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I Am Too Jealous

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    Sometimes It Ruins Me...

    I am the worst when it comes to this. I get jealous whenever my boyfriend even looks at females. I've gotten better over the past year but it's still really hard. I can't stand him looking at ***** or pretty girls online or a pretty girl at a party. I can't stand it when he talks...
    starrla starrla 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 22, 2007

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    Ever jealous of someone's past?

    Things they seen, been to, people they were with, Etc?
    ShadowedXHunted ShadowedXHunted 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    I am super jealous over my boyfriend.

    He is 17 years older than me and I get really insecure due to the fact that he could find someone his age and make his life easier. I am very mature for my age and he and I are on the same level but I cannot help the jealousy rage I get when I see any girl flirting with him. We...
    JackieMarie0101 JackieMarie0101 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2013

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    Especially and most specifically

    when it comes to my relationship. I don't like my boyfriend to even look at other girls. I tell him it's because I'm insecure, which may be the case, but he cheated on his last girlfriend so maybe I'm just worried he'll do the same. But all girls besides family get cut out of...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    I've never really been the jealous type .

    I've dated people with kids before and I didn't mind that they were fathers , but this time is different . When me and my fiancé first started dating , I didn't expect the relationship to blossom like this . I didn't expect to fall in love . So initially , his having kids didn...
    Kingmingyao Kingmingyao 18-21, F Jan 2

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    Being jealous and having ex is probably the

    worst but knowing all his passwords is best.
    amandavynes amandavynes 13-15, F Mar 26

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    I'm very jealous I have a bad temper

    and I take it out on the person I love the most I try to apoligize but it will never make up for the things I say to her... I think she's better off without me..
    daltondane99 daltondane99 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 23

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    Can't Stop Thinking About It

    Finally had an argument with my girlfriend about her guy friend.  The same guy friend that has been causing issues between us for three months.  You know the guy I'm talking about:  that guy who she is tentatively friends with, who she has to watch her boundaries with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 29, 2011

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    Very..

    What's mine is mine. I have a me against the world mentality. And when I can establish some some level of closeness with someone I immediately claim them as mine. And only mine. I hate sharing. I hate having to think that those people who are near and dear to me can get up and...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 5, 2011

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    Is Love Worth It?

    When Stephan cheated I hadn't a clue. I was completely shocked. I became so light headed I almost fainted. I confronted him immediately, and ended things a day or two later, but I needed to know more. I made a list of the women and found their profiles through myspace and...
    Tythe Tythe 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 24, 2013

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    My Jealousy Issues Are Threatening to Destroy An Otherwise Wonderful Relationship

    My boyfriend and I have been together for two years; at the end of our first year together, he moved in with me (his idea). Although he has never been a big fan of societal conventions that dictate the wildly expensive diamond engagement ring and huge wedding, he has also said...
    Jane96 Jane96 31-35 6 Responses Aug 16, 2008

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    I Feel Like Everything Makes Me Jealous...

    I feel like everything gives me that uneasy jealous feeling. I really don't believe that my husband would ever cheat...but...I still get uncomfortable with girls at his work, why? Because they're girls. That's it. None are particularly attractive, but I'm so insecure about myself...
    caitg caitg 26-30, F Aug 6, 2013

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    It's no that I dont trust you its just

    something wrong with me. I dont know how to express myself. My body can't bear anything while my thoughts gets crazy. I just don't know. I don't know how to avoid this shitt. I am destroying everything. This jealousy is a feaaar for me, its just I am scared if someoneee prefers...
    lejla2727 lejla2727 22-25, F Mar 13

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    I Am Too Jealous

    So i find that with every relationship im in that my jealousy gets worse. Right now i am with a great man im sure but i cant help but hate everything he is doing. i gave him trust from the beggining but found out he was lying about a drug problem that his friend ...
    cheygirl33 cheygirl33 22-25, F 10 Responses Mar 21, 2010

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    I Know It'S Irrational

    I'm not a sociable person. I don't have that much contact with people. Because of that, i have a small number of people that i would consider close to me. So, you can pretty much guess what happens when someone new shows up on that list. To them, i may just be another friend, but...
    ImmaSlender ImmaSlender 18-21, M Apr 15, 2013

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    I can't help it I get jealous

    so fast. My boyfriend talks about all these pretty girls. I get so jealous and mad. Like I wanna punch something. He laughs at me. It's not ******* funny. I get too jealous. I have issues I swear agh:(.
    Manooooo Manooooo 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    To be specific, I'm the overly jealous type.

    I never really show it though. "Oh, you're talking to her? She's 'just a friend'? Well, I hope you don't mind me talking to my ex because ya know.. He's just a friend." "You're going out with the guys tonight? Me too!" First off, a BIG rule for dating me, DO NOT TALK TO...
    TheCompletelyMisunderstood TheCompletelyMisunderstood 16-17 1 Response Dec 25, 2013

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    I am extremely jealous.

