I Am Undecided About Abortion

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    I Can't Decide.

    I just found out i was pregnant. Like literally, less than a week ago. I'm barely two weeks along, and i don't know what to do. My boyfriend and i both feel that something just isn't right. we don't feel it's the right time to have a baby. i know he'd support me either way, but i...
    sphia32810 sphia32810
    3 Responses Jul 1, 2009

    In Need To Be Rescued

    Everyone wants me to decided whether am going to keep the baby or not. At first i did want to keep it because abortions are risky. then i told my mother and she said so much **** to me that left me blank. I thought i can count on my boyfriend but it turns out i cant. I went on...
    pchina pchina
    Nov 15, 2012


    im almost 20 years old and i just recently found out that im a month pregnant im so confused and scared idk whatt to do h father to be will love for me to have it and his family but he is unemployeed n hes 24yrs old i dont want to commit crime as everyone tells me but part of me...
    babsz babsz
    2 Responses Jul 23, 2011

    My 2c

    I think that abortions are a bad thing, and that there should be as few as possible. I also think that they should be safe, and by making them illegal I worry that many women would be driven to means other than a trained doctor. I think real sex education in schools and not...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Feb 9, 2008

    Whether you're with abortion,

    against abortion or undecided about abortion it is still murder. I mean there's nothing to change that, it is still flat out murder. Idk how to put that nicely. Anyway I have mixed feelings about it. I mean, if you're a rape victim than I would totally understand why you would...
    WintersSoldier WintersSoldier
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 5, 2014

    Making Decisions Is Hard

    i just found out im pregnant and i dont think neither me nor my boyfriend are ready to have a kid although i dont want to abort it I feel that i have the need to but i know im gonna regret it. me and my boyfriend fight alot and i think his the guy i want to spend the rest of my...
    nr102509 nr102509
    3 Responses Jul 1, 2011

    Give In Or No

    My boyfriend still wants me to concider having an abortion. And some part of me wants to do it but then i just think of whats growing in my tummy. He says that we only been dating for 2 months and we arent ready for a child . Is he just scared? i feel so confused that i find...
    pchina pchina
    3 Responses Nov 14, 2012

    I'm Pro-life

    i knew before i was sure i was against it. but when someone I know got pregnant at the wrong time and i thought she had an abortion, i felt relieved for her. and then i started feeling bad that my firm stand over the issue got easily swayed.  i guess it's another easier said...
    MeoNLyBeTtEr MeoNLyBeTtEr
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 10, 2008

    My Position

    I am personally against abortion, but I am pro-choice. I don't believe the government has the right to legislate what a woman can and can't do with her body.
    drcynic drcynic
    26-30, M
    1 Response Feb 10, 2008

    I just found out I'm pregnant.

    I'm 25, no kids, finishing my first year back at college, living at my grandparents house. I work part time and my grandparents help me out a ton financially because I am in school full time. The father is my on/off again boyfriend of 5 years and he is 26. I have an appt for the...
    SoTorn18 SoTorn18
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 30, 2014

    I was probably ten or eleven the first time a

    learned about abortion. Being a kid, I thought, "Well, of course life doesn't start until birth, or else we'd trace our 'birthdays' back to the day of conception rather than the day of birth". So I was moderately pro-choice and stayed that way for a few years. I lived in a...
    ArtieParty39 ArtieParty39
    18-21, M
    Jul 14, 2015

    Right In the Middle

    I know what I have done in the past and I know what I would do in the future. I learned that you cant judge this kind of thing, until you have been in the situation yourself.Yes I believe it is wrong.I know a girl who had six just during high school,and I find that sick.I know a...
    blackcat blackcat
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 10, 2008

    Young And Afraid

    i am 17 years old and i recently found out i was pregnant , my mind was set on an abortion. because i am to young to have it but when i went to the doctors they told me i am close to 2 month prego. my boyfriend is the same age as me we've been dating for 2 month, and he was...
    pchina pchina
    1 Response Nov 14, 2012


    to be honest im not really sure what i think about it all i know is, if i got pregnant i would NOT have the child. there's no way i would let it ruin my life... adoption? out of the question! that would mean being pregnant for 9 months... and that would dramatically change...
    greeeneyes greeeneyes
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 29, 2008
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