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I Am Undecided About Having Children

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    I can't stop thinking about having an affair with a guy from work..I know it's wrong but I am so "frustrated" because my husband I I have not been intimate in well over a year (he...
    ldsmommy2015 ldsmommy2015 41-45, F 10 Responses 2 days ago

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    I've never wanted them. I always told people I never would. However, I have found myself in love with a man who greatly desires a family. He would like to have his own in 2 years...
    flippinbiscuits flippinbiscuits 18-21, F Mar 16

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    Dearest daughterHopefully, one day you will read this letter. Probably I’ll get pregnant with you in the future. Or I will find you where you’re biological mother left...
    mishale80 mishale80 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I'm only 15, so I shouldn't worry too much, but I've been terrified since I was 13. First off, I don't want my baby to have the same medical nightmare as me, as I believe and many...
    amg374 amg374 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 4

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    My co worker and I want to have an affair..both married with children. It's will be nothing more after..can we really go back to being friends?
    ldsmommy2015 ldsmommy2015 41-45, F 24 Responses 3 days ago

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    I had an abortion at 19. The worst choice I have ever made. I'm technically due in 3 days.. I think about it constantly. Every child I see. Every time I see something about a...
    cbf48 cbf48 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 12

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    I am thinking about it. I have been with my girl 2 years and love her more than anything. I have a couple of men I am emaing and sending pics to... One of them I hooked up with a...
    ashie1980 ashie1980 31-35, T 1 Response Mar 16

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    I've been married 13 years. For the last 8 years sex has been impossible due to my wife's chronic illness. Lately I've thought about an affair. Some days it's all I can think...
    02K30 02K30 41-45, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My mind my heart my gut all want different things!!! I met this man an amazing man and there is some serious tension there sexually. He cares for me he makes me feel beautiful he...
    Fullofsunshine Fullofsunshine 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My husband and I have been on and off for the last four years and he finally asked for a divorce before leaving for nine months. It was hard to deal with at the time, but I managed...
    gradstudent11 gradstudent11 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 6

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    Mmmm so today something happened that was lovely but dangerous and charming but devious, all at the same time. I didn't tell my boyfriend I got off work early and my married...
    Yellowbird1812 Yellowbird1812 26-30, F 20 Responses Mar 7

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    My boyfriend currently has 3 months left in jail. Whilst he's been gone, there has been someone else I have got close to. I didn't go looking for it, or expect it, but there is...
    MsVioletta MsVioletta 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 9

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    I met L again recently. I keep telling myself it’s nothing more than 2 friends getting together for drinks and some bar food. Nothing more physical than a friendly hug hello...
    qcrash qcrash 41-45, M 6 days ago

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    My co worker and I are currently exchanging secret "pictures" and texts. We only do this at work/because home could get us caught! (I am also married but I don't worry about anyone...
    ldsmommy2015 ldsmommy2015 41-45, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    Well the person I want to have the affair with is willing, as am I. Both r ready to take this step. I have thought about it and want to go for it!! Now it's all about trying to...
    ldsmommy2015 ldsmommy2015 41-45, F 9 Responses 1 day ago

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    honestly girls love me and my girlfriends cheating, I have. a lot of close girl friends I could talk into doing a little something with me but I don't. I try not to until were...
    skythuss skythuss 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    Well the the man I am texting and sharing "pictures" with is a great guy! (He is my co-worker) I also know his wife and he knows my husband! I don't feel weird about it, neither...
    ldsmommy2015 ldsmommy2015 41-45, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    Getting caught...if it never goes beyond talking about doing something--and all we do is text and send pictures, would that count as an affair??? Just in case on of us backs off...
    ldsmommy2015 ldsmommy2015 41-45, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've always, always wanted to have sex with a professor. It's a recurring fantasy of mine. I've never actually made a play on it for fear of rejection, but I've definitely wanted...
    solaflower solaflower 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 7

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    I am a married guy... I am 45 , professional , happy . I find myself incredibly attracted to big bbw woman ... I want to have an affair with a bbw ... I'm in Miami
    despino123 despino123 41-45 Mar 16

