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I Am Very Affectionate

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    I just can't help it.

    Love hugs and being tactile with people I'm close with. Still hold hands with my parents sometimes without thinking about it. Once got shouted at for being a 'lezzer' when I was walking in town with my mum!
    NPMEE NPMEE 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 21

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    I want to hug you, cook you a meal

    and then snuggle with you all night.
    Moelyn95 Moelyn95 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    khewster khewster 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    Love With Passion!

    My grandmother tells me every time I see her to love with passion. She says the ability to love isn't the unique part the degree of passion is. Passion is a constituent part of deep feeling. Deep feeling is possible with the intensity of experience plus the inner resolve to...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 22-25, F Sep 20, 2013

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    I often hug strangers.

    Women, children, old, young. Sometimes even men too !! I got compliment, I am a Great Hugging People ;-) I don't act. I hug them feeling from my Heart. It is always warm. No fake. I wanted to tell them, do you know, no one has hugged me since 03/21//2008 !!
    DevineCOMEDY DevineCOMEDY 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    It is part of my upbringing.

    My self or my family members, we are not from a Broken Family. Did not grew up playing politics between parents. Or lied to Boy friend so he would love me more, because my mother- dad hates each other.
    lifeinpresion lifeinpresion 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 17, 2014

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    Hello everyone I've been away from here

    for many months. I stumbled on this site quite by accident. It was very helpful at the time but then I didn't think I needed to be here and still I wonder. In any case if you received messages from me or read my material you know I'm friendly and approachable. Welcome
    willknowmore willknowmore 61-65, M 1 Response Nov 20, 2014

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    How Did I Become Affectionate?!?!

    Yes, I love to show affection to people. I love to cuddle, kiss and hug my partner. I kiss and hug my nieces and nephews. I listen and care about people. I love to cook and give little gifts to my friends. I'm always complimenting and thanking people. I'm very, very demonstrative...
    lagatta lagatta 41-45, F 12 Responses Nov 29, 2010

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    I like to hug and kiss

    and cuddle with those I love. I mean i understand limits, nobody likes a leech but the people that are close to me know that i will call them sweetie and that i will kiss them and hug them a lot! Is part of who i am and like Martha says "is a good thing" he he he!!!
    Gatikasensual Gatikasensual 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 10, 2014

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    I enjoy the game of touch.

    ...It's so fun to see how someone reacts to your affection, like when you graze their leg or touch their finger..... I think there are so many ways to be affectionate, both sexually and non-sexually....I love exploring that!
    giggletree giggletree 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 12

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    I want to massage you,

    interrupt you with a surprising kiss. Create sweet meals and hold hands on our first date. :)
    Bobbiin Bobbiin 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    I do consider myself to be very affectionate

    as I`ve had the last 4 years to build it all up and soon you will have it all ok so this message goes out to the one and only woman i met on here, you know who you are ;) - `when you need to talk i will give you my ear, when you look sad i will give you my smile, when you...
    xxSTEVE7xx xxSTEVE7xx 31-35, M Nov 8, 2014

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    I usually greet people with a hug.

    When I get to know you better ,the hugs get tighter. When I really get to know you the hugs can get really tight. Just depends on how you treat me.
    janelikesit janelikesit 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 3

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    I do come across sometimes

    as a reserved somewhat aloof person. At least I try to present myself that way in the real world. Other times I might slip up and show someone else my softer, more tender side. I am more affectionate and tend to be drawn to warm, friendly personalities even if people seem a bit...
    ajrestless ajrestless 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2014

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    BigBearHug BigBearHug 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 13

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    paulacc11 paulacc11 26-30, F Jan 3

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    You are the reason why I have sleepless nights.

    You are the reason why I tend to hold my pillow tight. And why I can't sleep without saying goodnight.....
    Cuddlingsoul Cuddlingsoul 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    My family gives lots of hugs

    and kisses so I guess that's why I'm that way. Hugs feel so good.
    jerseyjade jerseyjade 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 23, 2014

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    I'm a hugger..... I love to hug people

    who brighten my day or if they are in need of a comforting hug.
    1stEdition 1stEdition 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 27, 2014

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    Always hugging and kissing my kids,

    sometimes to their embarrassment! Wish my husband would do the same. Clueless:(
    racerrex racerrex 56-60, F 1 Response Nov 7, 2014

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    Let me hold your hand.

