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I Am Trying to Find a Specific Type of Person

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    But I Don't Know How I Will

    I'm in the middle of a really nasty divorce. I thought she was my soulmate. We weren't exactly alike, but I always felt that we were the same in important ways, complimentary in important ways, and able to have decent discussions about our disagreements. Things changed, though...
    starless starless 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 3, 2010

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    Not Actively But...

    I need someone who, I guess, in a way is a twin of me. In that they have the same tastes as me. Loves cats, beautiful music, horror movies, reading, kind, in touch with feminine side, can be "scary"(dominant), quirky sense of humor, interested in spirituality... that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Oct 26, 2009

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    I Thought He Was All I Ever Wanted...

    How many people do you know who are easy going, childish, sensitive, trustworthy, hugs you when you're upset, loves Disney movies? Probably not a lot. To me, he was my twin, my brother, my friend, my lover, my soul mate. He's an emo boy, with the jet black hair, the bangs...
    takethispain takethispain 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 24, 2011

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    (I have a broken hand, and have my arm in a plaster.) Me: “Hello this is [name] from IT support. What can I do for you?” Customer: “Hello, I have a problem.” Me: “Okay, what is your concern?” Customer: “As I said, I have a problem.” Me: “Okay, I should be...
    NarutoShippudenFanGirl NarutoShippudenFanGirl 16-17, F Apr 8, 2013

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    Is It Really So Much to Ask For?

    Are there girls out there who believe in loyalty? What about who absolutely need someone to look after them, to love them? I would be just curious to know if ones with all the traits i describe actually exist at all. Loyal, loving, caring, private or shy, devoted, one-man women...
    Devotion Devotion 18-21, M 19 Responses Aug 17, 2009

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    Finally Happy

    I have a new boyfriend. He is amazing and understands me. Im so so happy with him. I hope that we last <3
    pangirl pangirl 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 25, 2012

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    I haven't given myself to someone 100 percent because I haven't ever felt that comfort, that 'I really really like you" feeling, where I'm happy to be open and not forcing anything...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F a week ago

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    Just because you are asking doesn't always mean I am going to be giving in to all your demands and say yes. I think a person that says yes to everything and everyone is a person...
    JaggedEdges JaggedEdges 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    Over time I've realised that BPD has made me a Chameleon. I change my colours depending on who I'm with. I've done this for as long as I can remember. I've realised that I don't do...
    LewisCollins LewisCollins 31-35 3 Responses Jul 7

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    I guess it's because I was babied as a child or something, I dunno. But I used to get really emotional when people got even the slightest bit aggressive with me. Even just telling...
    StokesQuirky StokesQuirky 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I am writing about an experience that I am still to experience. I joined EP with my experience of being wet fully clothed and I have read loads of stories of people with the love...
    H20Hutch H20Hutch 36-40, M Jul 2

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    It's weird how really open minded I really am when I look back at all the things in my life I accepted for what they were/are and it didn't bother me. But the biggest benefit of...
    Pmiller3 Pmiller3 26-30, M 13 hrs ago

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    My personality type: ISFJ (Introversion, Sensing, Feeling, Judging) ISFJ Strengths Very supportive. ISFJs are always willing to help other people, sharing their knowledge and...
    NerdyGirl78 NerdyGirl78 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    People suffer from personal injuries every single day. Whether it is at home or in the grocery store, you can be a victim any day. However, in order to get compensated for your...
    neinsteinassociates neinsteinassociates 26-30, M Jul 7

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    I have dated males, females, transgendered females and transsexual men, and in case anyone is wondering: we dated because we liked what we saw in each other as people, we broke up...
    MissBmused MissBmused 41-45, F 4 hrs ago

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    Today I clicked. I realised, why waste my time on someone who walked away from it all so easily, and found someone new straight away. I lost a very close family friend today, and...
    xSundip xSundip 18-21, M 1 hr ago

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    OK so its my turn, gotta say, this one is even more accurate than the last test I saw, it describes me perfectly..... except for the dancing part, I cant dance to save my life...
    GoodMan1988 GoodMan1988 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 15

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    Wow what do you know I am the most rare personality type. Figures as such. The INFJ personality type is very rare, making up less than one percent of the population, but they...
    Powederedtoastman Powederedtoastman 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    So I did the personality test (http://www.16personalities.com) too like many people have and I was suprised by how well certain aspects fit me 0.o I always felt like not many...
    kimmy159 kimmy159 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 14

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    I know I write a lot here, but it's very therapeutic for me because these thoughts are constantly racing around in my head and getting them out is healthy. I usually wouldn't write...
    Serenity14 Serenity14 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    July 31. Letting Go of What We Want. "For those of us who have survived by controlling and surrendering, letting go may not come easily." —Beyond Codependency In recovery, we...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 18 hrs ago

