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I Am Unsure of My Relationship

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    My guy has always liked this other girl

    and the only reason he is with me is because she rejected him. what should I do?
    Harriet1996 Harriet1996 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    Its Over

    So not long ago I shared my thoughts and feelings about my relationship. Now I am here to update that. I am no longer engaged, and no longer with this guy. Although it was the longest running relationship, it was also the most  trying... its almost like we never connected...
    BeautifulNightmare BeautifulNightmare 22-25, F Jun 5, 2008

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    It's not technically a relationship,

    but it's more than a friendship. We've been talking since June, and I fell in love with him in September. We had our first kiss in October, and talked about sex in late December. We say I love you everyday, and I care for him more than I probably should. Yet, we've never called...
    Amusical135 Amusical135 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 2

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    He Loves Me!!!

    ok well as i have said before i am unsure of my relationship. well i am not unsure about him.. it's his son i'm unsure of. well first of all my boyfriend confessed to me on new years that he loves me and has loved me!! it was the most romantic moment i have ever had in my entire...
    babyme04 babyme04 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 5, 2009

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    Honestly I'm about ready to call it quits.

    .. I've been living with my boyfriend for almost a year and ever since I've moved in I have regretted it. I moved in with him because I was afraid our relationship wouldn't make it due to other factors. Now I'm sick of the same things happening over & over again. I'm definitely...
    gilly92 gilly92 22-25, F Mar 4

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    I ask myself why Im with my bf.

    I remember chatting with some people tfor hours never getting bored. But with this one, the convo falls flat, or im disinterested, or he seems bored too. So why are we together? I miss feeling that connection, being able to talk about anything. but with passion there was no...
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F Feb 2

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    As I lay here alone in bed.

    My wife sleeping in with our boys. Thoughts are racing through my mind. How did we get here. How is it that we have fallen so far in such a short time? How is it the we are standing in the edge of a separation and possibly the big D? It's not cheating it's not abuse. One day...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 1 Response May 7

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    liveandloud liveandloud 46-50, F 1 day ago

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    liveandloud liveandloud 46-50, F May 20

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    My Unsure Relationship

    I am dating a girl who shows little or no affection but has proclaimed her love for me. We have been seeing each other for about 2 years now but she rarely kisses/hugs me and anything past that generally has to be asked for at the right time and even then she seems emotionally...
    OnlyInDreams OnlyInDreams 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 8, 2008

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    I Just Don't Know Anymore

    I have been dating my fiancee for 8 months now, we were so in love and we got engaged after 6 months. Ever since we got engaged, we have been different, She is moody and nothing I do seems good enough anymore. I can't have a conversation with her for longer than an hour before...
    studdaddi studdaddi 22-25, F Jan 20, 2012

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    The person who came up with the quote "

    if you love something set it free." Never loved.
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 22

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    I love my gf but my plans to enlist in the

    military make her say she doesn't think she could do the long distance, it's like what do I do?
    Benchillada Benchillada 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 5

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    Confusing Crush

    So, I just needed to vent my frustration & confusionĀ over my current situation... I broke it off with my former fiancee a few weeks ago. I was halfway out of love with him anyway, so I got over that part pretty quickly, though I know I'm not up for a real relationship again for...
    firefly128 firefly128 26-30, F Jun 22, 2011

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    Guy Troubles

    I'm 21 and I have been sleeping with this 26 year-old for about a month now. We are not dating but we are not **** buddy's. We talked about what we were in the beginning I told him I don't just sleep around and he told me the same. He has 2 kids and he introduced me to them...
    Stoffi18 Stoffi18 22-25, F Jul 1, 2013

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    My Skepticism

    It has been about a week since I started dating this boy. He is super sweet but I am a bit skeptical of this relationship. I do like him but I still have strong feelings for someone else. I feel terrible that I can not make myself like him as much as he likes me. I am really...
    LittleMsGreenEyes LittleMsGreenEyes 18-21, F May 31, 2013

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    I am new here & looking

    for someone I can relate to on a personal level that has gone through something similar. I am 25 years old and I have been in a relationship for 5 years now. Right around my 21st birthday, I found out I was pregnant (my bf is my son's father) and I now have an almost 4 year old...
    gretch024 gretch024 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 8, 2014

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    At the moment I'm feeling rough.

    I just dunno about things.
    XxLittleBrotherxX XxLittleBrotherxX 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 4

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    So Confused...

    I am engaged, though no date has been set. I have been with this guy off and on for almost three years. I havent ever really had much luck in relationships, and this is not the first time I have been engaged... This is however the longest running relationship... But I think I...
    BeautifulNightmare BeautifulNightmare 22-25, F 1 Response May 4, 2008

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    What Other People Say About Us

    I am 22 and have been in a relationship with a man of 29 for 8 months. I have been very happy thus far and we get along great and I love him a lot, with that friendship feeling as well as the passionate feelings. He is kind, sweet, thoughtful, and our personalities are almost...
    Kelideghalbet Kelideghalbet 18-21, F Jul 1, 2013

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    I love my wife more than words can express.

