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I Am Unhappy In My Relationship

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    This Is So Not What I Signed Up For

    First we loved so hard and good. then we fought like cats and dogs. Now we just exist. now we are just like roomates and it sucks. i dont need a roomate. i need a husband. i need someone to laugh with, talk with and make love too. he says he is celebite now. that ******* sucks...
    goldie25 goldie25 31-35, F 11 Responses Jun 5, 2009

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    Do I Love Her?

    I've been dating my gf for almost 4 months. It's been pretty rocky but when it's good, it's great! People have said its too early to fight as much as we do...but it's hard to imagine us not together. When we hang out, we have such a good time..laughing joking and amazing sex. She...
    Xogirls12345 Xogirls12345 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 29, 2013

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    Unhappy

    Im a hispanic female, I have lived with my partner for almost 10 years, we are not married and we have 2 young daughters. For some time now, my partner and I have been distant from each other emotionally and that is causing many problems between us. At this time I feel so...
    latinwoman latinwoman 31-35 May 21, 2010

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    Alone

    did you have feel alone even if you was among people around you? I often feel like that...My husband sitting by my side, but i dont feel him, my parents calling me, but they so far away, my friends finding time for me just when they can....Everyone listen you but noone understand...
    lottle lottle 31-35, F Jun 3, 2013

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    My Ex Is Starting To Really Get On My Nerves!

     Ive just broken up with my ex boyfriend of 10 months about 2 weeks ago. I was straight with him, i cooled it off over the phone as we have broken up many times before and wanted keep it simple but to the point. He understood but sent me back a message saying that we shouldn...
    bubblegum84 bubblegum84 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 17, 2009

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    Can't Seem to Move On

    I have been in this relationship for 5 1/2 years and have become a step mum and a step grandmother.  I always wanted my own children but it never happened for me and I thought step children would fill the void.  I now realise this was the opposite.  I feel I made a...
    Paulsie Paulsie 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 7, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I have been talking, dating, this man for about 6 months now, with an unofficial title of being his "girlfriend". For the past 2 months things have been a bit messy. He is...
    lVlad lVlad 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    This has been going on for way too long that I don't even remember when it began anymore. It just seems that no matter who I'm speaking to, they all have one thing in common...
    deadmoon deadmoon 18-21, F Apr 6

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    I guess some people just won't understand what it's like to be in a relationship yet still feel so alone at the same time. I don't think it's a matter of time; of how much time...
    huskiesandmalamutes huskiesandmalamutes 18-21, F Apr 6

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    Not that you can't be both alone and unhappy, but I have found that other people can make me a lot more miserable than I make myself. I can be sad a lot of times, in general...
    lookwhaticando lookwhaticando 22-25, F Mar 19

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    I met a guy a month before I study abroad, he confessed to me that he likes me and I kinda like him too, and he took me to meet his family and I spent a night w them cause I get a...
    Fluouracarpott Fluouracarpott 18-21, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I need advice on how to handle long distance relationship. I really like this guy, but I am having a difficulty with being in a long distance relationship. Please help!
    Tkaba91 Tkaba91 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    They can be beautiful. However you must be very cautious and be careful what you talk about. Don't give out personal information. Watch out for unhappy married men. Lol...there...
    audteyrose45 audteyrose45 41-45, F Mar 30

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    I remember when I worked in a jewelry store, there was a lot of people who told me that I was lucky to be single, because being in a relationship is just too stressful. Then, my...
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M Mar 31

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    I have been married 8 years and been together with my wife for a total of 18 years. we had 2 small kids. for the past 4-5 years, we have not been working on our marriage but...
    needtotalk37 needtotalk37 36-40, M 4 Responses Apr 1

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    I've been in a long distance relationship for three and a half years... We haven't even met face to face yet, but we expect to within the next few weeks... (Very Long Story!) We...
    kotahi kotahi 46-50, F 9 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    ok so recently I've been wanting to have a cute relationship,to have someone,someone I can lean on. I'm a girl but there's this girl in school who's a really good friend to me,(she...
    recoverybemine recoverybemine 16-17, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    April 14th was the 4 year "anniversary" of when my ex punched me in the face and slammed my head into the car window. At school that day a friend told me that if he hit me again...
    Jeradactyl Jeradactyl 22-25, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    Im 25 and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 5 years: We have lived together for 3 years and a little over a year ago, I moved from Arizona to memphis, Tennessee...
    heartsofgold22 heartsofgold22 22-25, F 4 hrs ago

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    I don't know about that. I've been unhappy all my life. I know how to deal with it, to fake a smile, to pretend i am happy when i am dying inside. But to be alone, that's scary. I...
    LunaOanaAris LunaOanaAris 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    Lets see it started about five years ago I lived with a cousin and my wife- daughter and mother in law stayed at her grandmothers. Me and my wife aren't married at that time but...
    Whodidimarry Whodidimarry 26-30, M Mar 19

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    “If your partner is consenting, you will see them meeting you halfway on stuff, responding to your touch, touching you back, making approving noises, positioning their body...
    SparklyRain SparklyRain 18-21, F Apr 2

