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I Am Using Ashleymadison To Have An Affair

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    I tried AM for a few months,

    but found nothing but fakes and gold diggers. If I have to directly pay for it, I think I'd rather drive to a Nevada brothel. It would be the same concept without the bullshit.
    rsb97080 rsb97080 41-45, M 3 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    I Use Ashley Madison And I'm Very Real

    Ashley Madison may be full of pros & fakes, but it is also full of sad, lonely overweight, middle- aged men trying to play out of their league. I created a profile and met an incredibly attractive, fit, interesting well-endowed, young married man and began an affair within the...
    MrsVashaWolf MrsVashaWolf 46-50, F 6 Responses Aug 12, 2013

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    No Need For Ashley Madison

    I'll be traveling from Ohio to South Dakota. traveling down I 70 west to l 74 West then of course I 80 west if you live near any of these highways let me know I currently am sitting in Columbus Ohio I will stop for the night probably in Carroll Iowa or Sioux City Iowa but I have...
    loneTrucker80 loneTrucker80 31-35, M Aug 9, 2013

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    Why Dating Often Fails And How You Can Succeed!

    There have been several stories about experiences on AM. Some are successful, some are not. Nonetheless, I appreciate all the authors who have shared their own experiences as great lessons for all of us. I came across this article last year. I applied it and it worked well for me...
    bambootree bambootree 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 21, 2013

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    Wow went looking to find one special man to

    have a great affair ending up finding many guys looking for a flavor of the week. I wonder if there are any men looking to find one or are they all interested in sex only
    kgirl79 kgirl79 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 22

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    Scam Mostly

    I say that as a man b/c its set up to drain u of your credits very fast. There was "troll" women, I believe made by AM. They were "online" almost 24 hrs per day.? Having said that, once u do make some connection, use email asap. I did that and made a fruitful connection off site...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 17, 2013

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    Destroying Families. Thanks Ashleymadison

    Your company's promoting is shameful. How do you sleep at night? How do you dream knowing that you ripe families apart? Heartless. That's what you are. Not only does this hurt the person being cheated on but their kids too. Me being one of them. Probably one of millions. The...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    Anatomy Of A Cheater.

    I am a cheating husband. There, I said it. It's been a long road to get to this point but I am sure my story is not unique. There are many, many guys like me. We love our families and yes, love our wives, or at least we love the memory of who our wives used to be. To say it...
    NewGuy04 NewGuy04 41-45, M 11 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    I need advice from the ladies

    who have used AM. I have been using for the site for about 3 months. I've met a very good looking married guy, we've been seeing each other quite a lot for about 1.5 months (his wife is away, so he's always available). There is great chemistry but I don't think there is...
    HappySecret HappySecret 36-40, F 8 Responses Mar 27

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    This site is amazing.

    I do not use it anymore. But when I did, it truly was a amazing. I had a very discreet affair and it was so much fun!! It is nice you can have secrets and a place to have secret fun. :)
    ScarlettAngelica ScarlettAngelica 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 10

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    Perfect For The Women

    I am a single 52 year old, emptynester who has found her hormones working overtime, and traditional dating sites just wasn't working. So I accidentally found Ashley Madison and have been on there for about a month. It's not a sight for the fait at heart. Guys post private...
    50ishnowwhat 50ishnowwhat 51-55, F 1 Response Oct 27, 2013

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    I Just Signed Up.

    I love married men. They have their own things to do, not enough time to constantly try to control what you do or always be involved.  My "boyfriend" now is married, we see each other maybe 2 times a week.  I'm a single female by all pretenses and so far have had about 15...
    TheOtherMe TheOtherMe 26-30, F 8 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    Word To The Wise For Men

    Someone else out there is welcome to correct me if I'm wrong. IMO, AM is about the only game in town for married folks looking to date outside of their marriage. Like ladies nights at the local bar, AM tends to see an overwhelming majority of men versus women. As a man, it's...
    bb2unmb bb2unmb 46-50, M 5 Responses Dec 21, 2012

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    We Want To Hear Your Stories

    AshleyMadison.com is 100% discreet. It is a safe, secure place for you to meet people in similar situations. Whether you meet and connect with someone online only, or take your relationship outside of the service...AshleyMadison.com wants to hear your stories. Please share...
    ashleymadison ashleymadison 36-40, F 9 Responses Apr 28, 2010

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    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    Well it's officially been a month since I made the hard decision of starting fresh and ending my affair once and for all. It's actually been over a month since our last...
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    My affair showed me I have a side of me that is manipulative and selfish. I used to listen to this song over and over so loud. I love this song http://youtu.be/u3u22OYqFGo It...
    ventingagain ventingagain 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    Ok so this question isn't strictly about my affair, more to do with the aftermath. I kinda don't know where else to post it. My affair ended 7 months ago. It has shattered my...
    Fififififi Fififififi 41-45, F 27 Responses Sep 5

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    My affair began due to a long distance relationship. I had been dating my boyfriend for 2 years prior to moving 6,000 miles away for a job. The job was only supposed to be for one...
    Sabrina89 Sabrina89 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    Differentforever Differentforever 46-50, F 9 Responses Aug 21

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    OK EP friends, what I want to know is how is your life after the affair? I feel stuck. I feel like I cannot move forward with my wife. There is a huge void in our relationship...
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    So I was just driving and and the song came on he first dedicated to me ... Bruno Mars ... Locked out of heaven.... At first a couple memories came rushing in ... Where we were...
    ventingagain ventingagain 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I had an affair. He had an affair. He's been talking with someone inappropriately online. I've met someone online who has rocked my world... I need to tell my husband it's over...
    secretsnvrtobetold secretsnvrtobetold 31-35, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm a young woman stuck in a situation that has completely blown my mind. I never intended to have an affair at any point in my life but the affair i am currently having has become...
    YourMissingPiece YourMissingPiece 18-21, F Aug 18

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    I'm a young woman stuck in a situation that has completely blown my mind. I never intended to have an affair at any point in my life but the affair i am currently having has become...
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