I Am Too Jealous

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    galvamagnus galvamagnus
    16-17, M
    Nov 1, 2014

    I've never really been the jealous type .

    I've dated people with kids before and I didn't mind that they were fathers , but this time is different . When me and my fiancé first started dating , I didn't expect the relationship to blossom like this . I didn't expect to fall in love . So initially , his having kids didn...
    Kingmingyao Kingmingyao
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 2, 2014

    Amy disclosed that the eleven year old was

    wearing a Great Wolf Lodge wristband, not a hospital band. What a lucky life that she has. ~~I photoshopped out the watermarks in her pictures. This will be really long, but I need you to read through and PLEASE COMMENT. I'm going through this extreme jealousy. Whatever you do...
    neworleanslady neworleanslady
    46-50, F
    14 Responses May 11, 2014

    Too Much Jealousy!!!

    I love my boyfriend more than anything in this world, and i want him to enjoy life to the full etc, but i get insanley jealous over anything that has him in contact with another woman. He gets on with a lot of people and is quite often in contact with loads of different people...
    ChubbyPug ChubbyPug
    18-21, F
    Feb 15, 2013
    cassiecollins cassiecollins
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 11, 2014

    I am extremely jealous.

    I'm jealous of so many people for so many things. Some examples, I am jealous of all the people with social lives and have a lot of good friends. I am jealous of people that are well-liked, I am jealous of good looking people, I am jealous of people with more money than I do...I...
    GettingOverShit GettingOverShit
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 7, 2013

    of my best friend who is blessed by God.

    I hate it . I can't feel blessed.
    Thedepressedgirlatthewindow Thedepressedgirlatthewindow
    16-17, F
    Apr 27, 2015

    I found out that tonight my husband was talking

    with his dad about this hott girl that's on this tv show they both watch. I have NO idea why, but the thought of my husband talking to someone about how hott another girl is behind my back makes me sick to my stomach. And what's worse is that I obsess over it, any time he goes...
    wolflanexoxo wolflanexoxo
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 29, 2014

    I always get jealous

    when I see girls that look beautiful. I totally envy them, and end up bashing myself for my own looks. It's so hard to not be so self-conscious because I constantly compare myself to others.
    J3nnyC J3nnyC
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 26, 2014

    My boyfriend basically broke up with me

    because of my jealousy...
    elisabethj elisabethj
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 2, 2014

    I get quite jealous when other girls touch my

    boyfriend(I don't mind family) and my boyfriend gets jealous when other guys touch me or my friend does something silly and sexual, but our jealousy works out and I'm happy :)
    mydarkendfate mydarkendfate
    18-21, F
    Jun 2, 2014

    I'm the worst person ever,

    I feel jealous of my sister. I mean, I know she's she's studying enginery (which is such a difficult career!) but oh my! Since she began to study she's been everything to my father! While I have been nothing but the one who "according to him" didn't exploit her talent by...
    HadaraNight HadaraNight
    22-25, F
    Sep 8, 2014

    Jealous? Maybe...

    I've been told I'm too jealous.  But I'm a firm believer that sometimes it's perfectly normal, and even wise, to be jealous. My first boyfriend, when I was a teenager, told me I was overreacting when he commented on other girls' body parts and...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Nov 11, 2009

    I can't help it.. Don't touch him don't talk to

    him don't look at him.. And I'll be fine. :)
    ForeverKittenn ForeverKittenn
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Oct 2, 2014

    11 Reasons NOT to be Jealous https://loujann.

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    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 24

    I don't mean to be as jealous

    as I am. I just am and it's a problem. I try SO hard not to go overboard with saying things, but sometimes I just kirk off fr the simplest things. My boyfriend had a crush and dated this girl I went to high school with for a WEEK probably like 9 years ago. And it didn't work out...
    thisgirl92 thisgirl92
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 14, 2014

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    signeccaa signeccaa
    26-30, F
    Feb 24

    Jealously Drives Me Nuts, And My Boyfriend As Well.

