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I Am Unsure About My Sexuality

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    I've dated a couple of boys

    but I've never dated a girl. I know I'm attracted to girls though too though. I'm confused:/
    JusttThatGirl JusttThatGirl 16-17, F 5 Responses May 31

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    I think that I'm bi because I do like the way

    girl'a bodies look. But only certain girls turn me on. I don't know if it's just because I have a very specific type or if I'm not sure that I'm bi. Now I don't need you people telling me that I'm asking for attention because I'm not. I'm just not sure if I'm really bi or not.
    meganayyye21 meganayyye21 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 15

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    Confused....

    ok so ive always though i was straight and most of the time i think i am....i mean whenever i think about being married or in a serious relationship i always think about guys but (im into acting) and a lot of times i think about being with girls in a play or doing more...intimate...
    dancergirl101 dancergirl101 18-21, F Feb 8, 2012

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    It's not that I'm unsure,

    but I'm rethinking my sexuality. You see, I claimed to be "asexual" but I think it made me seem...oh I don't know...arrogant? But now I know a little better as I mature. I am now setting my sexuality as Straight* but with an asterisk (*) because I'm not interested in dating...
    SimplyZero SimplyZero 13-15, F 1 Response May 21

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    I really DON'T know what I am.

    . So, I'll tell you my story. When I was a kid, my best friend was a boy and he was my first love. I loved him and I still do but we were only kids and it was never a serious relationship. Two years ago, when I was in my puberty, I've met a girl on facebook. We started to talk a...
    1brokenwing 1brokenwing 16-17 1 Response Aug 5

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    I'm Confused...sometimes Proud, Sometimes Ashamed.

    So basically I never even thought about my sexuality growing up. I just had boyfriends. I made out with my best girl friend in highschool but I figured it was just for fun I guess. I never really thought about it. I knew she was bisexual but I was into guys and never thought...
    xlilblonde4lifex xlilblonde4lifex 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 16, 2011

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    I always found myself into guys

    and I was always raised that way. My first anything was a guy when I was 15, we dated for 4 years. But before that I kinda had a little crush on my best friend, and I wasn't sure why. I knew this was wrong and I didn't try anything at all. The next time I felt this way was with...
    CollegeStudent22 CollegeStudent22 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    RainbowGamerSally RainbowGamerSally 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 15

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    I'm more sexually attracted to women

    but I want to be with a man. I don't think I could be in love with a woman but I can't get off on a man. I think men are attractive but the thought of sex with a man does nothing for me.
    MeowSaidTheCat MeowSaidTheCat 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    Unsure

    I'm somewhat unsure about my sexuality. I'm a Christian and have been reminded how "supposedly" homosexuals go to hell. And I don't understand how. God is merciful how could he punish someone for loving another human being. I think that is why I am the most unsure. I like guys...
    Holyspirit3in1 Holyspirit3in1 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 15, 2012

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    I identify as straight

    because i have only dated guys and I am defiantly attracted to guys but I also find myself super attracted to girls. But all the girls in attracted to are celebrities. I would also kiss a girl just to try it. I like to believe that's the rebel side of me but I would never go the...
    icecoldqueen613 icecoldqueen613 16-17, F Mar 17

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    I though I was lesbian

    but recently for the first time in my life I felt attracted to a picture of a guy but if always liked girls so idk
    Maddya Maddya 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 19

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    RainbowGamerSally RainbowGamerSally 13-15, F Sep 18

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    Why can't the world be accepting?

    I really want to know.
    everdeathstar everdeathstar 13-15, M 4 Responses Apr 16

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    I am only physically attracted to females.

    I cannot see myself spending the rest of my life with one, but I am very turned on by a girls "parts". However, I really like guys emotionally. I think they're very attractive emotionally and I can see myself being with one. However, I do not find guys "hot" or "sexy". The most...
    niamcmillan niamcmillan 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I'm Just Going To Say

    That I like girls.I'm attracted to women.They just draw my attention, more than they ever have before.Maybe it's because my curiosity changed from that to developing a personal interest in a girl, but still.What is confusing me is that now that all of this has come to the clear,I...
    WiltingBlossom WiltingBlossom 18-21, F 13 Responses Jun 23, 2011

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    I don't just give a f••k anymore.

