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I Am Very Affectionate

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    It's sad to me that sometimes the thing a

    person most wants is the very thing that eludes them. I have always craved affection. Maybe because I was not raised in a home where there was physical affection but always felt that I needed it. And I know that a person can love you very much and not show it with affection...
    thescarletibis thescarletibis 46-50, F 5 Responses Sep 3, 2014

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    When I like someone, I'm comfortable giving hugs

    and kisses. I guess I'm one of those touchy feely kind of girls. I just do what comes natural with what I'm feeling towards that person.
    Cherilyn16 Cherilyn16 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    I just can't help it.

    Love hugs and being tactile with people I'm close with. Still hold hands with my parents sometimes without thinking about it. Once got shouted at for being a 'lezzer' when I was walking in town with my mum!
    NPMEE NPMEE 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 21

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    I enjoy the game of touch.

    ...It's so fun to see how someone reacts to your affection, like when you graze their leg or touch their finger..... I think there are so many ways to be affectionate, both sexually and non-sexually....I love exploring that!
    giggletree giggletree 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 12

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    Hello everyone I've been away from here

    for many months. I stumbled on this site quite by accident. It was very helpful at the time but then I didn't think I needed to be here and still I wonder. In any case if you received messages from me or read my material you know I'm friendly and approachable. Welcome
    willknowmore willknowmore 61-65, M 1 Response Nov 20, 2014

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    I usually greet people with a hug.

    When I get to know you better ,the hugs get tighter. When I really get to know you the hugs can get really tight. Just depends on how you treat me.
    janelikesit janelikesit 36-40, F 7 Responses Jan 3

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    There are numerous older men in the world

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    bettycc11 bettycc11 26-30, F Apr 24

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    You are the reason why I have sleepless nights.

    You are the reason why I tend to hold my pillow tight. And why I can't sleep without saying goodnight.....
    Cuddlingsoul Cuddlingsoul 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    I'm a very affectionate person

    so it's really hard for me to be with someone who isn't. I really like this guy but he shows no affection whatsoever. You can't just tell me you like me, you have to show me. Actions speak louder then words. Why can't he understand that? Ugh.
    LivviyLove LivviyLove 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 23

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    So many of my friends aren't touchy

    and they cringe when you hug them or snuggle up to them. It bugs me so much. My primary love language is definitely physical touch. When being comforted, having an arm around me or a hand on my shoulder makes a HUGE difference. I wish more people understood this.
    Megsupermario Megsupermario 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2014

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    I love holding hands

    and cuddling and tickling and kissing and laughing and buying presents and inside jokes and dirty looks from across the room. Cuddling is better than sex. You can rub one out but you can't cuddle with yourself.
    gglz18 gglz18 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2014

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    No matter what time of day,

    I'd be their for my friends if they needed me. <3
    LanniLette LanniLette 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2014

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    I just want to have her head on my chest,

    arm draped across my tummy, and leg thrown over me as she cuddles into my side and I rub patterns on her back.
    jando304 jando304 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 5, 2014

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    I want to massage you,

    interrupt you with a surprising kiss. Create sweet meals and hold hands on our first date. :)
    Bobbiin Bobbiin 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 13, 2014

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    I just want someone who touches me,

    even if we are just sitting watching a movie and their fingers just kind of drags over my skin, and they don't have motive, they aren't trying to tickle me or be sexual, they are just touching me and feeling the shape of my bones under my skin, like its physically comforting for...
    Cuddlingsoul Cuddlingsoul 31-35, F 4 Responses May 3

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    I want to hug you, cook you a meal

    and then snuggle with you all night.
    Moelyn95 Moelyn95 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    BigBearHug BigBearHug 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 13

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    I'm a single, caring,

    openminded, understanding and respectful guy in his 30s who doesn't judge. Is there any genuine women out there who want a meaningful friendship with me?.
    Tannedguy007 Tannedguy007 26-30, M Jun 26

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    miimii0069 miimii0069 26-30, F Jul 12

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    My family gives lots of hugs

    and kisses so I guess that's why I'm that way. Hugs feel so good.
    jerseyjade jerseyjade 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 23, 2014

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    I am very affectionate.

    I belive in intimacy cuddling and PDA. When with someone it just seems so natural to spoil with love and affection
    Averageguy41011 Averageguy41011 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    How Did I Become Affectionate?!?!

