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I Am Unsure About My Sexuality

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    So frustrated- I used to love ****!

    Loved the look, and couldn't wait to loose my virginity then I realized I was bi, then I soon after realized I was a lesbian, a closet lesbian that is. I carried on flirting with guys so no one would expect anything. Then I met this one guy, my current boyfriend (so I guess I'm...
    Bingabang Bingabang 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    I like to wear women's clothes,

    and when you do it, i feel feminine, but usually i feel like a man. The idea of being a woman turns me on. I don't like men, but sometimes i've imagined giving them ******** and loving it. However if i go down this path of slowly becoming more and more fminin an fufilling all...
    theJCAB theJCAB 16-17, M Dec 11, 2014

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    I'm Confused...sometimes Proud, Sometimes Ashamed.

    So basically I never even thought about my sexuality growing up. I just had boyfriends. I made out with my best girl friend in highschool but I figured it was just for fun I guess. I never really thought about it. I knew she was bisexual but I was into guys and never thought...
    xlilblonde4lifex xlilblonde4lifex 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 16, 2011

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    Confused....

    ok so ive always though i was straight and most of the time i think i am....i mean whenever i think about being married or in a serious relationship i always think about guys but (im into acting) and a lot of times i think about being with girls in a play or doing more...intimate...
    dancergirl101 dancergirl101 18-21, F Feb 8, 2012

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    I've dated a couple of boys

    but I've never dated a girl. I know I'm attracted to girls though too though. I'm confused:/
    JusttThatGirl JusttThatGirl 18-21, F 5 Responses May 31, 2014

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    I am only physically attracted to females.

    I cannot see myself spending the rest of my life with one, but I am very turned on by a girls "parts". However, I really like guys emotionally. I think they're very attractive emotionally and I can see myself being with one. However, I do not find guys "hot" or "sexy". The most...
    niamcmillan niamcmillan 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 5, 2014

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    I'm truly unsure about it

    but I think it would be best for me to not care. I'm not going to look into it plus (as people never read my other experiences) I hate intercourse. So no idiot better say something like "who are you gonna do it with", "try something new", etc. Because I don't want to do that...
    rocketguy19 rocketguy19 16-17, M 2 Responses Jun 3

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    I always found myself into guys

    and I was always raised that way. My first anything was a guy when I was 15, we dated for 4 years. But before that I kinda had a little crush on my best friend, and I wasn't sure why. I knew this was wrong and I didn't try anything at all. The next time I felt this way was with...
    CollegeStudent22 CollegeStudent22 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2014

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    Well, pretty much what the experience says.

    I just don't know sometimes... I think I might be bisexual but at the same time I have my doubts. I go back and forth between males and females. Females I have a sexual attraction and romantic attraction to. For guys, though, I have the romantic attraction but not the sexual...
    FleshEatingBacteria FleshEatingBacteria 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 10

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    I've Never Really Felt attracted to guys,

    I'm mean I've had boyfriends before and I've had Girlfriends.I always find myself looking at girls Boobs though.But Guys Like Jeffree Star,Andy Biersack and Ashley Purdy I Find Good Looking.My Friends Tell Me I'm Asexual But I'm Still Unsure.
    Soulless666 Soulless666 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    I'm thinking I might be panesexual,

    though there's never been a girl I've had a crush on. I have imagined a couple of girls that I'm interested in, but does my imaginations sexuality count for mine to? I would definetly be panesexual over bisexual, as I really never care about anything but personality.
    Bracelets Bracelets 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 1, 2014

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    I'm at my best female friends house

    and I can't stop thinking of the things that happened a while back and the things that I wish would happen with her. And I'm texting a male interest at the same time. I'm so confused about everything and I wish I could just be okay with myself which ever way makes me happy.
    Forevertired22 Forevertired22 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 28

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    This has been confusing me

    for a long time i like girls alot but belive if a guy wants me and he trys he will succeed and get me so yh i dont mind what thay are tvh
    Lasbutterfly Lasbutterfly 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 26, 2014

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    I think I'm bi-curious.

    . Like I'm attracted to guys and I've only been with guys but I also find girls really attractive but I'm not sure if that would ever be an option so I've never really admitted it to anyone except my best guy friend. I don't really know if it would be better to try to explore...
    Imjustme73 Imjustme73 16-17, F 3 Responses May 1

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    There are times that I feel very bisexual

    and then there are times that I feel my desires are more toward men than women and it makes me wonder deep down if I might be gay.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 22

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    i dont get it, i fall

    for girls. but i also love to have on their clothing...HELP ME
    LilLefty LilLefty 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I'm questioning everything in my life right now.

