I Am Trying to Accept That I May Never Find True Love

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    i think ive already accepted it,

    ive fallen in love a few times through out my life and each heart break was pretty devastating and changed the way i feel about love,i think some people really are meant to not have a significant other.i don't look for anyone or anything,im not the kind of person anyone want's to...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Oct 15, 2015

    Blaming Myself

    I cant blame men too much - coz i have realized i got bored easily and actually deep inside, i m always afraid of being abandoned.my first relationship, which lasted for a week or more, has fxxked me up - i was so convinced that i liked the guy and we could develop into something...
    MissisNobody MissisNobody
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 25, 2011

    Certainly starting to feel

    that way! I don't know. I thought a while back maybe I was just creating excuses not to find someone. I hated going out as I'm not much of a drinker or socialiser. Then I thought. No. Go. Make the effort and meet people. But I found SO many women who were still p*$$ed at their...
    picklebobble picklebobble
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Sep 14, 2014

    Reason Why?

    I don't think I'm good looking enough and I don't have the balls to go up to a woman and start and conversation so she could get to know me if she was the kind of woman to look past my looks.
    THEINSIDER20 THEINSIDER20
    31-35, M
    Aug 8, 2013

    Missed Connection

    I'm accepting the truth because I'm not going to build my life on false promises. I'm nearly 23 and have never been in a relationship. And I don't get those who have been in them either. I know that I was only meant for platonic bonds. That's part of my soul's essence. I'm fine...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe
    22-25
    11 Responses Jun 8, 2011

    Truth Is...

    Love for me never works out. I may or may not find true love.
    BloodyTale BloodyTale
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 8, 2013

    Her heart is a barren wasteland.

    There's so much of it there- there's heart as far as the eyes can see. But it's empty. Nothing lives there. Nothing grows there. Nothing thrives on all it has to offer. It just sits there, day after day. Waiting... hoping... that one day, somebody will see it and say, "I am home...
    iSpyce iSpyce
    31-35
    2 Responses Sep 18, 2015

    I Used To Believe - Part 1

    [All people, places and events in the following story are real. However, names have been changed to protect the identities of those involved.] I used to believe in true love. I used to believe in love at first sight. I used to believe in a lot of things; that when you’ve found...
    UnrealNova UnrealNova
    22-25, M
    Jun 3, 2013

    Atleast not right now.

    . I'm already tired of waking up each day hoping that maybe perhaps i would meet the guy i would love. I'm tired continuously wishing for someone to love me. I'm tired falling for someone who i know who wouldn't love me back.. I'm just really tired of thinking of love everytime...
    kmisfit123 kmisfit123
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Aug 2, 2014

    i am optimistic i will find a creative open

    minded girl to connect with but its been difficult to say the least..
    ethankerouac ethankerouac
    18-21, M
    Dec 9, 2015

    What Is true love?

      What is "true love"? What if your fear of being hurt again, keeps you from moving forward? How or where do you begin to find true love? When and if you do happen to find a person, how do you begin to trust someone, let alone love them? I don't think I've ever been "in love...
    HelenBak HelenBak
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Dec 1, 2012

    Oh God..

    I wonder if it's possible to be content with that idea. The way I see it is, that It's not so much that the love is missing in one's life, but the fact that one is without something others have. Basically it's not about having the true love, rather,  it's the fact that one...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick
    22-25
    4 Responses Oct 2, 2010

    Always wanted to find my true love at a younger

    age but I may accept it will never be and maybe in another life time my wish will become a reality. http://m.wimp.com/finalrequest/
    YoungHeartedSoul YoungHeartedSoul
    41-45, M
    Oct 28, 2014

    Is It Me?

    I am really starting to ask myself if I am just a horrible person. It is tough to have an accurate self image. We will always try to view ourselves in a positive light. But the way things have been going, I really wonder if it is me. I was with my ex for six years. I was nice at...
    madz28 madz28
    26-30, M
    6 Responses Oct 1, 2011

    I don't think that "true love" exists,

    meaning that there really is no such thing as a perfect person who will "complete" you. But I do believe that you can find a good relationship with someone by just building and developing and working on it overtime. That's what I've been doing at the moment.
    LittleMidnight LittleMidnight
    18-21
    4 Responses Oct 16, 2015

    I have many female friends

    but no one to say I love you to. I've been single for over two years now but it's funny because it doesn't feel that way. It's not to much of a big deal just miss holding someone at night and loving someone.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 8, 2015

    I am trying to work on my issues

    that stop this from happening, but I don't think I will get though them in this lifetime, as such I will never really know true love, other than the family kind and me having pets as my children. I just won't be able to with a special woman it seems. I am not unique or rare in...
    1niceguy4u 1niceguy4u
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Oct 15, 2015

    I Am Trying Not to Accept That I May Never Find True Love

     Here's a little background on me for those that don't know: I have never been in a relationship, never "loved", yadda, yadda , yadda and I'm 24 now.   In a previous post I wrote, I thought that maybe somehow I wasn't worthy of being in a relationship...
    Tummie Tummie
    26-30, M
    34 Responses Mar 20, 2009
    Cocrispy Cocrispy
    22-25, M
    5 Responses Oct 16, 2015

    Every time I think I've found someone

    that I think things might last with something happens and I still end up all alone...
    annalysia annalysia
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 18

    Hard To Admit, But It Will Probably Never Happen

    Well, I am a smart girl and I see things as they are based on evidence, on experience. Having this clear vision helps me a lot in being successful in life. But it is also showing me that true love may never happen to me. I have met tons of people in many different places...
    thinkandfeel thinkandfeel
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Oct 3, 2010
    recentlyfree recentlyfree
    31-35, M
    Nov 7, 2015

    I Am trying to accept it

    but at the same time . Theres a little hope ..
    DeeplyLoved43 DeeplyLoved43
    16-17, F
    5 Responses Dec 8, 2015

    What Is And What Should Never Be.

