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I Am Using Ashleymadison To Have An Affair

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    Why Dating Often Fails And How You Can Succeed!

    There have been several stories about experiences on AM. Some are successful, some are not. Nonetheless, I appreciate all the authors who have shared their own experiences as great lessons for all of us. I came across this article last year. I applied it and it worked well for me...
    bambootree bambootree 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2013

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    We Want To Hear Your Stories

    AshleyMadison.com is 100% discreet. It is a safe, secure place for you to meet people in similar situations. Whether you meet and connect with someone online only, or take your relationship outside of the service...AshleyMadison.com wants to hear your stories. Please share...
    ashleymadison ashleymadison 36-40, F 8 Responses Apr 28, 2010

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    Scam Mostly

    I say that as a man b/c its set up to drain u of your credits very fast. There was "troll" women, I believe made by AM. They were "online" almost 24 hrs per day.? Having said that, once u do make some connection, use email asap. I did that and made a fruitful connection off site...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 17, 2013

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    Word To The Wise For Men

    Someone else out there is welcome to correct me if I'm wrong. IMO, AM is about the only game in town for married folks looking to date outside of their marriage. Like ladies nights at the local bar, AM tends to see an overwhelming majority of men versus women. As a man, it's...
    bb2unmb bb2unmb 46-50, M 5 Responses Dec 21, 2012

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    I tried AM for a few months,

    but found nothing but fakes and gold diggers. If I have to directly pay for it, I think I'd rather drive to a Nevada brothel. It would be the same concept without the bullshit.
    rsb97080 rsb97080 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    This site is amazing.

    I do not use it anymore. But when I did, it truly was a amazing. I had a very discreet affair and it was so much fun!! It is nice you can have secrets and a place to have secret fun. :)
    ScarlettAngelica ScarlettAngelica 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 10

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    I Just Signed Up.

    I love married men. They have their own things to do, not enough time to constantly try to control what you do or always be involved.  My "boyfriend" now is married, we see each other maybe 2 times a week.  I'm a single female by all pretenses and so far have had about 15...
    TheOtherMe TheOtherMe 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    No Need For Ashley Madison

    I'll be traveling from Ohio to South Dakota. traveling down I 70 west to l 74 West then of course I 80 west if you live near any of these highways let me know I currently am sitting in Columbus Ohio I will stop for the night probably in Carroll Iowa or Sioux City Iowa but I have...
    loneTrucker80 loneTrucker80 31-35, M Aug 9, 2013

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    Destroying Families. Thanks Ashleymadison

    Your company's promoting is shameful. How do you sleep at night? How do you dream knowing that you ripe families apart? Heartless. That's what you are. Not only does this hurt the person being cheated on but their kids too. Me being one of them. Probably one of millions. The...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    I Use Ashley Madison And I'm Very Real

    Ashley Madison may be full of pros & fakes, but it is also full of sad, lonely overweight, middle- aged men trying to play out of their league. I created a profile and met an incredibly attractive, fit, interesting well-endowed, young married man and began an affair within the...
    MrsVashaWolf MrsVashaWolf 41-45, F 5 Responses Aug 12, 2013

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    Anatomy Of A Cheater.

    I am a cheating husband. There, I said it. It's been a long road to get to this point but I am sure my story is not unique. There are many, many guys like me. We love our families and yes, love our wives, or at least we love the memory of who our wives used to be. To say it...
    NewGuy04 NewGuy04 41-45, M 11 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    Perfect For The Women

    I am a single 52 year old, emptynester who has found her hormones working overtime, and traditional dating sites just wasn't working. So I accidentally found Ashley Madison and have been on there for about a month. It's not a sight for the fait at heart. Guys post private...
    50ishnowwhat 50ishnowwhat 51-55, F 1 Response Oct 27, 2013

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    I need advice from the ladies

    who have used AM. I have been using for the site for about 3 months. I've met a very good looking married guy, we've been seeing each other quite a lot for about 1.5 months (his wife is away, so he's always available). There is great chemistry but I don't think there is...
    HappySecret HappySecret 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    Wow went looking to find one special man to

    have a great affair ending up finding many guys looking for a flavor of the week. I wonder if there are any men looking to find one or are they all interested in sex only
    kgirl79 kgirl79 31-35, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Related Experiences

    Wow...I mean I like fun but this group is just...humiliating to humanity. Woooow. No doubt we women aren't as great as we claim to be, huh.
    WintersSoldier WintersSoldier 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    I wish id someday find a guy who id like to have affair with. I think i deserved that after what i was going thruh. One day i will be desired. I feel that. I didnt seareched well...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 33 Responses Jul 10

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    My husband of many years who I have 7 beautiful children with has been have affairS yes capital S with other women...i am completely broken he doesn't want a divorce but wants to...
    sweetmelissa77 sweetmelissa77 36-40, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I've posted my affair story, so not going to repeat. I've finished my Affair, which is why this title says, I HAD an affair. It's been 5 months since I was together with the...
    OnAlert OnAlert 56-60, M 11 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    After I found out the affair, after the initial denials, my husband ultimately severed contact with his AP. He had created a email account just for her and cleared that out too and...
    missingherbigtime missingherbigtime 31-35, F 6 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    My MM has disrespected me one too many times. I have tried to be everything that he wanted but have lost myself. I've lost my spark, my enthusiasm for life and even sometimes my...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 17 hrs ago

