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I Am Using Ashleymadison To Have An Affair

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    This site is amazing.

    I do not use it anymore. But when I did, it truly was a amazing. I had a very discreet affair and it was so much fun!! It is nice you can have secrets and a place to have secret fun. :)
    ScarlettAngelica ScarlettAngelica 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 10, 2014

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    Scam Mostly

    I say that as a man b/c its set up to drain u of your credits very fast. There was "troll" women, I believe made by AM. They were "online" almost 24 hrs per day.? Having said that, once u do make some connection, use email asap. I did that and made a fruitful connection off site...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 17, 2013

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    Wow went looking to find one special man to

    have a great affair ending up finding many guys looking for a flavor of the week. I wonder if there are any men looking to find one or are they all interested in sex only
    kgirl79 kgirl79 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 22, 2014

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    Not the right place. At least

    for a woman that looks for a clean relationship ( despite we are all married) guys there get anything just to have sex. Many wants more than one woman. Many are addicted to the site. Anyways you can be lucky. A guy there is all fake. He stubned me in my back. Anyways i'll give a...
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 16, 2014

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    I tried AM for a few months,

    but found nothing but fakes and gold diggers. If I have to directly pay for it, I think I'd rather drive to a Nevada brothel. It would be the same concept without the bullshit.
    rsb97080 rsb97080 41-45, M 3 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    I Just Signed Up.

    I love married men. They have their own things to do, not enough time to constantly try to control what you do or always be involved.  My "boyfriend" now is married, we see each other maybe 2 times a week.  I'm a single female by all pretenses and so far have had about 15...
    TheOtherMe TheOtherMe 26-30, F 8 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    We Want To Hear Your Stories

    AshleyMadison.com is 100% discreet. It is a safe, secure place for you to meet people in similar situations. Whether you meet and connect with someone online only, or take your relationship outside of the service...AshleyMadison.com wants to hear your stories. Please share...
    ashleymadison ashleymadison 36-40, F 9 Responses Apr 28, 2010

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    Destroying Families. Thanks Ashleymadison

    Your company's promoting is shameful. How do you sleep at night? How do you dream knowing that you ripe families apart? Heartless. That's what you are. Not only does this hurt the person being cheated on but their kids too. Me being one of them. Probably one of millions. The...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    Why Dating Often Fails And How You Can Succeed!

    There have been several stories about experiences on AM. Some are successful, some are not. Nonetheless, I appreciate all the authors who have shared their own experiences as great lessons for all of us. I came across this article last year. I applied it and it worked well for me...
    bambootree bambootree 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 21, 2013

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    I met two guys in AM.

    One was 50 gentleman and fun, 'till he stop being that way. We just had sex one because i left the country. We chat everyday for three months, but when i came back, he changed. We are still friends an talk and go for drinks, lunch or cofee sometimes...
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2014

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    Anatomy Of A Cheater.

    I am a cheating husband. There, I said it. It's been a long road to get to this point but I am sure my story is not unique. There are many, many guys like me. We love our families and yes, love our wives, or at least we love the memory of who our wives used to be. To say it...
    NewGuy04 NewGuy04 41-45, M 12 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    Being a guy and married it's hard to try

    and build that trust up with other woman on there because they only think we want is sex?! ;(
    kikthegoodguy11 kikthegoodguy11 31-35, M 7 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    I Use Ashley Madison And I'm Very Real

    Ashley Madison may be full of pros & fakes, but it is also full of sad, lonely overweight, middle- aged men trying to play out of their league. I created a profile and met an incredibly attractive, fit, interesting well-endowed, young married man and began an affair within the...
    MrsVashaWolf MrsVashaWolf 46-50, F 6 Responses Aug 12, 2013

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    TheAnonymousTroll TheAnonymousTroll 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 6, 2014

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    Second experience. I met a wonderful succesful

    Jewish Lawyer here. Things were greay, sex awesome 'till i found out his profile was still there afyer we had sex and he had being sig in several times. I told him and he pregged me to dorgive him, telling me that it was just because of his lack of confodence ( sexless marriage...
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    Word To The Wise For Men

    Someone else out there is welcome to correct me if I'm wrong. IMO, AM is about the only game in town for married folks looking to date outside of their marriage. Like ladies nights at the local bar, AM tends to see an overwhelming majority of men versus women. As a man, it's...
    bb2unmb bb2unmb 46-50, M 6 Responses Dec 21, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I am a 57 year old male looking for a younger woman to exchange email with on an ongoing basis. Maybe eventually meet if we get tired of typing. I am kind and easy to talk to and...
    seethruman seethruman 56-60, M 1 Response Dec 26, 2014

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    When I broke the news to my ex-husband that I am finished for good (I left, never to look back), I decided to see a really good therapist to help me move forward with my AP (when...
    happyasever happyasever 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 14

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    I met and fell in love with the man I had an affair with before I even met my husband, but he never noticed me that way, until of course I was engaged. I met the other man when I...
    pamdaqtpi pamdaqtpi 26-30, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Day 6 of no contact today and I have hit a wall. Struggling like nothing I have ever experienced before and using every bit of strength I have to not text. I wish this feeling...
    TASTRS TASTRS 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 6

