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I Am Trying to Forgive Him For His Betrayal

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    How Should I Handle This: Ex'S Baby Mother Contacted Me About Him

    I posted a while ago about my traumatic experience with my now ex who was released from prison. Many of you may remember how bad he hurt me. Because of all the wonderful and informative advice, I had enough strength to move on in my healing process. Its been a little over a year...
    rubyrage986 rubyrage986 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2013

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    My Boyfriend Admitted To Someones Mom Through An Email That He Likes Her..wtf?

    The other day this females mother hits up my boy friend on facebook asking him to speak to her daughter in regards to her baby dad because she supposedly listens to my bf. Today he hands me his phone that he uses to log online and so I opened up his facebook page and read his...
    LaurenNaomi LaurenNaomi 26-30, F Nov 3, 2012

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    Wish Me Luck!

    Well, my husband comes home tomorrow. I feel strange. I hadn't cried in awhile, but then yesterday I couldn't stop crying. I know it's because I will finally be able to look in his eyes when I tell him how his betrayal has hurt me. I will see if he is really remorseful or if he...
    Teacher3 Teacher3 41-45 5 Responses Jun 12, 2013

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    Betrayed

     I just found out that my boyfriend of 4 years has been two-timing me for 2 years. I read his messages to the third party which states that he loves her.  After i found out, he claims that he did not mean what he typed to her. He told me that he was only with her for 3...
    hurtsoul hurtsoul 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2009

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    A Different Kind Of Betrayal

    I feel betrayed because he told me many things and made me believe in us. He never had any intention of seeing it through. And that is why I feel betrayed. Maybe I'm just sour about it and not seeing objectively... but it still feels the same.
    djfx311 djfx311 36-40, F May 24, 2012

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    He Cheated On Me By A Prostitute

    I am married for 1 year and my husband cheated on me by a prostitute. i dont know if i can forgive him and stay with him or i should leave him?
    Parichehr Parichehr 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 18, 2013

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    How Could He Just Stop Loving Me So Quickly?

    I knew of him when i was in grade school. I found out years later that he was in prison and reached out to him to see how he was doing. We got involved and developed a relationship for the last 2 years of his 10 year sentence ( yes he did 10 years and was 16 when he went in and...
    rubyrage986 rubyrage986 22-25, F Aug 12, 2012

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    In A Nutshell

    17 years i have been both wife and mom. I try and do everything right of course im human and have messed up plenty. I went out on my marriage wasnt sure i was happy anymore. When i realized i was making a mistake it was to late my husband was doing the same. We worked through it...
    1 Response Feb 5, 2013

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    I Got the Shock of My Life Last Night...

    My hubby and I have been married 27 years but went our separated ways 10 years ago... Last year we decided that our marriage was worth another shot.  We both are working professionals for the state and since his job is about 5 hours from me we see each other when we can and...
    ImACountryGirlAtHeart ImACountryGirlAtHeart 41-45, F 8 Responses Jun 30, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    That reminds me of my Bromeo,he's gay I'm straight girl. He always fall for the straight guys and end up getting hurt(one christian straight guy dated him for about 1or2 years...
    Allyanqi Allyanqi 18-21, F Aug 31

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    Its not forgiving others... Its forgiving myself... Ive done something so terrible that its been a year and it still eats me on the inside. I will never forgive myself over...
    TeddyOrTeddie TeddyOrTeddie 13-15, M a week ago

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    I have a huge crush on my straight best friend. We have such a good time. He got naked for me the other night, out on his back porch after his gf went to bed. I gave him a blow job...
    RomanNZolanski16 RomanNZolanski16 26-30, M Aug 21

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    Is this even possible? I have buried away a traumatic childhood and just recently a few things have come to the surface and I feel incredibly resentful towards my mother. I've...
    CarcinogenicCacti CarcinogenicCacti 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    I am a very sensitive person. There have been a few people in my life who disappointed me greatly, and it was hard for me to get over what they did. Eventually, I did get over it...
    s4019t s4019t 26-30, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Ok my best friend is a guy he's straight and I'm bi. We have the biggest bromance like when we walk through the halls and he puts his arm around me and almost every day it would he...
    crosscountry007 crosscountry007 13-15, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    ...as he holds me open, waving it about just at the entrance, tickling me, making me sop
    SingingHeartsNow SingingHeartsNow 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 4

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    I was with a man for four years and I loved him very much. I fought for him against his parents, I never once gave up on him. I was verbally, emotionally, and mentally abused by...
    SlimsB SlimsB 16-17, F Sep 5

