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I Am Using Ashleymadison To Have An Affair

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 182 People

    Why Dating Often Fails And How You Can Succeed!

    There have been several stories about experiences on AM. Some are successful, some are not. Nonetheless, I appreciate all the authors who have shared their own experiences as great lessons for all of us. I came across this article last year. I applied it and it worked well for me...
    bambootree bambootree 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 21, 2013

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    I Just Signed Up.

    I love married men. They have their own things to do, not enough time to constantly try to control what you do or always be involved.  My "boyfriend" now is married, we see each other maybe 2 times a week.  I'm a single female by all pretenses and so far have had about 15...
    TheOtherMe TheOtherMe 26-30, F 9 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    Not the right place. At least

    for a woman that looks for a clean relationship ( despite we are all married) guys there get anything just to have sex. Many wants more than one woman. Many are addicted to the site. Anyways you can be lucky. A guy there is all fake. He stubned me in my back. Anyways i'll give a...
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F 6 Responses Nov 16, 2014

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    Second experience. I met a wonderful succesful

    Jewish Lawyer here. Things were greay, sex awesome 'till i found out his profile was still there afyer we had sex and he had being sig in several times. I told him and he pregged me to dorgive him, telling me that it was just because of his lack of confodence ( sexless marriage...
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    I can only echo what many other men have said

    in previous postings. AM is a loser's bet for men. I've been using AM since early 2012. I just logged in to my account. Over the past 48 hours, I can see where 92 "women" have logged in. I put women in quotes because of the 92 ads I see, 46 of them are all from the same...
    bobrido bobrido 46-50, M 4 Responses Jun 21

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    Word To The Wise For Men

    Someone else out there is welcome to correct me if I'm wrong. IMO, AM is about the only game in town for married folks looking to date outside of their marriage. Like ladies nights at the local bar, AM tends to see an overwhelming majority of men versus women. As a man, it's...
    bb2unmb bb2unmb 46-50, M 8 Responses Dec 21, 2012

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    TheAnonymousTroll TheAnonymousTroll 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 6, 2014

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    I'm actually not looking to have an affair,

    my wife and I have an open relationship. I don't like the site because, as a guy, you have to spend money to do just about anything. I've tried to include enough info in my profile to make it easy to find me on Facebook or other ways.
    Rodgers1981 Rodgers1981 31-35, M May 28

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    I tried AM for a few months,

    but found nothing but fakes and gold diggers. If I have to directly pay for it, I think I'd rather drive to a Nevada brothel. It would be the same concept without the bullshit.
    rsb97080 rsb97080 41-45, M 3 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    Being a guy and married it's hard to try

    and build that trust up with other woman on there because they only think we want is sex?! ;(
    kikthegoodguy11 kikthegoodguy11 31-35, M 9 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    Destroying Families. Thanks Ashleymadison

    Your company's promoting is shameful. How do you sleep at night? How do you dream knowing that you ripe families apart? Heartless. That's what you are. Not only does this hurt the person being cheated on but their kids too. Me being one of them. Probably one of millions. The...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    I had only modest hopes of any thing happening

    and sure enough it's been a total fail. Of course, I don't really belong on the site. I was always monogamous even before marriage, one girl at a time and only dating with a serious interest in the person. I'm trying out of desperation because my wife has been in chronic pain...
    loykhtn loykhtn 51-55, M 2 Responses Jun 4

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    Anatomy Of A Cheater.

    I am a cheating husband. There, I said it. It's been a long road to get to this point but I am sure my story is not unique. There are many, many guys like me. We love our families and yes, love our wives, or at least we love the memory of who our wives used to be. To say it...
    NewGuy04 NewGuy04 41-45, M 14 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    I had my first encounter,

    my husband and I talked about it since we got married. We are a realist and know from the start that attractions fade and sooner or later one of us would want to sleep with somebody. It finally happened. And omg! Mind blowing sex. I also really like this guy, he is nice and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 23

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    This site is amazing.

    I do not use it anymore. But when I did, it truly was a amazing. I had a very discreet affair and it was so much fun!! It is nice you can have secrets and a place to have secret fun. :)
    ScarlettAngelica ScarlettAngelica 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 10, 2014

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    Wow went looking to find one special man to

    have a great affair ending up finding many guys looking for a flavor of the week. I wonder if there are any men looking to find one or are they all interested in sex only
    kgirl79 kgirl79 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 22, 2014

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    I met two guys in AM.

