I Am Unlucky In Love

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 485 People

    I guess you can consider just the fact

    that I have been in love as something lucky. It's more that the luck doesn't stick. I am a fickle person. I am in love and then I am not. I am a complicated person. People fall I love with me and then realize they can't handle me. I've moved away and then back. I live...
    untamablekitty untamablekitty
    31-35, F
    Sep 3, 2014

    When Will I Find True Love?

    When will I find true love? I am beginning to wonder if that will ever happen.. I am 44 years old and have been married twice, and involved in two serious relationships.. All with toxic men.. ALCOHOLICS who have either abused me or cheated on me.. I am at the point where I am...
    goodtymeronda1 goodtymeronda1
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Jan 7, 2012

    I used to be quite unlucky.

    It was one of my things actually. It's hard to believe my luck has finally turned. It's only been a few weeks. It feels like more. I'm not one for getting speechless. I find it very easy to speak my mind in most situations, but My Girl gets me speechless often. You recycle the...
    NewEra0916 NewEra0916
    26-30, M
    Sep 28, 2015

    its raining n cold outside!

    i wish I had someone to share it with
    SWEDNN SWEDNN
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 20, 2015

    Have you ever had someone in your life

    who hurt you so badly, but yet despite how much they hurt you, you still love them? I'm kind of an expert on that.
    Madison18 Madison18
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 15, 2015

    I started dating this kid who's really nice

    and good to me. We didn't have sex until a week after he asked me to be his gf . Let's just say I was very disappointed with the sex, now I'm kinda turned off . I thought I was doing the right thing by waiting, but now I'm stuck with someone that I'm turned off intimately with...
    leaom22 leaom22
    22-25, F
    Oct 12, 2014

    Honestly the past two years

    for me have been so off-balance when it comes to my love life. From flaky guys that seem great at first but then disappear to an actual relationship that turned out to be awful and full of fighting and miscommunication (he's a detached Aquarius who doesn't understand my feelings...
    chloef10 chloef10
    26-30, F
    Jul 28, 2014

    Love Is Never Lost

    Just saw this in my email and I felt good after I read it. Love is never lost. If not reciprocated, it will flow back and soften and purify the heart." - Washington Irving (1783-1859)
    annamaria annamaria
    46-50, F
    1 Response Mar 22, 2008

    I Don't Know If Anyone Cares But I Just Felt Like Writing This.

    Alright so when I was 15, on the first day of school in math, there was this girl named Alannah she was gorgeous. I had seen her around before but as she walked into the classroom she came and sat next to me. I started talking to her and we became best friends perhaps even closer...
    bj7390 bj7390
    18-21, M
    5 Responses Jul 19, 2012

    Here is my story: I am a 20 year old 2nd year

    maths student. I had never asked out a girl before 5 days ago even though I have been contacted via fb by 2 in the past both ending without even a date(one because of distance and the other one because because both of us stopped contact). I had a crush for 4 years in high school...
    hitgod hitgod
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 8, 2015

    Its always the same thing over

    and over again, i meet a girl we date and then she will dump me a week later for problems that i can't help...
    WhisperingShadowsOfDeath WhisperingShadowsOfDeath
    16-17, F
    1 Response Apr 7, 2015

    I keep giving my all

    and receiving nothing .
    milkandoreos milkandoreos
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Apr 9, 2015

    So, I met this guy that I kindda like.

    I was harboring too much hopes. I thought we could get together. It's so sad that he never contacts me anymore. :( Anyone can please help me on this?
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 20, 2014

    I fucken miss him these nights aren't the same

    without him, I may have gotten used to not getting texts from him all the time anymore but surely enough I crave his hugs and kisses )): he faded but the memories didn't
    princessxsuicide princessxsuicide
    16-17, F
    Sep 19, 2015
    curvycat curvycat
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jan 28

    i know i am a girl and i know most of you wont

    believe me but everytime i get into a relationship ITS ALWAYS THE OTHER PERSONS FAULT WHY IT ENDS. just today a friend of mine ended their friendship with me over something HE DID. i was hurt and shocked but if the person wants to be let go i will let him go. i just dont like...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Sep 3, 2014

    I can't even think right now.

    Truly I am one of the most unlucky people EVER born when it comes to love. I'm genuinely starting to believe that God and the universe conspire against me, and why, I don't ******* know? Im honest and straight up always, I don't hurt people, and I give my all to the person I'm...
    NewEra0916 NewEra0916
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Mar 31, 2015

    Have we all been Unlucky in love?

    I know I have. Love Is pointless anyway.
    AJWilliams22 AJWilliams22
    18-21
    Nov 1, 2014

    Do It To Myself...

    Hey all! I know it's been a while, but I am definitely running into some serious issues. I guess this story doesn't exactly pertain to the military, just men in general.... But.... After I broke up with my navy man, I met another guy. He's a total sweetheart who would do anything...
    navygirl00 navygirl00
    18-21, F
    Sep 24, 2013

    Am I Ever!!!!

    The only guys I seem to end up with are those that hit me, stalk me or insult me.   I think it's because I have a good heart and I just want to pick up all of the poor lost souls and help them and nurse them back to health, but it never works.   All I get is...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 6, 2008

    Reconnecting With A Lost Love

    I found an old boyfriend a year ago on the Internet. We immediately felt the same strong connection from our college days, and started an on line relationship that has continued to this day. Love getting the emails from him and hearing about his life, his thoughts. When we...
    joaniej231 joaniej231
    56-60, F
    Mar 11, 2010

    Whenever i met sum1..

