I Am Trying To Save Marriage After Husband Cheated

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    I'm on my way to Marriage counseling.

    Does anyone have any experience with this? I'm a little nervous
    mb1973 mb1973
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Sep 4, 2014

    Easy- Men cheat for one of two reasons: Men

    are pigs OR They don't get enough blow jobs
    StellaNoir StellaNoir
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Mar 21, 2014

    How Do I Let It Go And Move On

    I am 41 yrs old and have only been with 2 men my whole life. My first marriage ended in divorce because he was an alcoholic. This marriage is different. My husband and I have been married for 10 years but we have been together for 20. Last year my world came crashing down. My...
    tamikens tamikens
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Jul 22, 2011

    I look at it this way,

    as a wife of 13 years: sex is a physical function. It can be completely separate from anything resembling emotion. I would question whether there was an emotional connection. If it was just intercourse, take it at face value and move on. It's certainly not worth breaking your...
    Lindsay792001 Lindsay792001
    36-40
    2 Responses Jul 30, 2015

    Am I Crazy

    In my marriage i have been through it all,from being hit,cheated on more than 20 times one of them even has a kid,he has brought 2 to our house whilst i was away and has been seeing one for the past 6 years and has another 2 on the go,but i can't leave ...WHY??and i still love...
    busty74 busty74
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Nov 13, 2012

    Unsure

    Background: My husband and I have been together going on 10 years. We married young (19) and have spend most of our marriage apart since he's in the military. (though I'm not using this as an excuse) Over the past two years we've been dealing with a huge hurdle in our marriage...
    completelyshattered completelyshattered
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 29, 2012

    Been married two years met husband four years

    ago when we first met we were crazy about each other but he was married less then a year to his hs sweetheart and I was with mine so after 6 months we broke it off and forgot it for a long time. Then he came back to me and i moved to be with him in the army. We moved quick...
    frenchfry5 frenchfry5
    18-21
    2 Responses Jul 30, 2015

    Sharing Your Story Of Survival After Infidelity..

    Hi there, I'm here looking for couples who might be interested in sharing their story of infidelity and how they managed to get past it, whether they remained together or split up. Is your story one of 'Once a cheater, always a cheater, no way I'll take you back!'?? Or were...
    Noelles Noelles
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 11, 2012

    Letter From A Betrayed Husband To His Wife Explaining His Need To Know ...

    I came across this letter online which beautifully explains why we keep asking questions about the affair, I read it to my husband he just did't 'get it' or perhaps fear still will not allow him to help me heal. But I hope that for you it may prove to be a tool which will open...
    nohome nohome
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Oct 17, 2012

    Worn out dealing with husband's Mid Life Crisis,

    including lies, attempt at taking steroids, binge drinking, online affair with my friend, excessive ****, the only thing he hasn't done is drained the bank account! It's like being married to a 21 year old (yes, a few benefits...but sucks overall!).
    goldylocks07 goldylocks07
    41-45, F
    1 Response May 14, 2014

    Hope...

    I still have hope. He cheated and I still believe that we can come back from this. First, he has to reconcile with himself and figure out exactly what he wants. Then, we will have to see if we can find a way through the wreckage we created. I didn't get married to just give...
    Jgizmo Jgizmo
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Dec 3, 2012

    Devastated Wife...

    I have been together with my husband for over 20 years, and married for 16... We've had our ups and downs, I dedicated myself to taking care of the kids and he dedicated himself to his work... I recently found out he had a relationship with another woman for three years... He...
    chapigirl chapigirl
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jul 5, 2012

    Erase/rewind

    My husband and I have been together for ten and a half years, and married for one and a half. I begin sharing this experience by saying that I learned that, in our marriage, his affair is not what ruined our marriage; it was the biggest and most hurtful symptom of all of our...
    HerasMaiden HerasMaiden
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 29, 2012

    I Am Lost, My Husband Cheated And Now Our Marriage Is Falling Apart

    Hello everyone, I joined this group because I am going through the most difficult time in my life and I am so lost and feel so alone that I felt the need to just vent with others who like me have had their lives devastated by betrayal and left in ruins.So this is my story...
    skylar0073 skylar0073
    36-40, F
    15 Responses Nov 17, 2011

    Heartbroken And Devestated

    Been married for 20 yrs, thought we had a great marriage, talked alot, had great laughs, fantastic sex, everyone said we where the perfect couple, dont get me wrong we fell out and argued but always made up. After being married for 10yrs when our son was 2yrs old he was working...
    Ginny04 Ginny04
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Apr 11, 2012

    I Still Love Him... But His Affair Changed Him And I'm So Lost!

    My story... Married 15 years this April, but been together (few break ups here and there in HS and college) since 8th grade (23 years of love). My husband is a beautiful, large, fit man who all women just drool over. He was the moral, hard working, "my family is my life...
    4Tigers 4Tigers
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Jan 4, 2012

    I Am Trying To Save Marriage After My Husband Cheated

    I am searching for others who feel like I do and hope to find some who made it to the other side of this pain and confusion. About 2 years ago I found out my husband had had an affair 8 years before that. There had been blackmail & extortion ever since it happened since a child...
    tgtg tgtg
    41-45
    8 Responses Sep 27, 2010

    Trying To Save My Marriage..

    ME AND MY HUSBAND ARE TRYING TO WORK ON OUR MARRIAGE. WE JUST GOT BACK TOGETHER AFTER BEING SEPARATED FOR 6 MONTHS. WITHIN THE 6 MONTHS HE HAD A GF AND MOVED HER AND HER NEWBORN CHILD INTO HIS APARTMENT. I DONT KNOW HOW TO LET THAT GO BECAUSE AT TIMES I FEEL LIKE HE MIGHT STILL...
    hiswife1119 hiswife1119
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Oct 18, 2011
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