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I Am Trying Not To Have Hate In My Heart

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    This May Be The Only Life We Ever Live. So Waste It By Hating Those Around You. - Love is so severely important and underated. Hate is a word tossed around far too frequently i...
    Beautylieswithin93 Beautylieswithin93 18-21, M Oct 17, 2011

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    What I Need To Tell You. - Its hard not to hate... especially people when they break your spirit and show no remorse. Sometimes, hate is the only feeling that makes any sense. But...
    DiesSomnium DiesSomnium 31-35 1 Response Oct 12, 2012

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    A little over a year ago, a huge fight broke out between me and my family and my brother's girlfriend and hers. My brother had gotten her pregnant in 2010 and she gave birth in...
    mostofall mostofall 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2013

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    No Room For Hate - I don't think I will ever have room for hate in my heart, but I do have hurt that still makes me angry sometimes....
    CuriousAngelina CuriousAngelina 46-50, F 9 Responses Jan 22, 2011

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    Do Not Become Like Them - I still have a lot of hate from things that happened in my life, and I still haven't found a way to completely let it go. But I do believe that a life is...
    MukaiTheDifferent MukaiTheDifferent 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 28, 2011

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    My Mission - I will try not to, but after all I've been through, the pain and sadness... I admit its got the best of me, but I know that it doesnt help me or anyone else for that...
    quietbeauty quietbeauty 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 18, 2012

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    Working On It - I have griefs for sure, especially against my father on the paper, cauise he's such a mean person. I have decided to ignore him, purely. It's very selfish, I don't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 1, 2012

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    Hate - Their is so many variety words to describe hate, .... You could have grief, you could want to rue the world. But I don't hate the world because of anything it's done to me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 7, 2012

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    I Don't Want To Hate - Even though it hurts as he entered me I don't want to hate Even though that the evil smile on his face as he takes me makes my stomachs ache Even though it's...
    Alexandria22 Alexandria22 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    A Poem For My Boyfriend Let Me Know What Yall Think - Usually I will write a cheesy love poem for you. But this here is coming from my heart, this is true. Everytime you talk about...
    SecrecyxBeauty SecrecyxBeauty 16-17, F Jun 22, 2012

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    Deep Down - With all the stresses and the persons that have used me in my lifetime it becomes harder each day to keep the hate monster from devouring my heart sometimes but I am...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F Oct 19, 2010

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    Trying Not To Have Hate In My Heart - I am not a person who hates for no reason.  I may not hate a person or people but sometimes the things that they do or say, makes me dislike...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F May 15, 2011

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    Someone Help - I have been seeing this girl for 3 years, for about the first year in a half i was dating other girls i was flirting with other girls in front of her n i would bring...
    confusedNindecisive confusedNindecisive 22-25, M Jan 13, 2013

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    L Tink Its Holding Me Back - let me start frm whn l was in love wit dis guy & jc whn l thought he was the one some gal shows up claiming 2 b pregnant wit his child, l jc wanted her...
    Nisha89 Nisha89 26-30, F Dec 17, 2012

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    scars - wisdom and psychology can't light the dark there is in me won't change the heart that's scarred and marred the innocence of childhood barred the trust is gone the world is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 9, 2013

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    I Can't Fight Back - Having just heard something, knowing I can't put 'my side of the story' to set the record straight. It's not fair, so one sided. I have taken so much for...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 29, 2013

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    It's Getting Ever More Difficult - I am probably the biggest sap in the world. I keep going back and thinking if time passes things will be different, but i keep getting fooled...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 19, 2010

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    Work In Progress - I'm trying not to carry around all this hate, I think its slowly affecting my brain.  I'm not as nice as I should be, I guess and it's because I am usually...
    ImNotGood ImNotGood 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2011

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    It Hurts To Carry This Hatred With Me Every Day But I Can't Let Go - I know that it's not constructive or healthy. I know that the only one I'm hurting by carrying the hatred is...
    lauren71 lauren71 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 6, 2013

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    It Is Just So Hard With All I Have Been Through - All the bullying and the rapes, its just hard not to hate. i been through so much!!!
    sweetmusic2011 sweetmusic2011 18-21, F Apr 4, 2011

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    My names Alaina, I'm 17, and about three years ago I was diagnosed with Chiari Malformation Type 1. So freshman year of high school I started having really bad headaches, and found...
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