here. I sometimes just give younger people an off...
    boldtimer boldtimer 66-70, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    Want to be taken home now. And loved by both genders. But no home. And too picky. And possibly sick.
    Converted Converted 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 17

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    I feel like I care about people too much, and wanting them to stay in my life. I work with amazing people, and although I've only known them for 2 1/2 months, one of them are going...
    Tommokia Tommokia 18-21, F Jul 17

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    I remember I took lots of pills and no one was in the house and just me everyone was somewhere I don't know and I took the pills and went to the bathroom and locked the door and I...
    winterblood winterblood 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    I'm a bartender....been one since 2007. I get some real characters in here....I hear some real stories. The other night these two guys came in...took a seat at the bar...I gave...
    1chuck2 1chuck2 31-35, M Jul 16

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    I'm so indecisive I can't even decide if I'm indecisive enough to stay in the VERY indecisive group.. Because what if I'm just NORMALLY indecisive??? Woe. :{
    yopu yopu 26-30 1 Response Jul 15

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    I feel so lost. It's like when I need my feelings to apply towards myself in terms of when it's really important, I can't. All that happens is I lose my motivation completely. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 13

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    His voice - deep, intense, gentle, and kind. His voice was the soundtrack of my summer. His caresses were the summer breezes while lounging on the grass in Trocadero. His soft...
    EshaVellu EshaVellu 31-35, F Jul 13

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    all days are too short. and this story was too short, so I made it longer as EP requested.
    goliathtree goliathtree 46-50, M 4 Responses Jul 13

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    every time something slightly triggering happens i burst into tears. Just typing this is making my eyes well up. i cry sometimes at things that are cute or sweet, but i cry a lot...
    Kosul Kosul 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I think way too much...to the point of anxiety. I really love this site. I think it's a great way to express yourself and find other like minded individuals and share your...
    marcielagox marcielagox 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 11

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