I Am Too Needy And Clingy

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    I think this is true about me lately sometimes but then I realize it is just my inner attention wh*re coming to surface, hold my chin up high, and go in with my life. Still i am clingy to my guy and I don't normally get that way. 
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Apr 8, 2010

    I'm really clingy in love my gf more then I

    should I feel need to hold her, kiss, or just hear her voice sometimes to point to where I physical hurt if I don't I don't want her to know so I hold back till the point where it hurts maybe I shouldn't be in a relationship I clearly need her more then she n I'm not sure if I'm...
    etdragonstrom etdragonstrom
    18-21, M
    1 Response Apr 18, 2015

    I don't know how to stop feeling like this I

    really need help :( my boyfriend hardly gives me time I only have lik a hour or two long text conversation per day I see him like 3-4 hours per week I just I don't know I feel like I annoy him when I constantly message him about my day or stuff etc like he wants to be left alone...
    sabzzzz sabzzzz
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 4, 2015

    I'm super clingy and needy to the point

    where I needs to talk to someone at least every other day or I get lonely and sad and I'm scared that it scares people away especially the ones I wuv
    Moonpawsrabbitofthemoon Moonpawsrabbitofthemoon
    18-21, T
    2 Responses Feb 18, 2016

    I'm An Aries.

    I can't do casual anything.
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Dec 2, 2011

    I'm not needy or clingy

    but I love having female friends that are. Not to abuse it but just to feel needed? Idk how to explain it but I like clingy girls :3
    akaShaun akaShaun
    18-21, M
    1 Response Sep 18, 2014

    I Worry About Spoiling Everything

    Although my husband has never shown and inclination to leave me, I constantly worry that he will and cling to him so strongly that I know it must irritate him, yet he deals with it calmly. I'm still scared that it will gradually 'wear him down' yet I don't seem able to stop...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Apr 13, 2010

    I Can Hardly Wait On Anyone

    Ever since i moved back to Mississippi after my grandmother kicked me out of my house in Washington, I've been too clingy to all of my friends. Ill talk to them on Skype, IM, text messages and the like, and if i don't get a response, I seem to get my feelings hurt for no reason...
    BoomSickle BoomSickle
    18-21, M
    May 15, 2011

    I wouldn't say needy

    and clingy. But im there and committed And desire honesty
    deleted deleted
    Aug 14, 2015

    this guy from school friended me on facebook

    and then his friends friended me and since im a loner i got a bit excited. i have anxiety so i cant speak to these people are school. im sick of being alone. anyway, i kind of ended up messeging all of them. i just didnt want them to think i was rude cause i dotn talk...
    EnjoyTheSilenceX EnjoyTheSilenceX
    18-21, F
    Mar 16, 2015

    That Is Totally Me

    I don't know why but i have always been needy and clingy......I guess I am not too needy but I can be pretty clingy. I just think too much about people....even if they are strangers.....I am a dork I guess lol... I don't want to get into a relationship because Im scared my...
    innocentlover1428 innocentlover1428
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 4, 2013

    I'M A Cancerian Soo..

    I was born under the strong influence of this star sign. It gets REALLY annoying! When I was young I would cling to my mother and could not bear to be apart from her for more than a few hours. I did not even attend pre school because of this. Growing up I was always shy and...
    LittleMissDimples LittleMissDimples
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 3, 2013

    I just want someone who didn't mind

    and who get jealous like I do.
    DollPaintedIvy DollPaintedIvy
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 12, 2014

    It does not help that I have high anxiety .

    If I'm giving you my time . I need your attention . I try not to act like that but I cant help it
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 28, 2014


    Mirror, Mirror on the wall, who's the oddest of them all? Who will walk and who will crawl? Who is it's body that will sprawl? You're the most beautiful of them all. Mine is the heart that has to fall. For the one who is plastic, like a doll. When this siren rings her call, I'll...
    lolidek lolidek
    18-21, F
    Jun 23, 2013

    I don't know what to say.

    I push people away so this doesn't happen :(
    Ashamedpooperim21yrsold Ashamedpooperim21yrsold
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 26, 2014

    I Annoy Myself With It

    I am so needy and clingy, I am very co-dependent in a relationship and think we shouldn't be able to bear living without one another for it to be love, which is ridiculous, and because my social group collapsed and because my relationship ended I ended up being clingy on my best...
    Bstuffxbox Bstuffxbox
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Dec 18, 2011

    and it's pushing my fiance away.

    :( We've been having problems, and I guess I don't know where I stand anymore. We worked everything out, but I still feel uneasy about everything. He talk about our wedding like normal, and having kids etc, but I think ultimately he is still confused. I can't help but feel like...
    Vehema Vehema
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 13, 2014

    I hate how clingy and insecure I am.

    Every time I start to like a girl, I always get paranoid that she's losing interest or just trying to be nice. I always want more attention and if there are long gaps between our conversations I freak out and assume the worst. And the worst part is I know how absurd it is and...
    smotheredbycats smotheredbycats
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Jul 31, 2015

    I'm the opposite of the person

    that seeks to help others. I'm the person that desperately wants help from others. But I usually drive them to frustration and I just give them more trouble than it's worth. It leaves me feeling like I'm better off not living at the end of the day. But I can't even say that...
    foreignthing foreignthing
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 12, 2014

    I always want people to show emotion

    and love to me and I always want affection. I wish I wasn't like this but I am in need from everyone. I don't have a boyfriend because I am too needy of affection.
    catlover425 catlover425
    16-17, F
    1 Response Mar 23, 2015

    speaks for itself. its not a particularly

    attractive trait. in fact, it can repell people faster than mace. it starts subtly to where i dont even notice im doing it then goes too far.....but by then, i make it worse when i try to relax and let go because a sense of panic fills. i miss the old me, the one who was...
    ArnoldJRimmer ArnoldJRimmer
    46-50, M
    Oct 6, 2015

    I'm Backwards

    I have never been needly or clingy, but lately the communication between my fiance is I is scarce. I lives out the way, has no license/car, I cannot drive due to pregnancy, he has no phone of his own or computer. I see him about once a week and not for more than 4-5 hours which...
    XioBlue XioBlue
    22-25, F
    Feb 1, 2011
    karlpria karlpria
    18-21, M
    Nov 16, 2015

    I am having an issue with this right now.

    ... I text my boyfriend way too much, I'm smothering him, and he told me to stop before he leaves me... I just can't stand not talking to him when we're not together please help
    mrbctb2012 mrbctb2012
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 22, 2014

    I hate this about myself!

    !! I was never like this until my met my current boyfriend, hes my first love. I even get annoyed with how much I want him near me. Its sad to say but I do wish I could just shrink so he could put me in his pocket so id be with him all day. Its weird yes but I would be very happy...
    DenSan DenSan
    22-25, F
    Nov 8, 2014
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