    ...i just feel atlast...i got d prsn i needed n start feeling sooo lucky.....but it dosent last long.....n i feel lyk a moron because i was not lucky but pure unlucky...!!!
    Confusedpersonality Confusedpersonality
    18-21, M
    Jun 12, 2014

    I am just 21 and I know I am kindda young to

    say such a thing like that but i started searching for love at a young age so i am more experienced than many of my friends. it just some times I find some one and I want her but she don't want me and i meet some one and she loves me but I dint feel the same. now i met some one...
    comlpicatedguy comlpicatedguy
    18-21, M
    Sep 10, 2015

    It seem to me each time I'm ready to have a

    relationship I always pick the wrong person I always end up thinking why me am I such a ******* that in love that's all I deserve
    ash18bmth ash18bmth
    18-21, M
    Sep 3, 2014

    Heaven Knows Im Miserable Now

    So here I am a 20 year old guy and guess what? Never had a girlfriend. So how does one end up in such a situation? Well let me give you some advice. Don't ever just be a decent guy, because women seem to hate that. I am a nice guy who has never hated anyone. I treat everyone with...
    inbetweendays inbetweendays
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jul 2, 2010

    Literally, just now, I hit what was my

    girlfriend's mom's car on complete accident. It was my first accident since I got my license 3 years ago and the only damage done was a little scratch on her car. Well after examination of both cars, I got taken inside by her father and he's forcing us to split. Why am I so...
    kennethwf kennethwf
    18-21, M
    Apr 6, 2015

    When I look back at my past relationships,

    I can honestly say that I never had a good relationship with anyone, they were decent at best. I fear this is how my future relationships will go too..
    Madison18 Madison18
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Apr 10, 2015
    leaom22 leaom22
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 3, 2014

    Single Pregnant Christian Female

    I am 15 weeks pregnant and my baby daddy left me December 26th, 2011. We were together off and on for one year and 4 months but I thought it would work. He is a pastor and we met online at datehookup.com. When we met we would talk on the phone for 3 hours and I thought I finally...
    Lousharp Lousharp
    36-40
    1 Response Feb 5, 2012

    I always fall for someone

    and they end up changing a couple months in , when I already have feelings
    leaom22 leaom22
    22-25, F
    Sep 3, 2014

    You get cheated on and

    when you finally get over it and start all over you get cheated on again ! How motivating ..
    sedna123 sedna123
    26-30, F
    Aug 19, 2015

    I think I am incapable of falling in love.

    I had crushes but it isn't love and I think I just forced myself to have a crush on someone at one point of my ever boring life. I hadn't had a boyfriend ever since and I think I am not girlfriend material. I am not that sociable, I am an introvert, and I am not good in putting...
    kiristiyana kiristiyana
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 9, 2015

    Straight up unlucky in love.

    So haven't dated at all for about 3 years now. When I finally meet a guy, we hit it off. Non stop texting and all of the sudden he disappears. I asked him if everything is okay and then he explains how busy he is. He starts texting again, only to stop again. So this time I've...
    Xococoxo Xococoxo
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 9, 2014

    I'll Never Tell Him How I Feel For Him.

    . I Will Keep It All To Myself..
    Insomnia101 Insomnia101
    18-21, F
    Nov 25, 2014

    I'm deciding right now

    and from this day on that love isn't real. It doesn't exist. It's all a bunch of made up crap.
    Madison18 Madison18
    18-21, F
    10 Responses Oct 2, 2015

    Lonely Forever

    I am 23 years old. I have had a number of relationships but have been cheated on in all of them. I have been loving, trusting in all my relationships, yet the guys end up cheating on me. When I found out and confronted them, they resorted to tears. Begged for me back. But I did...
    blackandwhite123 blackandwhite123
    22-25, F
    Dec 9, 2011

    I'll Never Love Again

    Not because I don't want to or because I can't.  I am a transsexual woman and there just aren't that many suitors for us.  The relationships I have been in have been trainwrecks.  When I was still a male the partners I had thought they could change me and when they...
    Charlotte2 Charlotte2
    61-65
    4 Responses Jul 2, 2010

    I am new/back in the dating scene

    after 15 years of marriage. From what I have experienced these past 4 months I don't think I will ever meet anyone or continue dating. I hear how beautiful, sexy I am, a great catch- I am a professional, intelligent caring, trusting woman yet I can't find a man who truly shows...
    lovelynurse lovelynurse
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 9, 2014

    Just My Luck ....

    I love watching movies, I always wanted to make a career writing scripts. Now obviously I started off by watching a lot of Love stories. Romeo sees Juliet, Falls in Love, he proposes her, then there are a few songs and then voila !!! They're Happily ever after. Looks so easy in...
    Tien101 Tien101
    22-25, M
    1 Response Feb 22, 2012

    its seems no matter what I do.

    I always meet woman who expect me to support them. I have my own place and pay my bills. at the end I'm lucky if I have a few dollars to spare. when I date everything is OK, but when she moves in she will quit her job and expect me to pay for everything and then treat her by...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 7, 2015

    "Love does not come to those

    who seek it, but to those who give love. It is a binding force between souls who have nothing to give but themselves to one another
    donaldmatic donaldmatic
    46-50, M
    1 Response Mar 28

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