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I Am Using Ashleymadison To Have An Affair

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 147 People

    Word To The Wise For Men

    Someone else out there is welcome to correct me if I'm wrong. IMO, AM is about the only game in town for married folks looking to date outside of their marriage. Like ladies nights at the local bar, AM tends to see an overwhelming majority of men versus women. As a man, it's...
    bb2unmb bb2unmb 46-50, M 5 Responses Dec 21, 2012

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    Why Dating Often Fails And How You Can Succeed!

    There have been several stories about experiences on AM. Some are successful, some are not. Nonetheless, I appreciate all the authors who have shared their own experiences as great lessons for all of us. I came across this article last year. I applied it and it worked well for me...
    bambootree bambootree 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 21, 2013

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    I Use Ashley Madison And I'm Very Real

    Ashley Madison may be full of pros & fakes, but it is also full of sad, lonely overweight, middle- aged men trying to play out of their league. I created a profile and met an incredibly attractive, fit, interesting well-endowed, young married man and began an affair within the...
    MrsVashaWolf MrsVashaWolf 41-45, F 6 Responses Aug 12, 2013

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    Anatomy Of A Cheater.

    I am a cheating husband. There, I said it. It's been a long road to get to this point but I am sure my story is not unique. There are many, many guys like me. We love our families and yes, love our wives, or at least we love the memory of who our wives used to be. To say it...
    NewGuy04 NewGuy04 41-45, M 11 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    I need advice from the ladies

    who have used AM. I have been using for the site for about 3 months. I've met a very good looking married guy, we've been seeing each other quite a lot for about 1.5 months (his wife is away, so he's always available). There is great chemistry but I don't think there is...
    HappySecret HappySecret 36-40, F 8 Responses Mar 27

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    No Need For Ashley Madison

    I'll be traveling from Ohio to South Dakota. traveling down I 70 west to l 74 West then of course I 80 west if you live near any of these highways let me know I currently am sitting in Columbus Ohio I will stop for the night probably in Carroll Iowa or Sioux City Iowa but I have...
    loneTrucker80 loneTrucker80 31-35, M Aug 9, 2013

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    Wow went looking to find one special man to

    have a great affair ending up finding many guys looking for a flavor of the week. I wonder if there are any men looking to find one or are they all interested in sex only
    kgirl79 kgirl79 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 22

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    Scam Mostly

    I say that as a man b/c its set up to drain u of your credits very fast. There was "troll" women, I believe made by AM. They were "online" almost 24 hrs per day.? Having said that, once u do make some connection, use email asap. I did that and made a fruitful connection off site...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 17, 2013

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    Perfect For The Women

    I am a single 52 year old, emptynester who has found her hormones working overtime, and traditional dating sites just wasn't working. So I accidentally found Ashley Madison and have been on there for about a month. It's not a sight for the fait at heart. Guys post private...
    50ishnowwhat 50ishnowwhat 51-55, F 1 Response Oct 27, 2013

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    I Just Signed Up.

    I love married men. They have their own things to do, not enough time to constantly try to control what you do or always be involved.  My "boyfriend" now is married, we see each other maybe 2 times a week.  I'm a single female by all pretenses and so far have had about 15...
    TheOtherMe TheOtherMe 26-30, F 8 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    This site is amazing.

    I do not use it anymore. But when I did, it truly was a amazing. I had a very discreet affair and it was so much fun!! It is nice you can have secrets and a place to have secret fun. :)
    ScarlettAngelica ScarlettAngelica 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 10

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    We Want To Hear Your Stories

    AshleyMadison.com is 100% discreet. It is a safe, secure place for you to meet people in similar situations. Whether you meet and connect with someone online only, or take your relationship outside of the service...AshleyMadison.com wants to hear your stories. Please share...
    ashleymadison ashleymadison 36-40, F 9 Responses Apr 28, 2010

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    Destroying Families. Thanks Ashleymadison

    Your company's promoting is shameful. How do you sleep at night? How do you dream knowing that you ripe families apart? Heartless. That's what you are. Not only does this hurt the person being cheated on but their kids too. Me being one of them. Probably one of millions. The...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    I tried AM for a few months,

    but found nothing but fakes and gold diggers. If I have to directly pay for it, I think I'd rather drive to a Nevada brothel. It would be the same concept without the bullshit.
    rsb97080 rsb97080 41-45, M 3 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I think it's really sad that I've seen alot of women get romantically involved with married men. As a single person like myself, I feel like it's not really worth it because you're...
    texaschic35 texaschic35 31-35, F Aug 15

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    Married man in Melbourne, Australia. Any ladies looking...? We can chat and maybe meet up during the day.
    melbourneonly melbourneonly 46-50, M 13 hrs ago

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    My affair showed me I have a side of me that is manipulative and selfish. I used to listen to this song over and over so loud. I love this song http://youtu.be/u3u22OYqFGo It...
    ventingagain ventingagain 31-35, F 22 mins ago

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    Its been one year today... One year ago I crossed the line and entered an affair.. It's not my first rodeo.. Or his.. In the beginning I remember saying to My MM..We do this for...
    Differentforever Differentforever 46-50, F 5 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I used / am using the same strategy to cope with the end of my affair as I do when walking in the hills: When faced with a large hill, for either recreational walking or work, I...
    junkfan junkfan 56-60, M 7 Responses Aug 18

