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I Am Using Ashleymadison To Have An Affair

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 148 People

    I Just Signed Up.

    I love married men. They have their own things to do, not enough time to constantly try to control what you do or always be involved.  My "boyfriend" now is married, we see each other maybe 2 times a week.  I'm a single female by all pretenses and so far have had about 15...
    TheOtherMe TheOtherMe 26-30, F 8 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    I Use Ashley Madison And I'm Very Real

    Ashley Madison may be full of pros & fakes, but it is also full of sad, lonely overweight, middle- aged men trying to play out of their league. I created a profile and met an incredibly attractive, fit, interesting well-endowed, young married man and began an affair within the...
    MrsVashaWolf MrsVashaWolf 46-50, F 6 Responses Aug 12, 2013

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    This site is amazing.

    I do not use it anymore. But when I did, it truly was a amazing. I had a very discreet affair and it was so much fun!! It is nice you can have secrets and a place to have secret fun. :)
    ScarlettAngelica ScarlettAngelica 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 10

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    Word To The Wise For Men

    Someone else out there is welcome to correct me if I'm wrong. IMO, AM is about the only game in town for married folks looking to date outside of their marriage. Like ladies nights at the local bar, AM tends to see an overwhelming majority of men versus women. As a man, it's...
    bb2unmb bb2unmb 46-50, M 5 Responses Dec 21, 2012

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    Wow went looking to find one special man to

    have a great affair ending up finding many guys looking for a flavor of the week. I wonder if there are any men looking to find one or are they all interested in sex only
    kgirl79 kgirl79 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 22

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    Destroying Families. Thanks Ashleymadison

    Your company's promoting is shameful. How do you sleep at night? How do you dream knowing that you ripe families apart? Heartless. That's what you are. Not only does this hurt the person being cheated on but their kids too. Me being one of them. Probably one of millions. The...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    Anatomy Of A Cheater.

    I am a cheating husband. There, I said it. It's been a long road to get to this point but I am sure my story is not unique. There are many, many guys like me. We love our families and yes, love our wives, or at least we love the memory of who our wives used to be. To say it...
    NewGuy04 NewGuy04 41-45, M 11 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    Scam Mostly

    I say that as a man b/c its set up to drain u of your credits very fast. There was "troll" women, I believe made by AM. They were "online" almost 24 hrs per day.? Having said that, once u do make some connection, use email asap. I did that and made a fruitful connection off site...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 17, 2013

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    We Want To Hear Your Stories

    AshleyMadison.com is 100% discreet. It is a safe, secure place for you to meet people in similar situations. Whether you meet and connect with someone online only, or take your relationship outside of the service...AshleyMadison.com wants to hear your stories. Please share...
    ashleymadison ashleymadison 36-40, F 9 Responses Apr 28, 2010

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    No Need For Ashley Madison

    I'll be traveling from Ohio to South Dakota. traveling down I 70 west to l 74 West then of course I 80 west if you live near any of these highways let me know I currently am sitting in Columbus Ohio I will stop for the night probably in Carroll Iowa or Sioux City Iowa but I have...
    loneTrucker80 loneTrucker80 31-35, M Aug 9, 2013

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    I need advice from the ladies

    who have used AM. I have been using for the site for about 3 months. I've met a very good looking married guy, we've been seeing each other quite a lot for about 1.5 months (his wife is away, so he's always available). There is great chemistry but I don't think there is...
    HappySecret HappySecret 36-40, F 8 Responses Mar 27

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    Why Dating Often Fails And How You Can Succeed!

    There have been several stories about experiences on AM. Some are successful, some are not. Nonetheless, I appreciate all the authors who have shared their own experiences as great lessons for all of us. I came across this article last year. I applied it and it worked well for me...
    bambootree bambootree 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 21, 2013

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    Perfect For The Women

    I am a single 52 year old, emptynester who has found her hormones working overtime, and traditional dating sites just wasn't working. So I accidentally found Ashley Madison and have been on there for about a month. It's not a sight for the fait at heart. Guys post private...
    50ishnowwhat 50ishnowwhat 51-55, F 1 Response Oct 27, 2013

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    I tried AM for a few months,

    but found nothing but fakes and gold diggers. If I have to directly pay for it, I think I'd rather drive to a Nevada brothel. It would be the same concept without the bullshit.
    rsb97080 rsb97080 41-45, M 3 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I kinda want to **** a married man. It turns me on.
    CuriousGurl13 CuriousGurl13 13-15, F 12 Responses Sep 13

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    I am a married man hoping to find a nice mature woman for a mutually agreeable and satisfying relationship in the metropolitan Philadelphia area.
    donaldsterling donaldsterling 51-55, M 1 Response Sep 18

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    Yeah, it's definitely something that turns me on... Something about a married man seeking pleasure in a young girl like me gets me all hot and bothered! There's obviously something...
    TrishaLovely TrishaLovely 18-21, F 15 Responses 6 days ago

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    Stay away from married people. Is it hard to understand that a wrong door leads to misery, you can foretell everything from the beggining. You commiting a major Sin.. You are...
    shinney shinney 66-70, F 2 days ago

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    So many marriages lose their way after a while. Having an affair is not always the answer, the end run is devastating. When the marriage begins to turn that way, why not look...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 6 hrs ago

