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I Am Trying to Forget Him

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    Dont Want the Whole Cake Id Be Happy With the Crumbs

    Pretty sad really..that I still feel this way. I would be happy with the crumbs. Years ago it was said to me I want the whole cake & to eat it too..... not true.  Give me the crumbs ... yum yum
    caroli9 caroli9 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2007

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    Seeing you move on and live your life without

    me, shattered every fibre of my being. 3 months ago, my heart was left devastated and torn... you broke me. I loved you with my whole heart, the kind of love that was uncompromising. Even now, it still hurts to know that you'll never know the extent of my love for you.A couple...
    trying2forgetyou trying2forgetyou 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    It's really hard to. I keep thinking what could

    have happened if things actually worked out and been a couple. I just wish he could have told me he wasn't interested in me anymore instead of just disappearing and not talking to me. It breaks my heart because I feel like I did something wrong since he just stopped talking. I...
    Slw1992 Slw1992 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 6

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    Everyday

    i think of him more i love him more and i want him more  and i would like to forget but i have come to the conclusion that i never will he is to good to be true and to memorable to forget so today i see this and I'm like whats the F N point  but i will try again at...
    littlemstpy littlemstpy 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2007

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    I Know I Should, But I Just Do...

    I know I should, but I just don't want to. I want to hang on to the little bit of hope that I still have. Forgetting ends that hope.
    sondosia sondosia 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2007

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    I dated a guy not to long ago about a month ago

    and I just want him out of my life, we dated for a small while an I Don't even know what I was doing when I said yes, I never had any strong feelings for him. I just wanted to make him happy. -Devon :3
    HelloImDevon HelloImDevon 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    I am curled in an armchair in the library.

    the fabric is ugly under me, some mismatched paisley. my fingers are tracing along the embroidery. you gotta forget about him, she says, licking her fingers and turning a page in her book. you just gonna move on, is all. you would have hated the novel in her hands because the...
    ProfessorPsycho ProfessorPsycho 13-15, F Mar 1

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    I Keep Trying

    So at long last, I am coming to terms with getting my heart broken again.  I deleted his number from my phone; I deleted all his e-mails.  Sadly, that is all I ever have of us.  I know this is an indication of where we were: nowhere.  I miss him a lot, and...
    savior savior 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 10, 2007

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    Yah see... He doesn't really bloody want me but can he just leave me be?! No. I put all my efforts into cutting contact, and yet again I find myself between a rock and a hard place...
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    After months of trying to avoid him, stupidly I started forgetting why I was avoiding him in the first place. She was gone and there were no other incidents. He even started...
    confusionswirlinginmyhead confusionswirlinginmyhead 18-21, F Jun 29

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    I can't change the fact my "mother" is insane and trying to get rid of me. I can't change my past. I can't change that I was attacked and raped. I can't change that destroyed my...
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    My husband seems to be turning into a user. I never actually imagined he married me for my family money because he was so sweet and kind and doing well himself. When we married I...
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    I am dating a recovering heroin/pill addict. I have only known him a little over a year, and I knew about his addiction upfront, however I didn't know to what extent, I am the...
    secretdestiny secretdestiny 18-21, F Jul 11

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    He pushed me away in the beginning. I stopped trying to reach out for him with a broken heart. He came back to me unexpectedly. I could not forget how he used to push me away...
    cloudish cloudish 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    ...........and as I knew, I got rejected. It's funny that I was worried if I tell him I love him, he may not keep the friendship anymore. But it is me who stopped connecting with...
    EternalWanderer EternalWanderer 31-35 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    My past was full of dramas and still is but I try and forget about what happens. Even though I get beaten up by words everyday I try and forget about the hurt that I am receiving...
    MalachaiP MalachaiP 16-17, F Jul 2

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    Long story short: I cheated on my ex and he dumped me. Now I can't get him out of my head. I don't know why cheated, I keep trying to find a reason but when I find one I feel like...
    Ren10 Ren10 13-15, F Jul 13

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    Still trying to keep my head up and not let him get to me day 3 ahhhhhh it's killing meeeeee :(
    bellabell87 bellabell87 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    I spent the last 11 years spending my entire life savings in a long, drawn out custody battle for my son, who I lost custody of to my ex-wife when he was two. On July 4, 2010 I...
    OneLostFather OneLostFather 31-35, M 4 Responses Jul 1

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    I'd love to hear from anyone that has managed to get themselves 'unstuck'. I am a sensible, intelligent woman. My head knows for certain that I must move on, and that being in this...
    EttaS EttaS 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 9

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    Nayarb<- not his real name, I just saw him a few days ago when I was starting to forget that he even existed now I can get him of my head.
    findyouonaisland findyouonaisland 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    Betrayed wives, I have been posting stories and resources under "I am trying to save my marriage" and a few other places. An EP pal, Uht2014, has some really good info on her...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    I'm one of those people that never usually goes on these forums to pour my heart out as I usually internalise things and try to deal with it myself - this seems to be one of the...
    Liya2004 Liya2004 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    I want to forget all the good times with him. I miss the hugs, the kisses, everything. I wonder where the love went and why he chose her over me. I just want to forget but it's to...
    Marigold101 Marigold101 16-17, F Jul 10

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    Just tired of my life. I love this song just don't like the singer. It's our party we can do what we want (no drama) It's our party we can say what we want (Mike will made) It's...
    BiConfused BiConfused 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I've dated other guys, and still talking to other guys but none of them are like him. I've liked him over 3 years now and still secretly love him. We've been through a lot, but we...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I hate him but miss him! I had a best guy friend and I have talked about him before. I met a guy his name was Jonathan. We became best friends and somehow he managed to fall in...
    GoodbyesandHellos GoodbyesandHellos 16-17, F Jul 13

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    I love my bf. He doesn't control me or take advantage of me , unlike other men. He let me do whatever I want whenever I want and he never complain any of them.. He has given me...
    Sharlita Sharlita 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    There are many but the one i will never forget is Boys like Girls. They are my favorite band since 2006 and i met the lead singer and he was the sweetest person ever and listened...
    WendyDarlin WendyDarlin 18-21, F Jun 29

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    I wish I never met you... I wish I never let you in... I wish I would have followed my intuition... I wish I'd stop believing on you... I wish if never cried... I wish I could...
    ADRASTEIA ADRASTEIA 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Hi..... I was with someone for a while..... And if your just gonna comment or message me and say ur 13 ur to young and stuff like that go away but really.... We had something . I...
    serenitymorrisseau serenitymorrisseau 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    We are childhood friends, our families are really close and we used to see each other everyday. When I turned eight my family moved away. As I grew up I completely forgot about...
    EvelynElf EvelynElf 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    But I just don't know what to do about it. So many people would tell me to let go. Let him go. I'm sure there are those that would think I was crazy. But I just can't get him out...
    TearsAlwaysWin TearsAlwaysWin 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    I liked him for a very long time now. I think I'm starting to love him... But to him, I'm just "the friend." I'm one of the few girls he can have a decent conversation with. We...
    HarmonyEvers HarmonyEvers 16-17, F Jul 9

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    MyOwnSecretSide MyOwnSecretSide 16-17, M 2 Responses Jun 28

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    converted converted 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 11

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    hemantscorpion hemantscorpion 31-35, M 4 days ago

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    Myf95 Myf95 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I was new to the congregation. I met him in school. At first, I liked his younger brother, who was pretty much the same age as me. That all changed at a party though. I started...
    confusionswirlinginmyhead confusionswirlinginmyhead 18-21, F Jun 29

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