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    A few friends and I went out for a meal 3 years ago. One of the guys Steve is a very hard drinker - he drinks practically every day to the point of being drunk. His whole life...
    andyp3136 andyp3136 51-55 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    All 94 luxury villas lie to the Beach front or around the h2o, their common Maldivian architecture Improved by nearly anything from committed butlers to private swimming pools...
    Jeffrybup Jeffrybup 31-35, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    A window into the emotions of a couples counseling session as the betrayed wife...and those "AHAH!" moments. We are past a year since DDay. Our sessions back then were on coping...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    These a few places to eat offer breakfast, lunch and supper buffets. Breakfast is continental which has a Dwell cooking station. Lunch is a light affair while themed buffets from...
    Rileyrr1962 Rileyrr1962 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I was wondering how long it would be before I got the nasty responses that ive seen plague other posts...so today I did. I find it strange that my entire purpose for using this is...
    vuexter vuexter 36-40, F 8 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I think it's time I called out for help or advice.... I am a very very jealous person and I don't mean to be and I do not do it on purpose. I don't really know where it all came...
    TheUnpredictable9 TheUnpredictable9 18-21, F Aug 6

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    To those who are having an affair, thinking about it, or to those who did...4 years i had an affair, he ended it all in a pretty messed up way...he doesnt want me he doesnt love me...
    TornLove82 TornLove82 31-35, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I have one year left at my community college and I don't even know what I want to major in after I continue. I'm currently majoring in Liberal Arts and Sciences/General Studies...
    jahein137 jahein137 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    I am obsessed with curly hair. I make it a point to try to compliment almost everyone that I see with great curly hair! People really appreciate it, too! I have naturally curly...
    NYX78 NYX78 36-40, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I'm 55 and a 22-year survivor of ovarian cancer. I'm also a 55-year survivor of a passive-aggressive mother. My mom had a pretty tough childhood, and I am sad to know the awful...
    Katsez01 Katsez01 51-55, F 35 mins ago

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    I met my OH when I was 13 and he was 15.... we are pretty much together since than with some on/off phases inbetween. When I was 18 I had an affair with his younger cousin who was...
    anniecherry anniecherry 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 29

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    My friend and her husband got in a fight this last weekend. Her husband knows she had an affair. When he drinks he becomes insane. Last weekend he yelled at all the kids told them...
    Circlesnomore Circlesnomore 31-35, F 10 Responses Aug 7

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    Well it's officially been a month since I made the hard decision of starting fresh and ending my affair once and for all. It's actually been over a month since our last...
    platnum2011 platnum2011 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    The reason I'm here is because I had an online affair. It was the start of things to come. He went away abruptly and I was really upset. I looked up "online affair" on the net to...
    FrolickingFemale FrolickingFemale 36-40, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have known that this was an actual thing for a couple years now. My parents still don't believe that it's an actual form of OCD and they keep telling me to "just stop". I have...
    cyrn97 cyrn97 16-17, F 9 hrs ago

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    ( will have google translate to help me to) I don't know why, I have been using someone's laptop and the internet has been messing up so if it keeps messing up a lot he told me...
    Blazingdragon Blazingdragon 13-15, M 9 hrs ago

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    I have been involved with a wonderful man for over a year now. I have been married for 37 years, same with my OM We both have voids in our long term marriages, that apparently we...
    downbytheriver downbytheriver 56-60, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I got married at a very young age. I would have to say it was pretty happy for the most part. In 2008 I began an affair that finally ended in 2010 when my husband found out.I was...
    manyregrets manyregrets 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    I am capable of loving 2 persons at a time perhaps. Of course, I am not perfect. .but the affair that I had . .did teach me a lot of things. I was caught . .I had no idea how...
    SwanLake78 SwanLake78 36-40, F 16 Responses Aug 14

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    After some of the replies to my post yesterday, I see that plenty of people are on here to attack people that have had an affair, to try to make us feel worse for what we have done...
    Suzanne1976 Suzanne1976 36-40, F 19 Responses Aug 14

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    I miss my affair. I no longer miss HER because, for all her wonderful traits, she was still quite a narcissistic piece of work. Everything was about her, and I guess that my...
    junkfan junkfan 56-60, M 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    Thought I had a solid marriage, I love my husband. Started having an affair with an older man I've known awhile. This is my first affair after 10 yrs of happy marriage. At first...
    opentolearn opentolearn 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 9

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    Just putting some thoughts together... An affair is how much you are willing to deal with in your affair and in your marriage My ex OM had the choice to stay or leave his marriage...
    ventingagain ventingagain 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    Thanks everyone for the advice about the safest way to meet him .. I asked him yesterday what his thoughts were on where we should go..( for those of you who don't know a cop...
    Differentforever Differentforever 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 12

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    Qu for men- after finishing affair, did you keep your ex affair a friend/remain in contact etc and why if yes or no?
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 11 Responses Aug 14

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    My affair began due to a long distance relationship. I had been dating my boyfriend for 2 years prior to moving 6,000 miles away for a job. The job was only supposed to be for one...
    Sabrina89 Sabrina89 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I realized something with the help of my therapist. My affair saved my marriage. My H was depressed and drunk everyday... My marriage was at a low.. He came in my life when I...
    Differentforever Differentforever 46-50, F 10 Responses a week ago

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    I had an emotional affair with someone who was once just a friend. I have been married less than a year. My husband found out when he went through my phone and saw some text...
    soon2bnurse soon2bnurse 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 28

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    I was 15 she was 35 my speech teacher. She was very will pretty and always rubbed against me in class. I was a naive kid who did not know what was happening. She told me in class...
    edstarr edstarr 56-60, M 1 Response Jul 30

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