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I Am Very Cautious About Making Friends

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    I used ti be totally open and accepting but because I have a wonderful stalker I don't add just anyone to my circle any longer.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 17, 2010

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    Friend Making..

    I am very cautious when it comes to friend making, I have been hurt in the past so I tend to close up very quickly. I have to first decide myself whether I like the person or not. I then tend to get friendly and then wonder if the are trying to be my friend or are they feeling...
    Jbriefs Jbriefs 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 6, 2013

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    I like making friends in ep u have lots of nice friends on here. Message me if you want a friend :)
    tyson365 tyson365 13-15, M Jul 5

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    i have a bestfriend of opp. gender when ever i message her she replies to me but she don't ever start conversation i should start and she say that she was busy all the time and...
    jimmybf jimmybf 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    Back at Age 13 I was hanging around with the 'popular people' who happened to turn out as *** holes, but I was still able to socialise. I realised I couldn't be like them, so found...
    pashibabe pashibabe 16-17 5 days ago

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    I have no idea why, but I love just meeting and learning about new people, despite the fact I'm socially awkward and it's difficult for me to interact with strangers. I'm really...
    JustAOddGirl JustAOddGirl 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I think about the number of friends, that is not the quantity, but the quality.. I personally had to block two persons on the sameday, I dont want any fake or perverts. .. sorry...
    qbanbb85 qbanbb85 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I'm pretty shy when I go to a new school so
    ashleysokolik ashleysokolik 13-15, F 4 hrs ago

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    hi there, I've had a problem for a long time. I don't really have common topics with general people. I like to know and talk the knowledges of history, politics, economics, arts...
    chiyu716 chiyu716 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    If anyone just wants to chill or talk Hmu c:
    TodaysDreams TodaysDreams 16-17, M Jun 30

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    I am bored any girl or boys wanted talk megg mee
    leemc leemc 16-17, M Jul 20

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    I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year. We have a great relationship for the most part and we get along great, but I've always been a shy person around new people and his...
    ellielondon ellielondon 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I want friends, to laugh with to have fun with. My friends seem to only care about there significant other. before they had boyfriends we'd always hang out, and there would never...
    lsm92 lsm92 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 1

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    Like a diseased tree, I've cut off the final toxic branches of friendship, which has left me feeling a bit desolate and depleted. I am not talking about online friendships. I'm...
    PlasticRobot PlasticRobot 36-40, F 22 hrs ago

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    Making friends is hard for mee. I do like making friends bc its usually rare for mee to have new friends sometimes (if tht makes any sense). I just feel like i cant break out of my...
    MeeeKazz MeeeKazz 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    Due to my almost introverted nature, making friends is unnecessarily difficult. I'd love to make more friends, but I just don't know how to go about it. I'm far too awkward to hold...
    YoungAndAwkward YoungAndAwkward 13-15, F Jul 15

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      Well, my name is (secret). I am 18 turning 19 this August. I am new to college and stuff. It has been 3 weeks. My first day here was on 15 Jun 2014, about 3 weeks ago. I am...
    thelonercollegestudent thelonercollegestudent 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 4

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    So I'm starting high school next year and I have literally no friends in my entire grade. Last year all of my friends became popular, EVERY SINGLE ONE. How does tht even happen...
    juliakats3 juliakats3 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 30

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    I'm a middle-schooler and this past year I had a really hard time making friends. People ignored me all the time and I would just sit by myself in class alone while everyone...
    kaseyf2801 kaseyf2801 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I just love making friends! I mean who doesn't? I haven't been doing much with my rl friends since it's been very complicated with school and work and everything else, so I decided...
    PrincessPolarBear PrincessPolarBear 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    1. I crave intimate friendship. 2. 12/18; Sagittarius. 3. I'm into grunge, body tattoos & piercings. 4. Pansexual. 5. share your netflix account & I'll love you 5ever. ;-) 6...
    uhjord uhjord 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    Why am I so friendless!? I'm extremely loyal, helpful, generous, respectful, kind and I don't judge others for the way they look so wtf is up with the whole loner phase? Damn. I've...
    JourneeBlue JourneeBlue 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Making friends is one of the things that I enjoy doing. It feels like a deed to have done too. I would like to make a few online friends. I am interested in what sort of people are...
    DamoiseauDynavolt DamoiseauDynavolt 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 7

