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I Am Trying to Forgive Him For His Betrayal

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    Wish Me Luck!

    Well, my husband comes home tomorrow. I feel strange. I hadn't cried in awhile, but then yesterday I couldn't stop crying. I know it's because I will finally be able to look in his eyes when I tell him how his betrayal has hurt me. I will see if he is really remorseful or if he...
    Teacher3 Teacher3 41-45 4 Responses Jun 12, 2013

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    How Could He Just Stop Loving Me So Quickly?

    I knew of him when i was in grade school. I found out years later that he was in prison and reached out to him to see how he was doing. We got involved and developed a relationship for the last 2 years of his 10 year sentence ( yes he did 10 years and was 16 when he went in and...
    rubyrage986 rubyrage986 22-25, F Aug 12, 2012

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    Betrayed

     I just found out that my boyfriend of 4 years has been two-timing me for 2 years. I read his messages to the third party which states that he loves her.  After i found out, he claims that he did not mean what he typed to her. He told me that he was only with her for 3...
    hurtsoul hurtsoul 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2009

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    My Boyfriend Admitted To Someones Mom Through An Email That He Likes Her..wtf?

    The other day this females mother hits up my boy friend on facebook asking him to speak to her daughter in regards to her baby dad because she supposedly listens to my bf. Today he hands me his phone that he uses to log online and so I opened up his facebook page and read his...
    LaurenNaomi LaurenNaomi 26-30, F Nov 3, 2012

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    A Different Kind Of Betrayal

    I feel betrayed because he told me many things and made me believe in us. He never had any intention of seeing it through. And that is why I feel betrayed. Maybe I'm just sour about it and not seeing objectively... but it still feels the same.
    djfx311 djfx311 36-40, F May 24, 2012

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    He Cheated On Me By A Prostitute

    I am married for 1 year and my husband cheated on me by a prostitute. i dont know if i can forgive him and stay with him or i should leave him?
    Parichehr Parichehr 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    How Should I Handle This: Ex'S Baby Mother Contacted Me About Him

    I posted a while ago about my traumatic experience with my now ex who was released from prison. Many of you may remember how bad he hurt me. Because of all the wonderful and informative advice, I had enough strength to move on in my healing process. Its been a little over a year...
    rubyrage986 rubyrage986 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2013

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    I Got the Shock of My Life Last Night...

    My hubby and I have been married 27 years but went our separated ways 10 years ago... Last year we decided that our marriage was worth another shot.  We both are working professionals for the state and since his job is about 5 hours from me we see each other when we can and...
    ImACountryGirlAtHeart ImACountryGirlAtHeart 41-45, F 7 Responses Jun 30, 2008

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    In A Nutshell

    17 years i have been both wife and mom. I try and do everything right of course im human and have messed up plenty. I went out on my marriage wasnt sure i was happy anymore. When i realized i was making a mistake it was to late my husband was doing the same. We worked through it...
    1 Response Feb 5, 2013

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