I Am Trying to 'figure Out' My Bisexuality

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    Erasing bisexuality is revolting.

    It isn't a "phase" and we do exist.
    gangstabreath gangstabreath
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 3

    I identify as straight

    but love the female body...I want to eat a girl and play with her breasts
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Apr 15, 2015

    I am married to a man

    but yet the thought of being with another woman is driving me crazy. It all started when a friend of mine confessed that she had slept with another woman at work after a Christmas party, she explained in detail how good it was and has done this 4 times since. I now find myself...
    lovesshopping lovesshopping
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jan 31, 2014

    I think girls are hot

    and s*xy i won't mind doing s*xual things with them in bed. But I also love men and would be interested being in a relationship with one and would love to have s*x with them..does this make me bis*xual?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    15 Responses Feb 18

    "So... do you prefer girls

    or guys?" Me: Both.
    JeSuisAmira JeSuisAmira
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Mar 12

    Now that I think about it,

    I've only ever had crushes on girls and I also fantasize about doing stuff to them. But, I'm kinda nervous to say 'I am gay' because I'm not really 100% sure yet.
    Pain24 Pain24
    16-17, F
    1 Response Apr 20

    My bisexuality has been nagging at me

    since a young age. I knew I had an attraction to other girls when I was in kindergarten, but I always figured that it was normal to like other girls. I was a naive child and didn't know what lesbians or bisexuals were in till I was 11 years old. At this age I found out that not...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Mar 18

    I am bisexual and my boyfriend knows

    that I am but doesn't quite understand how I feel.
    TashaMK TashaMK
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Apr 14

    *PLEASE READ* I've already accepted my

    bisexuality and I just wanted to share my story to all of you here who are scared or confused or even ashamed of your mental and sexual desires. I've felt all those things before. When I was a kid I was confused and ashamed, thinking it was wrong since I was always surrounded...
    SonyaHazel SonyaHazel
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Apr 6, 2015
    MommaAfrica MommaAfrica
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Mar 12

    I'm A Closet Bisexual Who Has Problems With Women...

    I've had my doubts for a while, but it wasn't until rather recently that I accepted the fact that I was bisexual. I had my first experience with another guy a few years ago and really enjoyed it...a lot. Since then, I've hooked up with three other guys and had a blast CD'ing for...
    Tea85 Tea85
    26-30, M
    4 Responses May 18, 2013

    why is this so hard to figure out.

    am I bi? its like a movie in my head where "stuff" is happening with me and a guy except these days, I'm imagining "stuff" is happening with me and a girl and I dont seem to mind pressing the play button for that. NO I like guys its all I've ever known. NO its girls now. NO IM...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 1

    The idea of being with another girl turns me on

    just as much as being with a guy
    bisexkitten bisexkitten
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Nov 17, 2015

    I really still haven't one hundred percent

    figured out just how much I lean one way or the other, but I am definitely attracted strongly to both sexes. I haven't experimented much with girls but definitely want to more so that I can really figured out my identity I guess.
    Sammiebaby1016 Sammiebaby1016
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Dec 5, 2013

    i was in love with a girl once.

    but never opened up to her n still can't forget about her. i think she also liked me since she hinted it with her body language n some things she said. Issue is that I'm with a man who i love but often feel emotionally n physicality he isn't fulfilling my needs. Its been long...
    breeze16 breeze16
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 10

    Hey everyone! I'm 19 ans i've been questioning

    my sexuality since i'm 14. I think i finally found myself and now i'm able to put a word on what i am : bisexual. But i have few problems with this new situation. First, i'm scared to tell my best friend and all of my girl friends because they might think i want to date them...
    Lynaaa Lynaaa
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 27

    I have never officially come out of the closet.

    I have told a few people I am attracted to females. I can get completely distracted at work when I have clients that are amazingly beautiful women. I have had an experience with a married couple, but really no one knows about that. I just don't know what to even think anymore...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Apr 23, 2014
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    9 Responses Jul 13, 2015

    My exes knew about it,

    and while some of them playfully thinks it is interesting, I find it quite liberating that I can be 100% open to who I am dating. I make it clear though that being bisexual is not and will never be equal to being promiscuous. I am loyal when it comes to relationships and would...
    Qtrelle Qtrelle
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Sep 24, 2015

    I go from "I don't need to label myself" to "im

    bi but 67.3% more into girls" so often im annoying myself haha
    Alloutthere Alloutthere
    16-17, F
    Mar 17

    I'd like to say that I've already figured it

    out, not that this is a cognitive problem. From what I understand about myself I'm about 99% attracted to women and 1% attracted to men. My notion of romantic love is strictly hetero sexual and I don't feel comfortable acting on my attraction to women. I don't want to give away...
    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jul 19, 2015

    I have always had heterosexual relationships

    but I've also always fantasized having sex with women. I please myself to lesbian *****. I enjoy having sex with men and love to turn them on and please them but I'm yearning to find a girlfriend I can play with for the first time. I fantasize with orally pleasing a woman and...
    BestMe3 BestMe3
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Aug 19, 2015

    I Am So Sure I Am Bisexual.

