I Am Transgendered and Gay

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 78 People

    I realized I was gay

    and Trans when I was in elementary when I had a crush on a boy in my class. I realized it was an attraction that others would consider "normal", and figured out that I identified as a male not as a female. It might be weird but I've never had major dysphoria - only with my hips...
    jayce428 jayce428
    22-25, T
    1 Response Mar 13, 2014

    We Can Be Loved

    I knew, from the time I was 13, that I was gay; that is, I liked men, and I did not identify as female, despite what my body told me.  For a long time, I thought, "Well, I must be a lesbian, because I'm not a straight woman, and obviously I'm not a man."  But...
    evankyle evankyle
    6 Responses Aug 5, 2009

    I find the idea of coming out

    as a transman and gay to be so difficult. Are there any others still in the closet fully?
    yanchakei yanchakei
    26-30, T
    Dec 26, 2013

    I am and it can be a tough journey

    but i love being one completely
    alexiswcd alexiswcd
    56-60, T
    1 Response Apr 10

    I'm trans (FtM) and gay

    which seems to puzzle people when I tell them. "I know a bunch of girls who love trans dudes." "Why don't you just stay a woman?" "How does that work?" "Doesn't that make the other guy straight?" That's great that you know a bunch of girls who love trans dudes. I'm not they...
    Entry364 Entry364
    36-40, T
    Jul 11, 2015

    Hey guys. I always felt weird liking men

    and never really believing I was a female. I always thought that I wasn't "trans" enough because I like men. That's not true at all though. People don't take me seriously though when they find out that I don't like women, so they look at me as a "straight" female. It's really...
    ShadowDemon01 ShadowDemon01
    18-21, T
    Sep 6, 2014

    I realised I was transgender in my early teens

    but the attraction to men didn't come till my 20's. I thought I was bi but I've had a number of relationships with women and it didn't feel right, I realised I didn't want to be with a woman I wanted to be a woman. When I went to a local gay bar for the first time and got...
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    7 Responses Oct 18, 2015
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