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I Am Trying Not To Have Hate In My Heart

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    I try not to hate anyone.

    But I do hate certain traits in people.Lying is one of them.Hurting others is another.Even if you do it unintenionally ,it is still hurting.So think twice before you act.The third is being rude or sending dirty messages to someone you don't know here.If you know that person and...
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 51-55, F Dec 11, 2015

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    Hate can be very destructive.

    I'm the sort of person that, If I hate, my heart feels heavy. id rather forgive and try to understand. I remember I'm also human and capable of hurting or mistreating someone. Forgiveness and love or me outshines hate everytime.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 17, 2015

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    ...Even when life gives me enough reason/s to

    have some of it. Just when I thought I am doing my best to be as kind as I could, because the world could use a little more kindness, my best still seems to be not good enough. I end up getting hurt, in one way or another. Until I reach such a point where hatred seems to be a...
    elysium9527 elysium9527 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 9, 2015

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    Work In Progress

    I'm trying not to carry around all this hate, I think its slowly affecting my brain.  I'm not as nice as I should be, I guess and it's because I am usually angry all the time because I have all this hate in me.When someone does something to me, it's damned hard for me to just...
    ImNotGood ImNotGood 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2011

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    I have so much hate for the people

    who took my life away that it eats me alive, i hate myself for trusting them so much like a fool, I Wish I could let go but they took away my whole life and I can never get that back! It ******* hurts and nobody cares! I just don't understand how can every one around me just...
    Itsmylife1988 Itsmylife1988 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2015

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    Do Not Become Like Them

    I still have a lot of hate from things that happened in my life, and I still haven't found a way to completely let it go. But I do believe that a life is way better without any hate and anger. That's why I Am Trying Not To Have Hate In My Heart.
    MukaiTheDifferent MukaiTheDifferent 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 28, 2011

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    What I Need To Tell You.

    Its hard not to hate... especially people, when they break your spirit and show no remorse. Sometimes, hate is the only feeling that makes any sense. But i know what hate can do to a person, it can tear you apart, turn you into something you're not, something you never thought...
    DiesSomnium DiesSomnium 31-35 1 Response Oct 12, 2012

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    Hate is such a powerful emotion.

    So I am trying not to have it in my heart.
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F Nov 26, 2015

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    This May Be The Only Life We Ever Live. So Waste It By Hating Those Around You.

    Love is so severely important and underated. Hate is a word tossed around far too frequently i can honestly say there is not one person that I hate. To me hate is unproductive, and a toxic emotion to carry around. Love is what will make the world go round. We should not hate...
    Beautylieswithin93 Beautylieswithin93 18-21, M Oct 17, 2011

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    It Is Just So Hard With All I Have Been Through

    All the bullying and the rapes, its just hard not to hate. i been through so much!!!
    sweetmusic2011 sweetmusic2011 18-21, F Apr 4, 2011

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    Working On It

    I have griefs for sure, especially against my father on the paper, cauise he's such a mean person. I have decided to ignore him, purely. It's very selfish, I don't wanna have my life spoilt by him. Same with my bio father, I decided I will search for the truth, but I ddin't need...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 1, 2012

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    It's Getting Ever More Difficult

    I am probably the biggest sap in the world. I keep going back and thinking if time passes things will be different, but i keep getting fooled, or worse, i try to start over and that doesn't work either. Really, it's pointless anymore. I just need to prepare to be alone for...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 19, 2010

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    Someone Help

    I have been seeing this girl for 3 years, for about the first year in a half i was dating other girls i was flirting with other girls in front of her n i would bring girls back when we would go out to parties together and she wasnt ok with it but she felt like she couldnt do...
    confusedNindecisive confusedNindecisive 22-25, M Jan 13, 2013

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    I have so much hate for the people

    who took my life away that it eats me alive, i hate myself for trusting them so much like a fool, I Wish I could let go but they took away my whole life and I can never get that back! It ******* hurts and nobody cares! I just don't understand how can every one around me just...
    Itsmylife1988 Itsmylife1988 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2015

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    Why should I be so full of sadness

    and despair over people hurting ME?? Why do I have to suffer so much with the heartache while they get to go on living their happy go lucky lives?? It's not fair and it's not right. I'm tired of hurting. I want to release all these emotions. I want to feel my anger and hatred...
    lionessstrong lionessstrong 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 4, 2015

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    A Poem For My Boyfriend Let Me Know What Yall Think

    Usually I will write a cheesy love poem for you. But this here is coming from my heart, this is true. Everytime you talk about other girls how they're cute and hot. It hurts me even thought it must not. I may say the same thing about other guys just to get back at you. But those...
    SecrecyxBeauty SecrecyxBeauty 16-17, F Jun 22, 2012

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    Negative energy produces overwhelming Vibes.

    Maintain Peace and Love. Forgiveness is key.. Share kindness and thoughtfulness, &hope for its return. Keep Family and True friends close to heart.
    UnderThisSkin UnderThisSkin 18-21 Sep 16, 2015

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    I Don't Want To Hate

    Even though it hurts as he entered me I don't want to hate Even though that the evil smile on his face as he takes me makes my stomachs ache Even though it's my brother who is rapin me I don't want to hate Even though he gave me a life to bring in the world with out my consent I...
    Alexandria22 Alexandria22 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 19, 2012

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    I don't know what it is.