    It has been since 2009 that i have been in a relationship with someone who publicly acknowledged me as their girlfriend. For the past 4 years if i was every involved with someone it was kept under wraps. However, I'm known as the depressed girl and lately it seems men are...
    EMCQ EMCQ
    18-21, F
    Aug 22, 2013

    I Used To Believe - Part 2

    [All people, places and events in the following story are real. However, names have been changed to protect the identities of those involved.] Seconds ticked by like hours, the waiting game is the hardest game to play. Eventually, just as I’d given up hope, a message flashed...
    UnrealNova UnrealNova
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jun 3, 2013

    Maybe It's Destiny

    I'm not happy.........I don't think I ever will be.My first love, possibly my true love...... is in love with someone else, and it's too late for me to express my feelings. I know I should've said something sooner. And even though I more than likely would've been rejected, at...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Dec 10, 2011

    I have had so many life lesson experiences in

    my life, these lessons have made me understand that every person I ever met or never meet, needs to be loved and accepted, no matter what. Being human is one of the best gifts the universe has given us. Life is always teaching us things, and it's our choice whether we want to...
    Mistakemaker80 Mistakemaker80
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 13, 2014

    https://admiracion15.

    wordpress.com/wp-login.php hi.. i attempted to write on love, please take some time out and read, tell me what you think :-)
    whatishappening15 whatishappening15
    22-25, F
    Aug 5, 2015

    I May Have Already

    I'm a few months to 23 now, most of my friends are engaged or married, have a child or two or have been "going together" for several years, some since high school. As for me, truth be told I've never been in a relationship, or tried for that matter. I've never gone on a date or...
    orderedchaos orderedchaos
    22-25, M
    Aug 13, 2013

    I Didn'T Want To Accept It But...

    I've been working on accepting this for a long time. I think I've finally almost accepting it. I'm one of those people that was not meant to find true love. It ****** me off because there are people out there that totally abuse love and treat the ones that are in love with them...
    Vbot123 Vbot123
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jun 23, 2013

    Pffffffffffft

    A few months ago, I had said this to myself. I was sure I would never be loved the way I craved to be, resigned to the fact I would be alone forever. But it was when this happened that she found me, out of nowhere she came and swept me up in her beauty. I feel in love when...
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp
    26-30, M
    6 Responses Oct 4, 2010

    after so many times of trying

    and putting myself out there I can finally say.. IM DONE. I'm through. I'm trying to accept it, it's really hard, and very painful it... hurts it really hurts. That's one thing I've always wanted, and it seems like that ship has sailed pretty deep. so cheers to me being alone...
    Jose020 Jose020
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Sep 16, 2015

    IT'S Terrifing.....

     ~ To think that I may NEVER find true everlasting love. To never find someone to call my very own, who will love me, take care of me, be there through thick & thin. It's so terrifing to try to come to terms with that probability..... It makes me sad & lonely. I know...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    11 Responses Mar 17, 2009

    Is a woman who enjoys to be eaten out,

    Sexy talk and messing around really that hard to find
    KaleveraX3000 KaleveraX3000
    18-21, M
    Feb 17

    That's Not True

    I suppose I'm at an age where I'm trying to accept that I may never find true love, but I'm also second-guessing as to why I try to accept that. I've accepted no love for so long, why should I even worry about this thing called "true love"?  At this point, I'd be happy with...
    flyinfish flyinfish
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Oct 13, 2012
    LoneWolf37 LoneWolf37
    36-40
    Dec 8, 2015

    i never find gf, i found one lday she is 17

    year older then me but we r mature age anyway. im 28 nd she s 45 nd she is about 165cm tall nd im 170cm tall whatever its now 4 year she s talking with me nd walking with, anytime when go to shoping everyone looking im just feel shy lit bit,. i m litle bit baby face that s y...
    leebrondon leebrondon
    22-25
    1 Response Feb 4, 2014

    every guy I talk to only wants one thing.

    I was in a LDR since I was 11. I'm 20 now. He ruined me. He was so verbally abusive and now I'm sure he lied our whole relationship. For a while LDR's were the only thing that worked for me because affection and feelings creep me out. But now I can't help but wonder what it's...
    sammilion sammilion
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Aug 6, 2015

    Searching

    What if there's a chance you found the person you are supposed to be with, but they like someone else? I will be the first one to say I am very odd with my feelings, and I'm really not sure where my heart or head ever truly lies, but as of right now I'm really lost. Last year...
    cindniss cindniss
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Aug 12, 2013

    Yes right now, at this moment of my life,

    I feel so hopeless in finding my true love. I don't want to expect anymore. I only have one great love.
    mabuhayka mabuhayka
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Sep 16, 2015

    I know now .. That I will never find a man .

    . That will accept me for who am .. I do my best to me .. an it hurts when you think that you might be close an then you feel that feeling .. '' Its all a ******* game .. I'm a big Woman .. does that mean that I should take the bull .. no !! If I'm not what you want .. leave me...
    lov87nhrass lov87nhrass
    46-50, F
    May 13, 2014
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