    But she is hurting me so. Though she is next to me she is a million miles away. Laying here in the darkness my heart screams for her touch. I long for the nights Id come home from work climb into bed and wrap my arms around her. The worst part she is going through something...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 5

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    To Love Or Not to Love?

    i'm currently with my boyfriend of almost a year.. he is the greates guy i have ever met and i'm falling in love with him but haven't proclaimed it yet or maybe never will... why will i never proclaim it? well because i'm unsure if we will last at all.. the reaso why is...
    babyme04 babyme04 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2008

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    My Psycho Girlfriend

    So I finally get to date a girl...and she's ******* psycho. She yells at me for no reason, makes me feel everything is my fault,and then when I get all hurt she says I'm over reacting and being dramatic...THIS is definitely not all I thought it cracked up to be. And the sad thing...
    minnieadams minnieadams 26-30, F Feb 23, 2013

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    The Stars Were Diamonds In The Sky

    It has been one year, one month, and some days since he officially asked me to be his girlfriend. He had been dumped 3 months before by this chick he dated for almost 4 years... and had a baby with. Well, she was the one that left him, AND she left him to raise their daughter for...
    breathethestars breathethestars 18-21, F Jul 15, 2011

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    Continue Or Not...?

    I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and we are very happy. The problem is, lately I've been feeling unsure of whether I want to settle with him or not. We were looking to be moving in together but I'm now feeling like this might not be a good idea. Although we...
    ell5 ell5 22-25 2 Responses Apr 12, 2009

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    After 8 months of my wife going through this

    "mid-life crisis" at age 30. I think the stress is finally starting to break my body down. Waking up scared of losing the love of my life. Every thought is of losing her. It follows me like a shadow. Laying my head on the pillow my thoughts are of what will become of us. My body...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 16

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    My Unsure Relationship

    I am dating a girl who shows little or no affection but has proclaimed her love for me. We have been seeing each other for about 2 years now but she rarely kisses/hugs me and anything past that generally has to be asked for at the right time and even then she seems emotionally...
    OnlyInDreams OnlyInDreams 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 8, 2008

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    In Love But Confused..

    I would really really love some advise on my situation...... I have been with my partner for 5 years, and there is no lack of love or attraction or anything. I love him with all my heart, but recently I met someone through a friend and have developed a crush... I have not even...
    secretwisdom secretwisdom 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 4, 2011

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    After what she has put me through the last six

    months. She is going away for two days next week. I am thinking about not being here when she gets home. I mean moving out.
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 23

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    I am off to uni, but I feel like the

    relationship I am in won't work well when I go.....but I do really like him...help?
    Harriet1996 Harriet1996 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    If This Is Love, Why Me?

      I have never felt for anyone the way I do with my "girlfriend". It seems as though she makes me smile just to bring me to tears. She is all of the reasons that i have heard so many stories of heart break. Right now, i am not sure that i can say i'm in love but...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 3, 2007

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    Its hard making friends in the area that are open to this kind of relationship and on top of that the few you do find question our relationship.
    Boyfriendfor2 Boyfriendfor2 31-35, M 2 hrs ago

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    so I came from a 6 months relationship, everything seems so perfect. I met his family and close friends. we always had fun when we are together. we never had big agruments, but...
    tameasian tameasian 31-35, F 5 Responses May 18

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    In every relationship I've had, I've given everything. Literally everything I have to give. And was happy to do it. I can't explain how good it made me feel to be so invested in...
    Bicurious12345 Bicurious12345 18-21, F 7 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    So, after 9 months of long distance relationship.. We decided to break up. This happened especially because he started liking a girl and he was suffering for the distance. Anyway...
    cindyy4 cindyy4 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    I've actually only had Interracial relationships. Idk why I'm sooooo EXTREMELY attracted to white men!!!
    KeepItSimple98 KeepItSimple98 26-30, F 5 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Skin Smooth silk sets you free My hands caressing every sleeve It was a night of passion With eyes staring in between It was glorious satisfaction With love holding hands...
    Ymfas Ymfas 26-30, M 2 Responses May 4

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    Just the thought of being In a relationship gives me a panic attack. Yes I do want to be in a committed relationship in the long run but what frightens me is getting into a...
    NiteOwlet NiteOwlet 22-25, F 4 Responses May 9

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    2 years ago I was in a relationship with an abusive ******* who made me feel like **** everyday and then made me believe it was my fault for feeling like ****. Now that I've had...
    Kesaroo Kesaroo 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    There is a reason why I find myself excuses to avoid relationships. Confidence and self-esteem go hand in hand and they are mostly essential for a successful relationship. I...
    Irwenzo Irwenzo 22-25, M May 3

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    Its a strange one this. I was in a long term relationship that ended on very bad terms and was stuck for someone to go on a summer holiday with. I ended up going backpacking alone...
    Gemma1990 Gemma1990 22-25, F 1 Response May 4

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    Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years. Also we've both never been in a relationship before and i feel that's crazy in a good way. I can't believe he has SO much...
    CandyDreamsx CandyDreamsx 22-25, F 2 Responses May 6

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    Oh boy. So since my post about never having a boyfriend, I have had two rather flakey relationships and neither of them has lasted more than a month. For all of you out there who...
    ExoFae ExoFae 22-25, F May 8

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    When I was in my early 20's, I met a guy. He was tall, handsome, smart, kind and extremely funny. He made me laugh so often I felt as though my heart was smiling too. We had so...
    RosieeeT RosieeeT 22-25, F May 15

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    First i am typing with my phone so please excuse grammar or any auto correct mistakes. Let us begin from the start. I am in a long distance relationship with a girl i met whilst...
    Reapergfx Reapergfx 26-30, M 3 Responses 4 days ago