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I Am Trying to Forgive Him For His Betrayal

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 55 People

    I Got the Shock of My Life Last Night...

    My hubby and I have been married 27 years but went our separated ways 10 years ago... Last year we decided that our marriage was worth another shot.  We both are working professionals for the state and since his job is about 5 hours from me we see each other when we can and...
    ImACountryGirlAtHeart ImACountryGirlAtHeart 41-45, F 7 Responses Jun 30, 2008

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    How Should I Handle This: Ex'S Baby Mother Contacted Me About Him

    I posted a while ago about my traumatic experience with my now ex who was released from prison. Many of you may remember how bad he hurt me. Because of all the wonderful and informative advice, I had enough strength to move on in my healing process. Its been a little over a year...
    rubyrage986 rubyrage986 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2013

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    My Boyfriend Admitted To Someones Mom Through An Email That He Likes Her..wtf?

    The other day this females mother hits up my boy friend on facebook asking him to speak to her daughter in regards to her baby dad because she supposedly listens to my bf. Today he hands me his phone that he uses to log online and so I opened up his facebook page and read his...
    LaurenNaomi LaurenNaomi 26-30, F Nov 3, 2012

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    Betrayed

     I just found out that my boyfriend of 4 years has been two-timing me for 2 years. I read his messages to the third party which states that he loves her.  After i found out, he claims that he did not mean what he typed to her. He told me that he was only with her for 3...
    hurtsoul hurtsoul 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2009

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    Wish Me Luck!

    Well, my husband comes home tomorrow. I feel strange. I hadn't cried in awhile, but then yesterday I couldn't stop crying. I know it's because I will finally be able to look in his eyes when I tell him how his betrayal has hurt me. I will see if he is really remorseful or if he...
    Teacher3 Teacher3 41-45 4 Responses Jun 12, 2013

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    How Could He Just Stop Loving Me So Quickly?

    I knew of him when i was in grade school. I found out years later that he was in prison and reached out to him to see how he was doing. We got involved and developed a relationship for the last 2 years of his 10 year sentence ( yes he did 10 years and was 16 when he went in and...
    rubyrage986 rubyrage986 22-25, F Aug 12, 2012

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    A Different Kind Of Betrayal

    I feel betrayed because he told me many things and made me believe in us. He never had any intention of seeing it through. And that is why I feel betrayed. Maybe I'm just sour about it and not seeing objectively... but it still feels the same.
    djfx311 djfx311 36-40, F May 24, 2012

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    He Cheated On Me By A Prostitute

    I am married for 1 year and my husband cheated on me by a prostitute. i dont know if i can forgive him and stay with him or i should leave him?
    Parichehr Parichehr 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    It hurts every time I think about it and it hurts to watch him be excited about it. I feel like I'm never going to get over it and it hurts. I watch him tell our friends and family...
    Ppwincess1901 Ppwincess1901 18-21, F Apr 3

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    It's true. I never forget the things that hurt me, or angered me, or bothered me in any way. It's been almost 4 years and I remember things that happened 3 years ago, like it was...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    It is what it is . People make mistakes but I bet you won't make it twice .
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F Apr 4

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    I can't believe I loved this ******* bastard for 4years. He cheated on me again and again,even after we were engaged.and in the end,we broke up.now he accused me of everything,and...
    lesliechen lesliechen 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    Hi everyone, there's something I need to get of my chest and it's killing me. I'm a 27 year old woman who recently got out of a relationship with a muslim man. I met him about 7...
    Katef88 Katef88 22-25 Apr 8

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    Hands up all those here born in the year of the snake. A common trait is 執念深い(*^_^*)
    Donny1965 Donny1965 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    I can hold a grudge with the best of them. It's not a trait of mine I particularly like, but it's often justified.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 6

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    Messy relationship, Feel upset.
    chantie95xo chantie95xo 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    My heart has been broken, stepped on and tore up. Between a confused childhood, and rough times throughout middle & high school, i just lost myself. Became the girl with no self...
    roadienc roadienc 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I really was struggling to forgive my STBX husband for the years of pain he caused me. He's not a bad man he has a good heart and he's an awesome Dad. He has some mental health...
    rosev2 rosev2 41-45, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    I lost my first love to cancer this year. Although we had broken up and both moved on long before he died he was a good friend to me before he died. In fact, he was my best friend...
    kdauthor kdauthor 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My boyfriend, who I'd committed a two year long distance relationship to cheated on me. The cheating was reveled a couple of weeks ago. I have copies of text and Skype records...
    cecemar cecemar 31-35, F 4 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    This is something that's very hard for me. My boyfriend has cheated on me in the past, by flirting & contacting other women on social networks. And we broke up for a few months...
    shesdifferent516 shesdifferent516 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    I have never been one to forgive. Actually I hold a grudge like no other. I could stayed for years and years and never think twice about it. A few years ago I suffered if you will...
    Fullofsunshine Fullofsunshine 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 17

