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I Am Trying to Get Past Being Judgmental

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 29 People

    I Hate Being Judged...so Why Do I Do It?

    There's probably no sensation I hate more than feeling judged. Parts of me rebel against it, parts of me cry out because of how constrained it makes of me feel, and parts of me fold like a house of cards, resigned to the truth that the other person is probably right. I can...
    humdinger humdinger 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 25, 2007

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    I Never Really Considered Myself Judgmental

    But today, I was walking to my car, and a man with a disheveled appearance smiled and nodded. I returned the gesture, but I was expecting him to ask for a handout and wondering what his story was. I never realized before that I do that. Then, I started thinking that...
    missmisunderstood missmisunderstood 31-35, F 8 Responses Nov 23, 2009

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    My Friends Hate It

    My friends at school say that I am always judging them but I'm really not. I know I seem judgemental a lot of the time but I am trying so hard not to be. I used to judge other people because I felt like I was always being judged by the,. I guess it sort of helped me cope with...
    brighteyed brighteyed 18-21, F Sep 12, 2007

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    I'm really tired of people being judgmental just because of what i may have posted on this site like posting.about how sexual you may get is one thing But you actually beingnin...
    Marksta Marksta 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    but it feels like it is already. I've posted a few bits and pieces but now I want to just purge my mind. Is that ok with you? A while back, god, how long? Since June of last year I...
    cavedweller2 cavedweller2 36-40, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I don't need to be in a relationship to be happy. I actually don't find it important to be in a relationship. I find trying to live my life and trying to survive in this world WAY...
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I have 2 girls, one aged 3.5 and another aged 1.5. and I go to bed each night feeling guilty that I didnt have more patience or compassion for my girls. I do take responsbility...
    XenaX123 XenaX123 31-35, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    don't believe people when they tell you they are non judgmental. It depends on their lens. To me, non-judgmental means non-judgmental. I'm not a freak or a perv...just a regular...
    RestlessWarrior1 RestlessWarrior1 46-50, M Apr 8

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    So since 2/3rd March ive lost over 12lb and this week I went to get weight and I've yet agin out on 1/2 to which some people say that's not much you can easily get it off. But it...
    Ridingtonewyork Ridingtonewyork 13-15, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I've been fat since childhood. It wasn't so much that I ate a lot. It was more that I had a lower metabolism than most kids my age. The older I got, the more I was bullied, until I...
    AgentSean AgentSean 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 20

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    20th April 2015 What I truly wish….to is free in every possible way. Not patriotic freedom but when one is separated from the reality and a sense of self…..oblivion. A person...
    HopeEverlasting HopeEverlasting 31-35, F 13 hrs ago

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    idk if I'd ever be able to accept the fact that being in a relationship the person has/gotta have friends too but why would a woman have to have male friends ? or men women? so I'm...
    mergirl123 mergirl123 18-21, F 2 Responses 43 mins ago

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    I can't get over my past. I think my ability to trust and love have been ruined.
    chloeG55 chloeG55 16-17, F 54 mins ago

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    I hate people. I really do. I'm just too mind independent. I hate crowd places. I hate when people just can't keep things to themselves. I hate rude, judgmental comments they...
    masmelo masmelo 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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    My psychologist and me get along, but he's extremely judgemental and really gets on my nerves at times and is seriously such an a**hole. The other day, I told him about me wanting...
    MegaManZero97 MegaManZero97 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    This is probably my least favorite advice someone could give me. It is cliche to say and very unhelpful. I DO understand people are at least trying to help sometimes when they say...
    Human4 Human4 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    I'm gay. I have my ups and downs with being gay. For example today I was quite happy being gay. I know that one day I'll be happy with my boyfriend or maybe husband, if it's...
    hellotheremister hellotheremister 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    (Past Experience) If you don't know, I write that when talking about my past experience so people don't think this is recent. I have been bullied, I have been almost kill five...
    AllTheEmotions AllTheEmotions 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    I have been working from home. or rather noting the odd thought down and responding to emails. There is a lot of staring and music. The instinct to turn my face to the wall...
    grommit3 grommit3 36-40, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    It has been almost four years now. I fight myself not to be jaded and cynical about.the.idea of being in a good relationship. All I want is trust, but.that is a rare thing. I am...
    chaotica1973 chaotica1973 41-45, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    I went to a SADD (students against destructive decisions) convention and speakers kept telling us that we should talk about stuff that we went through or that we are going through...
    nobodyknows13 nobodyknows13 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    I have been a TI for about 3 1/2-4 years, and that's only how long that I actually know of. I've read multiple stories/comments, etc. I have had pretty much ALL the same things...
    quaesita1979 quaesita1979 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    For quite some time now I have been struggling with an over riding sense of unhappiness with the state of things in my life, starting with the long term issues in my marriage...
    WishfulGuy WishfulGuy 46-50, M 8 Responses Mar 23

