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I Am Trying to Forgive Him For His Betrayal

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    Wish Me Luck!

    Well, my husband comes home tomorrow. I feel strange. I hadn't cried in awhile, but then yesterday I couldn't stop crying. I know it's because I will finally be able to look in his eyes when I tell him how his betrayal has hurt me. I will see if he is really remorseful or if he...
    Teacher3 Teacher3 41-45 5 Responses Jun 12, 2013

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    In A Nutshell

    17 years i have been both wife and mom. I try and do everything right of course im human and have messed up plenty. I went out on my marriage wasnt sure i was happy anymore. When i realized i was making a mistake it was to late my husband was doing the same. We worked through it...
    1 Response Feb 5, 2013

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    He Cheated On Me By A Prostitute

    I am married for 1 year and my husband cheated on me by a prostitute. i dont know if i can forgive him and stay with him or i should leave him?
    Parichehr Parichehr 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    I Got the Shock of My Life Last Night...

    My hubby and I have been married 27 years but went our separated ways 10 years ago... Last year we decided that our marriage was worth another shot.  We both are working professionals for the state and since his job is about 5 hours from me we see each other when we can and...
    ImACountryGirlAtHeart ImACountryGirlAtHeart 41-45, F 8 Responses Jun 30, 2008

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    Betrayed

     I just found out that my boyfriend of 4 years has been two-timing me for 2 years. I read his messages to the third party which states that he loves her.  After i found out, he claims that he did not mean what he typed to her. He told me that he was only with her for 3...
    hurtsoul hurtsoul 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    A Different Kind Of Betrayal

    I feel betrayed because he told me many things and made me believe in us. He never had any intention of seeing it through. And that is why I feel betrayed. Maybe I'm just sour about it and not seeing objectively... but it still feels the same.
    djfx311 djfx311 36-40, F May 24, 2012

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    My Boyfriend Admitted To Someones Mom Through An Email That He Likes Her..wtf?

    The other day this females mother hits up my boy friend on facebook asking him to speak to her daughter in regards to her baby dad because she supposedly listens to my bf. Today he hands me his phone that he uses to log online and so I opened up his facebook page and read his...
    LaurenNaomi LaurenNaomi 26-30, F Nov 3, 2012

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    How Could He Just Stop Loving Me So Quickly?

    I knew of him when i was in grade school. I found out years later that he was in prison and reached out to him to see how he was doing. We got involved and developed a relationship for the last 2 years of his 10 year sentence ( yes he did 10 years and was 16 when he went in and...
    rubyrage986 rubyrage986 22-25, F Aug 12, 2012

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    How Should I Handle This: Ex'S Baby Mother Contacted Me About Him

    I posted a while ago about my traumatic experience with my now ex who was released from prison. Many of you may remember how bad he hurt me. Because of all the wonderful and informative advice, I had enough strength to move on in my healing process. Its been a little over a year...
    rubyrage986 rubyrage986 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    So recently I have been going through a lot. An incident occurred and my family has forgiven me and my friends don't think less of me, but for some reason I am not able to forgive...
    mkxhedrick mkxhedrick 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    OMG! If this is true please let me know because I have a straight best friend who I think that I would be great for and him for me. After my ex he brought back the ability for me...
    Icephoenix90 Icephoenix90 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Forgiving. It's the word a hero would use, but no, I'm that badass villain. Forgiving is a fake word, an escape plan for those who are guilty; it is the mental mercy. I will never...
    TheSmartestManOnEarth TheSmartestManOnEarth 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 23

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    I finally did today. I forgave my ex for all the hurt. I feel so content and after meditating and praying on it I feel like I'm ready and it's time to move forward with my life...
    lalalapolkadotsmmbop lalalapolkadotsmmbop 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I was cold, and unattached from the world. I did not want to love anyone. Then I met him. He made me feel a way I can not even describe. How do you articulate something so perfect...
    ThatsSuze ThatsSuze 22-25 1 Response Jul 31

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    I have a straight friend about 12 years. Used to work together since I moved to other country. After few years we connected again. I said to him I am gay and he accepted very cool...
    Bulkver Bulkver 36-40, M 5 days ago

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    At sixteen I met my now husband and a few months after meeting got pregnant with our now 13 year old son. When I met my husband all those years ago I was heartbroken and sad over...
    truloveit84 truloveit84 26-30, F 7 hrs ago

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    I'm so angry at you for stealing from me the one thing that is so hard to build back up. My ability to trust is so shattered. I'm so guarded, I can't open up to anyone anymore. The...
    chloejune chloejune 18-21, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Thank u for the replies: There's more question in my life that I really need an answer or an advice: :Story of my life with japanese partner: He is Japanese, but he born...
    zilvie1972 zilvie1972 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 3

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    My husband and I have been together for 11 years, married for 9. We have 3 children (elementary school age) and I've been a good wife. No, a GREAT wife. By his own admission. He...
    proulxfam proulxfam 31-35 2 Responses Jul 23

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    A couple more signs of marital recovery. I keep telling the betrayed wives who message me, focus on actions, not words. My husband said all the right words when he cheated. But...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 2 days ago

