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I Am Unsure of My Relationship

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    The person who came up with the quote "

    if you love something set it free." Never loved.
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M Apr 22, 2015

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    I know people change.

    It's natural. But at the core I believe you are always the same person. I believe if at your core if you are a caring person. At your core you will always be a caring person. For example When one acts one way and claims they are being true to themselves. But the way they're...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 3, 2015

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    Its Over

    So not long ago I shared my thoughts and feelings about my relationship. Now I am here to update that. I am no longer engaged, and no longer with this guy. Although it was the longest running relationship, it was also the most  trying... its almost like we never connected...
    BeautifulNightmare BeautifulNightmare 22-25, F Jun 5, 2008

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    Did the hardest thing I've ever had to do

    yesterday. And now I'm second guessing myself. It is my last chance to save the marriage. It had to be done. But I'm scared that I will lose her. Anyone out there I could use a little back up.
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 4 Responses Aug 15, 2015

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    In Love But Confused..

    I would really really love some advise on my situation...... I have been with my partner for 5 years, and there is no lack of love or attraction or anything. I love him with all my heart, but recently I met someone through a friend and have developed a crush... I have not even...
    secretwisdom secretwisdom 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 4, 2011

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    My Unsure Relationship

    I am dating a girl who shows little or no affection but has proclaimed her love for me. We have been seeing each other for about 2 years now but she rarely kisses/hugs me and anything past that generally has to be asked for at the right time and even then she seems emotionally...
    OnlyInDreams OnlyInDreams 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 8, 2008

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    Well I am unsure if he

    even cared about me cause I thought what we had was real. A real friendship. Instead he pushed me aside and crushed my feelings. He called me ancyreas and a drama queen whatever I guess he didn't realize my friendship was forever But now I'm not so sure 😔
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 6, 2015

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    Honestly I'm about ready to call it quits.

    .. I've been living with my boyfriend for almost a year and ever since I've moved in I have regretted it. I moved in with him because I was afraid our relationship wouldn't make it due to other factors. Now I'm sick of the same things happening over & over again. I'm definitely...
    gilly92 gilly92 22-25, F Mar 4, 2015

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    I love my wife more than words can express.

    But she is hurting me so. Though she is next to me she is a million miles away. Laying here in the darkness my heart screams for her touch. I long for the nights Id come home from work climb into bed and wrap my arms around her. The worst part she is going through something...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 5, 2015

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    To Love Or Not to Love?

    i'm currently with my boyfriend of almost a year.. he is the greates guy i have ever met and i'm falling in love with him but haven't proclaimed it yet or maybe never will... why will i never proclaim it? well because i'm unsure if we will last at all.. the reaso why is...
    babyme04 babyme04 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2008

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    I don't understand what we're doing.

    We started off being friends with benefits at first, but he was unhappy. He didn't want me talking to other people, so I agreed to it as to not lose or hurt him. Now that we're exclusive, I hear from him less than ever before. We hang out about once a month even though we live...
    istillknownothing istillknownothing 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 28, 2015

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    I love my gf but my plans to enlist in the

    military make her say she doesn't think she could do the long distance, it's like what do I do?
    Benchillada Benchillada 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 5, 2015

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    deleted deleted 26-30 May 28, 2015

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    So Confused...

    I am engaged, though no date has been set. I have been with this guy off and on for almost three years. I havent ever really had much luck in relationships, and this is not the first time I have been engaged... This is however the longest running relationship... But I think I...
    BeautifulNightmare BeautifulNightmare 22-25, F 1 Response May 4, 2008

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    I Just Don't Know Anymore

    I have been dating my fiancee for 8 months now, we were so in love and we got engaged after 6 months. Ever since we got engaged, we have been different, She is moody and nothing I do seems good enough anymore. I can't have a conversation with her for longer than an hour before...
    studdaddi studdaddi 22-25, F Jan 20, 2012

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    Confusing Crush

    So, I just needed to vent my frustration & confusion over my current situation... I broke it off with my former fiancee a few weeks ago. I was halfway out of love with him anyway, so I got over that part pretty quickly, though I know I'm not up for a real relationship again for...
    firefly128 firefly128 26-30, F Jun 22, 2011

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    Guy Troubles

    I'm 21 and I have been sleeping with this 26 year-old for about a month now. We are not dating but we are not **** buddy's. We talked about what we were in the beginning I told him I don't just sleep around and he told me the same. He has 2 kids and he introduced me to them...
    Stoffi18 Stoffi18 22-25, F Jul 1, 2013

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    deleted deleted 26-30 May 20, 2015

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    My Psycho Girlfriend

    So I finally get to date a girl...and she's ******* psycho. She yells at me for no reason, makes me feel everything is my fault,and then when I get all hurt she says I'm over reacting and being dramatic...THIS is definitely not all I thought it cracked up to be. And the sad thing...
    minnieadams minnieadams 26-30, F Feb 23, 2013

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    After what she has put me through the last six

    months. She is going away for two days next week. I am thinking about not being here when she gets home. I mean moving out.
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 23, 2015

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    You ever have one of those times

    where the future of your relationship is about to be put on the table? Where you are going to have to face a reality you may or may not want or agree with. Have you ever been were someone who tried so hard to make something fail. So they can point to the failure as...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 27, 2015

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    You say I can't make you feel something.