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    Throughout the past year or so, I've been through a lot. My emotions have been everywhere. I've laughed, cried, and everything in between. And for what? One guy. I'm a teenager and...
    gummball gummball 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    I haven't spoken to my 32 year old son in 4 years. I still cry about it, especially during the month of the "sentinel" event. I still can't believe it actually happened. We'd...
    confusedinmanyways confusedinmanyways 56-60, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    I'm so angry at you for stealing from me the one thing that is so hard to build back up. My ability to trust is so shattered. I'm so guarded, I can't open up to anyone anymore. The...
    chloejune chloejune 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    So lately I have been working a lot on forgiveness. Forgivingthe person involved, fending off resentment, and most importantly, forgiving myself. Even though I feel like I have...
    justkeepswimming89 justkeepswimming89 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    At sixteen I met my now husband and a few months after meeting got pregnant with our now 13 year old son. When I met my husband all those years ago I was heartbroken and sad over...
    truloveit84 truloveit84 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Today is a very special day Today is his birthday, birthday of the love of my life, theperson I love more than anything...Thanks to that wonderful mother who gave birth to such a...
    animelover1990 animelover1990 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    Before I use to tell him I love him every time we talk or every 30 minutes. A few days ago he cheated on me for the second time and I caught him the same day and confronted him...
    Kallman92 Kallman92 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    I thought i get it all off my chest on here seeing as I was reading lots of emotional abuse and psychical abuse stories on here a few weeks ago that got me moving in my decision to...
    catgirl87 catgirl87 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    I think the one thing I've always struggled with was my boyfriends forgetting my birthday 2 times in a row. We've been together for 3 years so it does hurt and it does make me feel...
    Anon2721 Anon2721 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    I have always known it would be hard to hear of him finally falling for someone else. I just recently realized though; that I'd get back together with him over any of my ex's...
    Ilovehavingbraces Ilovehavingbraces 31-35, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    The older brother of good friend of mine recently passed away. He had been in the same school as my friend and I, so I knew him. It was shocking, and utterly unexpected. He was 27...
    lifeisatest lifeisatest 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 20

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    This big selection of prices reflects that incontrovertible fact that, in Italy, opera is a traditional enthusiasm, irrespective of earnings or social course. It’s not...
    Hiltonhn53 Hiltonhn53 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 22

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    A window into the emotions of a couples counseling session as the betrayed wife...and those "AHAH!" moments. We are past a year since DDay. Our sessions back then were on coping...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F Aug 26

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    A window into the emotions of a couples counseling session as the betrayed wife...and those "AHAH!" moments. We are past a year since DDay. Our sessions back then were on coping...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    I was with my sons dad for 8 years We have a 5 year old son I met him wen I was 20 and now I'm 29 we have been apart for a year now and the sad thing is we don't even talk anymore...
    sonia3035 sonia3035 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 3

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    I have had so many life lesson experiences in my life, these lessons have made me understand that every person I ever met or never meet, needs to be loved and accepted, no matter...
    Mistakemaker80 Mistakemaker80 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Its my first time on the site so forgive me for making mistakes. I'm just tried I wish I could just give up and sleep for the rest of the time.
    Brokeamy Brokeamy 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I go on holiday every summer to Greece to see my family. About 3 summers ago I met a boy who lived next door to us, called Thodoris. I was 14 and he was 17. I only speak a little...
    Ame101 Ame101 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    Has anyone ever heard the saying: "Forgive and forget" ? I live by that quote and it practically leads my life.
    HappensForAReason HappensForAReason 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 25

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    As angry as I was. As upset as I was. I forgive you for the pain you put me through. Now you are experiencing pain of your own, and I want you to know you can battle through it. I...
    trb98 trb98 13-15, F Sep 1

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    It started in July. We met on tinder and we started talking non stop about silly things, like what we wanted to do when we got out of school, and where we wanted to live, and what...
    sarahbearrr51 sarahbearrr51 16-17, F Sep 2

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    In actual fact, he remained seem his full existence. Then There exists Strength. It had been mentioned of him that he was a "busy" horse, always Lively and desirous to go. When...
    Temple2516ja Temple2516ja 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 2

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    After all they're my parents they'd given me life and almost everything else. Hell even if they are worse than they are I'll still be able to forgive and forget because they could...
    GrumpyMe GrumpyMe 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    "When you're a person who's been insecure about themself physically, compliments feel like rockets to the moon." I have this friend at school. He's really cute. He'd be this geek...
    dustyoldclock dustyoldclock 18-21, F Aug 18

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    I finally found my oldest son father! We split up before I found out I was pregnant which I was two months. At that time I didn't know his new number and I decided to be selfish...
    bootsie85 bootsie85 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    ok, pull a log up to the campfire.... it was a misty gray morning in Michigan, 11 years ago, when I went into work..... I walked in and saw a handsome man talking to one of my...
    DreamChristine DreamChristine 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 24

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    I am a bisexual woman in her early twenties. It was almost ten years ago that I admitted to myself that I am, in fact, bisexual. I began to have intimate feelings for one of my...
    daisygrey daisygrey 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 5

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    It has been three years since my best friend killed himself, and it seems as though everyone has forgotten. Of course there was those initial few weeks, where everyone was crying...
    PrincessKayleigh PrincessKayleigh 16-17, F Sep 8

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    I Need A Solution For This This is yaswanth Reddy from Hyderabad city, India. I am into big problems due to people who cheated me by taking my innocence as an advantage. Right now...
    yaswanthr yaswanthr 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Sometimes , I feel unloved but he always makes it better.. But.. Sometimes he doesn't understand me and he misunderstand me sometimes.. He's nice , kind , and sweet but sometimes...
    Sharlita Sharlita 18-21, F Aug 21

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