    Yes, I love to show affection to people. I love to cuddle, kiss and hug my partner. I kiss and hug my nieces and nephews. I listen and care about people. I love to cook and give little gifts to my friends. I'm always complimenting and thanking people. I'm very, very demonstrative...
    lagatta lagatta 41-45, F 12 Responses Nov 29, 2010

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    Always hugging and kissing my kids,

    sometimes to their embarrassment! Wish my husband would do the same. Clueless:(
    racerrex racerrex 56-60, F 1 Response Nov 7, 2014

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    I love to cuddle and sometimes I just need

    physical contact. like I'll hold your hand or rub your leg or I dunno. just gotta touch. I'm pretty hands on
    briannarenee briannarenee 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 11, 2014

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    When I become very close to someone,

    I can be very Affectionate towards them.
    MissChatBot MissChatBot 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    Affection is like breathing.

    I love cuddling, snuggling, touching, and holding someone for days. I love that feeling of holding someone so tight and so close that it feels like nothing could ever come between you. When that someone feels everything you feel, it is even more powerful, every touch sending...
    JohnInColo JohnInColo 46-50, M 1 Response May 10

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    scardan906 scardan906 41-45, M 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Love With Passion!

    My grandmother tells me every time I see her to love with passion. She says the ability to love isn't the unique part the degree of passion is. Passion is a constituent part of deep feeling. Deep feeling is possible with the intensity of experience plus the inner resolve to...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 22-25, F Sep 20, 2013

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    I often hug strangers.

    Women, children, old, young. Sometimes even men too !! I got compliment, I am a Great Hugging People ;-) I don't act. I hug them feeling from my Heart. It is always warm. No fake. I wanted to tell them, do you know, no one has hugged me since 03/21//2008 !!
    DevineCOMEDY DevineCOMEDY 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 22, 2014

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    I have for as long as I can remember been a

    person who has a high degree of affection. I am the person who will hug, caress, hold and kiss willingly. I crave physical affection and freely give it. I have a few friends that are equally affectionate without being sexual. My last relationship was difficult because she didn't...
    RC4blue RC4blue 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 5

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    paulacc11 paulacc11 26-30, F Jan 3

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    I like to hug and kiss

    and cuddle with those I love. I mean i understand limits, nobody likes a leech but the people that are close to me know that i will call them sweetie and that i will kiss them and hug them a lot! Is part of who i am and like Martha says "is a good thing" he he he!!!
    Gatikasensual Gatikasensual 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 10, 2014

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    I love people!! Something

    as simple as a small conversation with a stranger online or offline is refreshing! The thing is I see and sense a lot of unease and pain in others. I really wish I could help somehow, I can only give my advice and experience to inspire change. On EP I have helped plenty of...
    SpiritualStoner SpiritualStoner 16-17, M 1 Response May 2

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    I am a very affectionate ,

    caring and compassionate person! My hearts breaks for those less fortunate than me. I always want to help make every else happy. I'd do anything to help someone else if I was capable!!! I'm in no way a saint but do have a heart of gold
    Devotedmom77 Devotedmom77 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    How come society makes us feel bad

    for thinking out the box when all the time it's made up to control us. Come play at secreterotica . com it's sexy, fun the groups and library are wicked and no BS censorship either.
    YouKnowItMakesSense YouKnowItMakesSense 31-35, M Nov 28, 2014

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    Lollipopcandykisses Lollipopcandykisses 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 16, 2014

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    My love for him is like a beautiful water fall

    never ending.. flowing with passion and grace...he is all I need to smile everyday and I feel so happy.
    Euphorialbeauty23 Euphorialbeauty23 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 12, 2014

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    I smothered my fiancé

    so much that he got me a cat to deflect some of the attention...I can't help it I just love giving hugs
    ordminnet ordminnet 31-35, F 8 Responses Jan 13

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    am 33 and married and

    when i go to my moms place i always need to hug her tightly :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Apr 30

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    I'm affectionate to others

    because I haven't experienced affection from others very much. I believe people need affection so I try to give as much as I can cos I know what it's like not to have affection.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses May 29

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    I do come across sometimes

    as a reserved somewhat aloof person. At least I try to present myself that way in the real world. Other times I might slip up and show someone else my softer, more tender side. I am more affectionate and tend to be drawn to warm, friendly personalities even if people seem a bit...
    ajrestless ajrestless 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 23, 2014

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    Let me hold your hand.

    Let me be your man.I'd kiss you and hug you.Day after day,night after night.I hold you in my arms, knowing it feel so right.You'd be my woman and I'd be your man.All that ever would matter is, I'd always want to hold only, your hand...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 46-50, M Jan 23

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    I'm a hugger..... I love to hug people

    who brighten my day or if they are in need of a comforting hug.
    1stEdition 1stEdition 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 27, 2014

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