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    I just wanted to say that for everyone who is struggling with this question and situation to read "Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay" by Mira Kirshenbaum. It is a positive book...
    adelaider adelaider 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 2

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    And we just got into a weird fight. We saw each other most recently two days ago, and for me, for a couple of days after we say goodbye, I get kind of depressed. But he always...
    littleB228 littleB228 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    I have been dating my boyfriend for a month today As soon as we met we instantly connected and by the second date he was already telling me he wants me to be his girlfriend Things...
    MNI1982 MNI1982 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 4

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    I thought I would try at love again; bad mistake. I am miserable and think about getting out on my own. Married now; but very unhappy
    payneless01 payneless01 51-55, F Apr 6

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    I would stay in a relationship for the company or the feel needed. I need to be happy and loved.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 9

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    I just really wish people understood that it's NOT "alone AND unhappy". I'm perfectly satisfied going to a movie or having dinner by myself and yet people look at me funny when I...
    VirginneartheAtlantic VirginneartheAtlantic 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 18

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    I knew someone once that met a nice guy, and they became a couple and moved in together. After a year or so, the guy asked if his best friend could move in the spare room because...
    aguythatknows aguythatknows 41-45, M Mar 20

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    I have never been as creative as I was when I was depressed. Even when I got happier, I was able to retain some of that creativity. It was amazing. I fell in love with it. I kind...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    I've been "alone" pretty much my whole life. It's awesome. No girlfriend, ever. 1 hook up. i used to dwell on it but now its really not that big if a deal. Besides, girls are just...
    datsyuk24 datsyuk24 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Last night i had sinusitis i didnt slept well. It was a terrible night. I went to the school clinic in the morning and although i had an early appointment i waited for an hour. I...
    BlueFloraKae BlueFloraKae 18-21, F Apr 4

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    oh eventually being alone will make you unhappy. lose lose
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    Communication is key in my relationship: In today’s society, college students searching for relationships rely on the bar scenes, drinking, and meeting someone at parties to...
    zeniyelhsa zeniyelhsa 22-25, F Apr 9

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    I've always found this strange. On this site, whenever anyone mentions relationship problems, it's often that people will tell that person to just breakup with their significant...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Apr 2

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    Older Men Younger Women Dating Site - AgeMeet.com AgeMeet.com is the # 1 dating for Older Men Younger Women Dating Site, it offers a meeting place where younger women seeking older...
    sallycc17 sallycc17 26-30, F Apr 3

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    Older Men Younger Women Dating Site - AgeMeet.com AgeMeet.com is the # 1 dating for Older Men Younger Women Dating Site, it offers a meeting place where younger women seeking older...
    sallycc17 sallycc17 26-30, F Apr 3

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    Relationships need a solid foundation. It doesnt matter what type of relationship, marriage, business, etc. they all require the same basics. The basic needs for a strong and...
    IM5688 IM5688 56-60, M Apr 10

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    I'm a 14-year-old guy (15 this summer) and I'm really wanting a relationship with a girl but I don't know how or who. I'm not a popular person a my school and hang around with the...
    ayazmisarenrag ayazmisarenrag 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 19

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    Internet Relationship-people say that it won't last but I personally think that it might be more intimate than a FTF relationship. I've been dating this guy from Chicago and he's a...
    BisexualGirl95 BisexualGirl95 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    When did we as people start to not take relationship serious anymore? I mean serious. Everyone wants to cheat or tell everyone their business and you wonder why I don't want a...
    lachee lachee 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    Nine ways that long distance relationships can help: 1. The knowledge that if you survive the distance, your relationship can survive anything. 2. You don't have to be presentable...
    saktilv saktilv 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 28

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    hello my friend if you have a bad a relationships. ask i was in my relationships i meet a friend who help me in my relationships,introduce to spell casting who help me to bring...
    emmanule emmanule 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 2

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    Internet relationships are much more successful than FTF relationships in my opinion because online relationships actually require you to build some type of trust and COMMUNICATION...
    KeithPrice94 KeithPrice94 18-21, M Mar 21

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    My fairytale has no ending yet, because I am still living it every day, even though it's filled with drama and heartache. The Love of my Life is my best friend. I believe you have...
    bethrichards bethrichards 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    You know most of us have been there one time in our lives, perhaps in high school, a failed relationship for whatever reasons and sometimes after the breakup there's a remorse...
    jessycarcher jessycarcher 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    To be honest I do wish I was in a great relationship. I think of what it would be like and it sort of scares me but at the same time I wish I could have it. I've never been in a...
    JohnnyCasshh JohnnyCasshh 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Okay, for starters let me just share with you that I've never EVER really been in a serious relationship. My longest was 4 months and I barely saw the guy. That was two years ago...
    lovehatejourney lovehatejourney 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Names changed for privacy. Valentines day 2013 I was on a Facebook game and met Sandra. I was single and she was going through separation. We really hit it off chatting for...
    ciao8585 ciao8585 26-30, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I decided to put this down as story... since it covers a lot... All I think about is what can go wrong... it is hard to try when you know how destructive a relationship can be. I...
    Sparrowhawk1161 Sparrowhawk1161 51-55, M 1 day ago

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