    .I'm a happy person and no matter where I go people don't seem to like that. It's like they try anything to get me down. Guard your heart above anything you can guard coz then life will start for you...I've learned that well. But sometimes...I want to give them what they're...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 26, 2015

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    Cool they don't require stories to have words

    anymore Have hate in my heart & soul
    stufy stufy 51-55 2 Responses Apr 15, 2015

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    I have so much hate for the people

    who took my life away that it eats me alive, i hate myself for trusting them so much like a fool, I Wish I could let go but they took away my whole life and I can never get that back! It ******* hurts and nobody cares! I just don't understand how can every one around me just...
    Itsmylife1988 Itsmylife1988 26-30, F Nov 27, 2015

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    theotherusernamesweretaken theotherusernamesweretaken 26-30, M Nov 26, 2015

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    I faced evil I was treated evilly He was being

    evil But was I too? I know Im capable but in some cases I feel I'm doing right but Something went very wrong and I've been in torment. I can't move on 😭 God help me Thanks
    stufy stufy 51-55 2 Responses Jun 8, 2015

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    A little over a year ago,

    a huge fight broke out between me and my family and my brother's girlfriend and hers. My brother had gotten her pregnant in 2010 and she gave birth in January of 2011. I went across the country to be with them at her baby shower. My dad and I went up for the baby's first...
    mostofall mostofall 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2013

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    Might have to die for

    that to stop.
    stufy stufy 51-55 2 Responses Jun 10, 2015

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    DixieLandDiva101 DixieLandDiva101 36-40, F Nov 26, 2015

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    It Hurts To Carry This Hatred With Me Every Day But I Can't Let Go

    I know that it's not constructive or healthy. I know that the only one I'm hurting by carrying the hatred is myself. But yet I can't let go and sometimes I think I don't want to. Sometimes I think it's easier to carry the hatred. The people I hate have been dead for many years...
    lauren71 lauren71 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 6, 2013

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    L Tink Its Holding Me Back

    let me start frm whn l was in love wit dis guy & jc whn l thought he was the one some gal shows up claiming 2 b pregnant wit his child, l jc wanted her 2 have miscarriage or disappear or 4 the baby nt 2 b my boyfranz' bt t was all wishes tht where never granted. l hated her so...
    Nisha89 Nisha89 26-30, F Dec 17, 2012

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    I Can't Fight Back

    Having just heard something, knowing I can't put 'my side of the story' to set the record straight. It's not fair, so one sided. I have taken so much for so long, so public. Today is supposed to be a special day, but that's been taken out of my hands too. I just want to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 29, 2013

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    I have so much hate for the guy

    that took my life away that it eats me alive. I am now a very angry person. I only have love for my children and my other half. I can like someone for a period of time till they get on my nerves then I hate them in the moment. Wish I could let go but he took away my whole life...
    chococataccino chococataccino 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2015

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    Unfortunately, people hurt each other.

    I have to be free from the weight of resentment. Forgiving can be a gift of peace to myself. Mindful not to over think, relive, or obsess over outcomes out of control. Wanting, wishing and hoping for something to be different will never make it so. Accept, even when I can't...
    Solegne Solegne 41-45, F Nov 25, 2015

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    that's the last thing I want.

    in a world where hate is everywhere, I don't want to have that in me. I try to be as kind as possible but people are rude and I don't wanna come across as annoying so I try to be as nice as possible without looking like a creep. I also don't judge people and if I do, I always...
    awayfromlife awayfromlife 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 26, 2015

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    Deep Down

    With all the stresses and the persons that have used me in my lifetime it becomes harder each day to keep the hate monster from devouring my heart sometimes but I am focused on being positive to the point where I will not let him win. So yes, I fight hate every day of my life...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F Oct 19, 2010

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    Hate

    Their is so many variety words to describe hate, .... You could have grief, you could want to rue the world. But I don't hate the world because of anything it's done to me. Infact I love the world. But have you ever really stopped and thought "how does a teenager feel about this...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 7, 2012

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    Trying Not To Have Hate In My Heart

    I am not a person who hates for no reason.  I may not hate a person or people but sometimes the things that they do or say, makes me dislike them very much.  Anyway, it doesn't really matter, I just try not having hate in my heart.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F May 15, 2011

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    scars

    wisdom and psychology can't light the dark there is in me won't change the heart that's scarred and marred the innocence of childhood barred the trust is gone the world is wrong my electric guitar and a heavy metal song but I see a light and it's called love not given to me but...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 9, 2013

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    I hate when someone blames me

    or others for their emotional problems. Denial it's called. I speak the truth and my feelings. When I get angry I sometimes blame others but I soon realize I was acting out my pain and apologize. That's called Dealing with it.
    stufy stufy 51-55 2 Responses Jun 5, 2015

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