    First person who gets in my bed wins. That's it, folks, no more **** about: "Who do you f••k, yo?" "I don't know! I don't care! Next overly intelligent, vital question!"
    RickMason RickMason 16-17, M Aug 15

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    Currently I'm identifying

    as bisexual, I've only had one serious long term relationship which was with a woman but I've casually dated men also, but I'm starting to think I might be a lesbian. I just can't connect on the same level with men as I can with a woman and sex with a woman is so much more...
    alice94 alice94 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 2

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    I've Never Really Felt attracted to guys,

    I'm mean I've had boyfriends before and I've had Girlfriends.I always find myself looking at girls Boobs though.But Guys Like Jeffree Star,Andy Biersack and Ashley Purdy I Find Good Looking.My Friends Tell Me I'm Asexual But I'm Still Unsure.
    Soulless666 Soulless666 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 22

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    My situation is getting more real by the day.

    I'm in love with my best friend and I'm pretty sure she has a good idea how I feel. I think it's just freaking her out. The other day we went to a concert that I paid for her to go to and she left our group and told my friend she thinks I'm obsessed with her : idk what I should...
    CollegeStudent22 CollegeStudent22 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    first I thought I was gay then a girl I met

    grabbed my heart and ran away eith it so then I was confused like watt
    merlinquest4853 merlinquest4853 22-25, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    So frustrated- I used to love ****!

    Loved the look, and couldn't wait to loose my virginity then I realized I was bi, then I soon after realized I was a lesbian, a closet lesbian that is. I carried on flirting with guys so no one would expect anything. Then I met this one guy, my current boyfriend (so I guess I'm...
    Bingabang Bingabang 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    I don't know what to do.

    I'm dating this boy, I love him, a lot. But I'm so god damn attracted to girls. I'm in love with this one beautiful girl I know and I think she likes me back, I just want advice on how to figure it out, ya know? Anyone? Please.
    sanguinekid sanguinekid 13-15, F 1 Response May 17

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    I've identified as gay

    for more than 5 years now. I know for a fact that I am not straight, and am very confident in my liking for other men. I've already had sexual experiences with other men and I enjoyed it very much, along with my relationships with them, but recently I've come to a cross-roads...
    TheLonleyMoriartus TheLonleyMoriartus 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 3

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    I've always been attracted to guys I find them

    attractive but lately I've just been attracted to girls today in class we played truth or dare my friend essence dared me to kiss her I did it was French and I've been sort of in to her can someone give me any advice
    jereseydiamond jereseydiamond 13-15, F 2 Responses May 1

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    I am very confused about my sexuality.

    I always been attracted to guys ever since I can remember and I always thought that I would be straight my whole life. When I was young I never heard of being gay, bi or lesbians before and I never seen or known what it meant so I just grew up thinking and knowing that that's...
    Ki123 Ki123 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 25

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    For a majority of my life my peers have always

    assumed I was gay. I was called gay before I really understood the meaning behind the word. I was the "gay kid/***" from elementary-the day I graduated. But I've only just recently considered the possibility that I, in fact, may be gay. Am I attracted to the male body? Yes...
    20Somethin 20Somethin 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 7

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    I'm Confused To The Point Of Tears.

    I always knew there was something different about me, but being cyclothymic, I kind of assumed it was that. I'd always liked guys, and though I admired my girl friends, I never really knew what being gay was. The first time it really occurred to me,I was in seventh grade, 12. I...
    mysterygirl13 mysterygirl13 18-21 5 Responses Feb 23, 2012

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    Unsure

    Well I have a girlfriend at the moment but I can't help but have that thought in the back of my mind that maybe I like men but the thing is I don't know if I'm tricking myself to infact be attracted to men. My mind is a pretty undecided about things and I seem to think stuff that...
    mysteryturtle mysteryturtle 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 21, 2012

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    Okay so first off I'm a 16 years old female

    brought up with very open minded views in everything and my family is pretty chill. Okay so there's that. Well I'm the girl that was stuck on one guy for about 10 years and never was interested in Anyone else for a while until he moved. I'm weird and get attached really easy but...
    ExoticIsntMe ExoticIsntMe 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 16

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    Or Maybe I Have No Clue

    I didn't realise how much I was attracted to woman until recently. It was when I developed major feelings for one of my friends. Now I can't get her out of my mind. It's driving me crazy to be near her and know that I can't touch her. But enough of this crazy passion I feel...
    fadingvioletdawn fadingvioletdawn 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 23, 2011

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    Truly it doesn't matter,

    because if someone comes along that I want to be with, then I'll try to be with them, male or female. But, I suppose knowing if I'm "gay" or "bi" would help me understand myself better. I remember in middle school, I was discovering these things online. I decided and told my...
    blindmelonade blindmelonade 18-21 1 Response Dec 30, 2013

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    I think I'm "demisexual"

