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I Am Too Intense For Some People

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    Monkey See Monkey Do.... - Sure, i overthink many things. On the other hand, i wish i had thought more on the matter. One way or the other, i am intense in all the i do. Another...
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F Sep 19, 2010

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    So This Is Where I Go Wrong. - Yesterday I was chatting with a friend and she said the reason men pull away from me is that I am too intense. There is a huge need for love in me...
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 18, 2011

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    Im Intensified - I can be very intensed person especially the older I got. I think it comes from me being so nice and wanting to be accepted by people when I was younger. I use to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 18, 2012

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    Finding Intensity In The Ordinary Life. - Whatever I do in life has to be intense or I feel bored/depressed. Sometimes I'd like to stop caring about having a "socially acceptable...
    SpiritOfNantes SpiritOfNantes 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 20, 2013

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    Because I am over the top enthusiastic about things I love and in my descriptions about said topics
    photohub photohub 31-35, M Feb 16

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    Dream Vs Reality - I dreamed last night that I had found a friend. A real friend, one that would help me sort through all this stuff in my head and not judge me or eventually say...
    phoebe55 phoebe55 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 23, 2012

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    I Was His Perfect Storm - ...just like the movie... in the end, my intense love killed his love. I was so into him, I couldn't get enough of him. I wanted to hear from him. I...
    lisa36 lisa36 36-40, F 7 Responses Nov 15, 2010

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    Soon To Meet My Mother Wherever She Is - uhmm this is really hard to say because... it is i.. i'v been having some issues and i needed to go to the hospital for some days and the...
    Scarlettshadowkeeper Scarlettshadowkeeper 16-17 1 Response May 7, 2012

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    "Girl On Fire" - The symbolism of a tear drop is interesting, in that although a drop of water from the heart, it can express so many things. Tears of joy...of sadness...of...
    SmartSweet1 SmartSweet1 51-55, F 1 Response May 16, 2013

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    My past is like really dark e.e so sometimes I get really dark and I go into these really dark places. Sometimes it just freaks people out idk why.
    richierich22 richierich22 16-17, M 3 Responses Jan 8

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    Intimidating - I am actually really awkward and shy, and really very intense but I tend to coem across a bit cold or something. Recently two of my friends said before they met me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 14, 2012

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    Why I did what I did - Some have wondered what kind of otherworldly force took over me when I decided to leave my high-paying marketing job for the staff writer post at my country...
    papervoices papervoices 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 28, 2011

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    I Either Don't Engage At All Or I Go Overboard. - I will wither be too scared to speak to someone (Especially if another person is standing near them) Or i will be overly touchy...
    SidWeasley SidWeasley 18-21, T Sep 10, 2013

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    Unbelieved - how come for the most part when you tell the truth some people think there are ulterior motives even when you have always been known as a trustworthy person and that...
    kenk1 kenk1 46-50 Jan 16, 2013

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    A Castle Of Dark And Light - There is a reason I won’t let you in, why you may breach the walls of the castle, but you will never breach the fortress within. First, I don’t...
    Swanfirefly Swanfirefly 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    Fire Burning Up Inside - I live emotions and feelings very intensively. It's like I can feel all the different aspects of their nature, also I am very inquisitive, I want to know...
    Gestaltdesschattens Gestaltdesschattens 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 12, 2013

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    I Scare People - Sometimes I scare people right away, usually I just unsettle them, but I try to keep myself hidden in places like work and in stores. I am unsettling to some...
    AngelaDark AngelaDark 31-35, F 8 Responses Jan 22, 2011

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    Fire And Ice - Yup, that's what i am. On fire, at my best or I've bit the dust, stone cold. From one extreme to another. Can't help it, it's how I have ....rolled since I was young...
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F 2 Responses Dec 16, 2012

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    I'm Too Deep....Even For Myself. - Whatever I do, I do it deeply. Emotions are things that I know all too well about. I'm very intense, and sometimes I bring others into my...
    peachturnover peachturnover 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 25, 2013

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    Some Things Don't Change - Yesterday I met someone whom I had not seen for more than half my life. After a few minutes of conversation he went quiet then said, "So you're still...
    bornexplorer bornexplorer 36-40, M 2 Responses Sep 16, 2012

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    Intense Sometimes, Psychotic Only The Once - Prior to my psychosis I had perceived myself as quiet, introverted and easy going. Most people saw me as rather shy. I was definately...
    ISPsWTF ISPsWTF 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 21, 2010

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    I Can't Help It - I say yes to life, to everythingHolding the moment with my heartShortening all distancesbetween someone and IStrong desires moving me forwardwith tenderness as...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Dec 15, 2011

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    Paralysis - As I type this with infuriating, overwhelming frustration, I feel the paralysis in my life reigning on me with extraordinary force. First off, it is important to...
    itsmylifenilioa itsmylifenilioa 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2012

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    When I Get Extremely Angry You'D See The Other Me - I'm not someone who wants to be the center of attention so I mostly have a rather low presence, but when angered EXTREMELY I get...
    Junkard Junkard 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 6, 2013

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    People go silent when reality hits them, but it's better if we face it head on and overcome our obstacles
    Freddie61 Freddie61 51-55, M Mar 5

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    Emotionally Intense - I am an emotionally intense person that is surrounded by emotionally reserved people.  I feel stifled being around such people.  I try to contain myself...
    lagatta lagatta 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 24, 2012

