I Am Undecided About Having Children

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 7 People

    I got married with a divorced man with children who had told me before I move to lived with him that he has 2 children. When I come and live with him I found that he has 3 children...
    Jannat11 Jannat11
    22-25, F
    Apr 20
    For those of you who might have been following my journey... on the last day of EP I can share that...we went to 'matching panel' a few weeks ago. We have been successfully matched...
    splashUK2014 splashUK2014
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Apr 20
    Think long and hard. Most that are thinking of having an affair only think of whether they could get away with it and how exciting it could be. Most never dream of just how...
    kpitup kpitup
    56-60, F
    2 Responses Apr 20
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    kpitup kpitup
    56-60, F
    2 Responses Apr 20
    Children say and do such funny things most of the time. They are really just weird! It's so entertaining though, I love them!
    Hannah1100 Hannah1100
    13-15, F
    1 Response Apr 18
    Just for a moment today I thought about getting out, however the thought was not fleeting and I actually stuck with it for a moment longer. I imagine this is due to my lack of...
    mljenkins mljenkins
    41-45, F
    Apr 18
    Just needing some advice or anyone to talk to. I am 22 and my boyfriend is 25. We have been together for 2 years now. Recently my boobs had gotten really sore and I was having bad...
    AllieDal85 AllieDal85
    22-25, F
    Apr 18
    I know what I'm having. I'm having a girl sometime next week!!! It was supposed to be surprise but I really wanted to know now. Besides I want to buy some girl items for the...
    Outofeden Outofeden
    31-35, F
    Apr 17
    having someone with whom you are all open with your imperfections, no need to think what to say or not,is the sign of having someone real in your life, I wish I could have one by...
    lightofasia lightofasia
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Apr 17
    i can't type 100 but i will try some i'm having groomy sunday morning my breakfast helps to start my day but i wanna pass out and need to sleep 10 hours(basically 6 or less) we...
    genjiipiexx genjiipiexx
    31-35, F
    Apr 16
    Last question: I have been told that there are "spanking clubs" where parents meet and actually spank each others children Have you heard or witnessed this?
    micspankinmommy micspankinmommy
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 15
    I really love kids. But I'm struggle with depression and anxiety too. I have some goals in life, and children would make me change those goals. I have really never felt an urgent...
    realcomplicated realcomplicated
    26-30, M
    Apr 15
    Second question, have you ever attended or heard of churches which not only condone spanking, but actually spank children as part of the service?
    micspankinmommy micspankinmommy
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Apr 14
    I will just say there is a special place in Hell for those who hurt children and animals!!
    clarktm1275 clarktm1275
    36-40, M
    Apr 14
    1. I love my name, Angela Kathleen. 2. I'm adopted. 3. I'm saving to buy my first house. 4. My favorite colors are mostly blue/yellow, but any bright, cheery color I love too...
    Sweetgirl4u2 Sweetgirl4u2
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Apr 13
    i really like children, their mindset and the way they see the world is something that i find to be pretty damn fascinating, simply because it's something ONLY children have, i...
    NitorTnT NitorTnT
    26-30, M
    1 Response Apr 13
    Walk into work and the first thing is just drama. Dramadramadrama. I work with men, why is this a thing? I can't breathe I'm having such a panic attack. I feel like I'm gonna be...
    justapittsburghgirl justapittsburghgirl
    26-30, F
    Apr 13
    I've engaged in sexual conversations with coworkers and few friends and it's so arousing. Some of them are married or have a partner which makes it even more hotter. They've...
    Lizek Lizek
    26-30, M
    Apr 13
    Ever since about 3 months ago i have been having mental breakdowns and crying myself to sleep. No one knows anything about and they can't even notice some days i don't eat, say or...
    KittyLoverForever KittyLoverForever
    13-15, F
    Apr 12
    I have a fear of touching sponges, or really anything having to do with them.