    Let me be your man.I'd kiss you and hug you.Day after day,night after night.I hold you in my arms, knowing it feel so right.You'd be my woman and I'd be your man.All that ever would matter is, I'd always want to hold only, your hand...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M Jan 23

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    No matter what time of day,

    I'd be their for my friends if they needed me. <3
    LanniLette LanniLette 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2014

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    How come society makes us feel bad

    for thinking out the box when all the time it's made up to control us. Come play at secreterotica . com it's sexy, fun the groups and library are wicked and no BS censorship either.
    YouKnowItMakesSense YouKnowItMakesSense 31-35, M Nov 28, 2014

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    I have for as long as I can remember been a

    person who has a high degree of affection. I am the person who will hug, caress, hold and kiss willingly. I crave physical affection and freely give it. I have a few friends that are equally affectionate without being sexual. My last relationship was difficult because she didn't...
    RC4blue RC4blue 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 5

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    I don't show my emotions easily all of the time.

    ..but I still feel that I'm affectionate. I like..no I LOVE to cuddle. I like holding hands, love kissing, love hugs. I have a friend whose family wasn't affectionate at all when we were growing up. I was at her house a lot back then. When I would go to hug her goodbye or...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    I am a very affectionate ,

    caring and compassionate person! My hearts breaks for those less fortunate than me. I always want to help make every else happy. I'd do anything to help someone else if I was capable!!! I'm in no way a saint but do have a heart of gold
    Devotedmom77 Devotedmom77 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    I love holding hands

    and cuddling and tickling and kissing and laughing and buying presents and inside jokes and dirty looks from across the room. Cuddling is better than sex. You can rub one out but you can't cuddle with yourself.
    gglz18 gglz18 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2014

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    When a guy seems upset,

    i'll just came up to him, sit next to him, give him a pat on the back or even a hug and say, " Its okay, Amare. " or " Its fine, Papi. " Automatically does that all the time. Dunno why. Something's controlling moi.
    Annaambrose Annaambrose 16-17 3 Responses Mar 10

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    It's sad to me that sometimes the thing a

    person most wants is the very thing that eludes them. I have always craved affection. Maybe because I was not raised in a home where there was physical affection but always felt that I needed it. And I know that a person can love you very much and not show it with affection...
    thescarletibis thescarletibis 41-45, F 5 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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    I smothered my fiancé

    so much that he got me a cat to deflect some of the attention...I can't help it I just love giving hugs
    ordminnet ordminnet 31-35, F 8 Responses Jan 13

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    No one in my family was affectionate

    yet I knew that I was loved. So when I became an adult I craved that contact. I mistakened the physical contact for sex which led to sexual encounters that should have never occured. I have improved though. I keep my hands to myself and only express my affection to people that I...
    sandmoon sandmoon 36-40, F Sep 18, 2014

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    I easily exchange an arm around the back

    or waist for a pat on my shoulder, give hugs for a welcoming smile or a kiss on the cheek for a greeting. If you visit me, I'll cook for you!
    wiredwolf wiredwolf 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 7, 2014

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    Sometimes maybe too affectionate.

    ..., but as long as he doesn't complain.
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    When I like someone, I'm comfortable giving hugs

    and kisses. I guess I'm one of those touchy feely kind of girls. I just do what comes natural with what I'm feeling towards that person.
    Cherilyn16 Cherilyn16 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    I am very much a "hands on person".

    Holding hands...cuddling...I love the sense of touch.
    justalittlekinky justalittlekinky 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    I love to cuddle and sometimes I just need

    physical contact. like I'll hold your hand or rub your leg or I dunno. just gotta touch. I'm pretty hands on
    briannarenee briannarenee 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 11, 2014

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    So many of my friends aren't touchy

    and they cringe when you hug them or snuggle up to them. It bugs me so much. My primary love language is definitely physical touch. When being comforted, having an arm around me or a hand on my shoulder makes a HUGE difference. I wish more people understood this.
    Megsupermario Megsupermario 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2014

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    i love getting hugs and kisses

    and giving them too. i wish i got the chance more often
    teechme teechme 70+, F 4 Responses Sep 20, 2014

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    I just want to have her head on my chest,

    arm draped across my tummy, and leg thrown over me as she cuddles into my side and I rub patterns on her back.
    jando304 jando304 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 5, 2014

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    My love for him is like a beautiful water fall

    never ending.. flowing with passion and grace...he is all I need to smile everyday and I feel so happy.
    Euphorialbeauty23 Euphorialbeauty23 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    Lollipopcandykisses Lollipopcandykisses 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 16, 2014

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