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I Am Very Affectionate

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    So many of my friends aren't touchy

    and they cringe when you hug them or snuggle up to them. It bugs me so much. My primary love language is definitely physical touch. When being comforted, having an arm around me or a hand on my shoulder makes a HUGE difference. I wish more people understood this.
    megsupermaherio megsupermaherio 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    It's sad to me that sometimes the thing a

    person most wants is the very thing that eludes them. I have always craved affection. Maybe because I was not raised in a home where there was physical affection but always felt that I needed it. And I know that a person can love you very much and not show it with affection...
    thescarletibis thescarletibis 41-45, F 5 Responses Sep 3

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    Lollipopcandykisses Lollipopcandykisses 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 16

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    I am a very affectionate ,

    caring and compassionate person! My hearts breaks for those less fortunate than me. I always want to help make every else happy. I'd do anything to help someone else if I was capable!!! I'm in no way a saint but do have a heart of gold
    Devotedmom77 Devotedmom77 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 8

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    I easily exchange an arm around the back

    or waist for a pat on my shoulder, give hugs for a welcoming smile or a kiss on the cheek for a greeting. If you visit me, I'll cook for you!
    wiredwolf wiredwolf 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 7

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    Always hugging and kissing my kids,

    sometimes to their embarrassment! Wish my husband would do the same. Clueless:(
    racerrex racerrex 56-60, F 2 Responses Nov 7

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    Love With Passion!

    My grandmother tells me every time I see her to love with passion. She says the ability to love isn't the unique part the degree of passion is. Passion is a constituent part of deep feeling. Deep feeling is possible with the intensity of experience plus the inner resolve to...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2013

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    I love holding hands

    and cuddling and tickling and kissing and laughing and buying presents and inside jokes and dirty looks from across the room. Cuddling is better than sex. You can rub one out but you can't cuddle with yourself.
    gglz18 gglz18 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 17

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    How Did I Become Affectionate?!?!

    Yes, I love to show affection to people. I love to cuddle, kiss and hug my partner. I kiss and hug my nieces and nephews. I listen and care about people. I love to cook and give little gifts to my friends. I'm always complimenting and thanking people. I'm very, very demonstrative...
    lagatta lagatta 41-45, F 12 Responses Nov 29, 2010

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    I want to massage you,

    interrupt you with a surprising kiss. Create sweet meals and hold hands on our first date. :)
    Bobbiin Bobbiin 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 13

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    Playfulness And Cuddling

    Whether on a happy or sad occasion, a long hug can mean so much. I've always been one for hugging and cuddling. Growing up my family was very affectionate in our love for each other, and that's the way I've always been. I understand some people aren't comfortable with this sort...
    lauren71 lauren71 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 11, 2013

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    How come society makes us feel bad

    for thinking out the box when all the time it's made up to control us. Come play at secreterotica . com it's sexy, fun the groups and library are wicked and no BS censorship either.
    YouKnowItMakesSense YouKnowItMakesSense 31-35, M Nov 28

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    I am such a love mooshy person I love love I

    love loving my friends some one speacial my family I say I love you a lot lol and I always mean it
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F Aug 19

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    I love good hugs and showing affection.

    If I like a repairman who fixes something at my house, I'll give him a nice hug, and if I really like him, I'll "accidentally" rub my breasts against his arm, hand if I get the opportunity, and if I get a good reaction, I'll excuse myself and go change into something much more...
    MayAtPlay MayAtPlay 56-60, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    I do consider myself to be very affectionate

    as I`ve had the last 4 years to build it all up and soon you will have it all ok so this message goes out to the one and only woman i met on here, you know who you are ;) - `when you need to talk i will give you my ear, when you look sad i will give you my smile, when you...
    xxSTEVE7xx xxSTEVE7xx 31-35, M Nov 8

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    Hello everyone I've been away from here

    for many months. I stumbled on this site quite by accident. It was very helpful at the time but then I didn't think I needed to be here and still I wonder. In any case if you received messages from me or read my material you know I'm friendly and approachable. Welcome
    willknowmore willknowmore 61-65, M 1 Response Nov 20

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    Rosebox Rosebox 18-21, F Oct 9

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    I like to hug and kiss

    and cuddle with those I love. I mean i understand limits, nobody likes a leech but the people that are close to me know that i will call them sweetie and that i will kiss them and hug them a lot! Is part of who i am and like Martha says "is a good thing" he he he!!!
    Gatikasensual Gatikasensual 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 10

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    raestar raestar 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 10

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    Or oversexed. Or bi.

