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I Am Using Ashleymadison To Have An Affair

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    Anatomy Of A Cheater.

    I am a cheating husband. There, I said it. It's been a long road to get to this point but I am sure my story is not unique. There are many, many guys like me. We love our families and yes, love our wives, or at least we love the memory of who our wives used to be. To say it...
    NewGuy04 NewGuy04 41-45, M 12 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    I Use Ashley Madison And I'm Very Real

    Ashley Madison may be full of pros & fakes, but it is also full of sad, lonely overweight, middle- aged men trying to play out of their league. I created a profile and met an incredibly attractive, fit, interesting well-endowed, young married man and began an affair within the...
    MrsVashaWolf MrsVashaWolf 41-45, F 6 Responses Aug 12, 2013

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    Why Dating Often Fails And How You Can Succeed!

    There have been several stories about experiences on AM. Some are successful, some are not. Nonetheless, I appreciate all the authors who have shared their own experiences as great lessons for all of us. I came across this article last year. I applied it and it worked well for me...
    bambootree bambootree 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2013

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    Destroying Families. Thanks Ashleymadison

    Your company's promoting is shameful. How do you sleep at night? How do you dream knowing that you ripe families apart? Heartless. That's what you are. Not only does this hurt the person being cheated on but their kids too. Me being one of them. Probably one of millions. The...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    Perfect For The Women

    I am a single 52 year old, emptynester who has found her hormones working overtime, and traditional dating sites just wasn't working. So I accidentally found Ashley Madison and have been on there for about a month. It's not a sight for the fait at heart. Guys post private...
    50ishnowwhat 50ishnowwhat 51-55, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2013

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    Word To The Wise For Men

    Someone else out there is welcome to correct me if I'm wrong. IMO, AM is about the only game in town for married folks looking to date outside of their marriage. Like ladies nights at the local bar, AM tends to see an overwhelming majority of men versus women. As a man, it's...
    bb2unmb bb2unmb 46-50, M 5 Responses Dec 21, 2012

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    We Want To Hear Your Stories

    AshleyMadison.com is 100% discreet. It is a safe, secure place for you to meet people in similar situations. Whether you meet and connect with someone online only, or take your relationship outside of the service...AshleyMadison.com wants to hear your stories. Please share...
    ashleymadison ashleymadison 36-40, F 9 Responses Apr 28, 2010

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    I Just Signed Up.

    I love married men. They have their own things to do, not enough time to constantly try to control what you do or always be involved.  My "boyfriend" now is married, we see each other maybe 2 times a week.  I'm a single female by all pretenses and so far have had about 15...
    TheOtherMe TheOtherMe 26-30, F 9 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    This site is amazing.

    I do not use it anymore. But when I did, it truly was a amazing. I had a very discreet affair and it was so much fun!! It is nice you can have secrets and a place to have secret fun. :)
    MissScarlettAngelica MissScarlettAngelica 26-30, F Apr 10

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    I need advice from the ladies

    who have used AM. I have been using for the site for about 3 months. I've met a very good looking married guy, we've been seeing each other quite a lot for about 1.5 months (his wife is away, so he's always available). There is great chemistry but I don't think there is...
    HappySecret HappySecret 31-35, F Mar 27

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    I tried AM for a few months,

    but found nothing but fakes and gold diggers. If I have to directly pay for it, I think I'd rather drive to a Nevada brothel. It would be the same concept without the bullshit.
    rsb97080 rsb97080 41-45, M 3 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    Scam Mostly

    I say that as a man b/c its set up to drain u of your credits very fast. There was "troll" women, I believe made by AM. They were "online" almost 24 hrs per day.? Having said that, once u do make some connection, use email asap. I did that and made a fruitful connection off site...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 17, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I need some one to spoil me rotten and spend some loving time with me. Any body in Cape Town over 50?
    RainMe RainMe 46-50, F 54 mins ago

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    You know what's wrong with the world no one want to take resposabilty for there actions. When they have affairs it's allway the spouses fault and that's just a copout. Yes your...
    Trueman1944 Trueman1944 66-70, M 3 Responses Mar 23

