I Am Too Nice

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    This Is Where Being To Nice Has Gotten Me .

    People always say im too nice , that I need to be rougher on people . Im to nice to people who I think care about me , I give them money , I make them food , I help them even when they don't return any of the favors . But its because I know what its like to not have any of that...
    RIPJaylie RIPJaylie
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 11, 2012

    Nice To A Fault Time To Get Dirty

    I'm going through a separation and what is turning into a nasty custody fight. Thus far I've done my very best to work with my ex as one human being to another with as much respect, kindness and patience as a I can muster. In other words, I've been nice.To a fault I've been nice...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Sep 17, 2011

    Yup being there for people

    who would drop you real fast as soon as that special person comes by.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4
    18-21, F
    Aug 3, 2014

    Or At Least I'm Told...

    I have been told countless times that I'm "too nice," and let me tell ya, sometimes maybe it's not the greatest thing.
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    2 Responses Dec 13, 2009


    people are constantly taking advantage of me, and i hate it. sometimes i want to just stay home so i don't even see people. sometimes i wonder,"what if i just became jerk?" it would certainly make my life a lot less complicated. i have to watch what i say so i don't offend people...
    Kahoku Kahoku
    70+, T
    Nov 15, 2010

    I'm tired of people walking all over me.

    I get taken advantage of so much lately, and I'm sick of it. I'm not your freaking doormat! I'm done being nice...it's way too much anymore. People use you for anything anymore. This is why I try not to get attached to anyone because I always become everyone's doormat.
    bemyforeverlove97 bemyforeverlove97
    18-21, F
    Feb 13, 2015

    Two days ago, my ex messaged me in Instagram.

    I have not talk to him for about three years since our break up. I decided to avoid him because he had cheated on me at the time of our relationship. I was so angry at him! I did not want to hear from him ever again, but just few days ago he decided to contact me. I found that...
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    2 Responses Mar 10, 2015

    I Have Such A History..

    of always being the 'hero'...that guy that makes everything 'ok'.  I'm so done!  People like me just get walked on.  Granted..I do wish for everything to be OK with people and all...it just comes at such a huge expense when I'M the one always doing it!
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Apr 11, 2011
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    8 Responses Feb 12, 2015

    Lol this is the biggesttt lie ever !

    !! Im a " mean ***** " :/
    YouAreAllPesants YouAreAllPesants
    18-21, F
    May 9, 2014

    I was in kindergarten

    and my friend through a baseball into the neighbors window and broke it. Because she was my friend I took the blame. I got in huge trouble for a mouth after wards and I was never allowed to play with baseballs that year.
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    2 Responses Jan 24, 2015

    As Been Told By Others

    I have been told throughout my life that I am too loving to others. My dad is a Christian Reverend. He told me when I was a little girl that he thinks Jesus put too much love in my heart for others. I have been told throughout my life by others, even by strangers, that I am too...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti
    36-40, F
    Nov 4, 2013


    its something i don't want to change but sometimes it bites me in the ***
    wotaloser wotaloser
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Aug 31, 2011

    I can't be even the tiniest bit rude

    or mean to anyone, even if they deserve it. I feel absolutely terrible if I hurt someone's feelings... It's unfortunate being "too nice" leads to being stepped on, pushed around, and used. I'm not bold enough to stand up for myself or even simply tell someone 'no'. Being kind...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Feb 11, 2015

    Yea I am when I give u my trust I give u my all

    if u betray me it hurts I feel like I'm gonna die if u do so all i want Is to be more or real close friends.
    teenguy17 teenguy17
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Mar 9, 2015

    I had a girlfriend who I did everything for.

    we dated for a year until she told me I was "too nice" and didn't want a boyfriend. I don't get it. you're too nice, it's bad. you're too mean, you're a **** or an *******. makes no sense..
    durstm94 durstm94
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Mar 30, 2014

    & I can't help it. I've tried to be a jerk

    but I just can't. I don't have it in me.
    goaldigger goaldigger
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 4, 2014

    I think i'm too nice to be a good police

    officer. Police officers swear to arrest anyone who breaks the law, but I would find it difficult to throw somebody in jail over something like marijuana, or driving without insurance. Some police officers arrest people for the littlest things and I don't know how they can do it...
    moose73630 moose73630
    18-21, M
    1 Response Oct 21, 2014

    lol. sometimes it's just too hard to say "no"

    to a friend of yours. like i'll always do some people's favors if they just ask. i never deny or give some lame excuse to not do it. i'm just too nice to do that 😟.
    brandonnnn brandonnnn
    18-21, M
    May 9, 2014

    I am too nice, I'm the person

    that would give my last dime to someone else even if I needed it more. I am the person to offer food before I eat it. I am the person that always gives things out knowing I'll need it. I'm the person that's always there, and, no one sees that. They take advantage, they treat me...
    kaylakanoelani kaylakanoelani
    18-21, F
    Feb 26, 2015

    Im Too Nice... Really

    i cant get with a girl because im "too" nice... i've been told this like 4 or 5 times now. my x gf ****** me so bad that i treat every girl i meet with respect and gentle hoping that in return they will treat me the same but its never that way. insted i just get told ether by...
    maybeimweak maybeimweak
    Jun 4, 2011

    Too Nice Or Too Naive?

