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    My Wife Had An Affair Before We Were Married But Just Confessed - Ok...here goes. The story that I can't let go. We'll start with some background. I know this group is for women...
    cj71 cj71 41-45, M 3 Responses Feb 22, 2013

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    My Husband Cheated And Wants A Second Chance - A few weeks after my husband and I first heard the heartbeat of our child, I discovered a picture of him with a half-naked girl on...
    Rosie201 Rosie201 31-35, F 12 Responses Dec 9, 2012

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    My Partner Cheated On Me With A Beautiful Woman - Where Do You Go From There? - In December 2012 my partner came home from work and said he was leaving me for a woman that he had...
    RockinRobyne1 RockinRobyne1 51-55, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2013

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    How Do I Move On - I found out my husband was cheating a few weeks ago... im not sure where to begin in trying to heal. i feel disrespected, disregarded, unappreciated and most...
    99probs 99probs 26-30 1 Response Nov 30, 2011

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    I wonder if there will ever be a day where I will look in the mirror and not compare myself to the women my husband has slept with. I wonder if there will ever be a day when the...
    Deadlikemestillwalking Deadlikemestillwalking 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 14

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    Why Dont People Want To Talk About The Affair - It's been 2 months since I found out that my husband was having a affair for 3 and half months there someday I think about it all...
    cmarcus cmarcus 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 29, 2013

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    Its Going To Be Another One Of Those Days. - So we are going on 6 months since my husbands affair and still waking up feeling blah.I just want a hug right know.I woke up sad...
    CalebMadison2 CalebMadison2 36-40 2 Responses May 20, 2013

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    Some Times I Hate Him - I don't know what to do I feel like I'm stuck in this horrible life of some other then mine ! He had an affair for a 1 and a half deep inside I known I...
    Jan 9, 2013

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    Trying To Forget - Trying to forget my husbands affair
    Tommyone Tommyone 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 21, 2012

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    I Just Can't Get Over It - My husband and I are high school sweethearts and best friends. He is the only man I've ever been with because we started dating so young . He joined the...
    ValChix2 ValChix2 26-30, F 5 Responses May 16, 2011

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    Fear - The road to recovery begins with facing my fears. The two biggest fears that I have are so stupid...because they contradict each other. I fear staying in this relationship...
    4purrfectdarkness 4purrfectdarkness 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 5, 2012

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    I forgave my husband for his affair of one night but im still hurt - Well my boyfriend and I move in together on 2007 it was pretty good and on 2008 we got married and had...
    Jan 18, 2013

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    Will I Ever Forget ??? - 2 weeks tomorrow I found out my husband of 22 years was talking to another women . He accidentally answered the phone on front of me , if he didn't I would...
    Clrobinson Clrobinson 41-45, F 7 Responses Jul 11, 2013

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    Just Get Over It?!? - At the end of April 2012 I found out my husband of only 3 1/2 years had had a 3 year affair. We got married in September of 2008 and our daughter was born...
    Praying4Peace83 Praying4Peace83 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 19, 2012

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    My Husband Almost Left Me For Another Woman - My husband is a marine who was gone our first whole year of marriage. At the end of the year he was able to come home for 3 weeks & I...
    Sweet180 Sweet180 22-25 Nov 11, 2012

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    Free - The words of the song swirl around me. They touch the places that long to be healed. They touch the places that burn inside of me to be released With their cool flame...
    4purrfectdarkness 4purrfectdarkness 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 16, 2012

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    Weak Or Far Too Strong? - He tried to make up and apologize. Eventhou he did not confess of his intention to initiate an infidelity. Repetitously saying he will never do that to...
    JustDontMindMe JustDontMindMe 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2012

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    I'm struggling. We have two young kids, 1 & 3. I don't believe in divorce. He went away out of town for work November 4th, came home November 22 and asked for a separation. He...
    Andromeday Andromeday 36-40, F 5 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    Why Was I Not Enough? - My husband and I have been separated for almost a month because he had an affair. The separation did not come because I kicked him out but rather because...
    catucutie catucutie 36-40, F 9 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    Can You Ever Really Trust Them Agian? - We have been through counseling over and over again, but it only helped temporarily. My husband likes the attention he gets from other women...
    LifeGaveMeLemons LifeGaveMeLemons 46-50, F 4 Responses May 20, 2013

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    I Need My Best Friend! - It was one of those moments... One of those things that I could only talk to my husband or God about, And God wasn't listening. He wanted sex and I...
    4purrfectdarkness 4purrfectdarkness 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 30, 2012

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    Having Dreams - So I am not having bad dreams anymore about my husbands affair but am now having dreams of me having an affair.Really,like it could get any worse?Is this normal.I...
    CalebMadison2 CalebMadison2 36-40 4 Responses May 10, 2013

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    How This Woman Wants To Be Loved... - When I say that nothing is wrong, hold me until I can tell you without exploding. When the kids wake up at night, get up with them to give me...
    4purrfectdarkness 4purrfectdarkness 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 4, 2012

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    My Heart Feels Dead - I just found out yesturday that my husband had a very short affair. I am SO ANGRY! I confronted him.. during the time he was having the affair I was 8.5...
    babygirlnumber01 babygirlnumber01 26-30 14 Responses Jun 29, 2009

