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I Am Unsure of My Relationship

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    The Stars Were Diamonds In The Sky

    It has been one year, one month, and some days since he officially asked me to be his girlfriend. He had been dumped 3 months before by this chick he dated for almost 4 years... and had a baby with. Well, she was the one that left him, AND she left him to raise their daughter for...
    breathethestars breathethestars 18-21, F Jul 15, 2011

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    Guy Troubles

    I'm 21 and I have been sleeping with this 26 year-old for about a month now. We are not dating but we are not **** buddy's. We talked about what we were in the beginning I told him I don't just sleep around and he told me the same. He has 2 kids and he introduced me to them...
    Stoffi18 Stoffi18 22-25, F Jul 1, 2013

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    My Skepticism

    It has been about a week since I started dating this boy. He is super sweet but I am a bit skeptical of this relationship. I do like him but I still have strong feelings for someone else. I feel terrible that I can not make myself like him as much as he likes me. I am really...
    LittleMsGreenEyes LittleMsGreenEyes 16-17, F May 31, 2013

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    In Love But Confused..

    I would really really love some advise on my situation...... I have been with my partner for 5 years, and there is no lack of love or attraction or anything. I love him with all my heart, but recently I met someone through a friend and have developed a crush... I have not even...
    secretwisdom secretwisdom 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2011

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    Continue Or Not...?

    I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and we are very happy. The problem is, lately I've been feeling unsure of whether I want to settle with him or not. We were looking to be moving in together but I'm now feeling like this might not be a good idea. Although we...
    ell5 ell5 22-25 2 Responses Apr 12, 2009

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    I Just Don't Know Anymore

    I have been dating my fiancee for 8 months now, we were so in love and we got engaged after 6 months. Ever since we got engaged, we have been different, She is moody and nothing I do seems good enough anymore. I can't have a conversation with her for longer than an hour before...
    studdaddi studdaddi 22-25, F Jan 20, 2012

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    He Loves Me!!!

    ok well as i have said before i am unsure of my relationship. well i am not unsure about him.. it's his son i'm unsure of. well first of all my boyfriend confessed to me on new years that he loves me and has loved me!! it was the most romantic moment i have ever had in my entire...
    babyme04 babyme04 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 5, 2009

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    Its Over

    So not long ago I shared my thoughts and feelings about my relationship. Now I am here to update that. I am no longer engaged, and no longer with this guy. Although it was the longest running relationship, it was also the most  trying... its almost like we never connected...
    BeautifulNightmare BeautifulNightmare 22-25, F Jun 5, 2008

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    So Confused...

    I am engaged, though no date has been set. I have been with this guy off and on for almost three years. I havent ever really had much luck in relationships, and this is not the first time I have been engaged... This is however the longest running relationship... But I think I...
    BeautifulNightmare BeautifulNightmare 22-25, F 1 Response May 4, 2008

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    My Unsure Relationship

    I am dating a girl who shows little or no affection but has proclaimed her love for me. We have been seeing each other for about 2 years now but she rarely kisses/hugs me and anything past that generally has to be asked for at the right time and even then she seems emotionally...
    OnlyInDreams OnlyInDreams 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 8, 2008

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    If This Is Love, Why Me?

      I have never felt for anyone the way I do with my "girlfriend". It seems as though she makes me smile just to bring me to tears. She is all of the reasons that i have heard so many stories of heart break. Right now, i am not sure that i can say i'm in love but...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 3, 2007

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    What Other People Say About Us

    I am 22 and have been in a relationship with a man of 29 for 8 months. I have been very happy thus far and we get along great and I love him a lot, with that friendship feeling as well as the passionate feelings. He is kind, sweet, thoughtful, and our personalities are almost...
    Kelideghalbet Kelideghalbet 18-21, F Jul 1, 2013

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    My Psycho Girlfriend

    So I finally get to date a girl...and she's ******* psycho. She yells at me for no reason, makes me feel everything is my fault,and then when I get all hurt she says I'm over reacting and being dramatic...THIS is definitely not all I thought it cracked up to be. And the sad thing...
    minnieadams minnieadams 26-30, F Feb 23, 2013

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    My Unsure Relationship

    I am dating a girl who shows little or no affection but has proclaimed her love for me. We have been seeing each other for about 2 years now but she rarely kisses/hugs me and anything past that generally has to be asked for at the right time and even then she seems emotionally...
    OnlyInDreams OnlyInDreams 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 8, 2008

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    To Love Or Not to Love?

    i'm currently with my boyfriend of almost a year.. he is the greates guy i have ever met and i'm falling in love with him but haven't proclaimed it yet or maybe never will... why will i never proclaim it? well because i'm unsure if we will last at all.. the reaso why is...
    babyme04 babyme04 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2008

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    Confusing Crush

    So, I just needed to vent my frustration & confusionĀ over my current situation... I broke it off with my former fiancee a few weeks ago. I was halfway out of love with him anyway, so I got over that part pretty quickly, though I know I'm not up for a real relationship again for...
    firefly128 firefly128 26-30, F Jun 22, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I really DON'T know what I am.. So, I'll tell you my story. When I was a kid, my best friend was a boy and he was my first love. I loved him and I still do but we were only kids...
    1brokenwing 1brokenwing 16-17 1 Response Aug 5

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    [Story from A Lesbi Couple] My partner has been experiencing relationship ocd ever since we have been together 2 and a half months back. it has been a pretty rough journey for the...
    eileenlingyl eileenlingyl 22-25, F Aug 22

