I Am Using Ashleymadison To Have An Affair

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    I Use Ashley Madison And I'm Very Real

    Ashley Madison may be full of pros & fakes, but it is also full of sad, lonely overweight, middle- aged men trying to play out of their league. I created a profile and met an incredibly attractive, fit, interesting well-endowed, young married man and began an affair within the...
    MrsVashaWolf MrsVashaWolf
    46-50, F
    8 Responses Aug 12, 2013

    Destroying Families. Thanks Ashleymadison

    Your company's promoting is shameful. How do you sleep at night? How do you dream knowing that you ripe families apart? Heartless. That's what you are. Not only does this hurt the person being cheated on but their kids too. Me being one of them. Probably one of millions. The...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Jun 7, 2012

    I can only echo what many other men have said

    in previous postings. AM is a loser's bet for men. I've been using AM since early 2012. I just logged in to my account. Over the past 48 hours, I can see where 92 "women" have logged in. I put women in quotes because of the 92 ads I see, 46 of them are all from the same...
    bobrido bobrido
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Jun 21, 2015

    This site is amazing.

    I do not use it anymore. But when I did, it truly was a amazing. I had a very discreet affair and it was so much fun!! It is nice you can have secrets and a place to have secret fun. :)
    ScarlettAngelica ScarlettAngelica
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Apr 10, 2014

    Not the right place. At least

    for a woman that looks for a clean relationship ( despite we are all married) guys there get anything just to have sex. Many wants more than one woman. Many are addicted to the site. Anyways you can be lucky. A guy there is all fake. He stubned me in my back. Anyways i'll give a...
    heartycure heartycure
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Nov 16, 2014

    I had my first encounter,

    my husband and I talked about it since we got married. We are a realist and know from the start that attractions fade and sooner or later one of us would want to sleep with somebody. It finally happened. And omg! Mind blowing sex. I also really like this guy, he is nice and...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses May 23, 2015

    I'm actually not looking to have an affair,

    my wife and I have an open relationship. I don't like the site because, as a guy, you have to spend money to do just about anything. I've tried to include enough info in my profile to make it easy to find me on Facebook or other ways.
    Rodgers1981 Rodgers1981
    31-35, M
    May 28, 2015

    I met two guys in AM.

    One was 50 gentleman and fun, 'till he stop being that way. We just had sex one because i left the country. We chat everyday for three months, but when i came back, he changed. We are still friends an talk and go for drinks, lunch or cofee sometimes...
    heartycure heartycure
    36-40, F
    1 Response Nov 5, 2014

    Being a guy and married it's hard to try

    and build that trust up with other woman on there because they only think we want is sex?! ;(
    kikthegoodguy11 kikthegoodguy11
    31-35, M
    9 Responses Nov 25, 2014

    Wow went looking to find one special man to

    have a great affair ending up finding many guys looking for a flavor of the week. I wonder if there are any men looking to find one or are they all interested in sex only
    kgirl79 kgirl79
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jul 22, 2014

    Second experience. I met a wonderful succesful

    Jewish Lawyer here. Things were greay, sex awesome 'till i found out his profile was still there afyer we had sex and he had being sig in several times. I told him and he pregged me to dorgive him, telling me that it was just because of his lack of confodence ( sexless marriage...
    heartycure heartycure
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Nov 5, 2014

    Word To The Wise For Men

    Someone else out there is welcome to correct me if I'm wrong. IMO, AM is about the only game in town for married folks looking to date outside of their marriage. Like ladies nights at the local bar, AM tends to see an overwhelming majority of men versus women. As a man, it's...
    bb2unmb bb2unmb
    46-50, M
    8 Responses Dec 21, 2012

    I Just Signed Up.

    I love married men. They have their own things to do, not enough time to constantly try to control what you do or always be involved.  My "boyfriend" now is married, we see each other maybe 2 times a week.  I'm a single female by all pretenses and so far have had about 15...
    TheOtherMe TheOtherMe
    26-30, F
    9 Responses Jan 24, 2012

    I tried AM for a few months,

    but found nothing but fakes and gold diggers. If I have to directly pay for it, I think I'd rather drive to a Nevada brothel. It would be the same concept without the bullshit.
    rsb97080 rsb97080
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Dec 16, 2013

    I had only modest hopes of any thing happening

    and sure enough it's been a total fail. Of course, I don't really belong on the site. I was always monogamous even before marriage, one girl at a time and only dating with a serious interest in the person. I'm trying out of desperation because my wife has been in chronic pain...
    loykhtn loykhtn
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Jun 4, 2015

    We Want To Hear Your Stories

    AshleyMadison.com is 100% discreet. It is a safe, secure place for you to meet people in similar situations. Whether you meet and connect with someone online only, or take your relationship outside of the service...AshleyMadison.com wants to hear your stories. Please share...
    ashleymadison ashleymadison
    36-40, F
    9 Responses Apr 28, 2010

    Scam Mostly

    I say that as a man b/c its set up to drain u of your credits very fast. There was "troll" women, I believe made by AM. They were "online" almost 24 hrs per day.? Having said that, once u do make some connection, use email asap. I did that and made a fruitful connection off site...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jun 17, 2013

    Anatomy Of A Cheater.

    I am a cheating husband. There, I said it. It's been a long road to get to this point but I am sure my story is not unique. There are many, many guys like me. We love our families and yes, love our wives, or at least we love the memory of who our wives used to be. To say it...
    NewGuy04 NewGuy04
    46-50, M
    14 Responses Apr 13, 2013
    TheAnonymousTroll TheAnonymousTroll
    16-17, M
    1 Response Nov 6, 2014

    Why Dating Often Fails And How You Can Succeed!

    There have been several stories about experiences on AM. Some are successful, some are not. Nonetheless, I appreciate all the authors who have shared their own experiences as great lessons for all of us. I came across this article last year. I applied it and it worked well for me...
    bambootree bambootree
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Jun 21, 2013

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