    When I was younger, I always thought I was straight. I mean I am totally into boys, I actually have a boyfriend and I love him. Especially when we have sex. Mind blowing. Though I know I am not just straight because of something that happened two years back. My boyfriend works...
    sexygalpal24 sexygalpal24
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 1, 2013

    I once lived with a gay guy many years ago (17

    to be precise) and we partied hard one night and he rubbed against me jokingly, but I felt him get harder. When we were queuing for the cloak room he told me the tickets were in his pockets and I reached in on both sides, one hand got tickets the other got a hand full of a semi...
    Toadstoolman Toadstoolman
    41-45, M
    5 Responses Feb 23

    I think a bi girl who wouldn't date a bi boy

    because he also likes men, is a total hypocrite.
    Ilovecharlie Ilovecharlie
    18-21, M
    11 Responses Jun 15, 2014

    Are any of the bi girls on here a sub?

    I'm a sub but I wouldn't know how to find a dom who's a girl.
    blackroses75 blackroses75
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 27

    I think what I'm trying to figure out is the

    degree. If that makes sense? I've done oral but don't know if I'm a top or bottom or?? I am picky with guys though so that limits opportunities to experiment. ;)
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Mar 8
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 4, 2014

    Hmm....Would I like Taco

    or Hot Dog? Great now I'm hungry.
    Typingkeyboard Typingkeyboard
    22-25, M
    1 Response Apr 1

    I remember when I was in 8th grade my friend my

    age thad a party and she brought her friend over for her birthday and I remember we were all three on the couch and my friends friend put her body and legs on me she wrapped her self on me and I got so turned on by her I knew I was sort of gay I didn't know why she turned me...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses May 5, 2015

    I think I might be bisexual.

    I'm a little confused I'm not really sure if I am.
    3rose3 3rose3
    18-21, F
    13 Responses May 17, 2014

    I seriously can't understand what I want.

    I've never been more confused in my life. I need to experiment with a female but where do I find one? Sigh..
    scrubs92 scrubs92
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 4

    I am almost certain about my bisexuality,

    without having sexual experiences on both sides, but it is scary to say "I am this". I don't really have people to talk to about it, which complicates the situation for me. I know my friends would be accepting, but I know that some would not be understanding, and I don't want...
    FIame FIame
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Apr 11

    Ever since the age of 13 I have felt attracted

    to both men and women but I can't talk to anyone about it. I hate being this way
    DarkRayon DarkRayon
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Apr 20

    Does anyone want to meet?

    Boy or girl to do anything ;) Bristol please
    DizzyL20 DizzyL20
    16-17, M
    Mar 31

    my sexuality has always been an issue

    for me personally. I have tossed the ideas of being "straight", "bisexual", "lesbian", and even "pansexual". I do suppose it is normal for a teenage girl to go through phases of each. it's normal to want to experiment with all different kinds of people and genders. but for me...
    allwasgolden allwasgolden
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jun 13, 2015

    I think I'm straight

    and I've liked dudes all my life, but I have fooled around with girls some and I do spend an awful lot of time staring at other chicks bodies - particularly butts. I love butts ;)
    nothingnobodynowhere nothingnobodynowhere
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Nov 19, 2014
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 16

    I'm terrified to tell my parents

    that I'm bisexual. They'll probably send me to straight camp and I'm just absolutely horrified of them finding out.
    jess965 jess965
    16-17, F
    Feb 29

    Bisexual-Ish Gray Area... Je Ne Sais Pas!

