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I Am Undecided About Having Children

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    Nathaniel Adriel Sameron Michael Gabriel Nevaeh Angelita Spirit Nila Vivian Eve Those are my options for my first 2 children . The second names are negotiable.
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 51 mins ago

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    When I was younger, I used to volunteer for such programmes, We went to many children homes. That's actually how I met my son. Most children were either from broken homes, or...
    DonniePinscher DonniePinscher 26-30, M 18 hrs ago

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    You'd have thought that getting clean and sober would mean eternal happiness, no worries, no issues, and no insecurities, but that's not the case, with me anyway. Having gone from...
    aerosnz aerosnz 56-60, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    But I can't stand the way they act nowadays. Smoking, drinking, having sex before they are ready smh. I would love to be there for all of them and show them how to live a better...
    theguywiththeredhair theguywiththeredhair 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I've ranted a lot about the reasons I don't like children enough, so I'll just give a condensed version. They're loud. Their high-pitched voices hurt my ears. They take up all the...
    Stratosara Stratosara 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    The child who is more likely not to accept that their parents questioning them is important, or irrelevant, is a neglected child, and has learnt the true significance in being...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I'm a teenager going into a young adult and with all these mood swings I'm having I feel I should be spanked for discipline because I don't want to be going in the wrong direction...
    flopsycat12345 flopsycat12345 18-21, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    Indeed I do. Frequently. (And in the past have done rather more than think..) The years are passing. Life is passing. A little surreptitious joy? Too much to ask for? Maybe...
    Newnameuk Newnameuk 46-50, M 5 days ago

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    Because of the way our marriage have turned out I have been thinking about other women more and more... Last time we where intimate with each other was early 2013 (this I wrote in...
    SteinHansson SteinHansson 46-50, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    there has got to be some sexy taken woman out there for me.
    tallmale1011 tallmale1011 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    What's not to want on having an affair?When you have a boyfriend, you can request many things...kisses there, hugs here...yeah love is on the air.But what's more in store is during...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 20 Responses 6 days ago

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    DID YOU SEE THE NEWS ABOUT THAT BASTARD?!?!?!? The babygirl's stepfather?!?!? BASTARD!!! The poor 3 year-old was thrown into the pool by her stepfather or soon to be stepfather...
    EarlPhantomhive EarlPhantomhive 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    There, I said it. I am not having a baby! Yes, my hips look like they could plop one out in a heart beat. Yes, my large breast probably could feed 10 of them a peice,a day. Yes...
    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    1. I'm a parent to 3 beautiful children 2 boys and a little girl 2. I'm married to a lawyer 3. I'm a recovering anorexic 4. I'm also recovering from self harm 5. I'm a...
    leahlovesyou leahlovesyou 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    2001 and 2003, we lost our children. Newly born, and stillborn. It was fundamentally the downfall of my wife, as shed secretly started drinking after both of our children had died...
    NottsProfGent NottsProfGent 46-50, M 6 Responses a week ago

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    Children annoy me so badly that my doctor has prescribed me KlonPin to take when I have to go in public places where annoying children may be. I am soley on that medication for...
    Itzindeyez Itzindeyez 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 24

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    These children are so bad these days BECAUSE of that emotional discipline crap. Stop being a fool and give em some good old fashion physical discipline, and maybe...just maybe the...
    Beerus Beerus 22-25, M 10 Responses Aug 23

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    I really do not understand what all the fuss is about nappies...they are underwear, no different from briefs, boxers, and boxer-briefs...They all protect the same places, yet they...
    Beerus Beerus 22-25, M Aug 23

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    This is long, sorry! I am 16, and am having trouble with a break up. This girl and I did everything together. We were never really apart for our relationship. During...
    brentlz brentlz 16-17, M Aug 22

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    Thing is, I used to REALLY hate them...until I had my own, then I loved THEM, but no one else's. One day a couple of my 10 year-old son's friends were at our home. One of them was...
    DaddyBear214 DaddyBear214 56-60, M Aug 22