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    Ive been in a relationship with a guy for 3 months. We met online a year ago, but didn't start properly talking until about 5 months ago. I always scoffed at people who said that...
    jessiejp jessiejp 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    I have known this guy Bryan for about half my life. We dated at one point and ended on good terms. Last year we had got back in touch and he has told me he loves me. He wants to...
    tig1991 tig1991 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    I am currently married and unsure if I am in an abusive relationship or if I am just difficult to deal with. My husband has never hit me, but the things that he says to me and...
    Gonzales96 Gonzales96 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 16

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    To all of you guys who are sending me dirty messages, inappropriate questions, and are trying to date me: I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP. I'm looking for friends, that's it...
    shyturtleflies shyturtleflies 13-15, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I've been in a relationship for about six months now. I honestly believe he doesn't care about me at all, though all of his friends swear otherwise. I really do like him but I feel...
    blueoracle blueoracle 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Hello my friends! I'm confused about my sexuality. I realized I was becoming attracted to other guys when I was in sixth grade. Junior High was very hard for me because I was very...
    SolDol SolDol 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 23

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    I can tell you a lot about long distance relationships. They ARE hard. They CAN work, but MOST of the time, they don't. There is a big difference between being in a long distance...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 2 Responses Aug 2

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    I don't know what to do about loving and really hating my boyfriend at the same time. We are both very impulsive people who often rush into things but don't do anything half...
    UsuallyHappii UsuallyHappii 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    I read this in the elite daily's post. Somehow I really believe that long distance relationship is a chance to be on your own without ever having to feel alone. As in long...
    EasyOrange EasyOrange 18-21, F Aug 21

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    Why would a woman want a female led relationship you might ask. The answer is, she's more comfortable being the one in the lead role. Having control and order in her relationship...
    deeken deeken 36-40 1 Response Aug 18

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    This is my first ever relationship. I'm 17 soon to turn 18. Prior to this relationship I had always been single and wanted to be loved. I had no confidence whatsoever; I didn't...
    fluffyunicorn fluffyunicorn 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    Not that I have ever been in a relationship but I really consider online relationships to be a fail. I don't believe in online relationships when the person you thought was this...
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Me and my girlfriend, who I have been dating for over six months, are in an interracial relationship. She is Lebanese-Canadian, and I am a white Canadian. I love her to death! She...
    nohopekid nohopekid 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 10

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    3 days after being in a relationship I found out that my boyfriend was moving away and in that week he did. We are about to be at 10 months and this relationship has been quite...
    catnat10 catnat10 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I've been single for the past few years. At first, I told myself I was choosing to be single--to learn more about myself. However, after trying to date and failing to get even...
    unfilteredme unfilteredme 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 3

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    when i first found ep it was amazing, met a lot of people. i had an online relationship with a person i found here and it was amazing. Felt weird because the relationships i had...
    kragoth135 kragoth135 18-21, M Aug 5

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    I just got out of a terrible and torturous relationship recently and I decided to jump straight into another relationship (so stupid, I know). This new guy seemed to have so much...
    mistakeoverload mistakeoverload 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    but its going down hill and i dont know if i care anymore. I like long term relationships. This is my second one. And its been about the same time for both.. but i've never really...
    fallenfar fallenfar 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I have an online boyfriend we've been for a year already, we never met yet in real. as we all experience, relationships has its ups and downs. we broke up and went quickly to...
    UOLAUC UOLAUC 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I used to be in a long distance online relationship with this guy who was from Sweden. He was honestly the first guy that I ever really fell in love with. Our relationship was so...
    thintrovert thintrovert 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Recently my bf and I have had problems in our relationship. I don't believe he is a strong person who can stand up for himself. His parents are having issues with our relationship...
    AmoyL AmoyL 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 1

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    My wife recently returned home from a trip where she had a chance to speak to her aunt. During her trip, her aunt warned her that men who don't work can become petty. My wife...
    deeken deeken 36-40 1 Response Aug 1

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    Do guys care if the girl is "inexperienced" per se in relationships. It's not like I'm dumb about things, I've just never had a serious relationship before. Is it a turn off for...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 2

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    Almost three years ago, I remember my faith in long distance relationships was fading away. Experience showed me that behind those people I thought I knew and cared about were...
    SquareOne1 SquareOne1 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I'm in a long distance relationship. We see each other once in a month or two for a few days. He always comes to my place because I'm in collegue and don't have the time or money...
    Naginii Naginii 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    Nope never been in a relationship. It doesn't bother me at all because my priorities has always been academics and my friends and family. I need to work hard for myself first and...
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F 16 Responses Aug 12

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    My feelings are a bit hurt. My boyfriend of almost 2 years will not move out of state with me. All he has in this state is his mom (who he does not have a good relationship with...
    kbeary kbeary 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    Finally got out of the stupid relationship!!!! Just so glad but... Not everything is all peachy, even thought I'm moving on 100% my Ex on the other hand just doesn't know to let it...
    ashleyloveca16 ashleyloveca16 13-15, F Aug 14

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    I have thought about posting my story but often chicken out maybe out if fear and selfishness, but if anything I say could help another woman that is what I need and want to do...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I've been in a long distance relationship for 6 months now, we've been talking for 7. We've never met, we started talking through twitter, and I'm in Wisconsin and he's in Texas. I...
    savannahsays savannahsays 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 17