Post

I Am Trying Not To Need Him

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 52 People

    I Can't Do This.

    Its like i'm obsessed. I told him we shouldn't talk anymore. and i think i'm the only one who suffering from it. i can't sleep. i can't focus on my exam which will take place in 1.5 hours. i cry. i can't force him to love me. or talk to me. or be my friend. or...
    SummerMaiden SummerMaiden 18-21, F 1 Response May 6, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Think... I've Done It.

    Well... as simple as it sounds. I asked him to call it a truce with me. Yeah, I'm still hurt a bit. I still feel used. i just finished crying.   But... he said fine. And I feel totally relieved.   He's honestly a lying, unfeeling, user jerk. But I...
    SummerMaiden SummerMaiden 18-21, F May 7, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Understanding This "space" Thing.

    He broke up with me two days ago now. From the beginning it's been weird. We've known each other since we were freshman in highschool, we even attened the same middle school. We just got close last year around September or October. We were just friends, it was fine. Until I...
    SummerMaiden SummerMaiden 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 22, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Where We Stand.

    This is all happening in a sort amount of time. Everything in our relationship seemed to happen in a short amount of time. I told my mother that we broke up. And just as I finished, he texts me. He didn't speak to me at all monday. But Tuesday, he's back. He's apologizing...
    SummerMaiden SummerMaiden 18-21, F Nov 4, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Still Love You

    from the moment you say you have moved on ,it doesn't mean no more crying times,and mo more stupid self control either to text or not to text him... that's what im doing,im still loving him so much...
    stilllovingyousomuch stilllovingyousomuch 18-21, F Jul 2, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Tragedy In Disguise

    I loved him more than anything. Just hearing his name would bring a smile to my face, a lift to my spirit. His name was Ryan. I remember the day we first met like it was yesterday, over a year ago. I never thought i would fall so deeply and desperately in love with him. He was 21...
    chelsbels105 chelsbels105 16-17, F Jun 1, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Saying Goodbye

