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I Am Undecided About Having Children

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    Im terrified of having children because I am afraid of being pegged down and stuck in a marriage I may not want anymore in the future, for whatever reason. Im also not up to the...
    velvetaurora velvetaurora 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I've thought way to much about having an affair & now the shoe is on the other foot, a guy I could call my husband now messing around with another girl.... Or at least I think he...
    briyonnamobley briyonnamobley 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    I'm wrapping up my freshman year at RIT, and I still am searching for a major. I am currently leaning towards journalism and film studies. At first, I wanted to do film...
    CookieMischief CookieMischief 18-21, F Mar 28

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    i am so terrified to have kids. my husband really wants us to make kids now. and my mom and his mom are pressing on me. i'm 30 years old. i am supposed to want children like any...
    pro0ject pro0ject 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    I really can't wait to have children. But I know I am not ready yet and also want to be happily married before. I want to give them a great childhood and teach them so many things...
    TheDarkOak TheDarkOak 18-21, M Mar 30

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    I dont know why i guess i was embarressed here i was 18 all my friends are having sex, talking about their first times. So when it came my turn i just made it up a story about me...
    smores19 smores19 18-21, F Mar 24

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    So this is where it sucks.....I've been seeing my other guy for over nine months now. I am very much in love with him. I know your not suppose to do that in an affair but I am...
    jencpa jencpa 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 2

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    I never had a relationship but I have deep feelings for this guy since high school. I know he has a longtime girlfriend. I had feelings for him (over 10 years) before he got with...
    peacefullover peacefullover 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    I just found out I'm pregnant. I'm 25, no kids, finishing my first year back at college, living at my grandparents house. I work part time and my grandparents help me out a ton...
    SoTorn18 SoTorn18 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    I want kids but I'm scared I'm going to give birth to a child with like a disability or that has downsyndrom or something like that . That's why I want to adopt .
    lunaluna13 lunaluna13 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I've had one night stands not even knowing their name or where they're from, but I want a full on affair with the same person. Someone in the same situation. Knowing if I pass them...
    andy8669 andy8669 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    Why an affair can be a necessary evil - from the point of view of a man. (see story in comment area below due to content restriction)
    FiremanforYou FiremanforYou 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 24

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    I always wonder where I could meet attractive people - when I'm single. I'm successful, fit, attractive. It seems like there aren't any men that are a good match for me out there?
    wrightlover wrightlover 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    I don't trust girls anymore. This site gave me so much new insight on you guys. But I guess this is how humans work so it's only natural. Wanting someone to yourself is greedy...
    liquescent liquescent 18-21 3 Responses Mar 27

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    I am going through a separation, divorce is going to take a while, and I have a long term relationship but it is long distance. I am commited to the relationship, and have no...
    Hotcocoa15 Hotcocoa15 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    Glad to find this group. I hate children , I can not see, hear or anything that has to do with children. I'm sick of people asking me to have children. Not because I'm married mean...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Though I'm not exactly too fond of the idea of marriage, I have grown to the idea of having children. Thankfully, I like in the 21st century, which means that there are options for...
    montezia93 montezia93 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    Since I was young, I have never wanted to have children. I feel like females are expected to follow the footsteps; grow up, go to university, get married, have children and then...
    MellifluousMilkshake MellifluousMilkshake 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 8

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    Brief background: 22 years old, engaged (been together 5 years and getting married this summer), I have a degree in Secondary Education, been working consistently ($250/day) since...
    Discontented01 Discontented01 22-25, F Apr 7

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    When is enough, enough? I honestly don't know what to do. My husband is secretive and I feel like he is extremely deceitful. This ***** with my head in the worst way possible...
    lj1127 lj1127 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    The thoughts about trying to commit suicide are just more real yet less intense. I mean I cry about it and it scares me but it seems more like a job to be done. There are moments...
    searchingfar searchingfar 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    Realization on the identical state of life and death 252) 20th, August, 1977, Saturday. Early morning dream: My father (Amrita by name) had expired . But I...
    Dipakda Dipakda 70+, M 1 hr ago

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    I signed up for a pottery class and was really looking forward to it. Today was the first day of class. I am undecided whether I want to continue the class or not. I think I will...
    JoannaBe JoannaBe 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Not people that are actually poor of course. The ones that doesn't have any place to stay or find it difficult just to get a meal a day. Or the ones that are struggling hard on a...
    tooloaded tooloaded 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    I used to want to have a baby when I was younger (well,in the future,of course),but realized some of my reasons for wanting one weren't so good.I've done a lot of changing and now...
    SparklyRain SparklyRain 18-21, F Mar 27

