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I Am Trying to Forgive Him For His Betrayal

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    Betrayed

     I just found out that my boyfriend of 4 years has been two-timing me for 2 years. I read his messages to the third party which states that he loves her.  After i found out, he claims that he did not mean what he typed to her. He told me that he was only with her for 3...
    hurtsoul hurtsoul 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2009

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    How Should I Handle This: Ex'S Baby Mother Contacted Me About Him

    I posted a while ago about my traumatic experience with my now ex who was released from prison. Many of you may remember how bad he hurt me. Because of all the wonderful and informative advice, I had enough strength to move on in my healing process. Its been a little over a year...
    rubyrage986 rubyrage986 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2013

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    A Different Kind Of Betrayal

    I feel betrayed because he told me many things and made me believe in us. He never had any intention of seeing it through. And that is why I feel betrayed. Maybe I'm just sour about it and not seeing objectively... but it still feels the same.
    djfx311 djfx311 36-40, F May 24, 2012

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    I Got the Shock of My Life Last Night...

    My hubby and I have been married 27 years but went our separated ways 10 years ago... Last year we decided that our marriage was worth another shot.  We both are working professionals for the state and since his job is about 5 hours from me we see each other when we can and...
    ImACountryGirlAtHeart ImACountryGirlAtHeart 41-45, F 7 Responses Jun 30, 2008

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    How Could He Just Stop Loving Me So Quickly?

    I knew of him when i was in grade school. I found out years later that he was in prison and reached out to him to see how he was doing. We got involved and developed a relationship for the last 2 years of his 10 year sentence ( yes he did 10 years and was 16 when he went in and...
    rubyrage986 rubyrage986 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2012

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    In A Nutshell

    17 years i have been both wife and mom. I try and do everything right of course im human and have messed up plenty. I went out on my marriage wasnt sure i was happy anymore. When i realized i was making a mistake it was to late my husband was doing the same. We worked through it...
    1 Response Feb 5, 2013

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    He Cheated On Me By A Prostitute

    I am married for 1 year and my husband cheated on me by a prostitute. i dont know if i can forgive him and stay with him or i should leave him?
    Parichehr Parichehr 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    My Boyfriend Admitted To Someones Mom Through An Email That He Likes Her..wtf?

    The other day this females mother hits up my boy friend on facebook asking him to speak to her daughter in regards to her baby dad because she supposedly listens to my bf. Today he hands me his phone that he uses to log online and so I opened up his facebook page and read his...
    LaurenNaomi LaurenNaomi 26-30, F Nov 3, 2012

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    Wish Me Luck!

    Well, my husband comes home tomorrow. I feel strange. I hadn't cried in awhile, but then yesterday I couldn't stop crying. I know it's because I will finally be able to look in his eyes when I tell him how his betrayal has hurt me. I will see if he is really remorseful or if he...
    Teacher3 Teacher3 41-45 4 Responses Jun 12, 2013

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    I'm hard to forgive, even if it's just simple things, if I don't like it then I don't. No matter how many times they say sorry it won't change my mind
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    EMERGENCY!! Because my bf doesn't like to listen until way later so now I'm not on the list and he wants me to be for his graduation is there anyway to get me on the list or is it...
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    im in grade 7/yr8 now and 13years old now(turned 13 in april) i've been madly in love with my history teacher since last year when i was grade 6/year7 hes called Derek Wong so...
    yasuoishawt12345 yasuoishawt12345 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am scarred from my past experiences and because of it I hate myself and am unable to forgive myself. I just wish I could go back in time, but I realize everyday more and more...
    misunderstoodxgirl misunderstoodxgirl 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Today i got this craxy idea to ask for a personhand in maariage with me, some how i feel he is good person for me , but then o dont knw things are different in his side. i got this...
    wal2441 wal2441 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I'm always wishing for something I know will never happen, right now I'm wishing the hardest I ever have. I swear if this wish is granted I'll never care about another wish coming...
    nightskyvampire nightskyvampire 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I hate my boyfriends Mother. I used to adore her, she used to tell me to call her Mom, she was so cool and laid back and nice. Always strangely close to her sons, babied them all...
    ohsolovelyx ohsolovelyx 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I started to explore the romantic side of life when I was 16. I got my first relationship with a guy who's 2 years older than me. We dated for 2 years. Everything was good until he...
    tears3sad tears3sad 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Most people claim this but still world doesnt smile. It means something is wrong with them. Actually they just claim but dont try and most of the time try to hurt just to get small...
    esteem29 esteem29 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    It's not really accurate to say I love my husband's best friend. I don't know him well enough, and being "in love" is really just infatuation anyway. Well, whatever you call it, I...
    jennytressler jennytressler 41-45 5 days ago