    So... he didn't change. he asked me back in less than a week. i said sure. but we still weren't together. and well... yeah. he still has no time for me. he's still mean and tempermental. and i stoped talking to him. just today. i needed him yesterday and he couldn't text...
    SummerMaiden SummerMaiden 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 1, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    I don't really know why i read romance stories. I mean the only thing they do is make me sad. Every time i read them it always reminds me that my last relationship was crap and...
    FiftyLyricsInAMiracle FiftyLyricsInAMiracle 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I can do long disdent relation ships just chat me up I'm a single Pringle and ready to mingle with one of you
    reubenplayer reubenplayer 13-15 Aug 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    But I don't because I'm single... It sucks
    ZaharaRlove ZaharaRlove 16-17, F 20 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've been married for 3 years now. I have a two year old child who still keeps me alive. I've been dealing with depression since I was little... I thought marrying my husband...
    SexyUnicorns SexyUnicorns 18-21, F 9 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I just ruined the most perfect relationship ill ever have. By saying I'm going to want to experience my life. All I want is to be with him. I can't see my life without him. And I...
    TallyO TallyO 13-15, F Sep 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It hurts me to even write this it makes me cry to even think about it. So I've been speaking to this boy for like a year and a half now and he's just amazing we FaceTime a lot we...
    DemiendoImaginations DemiendoImaginations 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My boyfriend and I are having the talk about whether or not we should still be together tonight. What are things I can say to him to convince him that I'm worth it, and he won't be...
    sidneyf23 sidneyf23 18-21, F Sep 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    i cant take it no more i cant stand being away from him i really miss him and its really hard when i need him and i dont find him next to me it's really hurting and i need him now...
    loooorin loooorin 22-25, F Sep 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm very happy with my relationship, although its not been very long but still its going smooth. We know each other from the past few month and as much I know him he is an awesome...
    CuteButterflyGirl CuteButterflyGirl 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    One week ago my best friend told me that he was in love with me since one or two years ago... we still talking but i think something has change because we donĀ“t talk about the...
    Nereaml Nereaml 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    There is only one person I want to talk to he was my bestfriend and then he just left me when I needed him to be there for me. I don't think anyone knows how to be a good friend...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I met a beautiful, smart girl online 3 years ago. She told me she loved me, and we had a long distance relationship for 8 months. Many changes were happening, especially me getting...
    sjyul sjyul 26-30, F 5 Responses 12 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have always been told men are straight forward. That they pretty much say what they mean when they mean it. With that being said a man that I truly care about and love told me he...
    mouse2816 mouse2816 31-35, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hi!:) My name is Candice. I'm 14. I found myself in a very hard and difficult situation. I loved someone that didn't love me back. I met someone in 1st grade. We became best...
    Candice321 Candice321 13-15, F 1 Response 20 mins ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Should I confront my boyfriend about what I saw on his phone?? I know that it's bad to go through your boyfriend/girlfriend phone. But I had some sort of feeling I needed to. It...
    kissmyax kissmyax 18-21, F 12 Responses 2 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am working really hard on becoming a better person. I need to accept my many flaws. I have led a wonderful life but I believe my current life is not compatible with my spirit...
    breathingeasy breathingeasy 41-45, M 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I waved and smiled at my crush today, he smiled back all awkwardly and cute like he does (That's his smile X3). I feel like he likes me back, didn't talk due to the fact I was on...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F 5 Responses 12 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    These days are just like hell, I hate living in a monotony world! I crave to go out with him, have dinner, go to concerts and live our lives just like before. When we were dating...
    bigkiss1979 bigkiss1979 31-35, F 7 Responses 11 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Need some help my mum text my boyfriend and told him not to tell me sonwyjing but I seen It on his phone does that mean that he can't tell me things
    kayloulou kayloulou 22-25, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I thought i get it all off my chest on here seeing as I was reading lots of emotional abuse and psychical abuse stories on here a few weeks ago that got me moving in my decision to...
    catgirl87 catgirl87 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    A window into the emotions of a couples counseling session as the betrayed wife...and those "AHAH!" moments. We are past a year since DDay. Our sessions back then were on coping...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F Aug 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    A window into the emotions of a couples counseling session as the betrayed wife...and those "AHAH!" moments. We are past a year since DDay. Our sessions back then were on coping...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So I'm new here. I've been thinking about joining a forum for a while, just to see what other people do to work through this kind of stuff. I attempted an overdose in April. It...
    korrigan korrigan 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm at a very weird and scary but exciting & hopeful point in my life where I need to completely shed everything old and jump into something completely new. If I don't it will be...
    SirenaVonLee SirenaVonLee 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Why Need Emotional Intimacy - Emotional intimacy is not the same as sexual intimacy. Sexual intimacy can take place with or without emotional intimacy, and emotional intimacy...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My ex and I have recently started trying to kinda fix things. He said he doesn't want any other girl but me, and I don't want anyone else but him. But he told me he's still so hurt...
    GabbyCot GabbyCot 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Muti's conducting, as constantly with this kind of content, the fabric he's most cozy with and that he dominates entirely, was a miracle of airy splendor: his ability to guide the...
    Wendolynce106 Wendolynce106 31-35, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have finally accepted that my parents honestly don't love me or care about what I have to say to them or how they treat me. My whole life I've been treated differently than my...
    bestofme85 bestofme85 26-30, F 5 Responses 2 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have had so many life lesson experiences in my life, these lessons have made me understand that every person I ever met or never meet, needs to be loved and accepted, no matter...
    Mistakemaker80 Mistakemaker80 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    To start a story you need a good opening, -shiyori from The God Only Know anime, but i don't know how to do it. so let just start the story about myself, first, My name is Jiji, my...
    callmezie2 callmezie2 18-21, M 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    im too young for any of the mature "feelings." ... I want to get married at 28 years old or later.. Marry a guy who knows where he will be in life when he goes after a real career...
    SubmissiveSecrets SubmissiveSecrets 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So tonight my dad got to sit down and talk with Ashton and that went really well. I told Ashton if it did then I would go and meet his parents well..............I am scared to...
    SlimsB SlimsB 16-17, F Aug 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    No relationship is perfect and I feel like my boyfriends best mate is trying to split us up. He's had a problem with me since day one. Just because I currently unemployed. My...
    Butterflyfairy23 Butterflyfairy23 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Do you think it seems like my boyfriend is committed and making an effort in our relationship? My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and three months. It's been pretty...
    kissmyax kissmyax 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate to say it, but I think my friends are abusive. Not physically, because I wouldnt let them and they wouldn't dare but verbally and emotionally. Friend #1 I've know since we...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F Aug 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I really need some sound advice. My ex-husband lives with me. He is supposed to pay me rent and child support. But he lost his job about a year ago and has not paid me anything...
    freddiesgirl69 freddiesgirl69 41-45, F 9 Responses Sep 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Im really trying to break up with my boyfriend. We're both 17 and he just already has this idea that we're gonna get married. Not that that's a bad thing, I'm just having a severe...
    DarkGoddesss DarkGoddesss 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So, this is my life right now, it involves love, pain, fun, sadness and lots of work. I'll start by days of how it has gone. I have made a friend with a mentally challenged adult...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was a victim of domestic violence this past Saturday from my boyfriend and now that he's been bailed out of jail I've been speaking with him. All he says is that the first time...
    silarial silarial 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Am I naive to believe I'll have a successful relationship? 3 months into my relationship with my boyfriend I saw texts on his phone between him and his ex. They had been broken...
    kissmyax kissmyax 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel