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I Am Trying to Get Past Being Judgmental

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    I Hate Being Judged...so Why Do I Do It?

    There's probably no sensation I hate more than feeling judged. Parts of me rebel against it, parts of me cry out because of how constrained it makes of me feel, and parts of me fold like a house of cards, resigned to the truth that the other person is probably right. I can...
    humdinger humdinger 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 25, 2007

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    I Never Really Considered Myself Judgmental

    But today, I was walking to my car, and a man with a disheveled appearance smiled and nodded. I returned the gesture, but I was expecting him to ask for a handout and wondering what his story was. I never realized before that I do that. Then, I started thinking that...
    missmisunderstood missmisunderstood 31-35, F 8 Responses Nov 23, 2009

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    My Friends Hate It

    My friends at school say that I am always judging them but I'm really not. I know I seem judgemental a lot of the time but I am trying so hard not to be. I used to judge other people because I felt like I was always being judged by the,. I guess it sort of helped me cope with...
    brighteyed brighteyed 18-21, F Sep 12, 2007

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    Related Experiences

    I joined E.p.so that I can share my experiences without any one being judgmental but I have second thoughts sometimes if it is the proper site for people like us.I dislike getting...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 7 Responses Jul 2

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    Why I let inconsiderate, self absorbed people bother me, I don't know. But I do know that I am done with it. I am thankful for the friends that I have that don't treat me like I...
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    Ram, scram and the sham law Two girls tried to ram their scooter into mine on 30th June 20014. I was driving my scooter and they just tried to crash into my scooter. On 30 June 2...
    aproudwoman aproudwoman 41-45, F 1 hr ago

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    On 28th July I went to a cybercafé. This café is near the legislative assembly building. I had some urgent work. When I went and sat there, there was a guy who talked loudly in a...
    aproudwoman aproudwoman 41-45, F 1 hr ago

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    Oh that's all I've been doing for the past 9 months nothing else but water and I feel unreal or out of this world, oh and I have more energy!
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M 3 hrs ago

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    People are judgmental and it sucks. Now I'm only 13 almost 14 and I know pretty much everything about being judged which sucks. I want to punch every judgmental person in the face...
    canadaJuly1 canadaJuly1 13-15, F Jul 6

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    About Turn Two years back I had told my mother that there is a hidden camera in our house and many people are listening to what we are saying. She laughed at me and said “huh...
    aproudwoman aproudwoman 41-45, F 1 hr ago

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    I really see this a lot in the world and especially on the internet that people judge someone because they look a certain way, if they sound a certain way, if they act a certain...
    jellohellomello jellohellomello 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    About two hours ago I was in walmart doing groceries. This is a normal thing I do on a weekly basis at the same walmart . I go about my way going through aisles and notice a man...
    mirchoellebadu mirchoellebadu 18-21, F Jul 14

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    This is from my journal today Yesterday, I was inspired to look into past lives and, a day later, I find myself writing about my meditative experiences. I do not think that I have...
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    **I feel like I'm in an AA meeting.** My name is Chris and I'm... ...the youngest of 8 kids. I was born in to a strictly religious home. My father was a military officer, a...
    dukelostboy25 dukelostboy25 26-30, M 5 Responses Jul 1

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    I joined this group as, like most people, I really don't like being lied to. You take me as you find me, and I don't put on heirs and graces, so there's no need to lie or be false...
    ConcreteSleeper ConcreteSleeper 31-35, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I worked our I was gay at a later age, how anyone could believe that this life is a choice is beyond me, I hate the fact I'm gay, that my dreams of being a dad and having a family...
    pyroguy80 pyroguy80 31-35, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Hi all! First off i am so happy to see i am not alone! Being a PK is a really unique lifestyle. So here's my story. My mom was saved when i was very young and dive into religion...
    Vals892 Vals892 22-25, F Jul 10

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    It is so hard being in your 40s. Everyone has so much past baggage with divorce, kids, and financial obligations. I have been trying to move forward with a man who is getting a...
    rosedl rosedl 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    I'm one of those people that never usually goes on these forums to pour my heart out as I usually internalise things and try to deal with it myself - this seems to be one of the...
    Liya2004 Liya2004 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    I feel more mature for my age, and I feel so isolated. I feel like I should be in my early 20's, in college, with my own apartment. Not in my sophomore year, surrounded my...
    stillYDGN stillYDGN 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 19

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    I have dealt with liars my whole life just like most have. If you talk to me on here there's no reason to lie to me I'm not the judgmental type . I just want someone that I can...
    carroyo18 carroyo18 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    I also screwed up a lot in the past up to a point where people started talking about me. I was extremely unhappy with my social/professional environment and stepped on everybody's...
    betequeue betequeue 26-30, F Jul 21

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    I'm 21 and I cling to everything I can remember, which isn't much of a good thing... I remember heart break, physical agony, emotional torture, and memories that I wish I could...
    Christuh Christuh 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    My husband and I have been together for 11 years, married for 9. We have 3 children (elementary school age) and I've been a good wife. No, a GREAT wife. By his own admission. He...
    proulxfam proulxfam 31-35 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I can't change my past. But I feel like my past is changing me.. I am trying not to let my past define myself. But I feel it's hard to sometimes...
    ShadowedLover ShadowedLover 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    Been trying to hold this in for the past couple of days but right now I just feel so deeply hurt that I finally lost all trust for anyone. Just didn't think this person would be...
    XFallingAngelX XFallingAngelX 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I don't know where to begin, I've made mistakes I won't deny that but I try to make things better. I apologize for the things I say when we argue but she never does. I do not deny...
    sufferin4life sufferin4life 41-45, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Wow, this is hard to talk about. I grew up in a very abusive & homophobic environment. I was very attracted to women when I was younger and, well my parents found out and beat me...
    AlleywayGospel AlleywayGospel 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 1

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    I just needed someone to reach out to. My ex blocked me on Facebook & I don't understand what I did?? It's been two years, I have moved on romantically but I miss my friend. We...
    MicheleAerin MicheleAerin 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    This... Paranoia and Jealousy is getting the better of me So what i got ****** around by EVERYONE in the past Friends, Family... My best friend thought itd be a better idea to...
    SingItForTheKids SingItForTheKids 18-21, F Jul 21

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    Babies As awareness is increasing about persecution and psychological games, now the persecutors will go a step further. The public is at last opening its eyes to games and set...
    aproudwoman aproudwoman 41-45, F 1 hr ago

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    Microsoft. I had to recently call Norton because the product I bought could not be installed. I called them and a guy answered the phone. He gave a reply to my queries. After that...
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    I started to notice the hair in the bad places at around 13 years of age. Prior to that, I just had hair on my arms and legs probably because of the Italian in me. I guess...
    sunflowerjade sunflowerjade 22-25, F Jul 13

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    It isn't the easiest thing to do, it's definitely a learning process. There's a lot of things i wish i could change, especially my past but...i can't and i need to accept that and...
    SheAlwaysBelieved SheAlwaysBelieved 18-21, F 7 Responses Jul 16

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    I confided in an old friend about when I was first getting my headaches, I panicked and told him I was going for a scan and I was afraid I could have a tumour because it was...
    nainaii nainaii 18-21, F Jul 16

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    I've had problems with emotional eating in the past. I'm now at 58kg and trying to reach 52kg. I've had this goal for a while so I'm willing to dedicate myself to it :)
    justEexisting justEexisting 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Note to future self: Matt, leave the past where it is. You may never forget what happened, but some of the other people are trying very hard to forget and you should let them...
    MattsShadow MattsShadow 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I can't change the fact my "mother" is insane and trying to get rid of me. I can't change my past. I can't change that I was attacked and raped. I can't change that destroyed my...
    sluggo111 sluggo111 16-17, M 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    i was with my sister in christ and we was sitting in living room with a baby between us. we hard somebody trying to get in but couldn t get in. then went walking slow to the other...
    anestia anestia 31-35, F 7 hrs ago

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    Ever since I meet up with a psychic 3 months ago I knew I need to pray for everyone in my life. I pray for my family, my boyfriend and everyone else that are close to me. I know...
    roses289 roses289 22-25, F Jul 8

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    For some time now, my imagination has been so vivid that I could step into another world for some time and leave this one as if though I was living in another body. I could spend...
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    I lived approximately 500 years ago, and even being pacific and never used my power to hurt others, I was bullied in the village where I lived with my mother (my father had to go...
    PrincessFromDarkKingdom PrincessFromDarkKingdom 18-21, F Jul 20

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    My log, July 9th, 2014 Sometimes i wonder, why am i here, trying to reach out to people...when they rarely ever reach back. I have had luck with one person, not even in EP, but in...
    Alexob13 Alexob13 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 9

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    So a few years back I had a dream that I think went with my "tabitha story" and that was a place called Skye, and that's how it was spelled. I soon realized the accent was indeed...
    Dayzdreamer Dayzdreamer 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I've had a difficult time forgetting about my past its a dark place that haunts and bothers me to this day. I've had many problems with being adopted I would cry for hours on end...
    eliteforces1001 eliteforces1001 16-17, M Jul 15

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    I have to say that, being single is the time you're supposed to be going through a self development. Why? So you're prepared for next partner your going to be with.
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M 4 hrs ago

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    I'm so sick:P I hate I being sick, I can't do anything I want and I'm hurting and I can't eat anything. Ugh.
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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