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I Am Unsure About My Sexuality

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    *sigh* - Note that I'm 15. Look. I went to a christian school and till I was 14, I thought I was straight. I actually don't know till know. My parents are open about it and aren't...
    Sulferia Sulferia 13-15 1 Response Sep 27, 2011

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    Rumour Has It? - In my last story I said about me kissing a girl, then it got all confusing.... Well, the girl I kissed, had told her friend and her friend then went and told her...
    Inmyownworld99 Inmyownworld99 13-15, F Dec 30, 2012

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    Confused? - I am a 17 year old male totally confused on my sexuality. I feel like I have been becoming less and less attracted to girls and more to guys. My family is homophobic...
    ajl04 ajl04 16-17, M 4 Responses Sep 6, 2013

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    Better Late Than Never - I am 62 years old and I have been married 3 times.  I married at 19 the first time (1969) because I didn't have a clue what I was supposed to do when I...
    BlumaZ BlumaZ 61-65 1 Response Apr 1, 2012

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    I'm Confused...sometimes Proud, Sometimes Ashamed. - So basically I never even thought about my sexuality growing up. I just had boyfriends. I made out with my best girl friend in...
    xlilblonde4lifex xlilblonde4lifex 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 16, 2011

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    I'm Just Going To Say - That I like girls.I'm attracted to women.They just draw my attention, more than they ever have before.Maybe it's because my curiosity changed from that to...
    WiltingBlossom WiltingBlossom 18-21, F 13 Responses Jun 23, 2011

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    I think that I'm bi because I do like the way girl'a bodies look. But only certain girls turn me on. I don't know if it's just because I have a very specific type or if I'm not...
    meganayyye21 meganayyye21 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I Just Want To Understand Who I Am And What I Want.... - I'm a 25 year old woman and completely confused by my sexuality.. I just want to understand who I am and know what I want...
    englishstar englishstar 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 26, 2012

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    I Don't Know What To Think - I've always been a traditional, straight girl. I've always had crushes on celebrity guys or guys on campus with my friends, but lately I notice more...
    xXJadedGloryXx xXJadedGloryXx 18-21 1 Response Nov 14, 2012

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    Unsure - I'm somewhat unsure about my sexuality. I'm a Christian and have been reminded how "supposedly" homosexuals go to hell. And I don't understand how. God is merciful how...
    Holyspirit3in1 Holyspirit3in1 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 15, 2012

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    Can Just One Person Change Your Sexuality? - I really don't know what to make of it; i've never fallen in love with a girl before, i have never felt this strongly for a girl before...
    shezzypants shezzypants 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    I say I'm straight, but i always get these feelings for girls. Im currently in a relationship with a male. I had a drunken night with a friend way back she stayed over.. Ended up...
    Ohxoxo Ohxoxo 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    I identify as straight because i have only dated guys and I am defiantly attracted to guys but I also find myself super attracted to girls. But all the girls in attracted to are...
    BrittneyJean15 BrittneyJean15 16-17, F Mar 17

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    Confused About My Sexuality - I always know i am attracting to woman instead of boy ever since i was very young. When girls my age were thinking about boys, i think about older...
    iloveyoukoala iloveyoukoala 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 2, 2010

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    I've Always Felt Attracted To Both - All my life I've had crushes on boys. Without a doubt, I know I like boys. I'm not a lesbian. But I just might no be completely straight...
    iCANbeAsweetheartIFiTRY iCANbeAsweetheartIFiTRY 13-15, F 1 Response May 12, 2012

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    I have always refused to label myself as anything but had only been with guys aside from one experiment but lately I've been thinking more and more about girls. And it doesn't feel...
    zoee9633 zoee9633 18-21, F Apr 4

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    I am attracted to guys. Like, some guys are just so cute (Jensen Ackles ayyyy). But I also think girls are cute or hot. Like, I'm not sure if I'd say I'm attracted to them like I...
    RussianRupees RussianRupees 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    Confused.... - ok so ive always though i was straight and most of the time i think i am....i mean whenever i think about being married or in a serious relationship i always think...
    dancergirl101 dancergirl101 18-21, F Feb 8, 2012

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    I Guess I'm Just Very Insecure - I only recently signed up on EP. Main reason being the stories I read, I felt like it'd be a good way to get things out and maybe clear some stuff...
    Jackie33 Jackie33 16-17 1 Response Feb 2, 2012

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    idk what i am and i don’t wanna stress about it or label it. i like who i like. thats all there is to it.
    Alicolette Alicolette 13-15, F Feb 28

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    I think I'm "demisexual" - Defined as feeling absolutely no sexual attraction to a person prior to knowing them. That's how I feel most of the time. The only exception...
    Mdear Mdear 18-21, F 3 Responses May 10, 2013

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    Or Maybe I Have No Clue - I didn't realise how much I was attracted to woman until recently. It was when I developed major feelings for one of my friends. Now I can't get her out...
    fadingvioletdawn fadingvioletdawn 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 23, 2011

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    In A Way - In a way I am unsure about my sexuality. I have always been very attracted to females, even during childhood. But I'm also attracted to males occasionally. It's not the...
    ItchyWitch82 ItchyWitch82 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 2, 2010