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    Memoir of a New Life To say that I had a good relationship with my mother prior to my marriage would be an understatement. She could be overbearing and meddlesome with a very...
    pseudonympublic pseudonympublic 46-50, M 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    H and I decided to divorce. I wonder how much of that decision is based on H finding out about my affair. He will never forgive me, even after months of therapy, its easier for him...
    findingpeace6 findingpeace6 26-30, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    What had the affair change you/your perspectives in relationships the most? My background: I was TOW (the other women) and fell in love VERY deeply with a MM. Was beyond...
    lostsoul0311 lostsoul0311 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    Happy New Year! I have been reading your stories for a while, and now feel comfortable sharing mine. I decided to end my marriage as soon as I am financially able to do so...
    susannayoga susannayoga 56-60, F Jan 1

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    I had an affair, but we ended things. I feel like I should explain this one a bit. I fell in love with this man before I met my husband but he never noticed me. While I was engaged...
    pamdaqtpi pamdaqtpi 26-30, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    I ended my affair for many reasons as explained in other stories. I fell in love with him because when my life was at it's worst he made me laugh and gave me hope. Well this past...
    pamdaqtpi pamdaqtpi 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    If you are no longer in an online affair how did it end? Did you go back to your spouse? Did it fizzle out? Did you, or the other person, meet someone in the "real world" (for...
    LifeinWoodinville LifeinWoodinville 41-45, M 3 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    I met a woman on a night out with the lads this year whilst in a relationship for 8 years. We started having an affair for over a month, and it turned out to be very passionate...
    Lonelyman1977 Lonelyman1977 36-40 5 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    today I realized that although I keep telling my husband and our couples therapist that im "all in" to work to reconstruct our marriage after he found out about my affair, I haven...
    findingpeace6 findingpeace6 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    Soo I'm back for a venting session. My affair partner and I have been getting along great. He had been out of town for weeks, but we would see each other on the weekends. We...
    Justinkar Justinkar 46-50, F 5 Responses Jan 5

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    For those of you whose affair has ended, how do you come to that conclusion and acceptance? Logically I know the affair has ended, but I checked my chest and my heart is still...
    HurtsEverywhere HurtsEverywhere 31-35, F 19 Responses Jan 7

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    I started having an online affair with a man I have never met about 5 months ago. We live thousands of miles apart and are both married with children. My marriage has been...
    Lune41 Lune41 41-45, F 10 Responses Jan 12

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    Maybe the wrong forum but my lover has ended our affair. Apart from a short break in June we have been meeting for 10 months. Problem, I am his boss. I and he are married, and we...
    hearttornrose hearttornrose 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 12

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    So the other night I was with a woman I have been having an affair with for the last 9 months or so. We got on the topic of do our spouses know and she says she thinks her H is...
    rangerrick1958 rangerrick1958 56-60, M 15 Responses Jan 13

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    My story is detailed in other posts but just summing up my last 20months of struggle... Unfortunately I couldn't handle my wife's affair and the fact she had sex with someone else...
    Letsrockit Letsrockit 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 14

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    My story is detailed in other posts but just summing up my last 20months of struggle... Unfortunately I couldn't handle my wife's affair and the fact she had sex with someone else...
    Letsrockit Letsrockit 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 14

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    My story is detailed in other posts but just summing up my last 20months of struggle... Unfortunately I couldn't handle my wife's affair and the fact she had sex with someone else...
    Letsrockit Letsrockit 36-40, M Jan 14

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    I am having a hard time right now, and need a little advise. I am married and was having an affair with a married man for almost a year. He has opened my eyes in so many ways and...
    josephine79 josephine79 31-35, F 10 Responses Jan 14

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    H was commenting that I was so unhappy the past two months. That was when the break up with AP happened. He said I was happier before, and he felt that he could concentrate at...
    HurtsEverywhere HurtsEverywhere 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 15

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    I've come 11,000 km to see and end my affair. I'm minutes away from seeing him after 6 months. We promise each other no sex. But sex is such a huge part of who we are to each...
    ATH2000 ATH2000 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 18

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    Everything's gonna be alright.. Something clicked inside me ..I'm not sure what.. I'm at peace. My rebound fling ended four days ago.. It served its purpose. He bought back...
    Differentforever Differentforever 46-50, F 9 Responses Jan 18

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    he couldn't handle my emotional meltdowns (typical BPD style) and confessed to his wife a vm "toned down" version, a calculated move, before he risked the chance of me telling on...
    69NTD8 69NTD8 36-40, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    If men in affairs are truly cake eaters, why are so many men on here in such turmoil? Why won't they choose? What is it that hurts them in an affair?
    just2night just2night 41-45, F 16 Responses 6 days ago

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    For those of you following my story you know where I am. While here 11,000 km from home, my AP and I have made some progress. Past Sunday was the hardest of the week so far...
    ATH2000 ATH2000 36-40, F 14 Responses 5 days ago

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    Has anyone met their online affair? I'm just curious to know how it went. Did the person meet your expectations? How and where did you meet? What happened after you met, did it...
    LifeinWoodinville LifeinWoodinville 41-45, M 3 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    I watched a movie called 28 Hotel Rooms on Netflix. It is about an affair. I thought that someone in this group may want to see it.
    broken418 broken418 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    .L’article 11 fait enfin état du ?droit de toute personne à un niveau de vie suffisant, y compris une nourriture, un vête-ment et un logement suffisant...
    calabroka calabroka 26-30, F Dec 29, 2014

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