I Am Trying Hard Not To Be An Angry And Bitter Person

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    I find myself growing more from depressed to

    angry. I know they say anger is part of depression though. So maybe that is the case. But I feel myself getting angrier each day at him. I try so hard not to let the feelings and thoughts consume my mind. But it's always there. Always in the back of my mind what he's put me...
    Unluckynky Unluckynky
    36-40, F
    1 Response Oct 5, 2015

    I'm not really trying anymore.

    I am an angry bitter person
    DiamondAuthority DiamondAuthority
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 19, 2016

    We are ridiculously stubborn.

    Nobody will understand how difficult it is for an angry person to be able to apologize. It takes everything in them because we usually do tend to have too much pride. I think we've all had the experience where we hurt someone we cared about, without meaning to. The guilt is...
    RoastedCycki RoastedCycki
    70+, F
    2 Responses Oct 14, 2015

    Okay so, Around the beginning of my freshman

    year in college I met this dude. I thought he was pretty cute and nice. Fast forward 3-4 months later I found out that he was only being nice to me so that he could sleep with me. Needless to say, I had a feeling that he was being nice for that reason but decided to still keep...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Mar 19, 2016

    I have lots of dirt on an ex girlfriend.

    She hurt me, still is... I really want to use it but I worry about the effects it would have. The thing is, when I'm angry and stressed I always come close to using it...
    AlphaGoat AlphaGoat
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jan 8, 2016

    I look like an old lady

    yet I attract pervs:(((
    DoughnutVader DoughnutVader
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Jan 8, 2016

    Sometimes I feel like I'm being fake,

    when I'm outside no one would ever believe that I have the other side of me of being Anrgy and aggressive, I'm normally shy and kind with everyone but when I'm with my family its pretty normal to see me talking to them in a loud voice and fighting with them when we're having an...
    SilverStarsz SilverStarsz
    18-21
    Mar 19, 2016

    Some of these females at my school are

    so stupid and **** me off so frickin badly. I'm good with keeping calm but damn I can't help it sometimes. Not a single one of these girls intimidate me and I wish one of them would dare to hit me first so I have a reason to fight back. I never had the best relationship with...
    RoastedCycki RoastedCycki
    70+, F
    Sep 30, 2015

    for nearly 10 years ive had to look

    after my family and now im in my 20's and i just am so angry with them all and starting to push them away, my younger sister is acting like a spoiled brat, my brother has severe anxiety from school because he feels he should be better and pushes himself too hard my other brother...
    mugley123 mugley123
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 7, 2016

    the world like to push me around

    and knock me down but I get up and I always remember there are good people in the world like today I almost was hit by 2 cars because people were too busy on their phones to notice that it was a red light and safe for me to cross the street but I lost my wallet in the grocery...
    me0883 me0883
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 28, 2015

    I tell myself "don't be an *******" about 15

    times a day. mostly after being an ******* but occasionally beforehand, which is about the point I utterly fail. Highly disappointed by the way these people conduct themselves. I try turn off or pay less attention. It's like I can't clear my system cache and I'm bogged down...
    snortingevil snortingevil
    31-35, M
    1 Response Mar 19, 2016

    On my way to work, trying to push down all my

    pain. I am trying to be positive. I hope you all have a good day.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 3, 2015

    Even though I have a lot of reasons to be upset

    and have encountered a lot of negative people in life, I'm still trying to rebuild myself to focus on things that make me feel better.
    LittleMidnight LittleMidnight
    22-25
    Aug 29, 2015

    how can I learn to like myself?

    ? I would honestly put everyone in this world first before myself. seriously, I just feel as though i'm not worth ****. AT ALL. it's very difficult having an older sister who is liked better too. I feel like i'm living in her shadow (if that makes sense) and that everyone...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 20, 2016

    sometimes it is hard

    and I jus wanna shut down.....
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 29, 2015

    i am trying hard not to be an angry

    and bitter person but i can't control myself. “Bitterness is like cancer. It eats upon the host. But anger is like fire. It burns it all clean.”
    iamsal iamsal
    16-17, F
    Jan 6, 2016

    At times it does get hard.

    . I tried to be a mean person and not care but I see that is not me, I don't have it in me to be that person.. Thins just aren't fair though! I have always given my all and never get treated fair by anyone ever. Even with my family. When i finally find someone who can treat me...
    EternityF EternityF
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 29, 2015

    I get real sick of people

    and their ignorance, their blatant stupidity. That goes double for the people in my country, the United States. When you have a corrupt, vainglorious liar and a ******* celebrity whose more like a fascist dictator leading in the presidential election, that really speaks volumes...
    CarverReturns CarverReturns
    26-30, F
    Mar 21, 2016

    It gets so hard sometimes.

    I know you aren't supposed to compare yourself and your live to others and their lives, but I can't help it. I am 33 years old, divorced, and childless. On one hand, I am jealous of the people who have what I do not. My younger brother is only 24 and has found true love. He...
    kitkat0216 kitkat0216
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Sep 5, 2015

    But it's hard. Almost impossible even.

    I just want a guy to come along and show me that they aren't all the same. Every time I go into a relationship, it is with high hopes, but I am always let down eventually. It usually follows a very predictable pattern. For a year and a half I didn't date at all, and I think...
    kitkat0216 kitkat0216
    31-35, F
    Aug 31, 2015

    I could go on and on about why.

    I really wish I could punch life in the face.
    Mossonarock Mossonarock
    46-50, M
    Jan 7, 2016

    It's hard not to. The beast in me always comes

    out one way or another. I do in fact have a heart and a soul. But that side of me is sick of being nice but always is cut short and being mistreated. I have this thing, which my friends call, "a weekly rage." I just completely go off or wanna be left alone. But around every 2-3...
    PierceTheMaruaa PierceTheMaruaa
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Mar 20, 2016

    Our real blessings often appear to us in the

    shape of pains, losses and disappointments; but let us have patience and we soon shall see them in their proper figures. Joseph Addison
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 19, 2016

    So hard, everyday countless of dark thoughts go

    through my head. Jealousy and subdued hatred, those are feelings I'm familiar with. I attempt to fight them off, and I end up mad and ready to explode. I know I shouldn't be jealous, it's my fault in the first place, but I realised that too late. I feel myself scowl much more...
    LikeICare13 LikeICare13
    13-15, F
    Jan 15, 2016

    If you suppress your feelings

    and wants for the sake of pleasing other people forget ever being a happy person. As strange as it might seem to hear this, but one should always be selfish to a degree don't be so selfless that you forget yourself. You are human too, why do you even think for a second that you...
    DarknessDepth DarknessDepth
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 7, 2016

    because my past experiences with my peers in

    school left me bitter and angry because of the numerous bullying **** they did to me
    Unknown3455 Unknown3455
    18-21, M
    1 Response Aug 28, 2015
    TheCroissant TheCroissant
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Aug 29, 2015

    Because I think I'm known to be one on here lmao

    which is not good. And I know how to not pay mind to some people~ But there are people who just need to be run down a little bit sometimes. Not everyone deserves pure kindness and passiveness.
    mentallyhigh mentallyhigh
    18-21, F
    Sep 3, 2015

    Those emotions wash over me,

    but I fight them. I remind myself of the good things I have.
    Thinklessfeelmore Thinklessfeelmore
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Nov 28, 2014

    I found out some things about my health

    that changed my life and will possibly shorten it. And i am thankful my father provides me with health insurance but when talked to him last night he seemed more worried about the medical bills i am about to pile up than my overall health. It made me angry it honestly did...
    ReallyConfusedTeen ReallyConfusedTeen
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Mar 26, 2016
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