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I Am Trying Not To Need Him

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    Where We Stand.

    This is all happening in a sort amount of time. Everything in our relationship seemed to happen in a short amount of time. I told my mother that we broke up. And just as I finished, he texts me. He didn't speak to me at all monday. But Tuesday, he's back. He's apologizing...
    SummerMaiden SummerMaiden 18-21, F Nov 4, 2009

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    Tragedy In Disguise

    I loved him more than anything. Just hearing his name would bring a smile to my face, a lift to my spirit. His name was Ryan. I remember the day we first met like it was yesterday, over a year ago. I never thought i would fall so deeply and desperately in love with him. He was 21...
    chelsbels105 chelsbels105 16-17, F Jun 1, 2013

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    I Can't Do This.

    Its like i'm obsessed. I told him we shouldn't talk anymore. and i think i'm the only one who suffering from it. i can't sleep. i can't focus on my exam which will take place in 1.5 hours. i cry. i can't force him to love me. or talk to me. or be my friend. or...
    SummerMaiden SummerMaiden 18-21, F 1 Response May 6, 2010

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    Saying Goodbye

    So... he didn't change. he asked me back in less than a week. i said sure. but we still weren't together. and well... yeah. he still has no time for me. he's still mean and tempermental. and i stoped talking to him. just today. i needed him yesterday and he couldn't text...
    SummerMaiden SummerMaiden 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 1, 2009

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    I Still Love You

    from the moment you say you have moved on ,it doesn't mean no more crying times,and mo more stupid self control either to text or not to text him... that's what im doing,im still loving him so much...
    stilllovingyousomuch stilllovingyousomuch 18-21, F Jul 2, 2012

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    I Think... I've Done It.

    Well... as simple as it sounds. I asked him to call it a truce with me. Yeah, I'm still hurt a bit. I still feel used. i just finished crying.   But... he said fine. And I feel totally relieved.   He's honestly a lying, unfeeling, user jerk. But I...
    SummerMaiden SummerMaiden 18-21, F May 7, 2010

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    Understanding This "space" Thing.

    He broke up with me two days ago now. From the beginning it's been weird. We've known each other since we were freshman in highschool, we even attened the same middle school. We just got close last year around September or October. We were just friends, it was fine. Until I...
    SummerMaiden SummerMaiden 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 22, 2009

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    RebekahWriter13 RebekahWriter13 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    Hello, I'm a single mother and I been struggling with my daughter every since her father left us in 2012. I moved to another state trying to run away from the situation but end up...
    KL14 KL14 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    amyD99 amyD99 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 19

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    I deleted this story because I was getting over him and thought I didn't need it there.. but you know what.. I'm posting it again.. because life is a handful of bad and good...
    Chabelle Chabelle 22-25, F Mar 24

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    Words can't express all that I'm feeling right now, i spent 2.5 years on this jerk, only for things to repeat. But this time it felt like things were getting better, after I had...
    Stargasm Stargasm 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My feelings are so wrecked and I can't handle this anymore. I'm done trying to make everyone else around me happy before myself. I don't want to be a people pleaser anymore. I've...
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    Daddy needed to make his sissy boi a little princess!
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    Strawberrycreme234 Strawberrycreme234 22-25, F 13 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm so upset and confused, I don't know what to do? I need people to talk to. I am twenty five years old, I just found out I'm pregnant. The guy who got me pregnant is named...
    Strawberrycreme234 Strawberrycreme234 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    brandy2525 brandy2525 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    ArtsyPatrick ArtsyPatrick 41-45, M 3 Responses Mar 21

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    bananasxoxo bananasxoxo 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
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    I'm trying to find God's plan for my life, and let him lead, rather than trying to figure it all out myself, do my own thing, you know. I go to a good university, and am told I'm...
    reluctanthuman reluctanthuman 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 6

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