    Is this normal? I feel like a cant go to anyone because I have grown up catholic and my parents are homophobic(atleast I know my mom is) I'm Pretty sure I'm panssexual but I'm like still in the questioning stage I guess. Anyone wanna chat?
    jess965 jess965 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 5

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    If anyone can help pm me.

    I am romantically attracted to men but I'm not physically attracted to men. The idea of having sex and kissing men appeals to me emotionally because I want to bond with them. Outside of a fantasy setting the idea repulses me at worst and at best Ijust find it odd. My attraction...
    KelseyLeigh123 KelseyLeigh123 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 7

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    RainbowGamerSally RainbowGamerSally 13-15, F Sep 18, 2014

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    Ok, I am a young teen girl

    that is confused with my sexuality. I know I shouldn't be stressed over such a silly thing because I'm only young, but I would rather find out if I'm gay, bi or straight to stop me stressing and get on with my life knowing who I am. Recently, I have been thinking about what it...
    bewildyoungandfree bewildyoungandfree 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 1, 2014

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    I think I might be bi curious,

    Not sure on how to explore and fully discover that just yet. For years I've had crushes on guys, have found men attractive but recently have found that some of those same emotions have been focused on a particular girl. In the past I've sort of pondered on the idea of going out...
    Mafrici Mafrici 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 29

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    Can Just One Person Change Your Sexuality?

    I really don't know what to make of it; i've never fallen in love with a girl before, i have never felt this strongly for a girl before, yet all i do is think about her and just wish she was with me ( i recently moved away). She's no help when talking to about the matter because...
    shezzypants shezzypants 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    My situation is getting more real by the day.

    I'm in love with my best friend and I'm pretty sure she has a good idea how I feel. I think it's just freaking her out. The other day we went to a concert that I paid for her to go to and she left our group and told my friend she thinks I'm obsessed with her : idk what I should...
    CollegeStudent22 CollegeStudent22 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 7, 2014

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    Its like I'm confused

    but I'm also confused about being confused. Its so difficult when you don't know what u are or what your not. When u cant tell anyone you are doubting because you feel like they wont understand. This overthinking is killing me. Ive liked girls before and not guys. Then i started...
    lesley2456 lesley2456 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 16

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    I am 34 and still trying to work out

    if I am gay straight or bi. It's so complicated and wish I could find the answer
    lilboyuk lilboyuk 31-35, M 1 Response May 4

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    I am very confused about my sexuality.

    I always been attracted to guys ever since I can remember and I always thought that I would be straight my whole life. When I was young I never heard of being gay, bi or lesbians before and I never seen or known what it meant so I just grew up thinking and knowing that that's...
    Ki123 Ki123 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 25, 2014

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    I'm Confused To The Point Of Tears.

    I always knew there was something different about me, but being cyclothymic, I kind of assumed it was that. I'd always liked guys, and though I admired my girl friends, I never really knew what being gay was. The first time it really occurred to me,I was in seventh grade, 12. I...
    mysterygirl13 mysterygirl13 18-21 5 Responses Feb 23, 2012

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    I think that I'm bi because I do like the way

    girl'a bodies look. But only certain girls turn me on. I don't know if it's just because I have a very specific type or if I'm not sure that I'm bi. Now I don't need you people telling me that I'm asking for attention because I'm not. I'm just not sure if I'm really bi or not.
    meganayyye21 meganayyye21 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 15, 2014

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    Like, how do people figure out this?

    ?? My friends have it all figured out and some are genderqueer and say it was easy for them. >_< I don't know and it's frustrating because this one girl keep making assumptions and labeling me which gets me pissed off.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 11

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    I think I'm "demisexual"

    Defined as feeling absolutely no sexual attraction to a person prior to knowing them. That's how I feel most of the time. The only exception seems to be when someone has a characteristic that reminds me of a person that I already knew. Like really defined shoulders. Other than...
    Mdear Mdear 18-21, F 3 Responses May 10, 2013

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    I have no idea what I am now,

    growing up through life identifying as straight, had three girls I like, two of them was a "meant to be" relationship, more like a friendship tbh, cause I just couldn't go further than that, and I was a bit upset when the relationship ended, but that was me just a bit upset at...
    all2livefor all2livefor 22-25, T 1 Response Jul 10, 2014