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    Some of the last words my father said to me before I cut him out of my life for good was, "I never thought of you as a son". Those famous words he uttered several times throughout...
    JackNJ JackNJ 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    Three helpful quotes about the importance and the power of forgiveness: “The truth is, unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 46-50, M Aug 6

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    I don't believe I have ever met someone that truly forgave another...Think of anything! Maybe your dad punched you in the face. And when you got older, he never laid another hand...
    Levi1 Levi1 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 27

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    Today is a very special day...Today is his birthday, birthday of the love of my life, the person i love more then anything...Thanks to that woman who gave birth to such a kind...
    animelover1990 animelover1990 22-25, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    Before I use to tell him I love him every time we talk or every 30 minutes. A few days ago he cheated on me for the second time and I caught him the same day and confronted him...
    Kallman92 Kallman92 18-21, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I heard from someone on here today that blocked me unblocked to send me a message it was not me I AM A SWEET PERSON it is me was just getting to out of hand and for his family sake...
    sunnyday55 sunnyday55 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 5

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    Hi everyone. I am now 24 with a beautiful 4 year old daughter. I'm absolutely in love with my husband and daughter, but heartache and pain have now entered into my life. My story...
    0ll0Emerald0ll0 0ll0Emerald0ll0 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    I've had a few good days keeping occupied, but every time I'm at home alone I can't stop thinking about what my ex and his new girlfriend might be doing. Every time my phones...
    iknowmykingdomawaits iknowmykingdomawaits 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 27

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    Ok so I talked to him, and everything is ok. I just misunderstood everything. But I will say I am still in love with this man. But like that one saying, if you love something let...
    Via70 Via70 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 2

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    FOOLISH COMPARISON Memorize: For we dare not make ourselves of the number, or compare ourselves with some that commend themselves: but they measuring themselves by themselves, and...
    simsym simsym 22-25 6 days ago

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    So there's this girl that I've known for just about a week. I met her at this party that was held by my best friends friend whom he met through Instagram. Now she was holding this...
    MartinIsInLove MartinIsInLove 16-17, M 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    When a guy forces a girl to kiss him, and after all those time when the girl thought he was a nice guy, should she forgive him?
    KatieP767 KatieP767 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    So there's this girl that I've known for just about a week. I met her at this party that was held by my best friends friend whom he met through Instagram. Now she was holding this...
    MartinIsInLove MartinIsInLove 16-17, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I just can't :'( I can't forgive myself for losing my love :'(
    ywilliam31 ywilliam31 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 20

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    We where never really together...but it still hurts because I know I'll never have him. It was about a day ago and we where fighting like usually about how stupid he was acting...
    JustAnotherNobody21 JustAnotherNobody21 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    He confuses me. Some days, I swear i see clear hints that he likes me. Other days, it's as if he's avoiding me. I can't get him out of my head. He's the first thing i think about...
    confusionswirlinginmyhead confusionswirlinginmyhead 18-21, F Jul 31

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    The last time we we're together alone was 4 years ago. His son was about 2.5 yo. His son loves me to death, I have no clue why, but my current boyfriend thinks that his dad talks...
    Activelife Activelife 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    It's very complicated to explain why I think people come into your life for a reason. I was once in an abusive relationship for over a year, from July 2010 to December 2011. He...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F Aug 6

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    Hi guys in need of some advice about my boyfriend and the relationship he has with his sister. Myself and my boyfriend have been together for just under 3 months, although have...
    angrykid123 angrykid123 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    So, I'm left here thinking today of Moona, my kitten. A year and a half ago I would up in a mental ward, when I got out this tiny ball of fur was waiting for me. So full of life...
    Yourbaaaby Yourbaaaby 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    Need to share my story, guess I'm just getting mad by not being able to talk about it and have to have some feed back, specially from men, just to be able to understand my big...
    tangoandjuliette tangoandjuliette 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Between my 8th grade and freshman years of high school, I took an online class called "philosophy and pop culture." It taught basic theories and principles of philosophy as well as...
    WhimsicalWerd WhimsicalWerd 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    My marine is currently deployed. Dealing with trying to get life back in Structured and functional order is really taking a toll on me. I just don't know how to be myself while he...
    angelbaby187 angelbaby187 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    Since 2006-11 I lived in a house that wasn't a home. My mum never had proper carpet or wooden floor down and it felt like we were squatting in it. It was always a mess and because...
    cmdoran cmdoran 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 3

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    When you have the fear of loosing someone you love it makes you reflect and think about what you have in the first place...... I have a man who loves me despite my faults, A man...
    desirabledreams desirabledreams 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    "When you're a person who's been insecure about themself physically, compliments feel like rockets to the moon." I have this friend at school. He's really cute. He'd be this geek...
    dustyoldclock dustyoldclock 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I finally found my oldest son father! We split up before I found out I was pregnant which I was two months. At that time I didn't know his new number and I decided to be selfish...
    bootsie85 bootsie85 26-30, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    ...........and as I knew, I got rejected. It's funny that I was worried if I tell him I love him, he may not keep the friendship anymore. But it is me who stopped connecting with...
    EternalWanderer EternalWanderer 31-35 1 Response Jul 24