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I Am Too Jealous

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    Jealous Isnt Even the Word !!!

    When i was with my husband Right after i got out of the hospital i went to work with him and i was cleaning his office ( he was a personal trainer at Golds )  he had Grace with him  and i saw him talking to this chick and i went out to say hi ya know and do you know he...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 24, 2007

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    Your not interested in them, only ME!

    It's possibly my most toxic emotion and can easily turn me sour towards you. I tend to demand the impossible or unreasonable. Say in friendships if I feel the attention is too divided for my liking I will not like that at all. It's different if we are not close, but if we are, it...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 70+, F 2 Responses Apr 11, 2013

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    Not Alone

    I feel relieved to know i am not the only one that gets jealous. Wow! Although my bf finds it a problem. He thinks i am being irrational.
    Tk03 Tk03 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 15, 2010

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    I am so jealouse of my husbands job

    as I want his job and hate mine i want him to fail so he will lose his job
    kathetineallen kathetineallen 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 1, 2014

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    heavenmescud heavenmescud 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 2, 2014

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    What Treachery Is This?

    I am new to jealousy. I have never wanted for things. Although my childhood was certainly far from spartan, frugality somehow found its way beyond my knowing, and wove itself into my perspective upon the world. Want for nothing; never be disappointed for the not having; no...
    TheTardyDodo TheTardyDodo 31-35, M 7 Responses Sep 4, 2007

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    hisangelicbaby hisangelicbaby 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 1, 2014

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    rabbertcline rabbertcline 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 6, 2014

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    galvamagnus galvamagnus 16-17, M Nov 1, 2014

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    I don't mean to be as jealous

    as I am. I just am and it's a problem. I try SO hard not to go overboard with saying things, but sometimes I just kirk off fr the simplest things. My boyfriend had a crush and dated this girl I went to high school with for a WEEK probably like 9 years ago. And it didn't work out...
    thisgirl92 thisgirl92 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 14, 2014

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    Too Much Jealousy!!!

    I love my boyfriend more than anything in this world, and i want him to enjoy life to the full etc, but i get insanley jealous over anything that has him in contact with another woman. He gets on with a lot of people and is quite often in contact with loads of different people...
    ChubbyPug ChubbyPug 18-21, F Feb 15, 2013

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    The Worst Feeling

    This has got to be one of the worst feelings. So she didn't pick me? So she doesn't want me? Ok.. there are others who might. Besides, I'm not really even an option. I'm still married and there are geographic challenges, to put it mildly. I always said that I wasn't the...
    accomplice accomplice 46-50, M 4 Responses Apr 7, 2011

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    of my best friend who is blessed by God.

    I hate it . I can't feel blessed.
    Thedepressedgirlatthewindow Thedepressedgirlatthewindow 16-17, F Apr 27

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    I am extremely jealous.

    I'm jealous of so many people for so many things. Some examples, I am jealous of all the people with social lives and have a lot of good friends. I am jealous of people that are well-liked, I am jealous of good looking people, I am jealous of people with more money than I do...I...
    GettingOverShit GettingOverShit 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    It's not how I want to be

    but I honestly can't control it. Like when I am in a group with Girls and guys I want all the guys attention on me. If they start talking to the other girls more I get so mad and just stop talking and feel like leaving. I hate that I am like this but it makes me sound very self...
    Girlinthefloweredskirt Girlinthefloweredskirt 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2014

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    FrancesFaye FrancesFaye 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 18

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    There's these 2 or three girls flirting with my

    crush and I don't like it and 2 of them know I like them and they say they don't like him but I know they do because like there ******* flirting gets me mad and I'm scared he starts to date one of them and I'm to shy to talk to him what should I do
    sugarpills sugarpills 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    I hate you :'( yeah I know she's better

    than me... Hope you are happy while I'm broken.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 9, 2014

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    Jealousy, The Good The Bad, And The Downright Ugly

    Intro: Recently someone asked me to write about Jealousy, and so i started thinking about me and how jealousy i used to be, and still am sometimes... There are many different forms of Jealousy, sometimes its envy over someone, maybe they have a better job, more money, maybe they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 19, 2013

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    Why do girls get all the fun

    and exciting clothes!!!
    Tigerbentz Tigerbentz 16-17, M May 9

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    I am 12 years old and in sixth grade.

    I live in St. Paul, Minnesota. I am jealous of a girl in my class. Let's just call her K. She gets straight A's. She is extremely nice and would never be mean. She is always invited to parties and has a lot of friends, and a bestie who we'll just call C. Her mom drives a 2015...
    boraroberts boraroberts 70+, F 1 Response Apr 20

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    My boyfriend basically broke up with me

    because of my jealousy...
    elisabethj elisabethj 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 2, 2014

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    I was in a horrible relationship

    that took the life out of me. Years later I now have the great gift of a man I could ever have imagined having. I treat him as if he has done me wrong, like my last partner did. I constantly and keep tabs on him and treating him a a possession. I am exhausting him and pushing...
    Wishicouldfeelbetter Wishicouldfeelbetter 22-25, F Aug 24, 2014

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    I'm currently in my best friend's (Madison)

    best friend's (Angelica) dorm. I'm sleeping over because tomorrow morning we're heading off to a resort for Madison's birthday. I've noticed that M and A have gotten extremely close since they've met in the summer of '13 and now I'm feeling jealous of their relationship. What...
    CA829 CA829 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 9, 2014

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    I'm the worst person ever,

    I feel jealous of my sister. I mean, I know she's she's studying enginery (which is such a difficult career!) but oh my! Since she began to study she's been everything to my father! While I have been nothing but the one who "according to him" didn't exploit her talent by...
    HadaraNight HadaraNight 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 8, 2014

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    Jealous? Maybe...

