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I Am Unsure of My Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 117 People

    Confusing Crush

    So, I just needed to vent my frustration & confusion over my current situation... I broke it off with my former fiancee a few weeks ago. I was halfway out of love with him anyway, so I got over that part pretty quickly, though I know I'm not up for a real relationship again for...
    firefly128 firefly128 26-30, F Jun 22, 2011

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    I am new here & looking

    for someone I can relate to on a personal level that has gone through something similar. I am 25 years old and I have been in a relationship for 5 years now. Right around my 21st birthday, I found out I was pregnant (my bf is my son's father) and I now have an almost 4 year old...
    gretch024 gretch024 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 8, 2014

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    Guy Troubles

    I'm 21 and I have been sleeping with this 26 year-old for about a month now. We are not dating but we are not **** buddy's. We talked about what we were in the beginning I told him I don't just sleep around and he told me the same. He has 2 kids and he introduced me to them...
    Stoffi18 Stoffi18 22-25, F Jul 1, 2013

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    My Skepticism

    It has been about a week since I started dating this boy. He is super sweet but I am a bit skeptical of this relationship. I do like him but I still have strong feelings for someone else. I feel terrible that I can not make myself like him as much as he likes me. I am really...
    LittleMsGreenEyes LittleMsGreenEyes 16-17, F May 31, 2013

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    What Other People Say About Us

    I am 22 and have been in a relationship with a man of 29 for 8 months. I have been very happy thus far and we get along great and I love him a lot, with that friendship feeling as well as the passionate feelings. He is kind, sweet, thoughtful, and our personalities are almost...
    Kelideghalbet Kelideghalbet 18-21, F Jul 1, 2013

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    Its Over

    So not long ago I shared my thoughts and feelings about my relationship. Now I am here to update that. I am no longer engaged, and no longer with this guy. Although it was the longest running relationship, it was also the most  trying... its almost like we never connected...
    BeautifulNightmare BeautifulNightmare 22-25, F Jun 5, 2008

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    He Loves Me!!!

    ok well as i have said before i am unsure of my relationship. well i am not unsure about him.. it's his son i'm unsure of. well first of all my boyfriend confessed to me on new years that he loves me and has loved me!! it was the most romantic moment i have ever had in my entire...
    babyme04 babyme04 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 5, 2009

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    Continue Or Not...?

    I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and we are very happy. The problem is, lately I've been feeling unsure of whether I want to settle with him or not. We were looking to be moving in together but I'm now feeling like this might not be a good idea. Although we...
    ell5 ell5 22-25 2 Responses Apr 12, 2009

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    Honestly I'm about ready to call it quits.

    .. I've been living with my boyfriend for almost a year and ever since I've moved in I have regretted it. I moved in with him because I was afraid our relationship wouldn't make it due to other factors. Now I'm sick of the same things happening over & over again. I'm definitely...
    gilly92 gilly92 22-25, F 16 hrs ago

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    My Unsure Relationship

    I am dating a girl who shows little or no affection but has proclaimed her love for me. We have been seeing each other for about 2 years now but she rarely kisses/hugs me and anything past that generally has to be asked for at the right time and even then she seems emotionally...
    OnlyInDreams OnlyInDreams 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 8, 2008

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    The Stars Were Diamonds In The Sky

    It has been one year, one month, and some days since he officially asked me to be his girlfriend. He had been dumped 3 months before by this chick he dated for almost 4 years... and had a baby with. Well, she was the one that left him, AND she left him to raise their daughter for...
    breathethestars breathethestars 18-21, F Jul 15, 2011

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    To Love Or Not to Love?

    i'm currently with my boyfriend of almost a year.. he is the greates guy i have ever met and i'm falling in love with him but haven't proclaimed it yet or maybe never will... why will i never proclaim it? well because i'm unsure if we will last at all.. the reaso why is...
    babyme04 babyme04 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2008

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    I Just Don't Know Anymore

    I have been dating my fiancee for 8 months now, we were so in love and we got engaged after 6 months. Ever since we got engaged, we have been different, She is moody and nothing I do seems good enough anymore. I can't have a conversation with her for longer than an hour before...
    studdaddi studdaddi 22-25, F Jan 20, 2012

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    I love my wife more than words can express.

    But she is hurting me so. Though she is next to me she is a million miles away. Laying here in the darkness my heart screams for her touch. I long for the nights Id come home from work climb into bed and wrap my arms around her. The worst part she is going through something...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 4 hrs ago

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    My Unsure Relationship

    I am dating a girl who shows little or no affection but has proclaimed her love for me. We have been seeing each other for about 2 years now but she rarely kisses/hugs me and anything past that generally has to be asked for at the right time and even then she seems emotionally...
    OnlyInDreams OnlyInDreams 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 8, 2008

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    I ask myself why Im with my bf.