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    The Exchange - They say that things will never change, that he can't and won't change. They say that he will always be a cheater. I have decided that I don't want him to change...
    4purrfectdarkness 4purrfectdarkness 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 19, 2012

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    One Night At A Time... - He asked if I was going to come upstairs tonight because I hadn't slept in our bed for the past two nights. I said I would, but continued to lay on the...
    4purrfectdarkness 4purrfectdarkness 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 26, 2012

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    Just For Me... - Not a day goes by that I don't battle myself. Half of the world tells me that it isn't my fault. The other half says that it is all my fault. Of course, my...
    4purrfectdarkness 4purrfectdarkness 26-30, F 5 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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    Date Night - Yesterday morning I had planned a late Mother's Day Gift to myself. A day of beauty at the spa. My daughter had also chipped in with my mother to include a pedicure to...
    ozzymom ozzymom 41-45, F 1 Response May 20, 2013

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    Why Do I Feel Like I Need To Dig For More Information - So 6 months later and I decide to look up my husbands phone records from the month he had the affair.Well,noticed he was...
    CalebMadison2 CalebMadison2 36-40 4 Responses May 29, 2013

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    I Am So Numb - I have just found out that my husband is having an affair with his brothers wife.  I found this out early this evening when my 17 yr old twins told me, my...
    gailpap gailpap 46-50 5 Responses Nov 3, 2009

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    Heartbroken - My husband of 20 years is having an affair. He's been with her 9 months or so. He claims he wants to stay with me but that needs time to end it. Don't worry-- I'm...
    Hobbled Hobbled 41-45 2 Responses Aug 8, 2011

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    He Said It Was Always Wonderful - I don't understand it at all. My H said our marraige was always wonderful. We had sex all the time- it was good. We really talked to each other...
    alittlethis alittlethis 36-40 7 Responses Jul 19, 2011

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    My Husband Had A 2 Year Affair - My husband of 17 yrs was having a 2 yr affair ! I feel so dumb for not even realizing something was wrong! I caught him in January and he broke it...
    mizled033 mizled033 36-40 5 Responses May 15, 2012

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    What To Do After 20 Years My Partner Has Cheated On Me Dont Know What To Do - i have just recently found out my partner of 20 years had an affair with a woman from half way across...
    3 Responses Jan 14, 2013

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    Is It Really Worth It - I dislike waking up every morning thinking am I that bad of a person that my husband felt he needed to cheat.I look at myself and wonder what is wrong with...
    CalebMadison2 CalebMadison2 36-40 3 Responses Apr 19, 2013

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    It'S Not The End - For anyone who has experienced their spouse having an affair, I just want to tell you that there is hope. A marriage can survive an affair. It can actually...
    tropicalislandgirl tropicalislandgirl 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 6, 2013

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    Still Here But Am I Really Here - Hello to everyone.My story is long but I will try to make it short.Husband of 16 years had an affair 5 months ago also hes the only man ive ever...
    CalebMadison2 CalebMadison2 36-40 2 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    I Just Want Some Attention - I feel as if no matter how much attention my husband tries to give me for the mistake he made,cheating on me its never gonna be enough.I want attention...
    CalebMadison2 CalebMadison2 36-40 6 Responses Apr 23, 2013

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    Can't Forget - I am trying very hard to get over my husband being with someone else. About a year ago we got in a huge fight and since that moment everything changed. He said he...
    maripaz724 maripaz724 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 9, 2013

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    Still Suffering - Just under three months ago, purely by chance, I discovered love emails that were written by my husband to a woman he works with. There's no point expressing to...
    GraduallyHealing GraduallyHealing 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 17, 2013

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    He Fell In Love With Another Woman... - My husband had an affair with our sons best friends mother. We met her together when she dropped off her son to play with our little boy. My...
    tearsbiggerthenmyeyes tearsbiggerthenmyeyes 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 29, 2010

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    Did He Love Me - When my husband told me he had been groping a woman at work and lost his job through it, I believed him. He was shaking and barely able to speak the day he told me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    A Dark Day - Brokeness... Stumbling through the day, trying to make it feel "normal" He came in late We tried to pretend, but it was too much for me He slept downstairs Get up...
    4purrfectdarkness 4purrfectdarkness 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 11, 2012

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    Constant Lying And Cheating - I have been with my husband for nearly 16 years and married for 14 years, in April this year 2011 my husband left the family home and said he felt...
    Ging75 Ging75 41-45, F 4 Responses Nov 12, 2011

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    Dont Know What To Say - Still having a really hard time trying to get over my husband cheating on me.Does it really get any better?Does anyone start to feel better and that its not...
    CalebMadison2 CalebMadison2 36-40 6 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    I Choose Him Over Myself - I don't think I can continue to torture myself with this Man. We live together have for 22 years. I can't stand the agony, and pretending it didn't...
    Bittersweet48 Bittersweet48 46-50, F 6 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    To Much - The pain is to much I hardly can hold my self together I really just want to end it
    4 Responses Jan 9, 2013

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    My Husband Is Cheating And I Want To Give It Time - My husband came home a month ago and told me I make him nothing but unhappy and he cares for this girl he met at work. At first...
    rachaelt31 rachaelt31 31-35, F 4 Responses May 22, 2013

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