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    My boyfriend and I have been together for years, lived together for two years. Early this year I moved out on my own and we agreed to stay together regardless. I had grown unhappy...
    mythicalmedusa mythicalmedusa 22-25, F 9 Responses 3 days ago

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    I can't believe everyone have that one special and important person in their life that seems to walk out of our lives with so many reasons or one. I am a brokenhearted teenager...
    XxCuTiE14xX XxCuTiE14xX 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    the fact is that he is gone now... I am ok or trying to be . Sometime those old memories rushes to my brain and it completely hypnotise me... I will be riding an emotional roller...
    daphee daphee 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 1

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    8 years ago I was pregnant with son s who was to be born with a birth defect. My bf who is now my husband woke me up while he was drunk and started kicking, hitting, and pulling my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 15

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    Why can't she forgive me? When am the first guy too buy her flowers the first guy too tell her I dont want nudes that all I wanted was for her too sing for me.when she has forgive...
    skykidx1 skykidx1 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    I've been in an on and off again relationship with a man in the military for two years. Due to his overseas deployment, I only get to actually see him once every several months...
    cecemar cecemar 31-35, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    The FightOne Sunday my husband and I spent the day cleaning up an empty house. So full of dust and paint, we were looking forward to a hot shower. Parking the van at a petrol...
    SwanSongRebeL SwanSongRebeL 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 5

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    DAY TEN1- my son was happy of his gifts2- one of my best friend is back in my life3- talked to a 102 year old relative4- going to the put for tea tonight..on my own5- I thank God...
    Sorrentina Sorrentina 41-45, F 4 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Forgiveness is a weird concept. People attempt to manipulate others by playing the "forgiveness" card. Especially if they think you are a Christian. The typical approach is, "I m...
    fr33bird fr33bird 51-55, M Apr 1

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    Though some of his children give up on him and blame him for their troubles God STILL blesses them with life, love, food, a home, family, friends, and a future. But most important...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Apr 8

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    I really have to wonder, does anyone really forgive and move on, without ever thinking about it again ? They said you haven't forgiven if you haven't forgotten...is that true? How...
    KrisKrosSk8 KrisKrosSk8 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I was married to him for 12 years, divorced. in 2004. it was 12 years of psychological abuse. I tried to leave him 3 times, finally successful on the 4th try. I can't seem to...
    MLang MLang 51-55, F Mar 25

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    I received an email early this morning from an old buddy asking if I would meet him for a quick lunch as he was heading back to Europe. I already had a long list of errands I...
    AthenaJones AthenaJones 36-40, F 6 Responses Apr 4

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    I want to be more like Jesus in that he loved EVERYBODY, he was/is always calm and peaceful, and never gave into temptation. Some may say it's impossible because he's JESUS and we...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Never once in my life did I ever think I would be experiencing pain like this. A year and a month ago I met my bf online. When I first met him I didn't really want to talk to him...
    brokenhearted0328 brokenhearted0328 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    When my bf raises his eyebrows at me or has his aforable innocent smile on his face, my heart skips a beat , starts racing and then I feel all warm and fuzzy inside. Sometimes...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F Mar 26

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    I remember the bright summer day, when I went to a friend house who had a five week old litter of kittens. My friend suggested I take one, and I felt the strangest pull inside me...
    4gotwhereIwas 4gotwhereIwas 26-30 Apr 10

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    My ex was my first love. As first loves go, I envisioned marrying this guy and having his kid. It took me years to get over the relationship. It took me forever to get over it...
    LARINgitisEx LARINgitisEx 26-30, F Apr 3

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    So my so got sent overseas for 2 weeks. He came back To his base and he seemed normal and good. He was excited to back on base and all that. About a week earlier we had a phone...
    madreemiaa madreemiaa 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Nate came to my house Saturday because my mom invited him inside when she saw him with chris. AND he had the nerve to bring in his new girlfriend in my home too! But I tried to...
    ChildOfHarmony ChildOfHarmony 16-17, F Apr 6