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    hey when i was 15 i got told i couldn't have children my boyfriend at the time was so supportive so understanding and in doing so it put me off the physical side of a relationship...
    dreams15 dreams15 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    1. You were purposefully made with the divine Love and Intention of God. Whether or not you believe is irrelevant, you are Loved. 2. Mistakes are intentional and necessary to...
    OnlyLoveKeepsTrying OnlyLoveKeepsTrying 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    I should feel worse than I do right now. I spent the shower thinking about running. Getting an abortion and just running from him. I want to be a mom, and I want to be with him...
    amber1y amber1y 22-25, F Apr 1

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    It's horrible seeing children not acting like ... Well, children. I see 10 year olds in mini skirts and heels, with iPhones, joining Facebook and having 'boyfriends' and it breaks...
    xMina97x xMina97x 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    I read here in this experience about people who don't want to have children because being a parent isn't for them or it's just how they feel about the matter, which is fine...
    charlie4edwards charlie4edwards 16-17, F Apr 9

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    Childhood is the time from birth to the age of 16. According to the changes in the physiological characteristics and psychological characteristics, childhood can be divided into...
    smastar smastar 22-25, M Apr 10

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    My husband has been battling depression for our entire 10-year relationship. It's become a third member of our marriage; a wedge pushing us apart. And I don't know what to do. I...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 24

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    My own childhood included a drug addict for a father who was later sent to prison, a controlling racist grandmother, time in orphanage, and pure misery most days. I refuse to be...
    2ndGenPuppet 2ndGenPuppet 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 20

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    1. I have 2 children 2. I'm married 3. I have 3 dog 4. One of my dogs has 3 legs 5. I put on a fake smile a lot if times lately 6. I had my daughter when I was 14 7. I had my son...
    brokenbecauseofhim brokenbecauseofhim 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    1. I was born on September 5th, 1954. 2. I am female. 3. I have one child, a daughter who was born June 15, 1985. 4. I watch FOX News. 5. I live with my parents: Mom was born...
    azny azny 56-60, F Apr 5

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    My names Christy I'm 19 I'm engaged I'm NOT interested in talking to pervs on here! I'm going to school to be a dental hygienist. I was born and raised in a small town. I'm...
    Christydawnx3 Christydawnx3 18-21, F Mar 27

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    I am rapidly approaching "that age" where I should be feeling the need to have children. I am in a stable and supportive relationship with someone who adores the idea of a family...
    HappyOnTheInside HappyOnTheInside 22-25, F Apr 3

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    Noah6639vvq8 Noah6639vvq8 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 8

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    This is something I think about every now and then. I have PCOS which doesn't make it impossible to have children but in some women it can cause infertility. So I have adjusted to...
    hayleyRebeccaE hayleyRebeccaE 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My son is 28. I raised him on my own as a single mom, I always worked very hard to give him a good life, we had a house, he had a good education, food, clothes and we even had...
    Katrinalccy Katrinalccy 51-55, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    The idiots I know talk about people all the time, but only when they're in another room. So I wonder what they say about ME when I'm not around. Usually I wouldn't care, but I...
    LordSphinx LordSphinx 13-15 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I am intending to travel to another country to start a new life. I will be looked after and protected and I know it is what is best for me. I will be in a poly family and will have...
    luvvinit luvvinit 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 27

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    Our 34 year old daughter always said I was her best friend until 5 years ago when she started complaining that we treated her two older brothers better than we treated her. There...
    3Z7c4 3Z7c4 61-65, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    After having a terrible weekend, I went back to work today. One of the kids hugged me and said I was the best. His innocent love made me feel so much better. If the guy who broke...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    About a month ago I had to give my daughter Milly a spanking. She is 7. Lilly and Milly were playing in the playroom. I went in and asked them to come and help me tidy their...
    KirstyAJohnson KirstyAJohnson 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    For a long time now it seems that I cannot have children. I try to not think about it much and just avoid the topic. I even stay away from family movies or anything to do with...
    polo03 polo03 31-35, F Apr 5

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    Michael’s Dream Foundation is a grass-roots initiative started by people from all over the world who want to make a real difference in the lives of children by helping them...
    MichaelsDream MichaelsDream 31-35, F 4 days ago

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