    I'm jealous of so many people for so many things. Some examples, I am jealous of all the people with social lives and have a lot of good friends. I am jealous of people that are well-liked, I am jealous of good looking people, I am jealous of people with more money than I do...I...
    GettingOverShit GettingOverShit 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    Too Much Jealousy!!!

    I love my boyfriend more than anything in this world, and i want him to enjoy life to the full etc, but i get insanley jealous over anything that has him in contact with another woman. He gets on with a lot of people and is quite often in contact with loads of different people...
    ChubbyPug ChubbyPug 18-21, F Feb 15, 2013

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    I Get Jelous, But I'm Not ...

    I get jelous, but I'm not too jelous. Confused?
    Amee Amee 16-18, F 1 Response Jun 1, 2007

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    violetangel violetangel 13-15, F Mar 19

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    God I wish I didn't get attached to people.

    I mean I know its stupid how I get so attached but I can't keep myself from doing it and I hate it. It's really a burden and it's ruining my life. Once I start I can't stop. I hate myself for doing it. I don't even have the right to get attached to these people so much. My whole...
    BeautifulCountry BeautifulCountry 16-17, F Dec 14, 2013

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    Jealously Drives Me Nuts, And My Boyfriend As Well.

    Hello everyone, this is my first time ever posting on a message board like this, I hope someone can help me. I've read some posts so I don't feel so alone. I have been with boyfriend for three years now, and we get along great, except when it comes to my jealously. I get...
    Noelleflower Noelleflower 26-30, F 5 Responses Oct 27, 2013

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    Well I Was

    I used to be jealous of all these girls. I am 5'7 and guys mainly like short girls. I got jealous of that. Of their bodies. Of their hair. Of everything. I have a boyfriend, I feel so bad because I used to be so jealous. Even though he is 100% faithful. And then I realized, ok so...
    littlewing7 littlewing7 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 5, 2013

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    When a boy get the boy

    who i like, i wanna kill him, stab him and then the desperate thuoghts circle around my mind :" He ll never be yours, you arent that cool like him. "
    witchspeaking witchspeaking 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    I found out that tonight my husband was talking

    with his dad about this hott girl that's on this tv show they both watch. I have NO idea why, but the thought of my husband talking to someone about how hott another girl is behind my back makes me sick to my stomach. And what's worse is that I obsess over it, any time he goes...
    wolflanexoxo wolflanexoxo 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I always get jealous

    when I see girls that look beautiful. I totally envy them, and end up bashing myself for my own looks. It's so hard to not be so self-conscious because I constantly compare myself to others.
    J3nnyC J3nnyC 13-15, F 5 Responses Jan 26

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    Been Jealous

    I am a very jealous person which affects everything i do. It has a massive affect on my relationship with my boyfriend as im always jealous of people he talks to even people really close to him I hate myself for this every day
    Bh1213 Bh1213 16-17 Dec 5, 2012

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    I'm currently in my best friend's (Madison)

    best friend's (Angelica) dorm. I'm sleeping over because tomorrow morning we're heading off to a resort for Madison's birthday. I've noticed that M and A have gotten extremely close since they've met in the summer of '13 and now I'm feeling jealous of their relationship. What...
    CA829 CA829 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 9

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    Jealous? Maybe...

    I've been told I'm too jealous.  But I'm a firm believer that sometimes it's perfectly normal, and even wise, to be jealous. My first boyfriend, when I was a teenager, told me I was overreacting when he commented on other girls' body parts and...
    abercrombiegirl abercrombiegirl 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 11, 2009

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    Your not interested in them, only ME!

    It's possibly my most toxic emotion and can easily turn me sour towards you. I tend to demand the impossible or unreasonable. Say in friendships if I feel the attention is too divided for my liking I will not like that at all. It's different if we are not close, but if we are, it...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 11, 2013

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    I feel jealous & protective over my boyfriend

    of over a year. He has given me some reason to be though... He's flirted w/other girls in the past, due to his insecurities about our relationship. Sometimes I wish he would get jealous & overprotective of me too. :/
    OldSoul246 OldSoul246 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 3, 2013

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    Jealousy, The Good The Bad, And The Downright Ugly

    Intro: Recently someone asked me to write about Jealousy, and so i started thinking about me and how jealousy i used to be, and still am sometimes... There are many different forms of Jealousy, sometimes its envy over someone, maybe they have a better job, more money, maybe they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 19, 2013

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    What Treachery Is This?

    I am new to jealousy. I have never wanted for things. Although my childhood was certainly far from spartan, frugality somehow found its way beyond my knowing, and wove itself into my perspective upon the world. Want for nothing; never be disappointed for the not having; no...
    TheTardyDodo TheTardyDodo 31-35, M 7 Responses Sep 4, 2007

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    The Worst Feeling

    This has got to be one of the worst feelings. So she didn't pick me? So she doesn't want me? Ok.. there are others who might. Besides, I'm not really even an option. I'm still married and there are geographic challenges, to put it mildly. I always said that I wasn't the...
    accomplice accomplice 41-45, M 4 Responses Apr 7, 2011

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    Don'T Even Get Me Started

    I get so ******* jealous when it comes to my girlfriend. I don't want her hanging out with anyone alone and especially if it's some stupid **** like wtf you don't need to be hanging out with anyone but me. I want her eyes on me always and I get so ******* pissy when someone even...
    20martin20 20martin20 16-17, F Oct 23, 2013

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    This is my biggest issue.

