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I Am Trying to Forget Him

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    I Know I Should, But I Just Do...

    I know I should, but I just don't want to. I want to hang on to the little bit of hope that I still have. Forgetting ends that hope.
    sondosia sondosia 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2007

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    Dont Want the Whole Cake Id Be Happy With the Crumbs

    Pretty sad really..that I still feel this way. I would be happy with the crumbs. Years ago it was said to me I want the whole cake & to eat it too..... not true.  Give me the crumbs ... yum yum
    caroli9 caroli9 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 27, 2007

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    I am curled in an armchair in the library.

    the fabric is ugly under me, some mismatched paisley. my fingers are tracing along the embroidery. you gotta forget about him, she says, licking her fingers and turning a page in her book. you just gonna move on, is all. you would have hated the novel in her hands because the...
    ProfessorPsycho ProfessorPsycho 13-15, F Mar 1

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    Everyday

    i think of him more i love him more and i want him more  and i would like to forget but i have come to the conclusion that i never will he is to good to be true and to memorable to forget so today i see this and I'm like whats the F N point  but i will try again at...
    littlemstpy littlemstpy 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2007

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    I Keep Trying

    So at long last, I am coming to terms with getting my heart broken again.  I deleted his number from my phone; I deleted all his e-mails.  Sadly, that is all I ever have of us.  I know this is an indication of where we were: nowhere.  I miss him a lot, and...
    savior savior 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 10, 2007

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    Seeing you move on and live your life without

    me, shattered every fibre of my being. 3 months ago, my heart was left devastated and torn... you broke me. I loved you with my whole heart, the kind of love that was uncompromising. Even now, it still hurts to know that you'll never know the extent of my love for you.A couple...
    trying2forgetyou trying2forgetyou 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    It's really hard to. I keep thinking what could

    have happened if things actually worked out and been a couple. I just wish he could have told me he wasn't interested in me anymore instead of just disappearing and not talking to me. It breaks my heart because I feel like I did something wrong since he just stopped talking. I...
    Slw1992 Slw1992 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 6

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