    IkIlLeDyOuRsOuLaNdAtEiT IkIlLeDyOuRsOuLaNdAtEiT
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Apr 12
    iam an 18 year old girl... n a guy whom me n my famly knw had fallen in love with me... he is already married and has a son... i had a crush on him b4...bt nw i dnt knw wht to do...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    10 Responses Apr 12
    I love children. I think my face says it already. Haha. During my chorale practice, kids would go to me and talk about stuff like piano games and experiences in life and how are we...
    HeyGD HeyGD
    13-15, F
    Apr 11
    The former head of Britain’s Equalities and Human Rights Commission (EHRC), Trevor Phillips, has admitted he “got almost everything wrong” regarding immigration in a new...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 11
    Christian Greed https://dochub.com/timesoftrouble/kWbzzO/christian-greed What can truly amaze a genuine believer that looks only to the Father is just how true his words on world...
    timesoftrouble timesoftrouble
    56-60, M
    Apr 11
    my bf and I are currently in a polamory relationship. and I'm having some jealousy problems. I don't know if it's because he's known the other girl longer or what. but I really...
    sweettlc sweettlc
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 11
    I'm speaking about Aillin Wuornos(a serial killer) in this video. If you have little time,please watch this video. Thank you. https://youtu.be/58v4gZ0Fd4w She got excution and...
    genjiipiexx genjiipiexx
    31-35, F
    Apr 11
    Yesterday, I wrote my personal points of view and my concern in this Experience Area that I agree in and YET, ALL THE SAME, I was attacked in a VILE and COWARDLY manner by two...
    LozzyFromRome LozzyFromRome
    46-50, M
    1 Response Apr 11
    My bf just said he said hope God will make his exwife change come home. Been 3 yrs since she left. We're in an relationship for 6 months. He said he loves me but yet if she was...
    beforeverme beforeverme
    41-45, F
    1 Response Apr 10
    I am 16 that love to pretend to be an amputee. When my parents leave and I stay at home I'll to stat hoping around with one leg or no legs. I pretending to have one leg right now...
    Pretender123 Pretender123
    16-17, M
    Apr 10
    Today I'm happy for children. Because of them, one woman didn't use her sewing machine so it became mine. Yayyyy!!
    prettyprude prettyprude
    31-35, F
    Apr 9
    My husband and have sex infrequently he always talks about having more sex but neither of us initiate if. I've never been lustfully attracted to him physically more so his...
    arizonabullups15 arizonabullups15
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Apr 9
    We are a married couple of girls 5 and 8 and we are very strict (that doesnt mean spanking) parents. We have lots of rules and strict about them. We love to be friends with other...
    StrictFamily StrictFamily
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Apr 8
    My wife Anna and I were out the other night with a guy that is a friend but also a customer of Anna's. She has known him for about 8 years an I throughout her for around 4 years...
    luckydog321 luckydog321
    70+, M
    3 Responses Apr 8
    my mom has soaped "both ends" and that is the worst, getting a soap suppository, having to hold the rest of the bar in my my mouth while I'm being spanked, then after it is even...
    typhoidmary typhoidmary
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 8
    If you have read my previous blogs, you would know. I have not always got on with my mother. My latest incident occurred;- “I have been having trouble with a Local Authority...
    moyesp moyesp
    51-55
    Apr 8
    I don't care about HIM. I don't give a sh about HIM. He isn't important. The memories are. But now I am done thinking so much about them all the time.
    Lolinondoda Lolinondoda
    18-21, F
    Apr 8
    1. I'm 15 2. I love animals 3. I play the piano 4. I draw portraits 5. I am a smoker 6. I'm recovering from depression, bpd and drug addiction 7. I can't handle people being mean...
    hannahgr hannahgr
    13-15, F
    Apr 7
    How does this look from your view?? short background story, there was an tragic accident here, and not only was the victim a mother to two small children, but she was also a...
    Stargasm Stargasm
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 6
    Yes, I did. Last night. I told my husband everything because he deserve to know and I what I did to him is terrible. I realized from all those years together he made me very happy...
    confusedgirl1994 confusedgirl1994
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 6
    If I didn't have children id probably be an alcoholic, a prostitute, or dead by now. I guess you could say my babies saved my life.
