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I Am Trying to Forgive Him For His Betrayal

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 55 People

    I Got the Shock of My Life Last Night...

    My hubby and I have been married 27 years but went our separated ways 10 years ago... Last year we decided that our marriage was worth another shot.  We both are working professionals for the state and since his job is about 5 hours from me we see each other when we can and...
    ImACountryGirlAtHeart ImACountryGirlAtHeart 41-45, F 8 Responses Jun 30, 2008

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    He Cheated On Me By A Prostitute

    I am married for 1 year and my husband cheated on me by a prostitute. i dont know if i can forgive him and stay with him or i should leave him?
    Parichehr Parichehr 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    How Could He Just Stop Loving Me So Quickly?

    I knew of him when i was in grade school. I found out years later that he was in prison and reached out to him to see how he was doing. We got involved and developed a relationship for the last 2 years of his 10 year sentence ( yes he did 10 years and was 16 when he went in and...
    rubyrage986 rubyrage986 22-25, F Aug 12, 2012

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    Wish Me Luck!

    Well, my husband comes home tomorrow. I feel strange. I hadn't cried in awhile, but then yesterday I couldn't stop crying. I know it's because I will finally be able to look in his eyes when I tell him how his betrayal has hurt me. I will see if he is really remorseful or if he...
    Teacher3 Teacher3 41-45 5 Responses Jun 12, 2013

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    How Should I Handle This: Ex'S Baby Mother Contacted Me About Him

    I posted a while ago about my traumatic experience with my now ex who was released from prison. Many of you may remember how bad he hurt me. Because of all the wonderful and informative advice, I had enough strength to move on in my healing process. Its been a little over a year...
    rubyrage986 rubyrage986 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2013

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    My Boyfriend Admitted To Someones Mom Through An Email That He Likes Her..wtf?

    The other day this females mother hits up my boy friend on facebook asking him to speak to her daughter in regards to her baby dad because she supposedly listens to my bf. Today he hands me his phone that he uses to log online and so I opened up his facebook page and read his...
    LaurenNaomi LaurenNaomi 26-30, F Nov 3, 2012

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    A Different Kind Of Betrayal

    I feel betrayed because he told me many things and made me believe in us. He never had any intention of seeing it through. And that is why I feel betrayed. Maybe I'm just sour about it and not seeing objectively... but it still feels the same.
    djfx311 djfx311 36-40, F May 24, 2012

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    Betrayed

     I just found out that my boyfriend of 4 years has been two-timing me for 2 years. I read his messages to the third party which states that he loves her.  After i found out, he claims that he did not mean what he typed to her. He told me that he was only with her for 3...
    hurtsoul hurtsoul 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    I'm typically forgiving when it comes to small things. I can get upset quickly but then forgive after about 5 minutes. But if I put my trust in you and you betray me in any way, I...
    CleverName94 CleverName94 18-21, F Oct 27

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    After 25 yrs my husband left this weekend and move in with his mistress. But if I go against doctor's orders and go back to work and he will leave her and come back to me. He makes...
    phoebesmom12041 phoebesmom12041 41-45, F 4 Responses Nov 3

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    All my friends think he ugly and they don't like to talk to him, yeah he has ginger hair, but so what I like his ginger hair! Its a nice ginger. He is tall, a nice tall... The way...
    ILoveMyKiwiPuppy ILoveMyKiwiPuppy 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    This guy likes me and I like him back but he shows it and I don't so should I like flirt with him or something I don't know what to do?!?!
    Hazel888 Hazel888 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 29

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    I am searching for a submissive female for a long term, serious, committed M/s relationship in southern New England. I would consider online only if we commit to meet in the future...
    PiercedBeast PiercedBeast 56-60, M 6 days ago

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    How do I know if he likes me back he always talks to me on snapchat n always texts me does this mean anything
    Hazel888 Hazel888 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 29

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    What do I say this guy who's kinda getting bored of me?!?!?
    Hazel888 Hazel888 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    segment about the buildup to the nation wide anti- police state riots:
    mierdamundo mierdamundo 31-35 1 day ago

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    I have a bf who when we broke up sent his ex girlfriend who I caught him texting while me and him were together to my work and she gave me a knife I bought him for his bday back...
    doglovverr56 doglovverr56 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 15

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    Just found out my boyfriend is going to be away for about a year doing basic and other stuff to prepare him for his job. He is going to travel all over the world to get experience...
    kcsoup44 kcsoup44 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 12

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    My Story I was born the second child to an immigrant family from Sicily. My Dad was the eldest of 7 children. His parents were hard working, respected, beloved, restaurant owners...
    joycealison joycealison 56-60, F Nov 8

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    Forgiveness for a man I thought to be evil has been an amazing learning experience. Although its not complete, I have found it gives me control over the pain I once felt. I have...
    EverlyAnn EverlyAnn 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Saddened by my loss of a bipolar girl who needs so much love but was unable to accept my support or my concern. A troubled mind that cannot always recognise the good in the world...
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    Powerful lady of the crossroads, lady of all roads, owner of the streets and the red roses. Beautiful lady that your beauty be the beauty of our roads, that your strength be the...
    rspratley rspratley 36-40, F Oct 27

