I Am Unlovable

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 142 People

    People Tell Me It All The Time

    so it must be true. Well not all the time. But i tell myself it all the time so it must be true. In fact, ive grown so use to that fact, that love now makes me uncomfortable. its like flicking on the lights after sitting in a dark room for a long time. and your eyes and head hurt...
    kittycat101303 kittycat101303
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 6, 2010

    All my life very little friends only a couple

    me guys ever interested in me married twice and was used viciously both times I am broken and anyone who says they love me ..It's always conditional or when it's convenient. Im 31 have no friends Co workers tolerate me men are not attracted to me and ive seen much worse...
    unlovable83 unlovable83
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 27, 2014

    Romantically Unlovable

    It's become apparent to me that I'm romantically unlovable. I know I have friends and family members who love me. I even have male friends who love me platonically. But I don't know that anyone has ever really loved me romantically.That wouldn't be such a big deal if I wasn't...
    georgieglover georgieglover
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 30, 2013
    Wanderinsoul217 Wanderinsoul217
    31-35, F
    Feb 23, 2014

    I just sent my husband the "4 Horsemen of

    communication" that predict a failed marriage. I told him we have all 4 in our marriage. He didn't react at all. This is my 2nd marriage. My 1st husband is thrilled to have life without me.
    elly51 elly51
    51-55, F
    Aug 5, 2014

    Unlovable ???

    I feel I'm unlovable I have ms and the minute I tell a man this he's says it doesn't bother him but he seems to always walk away. I'm very loving and caring women. Why can't I be loved
    deleted deleted
    Aug 18, 2013

    Iv given my entire life over to a man

    who has used me, beaten me and left me. For the passed 3yrs I have been completely reclused in this relationship. Relying heavily on him. Now I'm left quite literally penniless and homeless with two kids and pregnant. Iv done every loving thing any person can towards someone...
    Stiggyb Stiggyb
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 20, 2014

    I Am Unlovable!!!

    apart from me loving myself, i always feel as though there's no one out there that can love me, just simply cos of the way i live my life!! i mean im a bit of a loner, and im a bit quiet and a bit shy too!! sometimes i feel really lonely, and i feel as though i need a girlfriend...
    cowshed123 cowshed123
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Mar 10, 2009

    “Everyone at some point in their lives,

    wakes in the middle of the night with the feeling that they are all alone in the world, and that nobody loves them now and that nobody will ever love, and that they will never have another decents night sleep again and will spend their lives wandering blearily around a loveless...
    Wanderinsoul217 Wanderinsoul217
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 23, 2014

    I know I am. I may be the sweetest girl

    that you have ever met but I'm just not worth being loved because: A. I'm black. B. guys just don't want a girl like me. C. I'm just not worth love or care or anything at all for that matter
    reesespeices reesespeices
    22-25, F
    10 Responses May 17, 2014

    I lived with my bf for a year.

    . He's from Iraq and I am from South America but we both live in United States. I discovered some pics on Facebook about him and a baby which I asked and he said it is his nephew..after that like 3 months after a woman from Iraq contacted me and told me she is his wife and mother...
    deleted deleted
    May 27, 2015


    Apparently I am. And maybe it's just because I think too much of myself.  After all, why would I deserve love?  Sometimes I just feel like there are people in the world who would really feel lucky to have someone who is as generous as I am with my love...who often does things...
    permafrost21 permafrost21
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 19, 2013

    I Must Be A Monster

    Nobody has ever loved me. Not really. My father was an alcoholic. He loved drugs and booze more than me. He'd tell me that he loved me but then he'd disappear. And even when he got sober he never said he loved me. He got a new family. He left me behind. My mother tried to...
    Faction Faction
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jul 20, 2010

    I've never had a real boyfriend

    and any guy that I thought I may have been getting close to would always remind me that they're not my boyfriend. I'm not sure I have what it takes to have anyone have me be theirs.
    damagedgirl damagedgirl
    22-25, F
    Apr 16, 2014

    No One Loves Me

    I am unlovable for the obvious reason: no one loves me. I have never kept a bf for more than a few months and it's always on and off. I have never had a constant relationship and no one wants to be with me because I won't let myself be touched until the time comes to consummate...
    Sexyshannon Sexyshannon
    3 Responses Feb 28, 2009

    People Laugh More After I Leave

    I am unlovable.  Everyone moves on from me.  It has happened time and again.  God blesses them by first guiding them away from me.  And then their lives become full.  And I'm to cowardly to end it.  I'm scared of hell because, it's hell.  And I...
    michaeldefendus michaeldefendus
    Jun 25, 2010

    I just sent my husband an email about the "4

    horsemen of communication problems". Having all 4 present is a 94 % indicator that a marriage is going to fail. I told him we have all 4 in our marriage. He didn't react. This is my 2nd marriage. My first husband is very happy living without me.
    elly51 elly51
    51-55, F
    1 Response Aug 5, 2014


    I guess I rub people the wrong way hence why I too am unlovable :/ *sigh*
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick
    4 Responses Oct 20, 2010

    Hi, People Like Me But I Remain Unlovable.

    Hi, I'm Karen. I'm a nice looking woman, athletic, creative, likeable and enjoyable. I'm mentally, physically and emotionally a healthy individual. Men who are married adore me. Old men and Younger men adore me. I have friends. Family. People think highly of me. But I...
    Hollyofthevalley Hollyofthevalley
    5 Responses Jul 1, 2010

    A Series of Tragic Events

    I guess this is a lifetime of experiences.  So what I'm want to talk about isn't about being dumbed once or twice and then think that my world is over. I have a mild autism and have been shuned by just about everyone in my life.  My family treated me very poorly and...
    domesticgirl domesticgirl
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 28, 2009

    Unlovable ???

    I feel I'm unlovable I have ms and the minute I tell a man this he's says it doesn't bother him but he seems to always walk away. I'm very loving and caring women. Why can't I be loved
    deleted deleted
    Aug 18, 2013


    and it will stay this way..I wonder why someone flag this group??? oh wellI'm gonna stay Single forever!!! and Ever!!!! ever!!! ever evverr e v e r.....evr
    Cupcake2 Cupcake2
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 22, 2011

    All my life I've felt like I've had to put on a

    show for people. I've had to smile and act and be something. When I finally let ppl in, past the curtain, the show, and everything for a moment there is peace. And then I'm dropped like a hot rock. No explanations, no use of words, nothing. Just left to shatter and I'm starting...
    isodole isodole
    22-25, F
    Aug 6, 2014

    I've been married for 15 years.

    My husband loves me like a sister. He is a good man, but has no attraction to me. We haven't had sex in almost 2 years. It has always been this way except for a few times early in our relationship. I try to look at all the other positives in our relationship, but I am dying...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 5, 2015

    I wish I'd never been born.

    I am tired of living. I don't want to go on. I want to die and then go where the animals go. At least there someone would like me.
    kokojoe kokojoe
    51-55, M
    Apr 26, 2015


    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Oct 20, 2010


    divorced, fallen for and dumbed by too many to mention. sick of being told its not you its me. you are beautiful but it just wouldn't work. unloveable and destined to be alone forever.
    ligeress1 ligeress1
    2 Responses Aug 23, 2011

    I have but one dream in this world

    and that is to be loved (by a woman as I am a man.) However, the thing is girls in general just don't like me. It's not as if the have some sort of deep rooted animosity towards me, it's just that they don't find me attractive. Basically I will never be chosen so long as it's...
    HeWhoIsWithoutLove HeWhoIsWithoutLove
    1 Response Feb 23, 2015
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