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I Am Very Cautious About Making Friends

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    I used ti be totally open and accepting but because I have a wonderful stalker I don't add just anyone to my circle any longer.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 17, 2010

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    Friend Making..

    I am very cautious when it comes to friend making, I have been hurt in the past so I tend to close up very quickly. I have to first decide myself whether I like the person or not. I then tend to get friendly and then wonder if the are trying to be my friend or are they feeling...
    Jbriefs Jbriefs 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 6, 2013

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    I like it when you tell me you miss me I like it when you tell me you're thinking about me I like it when you seem to be so addictive to me I like it when you adore me even when I...
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    True enough! Oh I have the odd blast from the past via Facebook. But other than one or two regular correspondents on EP, that's about it!
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 hr ago

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    all my friends aren't really open with anything
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    i used to have a girl on skype as a FWB but she's gone it was amazing especially when it's started with a friendship and this the best way if any girl interested contact me i...
    naughtymido naughtymido 26-30, M 2 hrs ago

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    i used to have a girl on skype as a FWB but she's gone it was amazing especially when it's started with a friendship and this the best way if any girl interested contact me i...
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    i used to have a girl on skype as a FWB but she's gone it was amazing especially when it's started with a friendship and this the best way ,hope i can find someone like her if...
    naughtymido naughtymido 26-30, M 2 hrs ago

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    Hard to make friends here
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    You don't love me, and I know exactly why. Please stop reminding me that my personality isn't 'good enough' for you. You say I'm too extroverted. It's not my problem that you want...
    LostInPhosphenes LostInPhosphenes 13-15, F 5 hrs ago

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    Just like the title says.... I'll stand by my friends. (Unless you back stab me in some way... then you're screwed)
    Gary2015 Gary2015 13-15, M 5 hrs ago

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    So you live in the South part of the US ,your friends mother has been divorced three times. She's now in her forth marriage?
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