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I Am Unhappy In a Relationship

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    Alone!

    I am in a relationship with someone who loves himself more than he loves me. He does love me don't get me wrong but I am not the most important thing in the world to him. 7 months ago we had a baby boy which adds to the stress. I just find that he wants to party...
    Crystal7 Crystal7 26-30 4 Responses Jul 5, 2009

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    Unhappy and Don't Know How to Leave

    Hello,I've been in a steady relationship with a guy for almost four years.Sometimes we get along really good. Other time we are at each .As long as everything is going his way everything is wonderful, but he doesn,t want me to anything away from him.He doesn't want me to have any...
    wacky wacky 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 20, 2007

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    If You’ll Just Love Me Too

    What can I do to win your heart? What is it about me that sets me apart? How can I show you the way I really feel? How can I prove to you that my love is real? Every time I reach out to touch you, you take a step in the opposite direction. I can never understand the way you feel...
    adamw adamw 36-40, M Oct 29, 2012

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    I Found the Only Person Who Doesn't Want a Relationship!

    Most people in this world WANT to find someone to love and be loved by. Most people want to find that special person to share their life with. Most people want to live a life with their best friend, lover & partner! I found the one person in life who doesn't seem to care...
    9Dragonz 9Dragonz 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 12, 2008

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    When Will I Be Happy Again?

    I am in love with a man that do not love me the same way that I love him. Sometimeshe make me feel so good but other times he treat me like a child. I am pregnant with his child and he does not want me to work. He moves his cousin that I do not even know in our home and tells me...
    deered deered 26-30 1 Response Oct 7, 2010

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    11-10-10

    11-10-10 *This story was back in November as well, with the guy I dated for a couple months... worst decision ever. “We must be willing to get rid of the life we’ve planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us. The old skin has to be shed before the new one can...
    Elysiaaa Elysiaaa 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2011

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    After 7 years of being in a relationship and living together for the past year, my boyfriend and I ended our relationship and cut all contact. About a month ago there was an...
    beachbum18 beachbum18 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    In an effort to make a long story short, I will sum up by saying that I have been married to my husband for 11 yrs and we started dating in high school 15 yrs ago. We had our first...
    Jme0925 Jme0925 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 21

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    Background: I am married, we just celebrated our two-year wedding anniversary last week (have been together for almost 7 years though, and living together almost all of that time...
    peachy127 peachy127 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    Once upon a time I started dating my boyfriend because I heard he was romantic and sweet to his previous girlfriend. I saw the opportunity to be in a wonderful relationship like...
    LucyPimp LucyPimp 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    Ive had a turbulent relationship with a boy for about a year. He was always there with when we were together back in sydney. Even when i was suicidal and unstable. He was there...
    fatin27 fatin27 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm alone now, but compared to the loneliness of my last relationship of 13 years it's like Christmas every day. I felt more lonely in that relationship than I ever have done. Now...
    nowthisisME nowthisisME 41-45, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    USA/Ghana-- 7 years ago I went to Ghana with a Ghanaian-American guy I was dating at the time (let's call him Yaw). Since Yaw's main purpose in going to Ghana was to visit family...
    Eureka54 Eureka54 26-30, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    USA/Ghana-- 7 years ago I went to Ghana with a Ghanaian-American guy I was dating at the time (let's call him Yaw). Since Yaw's main purpose in going to Ghana was to visit family...
    Eureka54 Eureka54 26-30, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Im not sure if its true. I was hurt all my life by several people. They werent unhappy, not all of them. The biggest emotional pain i had as my ex- boss female started to be rude...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    My MIL is a tetraplegic. She was in a car accident and she damaged her c-6 and c-7 vertebrae. She is now wheel chair bound. I know starting a story about how I am unhappy living...
    Natesbabydoll Natesbabydoll 26-30, F Jul 3

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    Im fed up of happy people who have it good in life. I search for unhappy people like me. Where are you? Did u became an emotional masochist like me cos life treated u poorly? Then...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I've been married and it was the unhappiest I've ever been in my entire life. I stupidly thought two things, 1) he would change and 2) it was better than being on my own but when I...
    elegantstorms elegantstorms 31-35, F Jul 1

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    Been married for21 years, three great kids who I love dearly. My wife was my best friend, my fascination, my desire. 6 years ago she lost her spark. The fires of passion have died...
    RoughRed RoughRed 46-50, M 3 Responses Jul 3

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    So tired of being invisible, feeling worthless and used. So tired of everyone thinking I'm the crazy one...always sad.. always down. No one asks why. No one cares. I have to...
    somegirl117 somegirl117 18-21 2 Responses Jul 4