    I alway wondered is there such a thing as to nice, or after a certain part is it just considered naive? I consider myself a sucker if you will. I wll endure the guy i like hitting on my bestfriend becuase she can't stand being alone with him. Example: my friend lost her phone and...
    lilmissbrowneyes lilmissbrowneyes
    18-21, F
    Apr 8, 2012

    i wont change for no one!

    ! ok, granted that when the going gets tough,i stand firm and stand up for myself, but what i dont get, is why so many nice people,want to become ******** and not be nice any more!! now i get that being too nice will let people walk all over you,thats a given,but when you change...
    cowshed123 cowshed123
    36-40, M
    1 Response Feb 10, 2015

    I'm always told that I am too damn nice.

    When things bother me about other people I tend to just let it be with the thought that things will get better in time. I must stop letting people walk over me. I feel super embarrassed when people notice it and tell me it. I hate the 4 words - You are too nice. I just cannot...
    WasteYouthWithMe WasteYouthWithMe
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 28, 2014

    My friend and I were texting each other

    and I was messing around about her guy and she took it too seriously and struck a major nerve and she knows she did and was being a major *** clown about it. 2 hours later she tells me she needs to talk to me and I talk her through her venting. I swear I'm almost too nice...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda
    16-17, F
    Feb 24, 2016

    I am a nice person to a certain point.

    I always seem to get crapped on when I go out of my way to help someone.
    momof3grls2015 momof3grls2015
    31-35, F
    Oct 28, 2015

    Am I Just Too Nice?

    I feel really stupid for being so nice to all of my previous girlfriends... they all have usually broken up with me cause I'm generally to them I hate arguing with people to i have never had a true argument with a girlfriend i usually let them just win it and they are usually...
    justincando justincando
    22-25, M
    Nov 9, 2013

    When someone you haven't seen in a while

    and have moved on from in life tells you they miss you and all you can really say is "yeah miss you too" cause you can't just be like Ok or I don't miss you. That's rude right? Cause you're not mad at them. You just really don't miss them or care to see them. Smh. I'm too nice.
    chloejune chloejune
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 26, 2014

    my friends say I am really nice

    but if someone messes with me I can turn from an angel to demon. I also forgive and forget to easily. I am craving a fist fight right around now.
    NathansInTrouble NathansInTrouble
    22-25, M
    Jul 5, 2014

    Sooo Damn Nice...

    Tame her, mame her, keep her quiet Tie her hands and bind them tight,  Better gag her, this ***** bites Shackle her feet down she'll definitly fight For fuhks sake! use all your might... It's whats best for me.. becuz she gives a damn good fright Most my friends and...
    whisperingsunshine whisperingsunshine
    31-35, F
    28 Responses Apr 11, 2011

    My ex told me after she left me

    that I was too nice, it made me doubt myself as to how to treat women. I realized a lot of women like bad boys, since I respect women to much to treat them any other way then the wonderful beings they are, I will continue to be too nice.
    deleted deleted
    Mar 8, 2015

    Even To People I Don't Like!

    I come across loads of weird people I meet in person and online. They appear sweet and friendly and they really do try to make friends with me. I accept them on my Facebook but then I get constantly messaged by them and they won't leave me alone. Despite being really blunt with...
    FadedSilhouette FadedSilhouette
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 20, 2013

    I have helped other people from suicide to

    break ups but I can't help myself. I also don't think people can help me. I'm just screwed any way I look at it. And I am deemed to failure.
    emoHeartsDieWithMe emoHeartsDieWithMe
    18-21, M
    May 22, 2014

    Being A Sweetheart.

    I try soooo hard, so hard to be nice, even when it hurts me. I go out of my way not to offend people, not to hurt someone's feelings or making them ill towards me. It just seems like no one appreciates it. I mean people today just make it seem so easy to be cruel and unpleasant...
    clutteredmind9 clutteredmind9
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 3, 2012

    I am everything good to a fault!

    I'm optimistic to a fault, I'm nice to a fault. Pretty much all the good things I am I practice at a cost to myself. So I gave up on him but he still needs my help so I'm going to help him financially, knowing good and well when I help him get his own place it's so they can be...
    KittyKurious KittyKurious
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 30, 2014

    People have been telling me I am too nice

    lately. My ex is in the hospital in a coma and I have been concerned about him. I mentioned going to see him despite the very bad way things have ended between us. I have had no contact with him for about the last 4 years except going to court over him breaking the restraining...
    BeachAngelTami BeachAngelTami
    46-50, F
    1 Response Dec 6, 2013

    I am too nice that is

    why I always get hurt!
    Pets1616 Pets1616
    18-21, F
    Aug 10, 2014

    I'm way too nice I think.

    ... Until I get set off by the littlest thing then all hell breaks loose xD
    DreadlockJesus DreadlockJesus
    36-40, M
    1 Response Aug 3, 2014

    My friends always say I'm too nice

    for my own good. I'm going to start to be much meaner and bitter. Considering my "best friend" always walks all over me.
    kidLeftInTheDark kidLeftInTheDark
    16-17, F
    1 Response Nov 3, 2014

    I don't have a mean bone in my body

    and to be honest I really wish I did. Like whenever someone ****** me off I get upset but emotionally upset, like I'm not very talented in cursing people out I wish I was. People think I'm an easy target to "tease" but truth is most of the time I take the teasing to heart. It's...
    NogoodElizabeth NogoodElizabeth
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 27, 2015
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