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I Am Trying Not To Need Him

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    Understanding This "space" Thing.

    He broke up with me two days ago now. From the beginning it's been weird. We've known each other since we were freshman in highschool, we even attened the same middle school. We just got close last year around September or October. We were just friends, it was fine. Until I...
    SummerMaiden SummerMaiden 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 22, 2009

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    Saying Goodbye

    So... he didn't change. he asked me back in less than a week. i said sure. but we still weren't together. and well... yeah. he still has no time for me. he's still mean and tempermental. and i stoped talking to him. just today. i needed him yesterday and he couldn't text...
    SummerMaiden SummerMaiden 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 1, 2009

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    I Can't Do This.

    Its like i'm obsessed. I told him we shouldn't talk anymore. and i think i'm the only one who suffering from it. i can't sleep. i can't focus on my exam which will take place in 1.5 hours. i cry. i can't force him to love me. or talk to me. or be my friend. or...
    SummerMaiden SummerMaiden 22-25, F 1 Response May 6, 2010

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    Where We Stand.

    This is all happening in a sort amount of time. Everything in our relationship seemed to happen in a short amount of time. I told my mother that we broke up. And just as I finished, he texts me. He didn't speak to me at all monday. But Tuesday, he's back. He's apologizing...
    SummerMaiden SummerMaiden 22-25, F Nov 4, 2009

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    Tragedy In Disguise

    I loved him more than anything. Just hearing his name would bring a smile to my face, a lift to my spirit. His name was Ryan. I remember the day we first met like it was yesterday, over a year ago. I never thought i would fall so deeply and desperately in love with him. He was 21...
    chelsbels105 chelsbels105 16-17, F Jun 1, 2013

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    I Think... I've Done It.

    Well... as simple as it sounds. I asked him to call it a truce with me. Yeah, I'm still hurt a bit. I still feel used. i just finished crying.   But... he said fine. And I feel totally relieved.   He's honestly a lying, unfeeling, user jerk. But I...
    SummerMaiden SummerMaiden 22-25, F May 7, 2010

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    I Still Love You

    from the moment you say you have moved on ,it doesn't mean no more crying times,and mo more stupid self control either to text or not to text him... that's what im doing,im still loving him so much...
    stilllovingyousomuch stilllovingyousomuch 18-21, F Jul 2, 2012

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    I cant go a day without him.When I do I just think ok 2 more days till I see him.I think about him every night before I go to bed.Hes always in my mind.I ended it with him Sunday...
    BlueC11 BlueC11 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I met a guy last July and we started dating. it wasnt not even a month later and I found out I was pregnant. he already has 2 kids that are 3 & 1 and I have a 10 month old. Ours...
    cnj1991 cnj1991 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    I don't know what kind of title I should put on this. His parents was on trip. He has 18 yrs old sis. He take care of his sis. He make bed for her. He will sleep in the same room...
    Phyllispurple Phyllispurple 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I love him. I love him because he's wonderful, he's loving, he's caring, he's everything. And there's really no other words I can think of to describe a love like this. I just love...
    theartistt theartistt 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I let him come back to my life many times. I always had the hope that he would treat me nicer, simply b/c I treat him nice. He never thinks of me, never cares. I seriously...
    mindparking mindparking 41-45, F 3 days ago

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    what would you do if You found out you were pregnant and it was due to the fact your tubes come untied andyou were 4and a half months along and your ex had just left 3 months ago...
    sky71 sky71 41-45, M Mar 18

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    I know this can't be normal. When I have to leave him my heart feels too heavy. I'M JUST ONLY GOING TO WORK! I have to break myself from bed because I will literally stay asleep in...
    ButtahCrunch ButtahCrunch 26-30, F Mar 19

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    I need other's opinion on something. Okay this weekend my husband and I are spending the weekend with others (more my husband's friends than mine). Okay last night we were like up...
    donna415 donna415 36-40, F 9 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I can no longer tolerate being with my fishing partner of 15 years, which is sad because we both love the same kind of fishing and really do have fun when our personalities aren't...
    willingtolisten willingtolisten 56-60, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Love should be mad, reckless and dangerous. It ought to be! It should require your every ounce of courage and every iounce of strength. Love like you're doing a bungee jump. Take...
    Zelaleme Zelaleme 46-50, F 21 mins ago

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    I'm so tired of voicing how I feel. Sometimes it seems better to just be quiet. When I think about how others voice out every single horrible thing about the people they love...
    Ichizu Ichizu 26-30, F 9 hrs ago

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    Basically, I'd woken up fifteen minutes late and needed to use the bathroom quite badly. Due to being late, I had no choice but to skip the bathroom and leave the house to catch...
    LeahSampson LeahSampson 13-15, F 5 hrs ago