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    I have been here for awhile hoping to come across a story similar to mine. I need help. My story has gone from dream to nightmare. Had affair. MM always said he loved us both...
    blumomma blumomma 31-35, F 12 Responses Mar 31

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    I'm writing this in the hopes that others can relate to my affair experience and help me let go. I'm very ashamed and reluctant to post this, but here it is. I've been married for...
    dsumm1 dsumm1 51-55, M 12 Responses a week ago

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    Part 3: the affair When I posted my experience on EP and how depressed I was about my situation I got a lot of positive comments and support which really helped me change my...
    unexpectedlove15 unexpectedlove15 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 30

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    I had an affair with a son of a ***** Francesco Clementucci, I really felt in love with him, despite the terrible intimate part with him and knowing that he is almost married, I...
    anna1953 anna1953 56-60, F Apr 10

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    For a little over a year I have been trying to explain the reasons and motivations behind the way I have lived my life since I married my husband. I have never been able to explain...
    isis55 isis55 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I found this TREMENDOUSLY eye opening. I read this last night on a message board about affairs and had to share ----- "Love", within infidelity, isn’t. Love in this context is...
    Wikedangel Wikedangel 36-40, F 9 Responses Mar 27

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    Posting this again... 17 Reasons Why People Cheat Break out into selfhood For a long time there are forces...
    marmelade marmelade 51-55, F 9 Responses 6 days ago

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    I wanted to share a couple of excerpts from the book "Getting Past the Affair- A Program To Help You Cope, Heal and Move On---Together or Apart" by Douglas K. Snyder, PhD, Donald...
    Selfhelpme Selfhelpme 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    So much for his word: It has been one month since he said that above all else we were best friends and he would not let as much time pass between talking with me but he was using a...
    Urbancowgirl Urbancowgirl 36-40 8 Responses Mar 24

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    My mom is cheating on my step dad with his friend. My stepdad apparently is emotional abusing her, and her lover doesn't. I know her lover, he is also married and has two kids. I...
    highschoolsweetie highschoolsweetie 18-21 Mar 26

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    My mom is cheating on my step dad with his friend. My stepdad apparently is emotional abusing her, and her lover doesn't. I know her lover, he is also married and has two kids. I...
    highschoolsweetie highschoolsweetie 18-21 Mar 26

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    It began last friday, i was excited. I was going to pick up my kawasaki Ninja 500 that i had paid for a day earlier. I had already left the house and went to my boys and we would...
    taze99 taze99 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 1

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    I have a beautiful marriage and family of 18 years. I'm a professional trustworthy and stable woman. Then I went on a business trip overseas. I sat next to a tall dark and...
    r0xypoxy r0xypoxy 36-40, F 9 Responses Apr 5

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    So another another ... Another Dollar... Not what I meant to say... What I mean is another lie.... Affairs are about lies... Left, right and centre.... Lying at home and lying...
    learner80 learner80 31-35, F 10 Responses Apr 4

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    I had an emotional affair a year ago and was devastated when my husband found out and made me end it. Surprisingly my husband wanted to stay together and work on our marriage...
    sharoneys sharoneys 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 8

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    You know what's sad all the movies that make affairs out to be so great. Affairs are nothing but pain pain for everyone. I believe they need more movies like Tyler Perry's...
    Poorspouses1 Poorspouses1 70+, M 3 Responses Apr 9

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    Yes, I sometimes do. I sometimes, but only some times, want to have an illicit affair, with all of the things that comes with this. And when I say this, of course, because it is me...
    Lgl700 Lgl700 51-55, M 1 day ago

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    I am just trying to end a 16 month affair. I am married and my husband doesn't know about the affair. I can't cope any longer with all the hurt. I am a total mess. I already miss...
    evey44 evey44 46-50, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Yes, I had an affair with married man. I was married at the time too. My marriage was already crumbling but his is still going strong and I couldn't be any happier for him. I...
    lovehimdeeply lovehimdeeply 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20

