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I Am Using Ashleymadison To Have An Affair

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    I met two guys in AM.

    One was 50 gentleman and fun, 'till he stop being that way. We just had sex one because i left the country. We chat everyday for three months, but when i came back, he changed. We are still friends an talk and go for drinks, lunch or cofee sometimes...
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2014

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    Second experience. I met a wonderful succesful

    Jewish Lawyer here. Things were greay, sex awesome 'till i found out his profile was still there afyer we had sex and he had being sig in several times. I told him and he pregged me to dorgive him, telling me that it was just because of his lack of confodence ( sexless marriage...
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    Not the right place. At least

    for a woman that looks for a clean relationship ( despite we are all married) guys there get anything just to have sex. Many wants more than one woman. Many are addicted to the site. Anyways you can be lucky. A guy there is all fake. He stubned me in my back. Anyways i'll give a...
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F 6 Responses Nov 16, 2014

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    I Just Signed Up.

    I love married men. They have their own things to do, not enough time to constantly try to control what you do or always be involved.  My "boyfriend" now is married, we see each other maybe 2 times a week.  I'm a single female by all pretenses and so far have had about 15...
    TheOtherMe TheOtherMe 26-30, F 9 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    Anatomy Of A Cheater.

    I am a cheating husband. There, I said it. It's been a long road to get to this point but I am sure my story is not unique. There are many, many guys like me. We love our families and yes, love our wives, or at least we love the memory of who our wives used to be. To say it...
    NewGuy04 NewGuy04 46-50, M 14 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    I Use Ashley Madison And I'm Very Real

    Ashley Madison may be full of pros & fakes, but it is also full of sad, lonely overweight, middle- aged men trying to play out of their league. I created a profile and met an incredibly attractive, fit, interesting well-endowed, young married man and began an affair within the...
    MrsVashaWolf MrsVashaWolf 46-50, F 9 Responses Aug 12, 2013

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    Wow went looking to find one special man to

    have a great affair ending up finding many guys looking for a flavor of the week. I wonder if there are any men looking to find one or are they all interested in sex only
    kgirl79 kgirl79 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 22, 2014

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    Why Dating Often Fails And How You Can Succeed!

    There have been several stories about experiences on AM. Some are successful, some are not. Nonetheless, I appreciate all the authors who have shared their own experiences as great lessons for all of us. I came across this article last year. I applied it and it worked well for me...
    bambootree bambootree 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 21, 2013

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    Scam Mostly

    I say that as a man b/c its set up to drain u of your credits very fast. There was "troll" women, I believe made by AM. They were "online" almost 24 hrs per day.? Having said that, once u do make some connection, use email asap. I did that and made a fruitful connection off site...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 17, 2013

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    This site is amazing.

    I do not use it anymore. But when I did, it truly was a amazing. I had a very discreet affair and it was so much fun!! It is nice you can have secrets and a place to have secret fun. :)
    ScarlettAngelica ScarlettAngelica 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 10, 2014

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    TheAnonymousTroll TheAnonymousTroll 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 6, 2014

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    I had my first encounter,

    my husband and I talked about it since we got married. We are a realist and know from the start that attractions fade and sooner or later one of us would want to sleep with somebody. It finally happened. And omg! Mind blowing sex. I also really like this guy, he is nice and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 23, 2015

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    Being a guy and married it's hard to try

    and build that trust up with other woman on there because they only think we want is sex?! ;(
    kikthegoodguy11 kikthegoodguy11 31-35, M 9 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    I tried AM for a few months,

    but found nothing but fakes and gold diggers. If I have to directly pay for it, I think I'd rather drive to a Nevada brothel. It would be the same concept without the bullshit.
    rsb97080 rsb97080 41-45, M 3 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    I had only modest hopes of any thing happening

    and sure enough it's been a total fail. Of course, I don't really belong on the site. I was always monogamous even before marriage, one girl at a time and only dating with a serious interest in the person. I'm trying out of desperation because my wife has been in chronic pain...
    loykhtn loykhtn 51-55, M 2 Responses Jun 4, 2015

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    We Want To Hear Your Stories

    AshleyMadison.com is 100% discreet. It is a safe, secure place for you to meet people in similar situations. Whether you meet and connect with someone online only, or take your relationship outside of the service...AshleyMadison.com wants to hear your stories. Please share...
    ashleymadison ashleymadison 36-40, F 9 Responses Apr 28, 2010

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    I can only echo what many other men have said

    in previous postings. AM is a loser's bet for men. I've been using AM since early 2012. I just logged in to my account. Over the past 48 hours, I can see where 92 "women" have logged in. I put women in quotes because of the 92 ads I see, 46 of them are all from the same...
    bobrido bobrido 46-50, M 6 Responses Jun 21, 2015

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    Word To The Wise For Men

    Someone else out there is welcome to correct me if I'm wrong. IMO, AM is about the only game in town for married folks looking to date outside of their marriage. Like ladies nights at the local bar, AM tends to see an overwhelming majority of men versus women. As a man, it's...
    bb2unmb bb2unmb 46-50, M 8 Responses Dec 21, 2012