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    I dont have many friends and none of them ever contact me. I'm trying to find more friends and happiness. My cat makes me smile he is always waiting at the door when i come home. I...
    wawow wawow 26-30, F 5 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I'm trying to love myself , and heal myself from my past , I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years because I just didn't love him I was staying with him cause I didn't want to be...
    Delusionalkrysti Delusionalkrysti 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    So this guy and I, we had sort of a complicated relationship, ir you can call it relationship. So first he liked, But he has this historical where he dates girls and then he...
    AnaRita11 AnaRita11 18-21, F Mar 4

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    I'm 22. My parents divorced when I was a baby and I was raised by my maternal grandmother. I rarely see my dad. My family told me he's not a very good man. My mother lives and work...
    damagednights damagednights 22-25, F Mar 5

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    -My husband has this way of making me so mad I could just explode. Example: He asked me to buy his son a car. We gave him one a few years back and all he needed to do was look...
    FreckleMe FreckleMe 36-40, F Mar 13

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    My boyfriend of 17 months just said that he needs space. It's been months since we've been on and off and it wasn't easy. I know that he wants to focus in his career and in getting...
    trappedinmy trappedinmy 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 11

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    Hi. I'm so confused and really don't know what to do anymore about my relationship. We have been together almost five years now and I don't know if I should keep going forward. I...
    famwoman17 famwoman17 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 28

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    So my friends joke and say I need an intervention, i have havent talked to my ex in 2 weeks. and my friends say I should start dating...I tried to go on a dating site. So many...
    carebearblue carebearblue 36-40, F Feb 28

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    Been involved w my MM for a year now. 3 months ago his wife was told her husband is cheating on her. Since then my MM has obviously been holding back w me. It's taken this...
    MyFavoriteMistake MyFavoriteMistake 46-50, F Mar 14

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    I don't know what's going on with me but I feel like I need some love in my life it may be because I go dumped recently he's keeps playing with my emotions and I let him because I...
    alisa549 alisa549 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    My boyfriend wants a non-monogamous relationship. He keeps saying he loves the connection we have, and he says he feels like it would still be there between us even if we broke up...
    Jarka123 Jarka123 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Ok, I need help. I live in Florida and it seems like French kissing is a big thing here in my age group. The thing is: I don't like it. My tongue shouldn't be touching yours...
    TBBTFan TBBTFan 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    All I want from my boyfriend is for him to be affectionate and nice like he used to be, but now that he's actually doing it, it makes me feel suspicious of him and that makes me...
    marinadelmonroe marinadelmonroe 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 2

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    Actually, I found it. Him. But I was stupid and lost it. Well, the whole story goes like this: The first time I discovered EP I was at a critical point in my life and I was feeling...
    ClausCherry ClausCherry 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    My ex wants to give it a try again but I know he works w/ his ex still not sure if he wants his cake and eat it too! My instinct tells me he still talks to his ex and I'm not...
    missyluvslilies missyluvslilies 26-30, F 8 Responses Mar 4

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    So yesterday I had a problem with a girl and I told a teacher about it and he pull both of us aside and solved the problem. I felt like it was not really solved because it was...
    cassett cassett 13-15, F Mar 4

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    so after many questions and a few debates. the conclusion was amongst many men from a varied age range that they would find it rather flattering if a woman they found physically...
    lilygeorge12 lilygeorge12 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    I live in a hostel and there is this really nice guy who lives here too. Hes so sweet! I talked to hiim tonight for the first time and i felt like we got along really good. He...
    lifeisnottoobad lifeisnottoobad 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 4

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    I have gone 6 days without lying and it has been hard. I always hear that voice in my head that says "if you don't tell the truth it won't hurt anyone" or "it's only one more and...
    selfishgirl21 selfishgirl21 22-25, F Mar 5

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    My bestfriend told me that she liked my ex boyfriend knowing that i still liked him, me and him recently had a fight and now her and him are both trying to make me feel bad about...
    alz100 alz100 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    The devil is really trying to mess with my family, dan has a job he really loves and his boss told him a week ago that if he's late again he can't work with him anymore, and of...
    Euphoricbunnymaster Euphoricbunnymaster 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 16

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    Iam 16 years old and I have been going out with my girlfriend for 10 months and I completely fell in love with her she means everything to me and I know I mean the world to her too...
    Qewwz Qewwz 22-25, M Mar 17

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    stupid bastard. I hate him bc I love him loved him thought I loved him. I hate him bc I felt he was trying to love me wanted to love me. if it would have been a postcard it was...
    jaxpdx jaxpdx 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 2

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