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I Am Trying to Get Past Being Judgmental

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    My Friends Hate It

    My friends at school say that I am always judging them but I'm really not. I know I seem judgemental a lot of the time but I am trying so hard not to be. I used to judge other people because I felt like I was always being judged by the,. I guess it sort of helped me cope with...
    brighteyed brighteyed 18-21, F Sep 12, 2007

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    I Never Really Considered Myself Judgmental

    But today, I was walking to my car, and a man with a disheveled appearance smiled and nodded. I returned the gesture, but I was expecting him to ask for a handout and wondering what his story was. I never realized before that I do that. Then, I started thinking that...
    missmisunderstood missmisunderstood 31-35, F 8 Responses Nov 23, 2009

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    I Hate Being Judged...so Why Do I Do It?

    There's probably no sensation I hate more than feeling judged. Parts of me rebel against it, parts of me cry out because of how constrained it makes of me feel, and parts of me fold like a house of cards, resigned to the truth that the other person is probably right. I can...
    humdinger humdinger 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 25, 2007

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    I joined E.p.so that I can share my experiences without any one being judgmental but I have second thoughts sometimes if it is the proper site for people like us.I dislike getting...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 7 Responses Jul 2

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    I can't change the fact my "mother" is insane and trying to get rid of me. I can't change my past. I can't change that I was attacked and raped. I can't change that destroyed my...
    sluggo111 sluggo111 16-17, M 5 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    People are judgmental and it sucks. Now I'm only 13 almost 14 and I know pretty much everything about being judged which sucks. I want to punch every judgmental person in the face...
    canadaJuly1 canadaJuly1 13-15, F Jul 6

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    I am ignored often. I was told to be quiet this morning by friend because I was trying to tell him something, and he responded with: 'Dude, I am trying to play a game right now...
    MainMan1999 MainMan1999 13-15, M 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I fking hate being misunderstood. It makes my blood boil, and makes me want to cry. I'm a good person, I take the time to figure out what someone is trying to say. I hear them out...
    dat1kiid dat1kiid 16-17 8 hrs ago

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    This week I did a clearing EFT ritual to unblock and release the ancestral patterns that were accidentally/unknowingly passed onto my consciousness. All that came to the surface...
    jenga1 jenga1 46-50, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    my parents have been completely over bearing about me finishing this online course that i took, and they have no faith that i will finish it. my dad has been giving me the same...
    AngelWitAShotgun AngelWitAShotgun 16-17, F 4 hrs ago

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    I've recently split with a girl who has a son, I was single and happy for about 3 years before I met this girl, but being with her made me so happy and it showed me the life I want...
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    I've been hurt a lot in the past so it's really hard for me to open up and trust people. So many guys but not that many would be so sweet and caring saying they won't leave and...
    XFallingAngelX XFallingAngelX 16-17, F Jun 24

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    I really see this a lot in the world and especially on the internet that people judge someone because they look a certain way, if they sound a certain way, if they act a certain...
    jellohellomello jellohellomello 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    About two hours ago I was in walmart doing groceries. This is a normal thing I do on a weekly basis at the same walmart . I go about my way going through aisles and notice a man...
    mirchoellebadu mirchoellebadu 18-21, F Jul 14

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    This is from my journal today Yesterday, I was inspired to look into past lives and, a day later, I find myself writing about my meditative experiences. I do not think that I have...
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    **I feel like I'm in an AA meeting.** My name is Chris and I'm... ...the youngest of 8 kids. I was born in to a strictly religious home. My father was a military officer, a...
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    Hi all! First off i am so happy to see i am not alone! Being a PK is a really unique lifestyle. So here's my story. My mom was saved when i was very young and dive into religion...
    Vals892 Vals892 22-25, F Jul 10

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    It is so hard being in your 40s. Everyone has so much past baggage with divorce, kids, and financial obligations. I have been trying to move forward with a man who is getting a...
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    well originally I am from the bay area. San Jose and Berkeley are known for being sort of the hub of the cultural world. I have traveled around the globe in my lifetime. I recently...
    mierdamundo mierdamundo 31-35 2 Responses Jun 25