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    You guys already know my boss is a flirty guy,he often flirts with women in our office.He always calls me to his cabin and flirts with me.At first it was frustrating but...
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    Normally when I am sad I like making music, drawing or writing. I never really mind being sad because i draw lots of inspiration from it. I was blessed to start my own company...
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    I miss him even while he's here maybe because my soul knows that he's leaving soon it aches , it yerns for him even more my heart wants to be with him every second even when I'm...
    ForYouIwillWaitJoey ForYouIwillWaitJoey 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Many years ago now I went to an event and met someone there who I felt was pretty interesting. He was a poet and artist so we exchanged info and have kept in touch sort of through...
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    My boyfriend just left for basic training literally just less than an hour ago. He is in the reserves, which makes me a bit more happy. I had breakfast today with him and spent...
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    Sorry for my broken english So I've had a long-term relationship like 4 years.. i don't know if you could call it long-term but for me this is the longest relationship i've ever...
    Escc Escc 22-25, F a week ago

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    New streaming tunes support iTunes Radio debuted Wednesday, when iOS seven grew to become available. However customers can make customized radio stations dependant on tunes and...
    William4174qpo2 William4174qpo2 31-35, M 1 Response a week ago

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    We must reject the idea that every time a law's broken, society is guilty rather than the lawbreaker. It is time to restore the precept that each individual is accountable for his...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 21 Responses Jun 29

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    I was reading an article and read this sentence. I struck a nerve with me. I dunno maybe because I am still angry about how my father treated all of us. He was the first thing that...
    TheCunylinguist TheCunylinguist 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    This is Leutnant (Lieutenant) Hugo Gutmann. He was Hitler's officer during their service in the First World War. Ironically, Hitler's favourite medal which he always wore, the iron...
    Todesengel Todesengel 18-21, T 1 Response Jun 28

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    I Believe People Come Into Your Life For a Reason I believe this whole heartedly. A man came into my life this past January. I didn't know then that talking to him would change...
    Elpis11 Elpis11 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 28

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    My boyfriend is a second generation Indian. I have been with him for almost 8 years, but I haven't found much acceptance from his family members. I don't hate Indians, I just hate...
    littlecoley88 littlecoley88 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 26

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    Hi Baby girl if you looking for your your Daddy i am Here . I will teach you well. Daddy got nice toys and if you are bad daddy got ways to teach you to be good. So please come...
    lookingforafamily lookingforafamily 41-45, M Jun 26

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    Due to recent events in my life, forgiveness has been a reoccurring matter of thought for me. Not a long time ago, my mother said "Everything can be forgiven" Really? The way she...
    LilyLua LilyLua 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    Its been like two months since i last seen him (he got recycled a week because he rolled his ankle) and in the beginning i was such a wreck because we were inseparable, but time...
    AFGirlfriend13 AFGirlfriend13 18-21, F Jun 26

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    1. His smile 2. His gorgeous blue eyes 3. His amazing personality 4. His talent 5. His interests 6. His adorable British accent 7. How he flirts with me 8. He's respectful 9. He...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 23

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    I don't know if breaking up with him was a right choice. I still love him and leaving someone when you love them especially because you think of the future is just really...
    xoabelxo xoabelxo 18-21, F Jun 22

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    The episode I'm about to describe is about truth. I recently went to a photo booth with my youngest son, to get some photos taken, so we could fill the friendship books that are...
    Injoy1767 Injoy1767 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    Happy Father's Day to the wonderful Fathers out there. I believe that fathers are an important component in a child's life. I never experienced that father and daughter bond with...
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    I don't know if this is the right place to search for answers, but I'm at a loss of where to turn. About a year ago I was working in a remote camp environment where you're living...
    dpower1131 dpower1131 26-30, F Jun 20

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