    Defined as feeling absolutely no sexual attraction to a person prior to knowing them. That's how I feel most of the time. The only exception seems to be when someone has a characteristic that reminds me of a person that I already knew. Like really defined shoulders. Other than...
    Mdear Mdear 18-21, F 3 Responses May 10, 2013

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    Ok, I am a young teen girl

    that is confused with my sexuality. I know I shouldn't be stressed over such a silly thing because I'm only young, but I would rather find out if I'm gay, bi or straight to stop me stressing and get on with my life knowing who I am. Recently, I have been thinking about what it...
    bewildyoungandfree bewildyoungandfree 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 1

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    As I've never had a relationship in my life

    so far I'm quite confused about my sexuality. I did date several guys but I never attempted to meet any girls as I didn't feel right about it. Maybe I also was a bit judgy about the whole topic as it is hard to find approval in a society which is almost constantly judging...
    MrsUnsure MrsUnsure 22-25, F 1 Response May 31

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    Confused!?!?

    I am 14. I think I am bi, but when i think about it I can't stand that it even crosses my mind to have gay sex. I mean, I'm against gay marriage, and like i said i cant stand being gay. But at other times, it feels so right. There is a kid i know and he is my bestfriend, and...
    surf22658 surf22658 13-15 2 Responses Aug 10, 2012

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    For me, the doubt comes more from people's

    perspective of me, not my perspective of myself. I like guys and gals, but I don't wanna come out as bi or pan because of the stigma with the label, and the chance that I could be wrong. Also, I'm kind of label-phobic. I'd rather just say "opensexual" lol.
    17andifeelso 17andifeelso 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 5

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    I say I'm straight, but i always get these

    feelings for girls. Im currently in a relationship with a male. I had a drunken night with a friend way back she stayed over.. Ended up making out. Found it pretty attractive. Still do even when I'm sober. What do??
    Ohxoxo Ohxoxo 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    I wanna try things with girls.

    If you live in the south, message me, maybe we live close. Any age.
    Beccaslife Beccaslife 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 26

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    *sigh*

    Note that I'm 15. Look. I went to a christian school and till I was 14, I thought I was straight. I actually don't know till know. My parents are open about it and aren't really christian, but I knew that being gay was wrong. Sure, I had crushes (boy) and stuff, but then I came...
    Sulferia Sulferia 13-15 1 Response Sep 27, 2011

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    The fact there are others in this group is a

    little comforting. I know your sexuality doesn't define you, but I'd rather know.
    Ri95 Ri95 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 24

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    I feel like even tho I don't consider myself

    gay I am still in love with my bestfriend who's a girl and I feel like I can't ask any of my friends for advice because they will think I am gay and judge me or tell her about it. I feel stuck with my emotions stuck inside and some days like today are just hard to lie about it...
    CollegeStudent22 CollegeStudent22 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    Can Just One Person Change Your Sexuality?

    I really don't know what to make of it; i've never fallen in love with a girl before, i have never felt this strongly for a girl before, yet all i do is think about her and just wish she was with me ( i recently moved away). She's no help when talking to about the matter because...
    shezzypants shezzypants 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 3, 2010

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    I Just Want To Understand Who I Am And What I Want....

    I'm a 25 year old woman and completely confused by my sexuality.. I just want to understand who I am and know what I want. When I was younger I was in a relationship with a guy for a year and a half on and off, he treated me like ****, cheated on me and controlled me... yet I...
    englishstar englishstar 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 26, 2012

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    Lately I've been having feelings

    for one of my best friends. She's really pretty and an awesome person and (except when she's in a bad mood) a joy to be around. This is the first time I've ever felt that way about a girl, or anyone to be completely honest. I haven't had previous experience with feelings like...
    athena1227 athena1227 13-15, F Jun 2

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    I am a female and I seek a relationship with a

    guy but I'm head over heels for one of my friends that happens to be a girl! We have kissed and made out and done things that's friends wouldn't do. But yet we don't call ourselves anything but friends. I've only been attracted to 3 girls my whole life but the one I like right...
    Aboswell Aboswell 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 3

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    I have no idea what I am now,

    growing up through life identifying as straight, had three girls I like, two of them was a "meant to be" relationship, more like a friendship tbh, cause I just couldn't go further than that, and I was a bit upset when the relationship ended, but that was me just a bit upset at...
    pascal2012 pascal2012 18-21, M Jul 10

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    I'm thinking I might be panesexual,

    though there's never been a girl I've had a crush on. I have imagined a couple of girls that I'm interested in, but does my imaginations sexuality count for mine to? I would definetly be panesexual over bisexual, as I really never care about anything but personality.
    Bracelets Bracelets 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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