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I Am Using Ashleymadison To Have An Affair

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 154 People

    Word To The Wise For Men

    Someone else out there is welcome to correct me if I'm wrong. IMO, AM is about the only game in town for married folks looking to date outside of their marriage. Like ladies nights at the local bar, AM tends to see an overwhelming majority of men versus women. As a man, it's...
    bb2unmb bb2unmb 46-50, M 6 Responses Dec 21, 2012

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    I met two guys in AM.

    One was 50 gentleman and fun, 'till he stop being that way. We just had sex one because i left the country. We chat everyday for three months, but when i came back, he changed. We are still friends an talk and go for drinks, lunch or cofee sometimes...
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 5

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    I Just Signed Up.

    I love married men. They have their own things to do, not enough time to constantly try to control what you do or always be involved.  My "boyfriend" now is married, we see each other maybe 2 times a week.  I'm a single female by all pretenses and so far have had about 15...
    TheOtherMe TheOtherMe 26-30, F 8 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    We Want To Hear Your Stories

    AshleyMadison.com is 100% discreet. It is a safe, secure place for you to meet people in similar situations. Whether you meet and connect with someone online only, or take your relationship outside of the service...AshleyMadison.com wants to hear your stories. Please share...
    ashleymadison ashleymadison 36-40, F 9 Responses Apr 28, 2010

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    Destroying Families. Thanks Ashleymadison

    Your company's promoting is shameful. How do you sleep at night? How do you dream knowing that you ripe families apart? Heartless. That's what you are. Not only does this hurt the person being cheated on but their kids too. Me being one of them. Probably one of millions. The...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    Being a guy and married it's hard to try

    and build that trust up with other woman on there because they only think we want is sex?! ;(
    kikthegoodguy11 kikthegoodguy11 31-35, M 6 Responses Nov 25

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    Second experience. I met a wonderful succesful

    Jewish Lawyer here. Things were greay, sex awesome 'till i found out his profile was still there afyer we had sex and he had being sig in several times. I told him and he pregged me to dorgive him, telling me that it was just because of his lack of confodence ( sexless marriage...
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 5

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    Why Dating Often Fails And How You Can Succeed!

    There have been several stories about experiences on AM. Some are successful, some are not. Nonetheless, I appreciate all the authors who have shared their own experiences as great lessons for all of us. I came across this article last year. I applied it and it worked well for me...
    bambootree bambootree 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 21, 2013

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    Anatomy Of A Cheater.

    I am a cheating husband. There, I said it. It's been a long road to get to this point but I am sure my story is not unique. There are many, many guys like me. We love our families and yes, love our wives, or at least we love the memory of who our wives used to be. To say it...
    NewGuy04 NewGuy04 41-45, M 12 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    I Use Ashley Madison And I'm Very Real

    Ashley Madison may be full of pros & fakes, but it is also full of sad, lonely overweight, middle- aged men trying to play out of their league. I created a profile and met an incredibly attractive, fit, interesting well-endowed, young married man and began an affair within the...
    MrsVashaWolf MrsVashaWolf 46-50, F 6 Responses Aug 12, 2013

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    TheAnonymousTroll TheAnonymousTroll 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 6

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    Not the right place. At least

    for a woman that looks for a clean relationship ( despite we are all married) guys there get anything just to have sex. Many wants more than one woman. Many are addicted to the site. Anyways you can be lucky. A guy there is all fake. He stubned me in my back. Anyways i'll give a...
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 16

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    Wow went looking to find one special man to

    have a great affair ending up finding many guys looking for a flavor of the week. I wonder if there are any men looking to find one or are they all interested in sex only
    kgirl79 kgirl79 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 22

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    This site is amazing.

    I do not use it anymore. But when I did, it truly was a amazing. I had a very discreet affair and it was so much fun!! It is nice you can have secrets and a place to have secret fun. :)
    ScarlettAngelica ScarlettAngelica 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 10

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    I tried AM for a few months,

    but found nothing but fakes and gold diggers. If I have to directly pay for it, I think I'd rather drive to a Nevada brothel. It would be the same concept without the bullshit.
    rsb97080 rsb97080 41-45, M 3 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    Scam Mostly

    I say that as a man b/c its set up to drain u of your credits very fast. There was "troll" women, I believe made by AM. They were "online" almost 24 hrs per day.? Having said that, once u do make some connection, use email asap. I did that and made a fruitful connection off site...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 17, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I know, that's not supposed to be possible. People say it's not possible, that I'm deluding myself. I'm looking for a way out, I secretly hate her, we must have a sexless...
    roykirk roykirk 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 23

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    I really want an affair with my doctor crush! we exchange looks and giggles, he's even slabbed my *** once, I can't concentrate at work when he's there, I get so wet when I see him...
    dachgirl dachgirl 22-25, F Dec 12

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    Married but lonely looking for that naughty feeling again.. ;(
    kikthegoodguy11 kikthegoodguy11 31-35, M Nov 24

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    I haven't posted in a while and I hope you are all doing well. Today makes a year since my life was turned upside down. Not by my affair, as it hadn't started yet. But turned...
    Suzanne1976 Suzanne1976 36-40, F 5 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I got caught. Here is my story. I have been married just 3 years (7yr relationship), no kids. i decided to study 1 year away from where my husband and I live. at school is where...
    findingpeace6 findingpeace6 26-30, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Lies have been told, anxiety is kicking in, the risk is massive, and yet the flight is booked and I'm about to hop on a flight in Jan to the other side of the world to see my AP...
    ATH2000 ATH2000 36-40, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I'm on the path to healing after breakup from AP. I still miss him and want to be with him sometimes, but most of the time now, I'm glad that he's no longer a part of my life. We...
    Koalaclover Koalaclover 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 9

