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I Am Undecided About Having Children

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    Whether you're with abortion, against abortion or undecided about abortion it is still murder. I mean there's nothing to change that, it is still flat out murder. Idk how to put...
    WintersSoldier WintersSoldier 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I seriously thinking about having an affair because i dont think im am happy with my marriage anymore.
    Prulla Prulla 26-30, F 14 Responses 1 day ago

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    Having kids has been a dream of mine since I was a child, but my family is filled with horrible people and I don't want any of my children to end up like them. They are selfish...
    Annapie Annapie 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    How do you have an affair without getting your emotions involved? I think about an affair because I'm so lonely but I tend to get easily attached because I am longing for...
    tammie74 tammie74 36-40, F 16 Responses Jul 13

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    Any women just want to chat?
    tennguy55 tennguy55 22-25, M Jul 3

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    I married but I wanna know if I "still got it"
    cgezzy cgezzy 31-35, M 3 Responses Jul 9

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    I wish id someday find a guy who id like to have affair with. I think i deserved that after what i was going thruh. One day i will be desired. I feel that. I didnt seareched well...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 33 Responses Jul 10

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    I have been married for 20 years and often seek out the advances of other woman. Is this normal?
    samuelthomas samuelthomas 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 16

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    My husbands idea of romance is watching Big Bang Theory on the couch together. I need more!!! I crave to be touched, to be kissed. To just freaking make out with someone and...
    nevadagurl nevadagurl 41-45, F 13 Responses 4 days ago

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    The best thing about children to me right now is the fact that I can give them back to their parents. After watching them for so long, it's always a joy to be able to hand them...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Most girls seem so excited about having children and think it's so cute but I really don't want children.
    Rayquaza76x Rayquaza76x 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I tried to learn more about adoption (specifically from foster care) and found that the adoption community is really mixed up. We're a fertile couple and, therefore, a slightly...
    VerbingNoun VerbingNoun 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    Ok, I am a young teen girl that is confused with my sexuality. I know I shouldn't be stressed over such a silly thing because I'm only young, but I would rather find out if I'm gay...
    bewildyoungandfree bewildyoungandfree 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 1

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    My female friends are sometimes mistaken for being actual girlfriends and i can see why. I treat them like my trophies, my prize possessions my Princesses. Its like being my...
    coolcalv coolcalv 26-30, M a week ago

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    1. I like girls. 2. I am black. 3. I am 15. 4. I am going to the 10th grade. 5. I like girls feet. 6.i work out. 7. Sometimes I lie about having a real girlfriend...
    Chasemanning Chasemanning 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    I'm always thinking about having this older man dominate me... I wish I could have it in real life
    loulou58 loulou58 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 19

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    No it is NOT because I have anything against Children , we all were one at some point Its more basic : 1. Most relationships never are stable or long lasting , so I never...
    TsavoHunter TsavoHunter 36-40, M 56 mins ago

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    1. I live in Missouri 2. I'm passionate about writing 3. Attending college for associates 4. 22 years old 5. I like a Navy man 6. My hair is a red ombré to blonde 7. A...
    PeaceBatman PeaceBatman 22-25, F 32 mins ago

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    In 2002, met a man that I thought was going to be "the one." I was at a sensitive time in my life, just out of a 6 year marriage, small children, and overweight. This man made me...
    1973danielle 1973danielle 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I am a very recent high school graduate. In the speeches at graduation, they were talking about starting the "new chapter in your lives." I have strong ideas about where, who...
    jpk29 jpk29 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    - I grew up in a New Age environment. For many years when I had a headache or the flu, my mom would heal me instead of giving me pills. We would seek answers to our problems by...
    Vanaheim Vanaheim 31-35, F 1 hr ago

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    Anyone like having their feet rubbed by someone else's feet? It seems a lot more relaxing and you don't have to get your hands stinky and dirty lol. But it should be mutual though...
    ONEPIECE749 ONEPIECE749 18-21, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    There are days when I desperately want to be pregnant and have a baby. I'm 34 and would like 3 or 4 kids. I already have them named and everything (potentially). You see, these are...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Jul 16

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      Can a marriage truely be repaired after one party has cheated? Has anyone been through or going through this now a? My husband and I have been married for 6 years, we have...
    sammieejai123 sammieejai123 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 6

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    When I was a kid I always wanted a family like the ones that I would watch on the television. My mother had 2 jobs during the time. My father well let's say........ Poppa was a...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F Jul 17

