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I Am Using Ashleymadison To Have An Affair

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    Wow went looking to find one special man to

    have a great affair ending up finding many guys looking for a flavor of the week. I wonder if there are any men looking to find one or are they all interested in sex only
    kgirl79 kgirl79 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 22, 2014

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    TheAnonymousTroll TheAnonymousTroll 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 6, 2014

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    I met two guys in AM.

    One was 50 gentleman and fun, 'till he stop being that way. We just had sex one because i left the country. We chat everyday for three months, but when i came back, he changed. We are still friends an talk and go for drinks, lunch or cofee sometimes...
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    I Just Signed Up.

    I love married men. They have their own things to do, not enough time to constantly try to control what you do or always be involved.  My "boyfriend" now is married, we see each other maybe 2 times a week.  I'm a single female by all pretenses and so far have had about 15...
    TheOtherMe TheOtherMe 26-30, F 9 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    Word To The Wise For Men

    Someone else out there is welcome to correct me if I'm wrong. IMO, AM is about the only game in town for married folks looking to date outside of their marriage. Like ladies nights at the local bar, AM tends to see an overwhelming majority of men versus women. As a man, it's...
    bb2unmb bb2unmb 46-50, M 6 Responses Dec 21, 2012

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    Why Dating Often Fails And How You Can Succeed!

    There have been several stories about experiences on AM. Some are successful, some are not. Nonetheless, I appreciate all the authors who have shared their own experiences as great lessons for all of us. I came across this article last year. I applied it and it worked well for me...
    bambootree bambootree 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 21, 2013

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    We Want To Hear Your Stories

    AshleyMadison.com is 100% discreet. It is a safe, secure place for you to meet people in similar situations. Whether you meet and connect with someone online only, or take your relationship outside of the service...AshleyMadison.com wants to hear your stories. Please share...
    ashleymadison ashleymadison 36-40, F 9 Responses Apr 28, 2010

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    Scam Mostly

    I say that as a man b/c its set up to drain u of your credits very fast. There was "troll" women, I believe made by AM. They were "online" almost 24 hrs per day.? Having said that, once u do make some connection, use email asap. I did that and made a fruitful connection off site...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 17, 2013

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    Not the right place. At least

    for a woman that looks for a clean relationship ( despite we are all married) guys there get anything just to have sex. Many wants more than one woman. Many are addicted to the site. Anyways you can be lucky. A guy there is all fake. He stubned me in my back. Anyways i'll give a...
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F 5 Responses Nov 16, 2014

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    Anatomy Of A Cheater.

    I am a cheating husband. There, I said it. It's been a long road to get to this point but I am sure my story is not unique. There are many, many guys like me. We love our families and yes, love our wives, or at least we love the memory of who our wives used to be. To say it...
    NewGuy04 NewGuy04 41-45, M 13 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    I tried AM for a few months,

    but found nothing but fakes and gold diggers. If I have to directly pay for it, I think I'd rather drive to a Nevada brothel. It would be the same concept without the bullshit.
    rsb97080 rsb97080 41-45, M 3 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    This site is amazing.

    I do not use it anymore. But when I did, it truly was a amazing. I had a very discreet affair and it was so much fun!! It is nice you can have secrets and a place to have secret fun. :)
    ScarlettAngelica ScarlettAngelica 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 10, 2014

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    Destroying Families. Thanks Ashleymadison

    Your company's promoting is shameful. How do you sleep at night? How do you dream knowing that you ripe families apart? Heartless. That's what you are. Not only does this hurt the person being cheated on but their kids too. Me being one of them. Probably one of millions. The...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    Second experience. I met a wonderful succesful

    Jewish Lawyer here. Things were greay, sex awesome 'till i found out his profile was still there afyer we had sex and he had being sig in several times. I told him and he pregged me to dorgive him, telling me that it was just because of his lack of confodence ( sexless marriage...
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    I Use Ashley Madison And I'm Very Real

    Ashley Madison may be full of pros & fakes, but it is also full of sad, lonely overweight, middle- aged men trying to play out of their league. I created a profile and met an incredibly attractive, fit, interesting well-endowed, young married man and began an affair within the...
    MrsVashaWolf MrsVashaWolf 46-50, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2013