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    Can't Handle Me? - Yep! I've been told this, that I'm too wild or crazy for people to handle or deal with. I guess I lost some of my friends this way, but oh well. I spose they...
    KawaiiDoll KawaiiDoll 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 25, 2011

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    Too Tense - Doctor Doctor one moment I think I'm a wigwam the other moment I think I'ma teepee...do you have any insights? Yes sir...you're two tents! (too tense...get it...Oh...
    8FOOTDREAD 8FOOTDREAD 41-45, M 3 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    I Wish - I truly wish I could tell you something wonderful. I wish I could evoke a feeling from inside of you that is life changing and relevant. I wish I could talk to you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 3, 2013

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    This Is Me........ - I must admit I am pretty intense In everything I do, I don't do "luke warm" in anything i am very much an all or nothing kind if girl! My last job i started...
    stormchaser5145 stormchaser5145 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    Please Tell Me! - If I ever take too much from you..............Tell me. It's normal for me to be this intense I do not always realize I ask too much from you! If I ever become too...
    stormchaser5145 stormchaser5145 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2012

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    Way Too Intense....... - Most people can't deal with me. Can't deal with my feelings & emotions. When I love, I love hard. I don't go half way on anything. It's all or nothing...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F Aug 29, 2012

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    Actually Everyone I Think. (warning This Is A Pretty Long Ramble) - i am an intense person. i love fiercely and loyally. in any relationship i have i am way involved. i want to...
    darlinsam darlinsam 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20, 2011

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    You're Completely Right. - some people think im mean, and i look mean. WRONG. im very nice, but in certain situations, people just dont understand how much of a **** i dont give...
    jinfamous jinfamous 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 26, 2012

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    How Im To Intense For People - When I was 12 tears old I did everything from riding the dollar costar that made everyone in my group shudder and I was the youngest to me eating the...
    229dan 229dan 26-30, M Mar 10, 2013

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    If you've read any of my experiences, you'll probably know I have a bit of an issue with controlling my other personalities. And today, I had a bit of an incident... We were in...
    yourguardianangel9613 yourguardianangel9613 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 25

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    But Then Again, I Never Had The Delusion That I Was "normal".... - Moody, introverted, introspective, prone to strange and hard-to-communicate fantasies of the kinky and/or...
    ISingTheBodyAesthetic ISingTheBodyAesthetic 31-35, M Jul 5, 2012

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    I Do Apologize - I don't act like someone I am not, but I don't always show the side of me that is fierce so when it comes out, it can be rather surprising to some, so I apologize...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Mar 14, 2011

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    Intensity - The fire that lies deep withinthe flames of your heartthat burn so intensely hotmakes the Love I have for you almost a sinTo know you as I have feltwith every agonizing...
    RoaringFlameLostinShadow RoaringFlameLostinShadow 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 25, 2012

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    I Walk A Thin Line Between Intensense And Obsession - It's all or nothing, if your are not whole hartedly committed then you should walk away. How do you differentiate between an...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 23, 2012

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    Intense Stare - My stare is too intense for some people... when I look into their eyes, they cannot stand my gaze and they look away.
    weirdcolor weirdcolor 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 5, 2012

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    Every Time I Close My Eyes - I see her face Every time I sleep hollow cheeks Eyes with centers white as snow and edges black as night Her dress tattered and torn perhaps she is...
    xxpurpleskiesxx xxpurpleskiesxx 13-15, F May 6, 2013

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    Omg ilovefitness I swear I'm on the same boat. I'm not really in a "relationship" just talking to someone and I am forever glued to my phone wishing for a text. I can feel myself...
    countrygirl4444 countrygirl4444 22-25, F Mar 4

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    Loving Too Intensely - Is It Possible? - When someone invites me into their life and I invite them into mine, I assume that the friendship is given from that point on. Or if it is...
    lisa36 lisa36 36-40, F 18 Responses Sep 10, 2010

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    Talk To Much And To Quick And Thereby Bother Other People With Topics For Which They Don't Care Or Of Which They Neglect Existence - Well, the headline says it all. As I scrolled...
    Galene Galene 22-25, F Sep 15, 2013

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    Too Proud Of It? Nahhhh - I can be violent, hyper, competitive, also hormonal(though that's a story for another time). I'm unpredictable yet humble and wise and heart-felt...
    DarkCassie102 DarkCassie102 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 8, 2013

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    I Can Be Too Honest - Like the title said, I can be way to honest, I say what I think and that's usually pretty cold and straight. No dancing around the truth I always say, but it...
    Junkard Junkard 22-25, M 4 Responses Jul 9, 2012

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    If I Loved You - I wanted to write about an intense love so I dug deep and came up with this - If I loved you . . . . You would know that you are loved. You would never need to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Nov 5, 2011

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    Too Much Of Anything - I have been told multiple times that a friendship with me can never be simple. I keep pondering this all the time. I know it is true, because several people...
    Analeigh Analeigh 22-25, F 17 Responses Mar 10, 2011

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    Headstrong Or Driven? - When making decisions about things, I always analyze the situation. I weigh out the pros and cons, choose what's been called the "best destiny", and then...
    DepthsUnknown DepthsUnknown 36-40 4 Responses Apr 10, 2010

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    Don't Complicate Me... - It's hard to comprehend how people feel about mebut the reviews from what I got, they just don't seem to think what I thought.Probably because I'm unaware...
    RitzRebel RitzRebel 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2011

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