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    I'm Confused To The Point Of Tears. - I always knew there was something different about me, but being cyclothymic, I kind of assumed it was that. I'd always liked guys, and though...
    mysterygirl13 mysterygirl13 18-21 5 Responses Feb 23, 2012

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    Unsure Of My Sexuality. - Okay so I'm going through a bunch right now and my therapist wants me to discover my sexuality. I claim to be a bi male, but he isn't sure. I have...
    sifer2 sifer2 26-30 Aug 18, 2012

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    For a majority of my life my peers have always assumed I was gay. I was called gay before I really understood the meaning behind the word. I was the "gay kid/***" from elementary...
    20Somethin 20Somethin 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 7

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    I am in a rut i admit that. I was happy enough up to 20 years old , I was a normal boy i didn't go to university which socially maybe was bad for me. I got a job in a male...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M Dec 14, 2013

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    People Keep Calling Me Out - So me and my best friend are pretty close and have never done anything gay with each other but people keep calling us out on stuff. Like we walked away...
    CollegeStudent22 CollegeStudent22 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2013

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    Am I Bi? - I have always been attracted to men, but from the age of 14 i have always found women on the internet attractive and i dream about being with a women sexually however i...
    littlegirl111 littlegirl111 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 23, 2013

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    I don't know what to do. I have never been sure about my sexuality and I have been experimenting with both sexes. I am currently in a relationship with a male and even though it...
    x5m45h1ngx x5m45h1ngx 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 2

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    Confused - Ever since childhood, I have been attracted to girls, I even had a major crush on one girl in my seventh grade class. But I don't know whether this is because my mum's a...
    GkateC GkateC 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 14, 2010

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    Please Help Me - At age 12 I started having sexual thoughts towards women. I really wanted to have sex with women. Then I thought about gay sex. It intruiged me so much. Next thing...
    aadv aadv 13-15, M 2 Responses Jun 8, 2013

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    Truly it doesn't matter, because if someone comes along that I want to be with, then I'll try to be with them, male or female. But, I suppose knowing if I'm "gay" or "bi" would...
    blindmelonade blindmelonade 18-21 Dec 30, 2013

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    Confused!?!? - I am 14. I think I am bi, but when i think about it I can't stand that it even crosses my mind to have gay sex. I mean, I'm against gay marriage, and like i said i...
    surf22658 surf22658 13-15 2 Responses Aug 10, 2012

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    I Know Im Not Gay Or Bi, But!! - its just that i have never ever had the confidence to talk to women, even though i have always liked them, and always wanted to be involved with...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 7 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    I am a female and I seek a relationship with a guy but I'm head over heels for one of my friends that happens to be a girl! We have kissed and made out and done things that's...
    Aboswell Aboswell 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 3

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    Loyalty Vs Secrecy ? - So i'm a normal 19 year old guy with a girlfriend (20), we've only been a couple for a few months now and so far we are really happy together. the thing is...
    Earlythrob Earlythrob 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 9, 2013

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    I'm Not Sure If I'm Straight Or Bi - I'm not sure if I'm straight or bi. I know I'm attracted to guys. But I find girls pretty or hot. I know this is kinda perveted but I'm...
    roserowan12 roserowan12 13-15 6 Responses Sep 25, 2011

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    So frustrated- I used to love ****! Loved the look, and couldn't wait to loose my virginity then I realized I was bi, then I soon after realized I was a lesbian, a closet lesbian...
    Bingabang Bingabang 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    I used to be really close to two of my friends last year, and I could tell them everything. I told one of them that I was lesbian and she completely accepted me for who I was. But...
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    I want to dress like a boy (i do when no one is home) some times or a girl. I find boys and girls physically attractive. But not sexuality. I have zero clue to what my...
    Mybiscuits Mybiscuits 16-17, F Apr 2

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    I've finally gotten over it; in recent months I've been on EP a lot, and was coping with my sexuality. It's all I was thinking about for months. Now it's in the back of my mind...
    sturmgewher44 sturmgewher44 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    i am very open with my sexuality. i love talking about sex and sharing experiences and experimenting with new things
    bongripper1 bongripper1 18-21, F 12 Responses Apr 2

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    I can not stand cold iron, My skin turns red, and starts to peal. I can not stand the sun, its too warm and gives me headaches. Yet I can not stand the full moon, its to bright in...
    Silversyn Silversyn 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I am comfortable in my own skin being a gay guy that likes other guys that are gay. If you have a problem then maybe your questioning your sexuality and a bit uncomfortable xx
    JRyanNYC JRyanNYC 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 24

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    I'm only 16, so now would be a good time to explore myself. I have feelings for both guys and girls, but never anything serious. I want to say I'm straight, but I'm a dash on the...
    fallingintowonderrland fallingintowonderrland 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I could be in a relationship with either boy or a girl. I find their face attractive But I find neither of them sexuality attractive
    Mybiscuits Mybiscuits 16-17, F Apr 2

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    I definitely agree our legislatures have created to many rules around sexuality. I have an open marriage and just love it that way.
    birthdaypartyforme birthdaypartyforme 41-45, F 7 Responses Apr 2

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    Since accepting my sexuality a few years ago i have been at my happiest. The feeling for acceptance from myself and my siblings is awesome! Knowing they support me on my journey is...
    essjay26 essjay26 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 7