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I Am Trying Not To Need Him

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    I Can't Do This.

    Its like i'm obsessed. I told him we shouldn't talk anymore. and i think i'm the only one who suffering from it. i can't sleep. i can't focus on my exam which will take place in 1.5 hours. i cry. i can't force him to love me. or talk to me. or be my friend. or...
    SummerMaiden SummerMaiden 18-21, F 1 Response May 6, 2010

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    I Think... I've Done It.

    Well... as simple as it sounds. I asked him to call it a truce with me. Yeah, I'm still hurt a bit. I still feel used. i just finished crying.   But... he said fine. And I feel totally relieved.   He's honestly a lying, unfeeling, user jerk. But I...
    SummerMaiden SummerMaiden 18-21, F May 7, 2010

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    Understanding This "space" Thing.

    He broke up with me two days ago now. From the beginning it's been weird. We've known each other since we were freshman in highschool, we even attened the same middle school. We just got close last year around September or October. We were just friends, it was fine. Until I...
    SummerMaiden SummerMaiden 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 22, 2009

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    Saying Goodbye

    So... he didn't change. he asked me back in less than a week. i said sure. but we still weren't together. and well... yeah. he still has no time for me. he's still mean and tempermental. and i stoped talking to him. just today. i needed him yesterday and he couldn't text...
    SummerMaiden SummerMaiden 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 1, 2009

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    I Still Love You

    from the moment you say you have moved on ,it doesn't mean no more crying times,and mo more stupid self control either to text or not to text him... that's what im doing,im still loving him so much...
    stilllovingyousomuch stilllovingyousomuch 18-21, F Jul 2, 2012

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    Where We Stand.

    This is all happening in a sort amount of time. Everything in our relationship seemed to happen in a short amount of time. I told my mother that we broke up. And just as I finished, he texts me. He didn't speak to me at all monday. But Tuesday, he's back. He's apologizing...
    SummerMaiden SummerMaiden 18-21, F Nov 4, 2009

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    Tragedy In Disguise

    I loved him more than anything. Just hearing his name would bring a smile to my face, a lift to my spirit. His name was Ryan. I remember the day we first met like it was yesterday, over a year ago. I never thought i would fall so deeply and desperately in love with him. He was 21...
    chelsbels105 chelsbels105 16-17, F Jun 1, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I don't know what to do. I can't persuade him of anything. He has to figure it out on his own. I just hope the happiness and love I brought into this relationship is enough for him...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 12

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    I feel helpless. It really is out of my control. I don't know if there's anything else that I can do. I'm frustrated because I had just typed out a long paragraph and it got erased...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 10

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    Right now, I need to focus on mending my insecurities and problems. Here are some quotes that I can relate to. I'll come back and read these every time I feel like breaking down...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F Oct 10

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    It has been two months since everything went down and I think I'm ready to talk about it now. He was never my boyfriend. He was somebody that I loved, but our relationship was...
    different33 different33 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 13

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    Known him for 5 years, used to even think I was in love with him. who knows, maybe I am. I just saw him again the other day in what has been about two years. It was only for 30...
    Shiro96 Shiro96 18-21, F Oct 6

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    Sometimes, i need to let go of stuff, no matter how stupid and idiotic. Sometimes, i need someone who will take the time to understand me when i need them most. Sometimes, i need...
    Halcandra Halcandra 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 2

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    I miss my boyfriend. I'm tired of this long distance thing. I keep crying. I just need him but he's in London and I'm In Georgia. I hate this so much
    samanthaj27 samanthaj27 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 5

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    I'm trying my best to lose weight... around 20lbs... 25lbs. So I'll have the ideal weight for my height... and to feel better, in how I see myself and my well being.
    theghostofsabotage theghostofsabotage 22-25, M 1 Response 52 mins ago

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    My ex beat me up a few weeks ago. I see him the other day and he see all the marks that are still on me. He won't accept he did them. He point blank refused to accept he did it. I...
    Kerry1304 Kerry1304 26-30, F 1 hr ago

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    First of all. Money, to me, is only a resource that allows me to live where I live, buy food, gas, etc. I have been rich, I have not had a cent to my family name, yet money never...
    RegicideJester RegicideJester 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 26

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    Hello, I need some advice on a problem I have been having. The issue is with my family, but I feel that before someone can give me advice you need to know back story. My mom and...
    snlnas0911 snlnas0911 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Alright guys so I'm at breaking point...I thought I was a few months ago, but now this is it. I have no idea what to do, what to think, and what's real and what's not. I've been...
    brittersnicole brittersnicole 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 15

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    Well, i don't need anyone. But if someone needs a friend to talk to, i'm here, you can message me :)
    LovelyBitch1 LovelyBitch1 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I have GOT to get this out... I cant keep it bottled in any longer. I may only be rambling to myself here, but I dont care, at least it will be out of my system. ( I'm going to...
    ashuriiNikooru ashuriiNikooru 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 26

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    Well there's this guy I met at the end of May this year. He's a senior now and I'm a junior. We're in Highschool just incase Ya didn't guess it. Him and I started off as just...
    ambitousk ambitousk 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 25