    Hello everyone, this is my first time ever posting on a message board like this, I hope someone can help me. I've read some posts so I don't feel so alone. I have been with boyfriend for three years now, and we get along great, except when it comes to my jealously. I get...
    Noelleflower Noelleflower
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Oct 27, 2013

    Your not interested in them, only ME!

    It's possibly my most toxic emotion and can easily turn me sour towards you. I tend to demand the impossible or unreasonable. Say in friendships if I feel the attention is too divided for my liking I will not like that at all. It's different if we are not close, but if we are, it...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 11, 2013

    I'm currently in my best friend's (Madison)

    best friend's (Angelica) dorm. I'm sleeping over because tomorrow morning we're heading off to a resort for Madison's birthday. I've noticed that M and A have gotten extremely close since they've met in the summer of '13 and now I'm feeling jealous of their relationship. What...
    CA829 CA829
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 9, 2014
    rabbertcline rabbertcline
    22-25, M
    Sep 6, 2014

    I am 12 years old and in sixth grade.

    I live in St. Paul, Minnesota. I am jealous of a girl in my class. Let's just call her K. She gets straight A's. She is extremely nice and would never be mean. She is always invited to parties and has a lot of friends, and a bestie who we'll just call C. Her mom drives a 2015...
    boraroberts boraroberts
    70+, F
    1 Response Apr 20, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 19, 2015

    Why do girls get all the fun

    and exciting clothes!!!
    Tigerbentz Tigerbentz
    18-21, M
    1 Response May 9, 2015

    Not Alone

    I feel relieved to know i am not the only one that gets jealous. Wow! Although my bf finds it a problem. He thinks i am being irrational.
    Tk03 Tk03
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 15, 2010

    Recently my boyfriend stopped talking to me.

    After feeling lonely, sad, and sexually frustrated I find myself wanting another. The only problem is he already has someone. She's a little younger than me and a bit more inexperienced. I don't wanna hurt her, I just want her man.
    TimidityEternal TimidityEternal
    16-17, F
    Dec 16, 2015

    Saw a tall, thin girl today.

    Long, curly blonde hair, blue eyes, a little bit of mascara and lipstick and a body petite but healthy looking. I don't know why, but she was so perfect she looked like an angel. A swan. A 5'10 beautiful swan. She was in jeans and a work uniform, but goodness, I'd never seen...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Aug 16, 2014

    Last week my family visited my uncle's family

    in Northern California. I first thought that I wanted to live in the same area as them when I grow up. But then I realized that I didn't just want to live there, I wanted to BE my 18 year old girl cousin. I first of all love her house as it has an AMAZING view of the valley. It...
    stephiestoo stephiestoo
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 23, 2014

    I hate this feeling. Why cant i stop it.

    I know there are times when i become unreasonable..its just really hard to control. 😔
    Lookingaround95 Lookingaround95
    18-21, F
    3 Responses May 23, 2014

    I hate you :'( yeah I know she's better

    than me... Hope you are happy while I'm broken.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 9, 2014

    I'm jealous of the other women

    who have fun because I never did . I'm jealous of others that had a better life and succeeded . I'm jealous , I'm jealous , I'm jealous of many things .
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 30, 2015

    I am jealous of girls

    who got thinner. I mean i am happy that they succeeded, but it also annoys me by the fact that some of my friends are showing off all the time... I am not fat, but I still can get thinner but its really hard and i am not giving up. However, i need to make peace with myself and...
    uniqueresonance uniqueresonance
    18-21, F
    Jun 15, 2014

    The Worst Feeling

    This has got to be one of the worst feelings. So she didn't pick me? So she doesn't want me? Ok.. there are others who might. Besides, I'm not really even an option. I'm still married and there are geographic challenges, to put it mildly. I always said that I wasn't the...
    accomplice accomplice
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Apr 7, 2011

    Ever jealous of someone's past?