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    I'm actually not looking to have an affair,

    my wife and I have an open relationship. I don't like the site because, as a guy, you have to spend money to do just about anything. I've tried to include enough info in my profile to make it easy to find me on Facebook or other ways.
    Rodgers1981 Rodgers1981 31-35, M May 28, 2015

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    Destroying Families. Thanks Ashleymadison

    Your company's promoting is shameful. How do you sleep at night? How do you dream knowing that you ripe families apart? Heartless. That's what you are. Not only does this hurt the person being cheated on but their kids too. Me being one of them. Probably one of millions. The...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I haven't had an affair. They require secrecy and that's against my value system and I think damaging to my relationship with my wife. I have had an ongoing regular sexual...
    rabb1trabb1t rabb1trabb1t 41-45, M 3 hrs ago

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    WASH BEFORE USE! Sound familiar? Maybe it was on your top's label? Maybe you ignored it countless of times? You happily thought "I'll wear this for a few days before washing...
    Sazzio Sazzio 26-30, M 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    So when you all have plans with your affair partner ... Do you engage in mindless small talk or get right to business??? It's hard to " catch up" when so much has gone on in your...
    darkangel3200 darkangel3200 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm in a fling... I slept with him a few times... He constantly reminds me to keeps my emotions in tact.. Its really annoying me. Every time we're together he detaches himself...
    Differentforever Differentforever 46-50, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am trying to get over my AP, however, seeing him daily on FB is not helping. He wants to be friends, but I am having a hard time with it. The affair was 1.5 years long. We...
    Dreamgirl75 Dreamgirl75 41-45, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am curious for those of you that are married and have ended your affair...how is your marriage doing? Have you been able to reconnect with your spouse after the affair? If so...
    StartingOver41 StartingOver41 41-45, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am preparing to leave my husband. Not because of the affair, but for me and to spare him pain in the future. I sign my lease this week. I'm excited and scared. Wish me luck!
    Runnergirl2015 Runnergirl2015 31-35, F 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    It's wasn't exactly an affair I'm single he has a girlfriend it's not gone past texting I felt like he was slow fading me out so I just stopped texting so did he has been 2 weeks...
    winterusa winterusa 36-40, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    hello...i don't know where to post this exactly, sorry if it ends up in the wrong category/group. i have a situation that i cannot discuss with anyone, but i need some feedback...
    mommajllc mommajllc 36-40, F 21 Responses 4 days ago

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    hello...i don't know where to post this exactly, sorry if it ends up in the wrong category/group. i have a situation that i cannot discuss with anyone, but i need some feedback...
    mommajllc mommajllc 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Miss-Using-Heroin/7337953. I have lost all hope with my life and I'm at a dead end road and my anxiety has overtaken me all week and my...
    32forever2016 32forever2016 31-35, M 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    Finally it is over! I never had the guts to block him but he is blocked in EVERYTHING! I do not want to go back to this life ever again... and I hope for all of you suffering...
    Fmina Fmina 51-55, F 8 Responses 5 days ago

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    I became sick and was stuck at home. My wife, ever the care-giver, became more of a nanny than a wife because of my constant neediness. This caused a big rift in our relationship...
    SSKyleRedd SSKyleRedd 46-50, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Is it only me who finds the thought of having an affair with a married man so sexy?
    monstermunch22x monstermunch22x 18-21, F 23 Responses 5 days ago

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      I'm back for my advice. Under a different name as for some reason I can't access my old account (old name dolly2016) I have decided to do some counselling and my first...
    Dollygirl2016 Dollygirl2016 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    There are two kinds of posts in here that are unintentionally funny and totally crack me up. The first kind is, the one that is obviously a dude using a female profile talking...
    Thisis4fun Thisis4fun 56-60, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I got married to my partner in September 2015 after 9 years together 2 months before the wedding i started an affair which lasted right up to the week before the wedding and i seen...
    dolly2016 dolly2016 26-30, F 13 Responses Feb 2

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    I changed my cell phone number today, this should be the one action that will finally put an end and close this chapter of my life. Sorry for the drama but this affair has been...
    darkangel3200 darkangel3200 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    For as long as I can remember I've been overly sensitive to rejection. Any smallest bit of negativity aimed my way can put me into instant tears and I avoid the person who looked...
    Morrgin Morrgin 31-35, F Feb 1

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    I have an opportunity to have an affair and feel desired and wanted for a moment. I'm torn. On the one hand, I haven't felt needed, wanted or loved in any way from my wife in years...
    bgood79 bgood79 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 31

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    Only in an affair can you make mad passionate love to one another is if you are the only two people in the world and then, 10 minutes later swap marital advice. This relationship...
    justtired45 justtired45 46-50, F 3 Responses Jan 30

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    I'm getting over an affair... Tried multiple times to end it... I've never failed at anything like I've failed at ending this ridiculous affair. He is my only mistake , regret and...
    darkangel3200 darkangel3200 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 30

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