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    There is beauty in all, and there is the ugly. Neither exist in solitary corners. Neither can survive without the other. There is balance in all thing, and we seek equilibrium...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F Oct 11

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    Me & my now ex have just broken up after 7 months. We've been through a lot of ups & downs he said I was the best thing that ever happened to him & he's never been in love like...
    CandiceRx3 CandiceRx3 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 10

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    I need to learn to let go of my ex. Sorry my story is going to be long.. need to get it out there. Me and my ex were dating for 7 years. We started dating when I was 18 and now...
    ellekay27 ellekay27 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 24

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    need somone to talk to, love to chat about random things, MESSAGE ME :)
    shanelambe99 shanelambe99 13-15, M 1 Response 57 mins ago

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    I need someone to talk to;(
    Rach1544 Rach1544 16-17, F 32 mins ago

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    Hello, I guess I should start by saying I’m lonely. It’s something I’ve gotten used to for the most part, but it does hurt. I came across this site by accident, but it looks...
    SirQuacky SirQuacky 16-17, T 2 Responses Oct 9

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    After 5 years, my husband is moving out. In July he told me he thought he was gay. It's October now, and the movers are coming this week or next. I don't want to be here during...
    joujoubee joujoubee 46-50, F 3 Responses Oct 14

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    I have no energy left to fight my fears and insecurities. I know people would probably laugh a 24-year-old who acts like a kid and is miserable. Who'd want to be near me, right...
    Concerto Concerto 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 3

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    So here's the thing, I've been with my girlfriend for 5months now but I've known her since January. Our relationship has had some rough patches but I felt we were doing alright. We...
    niebros87 niebros87 26-30, M Oct 3

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    So my best friends boyfriend lied and said I was trying to be with him when she went on a trip across the country. She instantly believed him even though we've caught him in so...
    Chloe8221 Chloe8221 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 4

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    While I was at school (it was around 2 pm), my mom came home to find the dogs barking like mad and a mother and baby squirrel trying to get over the fence. The mom was trying to...
    ravenzewolf ravenzewolf 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 9

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    I am so incredibly tired of my bipolar husband and the way he acts Literally today he's been acting like he's lost it completely and I am trying to be there for him but I tell him...
    Virgo1981 Virgo1981 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 12

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    I don't like telling people my personal problems because it makes me feel like I'm talking to a therapist or something. Whenever I do work up the nerve to vent to someone, I feel...
    DarkGoddesss DarkGoddesss 16-17, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    Help me. Why doesn't my boyfriend care about me anymore?? We got into an argument yesterday and I stopped talking to him for a couple hours and then while I was trying to talk...
    kissmyax kissmyax 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 7

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    It's been around one to two months since my boyfriend and I have stopped dating. I haven't been talking to him for about a month. Removed him from any and all of my media so I...
    Kinrix Kinrix 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 12

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    I am trying to accept the fact that the man that i love will never open up to me. He is not the type of guy who expresses himself he would rather keep it all in.... but that is bad...
    Dsanders13 Dsanders13 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 14

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    I like this guy but he's a complete jerk. He's exploitive and he's a drug addict. He's getting me into drugs and I'm enjoying it. He's fun and I feel comfortable around him. I...
    Anonimaninja Anonimaninja 22-25, F a week ago

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    ATTN!!! I'm very happy to inform ya all that all hope isn't lost at all. this message is to the BARREN WOMEN, IMPOTENT MEN, and any one in-need of the fruit of the WOMB. My NAME...
    Michelle200 Michelle200 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    ATTN!!! I'm very happy to inform ya all that all hope isn't lost at all. this message is to the BARREN WOMEN, IMPOTENT MEN, and any one in-need of the fruit of the WOMB. My NAME is...
    Michelle200 Michelle200 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    Ok so I really need some advice I have well kinda a boyfriend but he has children he don't get to see cause their mother and him don't see eye to eye and well he kinda just gave up...
    mouse2816 mouse2816 31-35, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I broke with my boyfriend and year ago. And if you have read my earlier posts, you would know what kind and nature of a guy he is. We broke up cuz he didnt gave me even a slightest...
    rainbow2196 rainbow2196 18-21, F Oct 7

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    Ok I don't know how many others have gone threw this but its bullshit!!! I'm chatting to a gentleman on ep I check his profile since I dont add kids well needless to say today he...
    SecretDesiress SecretDesiress 41-45, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    (Sex question) Not sure about this but here it goes. My bf and I have been together for almost 3yrs and have recently been living together for the last 2 months or so. Our sex life...
    bnebbs bnebbs 22-25, F 4 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    If there is a prophet out there I would love advice. I am a prophet of God. He shows me things. He's been doing this since I was a child. Well, for the first time in my life He is...
    WhereIsTheLogic WhereIsTheLogic 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 23

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    Love. 4 simple letters but the making itself isn't so simple. It has been said people come in and out of your life for many reasons and in still trying to figure out why he went...
    emilyewatson1 emilyewatson1 13-15, F 10 hrs ago

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    To make a long story short I was talking to a guy in the summer and you know we were jus talking and talking so much for a good two weeks and the next thing you know it We were...