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I Am Trying to Find a Specific Type of Person

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    (I have a broken hand, and have my arm in a plaster.) Me: “Hello this is [name] from IT support. What can I do for you?” Customer: “Hello, I have a problem.” Me: “Okay, what is your concern?” Customer: “As I said, I have a problem.” Me: “Okay, I should be...
    NarutoShippudenFanGirl NarutoShippudenFanGirl 16-17, F Apr 8, 2013

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    I Thought He Was All I Ever Wanted...

    How many people do you know who are easy going, childish, sensitive, trustworthy, hugs you when you're upset, loves Disney movies? Probably not a lot. To me, he was my twin, my brother, my friend, my lover, my soul mate. He's an emo boy, with the jet black hair, the bangs...
    takethispain takethispain 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 24, 2011

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    Finally Happy

    I have a new boyfriend. He is amazing and understands me. Im so so happy with him. I hope that we last <3
    pangirl pangirl 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 25, 2012

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    Not Actively But...

    I need someone who, I guess, in a way is a twin of me. In that they have the same tastes as me. Loves cats, beautiful music, horror movies, reading, kind, in touch with feminine side, can be "scary"(dominant), quirky sense of humor, interested in spirituality... that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Oct 26, 2009

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    But I Don't Know How I Will

    I'm in the middle of a really nasty divorce. I thought she was my soulmate. We weren't exactly alike, but I always felt that we were the same in important ways, complimentary in important ways, and able to have decent discussions about our disagreements. Things changed, though...
    starless starless 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 3, 2010

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    Is It Really So Much to Ask For?

    Are there girls out there who believe in loyalty? What about who absolutely need someone to look after them, to love them? I would be just curious to know if ones with all the traits i describe actually exist at all. Loyal, loving, caring, private or shy, devoted, one-man women...
    Devotion Devotion 18-21, M 19 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    I am writing about an experience that I am still to experience. I joined EP with my experience of being wet fully clothed and I have read loads of stories of people with the love...
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    July 23. Making It Happen. Stop trying so hard to make it happen. Stop doing so much, if doing so much is wearing you out or not achieving the desired results. Stop thinking so...
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    July 23. Making It Happen. Stop trying so hard to make it happen. Stop doing so much, if doing so much is wearing you out or not achieving the desired results. Stop thinking so...
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    Wears her hair up, don't do her make up, and wears gym clothes or comfy clothes. I don't care what I look like. It's not like I am trying to please anybody. My friends are always...
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    People suffer from personal injuries every single day. Whether it is at home or in the grocery store, you can be a victim any day. However, in order to get compensated for your...
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    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    OK so its my turn, gotta say, this one is even more accurate than the last test I saw, it describes me perfectly..... except for the dancing part, I cant dance to save my life...
    GoodMan1988 GoodMan1988 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 15

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    Wow what do you know I am the most rare personality type. Figures as such. The INFJ personality type is very rare, making up less than one percent of the population, but they...
    Powederedtoastman Powederedtoastman 31-35, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    kimmy159 kimmy159 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 14

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    For most of my life I have been the type to question things, wonder and think 'out the box' or in another way of putting it. I have been able to cast my mind outside this 'cage...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F Jun 27

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    I'm sure there are others out there who can relate to me in some way. Has anyone ever accused you of being a know-it-all, and felt misinterpreted or dismissed because of it? That...
    PunkinH2O PunkinH2O 31-35, F 19 Responses Jul 11

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    I find life full of surprises but I find it funny in the idea of how people can come on here and vent and every reader falls on their pity party they are having within themselves...
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    I try my best to fit in with my family but nothing seems 2 work :'(........ at school its the same i changed my whole image just 4 people 2 like me so one day i went as myself and...
    christinababy23 christinababy23 13-15, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    My log, July 9th, 2014 Sometimes i wonder, why am i here, trying to reach out to people...when they rarely ever reach back. I have had luck with one person, not even in EP, but in...
    Alexob13 Alexob13 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 9

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    I have always felt that I experience more emotional pain than others, but I used to think of this as a character flaw rather than an inborn trait. When I was in middle school, I...
    kaylie2323 kaylie2323 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F Jul 9

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    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 Response Jul 15

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    I've had problems with emotional eating in the past. I'm now at 58kg and trying to reach 52kg. I've had this goal for a while so I'm willing to dedicate myself to it :)
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    Betrayed wives, I have been posting stories and resources under "I am trying to save my marriage" and a few other places. An EP pal, Uht2014, has some really good info on her...
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    waterflame waterflame 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    Serenity14 Serenity14 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Why do people say they are hopeful and happy and all in love but yet they don't trust their partner? So this woman goes through her man's stuff because he is a compulsive liar and...
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