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    My stepson ' s mother walked out on my husband and him on Mother's Day when he was 6 years old. It turned out she'd been having multiple affairs. She moved 1000 miles away and did...
    fnoell72 fnoell72 41-45, F Aug 22

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    Or rather, how people define it these days. I used to have a really clear understanding of what cheating romantically meant: a husband (or wife, I suppose) who went and found a...
    faithbee faithbee 41-45, F 8 Responses Aug 22

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    I divorced in Feb 2014 and although I started dating very quickly, I had already checked out of my marriage approximately 1-2 years prior, so I felt I was ok to date. I met an...
    14nolookingback 14nolookingback 36-40, F Aug 21

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    Okay... Im going to let it all out... Hope yall care enough to comment.. Sorry if this is all over the place.. Im just thinking so much about my life right now.. I met this...
    SkinnyIsPretty0 SkinnyIsPretty0 18-21, F Aug 20

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    I'm not exactly sure what to do about life. I have been struggling with things ever since I got left by my ex. Now, I'm not still broken hearted about her (I don't think)... in...
    milehighHeartbreak milehighHeartbreak 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    It started about four years ago. I've been married over 10 years, some history in my other stories, but my wife withdrew physical affection and later any sort of intimacy as a...
    jp20156 jp20156 41-45, M 8 Responses Aug 19

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    Having a teenage daughter myself when I come online I just feel so troubled within seing all these teenagers openly discussing their sexual desires. Flirting and carrying on with...
    AngelicHalo AngelicHalo 36-40, F Aug 19

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    I've always fantasized about spankings, preferably by a boy my age. Something about having your bare booty getting slapped while you're helpless is appealing to me.
    Wantsomethingtostoptheboredom Wantsomethingtostoptheboredom 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 19

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    i was watching the news with my mom and i heard children were dumped in the dump site.. i mean who does that? a woman is supposed to looked at a child as a gift and not a burden...
    julianne1999 julianne1999 16-17, F Aug 18

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    My teacher at school, Mrs Hanscombe, was always very enthusiastic about any project, sometimes much more than the class. But she loved reading children's stories to us and had a...
    Gavriella Gavriella 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    1. I'm 13 years old. 2. My name is Ada. 3. My full first name is Adrianna, but I hate it. 4. I live in Poland. 5. I'm a scout (most scouting organizations in Poland are co-ed). 6...
    AdaButterfly AdaButterfly 13-15, F Aug 17

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    This is so completely intimate for me. There is something so soothing about having the person you love brush or play with your hair.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 16

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    When I constrained the actual programmers about this point, Ramjagsingh told me his or her investigation found out that EASHL followers cared a smaller amount concerning improving...
    gamesexpe gamesexpe 18-21, F Aug 16

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    I am not married. My sister who is 2 years younger than I just got engaged to the man she's been dating for 2 1/2 years. My longest relationship was 3 1/2 but that was a long time...
    MNI1982 MNI1982 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 15

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    I have seen it time and time again. People with their kids out in public yelling at them and calling them stupid. It's like they are very irritated by having kids because of all...
    allisonhashope allisonhashope 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 15

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    I don't know if I want a full-blown affair. I think I would be happy to just meet with an open minded lady for conversation and a cuddle.
    melbonly melbonly 51-55, M 2 Responses Aug 15

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    I know that 16 is a bit too young to be thinking about having children, but I do. When I walk pass the park and see mothers holding their beautiful children and the way they smile...
    maeve106 maeve106 13-15, F Aug 14

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    Another letter reprinted from my magazine: When I was 14, I was being raised by my mother, an aunt and older sister. My father had long ago abandoned the family. Both adult women...
    TeachingRespect TeachingRespect 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    My mother and father have had issues with their marriage since I was a toddler. They should have left each other then. Swept all that young love under the carpet and acknowledge...
    unforeseenevents unforeseenevents 22-25, F Aug 14

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    My son (25) and daughter (23) have estranged me now for almost 3 years. I continue to cry, grieve and feel lots of anger and shame about their behaviour. We had fun as Mom with my...
    Chandraflewelling Chandraflewelling 51-55, F Aug 12

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