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I Am Trying to Forgive Him For His Betrayal

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    A Different Kind Of Betrayal

    I feel betrayed because he told me many things and made me believe in us. He never had any intention of seeing it through. And that is why I feel betrayed. Maybe I'm just sour about it and not seeing objectively... but it still feels the same.
    djfx311 djfx311 36-40, F May 24, 2012

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    How Could He Just Stop Loving Me So Quickly?

    I knew of him when i was in grade school. I found out years later that he was in prison and reached out to him to see how he was doing. We got involved and developed a relationship for the last 2 years of his 10 year sentence ( yes he did 10 years and was 16 when he went in and...
    rubyrage986 rubyrage986 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2012

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    My Boyfriend Admitted To Someones Mom Through An Email That He Likes Her..wtf?

    The other day this females mother hits up my boy friend on facebook asking him to speak to her daughter in regards to her baby dad because she supposedly listens to my bf. Today he hands me his phone that he uses to log online and so I opened up his facebook page and read his...
    LaurenNaomi LaurenNaomi 26-30, F Nov 3, 2012

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    He Cheated On Me By A Prostitute

    I am married for 1 year and my husband cheated on me by a prostitute. i dont know if i can forgive him and stay with him or i should leave him?
    Parichehr Parichehr 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    In A Nutshell

    17 years i have been both wife and mom. I try and do everything right of course im human and have messed up plenty. I went out on my marriage wasnt sure i was happy anymore. When i realized i was making a mistake it was to late my husband was doing the same. We worked through it...
    1 Response Feb 5, 2013

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    How Should I Handle This: Ex'S Baby Mother Contacted Me About Him

    I posted a while ago about my traumatic experience with my now ex who was released from prison. Many of you may remember how bad he hurt me. Because of all the wonderful and informative advice, I had enough strength to move on in my healing process. Its been a little over a year...
    rubyrage986 rubyrage986 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2013

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    I Got the Shock of My Life Last Night...

    My hubby and I have been married 27 years but went our separated ways 10 years ago... Last year we decided that our marriage was worth another shot.  We both are working professionals for the state and since his job is about 5 hours from me we see each other when we can and...
    ImACountryGirlAtHeart ImACountryGirlAtHeart 41-45, F 7 Responses Jun 30, 2008

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    Betrayed

     I just found out that my boyfriend of 4 years has been two-timing me for 2 years. I read his messages to the third party which states that he loves her.  After i found out, he claims that he did not mean what he typed to her. He told me that he was only with her for 3...
    hurtsoul hurtsoul 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2009

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    Wish Me Luck!

    Well, my husband comes home tomorrow. I feel strange. I hadn't cried in awhile, but then yesterday I couldn't stop crying. I know it's because I will finally be able to look in his eyes when I tell him how his betrayal has hurt me. I will see if he is really remorseful or if he...
    Teacher3 Teacher3 41-45 4 Responses Jun 12, 2013

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    dealing with this right now. it hurts so much. he just ended it 5 days ago. this is someone I have known for 15 years, and he is my husbands best friend. we have a history, a past...
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    SharonanJay SharonanJay 46-50, F 4 days ago

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    My dad treated my family like crap. For years. I forgive him, but I won't forget what he did to us.
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    Oops, missed six days. I don't get on here much anymore. Let's just pretend this is day 2. 1. My son moved all his stuff into my place today. So glad he's chosen to live with me...
    RhombusInTheSquare RhombusInTheSquare 36-40, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    For my sons sake I am trying to smile, for my sons sake I am trying to laugh. But once he falls to sleep I cry, because I miss his dad
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    lenameow184 lenameow184 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    My teacher. He've become a trusted friend of mine because I've known him for 3 years now lol, We talk like best friends i swear He's on family vacay right now and it is absolutely...
    Jthecat Jthecat 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I'm so sick of it since day one he keeps blaming me for everything and I really think that he has some major issues because he really doesn't see and his mine that a lot of things...
    LuvLostSoul LuvLostSoul 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    We were friends . then he proposed me and we started dating.. and i fell in love with him ..madly. .he cheated ,left me so many times and came back with excuses and apologies .. i...
    missttie missttie 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I love how the guys who USED to be around me, assumed that he should love me the way they would. He's not you, and thank god he's not because I love him for who he is. And dropped...
    taminglife taminglife 22-25, F Jul 20

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    People want you to forgive but forgiving is really hard. My mother used to abuse me when I was a kid as almost everyday it felt like hell and everyday I lived in fear thinking...
    PetiteChica PetiteChica 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 20

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    You may have done some things wrong, but I know you have done a lot of things right too. I forgive you for what you did, because I want you to have more opportunities to do it...
    beachesandsunshine121 beachesandsunshine121 26-30, F Jul 16

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    I have had a horrible past and you can tell by my posts. I only wish that you can forgive me for what I have done
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    I don't think that forgiveness is always necessary or helpful. I had one person that I tried to forgive for years, and I couldn't do it. No matter what I tried, I couldn't forgive...
    thunderstormwatcher thunderstormwatcher 36-40, M Jul 15

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    i forgive my Husband everyday.. he cheated on me.. it was very hard at first.. like punch on ur face... so hard thst i shut myself down and pretended nothing happened.. didn't work...
    BohemianSoul BohemianSoul 31-35, F 12 Responses Jul 14

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    I think forgiveness is to be given asked for or not. I mean some people forgive their daughter's murderer .. who never asked for forgiveness ?! Forgiveness in my opinion is a...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    My half brother raped me when I was 8. He was 32 at the time. It's taken time, but I've finally forgiven him. That doesn't mean we are in contact, that doesn't make what he did...
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    He cares about them more than he cares about me. please bear with me till the end... First impression as I met them was nice. Despite his sister.. she was always right whatever...
    sahikat sahikat 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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