I Am Trying To Work On My Relationship

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    What To Do

    Im trying to get my mind right ive been married 10 years last week and after many ups and downs Im not sure why im still here there hasnt been much love in the last few years and I dont know how to get it back every time I make an effort she either thinks im sucking up and lying...
    gti862001 gti862001
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Nov 2, 2011

    Problems With My Marriage

    So I married my wife 14 years ago after meeting her online. For the first 12 years, we did pretty good. It is the last couple of years where things have gone down hill. It started with getting an extention to our house, from our uncle-in-law who screwed us out of $53,000 and...
    revolution1066 revolution1066
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Sep 23, 2010

    We Are Working On Making Our Lives Better...

    My partner and i are working on making our relationship better, not only that but in the process of making our relationship better making one anothers lives better. We are focusing on ending one cycle of habbit and making a cycle of new habbits, it really is so tiring and hard to...
    BIRDSiVIEW BIRDSiVIEW
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Sep 23, 2010
    WeedLady WeedLady
    46-50, F
    Mar 25, 2014

    No Contact

    I have been trying to work things out with my love and things were going okay, i mean there were some ups and downs, but in general since i saw him again things were going pretty well.. up until the 11th when he basically told me he just wanted to be alone.. i said oh okay and...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Apr 16, 2012

    Feeling lonely .. Husband works away 1 month off

    and one month on .... Getting a bit fed up of to say the least
    susanmul65 susanmul65
    51-55, F
    Mar 2, 2014
    WeedLady WeedLady
    46-50, F
    1 Response Mar 21, 2014

    How To Stop Being Such A Commitment Phobic...

    HOW TO STOP BEING SUCH A COMMITMENT PHOBIC.... You need to think about the person in a more friendly way. Most people are loving and will help you. I think that you can manage it if you work with it. (=(= I find that helps me. http://ezinearticles.com/?Reasons-Why-Men-Tend-to...
    lea1307 lea1307
    18-21, F
    Sep 17, 2011

    I try to tell myself he's putting his 100% into

    fixing us after what he did, but it's hard to believe sometimes. I feel worthless.
    nadiabowls nadiabowls
    16-17, F
    Jul 16, 2015

    It's just not working!

    Why do I always attract the ones who are still attached from the umbilical cord?? I believe in being close to parents, and having a really good, close relationship....but really some kids just never grow up. They need their mommy for. EVERYTHING! Not cute!
    LetMeBeYourFemme LetMeBeYourFemme
    31-35, F
    1 Response Sep 6, 2014

    Space To Breathe

    So after a little time my relationship appears to be getting better, with some effort on both parts i can see improvement. And leaving a particularly hostile group on here i feel better. so for a change all is good with the world, and i can smile today..there is no bitterness...
    forachange forachange
    36-40, F
    1 Response Mar 8, 2013
    WeedLady WeedLady
    46-50, F
    Mar 16, 2014

    It is very noticeable

    that ever since I became honest about the whole "cheating" incident, my boyfriend and I have actually since grown more closer than we have ever been. It's nice to know that even though something like that can drive couples apart has drawn us closer. I'm happy right now and I...
    Kwolfleg Kwolfleg
    26-30, F
    Jan 24, 2014

    Is It Me? What Is A Woman To Do?

    I need some outside looking in advice. Since the beginning of my husband and I's relationship, we have always had a bit of an issue in the bedroom. I have a fairly active drive and he is pretty mellow. Over the course of our relationship I have tried to break off our relationship...
    needanswerwife needanswerwife
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Dec 7, 2011

    Going to give this relationship one last try; I

    will state my needs...mental, physical & emotional. I've done it several times in the past; to no avail. One more time...if this wake up call fails; I will know I've given & tried everything.
    WeedLady WeedLady
    46-50, F
    Mar 2, 2014

    So...

    I have nowhere to go. Everyone else I would talk to are invested in the both of us and our marriage. I'm coming to realize that I think my marriage is over. I don't want it to be, but I think it is. It comes down to this, in a conversation we had a couple of months ago, I...
    revolution1066 revolution1066
    41-45, M
    6 Responses Oct 5, 2010
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