    I remember chatting with some people tfor hours never getting bored. But with this one, the convo falls flat, or im disinterested, or he seems bored too. So why are we together? I miss feeling that connection, being able to talk about anything. but with passion there was no...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F Feb 2

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    It's not technically a relationship,

    but it's more than a friendship. We've been talking since June, and I fell in love with him in September. We had our first kiss in October, and talked about sex in late December. We say I love you everyday, and I care for him more than I probably should. Yet, we've never called...
    Amusical135 Amusical135 13-15, F Feb 2

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    At the moment I'm feeling rough.

    I just dunno about things.
    XxLittleBrotherxX XxLittleBrotherxX 18-21, M 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    If This Is Love, Why Me?

      I have never felt for anyone the way I do with my "girlfriend". It seems as though she makes me smile just to bring me to tears. She is all of the reasons that i have heard so many stories of heart break. Right now, i am not sure that i can say i'm in love but...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 3, 2007

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    In Love But Confused..

    I would really really love some advise on my situation...... I have been with my partner for 5 years, and there is no lack of love or attraction or anything. I love him with all my heart, but recently I met someone through a friend and have developed a crush... I have not even...
    secretwisdom secretwisdom 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 4, 2011

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    So Confused...

    I am engaged, though no date has been set. I have been with this guy off and on for almost three years. I havent ever really had much luck in relationships, and this is not the first time I have been engaged... This is however the longest running relationship... But I think I...
    BeautifulNightmare BeautifulNightmare 22-25, F 1 Response May 4, 2008

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    My Psycho Girlfriend

    So I finally get to date a girl...and she's ******* psycho. She yells at me for no reason, makes me feel everything is my fault,and then when I get all hurt she says I'm over reacting and being dramatic...THIS is definitely not all I thought it cracked up to be. And the sad thing...
    minnieadams minnieadams 26-30, F Feb 23, 2013

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    My ex is afraid of relationships and being in love. He didn’t specifically tell me this when he broke up with me recently, but I know it’s true. I’m not sure if he ever loved...
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    This is a story about 2 best friends that became One. Love is agape, unconditional. Imagine 2 straight guys falling in love. That's what happened to us. At our first meeting we...
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    Well, to be honest, this isn't an experience. It's just hard to ask a question and get a good answer when you don't know the whole story. So this is a story, followed by a question...
    Anonymous3825 Anonymous3825 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    Hi there... I need some help from others that have gotten out of a narcissistic marriage, and have kids. Here's the rough sketch of my story: I was in relationship and married to...
    beesknees12 beesknees12 41-45, F 7 Responses Feb 16

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    I'm not scared of relationships... it's not the bond, but the people... it all depends on how sincere and committed you are...how much you put into building up a strong bond...how...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 6 Responses Feb 14

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    Relationships are truly wonderful. When two people are genuinely in love it's truly something. However, when relationships end it sucks. For my experience it was a matter of my...
    thenyunderdog thenyunderdog 26-30, M 3 Responses Feb 15

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    I am in a relationship with someone who treats me like a queen. We can talk for hours and hours, we have many similiar thoughts on politics, how to survive the Zombie Apocolypse...
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    He was my AP European history teacher sophomore year of high school. I immediately developed a crush on him. He was charming, funny, and I thought he was rather attractive as well...
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    How does your family deal with your relationship? I need advice on how to deal with my family. My mother, father, brother and sister all know about my relationship (we live...
    MerDerLoves MerDerLoves 22-25, F Feb 20

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    So I've been dating this guy for quite awhile and when I say awhile it has been over a year. Some say being in a long distant relationship sucks, but in all honesty it's what you...
    TomRob1 TomRob1 18-21, F Feb 21

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    This is what saddens me... The lack of real & authentic love between two people. "The Notebook" of love, the Marvin Gaye of love. You see, I've never experienced any kind of...
    NaomiSunandMoon NaomiSunandMoon 31-35, F Feb 22

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    I am worried that my relationship will turn out like my parent's. My parent's marriage is FAR from perfect. And only after 24 years of my life I've understood why. They did not...
    april0132 april0132 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 13

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    So I posted about this before but never full disclosure. I'm in a relationship with my moms boyfriend (he's 27, I'm 20 and she's 52). Horrible I know, but basically this "thing...
    mysteros mysteros 18-21, F Feb 16

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    Long distance relationships many think it's impossible and fake love. I'm just ganna tell all you people what matters to you in love body, face, or sex? It doesn't matter the...
    dreamychan dreamychan 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 23

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    my mom had a rough upbringing. rape, abuse, etc with about 13 other brothers and sisters. she had 3 kids. I'm the baby. as kids, we had a horrible childhood as well. she made sure...
    niafiend niafiend 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 24

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