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    I have been married for over seven years. We got married young. Unfortunately we were both ill equipped to have a successful relationship. Since the beginning we have both wanted a...
    EnduringwhatIcan EnduringwhatIcan 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    Brilliance or evil ? That is the question Recently married friend confronted husband on issue if he was having affair ? Of course not all in your mind , your crazy Ect Ect...
    fivefoottall fivefoottall 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I am unhappy with my life.. 2 years ago i met someone on the internet and i've loved him and can't stop.. Helpp ..
    greekgod10 greekgod10 18-21, M Jul 15

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    The depression hits me outa nowhere. Idk what to do. I can't be as happy as I used to be. Sometimes I think I have to do things that make other people unhappy just to make me happy...
    Jakebrum Jakebrum 16-17, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I don't really know why i am Posting - I guess I need some way to get my feelings out to someone who won't dismiss them and tell me how I am wrong- overreacting - premenstral...
    Wastedtime11 Wastedtime11 36-40, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    If you both trust each other then I think they can easily work! I think I'd be really good at a long distance relationship!
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F 9 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I've never been in a relationship but I feel like I'd be the best girlfriend he's ever had!
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Because people can say wherever they want, without even feeling it when they write it out to you. Oh yes it is indeed comforting and flattering to have someone talk to you in that...
    lovetilyouhate lovetilyouhate 22-25, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I'm 13 about to be 14, and I'm always unhappy and depressed. I don't really understand why because I dont have that bad of a life. I mean my familys not exactly the Bradys but I...
    emmy63637 emmy63637 13-15, F Jul 6

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    if you are unhappy in your marriage and are looking for some fun with a young girl message me xxx
    sophh99 sophh99 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 8

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    My husband has become extremely self absorbed over time. He's always been a little selfish and it seems to ebb and flow, but the last few months it's become exponential. Everything...
    lovebeingmama lovebeingmama 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    That moments when you can't find employment and can't live of credit because cards are max and your husbands just sits back and watch! Domestic house keeping the number one...
    peoplesHere peoplesHere 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    I think I belong to this group with my story instead of ILISM, or both.. Something just doesn’t feel right on the inside of me. I have this heart that can love and be loved, but...
    moonstruck77 moonstruck77 46-50, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Saw this on another page, and it really is worth reading if you are in a bad relationship and know it. July 10. Ending Relationships. It takes courage and honesty to end a...
    toolatetoapologise toolatetoapologise 51-55, F Jul 10

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    I think we all have an idealist idea about "the perfect relationships". I've had several long term relationships in the past, some long distant relationships. I find trust and...
    jetetter jetetter 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 9

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    Find 2 people who are in a stable, happy relationship which is like the one you aspire to be in. Look at why they are in a relationship. They are not in a relationship because...
    sancarn sancarn 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    When i was in highschool i was basically single all four years. i didn't mind , at all actually. Although i couldn't help to notice my friend's relationships. I like to watch...
    lovelyytroubledsoul lovelyytroubledsoul 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I usually don't think about topics like relationships, intimacy, etc etc. But a few weeks ago I came to the conclusion that a polygamic relationship could work out fine for both...
    OnlyDeadHumansAreGoodHumans OnlyDeadHumansAreGoodHumans 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I met (let's call him T) T two years ago. In April of this year, I had the opportunity to go visit him in Japan and really hit it off with him. We ended up liking each other and...
    dreamsheep dreamsheep 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    So I finally move and by this time I move & I figure I had a grasp on relationships/love so I told my self I wasn't going to get into relationships till the time was right, I had...
    Jitsallgood Jitsallgood 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 4

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    Long Distance Relationship aren’t always ideal. In fact, they’re really tough. You spend countless of hours just talking through a phone or through a screen. You can’t see...
    AJAY2404 AJAY2404 31-35, M 8 Responses Jul 8

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    They say two halves make a whole, but what if those two halves don't fit? Like half a banana doesn't fit with half an apple. This goes for relationships. Two half people can never...
    JimD911 JimD911 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 17

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    I am pretty sure I am in a toxic relationship. On top of some pretty nasty fights in which he confirmed every insecurity I have, he is the king of mixed messages--saying he wants...
    glitterordeath glitterordeath 26-30, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    In my mind, a long distance relationship will work better.. In a normal face-to-face relationship you already have everything you want, and sometimes this can cause people to lose...
    LucyColemanxo LucyColemanxo 13-15, F Jul 4

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