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    July 31. Letting Go of What We Want. "For those of us who have survived by controlling and surrendering, letting go may not come easily." —Beyond Codependency In recovery, we...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 18 hrs ago

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    Without a doubt, I consider myself a feminist, or at the very least a feminist ally. This lens I apply is not only limited to criticism of my fellow man and woman, but to myself...
    InfluxOfQuestions InfluxOfQuestions 18-21, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I find life full of surprises but I find it funny in the idea of how people can come on here and vent and every reader falls on their pity party they are having within themselves...
    scooterp23 scooterp23 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    I'm sure there are others out there who can relate to me in some way. Has anyone ever accused you of being a know-it-all, and felt misinterpreted or dismissed because of it? That...
    PunkinH2O PunkinH2O 31-35, F 19 Responses Jul 11

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    I just wanna be a better person than i was yesterday
    peaceinmiles peaceinmiles 16-17, F 5 hrs ago

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    What a difference a day makes. Today I got my diagnosis This morning my knowledge about borderline was somewhat limited. I have had friends who had borderline and those were very...
    Fireleaf1991 Fireleaf1991 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My log, July 9th, 2014 Sometimes i wonder, why am i here, trying to reach out to people...when they rarely ever reach back. I have had luck with one person, not even in EP, but in...
    Alexob13 Alexob13 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 9

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    I always get ISFJ (Introversion, Sensing, Feeling, Judging) on every personality test that I take: According to Myers-Briggs, ISFJs are interested in maintaining order and...
    NerdyGirl78 NerdyGirl78 36-40, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    But I can't! Just recently a woman messaged me on Facebook claiming that my boyfriend or ex-boyfriend I guess have been texting each other/sleeping with each other for about 1-2...
    madusand madusand 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I have always felt that I experience more emotional pain than others, but I used to think of this as a character flaw rather than an inborn trait. When I was in middle school, I...
    kaylie2323 kaylie2323 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    The two most classic comments ever used are "I'm fine!" and "I'm just tired..." which we really mean is "I'm upset because...." "I hate my life!" "I'm fed up...." "Things aren't...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F Jul 9

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    I don't have Multiple Personality Disorder, I have Borderline Multiple Personality Disorder. It means I have severe moods, extreme differences in moods that take on personalities...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 Response Jul 15

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    July 30. Accepting Powerlessness. Since I've been a child, I've been in an antagonistic relationship with an important emotional part of myself: my feelings. I have consistently...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 1 day ago

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    July 30. Accepting Powerlessness. Since I've been a child, I've been in an antagonistic relationship with an important emotional part of myself: my feelings. I have consistently...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 1 day ago

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    Just wondering, are there people like this or is it a rare condition? I like having my personal space. I'm not opposed to hugging and kissing, and I like it once in awhile, but...
    LovesWarrior LovesWarrior 18-21, F Jul 21

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    Does anyone else feel like some days they don't have BPD? You go through a stint of feeling almost ok? Almost normal? Of course it isn't true, but you can pass it off in public? Or...
    Serenity14 Serenity14 26-30, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm one of those people that never usually goes on these forums to pour my heart out as I usually internalise things and try to deal with it myself - this seems to be one of the...
    Liya2004 Liya2004 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    I love resisting and love to play fight. I also like to be tackled and wrestled down to the floor from behind. I love it when a guy chases and pins me down, so much fun.. I also...
    texaschic35 texaschic35 31-35, F 7 Responses Jul 4

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    'My' true love. That's the catch word. Not necessary that the person will love me back. I'm not romantic and unconditional love, though the best type(and supported by me) isn't...
    waterflame waterflame 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    I was never diagnosed with BPD but I feel I do have it. I have been reading about it and after reading many of your own testimonies I am convinced this is what I have. It's been a...
    Serenity14 Serenity14 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    And I'm poor. I go to a state funded clinic (thank GOD for its existence), and only pay $5 for each prescription. However, there are considerable draw-backs to the state funded...
    DanicaER DanicaER 36-40, F Jul 22

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    My choices haunt me at night. Every time someone tells me I am the sweetest, most gentle, loving person they have met it makes my stomach turn. It is so easy to act, but I am...
    CrashingComet CrashingComet 22-25 a week ago

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    I don' know where to start and what to say. In last few month there was so much up and down in my life and got different kind of experience of people like, people thought, their...
    ppblog ppblog 26-30, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I am a very passionate person. I am passionate about my work. Passionate about my sports car. Passionate about travel. Passionate about my music. And as far as personal...
    terridactyl terridactyl 26-30, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I started to notice the hair in the bad places at around 13 years of age. Prior to that, I just had hair on my arms and legs probably because of the Italian in me. I guess...
    sunflowerjade sunflowerjade 22-25, F Jul 13

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    Why do people say they are hopeful and happy and all in love but yet they don't trust their partner? So this woman goes through her man's stuff because he is a compulsive liar and...
    sapphire601 sapphire601 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 10

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