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    What first brought me to this site was a blog that I came across. I now see that this site has turned for the worst lol... Any who a few of us still use it to vent blog etc...
    simplelife60 simplelife60 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Harvin Thedeolin Finsen breached my trust thus I'd lodged a police report against him report no. G/20140728/2155. It's a case of non-return of personal belongings that he loaned...
    rainbowsundae rainbowsundae 31-35, M Nov 8

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    There is a girl I am deeply in love with and she is (or was) my best friend. I knew she had been seeing a guy but she told me they had broken up. Then she failed to mention that...
    logic93 logic93 18-21, M Nov 17

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    Our First Conversation First semester was coming to an end. Where did the time go? Truthfully, I did not feel it go by. It was the last day of first semester and I was eager for...
    TheLoneRaven TheLoneRaven 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Hello, I am 23years old, 2 daughters with my boyfriend 6 year old and a 2 year old..... I ran away with my boyfriend when I was 16( boyfriend was 23).... At that time... I only...
    livelaughlove310 livelaughlove310 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 26

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    I have had people question me about forgiveness when I say that one major aspect to healing from being hurt is to forgive those who have hurt you. So I hope this will clarify and...
    lookingformyminnion lookingformyminnion 51-55, M Nov 17

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    Valentine's Day Fire Drill Ugh, this blasted day. I have always been an anti-Valentine's Day person. But that day, I refused to let it eat me up. I was actually in love for...
    TheLoneRaven TheLoneRaven 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    First, I'd like to thank all those who read and/or responded to my posts about my son's battle with Stevens-Johnson Syndrome two years ago. The empathy and support has felt...
    Aimee17 Aimee17 41-45, F 10 Responses Nov 6

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    It is time to leave for the day. I have put in my time and it's time to head home but this evening I am going to do something I really don't want to do but I need to do, I am...
    johnettebcook johnettebcook 51-55, F Nov 14

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    I'm still working on the marriage issue. It's not going so well. Today my husband told me that he basically has been using his mom and everything else has an excuse for his...
    Naturestorms Naturestorms 36-40, F 11 Responses Oct 26

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    I met B January of last year. We've been dating now for almost a year. He's USAF. He left in August for BMT and it was the longest two months of my life. I went to his graduation...
    BrookeAlyssa BrookeAlyssa 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 15

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    my dad's mom just died last week... I didn't know her...so it feels weird to call her my grandmother but my dad and I were never close either...he was just never the dad who...
    lostinthoughtss lostinthoughtss 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    So I have a friend who is bisexual, but he is in a relationship with a girl, and I am sexually attracted to him, but he is in a relationship already so I have no interest in him...
    Aphrodite14 Aphrodite14 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 13

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    Mine died. He destroyed my self esteem. My self confidence is gone. He took it with him when he died. He can't answer for all the **** he put me through. I blame him for my...
    UnfortunateCookie UnfortunateCookie 36-40, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    My name is Afraa, and I would like to write about the climax of my lifeā€¦ falling in love with my teacher. This particular teacher had a great impact on my life. In fact, I fell...
    TheLoneRaven TheLoneRaven 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have been friends with this guy for about 7 years. We have the best time together. We can talk for hours without getting bored and have the same sense of humor. We have mostly...
    AnnUrban AnnUrban 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 13

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    It was the first day of my sophomore year. At that time, I had no idea this year was going to be the best year of my life. Of course, on the first day of school, everybody was...
    TheLoneRaven TheLoneRaven 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Soul Staring It was a crisp, chilly morning, but he made it warmer. It was winter, around January-ish and was also the beginning of second semester. I was grateful to have Mr. A...
    TheLoneRaven TheLoneRaven 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Forgive and Forget?? I'm neither Jesus nor do I have Alzheimer's!
    texan75 texan75 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 28

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    Here's a is post (I don't know who the author is) that always reminds me to appreciate people who come into my life - whether they teach me, hurt me, or love me. *** Sometimes...
    AWomanofSubstance AWomanofSubstance 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 3

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    Background of us: He has 2 kids, not living with them but paying the bill, he never in a relationship with both mothers. Me, no kid and living in another country for him. We are...
    formagerie formagerie 31-35, F Nov 8

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    So I decided to pay my ex a visit this coming week. Problem is will he be outside in his truck like he usually is? Will I have a hard time getting him out of his house? I haven...
    moonstruckdelight moonstruckdelight 41-45, F Nov 8

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    Today would have been our 6 years anniversary. I do still care about him and love him. I choke when I think about moving on. I'm so confused. There were times when I felt like I...
    lilygeorge12 lilygeorge12 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 9

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    I talk to other guys but I keep comparing everyone of them to him. I know we both hurt each other but seriously I would do anything just to hear his voice and have his arms around...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F Nov 15

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