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    When he asked me out, he did it in the cutest way; "Would you date a wrestler?" As silly as it was, it was still what I'd always wanted to hear. But I didn't realize what exactly I...
    Mj13ahestrella Mj13ahestrella 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    NEVER thought I'd be in this position because I know it's wrong, but...I'm married & having an affair with a married man. It started out innocently enough---we just met standing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 54 Responses Jul 14

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    I am a teenager, and I don't think I have grown up too fast, rather going through appropriate milestones and learning what I should. But my family knows another family whose kids...
    ICanTotallySurvive ICanTotallySurvive 13-15, F Jul 13

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    We come here for social interaction , To talk with people we have things in common with, I have nothing in common with children, I look at the feed on my page and it is...
    Poseybloom Poseybloom 41-45, F 9 Responses 4 days ago

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    Oklahoma is having some really strange weather, we got down in the 50s last night, I got a little cool last night, I all most had to get a heavier blanket, but it is a good thing...
    jennylovestosmile jennylovestosmile 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 3

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    For DayDay and Sagey abducted back to Finland in December 2003. In January 2003 my abusive Estonian husband kicked me and my 3 children(14,10,&8) out of the marital home(after...
    IStillGotIt IStillGotIt 41-45, F Jul 10

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    I would really like to get a better understanding on this. I can only read so much before I want to talk to those that have experience on the subject. I've been in a relationship...
    matt0030 matt0030 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    Can't believe I'm doing this. Here goes. 1. My middle name is Daniel 2.i am a Pisces 3. I used to play the violin. 4. I was married once upon a time. 5. I can't ride a bike. 6. I...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Looking back at my life, I'm very surprised I never made the "mistake" of getting married and/or having kids too early on in life. I call it a mistake because, for me, it would...
    TrailrunnerMN TrailrunnerMN 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 2

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    I have planned everything for my future. Every little detail is printed in my head. I have chosen the names I want for my babies (if I ever have babies), I know the car I want, I...
    EarlPhantomhive EarlPhantomhive 18-21, F Jul 4

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    Part 2 My wife and I have had the grand kids now for about months. Things have been going good for the most part, but my wife and I made the mistake of letting our daughter (my...
    xj287 xj287 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 6

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    I just turned 25 this year and Ive been in this quarter life crisis loop for quite some time now. Started around 20 I believe. No matter what I'm doing to better myself, I feel as...
    Adavis3 Adavis3 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    My husband was having a good day at work so he came home early. Our children where at school except one who was sick. I thought she was asleep so me and him started to fool around...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 12

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    These kids are 10 - 13 talking about sex, having babies, and jobs, and I'm thinking "Excuse me? Where are your parents?" 😑
    TheAlbinoGirl TheAlbinoGirl 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 16

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    I have two wonderful boys and two girls. I had my first son when I was 20 my second when I was 22, When I was 24 yrs old I had my first daughter and my last when I was 29. In my...
    mamabutterfly mamabutterfly 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    I must be really bored if I'm going to do this. 1. I am 25. 2. I have two children. 3. My niece was born on my birthday. 4. I love English. 5. I HATE math. 6. I was a cheerleader...
    lp1989 lp1989 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    So me and Trey we have share custody of Samantha, she is my youngest daughter if your curious, but when ever he wants to take her for a few days I just let him, she loves going...
    jennylovestosmile jennylovestosmile 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    10 and a half years without my babies- In January 2003 I fled my abusive marriage after 13 years taking my 3 children(ages 14,10,and 8) from Finland to Ohio. My younger two had...
    IStillGotIt IStillGotIt 41-45, F Jul 7

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    I don't have any children of my own just yet, but when I do, I'll make sure they go nude in public as much as possible! Not only will this ensure they get lots of natural Vitamin D...
    happynnaked happynnaked 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 8

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    I really adore people who adopt children. I was adopted at the early age of 6 months. The couple that adopted me were unable to have children of their own. Since adopting me...
    brunetteatthebeach brunetteatthebeach 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    Well not life in general but just continual traumatic events. The latest being my husband's redundancy. He is late 40's and has never been made redundant before and it is after a...
    savedbygrace0 savedbygrace0 46-50, F Jul 18

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    I believe that a child just as every other human being is entitled to their own opinion that was not set on them by their religious parents or guardians. By telling someone (child...
    trysten778 trysten778 13-15, F 2 Responses