    One was 50 gentleman and fun, 'till he stop being that way. We just had sex one because i left the country. We chat everyday for three months, but when i came back, he changed. We are still friends an talk and go for drinks, lunch or cofee sometimes...
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    I Use Ashley Madison And I'm Very Real

    Ashley Madison may be full of pros & fakes, but it is also full of sad, lonely overweight, middle- aged men trying to play out of their league. I created a profile and met an incredibly attractive, fit, interesting well-endowed, young married man and began an affair within the...
    MrsVashaWolf MrsVashaWolf 46-50, F 9 Responses Aug 12, 2013

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    Scam Mostly

    I say that as a man b/c its set up to drain u of your credits very fast. There was "troll" women, I believe made by AM. They were "online" almost 24 hrs per day.? Having said that, once u do make some connection, use email asap. I did that and made a fruitful connection off site...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 17, 2013

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    We Want To Hear Your Stories

    AshleyMadison.com is 100% discreet. It is a safe, secure place for you to meet people in similar situations. Whether you meet and connect with someone online only, or take your relationship outside of the service...AshleyMadison.com wants to hear your stories. Please share...
    ashleymadison ashleymadison 36-40, F 9 Responses Apr 28, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    It's 5 weeks since I decided to end my affair. I think the worst of the withdrawals are over. I did not cut off complete contact although I may in two more weeks. I'm a bit...
    seashaker seashaker 46-50, F 10 hrs ago

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    I used to think about it all the time..... I finally had one.... If she would want to do it again, I would! I have no regrets. But she now only wants to be friends. Sadness...
    CampinMan CampinMan 51-55, M 13 hrs ago

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    I'm married to my husband but I had an affair with a women. I really loved it and now I'm heart broken it has ended. It doesn't seem logical for it to keep going beside we are...
    jobenson jobenson 31-35, F 23 hrs ago

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    I just came to the realization that most affairs are based on LUST.. TEMPTATION... and most of all GREAT SEX..and all of that can sometimes be mistaken for a Crazy Addiction..now...
    IWhoAmI IWhoAmI 31-35, F 10 Responses 1 day ago

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    So many years ago I had an affair it was wonderful wasn't happy at home so I ventured out and found her
    layedback75 layedback75 36-40, M 2 days ago

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    Really horny rn👅 maybe a married man will help my craving?
    Musso18 Musso18 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Where do I start? What do I say? It's been months since I last posted a story/experience. I want to come here and tell you all that I'm the happiest I've ever been since he's left...
    Missybad Missybad 26-30, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Men please speak up. How are you feeling, thinking and coping if your affair is over? How do you justify your affair if it is not over? Do you think you can reconnect to your wife...
    just2night just2night 41-45, F 15 Responses 4 days ago

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    I made a huge mistake when I didn't give an ultimatum when I found out about my wife's emotional affair.
    Niceguy6 Niceguy6 51-55, M 5 days ago

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    Okay, folks, an unusual situation here. About a year ago I started an affair with a married man, who, like myself, longed for intimacy (not just sexual). Our marriages do not...
    Cestmoi2019 Cestmoi2019 36-40, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hi, I'm looking for some help from the guys in this group. I didn't have an affair, I was cheated on. I left and I'm dating again. I want to know what makes you cheat, aside from a...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    so I've been in this affair for 2 years. hes ended it numerous times. mostly because of guilt and I should respect that. just because I'm not feeling guilty doesn't mean he shouldn...
    libby59 libby59 46-50 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm hurt, sad , numb ,lost, confused. I ended a 2 yr affair 3 days ago. I am married and my Ap is single. I love him, am in love with him. However our relationship for the most...
    IWhoAmI IWhoAmI 31-35, F 13 Responses a week ago

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    Because of the way our marriage have turned out I have been thinking about other women more and more... Last time we where intimate with each other was early 2013 (this I wrote in...
    SteinHansson SteinHansson 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    What's not to want on having an affair?When you have a boyfriend, you can request many things...kisses there, hugs here...yeah love is on the air.But what's more in store is during...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 20 Responses Aug 26

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    What I see, I wish he would see in himself, he can be the most amazing most intellectual, kind, loving, sweet natured man when he unlocks his walls. He can be my world, my love, my...
    HisBeautifulDisaster HisBeautifulDisaster 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    As I've complained about my wife's infidelities I've wondered about what it would be like to have an affair. When I mentioned that I didn't share my wife's interest in other...
    VeryBear VeryBear 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 23

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    The morning dawn removes the hidden of the night's dark. An affair that goes no-where is an illusion that the Other Person, the MM, the AP lives. Ours is the disappointment to...
    Fmina Fmina 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    The nature of forbidden love is uncertainties. I hated that. I hated that feeling of there is no tomorrow. Any promises are just fake and empty. I hated that. I cannot say about...
    MorningRose10 MorningRose10 31-35, F 9 Responses Aug 23

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    I am married, so is he. I love my husband, I love the man I had an affair with, I'm a mess. Let me be clear, this is the first time I've done this. And I've been married over 25...
    lolagrace90 lolagrace90 41-45, F 18 Responses Aug 22

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    I'm actually had more then one affair with a married man. The first was when I was a teenager, I had a relationship with a guy I babysat for. His wife was friends with my mom, and...
    karebear92 karebear92 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I dont get why people who are having an affair are turned on by the thrill of being caught,I ended mine coz hiding too much from alot of people made me realize that theres too much...
    charmedangel1978 charmedangel1978 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 21

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    Hi all. Here's a question for you all. When you have had or are having an affair, is there any expectation of the affair lasting long term forever or do both sides understand...
    NJBeachGuy NJBeachGuy 51-55, M 17 Responses Aug 21