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I Am Trying Not To Need Him

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    Understanding This "space" Thing.

    He broke up with me two days ago now. From the beginning it's been weird. We've known each other since we were freshman in highschool, we even attened the same middle school. We just got close last year around September or October. We were just friends, it was fine. Until I...
    SummerMaiden SummerMaiden 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 22, 2009

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    I Still Love You

    from the moment you say you have moved on ,it doesn't mean no more crying times,and mo more stupid self control either to text or not to text him... that's what im doing,im still loving him so much...
    stilllovingyousomuch stilllovingyousomuch 18-21, F Jul 2, 2012

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    I Can't Do This.

    Its like i'm obsessed. I told him we shouldn't talk anymore. and i think i'm the only one who suffering from it. i can't sleep. i can't focus on my exam which will take place in 1.5 hours. i cry. i can't force him to love me. or talk to me. or be my friend. or...
    SummerMaiden SummerMaiden 18-21, F 1 Response May 6, 2010

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    I Think... I've Done It.

    Well... as simple as it sounds. I asked him to call it a truce with me. Yeah, I'm still hurt a bit. I still feel used. i just finished crying.   But... he said fine. And I feel totally relieved.   He's honestly a lying, unfeeling, user jerk. But I...
    SummerMaiden SummerMaiden 18-21, F May 7, 2010

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    Where We Stand.

    This is all happening in a sort amount of time. Everything in our relationship seemed to happen in a short amount of time. I told my mother that we broke up. And just as I finished, he texts me. He didn't speak to me at all monday. But Tuesday, he's back. He's apologizing...
    SummerMaiden SummerMaiden 18-21, F Nov 4, 2009

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    Tragedy In Disguise

    I loved him more than anything. Just hearing his name would bring a smile to my face, a lift to my spirit. His name was Ryan. I remember the day we first met like it was yesterday, over a year ago. I never thought i would fall so deeply and desperately in love with him. He was 21...
    chelsbels105 chelsbels105 16-17, F Jun 1, 2013

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    Saying Goodbye

    So... he didn't change. he asked me back in less than a week. i said sure. but we still weren't together. and well... yeah. he still has no time for me. he's still mean and tempermental. and i stoped talking to him. just today. i needed him yesterday and he couldn't text...
    SummerMaiden SummerMaiden 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 1, 2009

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    So I met this guy at the beginning of summer marching band. I didn't think of him at all because I didn't even know his name. Eventually we started to talk more and more. I then...
    Jacobhowardtx Jacobhowardtx 13-15 1 Response Dec 10

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    My boyfriend breaks my heart every day. After 4 years together, I finally stopped hinting when I needed him or when he did something to upset me. I just started telling him...
    dodgethebullet dodgethebullet 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 2

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    So essentially I have one really good friend who I can actually be honest with and who can make me smile and is the only person I can bring myself to trust...very important person...
    alphawolf9 alphawolf9 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 24

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    How does a heart rebuild what was lost so long ago? How can it walk in this world knowing the one he is inlove with hates him? He lost his love, it's gone, nothing will bring it...
    Kevin2017 Kevin2017 16-17, M Nov 20

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    Why is it, that when things are at their worst and when I really need him that he's never there..?
    pxthetic pxthetic 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    Because I've been a bad girl and need him to punish me
    thequitebutcuriousone thequitebutcuriousone 18-21, F Nov 20

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    Because I've been a bad girl and need him to punish me
    thequitebutcuriousone thequitebutcuriousone 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 20

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    I am trying very hard to be happy but mrs Scrooge is really bringing me down.
    grinbearit grinbearit 51-55, M 58 mins ago

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    It sometimes takes a new person in your life to gain a better perspective of your past. What I believed I never had, might have been, that I never understood the power of love...
    EverlyAnn EverlyAnn 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    Ugh... you know sometimes I wonder if my dad and I are just playing this elaborate lie with each other. I mean in some cases I really hope that we are just trying to see who will...
    ForgottenMale ForgottenMale 26-30, M 1 Response a week ago

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    There are many things over a span of years that I have allowed to be said about me, and to me by members of this site. I have told you repeatedly that I do not speak out to...
    Joseph84 Joseph84 31-35, M 2 Responses Dec 8

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    My boyfriend has been in jail since October 6th. Before he went away we had hit a rough patch in our relationship. I was feeling really distant and didn't really give him any...
    Fkinnon Fkinnon 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 5

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    I am in a strange situation with my ex fiance. We were together for four years, and very happy, when he suddenly lost his feelings for me. It was really hard to understand why...
    arrowcat6 arrowcat6 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 1

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    some think because God answers our prayers we are exempt from trials and tribulation ,,this is not so ,just the opposite ,,,we are in a battle with dark forces ,, just...
    rckt148 rckt148 51-55, M a week ago

