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I Am Using Ashleymadison To Have An Affair

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    Being a guy and married it's hard to try

    and build that trust up with other woman on there because they only think we want is sex?! ;(
    kikthegoodguy11 kikthegoodguy11 31-35, M 9 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    I Use Ashley Madison And I'm Very Real

    Ashley Madison may be full of pros & fakes, but it is also full of sad, lonely overweight, middle- aged men trying to play out of their league. I created a profile and met an incredibly attractive, fit, interesting well-endowed, young married man and began an affair within the...
    MrsVashaWolf MrsVashaWolf 46-50, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2013

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    I tried AM for a few months,

    but found nothing but fakes and gold diggers. If I have to directly pay for it, I think I'd rather drive to a Nevada brothel. It would be the same concept without the bullshit.
    rsb97080 rsb97080 41-45, M 4 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    We Want To Hear Your Stories

    AshleyMadison.com is 100% discreet. It is a safe, secure place for you to meet people in similar situations. Whether you meet and connect with someone online only, or take your relationship outside of the service...AshleyMadison.com wants to hear your stories. Please share...
    ashleymadison ashleymadison 36-40, F 9 Responses Apr 28, 2010

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    I met two guys in AM.

    One was 50 gentleman and fun, 'till he stop being that way. We just had sex one because i left the country. We chat everyday for three months, but when i came back, he changed. We are still friends an talk and go for drinks, lunch or cofee sometimes...
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    Wow went looking to find one special man to

    have a great affair ending up finding many guys looking for a flavor of the week. I wonder if there are any men looking to find one or are they all interested in sex only
    kgirl79 kgirl79 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 22, 2014

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    Not the right place. At least

    for a woman that looks for a clean relationship ( despite we are all married) guys there get anything just to have sex. Many wants more than one woman. Many are addicted to the site. Anyways you can be lucky. A guy there is all fake. He stubned me in my back. Anyways i'll give a...
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F 6 Responses Nov 16, 2014

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    This site is amazing.

    I do not use it anymore. But when I did, it truly was a amazing. I had a very discreet affair and it was so much fun!! It is nice you can have secrets and a place to have secret fun. :)
    ScarlettAngelica ScarlettAngelica 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 10, 2014

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    TheAnonymousTroll TheAnonymousTroll 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 6, 2014

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    Scam Mostly

    I say that as a man b/c its set up to drain u of your credits very fast. There was "troll" women, I believe made by AM. They were "online" almost 24 hrs per day.? Having said that, once u do make some connection, use email asap. I did that and made a fruitful connection off site...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 17, 2013

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    I had my first encounter,

    my husband and I talked about it since we got married. We are a realist and know from the start that attractions fade and sooner or later one of us would want to sleep with somebody. It finally happened. And omg! Mind blowing sex. I also really like this guy, he is nice and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Word To The Wise For Men

    Someone else out there is welcome to correct me if I'm wrong. IMO, AM is about the only game in town for married folks looking to date outside of their marriage. Like ladies nights at the local bar, AM tends to see an overwhelming majority of men versus women. As a man, it's...
    bb2unmb bb2unmb 46-50, M 7 Responses Dec 21, 2012

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    Destroying Families. Thanks Ashleymadison

    Your company's promoting is shameful. How do you sleep at night? How do you dream knowing that you ripe families apart? Heartless. That's what you are. Not only does this hurt the person being cheated on but their kids too. Me being one of them. Probably one of millions. The...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    Second experience. I met a wonderful succesful

    Jewish Lawyer here. Things were greay, sex awesome 'till i found out his profile was still there afyer we had sex and he had being sig in several times. I told him and he pregged me to dorgive him, telling me that it was just because of his lack of confodence ( sexless marriage...
    heartycure heartycure 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    I Just Signed Up.

    I love married men. They have their own things to do, not enough time to constantly try to control what you do or always be involved.  My "boyfriend" now is married, we see each other maybe 2 times a week.  I'm a single female by all pretenses and so far have had about 15...
    TheOtherMe TheOtherMe 26-30, F 9 Responses Jan 24, 2012

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    Anatomy Of A Cheater.

    I am a cheating husband. There, I said it. It's been a long road to get to this point but I am sure my story is not unique. There are many, many guys like me. We love our families and yes, love our wives, or at least we love the memory of who our wives used to be. To say it...
    NewGuy04 NewGuy04 41-45, M 14 Responses Apr 13, 2013

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    Why Dating Often Fails And How You Can Succeed!