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    I'm looking for new people to talk to and hopefully become friends with :) it's honestly easier making friends online then it is in person
    EssSmith EssSmith 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 9

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    Hi, this is my first time on here. And since it's summer and all my friends live in Daly City, I don't really have anyone to talk to. I'd prefer making friends around my age though...
    ItsKimmy ItsKimmy 13-15, F 6 Responses Jul 16

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    I've never had many friends, but it seems like all of them have moved away. I've always been kind of an introvert, and making friends is hard for me to do. I just can't talk to...
    Mes5 Mes5 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I'm extremely awkward around other people and I really don't know how to talk to them. I have trouble making friends because I'm shy and quiet and have a weird sense of humor...
    Tayway22 Tayway22 13-15, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I wonder what it's like to be loved by someone else. But since I have a mental condition that affects my social life, i have a much harder time making friends
    whatupdoc54 whatupdoc54 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 3

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    I am absolutely awful at making friends, I think I'm like allergic to humans or something. Hopefully I can make some on here though :3
    Wildestflower Wildestflower 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 5

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    I am silly. I am playful, and shy. I love writing and reading. Music has been a good motivation for me since I was young. I am happily engaged. I have a hard time making friends. I...
    BrightStarKali BrightStarKali 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    I am gay but I haven't come out. I like making friends and chatting with people.
    lxtsw lxtsw 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 9

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    I love making friends and I will take every opportunity I can get. So hit me up if you want to chat 😄
    SamLGirl SamLGirl 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    I'm bad at making friends. I wish I had a real best friend that I could tell everything to.
    jordan43930 jordan43930 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    My name is Renee I have lerning disability. I lyk sex I do not lyk black men I was born in Latvia I lyk making friends I am 22 I am a life guard My mother is dead My father is dead...
    reneebat reneebat 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 17

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    I have been bad at making friends since 3rd grade and I'm embarrassed of myself for it.
    Scax Scax 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 17

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    I like making friendship with those who enjoy reading my recent activities and my stories.
    peetboy peetboy 51-55, M Jul 19

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    Since I started in chat rooms when I was younger I've always enjoyed making friends online.
    threeforagirl threeforagirl 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    I'm all about making good and wise decisions for my life. It takes thought and consideration of the future. It seems like everything is so fast paced and it can cause us to be...
    relating2u79 relating2u79 31-35, M Jul 8

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    Wow, this is a topic of interest among the masses. It seems that there are a lot of us with no friends or no close friends and yet here we all are. Too bad there isn't a coffee...
    BerthaMae BerthaMae 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    Okay, let me preface this by telling you a little bit about my friends. I don't have a lot of them, and only two I speak to regularly and associate with on a more comfortable...
    pretender1326 pretender1326 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 17

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    While everybody is going out, having fun, inviting people over, chilling with people, and doing normal things. I sit at home alone 3/4 of my life and literally only hang out with...
    Britt199b Britt199b 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm strangely drawn to womens clothes and have fantasies about wearing them. I fantasize about women friends sneaking up on me and abducting me and forcing me to dress up and tie...
    TooInnocent333 TooInnocent333 26-30, M 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm always up for writing something nice about my friends! (Also I'm a compliment wh**e. Lol)
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F Jul 17

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    I was reading a Facebook post from one of my (I guess you can say) friends, and it sounded something like this: "My mom is always the one to spot a fake friend first". Was that for...
    TheAnonymousINFP TheAnonymousINFP 18-21, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    Well I'm not the best at making new friends.. in fact I suck at it but anyway here's a bit about me I'm 16 I love anime, Doctor Who, Sherlock, Supernatural and all that awesome...
    SqueakyRaveFox SqueakyRaveFox 16-17, F 5 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Id love to make new friends!!! C:
    ShyProdigy ShyProdigy 13-15, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I have no friends at all anymore, i must just be a horrible person. Iv been to 4 schools and spent 3 years at college but dont have 1 single friend now. I had a few but then i had...
    russianpenguin23 russianpenguin23 22-25, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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