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I Am Unsure of My Relationship

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    Continue Or Not...?

    I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and we are very happy. The problem is, lately I've been feeling unsure of whether I want to settle with him or not. We were looking to be moving in together but I'm now feeling like this might not be a good idea. Although we...
    ell5 ell5 22-25 2 Responses Apr 12, 2009

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    If This Is Love, Why Me?

      I have never felt for anyone the way I do with my "girlfriend". It seems as though she makes me smile just to bring me to tears. She is all of the reasons that i have heard so many stories of heart break. Right now, i am not sure that i can say i'm in love but...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 3, 2007

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    Today my boyfriend of 6 years told me

    that one of his friends who I really dislike is getting married to his girlfriend of a few months in September. I have made it very clear to him for a long time that I want to get married but he has made no effort to do so. Every time I threaten to leave he tells me everything I...
    JJP36 JJP36 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    So Confused...

    I am engaged, though no date has been set. I have been with this guy off and on for almost three years. I havent ever really had much luck in relationships, and this is not the first time I have been engaged... This is however the longest running relationship... But I think I...
    BeautifulNightmare BeautifulNightmare 22-25, F 1 Response May 4, 2008

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    My Psycho Girlfriend

    So I finally get to date a girl...and she's ******* psycho. She yells at me for no reason, makes me feel everything is my fault,and then when I get all hurt she says I'm over reacting and being dramatic...THIS is definitely not all I thought it cracked up to be. And the sad thing...
    minnieadams minnieadams 26-30, F Feb 23, 2013

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    Guy Troubles

    I'm 21 and I have been sleeping with this 26 year-old for about a month now. We are not dating but we are not **** buddy's. We talked about what we were in the beginning I told him I don't just sleep around and he told me the same. He has 2 kids and he introduced me to them...
    Stoffi18 Stoffi18 22-25, F Jul 1, 2013

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    Its Over

    So not long ago I shared my thoughts and feelings about my relationship. Now I am here to update that. I am no longer engaged, and no longer with this guy. Although it was the longest running relationship, it was also the most  trying... its almost like we never connected...
    BeautifulNightmare BeautifulNightmare 22-25, F Jun 5, 2008

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    To Love Or Not to Love?

    i'm currently with my boyfriend of almost a year.. he is the greates guy i have ever met and i'm falling in love with him but haven't proclaimed it yet or maybe never will... why will i never proclaim it? well because i'm unsure if we will last at all.. the reaso why is...
    babyme04 babyme04 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2008

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    My Unsure Relationship

    I am dating a girl who shows little or no affection but has proclaimed her love for me. We have been seeing each other for about 2 years now but she rarely kisses/hugs me and anything past that generally has to be asked for at the right time and even then she seems emotionally...
    OnlyInDreams OnlyInDreams 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 8, 2008

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    He Loves Me!!!

    ok well as i have said before i am unsure of my relationship. well i am not unsure about him.. it's his son i'm unsure of. well first of all my boyfriend confessed to me on new years that he loves me and has loved me!! it was the most romantic moment i have ever had in my entire...
    babyme04 babyme04 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 5, 2009

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    My Skepticism

    It has been about a week since I started dating this boy. He is super sweet but I am a bit skeptical of this relationship. I do like him but I still have strong feelings for someone else. I feel terrible that I can not make myself like him as much as he likes me. I am really...
    LittleMsGreenEyes LittleMsGreenEyes 16-17, F May 31, 2013

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    Confusing Crush

    So, I just needed to vent my frustration & confusion over my current situation... I broke it off with my former fiancee a few weeks ago. I was halfway out of love with him anyway, so I got over that part pretty quickly, though I know I'm not up for a real relationship again for...
    firefly128 firefly128 26-30, F Jun 22, 2011

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    My Unsure Relationship

    I am dating a girl who shows little or no affection but has proclaimed her love for me. We have been seeing each other for about 2 years now but she rarely kisses/hugs me and anything past that generally has to be asked for at the right time and even then she seems emotionally...
    OnlyInDreams OnlyInDreams 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 8, 2008

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    I Just Don't Know Anymore

    I have been dating my fiancee for 8 months now, we were so in love and we got engaged after 6 months. Ever since we got engaged, we have been different, She is moody and nothing I do seems good enough anymore. I can't have a conversation with her for longer than an hour before...
    studdaddi studdaddi 22-25, F Jan 20, 2012

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    In Love But Confused..

    I would really really love some advise on my situation...... I have been with my partner for 5 years, and there is no lack of love or attraction or anything. I love him with all my heart, but recently I met someone through a friend and have developed a crush... I have not even...
    secretwisdom secretwisdom 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2011

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    What Other People Say About Us

    I am 22 and have been in a relationship with a man of 29 for 8 months. I have been very happy thus far and we get along great and I love him a lot, with that friendship feeling as well as the passionate feelings. He is kind, sweet, thoughtful, and our personalities are almost...
    Kelideghalbet Kelideghalbet 18-21, F Jul 1, 2013

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    The Stars Were Diamonds In The Sky

    It has been one year, one month, and some days since he officially asked me to be his girlfriend. He had been dumped 3 months before by this chick he dated for almost 4 years... and had a baby with. Well, she was the one that left him, AND she left him to raise their daughter for...
    breathethestars breathethestars 18-21, F Jul 15, 2011

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    I am a social introvert, but that does not mean im anti-social, but i'd rather be with close friends than loads of acquaintances, that sort of thing. But I am increasingly anxious...
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    Yea, I'm young I get it. But it really sucks not having ever been in a relationship or anything close to one. Now a days anyone and everyone are in a relationship. I don't know if...
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