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    My ex-H had an 8 mo affair which ended our marriage last year. We may have had sex twice in the previous 2 years prior to me kicking him out. The day before I left him, I had sex...
    bluebutterfly13 bluebutterfly13 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 1

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    It all came out. I think part of me wanted to be "caught." All I ever wanted was my husband's love and attention. I saw the heartbreak on his face and I owned my deception and lies...
    MissViolet711 MissViolet711 46-50, F 11 Responses Mar 24

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    I cannot stop thinking of the incredible sensual ~sex filled ~affair that I had with my handsome Italian chiropractor! It was a crazy high voltage "love affair of a lifetime" with...
    BeJen BeJen 46-50, F 4 Responses Mar 28

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    I'm never on fb and went on and saw a pic of him and his wife commented on how sexy he was and blew a kiss emoticon. It made me furious!! How dare she?! She's found out about us...
    Australianladybug Australianladybug 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 29

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    8 years ago I had an affair with my then boyfriend's best friend. I fell so deep in love with him, he was my obsession. I just could not get away, i saw him everyday, we took trips...
    S3xym4m4 S3xym4m4 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    So after some thought and review of my own experience and others I have discovered the following. If you are involved in an affair there is something major missing from your...
    lovinglife11 lovinglife11 31-35, F 20 Responses Mar 27

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    What do you do if you want to feel every emotion imaginable in the world.... ten fold? Have an affair. My two year affair brought me the most intense pleasure and the most...
    Steph613 Steph613 41-45, F 12 Responses Mar 27

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    I did it because of my insecurity. I was married at the time and the guy gave me desire, affection, adventure, and sex all of which was missing from my marriage. My husband and I...
    sapphire601 sapphire601 31-35, F 8 Responses Mar 29

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    Where to start?? Run women, if it hasn't began yet run! It's a very long and painful road. Feelings get involved on both sides and then one stops feeling before the other and all...
    ventingagain ventingagain 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 1

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    So this is where it sucks.....I've been seeing my other guy for over nine months now. I am very much in love with him. I know your not suppose to do that in an affair but I am...
    jencpa jencpa 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 2

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    Just wanting to hear from some other married ladies like me out there who had an affair with a single man, fell in love and vice versa but decided to stay with their husband for...
    Casscat Casscat 41-45, F 6 Responses Apr 8

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    I find this forum concerning at times. Many have had affairs and been found out or come clean etc, there's a variety of scenarios but there only seems to be one option "my affair...
    Bittersweet14 Bittersweet14 26-30 7 Responses a week ago

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    I have an eating disorder and my AP doesn't even know. He loves petite skinny young girl type body figure but failed to realize with me being 5'4 and close to 100 pounds it's not...
    myheart99 myheart99 36-40, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have been having an affair due to lack of affection and lack of good sex with my husband. The affair is also with a married man. Am I alone on this?
    bekakaye4 bekakaye4 22-25, F 23 Responses 3 days ago

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    Affairs and marriage two completely different things!!! I want to be 60 with my husband and have my grandchildren come to the house. My husband takes care of me because he loves me...
    circlesnomore circlesnomore 31-35, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    MEN IN AFFAIRS: Have you told anyone in your "real life" you were in an affair? Most women have a Friend they tell. Are men the same?
    pjblack pjblack 41-45, F 9 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    A Hard Habit To Break The desire to have constant contact with you IS a Hard Habit To Break. It is true that you currently are, and have been for some time now, my first waking...
    FindingMySong FindingMySong 46-50, M 7 Responses Mar 23

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    Okay, I'll begin by acknowledging that I won't likely find a woman to have an affair with here. But I want to have an affair with a woman. I have been married 17 years and have...
    Mcluvinassman Mcluvinassman 36-40, M 5 Responses Mar 28

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    My longstanding affair ended after his spouse found out (a few times over a few years), threatened divorce and he couldn't see us ever having a "happy ending" after destroying both...
    marmelade marmelade 51-55, F 33 Responses Mar 29