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    I'm one of those people that never usually goes on these forums to pour my heart out as I usually internalise things and try to deal with it myself - this seems to be one of the...
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    I feel more mature for my age, and I feel so isolated. I feel like I should be in my early 20's, in college, with my own apartment. Not in my sophomore year, surrounded my...
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    I also screwed up a lot in the past up to a point where people started talking about me. I was extremely unhappy with my social/professional environment and stepped on everybody's...
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    I'm 21 and I cling to everything I can remember, which isn't much of a good thing... I remember heart break, physical agony, emotional torture, and memories that I wish I could...
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    My husband and I have been together for 11 years, married for 9. We have 3 children (elementary school age) and I've been a good wife. No, a GREAT wife. By his own admission. He...
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    I love how experience project lets me vent my frustrations and feelings, and that is what I'm doing on this post. This story is not true...but I wish it were. I fiddled with...
    MyOwnSecretSide MyOwnSecretSide 16-17, M 2 Responses Jun 28

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    I can't change my past. But I feel like my past is changing me.. I am trying not to let my past define myself. But I feel it's hard to sometimes...
    ShadowedLover ShadowedLover 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    Been trying to hold this in for the past couple of days but right now I just feel so deeply hurt that I finally lost all trust for anyone. Just didn't think this person would be...
    XFallingAngelX XFallingAngelX 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Ever since I can remember (which was when I was able to walk according to my parents), I've always loved to be naked. So much so, that one of my sisters (who has since passed away...
    BLACKTIGER75 BLACKTIGER75 36-40, M 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I would love to know more about my past lives. I had one spontaneous remembrance of a past life, and it happened not that long ago. I had been cleaning my microwave and was really...
    Solfeggio Solfeggio 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 27

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    Wow, this is hard to talk about. I grew up in a very abusive & homophobic environment. I was very attracted to women when I was younger and, well my parents found out and beat me...
    AlleywayGospel AlleywayGospel 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 1

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    I just needed someone to reach out to. My ex blocked me on Facebook & I don't understand what I did?? It's been two years, I have moved on romantically but I miss my friend. We...
    MicheleAerin MicheleAerin 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    This... Paranoia and Jealousy is getting the better of me So what i got ****** around by EVERYONE in the past Friends, Family... My best friend thought itd be a better idea to...
    SingItForTheKids SingItForTheKids 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    When I was 16 I got pregnant, and I lived the feeling of being fat, and having a belly. I gave the baby in adoption eventually, but I just couldn't resist the urge to get pregnant...
    lifebeingborn lifebeingborn 22-25, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    well im 22 years old girlfriend of 4 years a 2 year old son n thats all great but when your just not happy nothing is great there so many days i wish i could back to the times...
    happiness123joe happiness123joe 22-25, M Jun 28

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    I use to selfharm. I had 10 scars underneath a purple bracelet that I never take off. I have been treating my scars for 3 years, today I realized that only 8 are still visible...
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    I have been gang stalked by ppl from a small town I grew up since feb of this year. I have had past experiences with a few of them and chose not to have them in my life. In there...
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    I started to notice the hair in the bad places at around 13 years of age. Prior to that, I just had hair on my arms and legs probably because of the Italian in me. I guess...
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    It isn't the easiest thing to do, it's definitely a learning process. There's a lot of things i wish i could change, especially my past but...i can't and i need to accept that and...
    WistfulSigh WistfulSigh 70+, F 7 Responses Jul 16

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    I confided in an old friend about when I was first getting my headaches, I panicked and told him I was going for a scan and I was afraid I could have a tumour because it was...
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    I've had problems with emotional eating in the past. I'm now at 58kg and trying to reach 52kg. I've had this goal for a while so I'm willing to dedicate myself to it :)
    justEexisting justEexisting 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Note to future self: Matt, leave the past where it is. You may never forget what happened, but some of the other people are trying very hard to forget and you should let them...
    MattsShadow MattsShadow 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Last June 25, 2014 marked the day i felt the need to let go of our past.. that 2 hours being with you seem so long enough for me to realize things, accept the facts and realities...
    rayhn rayhn 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    What happens to me is that I'll feel weird being alive at all. I'll feel "weird" being a human being. I'll feel hyper-aware of my existence, and I'll feel like I'm in a vast...
    59Ballons 59Ballons 13-15 Jun 29

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    Ever since I meet up with a psychic 3 months ago I knew I need to pray for everyone in my life. I pray for my family, my boyfriend and everyone else that are close to me. I know...
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    For some time now, my imagination has been so vivid that I could step into another world for some time and leave this one as if though I was living in another body. I could spend...
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    I lived approximately 500 years ago, and even being pacific and never used my power to hurt others, I was bullied in the village where I lived with my mother (my father had to go...
    PrincessFromDarkKingdom PrincessFromDarkKingdom 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    My log, July 9th, 2014 Sometimes i wonder, why am i here, trying to reach out to people...when they rarely ever reach back. I have had luck with one person, not even in EP, but in...
    Alexob13 Alexob13 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 9

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