    I've been told I'm too jealous.  But I'm a firm believer that sometimes it's perfectly normal, and even wise, to be jealous. My first boyfriend, when I was a teenager, told me I was overreacting when he commented on other girls' body parts and...
    abercrombiegirl abercrombiegirl 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 11, 2009

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    I'm very jealous I have a bad temper

    and I take it out on the person I love the most I try to apoligize but it will never make up for the things I say to her... I think she's better off without me..
    daltondane99 daltondane99 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 23, 2014

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    To be specific, I'm the overly jealous type.

    I never really show it though. "Oh, you're talking to her? She's 'just a friend'? Well, I hope you don't mind me talking to my ex because ya know.. He's just a friend." "You're going out with the guys tonight? Me too!" First off, a BIG rule for dating me, DO NOT TALK TO...
    TheCompletelyMisunderstood TheCompletelyMisunderstood 16-17 1 Response Dec 25, 2013

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    A Strong Emotion.

    Jealousy is an extremely strong emotion for me. I over think things, I assume things, I make up stories in my head. Something in my mind is always telling me that this person is doing this and doing that and they're just using me or they're lying to me, and these thoughts are so...
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 13 Responses Sep 21, 2012

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    I always get jealous

    when I see girls that look beautiful. I totally envy them, and end up bashing myself for my own looks. It's so hard to not be so self-conscious because I constantly compare myself to others.
    J3nnyC J3nnyC 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 26, 2014

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    cassiecollins cassiecollins 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 11, 2014

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    I Know It'S Irrational

    I'm not a sociable person. I don't have that much contact with people. Because of that, i have a small number of people that i would consider close to me. So, you can pretty much guess what happens when someone new shows up on that list. To them, i may just be another friend, but...
    ImmaSlender ImmaSlender 18-21, M Apr 15, 2013

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    shakirab shakirab 18-21, F 5 Responses May 15, 2014

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    I've never really been the jealous type .

    I've dated people with kids before and I didn't mind that they were fathers , but this time is different . When me and my fiancé first started dating , I didn't expect the relationship to blossom like this . I didn't expect to fall in love . So initially , his having kids didn...
    Kingmingyao Kingmingyao 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 2, 2014

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    I am extremely jealous

    and I wish I wasnt.... I get jealous over small stupid things. I get jealous if he adds a girl on Facebook. I get jealous when he mentions another girls name. Jealousy is so overpowering at times and it just makes you feel horrible because you don't wanna be jealous but it just...
    ADayToRememberForever ADayToRememberForever 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2014

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    I can't help it.. Don't touch him don't talk to

    him don't look at him.. And I'll be fine. :)
    ForeverKittenn ForeverKittenn 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 2, 2014

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    Last week my family visited my uncle's family

    in Northern California. I first thought that I wanted to live in the same area as them when I grow up. But then I realized that I didn't just want to live there, I wanted to BE my 18 year old girl cousin. I first of all love her house as it has an AMAZING view of the valley. It...
    stephiestoo stephiestoo 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 23, 2014

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    Jealousy Is An Emotion, And Deserves Compassion. Action Is What Counts.

    Jealousy, at its core, stems from insecurity, low self esteem, and a feeling that good things are finite and fear there won't be enough for you. I have suffered from low self esteem and insecurity since I was a kid. I was incredibly socially awkward and suffered from a mood...
    rosedl rosedl 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 22, 2012

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    When a boy get the boy

    who i like, i wanna kill him, stab him and then the desperate thuoghts circle around my mind :" He ll never be yours, you arent that cool like him. "
    witchspeaking witchspeaking 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 22, 2014

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    I found out that tonight my husband was talking

    with his dad about this hott girl that's on this tv show they both watch. I have NO idea why, but the thought of my husband talking to someone about how hott another girl is behind my back makes me sick to my stomach. And what's worse is that I obsess over it, any time he goes...
    wolflanexoxo wolflanexoxo 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2014

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    Saw a tall, thin girl today.

    Long, curly blonde hair, blue eyes, a little bit of mascara and lipstick and a body petite but healthy looking. I don't know why, but she was so perfect she looked like an angel. A swan. A 5'10 beautiful swan. She was in jeans and a work uniform, but goodness, I'd never seen...
    NatashaRose NatashaRose 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 16, 2014

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    Jealously Drives Me Nuts, And My Boyfriend As Well.

    Hello everyone, this is my first time ever posting on a message board like this, I hope someone can help me. I've read some posts so I don't feel so alone. I have been with boyfriend for three years now, and we get along great, except when it comes to my jealously. I get...
    Noelleflower Noelleflower 26-30, F 5 Responses Oct 27, 2013

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    Amy disclosed that the eleven year old was

    wearing a Great Wolf Lodge wristband, not a hospital band. What a lucky life that she has. ~~I photoshopped out the watermarks in her pictures. This will be really long, but I need you to read through and PLEASE COMMENT. I'm going through this extreme jealousy. Whatever you do...
    neworleanslady neworleanslady 46-50, F 16 Responses May 11, 2014

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    Ever jealous of someone's past?

    Things they seen, been to, people they were with, Etc?
    ShadowedXHunted ShadowedXHunted 22-25, M 3 Responses Dec 17, 2013

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    I hate this feeling. Why cant i stop it.

    I know there are times when i become unreasonable..its just really hard to control. 😔
    Lookingaround95 Lookingaround95 18-21, F 3 Responses May 23, 2014

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    I am jealous of girls

    who got thinner. I mean i am happy that they succeeded, but it also annoys me by the fact that some of my friends are showing off all the time... I am not fat, but I still can get thinner but its really hard and i am not giving up. However, i need to make peace with myself and...
    uniqueresonance uniqueresonance 18-21, F Jun 15, 2014

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