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    My ex broke up with me just over a week ago after a 2 and a half year relationship that was very serious and we love each other very much. He broke it off with me because he said...
    GhostGirl97 GhostGirl97 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    But I. Still love him dearly :(
    Xcinderella Xcinderella 16-17, F 5 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    So... Around last year at this time, my boss at the time had started to send me emails & messages, and telling me about personal issues (marriage, kids, family, sex, etc.)... So i...
    poopfantastica poopfantastica 70+ Nov 28

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    This guy and I dated 11 months before I broke up with him. He lived an hour away and it was so hard to see him because his parents hated me and my parents hated him and I was...
    dcBVB dcBVB 16-17, F Dec 3

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    Im so confused I need answers.. Okay so im currently in a relationship with my boyfriend of 1 year and 5 months. We could have been together for 2 years and 5 months but He broke...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 20

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    Never in a million years did I ever think I would face myself in this situation... I started dating a older guy who I fell in love with and gave him my virginity, I was absolutely...
    Nadia27 Nadia27 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 22

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    I am a nice person, I live by the Golden Rule even when it doesn't serve me. It seems several people in my life do the opposite ALL the time. It's frustrating. My ex came to get...
    antidote4toxicity antidote4toxicity 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 26

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    What do you do when you are lucky enough to have found someone who loves you and who wants to be with you, and you even trust them and can talk to them about anything, but you end...
    snorre snorre 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 29

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    WHEN A FAMILY MEMBER BULLIES ANOTHER FAMILY MEMBER I don't necessarily need someone to talk to but what I want to do is bring awareness to those who have felt bullied by a family...
    pinterest pinterest 56-60, F 22 hrs ago

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    I don't know whether I'm in the wrong or not. And it's highly upsetting to me. My boyfriend watches p0rn. A LOT. Its a daily occurrence, and no matter if I send pictures or text...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 24

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    I think my ex still has feelings .I was friends with him before I dated him.We dated a month broke it off because I was young and stupid.we stop talking for years we reconnected we...
    kellner27 kellner27 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 4

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    I am 22 years old and still live with my parents and dealing with I protective parents.I was a good child I stood out of trouble and never drank.I tell my dad who I am hanging out...
    kellner27 kellner27 18-21, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    I dated my friend in high school.It did not last because I was young and scared .The reationship was good we never fight or anything .we stop talking and we dated other people but...
    kellner27 kellner27 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 20

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    I believed this was my fault from the minute I said "I'm in love with you." I didn't think after that, everything would begin to change and feelings would become more unbearable...
    ThatOneComplexGirl ThatOneComplexGirl 18-21, F Nov 21

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    my dad's mom just died last week... I didn't know her...so it feels weird to call her my grandmother but my dad and I were never close either...he was just never the dad who...
    lostinthoughtss lostinthoughtss 26-30, F Nov 22

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    I just feel so fed up with eveything. My boyfriend seems like he don't care. You not suppose to feel like this but he just seems so selfish. We meant to be trying again. I been...
    stupid28 stupid28 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    About year ago I dated a guy from high school on 4 years I did not want nothing to do with him or anyone from high school so I got new facebook found new friends.A year later my...
    kellner27 kellner27 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 10

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    Ok so I was in a really complicated relationship for about a year, everything that could have gone wrong did. He broke up with me a little over a month ago. I struggle with...
    dmbpal dmbpal 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Crushing On The Executive Chef The question is: is it a crush or a strong admiration? Ever since my first day at work for this company, the first thing I notice was him. I am...
    silkteddyy silkteddyy 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 29

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    Okay. Here's the story. My boyfriend and I are trying our hardest to get him here, but he is having issues at home and he doesn't have the money to leave. He needs to leave though...
    thewritestuff27 thewritestuff27 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 4

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    I recently received some sad news which me and my fiance have taken pretty bad (my fiance more). He went out last night which meant to drink and he didn't come back till next...
    Bitchesbehatin95 Bitchesbehatin95 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 8

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    Just buried my hero, my dad cancer is flippn ugly... Small cell lung cancer... It's aggressive, nasty and fast moving. I couldn't see it's progress he was taken of chemo as it was...
    jessie121412 jessie121412 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 20

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    Me and my boyfriend went out last night with my mates and is mates and I was not drunk and his mate shown him snapchat on his phone of a girl snapchattim him so I said to my...
    kayloulou kayloulou 22-25, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I need some advice. How can two polar opposite (emotion-wise) people expect to spend the rest of their lives together? I thrive off intimacy and affection. My boyfriend admits to...
    EmmyChi EmmyChi 22-25 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    There is this guy that I have been with off and on for about three years now. I have so many feelings built up, both good and bad that I want him to know because I can't hold it in...
    imgivingupnow imgivingupnow 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 21

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