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    unexpectedlover unexpectedlover 13-15, F 8 Responses Feb 7

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    I say I'm straight, but i always get these

    feelings for girls. Im currently in a relationship with a male. I had a drunken night with a friend way back she stayed over.. Ended up making out. Found it pretty attractive. Still do even when I'm sober. What do??
    Ohxoxo Ohxoxo 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 19, 2014

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    I've been into relationship with guys,

    one guy at first made me feel really in love, and I felt nothing wrong with my sexuality when I was with him, we lived together he and I. Long story and there came problems. We didnt make it. I tried to move on, and battle depression along the way. He hurt me so bad that I think...
    musimpanas musimpanas 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 9, 2014

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    I have a few crushes on men

    but I find them uninteresting and don't want to date them. With girls, I hardly have any real life crushes but I want to date them. It's like my heart and my head are completely different. I'm scared I'll meet a girl but realise I'm straight and I don't want to be with them. I...
    02sarahh 02sarahh 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    Loyalty Vs Secrecy ?

    So i'm a normal 19 year old guy with a girlfriend (20), we've only been a couple for a few months now and so far we are really happy together. the thing is, when we get intimate, i struggle to get aroused!? we kiss and touch but i usually just get a semi. when i pleasure her...
    Earlythrob Earlythrob 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 9, 2013

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    I am a female and I seek a relationship with a

    guy but I'm head over heels for one of my friends that happens to be a girl! We have kissed and made out and done things that's friends wouldn't do. But yet we don't call ourselves anything but friends. I've only been attracted to 3 girls my whole life but the one I like right...
    Aboswell Aboswell 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 3, 2014

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    For me, the doubt comes more from people's

    perspective of me, not my perspective of myself. I like guys and gals, but I don't wanna come out as bi or pan because of the stigma with the label, and the chance that I could be wrong. Also, I'm kind of label-phobic. I'd rather just say "opensexual" lol.
    17andifeelso 17andifeelso 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 5, 2014

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    For a majority of my life my peers have always

    assumed I was gay. I was called gay before I really understood the meaning behind the word. I was the "gay kid/***" from elementary-the day I graduated. But I've only just recently considered the possibility that I, in fact, may be gay. Am I attracted to the male body? Yes...
    20Somethin 20Somethin 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 7, 2014

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    I really DON'T know what I am.

    . So, I'll tell you my story. When I was a kid, my best friend was a boy and he was my first love. I loved him and I still do but we were only kids and it was never a serious relationship. Two years ago, when I was in my puberty, I've met a girl on facebook. We started to talk a...
    1brokenwing 1brokenwing 18-21 1 Response Aug 5, 2014

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    RainbowGamerSally RainbowGamerSally 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 15, 2014

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    Or Maybe I Have No Clue

    I didn't realise how much I was attracted to woman until recently. It was when I developed major feelings for one of my friends. Now I can't get her out of my mind. It's driving me crazy to be near her and know that I can't touch her. But enough of this crazy passion I feel...
    fadingvioletdawn fadingvioletdawn 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 23, 2011

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    I have always dated men

    and women but not as much as men. I always go back to women and when I watch **** it's not the man that turns me on, it's the woman. I've only gone as far as making out and talking dirty with women, I've been curious about having sex with a woman but I would never do it without...
    badluck3imi badluck3imi 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    I feel like even tho I don't consider myself

    gay I am still in love with my bestfriend who's a girl and I feel like I can't ask any of my friends for advice because they will think I am gay and judge me or tell her about it. I feel stuck with my emotions stuck inside and some days like today are just hard to lie about it...
    CollegeStudent22 CollegeStudent22 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 8, 2014

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    Confuseedddd

    Okkky so im not realli suppse to like the member of the same sex because ihts not right, right? but hw cme when i see a grl i thnk shes sooo pretty nd i thnk she shld b wth me...in my life ths isnt exceptable buht deep down ths is hw i feel
    MariRomance MariRomance 16-17, F Sep 26, 2011

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    I am still really unsure about my sexuality,

    thought about what itd be like to be with a guy or just to do things with one. I've had actually 2 experiences since all this started but even after 2 times I'm always so nervous, scared, and feeling like it really weird to want to do that. But I may be meeting up with someone...
    WackedWasp WackedWasp 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 11

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