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I Am Unlucky In Love

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    Honestly the past two years

    for me have been so off-balance when it comes to my love life. From flaky guys that seem great at first but then disappear to an actual relationship that turned out to be awful and full of fighting and miscommunication (he's a detached Aquarius who doesn't understand my feelings...
    chloef10 chloef10 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    Five Years Single And Still Counting...

    I think I've always known since I was very young that the nagging feeling I had from way back then was a sign.  That sign was that I was going to become what most women fear; an old maid, a spinster, whatever you want to call it. I will be 38 in two weeks, no children, never...
    SpynsterBlues SpynsterBlues 36-40 2 Responses May 22, 2012

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    First Piece: Unlucky In Love

    no idea where to start or if i will finish this or even write another thing where i believe no one will read this shite anyway, i never had had much luck with girls, my first girlfriend it turned out was seeing someone else and and was seeing me behind her boyfriends back. the...
    slayerrik slayerrik 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 3, 2013

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    Just My Luck ....

    I love watching movies, I always wanted to make a career writing scripts. Now obviously I started off by watching a lot of Love stories. Romeo sees Juliet, Falls in Love, he proposes her, then there are a few songs and then voila !!! They're Happily ever after. Looks so easy in...
    Tien101 Tien101 18-21 1 Response Feb 22, 2012

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    I always fall for someone

    and they end up changing a couple months in , when I already have feelings
    leaom22 leaom22 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    I guess you can consider just the fact

    that I have been in love as something lucky. It's more that the luck doesn't stick. I am a fickle person. I am in love and then I am not. I am a complicated person. People fall I love with me and then realize they can't handle me. I've moved away and then back. I live...
    piprimate piprimate 26-30, F Sep 3

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    Heaven Knows Im Miserable Now

    So here I am a 20 year old guy and guess what? Never had a girlfriend. So how does one end up in such a situation? Well let me give you some advice. Don't ever just be a decent guy, because women seem to hate that. I am a nice guy who has never hated anyone. I treat everyone with...
    inbetweendays inbetweendays 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 2, 2010

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    I Don't Know If Anyone Cares But I Just Felt Like Writing This.

    Alright so when I was 15, on the first day of school in math, there was this girl named Alannah she was gorgeous. I had seen her around before but as she walked into the classroom she came and sat next to me. I started talking to her and we became best friends perhaps even closer...
    bj7390 bj7390 18-21, M 5 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    I'll Never Love Again

    Not because I don't want to or because I can't.  I am a transsexual woman and there just aren't that many suitors for us.  The relationships I have been in have been trainwrecks.  When I was still a male the partners I had thought they could change me and when they...
    Charlotte2 Charlotte2 61-65 4 Responses Jul 2, 2010

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    I Just Want To Have A Relationship

    I'm really only looking for a boyfriend, but it's gotten to the point where I'm barely picky anymore. You don't have to look attractive, you don't have to be a certain gender, you can be any race, believe any religion, have any political beliefs, I don't care. When I was 13, I...
    lilymanatee lilymanatee 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 18, 2013

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    In 37 Years............. Twice Now.....

    ~ The first time I fell in love, well, it was unrequited. He was a sweetheart of a guy. I loved him with all the pent up emotion of a depressed 17 yr. old. He was all I wanted..... But to him, I was but a friend. So I decided to be happy with that & taught my heart to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 30, 2009

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    Two weeks. every time.

    Every girl. They leave me or cheat on me. I could find a nice, honest, 17 year old, rocker chick, who lives near me, and has a lot in common with me, and becomes my best friend, and then we fall in love and she really means "love" and not "you've been nice to me lately" or "I...
    LeonardFinch LeonardFinch 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    Tlhokomelo Lepitla

     love is a treasure to be enjoyed each day wit gratitude. but y is it that some of us are so unklucky inlove? y is it people dont love us? we keep loving even when we r disappointed, is it ryt/?1p someone u love breaks appointments, he enjoys his friends compony than urs, he...
    tlhokomelolepitla tlhokomelolepitla 18-21 Aug 30, 2011

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    Love..:)

    Love is something speciaal..It is not a feeling for a few months..If u love someone,Love from the depth of your heart..Never ever use a girl and go awayy....Never hurt anyone so much that they can never forgive you..
    teengurl teengurl 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 9, 2013

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    Unluky In Love

    I am very unlucky in love, i am going to lose my partner very soon as she is getting married to sum other guy because of  family's pressure, i have even talked to her mother but it did't worked. I am feeling very bad and i cry a lot because of this pain. I would prefer dying...
    paaavan paaavan 26-30, M Nov 24, 2009

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    Reconnecting With A Lost Love

    I found an old boyfriend a year ago on the Internet. We immediately felt the same strong connection from our college days, and started an on line relationship that has continued to this day. Love getting the emails from him and hearing about his life, his thoughts. When we...
    joaniej231 joaniej231 56-60, F Mar 11, 2010

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    I Can Not Fall Out Of Love Anymore

    love is but a word, untill u find some one to give u a defination
    tlhokomelolepitla tlhokomelolepitla 18-21 Aug 30, 2011

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    It seem to me each time I'm ready to have a

    relationship I always pick the wrong person I always end up thinking why me am I such a ******* that in love that's all I deserve
    ash18bmth ash18bmth 18-21, M Sep 3

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    Single Pregnant Christian Female

    I am 15 weeks pregnant and my baby daddy left me December 26th, 2011. We were together off and on for one year and 4 months but I thought it would work. He is a pastor and we met online at datehookup.com. When we met we would talk on the phone for 3 hours and I thought I finally...
    Lousharp Lousharp 36-40 3 Responses Feb 5, 2012

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    Whenever i met sum1..

