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I Am Too Indecisive

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    Just About the Little Things!

    I can make big lifechanging decisions fairly easily - I know what I want to do, I make a decision and I do it...but ask me what i want for lunch, where i want to go for a drink etc and i am completely lost!! I have thought a lot about this - very surprising, I know!! But I...
    Flugelblues Flugelblues 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 5, 2008

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    Don't Want Regrets

    I can't handle dealing with any regrets, which make it harder for me to make decisions for myself. I'm a twin, so naturally I followed after whatever decisions she made, but now that we're grown up and apart I have to make my own decisions and I can't do it! I even use silly...
    crazybananas crazybananas 18-21, F Mar 4, 2008

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    So Scared of Making the Wrong Decisions That I Cant Make Them At All

    no matter what it is.. i worry my decision will be irreversible and if i make the wrong choice.. i'll be a failure its this fear that makes me so indecisive and means i find it very difficult to make choices because im scared i will regret them. its good because it...
    aussiedreamer aussiedreamer 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 24, 2009

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    Oh, My!

    Uh oh, I'm suffering from a severe case of indecisiveness! I can't make up my mind, yo!
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Nov 27, 2011

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    I don't know what to do with myself.

    I struggle to make decisions from anything like what I'd like to eat before work or what career path I'd like to attack. I find myself second guessing everything. I strive for the best of the best but it never seems to be enough. I truly feel there's always something better out...
    blackathlete1 blackathlete1 26-30, M Apr 25, 2014

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    Marriage Proposal- Indecisive

    Just to give you a bit of history about myself to understand my situation better: Always dated wrong guys...who mistreated me, took me for a ride, false hope.... Finally met the right guy who treats me with the upmost respect and appreciates me for Me .. he is truly a...
    Michella Michella 31-35 1 Response Jun 16, 2009

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    Used To Be

    I used to be indecisive , but now i am not so sure .lol
    satman satman 46-50, M 7 Responses Mar 19, 2010

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    This Is Pathetic

    When my friends and I are planning on going out we literally sit in a conference call asking "I don't know, what do you want to do?", again and again and again.
    desieyez desieyez 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 22, 2008

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    I Am Having Problems At Work.

    My mind could not comprehend what I was seeing. A coworker was lying on paperwork, not doing her job duties, not able to enter basic reports into a computer, allowing lines to run at our work without being approved, not performing quality checks on a line for 8 hours. And after...
    maggie0285 maggie0285 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 14, 2012

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    I need to go to school like now.

    I'm torn. Physician assistant for dental hygiene? I'm almost 30...and would like to have kids you know...but how will I be able to do that going to school? II'm already in the dental field but want something more rewarding...which is why I'm seeking PA. But Idk anything about...
    kmarie05 kmarie05 26-30, F Dec 24, 2013

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    Maybe Yes, Maybe No

    Yes and I hate when I do that! I start to buy something and change my mind.Get dressed to go here and end up going there..wasn't sure if I should write this ..am I indecisive..oh yeah.What a pain that habit is.
    wiseowl wiseowl 61-65, F Feb 22, 2008

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    I'm stuck between wanting to live out in a

    forest in a shack like a swamp with and wanting to live in a huge castle like royalty.
    Alwaysrabbit Alwaysrabbit 18-21, F Dec 31, 2014

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    Indecisive ...

    I am so indecisive i thought ''hmm yeah i'll join that group'' then thought ''no actually i won't it will be full of indecisive people'' ... and here i am people! x
    deadinsideout deadinsideout 26-30, F Aug 17, 2013

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    Just Me

    BUT I"M STILL CUTE!!!!!!!lmao
    gingerruffin1 gingerruffin1 16-17, F Feb 22, 2008

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    Wavering And Conflicted.

    I love too much and not at all. I have no middle ground, no medium. These emotions swell, burst, and drown me. And then these emotions dry up like they never existed.
    ilikeraccoons ilikeraccoons 18-21, F Aug 17, 2013

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     I Don't Know Mayb...

     I don't know maybe, maybe not, Im not sure...
    PrivatePisces PrivatePisces 36-40, F Jul 26, 2009

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    Scared Somehow

    Sometimes I feel like life just gives me way too many options. I have about a zillion possible futures, and I have to pick ONE. Only one. Every decision I make is going to have consequences, and I dread facing the point where there's no turning back. I'm still young, I don't want...
    TheRealJade TheRealJade 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 22, 2011

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    Diseased.