    I try to be an all around nice, understanding, helpful, positive person. But jealousy is like this growing darkness inside of me that I can't seem to get rid of. It's so unbelievable strong and powerful and can take over at any moment of any day and control me. Clearly it roots...
    cutemuffin524 cutemuffin524 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 23

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    I am SO jealous it's starting to cause major

    problems in the my 4 year relationship.
    Prettypink246 Prettypink246 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    Jealous Isnt Even the Word !!!

    When i was with my husband Right after i got out of the hospital i went to work with him and i was cleaning his office ( he was a personal trainer at Golds )  he had Grace with him  and i saw him talking to this chick and i went out to say hi ya know and do you know he...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 24, 2007

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    Jealous A Lil Too Much..

    Okay so last summer my boyfriend flirted around with this one girl, now every time I see him talking to a girl I automatically think hes doing the same thing he did last year. I'm usually not this jealous and I don't want to be. I love him and I do trust him to a point. Since...
    topaz112793 topaz112793 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 22, 2012

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    I Am A Crazy Person

    Jealous, I get jealous very very easily. Now, people understand the word jealousy the wrong way, I don't get jealous of other people, meaning that I wouldn't get jealous of a girl who is prettier than me or something like that, I couldn't care less about what other people have! I...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 29, 2013

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    Jealous.

    I am too jealous. I've been better lately but I still need to work on it. I need help sometimes tho.
    TwentythreePER TwentythreePER 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 7, 2013

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    I Am Jealous And Feel Terrible About It.

    I am 18 years old and I found out about 3 months ago that my girlfriend was pregnant. Yes, we're both very young and aren't entirely ready for a baby and the "giving up" of our youth that so many have said will happen. That's not what concerns me though, I've accepted my role as...
    j5119 j5119 18-21, M 4 Responses Feb 26, 2013

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    Jea - Lous

    I am not jealous. I am always happy for another for whatever they have or have accomplished.Talking about jealousy, a few have told me people have been jealous of me for "X" reasons.  I felt it too.  I was also told, some copy me...I have noticed and it doesn't bother me...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 26, 2011

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    Not Alone

    I feel relieved to know i am not the only one that gets jealous. Wow! Although my bf finds it a problem. He thinks i am being irrational.
    Tk03 Tk03 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 15, 2010

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    Jealousy Is An Emotion, And Deserves Compassion. Action Is What Counts.

    Jealousy, at its core, stems from insecurity, low self esteem, and a feeling that good things are finite and fear there won't be enough for you. I have suffered from low self esteem and insecurity since I was a kid. I was incredibly socially awkward and suffered from a mood...
    rosedl rosedl 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 22, 2012

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    I Am Too Jealous

    hi im british male 42 i live with my mother and her partner in a house.the guy next door paid 3.5 million for his house.He is a winner in life, he has made it. he has his lovely wife his kids. where he get that sort of money? people like that make me sick ok im bitter and...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M May 16, 2013

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    A Strong Emotion.

    Jealousy is an extremely strong emotion for me. I over think things, I assume things, I make up stories in my head. Something in my mind is always telling me that this person is doing this and doing that and they're just using me or they're lying to me, and these thoughts are so...
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 13 Responses Sep 21, 2012

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    Yesterday he went to church with some girl went to go get her at her car brought her in sat with her and took her back to her car so say goodbye. We aren't official but we do...
    zeldazeens zeldazeens 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I hate getting jealous over nothing but sometimes now it's over every thing😭
    Wolflover247 Wolflover247 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    It has gone so far, that I almost resent women because my boyfriend has looked at sex blogs in the past. any girl he talks to... I am instantly jealous and disappointed in him...
    ecress ecress 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I've been dating my boyfriend for going on three years and recently my jealously is getting out of hand. He has been with more girls then I have, which doesn't bother me...
    Gucci1990 Gucci1990 22-25, F Apr 9

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    " She looks way better than i do..." "She looks gorgeous and smart." "She's tall..." " She's the best friend of my boyfriend..." "How can they be so close until the extent they are...
    jessycarcher jessycarcher 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have a question for all of you out there and I really need an honest answer. How do you know if a guy loves you? Give me a list of examples of what guys need to do in order for...
    Zozolove Zozolove 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 27

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    This has come as a shock to me since, I have never had this "jealousy" problem before. I have been married and divorced twice, cheated on, beaten and made fun of and anything else...
    Calibabe84 Calibabe84 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    My ex boyfriend was so jealous of everything I would do. If I didn't text him back in a what he thought was time appropriate he'd ask me all sorts of questions. He was nice and...