    But at the same time I try and talk to you about how what your doing is hurting me and the kids. Your response is are you trying to make me feel guilt? Well if you say I can't make you feel something the...............
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M Jun 13, 2015

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    After 8 months of my wife going through this

    "mid-life crisis" at age 30. I think the stress is finally starting to break my body down. Waking up scared of losing the love of my life. Every thought is of losing her. It follows me like a shadow. Laying my head on the pillow my thoughts are of what will become of us. My body...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 3 Responses Apr 16, 2015

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    So my wife says she doesn't need me anymore.

    She wants to be an independent woman. She says she wants to take our boys move out and be on her own. She doesn't want me to do anything for her. Which is why I haven't told her that her vehicle registration is expired. Something I normally deal with. But she doesn't need me...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 2, 2015

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    At the moment I'm feeling rough.

    I just dunno about things.
    XxLittleBrotherxX XxLittleBrotherxX 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 4, 2015

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    What Other People Say About Us

    I am 22 and have been in a relationship with a man of 29 for 8 months. I have been very happy thus far and we get along great and I love him a lot, with that friendship feeling as well as the passionate feelings. He is kind, sweet, thoughtful, and our personalities are almost...
    Kelideghalbet Kelideghalbet 18-21, F Jul 1, 2013

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    He Loves Me!!!

    ok well as i have said before i am unsure of my relationship. well i am not unsure about him.. it's his son i'm unsure of. well first of all my boyfriend confessed to me on new years that he loves me and has loved me!! it was the most romantic moment i have ever had in my entire...
    babyme04 babyme04 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 5, 2009

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    As I lay here alone in bed.

    My wife sleeping in with our boys. Thoughts are racing through my mind. How did we get here. How is it that we have fallen so far in such a short time? How is it the we are standing in the edge of a separation and possibly the big D? It's not cheating it's not abuse. One day...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 1 Response May 7, 2015

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    Continue Or Not...?

    I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and we are very happy. The problem is, lately I've been feeling unsure of whether I want to settle with him or not. We were looking to be moving in together but I'm now feeling like this might not be a good idea. Although we...
    ell5 ell5 22-25 2 Responses Apr 12, 2009

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    If This Is Love, Why Me?

      I have never felt for anyone the way I do with my "girlfriend". It seems as though she makes me smile just to bring me to tears. She is all of the reasons that i have heard so many stories of heart break. Right now, i am not sure that i can say i'm in love but...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 3, 2007

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    I am off to uni, but I feel like the

    relationship I am in won't work well when I go.....but I do really like him...help?
    Harriet1996 Harriet1996 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 5, 2015

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    so I met this guy he's really nice

    and everything but he acts pretty gay. I mean I self identify as gay myself but I don't wear glitter or have rainbows shooting out my arse. anyway I feel uncomfortable being around this new friend (I have a feeling he wants more). I kinda wanna try it as he's black and I've...
    malifest2000 malifest2000 26-30, M Oct 2, 2015

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    My guy has always liked this other girl

    and the only reason he is with me is because she rejected him. what should I do?
    Harriet1996 Harriet1996 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 5, 2015

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    My Skepticism

    It has been about a week since I started dating this boy. He is super sweet but I am a bit skeptical of this relationship. I do like him but I still have strong feelings for someone else. I feel terrible that I can not make myself like him as much as he likes me. I am really...
    LittleMsGreenEyes LittleMsGreenEyes 18-21, F May 31, 2013

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    The Stars Were Diamonds In The Sky

    It has been one year, one month, and some days since he officially asked me to be his girlfriend. He had been dumped 3 months before by this chick he dated for almost 4 years... and had a baby with. Well, she was the one that left him, AND she left him to raise their daughter for...
    breathethestars breathethestars 18-21, F Jul 15, 2011

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    I am new here & looking

    for someone I can relate to on a personal level that has gone through something similar. I am 25 years old and I have been in a relationship for 5 years now. Right around my 21st birthday, I found out I was pregnant (my bf is my son's father) and I now have an almost 4 year old...
    gretch024 gretch024 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 8, 2014

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    My Unsure Relationship

    I am dating a girl who shows little or no affection but has proclaimed her love for me. We have been seeing each other for about 2 years now but she rarely kisses/hugs me and anything past that generally has to be asked for at the right time and even then she seems emotionally...
    OnlyInDreams OnlyInDreams 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 8, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    i don't think so in my experiences.. but idk some people works so denpends on how they are serious about their relationship and not to mention you need lots of time and money and...
    genjiipiexx genjiipiexx 31-35, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Ok, I know relationships can be complicated and you have to give space to people when they are going through stressful times, but is it too much to ask that you at least send me a...
    Cheemoni Cheemoni 46-50, M 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Is anyone fairly content living in a relationship like this? I think my partner and I are usually content without a rip roaring sex life. Everything else in our relationship is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I'm unsure what to call it. I'm attracted to women. To femininity in appearance and demeanor. However, it has nothing to do with what's between their legs. I could date a...
    OrganicMachina OrganicMachina 31-35, M 1 day ago

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    Chains and Change Our relationship is a chain. It's a series of links, each one separate and unique, but joined together for a common cause. Every link of that chain is formed in...
    Ourjourneyoftrust Ourjourneyoftrust 70+ 1 Response 3 days ago

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    In order to have a great relationship the most important thing is communication and that you are both on board with what is happening. Everyone has a different idea of what a great...
    Inj3ction Inj3ction 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    Keep your promises and tell the truth. – If you say you’re going to do something, DO IT! If you say you’re going to be somewhere, BE THERE! If you say you feel something...
    LadyHeartnMind LadyHeartnMind 31-35, F 6 Responses 4 days ago