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    Being a guy and married it's hard to try

    and build that trust up with other woman on there because they only think we want is sex?! ;(
    kikthegoodguy11 kikthegoodguy11 31-35, M 9 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    The worst thing about the whole affair is losing peace of mind and soul.
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    When I am angry with my husband I think about it a lot. But then I don't think i would ever be able to really lay with another man for a one hitter quitter. It would have to be a...
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    I am really annoyed that my ex AP tried to get in touch with me for several months (4 texts & an email I ignored for 3+ months), and then when I finally respond to him, he talks to...
    broken418 broken418 22-25, F 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I am the result of an affair A girl I tried 4 years to date is dating someone she knows for 3 months A girl I loved cheated on me on our 7 month anniversary(a month after I nearly...
    pilot2022 pilot2022 13-15, M 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    These men we chose play games with us. They have zero regard for how we feel. Ignorant and self centered they are! Why do we keep going back for more? Like it's going change! It...
    lovinglife11 lovinglife11 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Need some advice from anyone who's been in a similar situation. I've been trying to go non contact with my narc mother for three months neaely and I have had abusive letters, texts...
    mummytozach mummytozach 22-25, F 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    My name is Dennis Day...If the lord allows me ..I'll turn 51 in june...wow..where does time fly...My daddy is bobby day..google him..my cousin...my grandmothers sister son..is...
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    For a while I suspected my girlfriend had been fooling around with other people because it's the type of person she is. But she told me she changed and I just thought it was all in...
    hollywood03 hollywood03 16-17, F 10 hrs ago

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    I was walking trough my hometown. Near the apartment building where i grew up there was another apartment building that was stopped about 75% trough it's construction. They did all...
    kayoshin kayoshin 31-35, M 4 hrs ago

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    I'm currently in the middle of an affair.... This has probably been the most painful experience of my life. I say that very aware of how painful life can been, at a young age I've...
    lit4love lit4love 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 19

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    Not much upsets me... When people are in affaires and are happy... It really upsets me when people try and knock down their happiness... Not all affairs end bad.... How can...
    Differentforever Differentforever 46-50, F 6 Responses Mar 23

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    I just want to thank each and every one of you for contributing your experiences on here. So so many come to mind, but I have been in turmoil for 2 years and relied on people who...
    LoveExplorer78 LoveExplorer78 36-40, M 3 Responses Apr 10

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    Pep-talk to self: 1. What he does or who he is with is not your concern. He can be with her, or some new girl. If it is her, good that he manned up and showed commitment. If it is...
    HurtsEverywhere HurtsEverywhere 31-35, F 11 Responses 3 days ago

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    Husband and I bought a 28ft toy hauler. It's pretty rad. Front queen bedroom, very clean. Paid 13000 cash so no overhead. Rebuilding rebuilding rebuilding. We are getting stronger...
    ventingagain ventingagain 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    As I look back at my affair, I look back at what it was, path that lead to so much pain and destruction. There is so much that it caused between my wife and I. Something else that...
    Notsosimpletoday Notsosimpletoday 31-35, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm married in a sexless marriage, very smart with discreet phone apps and just out of a year long affair with a woman that wanted to get married & have kids with me, but I'm...
    LoveExplorer78 LoveExplorer78 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 23

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    Some days post affair I love my life. Love my loving husband, love my work, love the vacations. Some days it feels like drudgery. The things that the helper missed out on, the...
    HurtsEverywhere HurtsEverywhere 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 27

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    It's crazy how an affair consumes you, everything about you, your life, your work, every waking moment is spent thinking how you are going to get your next fix, it's the happiest I...
    mntmama mntmama 36-40, F 7 Responses Mar 30

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    I'm not sure if this a question or just a story that I have to tell. I just had a 5 month affair blow up recently. I am married for 20 years in my late forties with no children. I...
    phxguy2001 phxguy2001 46-50, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have a question for you, the ones who left their partners while/after having an affair. I don't want to leave my husband because of my AP. I want to leave him for me, because I...
    Natalie012 Natalie012 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 19

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    It's been 2 years and I still love him. It wasn't technically an affair since neither of us were married, but we were both in long term relationships that could've led to marriage...
    dreamcatcher117 dreamcatcher117 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    I'd like to meet someone who has had a long term affair with a mm that had a child, and that the ending is he left the wife and the two affair partners got a relationship and...
    sethlw sethlw 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    I had an affair. It's been over a year. I don't think of him every minute anymore. He's still very much in my life. We were friends for many years before it grew. We did and do...
    lilsecret1 lilsecret1 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    When I first laid eyes on him, I knew I was in the presence of something out of my control.. I was awakened.... I told myself to stay away from this man. I did the opposite...
    Differentforever Differentforever 46-50, F 8 Responses Apr 1

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    Hello, I started an affair, it's been one month, at the beginning when he proposed me I stayed quiet coz I didn't know what to say but I had a soft comer for him and I think he...
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