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    Misunderstood - Hurt and Unhappy.  This is my 4th attempt at this thing we call marriage and instead of things getting better it seems to get worst.  He says all I do is nag...
    auveal7 auveal7 46-50 3 Responses Mar 6, 2011

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    In Love And Confused...need Help - I am 27 years old and have been with my husband for almost 10 years.  We met in highschool and got married a little over a year ago. ...
    michaela4m michaela4m 26-30 1 Response Aug 16, 2010

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    Stuggling Marriage - I have been married almost 6 years together 9 but struggling to keep it together for over 4 years now and 2 kids later. I still love my husband but its been...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 26, 2013

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    Savitri And Satyavan : An Indian Love Story - There was a king called Ashvapati. The king had a daughter, who was so good and beautiful that she was called Sâvitri, which is the...
    Abhih123 Abhih123 22-25, M Sep 19, 2013

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    Lonely Marriage - I'm so lonely in my marriage. My husband would rather look at his computer then talk to me. About two years ago, it looked like we had some hope but I'm not sure...
    Coll78 Coll78 31-35, F 6 Responses Oct 8, 2009

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    Savitri And Satyavan : An Indian Love Story - There was a king called Ashvapati. The king had a daughter, who was so good and beautiful that she was called Sâvitri, which is the...
    Abhih123 Abhih123 22-25, M Sep 19, 2013

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    Depressed - I am about to celebrate my 5th year wedding anniversary and I am miserable. I have a long history of depression and it is part of the reason I am writing this today...
    Ginasmithgina Ginasmithgina 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 8, 2012

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    Where To Start....What To Do - I have been married 26 years but together for 29. But the last 15 or so have been miserable. Why I stayed I have no idea! I have done some reading on...
    Cabanadoll Cabanadoll 46-50, F 1 Response Jun 13, 2013

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    Marriage Depression - My husband and I have been married for 11 years . Through our marriage I have dealt with his stupidity . Moving his mom in our house without asking and then...
    1 Response Jan 21, 2013

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    Burned Out - My wife Married 11 years) used to be fun, and we had a lot of good times together.  She got a promotion a 4 years ago and now spends all her time with her job...
    Jamesd1030 Jamesd1030 36-40 4 Responses Oct 22, 2010

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    Marriage Sucks! - I think part of my problem is that I just really don't like being married. I have been married for almost three years now. I've questioned my decision...
    ananomoose ananomoose 26-30 4 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    Struggleing - Not sure where to start, we have neen married for 19 years. After the honeymoon phase was over the affection started to just stop. It has been a very difficult...
    leftyferg leftyferg 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 25, 2013

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    Very Depressed With My Marriage!!! - My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now but have been together for 3 1/2. For the last couple weeks I have been feeling like...
    slove0828 slove0828 22-25, F Aug 10, 2012

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    Terrified And Depressed - It's getting harder and harder for me to eat, sleep, or work. My wife and I keep going to counseling, but I don't feel like she's trying, she doesn't...
    Rb5397 Rb5397 46-50, M Aug 1, 2013

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    Praying For A Better Life - I have been with my husband for almost 8 years now and married for 5 years we have 4 children. 1 child is from a previous relationship. I'm madly in...
    rubylips1014 rubylips1014 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 2, 2011

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    My Marriage Life.. - Hello everyone.. Let me introduce as "depressed wife" rather than a happy life.Like all other girls, i too had many dreams.. A dream college. A dream job.. A...
    thanmaya thanmaya 22-25 3 Responses Jan 20, 2011

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    So Confused.. - My husband and I have only been married for about 5 months. Together 4 years with two beautiful daughters. He is honestly the only man I ever loved. He helped...
    lizgill lizgill 18-21, F 2 Responses May 12, 2013

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    Very - I have been married almost 9 years.....together almost 11.  I feel my wife doesnt love me, and will honestly admit that at this point I cant say I love her
    TruePal TruePal 31-35, M 6 Responses Aug 10, 2008