    Things they seen, been to, people they were with, Etc?
    ShadowedXHunted ShadowedXHunted
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Dec 17, 2013

    I was in a horrible relationship

    that took the life out of me. Years later I now have the great gift of a man I could ever have imagined having. I treat him as if he has done me wrong, like my last partner did. I constantly and keep tabs on him and treating him a a possession. I am exhausting him and pushing...
    Wishicouldfeelbetter Wishicouldfeelbetter
    26-30, F
    Aug 24, 2014

    You say she’s just a friend,

    Just a girl you talk to, But darling, remember, We started out as just friends too. You tell me she’s nothing, But you talk the night through, I see her name on your phone constantly, We talked all the time too.I ask what you’re always talking about, You say “I dunno, we...
    Brokenpiecesthatsmile Brokenpiecesthatsmile
    18-21, F
    Jul 1, 2014

    I hate being jealous,

    it ruins so many things for me, I don't want to feel competition all the time. If a guy talks to a girl, especially one prettier than me. I will freak out. I will be clingy with you. Because even if you are just my friend, you are mine. My human being. Not hers. Mine...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Oct 16, 2015

    What Treachery Is This?

    I am new to jealousy. I have never wanted for things. Although my childhood was certainly far from spartan, frugality somehow found its way beyond my knowing, and wove itself into my perspective upon the world. Want for nothing; never be disappointed for the not having; no...
    TheTardyDodo TheTardyDodo
    31-35, M
    7 Responses Sep 4, 2007
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 18, 2015

    There's these 2 or three girls flirting with my

    crush and I don't like it and 2 of them know I like them and they say they don't like him but I know they do because like there ******* flirting gets me mad and I'm scared he starts to date one of them and I'm to shy to talk to him what should I do
    sugarpills sugarpills
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Nov 5, 2014
    Repentover Repentover
    18-21, F
    May 28, 2015

    I am so jealouse of my husbands job

    as I want his job and hate mine i want him to fail so he will lose his job
    kathetineallen kathetineallen
    56-60, F
    Jul 1, 2014

    To be specific, I'm the overly jealous type.

    I never really show it though. "Oh, you're talking to her? She's 'just a friend'? Well, I hope you don't mind me talking to my ex because ya know.. He's just a friend." "You're going out with the guys tonight? Me too!" First off, a BIG rule for dating me, DO NOT TALK TO...
    TheCompletelyMisunderstood TheCompletelyMisunderstood
    18-21
    1 Response Dec 25, 2013

    Jealous Isnt Even the Word !!!

    When i was with my husband Right after i got out of the hospital i went to work with him and i was cleaning his office ( he was a personal trainer at Golds )  he had Grace with him  and i saw him talking to this chick and i went out to say hi ya know and do you know he...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Mar 24, 2007

    Jealousy Is An Emotion, And Deserves Compassion. Action Is What Counts.

    Jealousy, at its core, stems from insecurity, low self esteem, and a feeling that good things are finite and fear there won't be enough for you. I have suffered from low self esteem and insecurity since I was a kid. I was incredibly socially awkward and suffered from a mood...
    rosedl rosedl
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jun 22, 2012
    shakirab shakirab
    22-25, F
    5 Responses May 15, 2014

    Jealousy, The Good The Bad, And The Downright Ugly

    Intro: Recently someone asked me to write about Jealousy, and so i started thinking about me and how jealousy i used to be, and still am sometimes... There are many different forms of Jealousy, sometimes its envy over someone, maybe they have a better job, more money, maybe they...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jan 19, 2013

    I Know It'S Irrational

    I'm not a sociable person. I don't have that much contact with people. Because of that, i have a small number of people that i would consider close to me. So, you can pretty much guess what happens when someone new shows up on that list. To them, i may just be another friend, but...
    ImmaSlender ImmaSlender
    22-25, M
    Apr 15, 2013

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    Cupcakestoy Cupcakestoy
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    Really I am too nice... This occurred to me earlier when I realised that my colleague had again dropped the ball and did not follow up on something which was due today. I called...
    VioletVivid VioletVivid
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