    LovelyBlkQueen LovelyBlkQueen
    26-30, F
    Apr 6
    I'm not even exactly sure there's just one reason. If anyone's around to talk to, or distract me, I would appreciate it. And of course if you're having a bad day I hope I can help...
    mirrorimg23 mirrorimg23
    26-30, M
    Apr 6
    ... I always have really. Kids have just been in the whole life plan since I first started thinking about my future. I always used to get weird looks off my friends at school when...
    stubo20601 stubo20601
    13-15, M
    2 Responses Apr 6
    1. First of all, since so many people mention zodiacs, I'd like to point out that I'm a Physicist and don't believe in that gobblefunk. I was however born the 29th February, which...
    Michalb Michalb
    41-45, M
    Apr 6
    I can't understand why anybody would want to hurt or otherwise abuse a child. Each kid is special and deserve an education. Think of it like this: the future will come. The...
    OrwellsAdvocate2 OrwellsAdvocate2
    18-21, T
    1 Response Apr 4
    Ok ladies, I'm 50. Self employed and considered successful. I have a nice house, toys and outdoorsy stuff that I love doin. I cook , I do most of the housework, all the yard work...
    davidhartz davidhartz
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Apr 4
    I am so upset about EP closing down. A lot of work left hanging and having to start all over again.
    micspankinmommy micspankinmommy
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Apr 4
    I created a brand new website called Choose Your Parents which was created to help you find the ideal relationship to support you as an adult child or parent. Instead of struggling...
    jsw548 jsw548
    51-55, M
    Apr 3
    Suffering in general is heartbreaking, but when children who should have their whole lives ahead and be able to be carefree now. Just awful when they are suffering
    MonarchBritIX MonarchBritIX
    22-25, M
    Apr 3
    1. I'll be 30 this year and unlike everyone I know I'm not falling apart over it. 2. I'm a wife and mother. 3. I'm a total klutz and a little spacey. 4. I was brought up around...
    thisisnotanexit thisisnotanexit
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 3
    anybody online wanna make me burst? i just woke up and have to pee. what tortures my bladder: teasing about water, listening to water, drinking water, no crossing legs...
    controlmybladder controlmybladder
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 3
    I love talking to these type of children! There not any different than us.
    Yourfavnextdoor Yourfavnextdoor
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 2
    Wow! I am on a roller-coaster (emotionally). I have been seeing/dating my boss for over three months, we are both unhappy in our married relationships and we both have three...
    anik1980 anik1980
    36-40, F
    Apr 2
    I have been single for a long time because i gave up on guys but i just miss having a sweet and simple relationship
    Pippa1969 Pippa1969
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Apr 2
    There is a temptation to point out how bold a mother who breastfeeds her child, especially in public, is overall. But why should an act of nurturing that is one of the core...
    WellFrog WellFrog
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Apr 2
    Seriously, what's the point in having a phone anymore when no one text's you? I text people all the time, but never get a respond back, I'm tired of it ... I need people to text!
    carliwilson1212 carliwilson1212
    16-17, F
    Apr 1
    I can't take care of myself, and I can't live by myself. I think Im a burden to others. In my family, I'll be left out because I don't wish to marry anyone. Makes me sad and stuck...
    lonelylifeindia lonelylifeindia
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Apr 1
    Each of us has our own preferred lifestyle in life and you might want to embody your likes, hobbies or favorites into your house. Seeing your heart's desire into the place you will...
    terjbakken terjbakken
    26-30, M
    Apr 1
    Hi there, everybody! Currently I am writing a story and in one scene the main character gets punished by having her haircut... Does anybody have any ideas on what to include? Thank...
    sadisfaction sadisfaction
    22-25, F
    Mar 30
    I was circumcised a birth. My brothers are not. It's all about who your kid is going to identify with. If it's his peers, almost all American guys are cut. If you identify with...
    9minute 9minute
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Mar 30
    Absolutely pointless to hurt an animal unless it's attacking someone, and as for hurting children...
    TValentine TValentine
    56-60, M
    1 Response Mar 30
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