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I Am Using Ashleymadison To Have An Affair

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    ashleymadison ashleymadison 36-40, F 9 Responses Apr 28, 2010

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    This site is amazing.

    I do not use it anymore. But when I did, it truly was a amazing. I had a very discreet affair and it was so much fun!! It is nice you can have secrets and a place to have secret fun. :)
    ScarlettAngelica ScarlettAngelica 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 10, 2014

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    I Use Ashley Madison And I'm Very Real

    Ashley Madison may be full of pros & fakes, but it is also full of sad, lonely overweight, middle- aged men trying to play out of their league. I created a profile and met an incredibly attractive, fit, interesting well-endowed, young married man and began an affair within the...
    MrsVashaWolf MrsVashaWolf 46-50, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2013

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    TheAnonymousTroll TheAnonymousTroll 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 6, 2014

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    I met two guys in AM.

    One was 50 gentleman and fun, 'till he stop being that way. We just had sex one because i left the country. We chat everyday for three months, but when i came back, he changed. We are still friends an talk and go for drinks, lunch or cofee sometimes...
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    I Just Signed Up.

    I love married men. They have their own things to do, not enough time to constantly try to control what you do or always be involved.  My "boyfriend" now is married, we see each other maybe 2 times a week.  I'm a single female by all pretenses and so far have had about 15...
    TheOtherMe TheOtherMe 26-30, F 9 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    I had only modest hopes of any thing happening

    and sure enough it's been a total fail. Of course, I don't really belong on the site. I was always monogamous even before marriage, one girl at a time and only dating with a serious interest in the person. I'm trying out of desperation because my wife has been in chronic pain...
    loykhtn loykhtn 51-55, M 2 Responses Jun 4

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    Scam Mostly

    I say that as a man b/c its set up to drain u of your credits very fast. There was "troll" women, I believe made by AM. They were "online" almost 24 hrs per day.? Having said that, once u do make some connection, use email asap. I did that and made a fruitful connection off site...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 17, 2013

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    Being a guy and married it's hard to try

    and build that trust up with other woman on there because they only think we want is sex?! ;(
    kikthegoodguy11 kikthegoodguy11 31-35, M 9 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    I tried AM for a few months,

    but found nothing but fakes and gold diggers. If I have to directly pay for it, I think I'd rather drive to a Nevada brothel. It would be the same concept without the bullshit.
    rsb97080 rsb97080 41-45, M 3 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    Word To The Wise For Men

    Someone else out there is welcome to correct me if I'm wrong. IMO, AM is about the only game in town for married folks looking to date outside of their marriage. Like ladies nights at the local bar, AM tends to see an overwhelming majority of men versus women. As a man, it's...
    bb2unmb bb2unmb 46-50, M 8 Responses Dec 21, 2012

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    I'm actually not looking to have an affair,

    my wife and I have an open relationship. I don't like the site because, as a guy, you have to spend money to do just about anything. I've tried to include enough info in my profile to make it easy to find me on Facebook or other ways.
    Rodgers1981 Rodgers1981 31-35, M May 28

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    Why Dating Often Fails And How You Can Succeed!

    There have been several stories about experiences on AM. Some are successful, some are not. Nonetheless, I appreciate all the authors who have shared their own experiences as great lessons for all of us. I came across this article last year. I applied it and it worked well for me...
    bambootree bambootree 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 21, 2013

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    I had my first encounter,

    my husband and I talked about it since we got married. We are a realist and know from the start that attractions fade and sooner or later one of us would want to sleep with somebody. It finally happened. And omg! Mind blowing sex. I also really like this guy, he is nice and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 23

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    Second experience. I met a wonderful succesful

    Jewish Lawyer here. Things were greay, sex awesome 'till i found out his profile was still there afyer we had sex and he had being sig in several times. I told him and he pregged me to dorgive him, telling me that it was just because of his lack of confodence ( sexless marriage...
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    Destroying Families. Thanks Ashleymadison

    Your company's promoting is shameful. How do you sleep at night? How do you dream knowing that you ripe families apart? Heartless. That's what you are. Not only does this hurt the person being cheated on but their kids too. Me being one of them. Probably one of millions. The...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    Not the right place. At least

    for a woman that looks for a clean relationship ( despite we are all married) guys there get anything just to have sex. Many wants more than one woman. Many are addicted to the site. Anyways you can be lucky. A guy there is all fake. He stubned me in my back. Anyways i'll give a...
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F 6 Responses Nov 16, 2014

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    I can only echo what many other men have said

    in previous postings. AM is a loser's bet for men. I've been using AM since early 2012. I just logged in to my account. Over the past 48 hours, I can see where 92 "women" have logged in. I put women in quotes because of the 92 ads I see, 46 of them are all from the same...
    bobrido bobrido 46-50, M 4 Responses Jun 21

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    Anatomy Of A Cheater.