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    So today is a hard day for me. I sent my goodbye message. It's been almost 2 weeks since we last spoke. No reason at all. No disagreement or anything like that. But I have known...
    lovinglife11 lovinglife11 31-35, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I have been married for almost 17 years with 2 children and love my wife and family dearly. 4 years ago I got involved with another woman and the affair carried on until the end of...
    SBMSydney SBMSydney 46-50, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm an affair success story. In a short period of time, my life took a direction that I never thought possible. I never saw it coming, did things I never thought I was ever capable...
    happyasever happyasever 31-35, F 8 Responses Nov 23

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    Many people who have been in an affair say that the AP always comes back... He ended the physical affair in early September out of depression and extreme guilt. For about 5 weeks...
    Koalaclover Koalaclover 36-40, F 5 Responses Dec 11

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    I'm married, 2 gorgeous and very little children. Last year I had an affair which ended 2 months ago after 14 months. We got very close and started to plan a life together, but...
    michaelsotherwoman michaelsotherwoman 36-40, F 8 Responses Nov 25

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    I was partying a lot for a couple months after him and I were over. My body was reaching for that high the affair gave me. But of course with everything, that high eventually...
    ventingagain ventingagain 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 10

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    After almost 5 months of the most intense ride ever, my affair is over. We were (are) insanely in love with eachother. We were together on Friday the 5th and it was incredible...
    tauriangirl tauriangirl 36-40, F 29 Responses Dec 11

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    Finally, a place to find some comfort. Thank you so much for your story... of course, I draw such similarity to my experience. I have had an affair for almost 4 years and she...
    hearbrokenandlonely hearbrokenandlonely 46-50 5 days ago

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    So I'm having or had or having I don't even no anymore, an affair with who I assume is a serial cheater A serial cheater that supposedly loves and and wants to be with me (with an...
    zoey3000 zoey3000 31-35, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    My husband is currently having an emotional affair but in denial about it (shocker). I caught him, by emails, having a physical affair with a coworker about 6 months ago...
    welelm welelm 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am about to start an affair with a beautiful, sexy, intelligent women I met on EP. I have been with my wife for about 13 years & she has turned into a real *****. I fed up & want...
    LondonKiwi LondonKiwi 46-50, M 9 Responses Nov 23

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    hi.... im not sure if this is the right way to think or not.... help me :) im thinking of trying to have a short term sexual affair to boost my sex drive to save my marriage. Is...
    sexytime2010 sexytime2010 31-35, M 2 Responses Nov 25

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    Love, You will never read these words I write or know the true depth of grief I feel or how achingly I miss you. I sit out here with the fall weather upon us, the setting sun...
    2ndBruin 2ndBruin 41-45, M 13 Responses Nov 26

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    To all my EP friends, Happy Thanksgiving. If you are in an affair, ending an affair, hurting, depressed, happy, not happy....let's all find something to be thankful for. I am...
    sallyanne44 sallyanne44 41-45, F 7 Responses Nov 27

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    I had an affair with a woman and we fell in deep love. we were found out, now I'm going through a divorce and the woman I had an affair with has gone silent. my life is a wreck...
    jwl112233 jwl112233 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 28

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    So it's been 4 weeks since we have spoken. I have more good moments than bad these days. I miss him but for those of you trying to get off the crazy train of an affair.....I now...
    sallyanne44 sallyanne44 41-45, F 7 Responses Nov 30

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    I got a call from an old girlfriend of mine, she lives in Tenn so I dont get to see her much. She was in hysterical on the phone, crying so hard I hardly recognized her voice. She...
    Linley242 Linley242 51-55, F 2 Responses Dec 1

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    I've been surrounded by affairs my whole life. Both my mom and dad cheated on each other and my older sister has cheated on her husband. And I think that maybe that is the reason...
    KathyJ304 KathyJ304 26-30, F 18 Responses Dec 10

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    "You men live your lives while it is we who have to wait," says Nelly Ternan (from The Invisible Woman) I guess this is true to all affairs, the infinite waiting. I'm finding...
    stephlee99 stephlee99 26-30, F 18 Responses Dec 12

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    I'd like to hear from a married woman who finally realized that her emotional affair was wrong after years of thinking he was her soulmate. This is my life - for five years my...
    Mike405 Mike405 46-50, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm thinking of ending it. Writing him a 'dear John' letter, saying I won't be in touch, so that it forces me not to get in touch. To those that have ended an affair, how long did...
    ginwig ginwig 46-50, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    I'd like to hear from a married woman who finally realized that her emotional affair was wrong after years of thinking he was her soul mate. This is my life - for five years my...
    Mike405 Mike405 46-50, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My heart is aching. I love my affair partner so much. The end is so close I can taste it. My mind was filled of thoughts of him today. He is my true love, the one that got away...
    nitrolove nitrolove 46-50, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    I used to get angry and judge people when I found out they were having an affair. How could they do that to someone they love and who loves them? On top of that I had a...
    LifeinWoodinville LifeinWoodinville 41-45, M 8 Responses 5 days ago

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