    Hi, good news and odd news, no nothing bad per se just a je ne sais quoi thing... Lately I noticed or really accepted rather that I am most likely bisexual. The hitch? I only seem sexually attracted to girls when I have a crush on them that is serious, or am actually head-over...
    Lovelife090994 Lovelife090994
    18-21, M
    32 Responses Sep 22, 2013

    After talking to lesbian friends of mine,

    I have determined that there is prejudice against bisexuals in the LGBT community. My friends think bisexuals are greedy and confused. I don't understand why lesbians are giving us the same crap that heterosexuals are giving them. The first time I tried to date a lesbian she...
    DoneAnd0ver DoneAnd0ver
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Jun 9, 2015

    I feel like if I am with a man I want a woman

    but if I'm with a woman I want a man. I wish I could have my cake and eat it.
    Gingie0 Gingie0
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 22

    Women, or men, so hard to choose.

    Both sexes have so much to offer. Never have I had a relationship with either, because I don't know which one I want. Opportunities for a relationship have presented themselves, but are never taken.
    quantumindigosoul quantumindigosoul
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 9

    So a few days ago I made one of the most

    difficult things I have ever done in my life, I came out as a bisexual (almost gay) to one of my closest friends, I was terrified, cause I had two friends (one of them being my best friend for over 19 years and btw I'm 21) that say they support lgbt but said if they had a...
    randomuser94 randomuser94
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 23, 2015

    I am not to sure about my sexuality.

    i prefer guys most of the time but sometimes i can get close to a girl too.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 29

    I'm married and have bi sexual thoughts.

    Ladies what would you think if you knew that about your husband?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Mar 4

    I'm in a hotel looking

    for guys to play with me before I go home to Tammy tomorrow. I've never done anything with a guy without her around before. Can't believe how excited the prospect makes me
    armybrattt armybrattt
    31-35, F
    21 Responses Nov 12, 2015

    Hi guy's me Carly again sorry

    for not posting any stories for a while just been busy. Okay today story is about me going to Japan with my friend. So it started a couple of weeks ago my friend asked me how much do they pay to do exotic cosplay I tell good amount and ask why do you want to know and she tells...
    boo000 boo000
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Jun 25, 2014

    I was talking with my mom about this guy.

    And I was like "yeah he's BI" and my mom was like "you know what that means" like she looked completely shocked. And I wanted to be like "well ya cause I am BI" but she would've flipped lmao
    jess965 jess965
    16-17, F
    1 Response Mar 3
    Yungleansadboys Yungleansadboys
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Mar 13

    I am super new to this

    so I'm hoping for people's advice on this. I've only dated men but I'm really convinced that I'm into women too. But I haven't done anything with a women before I feel an urge to! It's driving me nuts. This is going to be a long story so hopefully you guys continue to read this...
    mejr mejr
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 2

    Guys this is just a survey ,

    boxers or briefs?
    Uridealman Uridealman
    26-30, M
    8 Responses Mar 9

    I'm a 20 year old male college student

    and I'm not sure what I'm feeling right now, especially since I always assumed that I was 100% straight. Coming from a pretty religious background, and holding on to these beliefs very strongly, I have always felt unwilling to discuss this, even in my thoughts. Not that I am...
    ProxyVox ProxyVox
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Apr 7

    I've always dated women,

    but have always loved the male body. I have experimented with men, and was surprised at how aroused I was. I am talking ready to explode before I had my pants off. I don't like the idea of kissing a man, although I don't rule it out, but nothing gets me hotter than tight abs and...
    flrsub1977 flrsub1977
    36-40, M
    7 Responses Dec 28, 2013
    NeverFair4Clare NeverFair4Clare
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 20

    What's to figure out?

    Being bi is the ultimate in human expression. It is the full sexual acceptance of humanity based on their character and celebrating the accentuated traits of each sex with pleasure. It is the ability to understand the warmth of men, the strength of women and see within both...
    VespyrSkye VespyrSkye
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Mar 8, 2015
    11Tanycheeky 11Tanycheeky
    13-15, F
    Apr 8

    I have a huge need to have sex with another

    woman. my body is aching just thinking about it. and is it because being with a man, I haven't found enough satisfaction yet? I just want to find someone to experiment with.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Feb 17

    I have been thinking a lot recently about my

    sexuality, and thinking a lot about what it would be like to be with another man. I would love to meet another guy or guys in my area around my age who are thinking the same things. I would want to discuss how they feel see how we hit things off and take it from there. I want...
    Ronin616 Ronin616
    31-35, M
    1 Response Nov 4, 2015

    It's been an interesting

    and helpful experience being on EP. For all the people that I've met, it was a pleasure commenting, responding, and corresponding with you. The journey is more important than the destination, and I hope that in the future we can continue this journey together. But until then, be...
    c0nfus3d22 c0nfus3d22
    18-21, F
    Apr 8
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