    There have been several stories about experiences on AM. Some are successful, some are not. Nonetheless, I appreciate all the authors who have shared their own experiences as great lessons for all of us. I came across this article last year. I applied it and it worked well for me...
    bambootree bambootree 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 21, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    call me a wh@@@ or a homewrecker.. but I've had to affairs with two men and loved them.. it was fun and exciting.. one guy we continue today. I've known him since I was 5 and we...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 2

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    any couples out there?? around 27-36??
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 2

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    i slept with two married men before i don't feel guilty for it either I'm knot one who cheated they are
    candysissyfag candysissyfag 26-30, T 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    To be honest I don’t really know how it started or how it got to this mess. One moment I was waving awkwardly at him as he walked away from the front desk, the next I was below...
    Leaderkyuzizi Leaderkyuzizi 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I had an affair with my best friend's husband...Rightfully, she was very angry with me and was determined to let the whole world know, and that is exactly what she did. I don't...
    tulips1122 tulips1122 36-40, F 12 Responses May 1

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    I know from my own experience that married men don't always leave the wife. I am the wife. I found out two years ago my husband had an affair with some married woman that he met...
    Truthbetold81 Truthbetold81 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 26

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    I know from my own experience that married men don't always leave the wife. I am the wife. I found out two years ago my husband had an affair with some married woman that he met...
    Truthbetold81 Truthbetold81 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 26

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    My affair ended back in December.. It actually was over in October but I held on to him sooo much longer then I should have... I missed the thrill of the affair...but I knew...
    Differentforever Differentforever 46-50, F 6 Responses Apr 26

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    I had an affair with a married man. I'm married too. We both have kids. We both feel in love. He told his wife and has cut off contact. Should I tell my husband?? I'm seeking...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Apr 29

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    I call it cheating. On the contrary, what could I possibly gain from cheating? I feel if you do not want a meaningful relationship or worse to pay back someone who has hurt you or...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 2 Responses May 1

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    Part Two. Consider this.. It is not to try to make anyone comply to how I feel. It is merely to enlighten you on what (I feel) is a better way. As I said in part one. What...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F May 2

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    Actually, past tense..... I had an affair. I have been in a sexless marriage for over 14 years. One day, I met a beautiful woman here on EP who also is in a troubled marriage. I...
    Clandestine1 Clandestine1 51-55, M 1 Response May 2

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    It's been a while since I posted. I have a question (maybe I should have posted in the questions section?) For those who were/are married and had an affair and it ended after...
    itsmrwhiteyo itsmrwhiteyo 41-45, M 8 Responses May 7

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    Im here because Im so torn. Im having an emotional affair with a friend I've known for over ten years. He is also married. I love my husband and we have a young child. I dont plan...
    salvi56 salvi56 36-40, F 4 Responses May 8

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    So just need to vent. I have been connecting with this man on ashmad.com and almost had an affair. But I think I'm over it. Whenever I do things I want it done right away or not at...
    brileytallis brileytallis 26-30 May 10

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    I had my affair 7 years ago. It lasted about three amazing years! We didn't "hide" it either. I can say that I never felt alive like I did while I was with him. I felt driven...
    StressedOut2 StressedOut2 36-40 1 Response May 11

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    I'm a married, educated black female and I've been having an affair with a divorced 47 y/o white male. We met online started out as friends just someone to help with my loneliness...
    shessopeachy shessopeachy 36-40, F 58 Responses 3 days ago

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    I had an affair for 11 months. We are both married. He chased after me and told me that he had feelings for me since the first time he saw my picture in our friends room. The...
    tinyturtles20 tinyturtles20 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have been in an affair for close to two years. Along the way it has become a very emotional relationship. And an incredibly fulfilling physical relationship for both of us...
    neveda12 neveda12 56-60, M 1 Response Apr 26

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    Great version of Taylor Swift's " blank space" Makes me think about my affair I had. http://youtu.be/q5rhrqYU1iE
    timetochange2 timetochange2 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 26

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    My husband of 10 years has been having an affair with my neighbor Sherri for the last 6 years. I new it, I was in situation where I could not do anything about it. I hurt every...
    theenvironmentalist theenvironmentalist 70+ 1 Response Apr 27

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    I am having an affair, it is the best and the worst thing I have ever experienced, completely absurd and surreal, I have no idea what to do!
    Directionless450 Directionless450 41-45, M Apr 27

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    I had an online sexual affair for a couple of months last year, we finished it as it was getting too addictive, but I want to try again - I am in a relationship, but the sex is...
    artieax artieax 31-35, M Apr 27

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    I am having an affair with my friend's husband. We have known each other for almost 20 years. We hooked up at another friend's wedding and have talked every day since, even have...
    anavay anavay 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 28

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    I'm thinking about having an affair with a stranger tonight;)
    secrettCD secrettCD 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 28

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    To start out I am not a perfect person. Three years ago I had an affair because of my unhappiness and poor decisions. I have been married for 16 years and with my wife for 23...
    and246 and246 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 28

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