    ...i just feel atlast...i got d prsn i needed n start feeling sooo lucky.....but it dosent last long.....n i feel lyk a moron because i was not lucky but pure unlucky...!!!
    Confusedpersonality Confusedpersonality 18-21, M Jun 12

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    i know i am a girl and i know most of you wont

    believe me but everytime i get into a relationship ITS ALWAYS THE OTHER PERSONS FAULT WHY IT ENDS. just today a friend of mine ended their friendship with me over something HE DID. i was hurt and shocked but if the person wants to be let go i will let him go. i just dont like...
    luvabl3 luvabl3 18-21, F Sep 3

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    leaom22 leaom22 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    Am I Really Unlucky?

    It's my first time to write on experience. And this is my last experience about love before I admit to myself that I'm single. I chosen this guy to be part of my life for I thought he was serious to me. He worked in other country and used to called me everyday. We were...
    redbutterfly68 redbutterfly68 26-30, F Jun 15, 2013

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    burwi333 burwi333 36-40, M Oct 21, 2010

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    Are There Any Quality Guys Out There?

    I have given up on finding love. I have been divorced for 13 years now. My friends jokingly say to me that I have the worst luck in dating. I have dated guys and dated for a while and then they just disappeared. I have been rebound girl. I have been cheated on by a fiance. I...
    lovelost2012 lovelost2012 36-40 5 Responses May 9, 2012

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    Am I Ever!!!!

    The only guys I seem to end up with are those that hit me, stalk me or insult me.   I think it's because I have a good heart and I just want to pick up all of the poor lost souls and help them and nurse them back to health, but it never works.   All I get is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 6, 2008

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    Lonely Forever

    I am 23 years old. I have had a number of relationships but have been cheated on in all of them. I have been loving, trusting in all my relationships, yet the guys end up cheating on me. When I found out and confronted them, they resorted to tears. Begged for me back. But I did...
    blackandwhite123 blackandwhite123 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 9, 2011

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    Love Is Never Lost

    Just saw this in my email and I felt good after I read it. Love is never lost. If not reciprocated, it will flow back and soften and purify the heart." - Washington Irving (1783-1859)
    annamaria annamaria 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 22, 2008

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    Straight up unlucky in love.

    So haven't dated at all for about 3 years now. When I finally meet a guy, we hit it off. Non stop texting and all of the sudden he disappears. I asked him if everything is okay and then he explains how busy he is. He starts texting again, only to stop again. So this time I've...
    Xococoxo Xococoxo 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    30 And A String Of Bad Relationships Behind Me

    I'm a single mom to s 6 year old little girl. I thought I was going to be the first girl from school to get married (i'm a hopeless romantic) and guess what. You guessed it. I'm still single and ALL my school friends (even the friends younger than me) are married. Not only am I...
    Verninator Verninator 26-30, F Aug 2, 2012

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    I've Always Been Alone

    i have the worst luck in love ever. my very first crush didn't like me (albeit i was a complete wimp back then), then every girl i liked in school was creeped out by me like everyone else because of what everyone said about me. i gave up on love completely and became cynical...
    CaptainJackass CaptainJackass 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 16, 2011

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    So, I met this guy that I kindda like.

    I was harboring too much hopes. I thought we could get together. It's so sad that he never contacts me anymore. :( Anyone can please help me on this?
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    When Will I Find True Love?

    When will I find true love? I am beginning to wonder if that will ever happen.. I am 44 years old and have been married twice, and involved in two serious relationships.. All with toxic men.. ALCOHOLICS who have either abused me or cheated on me.. I am at the point where I am...
    goodtymeronda1 goodtymeronda1 41-45, F 5 Responses Jan 7, 2012

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    Do It To Myself...

    Hey all! I know it's been a while, but I am definitely running into some serious issues. I guess this story doesn't exactly pertain to the military, just men in general.... But.... After I broke up with my navy man, I met another guy. He's a total sweetheart who would do anything...
    navygirl00 navygirl00 18-21, F Sep 24, 2013

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    Another Wasted Chance...

    Rejection; even the word strikes fear into my soul.  After having my heart broken so many times, once by a man I truly loved, I felt like giving up on chasing after them.  They could pursue me, but no one seemed interested.  That made me wonder if I was actually...
    Sundance89 Sundance89 22-25, F 5 Responses May 28, 2010

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    It's another day without seeing my loving professor. The heart that holds him is longing to meet him and hear some nice words from. I'm unlucky that I can't even see him. I saw his...
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    So... gotta join the "I Love Music" spam before it's gone! :) I love the sound of this band, kinda softer, dreamier than much of what I listen to. Not that Yotube does any justice...
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    She is my everything. She will always be my first and my last love and the beautiful thing about that us that I mean that literally. God is so good. I love true love. I love her...
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    My partner of 4 years broke up with me a week ago. We were planning to be married next year. We are originally from India but currently live in the US. When I first met him, I was...
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