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    Hope For Success - I was married for 13 yrs the first time, then briefly a 2nd and 3rd time...this is my 4th marriage. I've been married this time around so far for 1 and 1/2 yrs...
    help40 help40 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 22, 2013

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    Not Sure What To Do Anymore - My husband and I have been married 5 months together 7 years. We have a beautiful son together. On my birthday this past may I got a DUI. First time...
    Evelyn90 Evelyn90 22-25, F Sep 18, 2013

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    Confused - I have been married for 13 1/2 yrs, together 14 1/2. Me and my husband just stopped communicating. I cannot talk to him anymore. I cannot get over his affair with my...
    findingmyself73 findingmyself73 31-35, F 11 Responses Jul 15, 2008

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    Casting: Divorcing Couples - Are you ready to put your divorce behind you and start a fresh life? Do you and your soon to be ex, need help dividing up your significant assets...
    tinaeisnernews tinaeisnernews 22-25, F May 9, 2013

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    Depressed - I am about to celebrate my 5th year wedding anniversary and I am miserable. I have a long history of depression and it is part of the reason I am writing this today...
    Ginasmithgina Ginasmithgina 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    So Unsure - I feel so unsure about my marriage, my wife and I have only been married a year and three months we've been together for three years. We rarely ever have sex anymore...
    gazrael gazrael 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 3, 2013

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    Baby Steps On My Exit Plan Feel Good! - When I joined this group, I was seeking understanding of my SM and wondering why I was so unhappy married to such a 'nice guy'.  This has...
    louiseshaw louiseshaw 51-55, F 5 Responses Sep 8, 2011

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    Married And Miserable - My husband and I have been married for 1yr and 5 months, but we've been together a total of 2yrs and 5mos. Lately our marriage has been going downhill. I...
    cutestuff2011 cutestuff2011 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 19, 2011

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    I'm Devastated - I've only been married for a few months. I was so happy, because my husband and I were so close-- we had such a good connection, and each of us thought we'd found...
    downsprout downsprout 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2012

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    from the first day of my marriage I feel that there is no chemistry between me and my wife, now we are two years marriage and one baby, thinking of divorce but worried about the...
    mohameddxb mohameddxb 26-30, M 4 Responses Mar 18

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    We are not compatible at all!!! 17 yrs of marriage n 3 lovely kids
    cluelessboy cluelessboy 41-45, M 5 Responses Mar 22

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    Is marriage about the acceptance of one's character and personality or a requirement for change? I am not getting along with my partner because he finds me too 'strong'. Is it that...
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    I have only been married 3 months and I'm confused why things have changed. My husband has completely turned into someone else. He used to want to spend every minute with me and...
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    lonelylady2985 lonelylady2985 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 1

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    I just wanted to say that for everyone who is struggling with this question and situation to read "Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay" by Mira Kirshenbaum. It is a positive book...
    adelaider adelaider 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 2

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    What does one do when you don't have any intimate feelings with your husband or wife? I'm struggling here. Trying to figure it out how I am going to deal with this! Anyone out...
    forevermio13 forevermio13 22-25, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    californiablue californiablue 61-65, M 3 days ago

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    My husband and I are in our 60's and just married 7 months ago. We had sex exactly 3 times the first two weeks we were married and now NOTHING. He even nudges me away if I try to...
    Blondeartist444 Blondeartist444 61-65, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    sava1993 sava1993 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I'm not sure what's worst. Me feeling **** and depressed with bad thoughts. Or. My dad feeling this way
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    Eight years ago, I met my husband. I already had two children from a previous marriage and we had one more together. He has three children from a previous marriage. Up until...
    mmcpherson mmcpherson 26-30, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Part 2: the warning signs The changes really started to happen in November. We had a vacation planned. On the vacation we did it 2 times, would have only been once but I yapped at...
    unexpectedlove15 unexpectedlove15 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 30

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    the reasons why i dont want to do anything sexual before marriage : reason number 1 : what if i had sex with my girl friend before marriage , and after few days i met with...
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