    I am a cheating husband. There, I said it. It's been a long road to get to this point but I am sure my story is not unique. There are many, many guys like me. We love our families and yes, love our wives, or at least we love the memory of who our wives used to be. To say it...
    NewGuy04 NewGuy04 41-45, M 14 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    Wow went looking to find one special man to

    have a great affair ending up finding many guys looking for a flavor of the week. I wonder if there are any men looking to find one or are they all interested in sex only
    kgirl79 kgirl79 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 22, 2014

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    Related Experiences

    I've heard that when people begin an affair, some people will try to be more sexual with their spouse. either out of guilt or increased sex drive. does anyone have experience with...
    redpelican7 redpelican7 31-35, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    So for those that haven't read my story it's a bit like like this, had an affair with a mm, we got caught, we tried to stand by eachother after his w put him out. The son stepped...
    lostcase75 lostcase75 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Just ended my affair and I'm sad. She was careless with her phone and her husband found out, she spilled everything. Mixed feelings. A bit relieved but also sad, I loved her...
    joestu84 joestu84 41-45, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Those of you who had an affair and experienced a D-day with your spouse... what does it feel like? I'm curious.... sorry if the question sounded weird. I just want to be more...
    HurtsEverywhere HurtsEverywhere 31-35, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    When I was 8 years old I saw my mother wanting to leave. I did not realise at the time why, now after all these years I am curious. Was it an Affair like he said? All I know is...
    moyesp moyesp 51-55 6 days ago

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    Been a almost a week since I ended my affair. When does it start getting easier? I don't eat or sleep. Wish I could fast forward this part of time.
    latinafairy latinafairy 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have been married for 9 years and began having an affair with a married man 7 months ago. He is 7 years older than I am and what a difference I see with being with him! He knows...
    LoveSexMagic11 LoveSexMagic11 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm 30 great guy fun and caring. Looking for someone near chattanooga I go there for business often. Im not just looking for just an affair to be truthful, although I wouldnt mind...
    Tenman15 Tenman15 31-35, M a week ago

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    It was a year ago today that you found out. I will remember that day forever, you were so mad, I have never seen you that mad. I still could see the love for me behind those sad...
    DannysSong DannysSong 36-40, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I am a married woman who had an affair with a single guy.... Why do I feel like the other woman?
    DannysSong DannysSong 36-40, F a week ago

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    I have a other rant that I need to get off my chest: Haven't seen each other in 3 weeks. Then wife looking at phone bill. Asked him questions about so many texts. Then asks me...
    js1276 js1276 41-45, F 5 Responses Jun 24

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    I had an affair for almost 4 years, I didn't get the love and attention from My husband, I was lonely... I became close with my friend from work, spent time together and eventually...
    Ccutler Ccutler 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    Terrorists. The wealthy. And their supporters. We humans are better than animals. We can evolve. But some dont want that. The wealthy crave slaves. To maintain...
    Converted Converted 46-50, M Jun 23

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    My affair ended one sidedly by him! He got transferred back to his country...to his wife and kid for good! Yes! He is married too! When I found out, my heart shattered and I wouldn...
    Wynee Wynee 36-40, F 4 Responses Jun 23

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    I feel so selfish; I am riddled with guilt and yet I can't stop thinking about my affair partner. I have everything most people in the world would long for - I have been married...
    FrankieLeaf FrankieLeaf 41-45, M 4 Responses Jun 23

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    I would love the thought of my wife having an affair while I'm out of town working. The thought of another man dating and seducing her, then pounding her in bed drives me wild. She...
    Brian944 Brian944 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 20

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    This is for all of the recent posts of having gone NC. Applause to us that have chosen to end, where the affair became toxic and the joys of being on the journey were gone. NC is...
    pencruz pencruz 51-55, F 10 Responses Jun 19

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    I hate to sound awful because I have met some wonderful and kind hearts on this site during my short period here and you know who you are. :) However, I am NOT looking for an...
    Lostandscared3 Lostandscared3 36-40, F Jun 16

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    Today just must be that kind of day a crappy one for me anyways, I understand being angry after an affair, the hurt,disapointment feeling used,tricked and lied to and lead on,even...
    kathrineh kathrineh 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 15

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    Well my confession is I no my husband has cheated when I was gone for thirty days and he's still acting like he's so about our family now that I'm back it's really hurtful to me to...
    lilly1389 lilly1389 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 15

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    I had an affair and ended it. Should I tell the wife of the married guy or not. I'd want to do it anonymously if I did, But I don't know if I should let her know.
    imjustthatgirl66 imjustthatgirl66 18-21, F 26 Responses Jun 15

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    My husband was my first boyfriend and we got married. He was the only man I ever knew for years...until our marriage starts to fall apart! Then out of the blue I met my affair. I...
    Wynee Wynee 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 15

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    I am married and having an affair with a unmarried man. the hardest thing for me in dealing with this affair is wanting him to be all mine but I know I can't leave my husband...
    DannysSong DannysSong 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 15

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