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    I'm married in a sexless marriage, very smart with discreet phone apps and just out of a year long affair with a woman that wanted to get married & have kids with me, but I'm...
    LoveExplorer78 LoveExplorer78 36-40, M 3 Responses Mar 23

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    Im about to talk it out.. i need to dump all of this off my shoulders.. im sorry if its rambling at long.. I don't actually expect anyone to read.. but i need a place to put these...
    alienmom82 alienmom82 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    When it comes to touching pregnant bellies, it makes me uncomfortable. Hell, it makes me uncomfortable when my stomach is touched. Not only because I'm ticklish, but I just don't...
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 15

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    My boyfriend and I started dating 8 months ago. We were attracted to each other, and until a few days ago, we are still on our "honeymoon" phase--touchy and clingy (not in a...
    khsaga22 khsaga22 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    I hate my anxiety, for example, everyday, I sit in school everyday I'm stressing over stupid petty things, like each class I worry over having to work w people, because all my...
    SweetcakesJr SweetcakesJr 13-15, F Mar 17

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    I've been more in control of my anxiety lately. But I can feel myself going down hill again. I have missed 2 periods and I'm not pregnant so I'm worried about having ovarian...
    tvdlover1865 tvdlover1865 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    which is safer flirting your house or public places? Its not save to bring someone home with you don't know. However how could you truly know someone, when we don't know...
    awsome2 awsome2 18-21, T 1 Response Mar 4

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    Is there anyone here that you just can't stand? There's someone that irritates the crap out of me. She talks about having respect for someone's marriage then clearly shows nothing...
    holehearted79 holehearted79 31-35, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have been filling out surveys that are fun but that also are quite accurate of me as a person in the answer results of my life. Here are some of them that are true of me. "You...
    blankcheck4urhart blankcheck4urhart 36-40, F 8 hrs ago

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    I have studied sex/pregnancy for a long time now. Some day i want to open a center that can help families/moms dealing with the hardships of being homeless with kids, being...
    tig1991 tig1991 22-25, F 5 hrs ago

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    1. I speak three languages, Lithuanian, Russian and English 2. I would move back to Lithuania in a heartbeat from the US 3. I am a traditionalist that believes the man should...
    Alexz72 Alexz72 22-25, F Mar 24

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    So I have trouble with loading weight but I really do try to find ways to eat healthier. Working out all more. Trying to get a better body for summer and I think I coming alone...
    DavidHamilton1 DavidHamilton1 16-17, M 1 hr ago

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    Here I sit nearly 10 years post divorce and no closer to my dear children that I was when my Ex's smear campaign began. I wonder if they will ever be back in my life and what I...
    Dad9407 Dad9407 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 1

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    Hi I don't really no we're to start. I have been with my husband since I was 17 now 27, got 3 beautiful children a few yeArs ago we started having problems, I met a guy and one...
    claire8787 claire8787 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    torn between my sons and my love he does so much for us yet they dont recognize this I dont think either party really cares that this is killing me inside we have so many other...
    missy5414 missy5414 36-40, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Ok. So I have been having some pretty weird dreams. I don't remember the first dream because there have been a few but it's with this guy named Ben, I have no idea who he is in...
    Timbre4 Timbre4 16-17 1 Response 4 days ago

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    It's not that I don't enjoy children, especially having been exposed to my best friend's children including his daughter and then being exposed to my cousin's two daughters whom I...
    halfblind79 halfblind79 31-35, M Mar 3

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    Only My Youngest- After several years I just gave up. My youngest child was born in Summer 1994 at Camp Hunphreys in Anjeong-Ri/Pyeongtaek,South Korea. Her daddy was a local man...
    FineAsWine45 FineAsWine45 41-45, F Mar 18

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    The very fact that I have to interact with him from now on makes me feel sick. We have three children suffering from our misery. We live together and tell each other how much we...
    fulltimehatred fulltimehatred 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    I saw this group and then saw another one entitled: 'I Married and Want to Have An Affair'.If a marriage isn't working, then get out no matter how inconvenient it might be - i.e...
    ladyPlum ladyPlum 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    We're in the middle of a (not even remotely heated) debate about the cost of raising children with and without stay-at-home moms - neither of us have kids, so it's not exactly a...
    girlunannounced girlunannounced 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 21