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    I didn't need EP for a while. I thought I was doing better but lately I just want to cry every day and all I think about is the past. I really want to run away where I have nobody...
    lonelyalways96 lonelyalways96 18-21, F Mar 29

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    I speak my mind all the time, whether it hurts people's feelings or not. My sister Roxanne is more sensitive than me or my other sister. I have to remember to choose my words...
    JupiterCity JupiterCity 36-40, M Apr 1

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    When I was around 17,(I'm 32 now) I was deep in the rebellious know it all stage. Since my family is very religious I thought it would be cool to get into the occult. I started...
    deedee1982 deedee1982 31-35, F Apr 3

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    When I was around 17,(I'm 32 now) I was deep in the rebellious know it all stage. Since my family is very religious I thought it would be cool to get into the occult. I started...
    deedee1982 deedee1982 31-35, F Apr 3

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    When I was around 17,(I'm 32 now) I was deep in the rebellious know it all stage. Since my family is very religious I thought it would be cool to get into the occult. I started...
    deedee1982 deedee1982 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I've been dating this girl for 5 months, we are both 20, and we said we love each other after 2 months. But the problem is, I found out she's slept with 12 guys by age 19 soon...
    Fatality2013 Fatality2013 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 4

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    Why can't she forgive me? When am the first guy too buy her flowers the first guy too tell her I dont want nudes that all I wanted was for her too sing for me.when she has forgive...
    skykidx1 skykidx1 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    I used to talk to a guy from work, it didnt work out. Another guy from work I was friends with, started trying to talk to me. Although I tried my best to not like him and convince...
    coraimaal coraimaal 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I'm home alone once again and i'm trying so hard not to think of any of the scary movies that i watched in the past...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 9

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    It started like a routine boy-girl thing. He sought me out, started to chat online. I found him interesting so started chatting with him too. We exchanged numbers, started to talk...
    evagould evagould 31-35 4 Responses a week ago

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    Being strong is all I've ever known I'm in a wheelchair I was born like it I just got sick loooong story but anyway I got my first wheelchair when I turned 4 I even took the...
    Hollybird17 Hollybird17 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm 33 a trucker and I must say my life sucks I work 80 plus hours a week don't get to talk to many people and am away from my kids 3 weeks at a time. 33 and being in love seems...
    longhaul82 longhaul82 31-35, M 16 hrs ago

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    I like being in the hospital, but it sucks being stuck here on 420. Thank god for morphine
    uncle9583 uncle9583 18-21, M 5 hrs ago

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    Being a stepmother has got to be the most difficult, thankless task there is. My husband and I have been together for 7 years. His daughter is now 11, and we have two small...
    Cabanacay79 Cabanacay79 36-40, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Don't you hate it when you think you found the one but it ends up not like you expected I hate being lied , I hate being cheated on I wish I could fine someone special but I will...
    Vammy1d Vammy1d 13-15, F 58 mins ago

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    My Birthday came, like it does every year. But this year was different. Every day for about 2 weeks leading up to my birthday was complete misery. Me being blamed for everything...
    St4rbright St4rbright 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    This is actually a very hard thing to do, especially when you don't have friends by your side. I have two main friends. Lets call the first one "jamie" and the second one "jessica...
    maria67108 maria67108 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have to be perfectly honest I'm depressed individual who will be seeing a therapist next Thursday. I find myself depressed because I'm only ever interested in talking about stuff...
    kotulakj2 kotulakj2 26-30, M Mar 22

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