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    i am 28 now and have been battling depression and axiety since i was 19!i dont think i feel things anymore, not the way i should, i feel numb a lot of the time until things hit me then i feel so much i cant copei am confused about my sexuallity and who i  am and because i...
    gemima12 gemima12 26-30, F Jul 28, 2011

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    Confused On What to Do.

    I moved with my friend to Tyler after I broke up with my girlfriend, which we lived together. I planned to go to collage there so I decided why not get a head start and get my own apartment and already have everything prepared to start school. While I was there I met this amazing...
    exodus19 exodus19 19-21 3 Responses Feb 8, 2008

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    Alone and Just Frustrated

    OK so im a 20 year old male and im a virgin who has never been kissed, i dont know if im bisexual, gay or straigth or wahtever, and I feel that this is not gonna change, i feel like this will continue until i die, alone.  im confused as to why i have come to...
    joeboxer joeboxer 19-21, M 1 Response Mar 25, 2008

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    Not As Sure As I Think

    There really hasn't been anything I have ever been to sure about. I always doubt myself with decisions I have, mostly about school. I currently have one career but I only want to do it part time. I love being a massage therapist but only want to do it part time so I don't get...
    truthliesbelow truthliesbelow 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 7, 2010

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    So I was cleaning a flip house

    for some extra cash today. I was finishing up and I was cleaning the staircase leading down to the basement with Clorox bleach spray cleaner. At the bottom of the stairs, I sprayed the trim work and all of a sudden the dust turned bright pink! I was dumbfounded. It hadn't happen...
    hayhaybanaynay hayhaybanaynay 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    I have no idea what i'm doing .-.
    smallgirlbigdreams smallgirlbigdreams 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 15, 2013

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    Not Convinced

    I have just been talking to a healer about illness and he firmly believes that we create every illness by negative thoughts. As a nurse I am very aware of the problems drugs, alcohol, poor diet and faulty thinking can cause And I definitely DO believe...
    Orangetas Orangetas 51-55, F 26 Responses Oct 10, 2009

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    Ex Acting Strange.

    Lately I've been encountering my ex more than usual and often finding him acting very strangely. We don't talk at all - the last time we ever did I made it clear that I didn't ever want him contacting me ever again.Recently I have caught him staring at me in and out of class. My...
    lntel lntel 22-25 1 Response Mar 21, 2012

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    Am Very Confused....

    i beary understand wat i feel about lots of stuff in my life n i just dont know what 2 do.is it that i am an alexithymic or wat?
    ciru ciru 18-21, F 3 Responses May 24, 2011

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    I just saw an experience about people enjoying

    pretending to be pregnant. 😱 I'm actually 33 weeks pregnant and I can't imagine why anyone would want to even pretend to be pregnant. It's not fun and it's not pretty.
    x0UnionJack0x x0UnionJack0x 22-25, F 1 Response May 23

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    Confused

    I have a girlfriend and I do love her but the last two days I spent my best friend and almost all the time he put his arm around me or held me in his arms. we told each other once that we don't love each other but now i'm neither sure that he doesn't nor that i don't...
    GothGrrrl GothGrrrl 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 17, 2007

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    Confusion

    I am so confused!  I was under the impression that if you practiced a religion, you should care about your fellow man.  I just talked to an old friend who worked where I used to work before it closed down.  This facility re-named itself.  I won't get into how...
    trishhebel trishhebel 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2009

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    Obsession..

    I had a huge crush on a guy in school. But nothing ever happened about it. Its been 20 years since he left school.. We never stayed in touch.. Never met again.. Recently I found him on Facebook, through a mutual friend. I sent him a request without thinking twice about it. He...
    bluedolphin bluedolphin 31-35, F Aug 22, 2013

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    Transgendered????

    what can i say other than what i already posted in my confession???? other than this is the first time i'm speaking out on a subject that can be ridiculed by all manner of people and religions..... it's only other people like me that can share the feelings that i have about being...
    Poppy9057 Poppy9057 31-35, T 5 Responses Jun 14, 2010

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    46 Days & Counting...

    As a teenager, moving quickly into adulthood, I am always very confused. My 18th Birthday is in 46 days. My love life has my head spinning in circles. My family has me wanting to strangle some of them. And my life is just falling apart infront of me. Short, sweet, and to the...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 10, 2009

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    Coming Out Story

    H i! You may find this interesting.    Please pass this on too... it can be helpful to someone http://www.amazon.com/Figuring-Out-N-S-B/dp/0979216303 http://www.myspace.com/figuringitoutbook Figuring IT Out by NSB - A Coming Out Story. This books has been rated...
    grehyzz grehyzz 26-30 Dec 3, 2008

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    My Bestfriend's Brother...

    Okay so these past weeks have been very stressful! My bestfriend (let's call her Lola) has an older brother(let's call him Josh) and lately things have changed. Lola and I have been friend since seventh grade, we are now in eleventh grade but I've never really talked to her...
    Wierdo1234 Wierdo1234 16-17, F Aug 26, 2011

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    Very Confused Today

    i am confused about whats going on between me and my husband. a friend of his joe and his gf are majorly fighting right now and he told me that joe told him that his gf is cheating on him.. messed up ..so his gf keeps calling our house phone. but hes told me that it was joe. well...
    alwaysbeafriend alwaysbeafriend 26-30, F Jun 17, 2007

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    What Am I Supposed to Do With What I've Obtained?