    Or polyamorous. Or. Lol
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    I just want to have her head on my chest,

    arm draped across my tummy, and leg thrown over me as she cuddles into my side and I rub patterns on her back.
    jando304 jando304 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 5

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    I love to cuddle and sometimes I just need

    physical contact. like I'll hold your hand or rub your leg or I dunno. just gotta touch. I'm pretty hands on
    briannarenee briannarenee 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 11

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    I'm a hugger..... I love to hug people

    who brighten my day or if they are in need of a comforting hug.
    1stEdition 1stEdition 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 27

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    i love getting hugs and kisses

    and giving them too. i wish i got the chance more often
    teechme teechme 70+, F 4 Responses Sep 20

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    khewster khewster 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 28

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    No one in my family was affectionate

    yet I knew that I was loved. So when I became an adult I craved that contact. I mistakened the physical contact for sex which led to sexual encounters that should have never occured. I have improved though. I keep my hands to myself and only express my affection to people that I...
    sandmoon sandmoon 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 18

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    It is part of my upbringing.

    My self or my family members, we are not from a Broken Family. Did not grew up playing politics between parents. Or lied to Boy friend so he would love me more, because my mother- dad hates each other.
    lifeinpresion lifeinpresion 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I want to hug you, cook you a meal

    and then snuggle with you all night.
    Moelyn95 Moelyn95 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 10

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    I often hug strangers.

    Women, children, old, young. Sometimes even men too !! I got compliment, I am a Great Hugging People ;-) I don't act. I hug them feeling from my Heart. It is always warm. No fake. I wanted to tell them, do you know, no one has hugged me since 03/21//2008 !!
    DevineCOMEDY DevineCOMEDY 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 22

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    I do come across sometimes

    as a reserved somewhat aloof person. At least I try to present myself that way in the real world. Other times I might slip up and show someone else my softer, more tender side. I am more affectionate and tend to be drawn to warm, friendly personalities even if people seem a bit...
    ajrestless ajrestless 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I'm in a long distance relationship.

    only see my bf on weekends so when I do see him I want his touch cuddling and of course making Love but he thinks I want to much sex. is there something wrong with that???
    angelove777 angelove777 46-50, F 13 Responses Dec 8

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    My family gives lots of hugs

    and kisses so I guess that's why I'm that way. Hugs feel so good.
    jerseyjade jerseyjade 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 23

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    I don't show my emotions easily all of the time.

    ..but I still feel that I'm affectionate. I like..no I LOVE to cuddle. I like holding hands, love kissing, love hugs. I have a friend whose family wasn't affectionate at all when we were growing up. I was at her house a lot back then. When I would go to hug her goodbye or...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 10

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    No matter what time of day,

    I'd be their for my friends if they needed me. <3
    LanniLette LanniLette 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 8

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    I love to hug people,

    for the smallest reasons. I love kisses and cuddles in relationships. I like it when a girl I'm dating is also affectionate as me. I crave affection, especially more intimate affection.
    Psychedelicbarf Psychedelicbarf 18-21, F 1 Response May 4

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    I Can't Help Myself!

    I am very affectionate and sometimes I just can't help myself. Whenever I see someone crying or upset something in me wants to go and comfort them. It's so bad that at church during the "greet your neighbor" time some people have begun to avoid me because I just like to hug...
    OceanUndertow OceanUndertow 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 26, 2012

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    I require too much attention.

    I want to cuddle, I want to hear that I'm sexy and beautiful. does that means something is wrong with me? does anyone feels like me?
    angelove777 angelove777 46-50, F 17 Responses Dec 8

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    My love for him is like a beautiful water fall

    never ending.. flowing with passion and grace...he is all I need to smile everyday and I feel so happy.
    Summerandroses Summerandroses 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 12

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    He's very affectionate with the dog. Always thinking of her before me and is always making an effort to make sure she gets attention. If I say anything about wanting more affection...
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    I'm an affair success story. In a short period of time, my life took a direction that I never thought possible. I never saw it coming, did things I never thought I was ever capable...
    happyasever happyasever 31-35, F 8 Responses Nov 23

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    yep its official I truly am a leo through and through. lol this pretty much sums me up. except for a couple things. but Id call that pretty d@mn good! "What it's like to date a...
    wickedlilangel69 wickedlilangel69 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 12

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    I have read a lot of articles and blogs online about women who are in love with their abusers, but its often chocked up to Stockholm Syndrome. Meaning, their boyfriends and...
    elleboogie elleboogie 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 21

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    It's been about a month since my boyfriend has been back. Unfortunately, He was discharged due to medical reasons. Although I should be happy since I get my boyfriend back, it's...
    QuinnTork QuinnTork 26-30, F Nov 21

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    Being born on St Patrick's Day a pisces, a person might think that is something lucky. personally for myself I feel it is not, if anything I only have bad luck, that honestly feels...
    h3ra h3ra 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 22

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    After all the fuss over Halloween and mum making me a costume. I finally got with Les that night and we have been seeing each other secretly ever since. School is ok I see Les...
    YngLee YngLee 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 22

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    Had this issue with an ex of mine who in comparison to me was a very outwardly affectionate person. Nothing wrong with that, of course, but although they say opposites attract, we...
    morea morea 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 22

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