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    Betrayed wives, I have been posting stories and resources under "I am trying to save my marriage" and a few other places. An EP pal, Uht2014, has some really good info on her...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    I hate the word affair I believe it should be called what it really is cheating.
    Soevil10 Soevil10 31-35, M 5 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I'm curious about something? I am only using a MM example bc I'm a woman. How many if you married men had a physical and emotional relationship with a woman who was half your age...
    tc57 tc57 31-35, F 10 Responses Jul 3

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    Urgh I'm being ridiculous tonight! Waiting for a txt to come through so I could work out how long he stayed out for, if that meant he met someone else tonight, etc etc. ok so I...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I met this guy at a Fashion show, we never really spoke much but exchanged business cards. he later added me on skype and we'd converse daily ever since. When we had our first date...
    mwichkins mwichkins 26-30, F 15 hrs ago

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    The song Stay With Me by Sam Smith is stuck in my head. I can hear, and feel his emotions so much through his voice. So relatable, except for me, I believe it is love. I'm going...
    Ditto85 Ditto85 26-30 4 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    My husbands idea of romance is watching Big Bang Theory on the couch together. I need more!!! I crave to be touched, to be kissed. To just freaking make out with someone and...
    nevadagurl nevadagurl 41-45, F 11 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    It's been over ten years since we started dating, and he was my first 'real' boyfriend, first love, first everything. We broke up when we were around 20 and I'm 28 now. He tried...
    avprobeauty avprobeauty 26-30, F 4 Responses 4 hrs ago

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      I was watching this German documentary on polyamory. The mutual consent of partners seeing other people on a regular basis and one of the topics was jealousy. Both...
    Fmina Fmina 51-55, F 8 Responses Jun 27

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    I was told by EP to take my avatar down as it infringes copyrights. All started with me complaining to them about this guy who asked me if my profile pic was me and I wrote to him...
    Fmina Fmina 51-55, F 12 Responses Jul 14

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    Happily ever after is only in the fairy tales ladies. I was a "success" story. I thought that I got my HEA when I married my mm. That is what we all think. We think how perfect...
    blumomma blumomma 31-35, F 7 Responses Jul 17

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    Was it wrong to have an affair, to most people yes! I knew what I was doing from get go it didn't just happen. I made a profile on Ashley Madison, met a few people nothing...
    Gaffa1234 Gaffa1234 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 28

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    Did anyone have success re-establishing sex and not only sex, but passion back in their marriage after they had an affair? If you have re-established sex with wife/husband...
    Fmina Fmina 51-55, F 6 Responses Jul 2

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    Before I begin, let me first say there's no confusion here about whether or not to cheat. Can't handle the truth.... Having an affair is on my bucket list. Yeah, I said it! I...
    thatdresstho thatdresstho 41-45, F 11 Responses Jul 6

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    I ended my affair 4 months ago. I'm continuing to work on my marriage, however, I am having difficulty enjoying sex with my husband. His sex drive is pretty much dead due to his...
    Musicalangel13 Musicalangel13 31-35, F 10 Responses 6 days ago

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    Emotional Affair: Was she Narcissistic or Borderline Waif? I am a married man with two beautiful children and a wonderful wife. I have never “physically” cheated on my wife...
    DriveRiggins DriveRiggins 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 9

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    Goodbye.......... This is an update to a story I wrote on May 20th about my affair coming to an end. Since I initially wrote this story, things had taken a turn. Initially, the...
    bobrido bobrido 46-50, M 9 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't know why, but i think about cheating on my husband all the time. I am 21, we have been married for about 2 and a half years now, together for 4 and my husband is the only...
    70f0rmul4 70f0rmul4 18-21, F 13 Responses Jun 26

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    So after 19 months, I ended my affair this evening. I sent him an email telling him that I can no longer sustain the affair. We're both married and neither of our spouses found...
    lynn49 lynn49 46-50, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    I found out my husband had been having an affair and I left him. I had no desire to pursue anything with anyone else, because I knew I was vulnerable, & that I was still...
    RayMizae RayMizae 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 8

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    Cheater amaze me you have a affair then when crap gets bad you want to blame the affair partner. Well guess what it's affair it never was meant to be right. Something so wrong as...
    Trueman1944 Trueman1944 66-70, M 4 Responses Jul 11

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    See Dreamgirl75,,,you had the affair,,with your co-worker,,now you ask a question ,,Can to married people (MM and MW) Who having affair with one another 1, Stop the sex ,, yes you...
    pullupgirl103 pullupgirl103 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    How do you have an affair without getting your emotions involved? I think about an affair because I'm so lonely but I tend to get easily attached because I am longing for...
    tammie74 tammie74 36-40, F 15 Responses Jul 13

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    I am an affair success story. Due to my x-h's controlling behaviour toward me (coupled with alcohol abuse) for years, I checked out of my marriage a few years ago. I allowed fear...
    dayflight dayflight 31-35 8 Responses Jul 15

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    I was in a perfect place. Everything was amazing on Thursday ... You know I get a little emotional right after were together... Only for a day or so.. When I need you the most...
    Differentforever Differentforever 46-50, F 3 Responses Jun 29

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    Kinda of an answer for those who post "how can you say I love you to your significant other when you are having an affair?" Sometimes having an affair is the equivalent to...
    blovedsmle blovedsmle 31-35, F 12 Responses Jul 6

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    There are a few things to keep in mind: 1. This is new, and changing. I’ll take legitimate suggestions seriously. 2. This is a sport, not a style. 3. I call it “circle boxing...
    RipperCreak RipperCreak 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 6

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    Last year, I started an affair with a married man at my work. At the time, I was his boss. It was his first time cheating on his wife of 20+ years and my third time with a...
    GumboGirl GumboGirl 36-40, F 15 Responses Jul 8

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