    I AM DISEASED. I CAN NOT DECIDE. I CAN NOT COMMIT. I AM INSANE. Can someone help me? Please......put me out of my misery......
    transienthope transienthope 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 13, 2012

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    Why is it that some decisions take FOREVER to

    make? I spent 90 mins looking at luggage today and in the end only got 1 of the 2. What is the though process behind indecision? Sometimes I wish Harvey Dent was my counsel..
    LillBills LillBills 26-30, F Jan 12

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    Related Experiences

    I can be indecisive. But then... sometimes I'm not. Oh well. Today is a new day! Who knows which way I'll go! ;)
    emerald emerald 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 30

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    Whenever i start talking to anyone new i always get attached too fast, i dont know why i do this and whats wrong with me but its like i give a piece of my heart to everyone i meet...
    Gertrude95 Gertrude95 18-21, F 6 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    i think about life too much. i feel too many emotions. its hard to handle them.
    AlisonAnnAbby AlisonAnnAbby 22-25, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    after not pooping for two days and eating tons of food, i drank some strong coffee and took a walk. when i was almost back home, i felt a massive fart drop into my rectum. I ran...
    selenaloco selenaloco 22-25, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Just took this one http://www.alphawomanthebook.com/quiz/alpha-beta-personality-types/ I'm a red.
    Pippa131 Pippa131 36-40, F 12 hrs ago

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    I think I fall in love too easy. This girls everything I want. But so was the last, until I realized I don't want an exotic short girl, I like Irish girls who are taller because I...
    BillyOMalley BillyOMalley 18-21, M 4 hrs ago

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    I m human too , i can't be perfect on everything , but i am trying my best to be the perfect one for my love , I am trying...
    Yujiet Yujiet 18-21, M 1 hr ago

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    Are you one of those people who are concerned about their stained teeth, and want them to be pearly white, just like the sparkling teeth of a baby? Then visiting your dentist for a...
    deepakrajput deepakrajput 22-25, M May 12

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    I'm hurting too much inside. I think I'm going to have a breakdown or depression because of just a small thing. I have no friends to talk to about my issues and in keeping too much...
    loveumybabyliam loveumybabyliam 18-21, F 1 Response May 3

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    Am I too young to be married? I'm almost 20 now and I got married 18. I have a baby 7 months. I feel like my mind is affected emotionally to a lot of things. Maybe is it becos im...
    loveumybabyliam loveumybabyliam 18-21, F May 3

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    I met this guy in a game and we started to become great friends. He was so sweet to me. He'd give me hugs and kisses in the game. But then he told me he was married and have kids...
    Yoyoko Yoyoko 16-17, F 2 Responses May 4

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    When I start to like somebody, I idolise him. I can only awesome things about the person. I cannot find any fault or can too easily ignore it. I fall head over heels but it's over...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 10

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    This vent was inspired by a number of things however recently a dear friend with a blog made a post that hit on the topic somewhat and it was the extra little push I needed to vent...
    AbbyVents AbbyVents 22-25, F 10 Responses a week ago

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    I dislike when I think too much. Which is always. I start to think about my life. Of could or should have been and what is good about it now. But it isn't just my voice I hear when...
    jrf9782 jrf9782 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I use to barely sleep. I had severe insomnia. Id sleep 3hrs at most. Lately I sleep too much. Now im sleeping 12 to 13hrs. Its broken up cause Im woken up. But still its too much...
    PhoenixRising83 PhoenixRising83 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    In the quest for understanding and meaning, sometimes I go too far. Oh, look at that picture, I dont look happy there (but may in the next). Oh, look, my dad has this nasty face...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M Apr 25

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    http://www.blogthings.com/whattypeofwritershouldyoubequiz/results/?result=Film I got film, but I prefer writing novels. I am character writer. I also took What your greatest...
    RebekahWriter13 RebekahWriter13 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 30

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    My dad. Began drinking after law school. Me suspects fear of not good enough. Mom kicked him out. Said come back with a job. He got a mistress. And left mom. When he...
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M 1 Response May 4

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    There was a 2 year period where I was living alone, just out of a horrific relationship, where no matter how much I threw myself at my job I still had a lot of time alone there too...
    CrypticK76 CrypticK76 36-40, M 1 Response May 7

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    I'm too young but fill older than my grandmother most times. Afraid to go out and live life, and if I do then I'm afraid to do it alone. Alone, Alone it sucks but Hey whatever
    Bryona Bryona 18-21, F 1 Response May 7

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    I keep gaining weight. My flat stomach has turned into a jiggly protruding belly. All of my shorts from last summer, some of which were too big are way too small! I keep trying to...
    missimo missimo 26-30, F 2 Responses May 8

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    Thinking about things too much leads to doing little. Leads to over thinking. Leads to despair. Thinking too much can make a lighthearted mood go to a low mood. Really there's...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 2 Responses May 12

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    My friend and I were talking last night about when our "Prince" will show up... Today she tells me she thinks he showed up and asked when I think my "Knight in shining Armor" would...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 2 Responses May 12

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    A person once told me that in order to live more you must take the risk of getting hurt. I thought it was right at first but now I disagree. The problem with this is that I've been...
    Cutiepeachpie Cutiepeachpie 18-21, F May 15

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