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    Right this is my first really positive post on here...those of you in despair, trapped in your marriage, long for your ap, check this out... I finally got myself sorted, got...
    LionCaged LionCaged 26-30, M 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    You ladies told me I will know when it's time to end things.. When the bad out weighs the good. This morning he really made me upset.. 600 am Is our time to talk text.. Been that...
    Differentforever Differentforever 46-50, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Once again ended my very long , on and off, affair. He would text everyday, sometimes several times, and we would see each other once or twice a week. I love him, but I know he's...
    funlecy1 funlecy1 46-50, F 10 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    A friend told me today that I should feel lucky to have gotten to experience something new without having to face any of the consequences. He's right I guess because I didn't ruin...
    lovedaria lovedaria 26-30, F 4 hrs ago

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    my story is a long one. i keep it secret, but am haunted by it each day. i still feel scared, and nervous. i went to brazil for a special overseas college for international...
    rainydaytoday rainydaytoday 22-25 1 Response 4 days ago

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    If you look at my circle you will see that it is made up almost totally of women, most of them within a certain age range. This started out as a deliberate move on my part. My OW...
    junkfan junkfan 56-60, M 3 Responses Sep 4

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    I Had An Affair Tainted I am new this web page, read some of the interesting stories and have seen how much I can relate to some of them. I am not much of a reader or writer in...
    maidinthebox maidinthebox 41-45, M 3 Responses Sep 18

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    I was diagnosed with Chrons in 2006, when I was 21, after immediate surgery to remove a ruptured abscess that had formed. From the moment I woke up in recovery to now, 8 year later...
    SamathaA SamathaA 26-30, F 1 hr ago

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    I manifest connection to all the projective demons possessed in the thoughts being used by my psychic attackers so be it in christ amen, I surrender love and joy and thanks for...
    verndewd verndewd 41-45 9 hrs ago

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    I love my wife and have been married to her for nearly twenty years. I've seen her change in the last few years. Am trying to be understanding. Maybe it's menopause. I don't...
    ironman6348 ironman6348 46-50, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    :3 <<<<< I love that face so much you have no idea ! :3
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    It has been three years…still think of him all day every day. We haven't had contact for 9 months. I still feel like he is my soulmate. I love my husband to pieces…but it...
    twintower18 twintower18 31-35, F Sep 7

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    Last night was our monthly Retrouvaille support group (called CORE) for marriage meeting. Summary, for anyone new to this part of EP, we are over a year since I discovered his...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    So much built up tension was released the other day, i had so much going round in my head and it had to all come out. I have sat for 15 years and observed, and listened and taken...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F Sep 12

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    Ok so this question isn't strictly about my affair, more to do with the aftermath. I kinda don't know where else to post it. My affair ended 7 months ago. It has shattered my...
    Fififififi Fififififi 41-45, F 29 Responses Sep 5

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    OK EP friends, what I want to know is how is your life after the affair? I feel stuck. I feel like I cannot move forward with my wife. There is a huge void in our relationship...
    Blueeyedboy70i Blueeyedboy70i 41-45, M 9 Responses Aug 30

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    When is the right time to finally say good bye???? To end it all?? Is it when you are too emotionally attached? Is it when you feel ignored? Is it when everything your affair...
    zoey3000 zoey3000 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 9

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    For those of you that know some of my journey, here is an update: As the poster child for the boy who cried wolf, I finally ended my affair. I knew for the first time in 3.5 years...
    pencruz pencruz 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 10

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    How many of you had more than one affair? If yes, do you think you are a serial cheater? I'm having an affair right now, don't ever want to do or experience it again. But I...
    zoey3000 zoey3000 31-35, F 24 Responses Sep 14

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    Affair is one thing.. having affair before is also another thing.. and sometimes I wonder.. am I trying hard to hurt myself. If only you could simply 'erase' it from your memory...
    SwanLake78 SwanLake78 36-40, F 13 Responses Sep 15

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    I had an affair. He had an affair. He's been talking with someone inappropriately online. I've met someone online who has rocked my world... I need to tell my husband it's over...
    secretsnvrtobetold secretsnvrtobetold 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 15

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    Question how can you cheaters not regret the pain you cost others. How can you say you don't regret the affair. If you don't regret the affair then your putting yourself before...
    pleasestoplying pleasestoplying 51-55, M 3 Responses Sep 20

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    My last post I wrote about being in a long term affair and how it's affected sex with my H... Lost of desire.. For all of you MM in long term affairs do you feel the same towards...
    Differentforever Differentforever 46-50, F 6 Responses Sep 21

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    I would appreciate support and advice, no judgements please. Background: I am married almost 10 years, 2 kids. Years of issues with husband, he is a bit better, but I am no longer...
    Sexymamma16 Sexymamma16 31-35, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm not sure why I keep coming back to EP any more. I met my OW here, and for months after the affair ended I couldn't bring myself to login to EP because there were too many...
    junkfan junkfan 56-60, M 3 Responses Sep 3

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    I am currently six months pregnant as a product of my affair with my best friend. I am currently married for ten years and have three beautiful daughters. My husband is unaware of...
    HisCharmedOne HisCharmedOne 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 5

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    If you asked me a few years ago, I would tell you how horrible an affair is and I looked down on people who had affairs. Now I am the person on the other side, and it's true what...
    Yalaboo Yalaboo 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 7

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    Hi. This is my first post here. I’m mostly writing this for myself, to help me make sense of my life and my experiences. I realize that this sounds like incredible navel-gazing...
    wh00ami wh00ami 36-40 4 Responses Sep 10

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