     I don't get life. I know you live, i know you love, i know you die. But what happens to those who are hurt and don't want to love. I've just recently gotten out of a fake relationship. I know it was stupid and immature. I met this guy on line through a so-called-friend. His...
    strikesthetears strikesthetears 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 14, 2009

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    Dimond In The Rough

    I very confused about a lot                    But this Our Friendships means everything in the world to me. The past is in the past I say   But I remember past mistakes and do not want to repeat them. Also the more I find out about you the more I want to know
    CMA1234 CMA1234 46-50, F Dec 3, 2011

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    Hello everyone! Story here again.

    Okay, so I recently got back into school. I'm currents in high school and my boyfriend of 7 months and I dated until summer vacation last year. We promised each other we'd always be together. Our goodbyes were the same. Tears, hugs, kisses. It was amazing but it all went to fast...
    StoryCx StoryCx 16-17 Sep 3

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    Can anyone explain to me

    if male depressions and mid-life crisises are real or just grossly exaggerated?
    cvaca2014 cvaca2014 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 14

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    Thriteen Years Later and Am Just As Confused As I Was Then.

    When I was 17 I was in an exclusive relationship with an older man.  After about six months I fell madly in love with his younger brother.  One night when Jeff (my boyfriend), went to buy liquor I felt overcome by passion and desperation, because I figured this was my...
    act140 act140 26-30 Jul 4, 2008

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    "I Am Very Confused"

    I have been away from going to church for many years now. In the last couple of years it has weighed heavy on my heart to go back. See the thing is I have never been in a relationship with anyone that was a Christain. I tend to end up with guys that will not step foot into a...
    cmost cmost 36-40, F 4 Responses Jun 17, 2007

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    I Know That I Love Her So Much...

    yeah.....She is so beautiful...she is my friend and she is straight...I have told her about my feelings,now she knows everything..but she still continue treat me as friend and it hurts a lot...I am so confused..I don't know what I must do...I think I mustn't make her fall in love...
    4bidden 4bidden 16-17, F 1 Response May 23, 2012

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    So, I just turned 18 in January

    and moved in with my dad (from my mom's place which was a psychologically abusive environment in which I raised my two younger brothers, took care of her house, and was kept in solitary confinement for the past three years whilst being homeschooled on an online curriculum...
    Iwantacreativeusername Iwantacreativeusername 18-21, F 4 Responses May 6

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    I Need Help..stepmother?

    I'm a girl  22 years old about 8 months ago I started a relationship with a boy of 24 years, my relationship with him is great, is a super friendly guy who has shown me in many Sometimes I want with plenty of details and facts, the problem is that he has got a ...
    Jessy22 Jessy22 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 19, 2010

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    Confusion About Things

    My confusion is twisting around inside my head. I’m confused about the present and the future. I’m confused because I don’t know what to do. I feel like my friends don’t care for me, but what can I do? I don’t know if I’ll make the...
    Rawa Rawa 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 31, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I recently started dating this guy who was persistent about having me around. He used to call me every morning and night. We both work so we see each other 2-3 times a wk. However...
    missyluvslilies missyluvslilies 26-30, F 8 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend of a year and a half has put me second to girls he claims he USED to like. I hate feeling second to someone i put first, always. I never knew how jealous of a person...
    micheller1995 micheller1995 18-21, F Aug 17

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    i am confused whether to go back to my home town or not... am a single mom, and the father of my daughter left us and lived with a married woman. his support is so insufficient...
    ahho ahho 31-35, F Aug 19

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    Im a girl who has feelings towards my bestfriend who is a girl too. Im inlove with her for a long time yet still not have gotten over it. We went different ways after I graduated...
    iFuckenLoveYou iFuckenLoveYou 18-21, F Aug 22

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    Feeling really confused I think I have a crush on an older woman. I mean I've always like older people which in Older people I means guys. I've never dated someone that is younger...
    Loovee1C Loovee1C 18-21, F Aug 17

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    I wanna harm for no reason at all, I could be having and amazing day then suddenly I need to cut. Im so confused, why does this happen?
    MatchIntoWater MatchIntoWater 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    I love my soulmate and lover very much. We are very close to making a life together after living 6000 miles apart. We love sex and swinging but as we are apart play alone including...
    IanMcL IanMcL 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    Someone please help me...please... I moved to Colorado for college and I am home sick and confused, anxious and depressed. And I tried calling my parents begging to come home and...
    kodiakh kodiakh 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    I'm 15 and I'm so confused right now. I like girls but i also like boys(bit more). Am i a bi?, gay?. Any advice would b helpful..😔
    Orangeandbananas Orangeandbananas 13-15 1 Response Aug 26

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    Sometime it seems that i am happy but actually there is no any reason for it and i get confused.
    sunilsharma08 sunilsharma08 22-25, M Aug 27

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    I'm always confused because I'm constantly debating and arguing with myself. I have many ideas and beliefs in my head that constantly collide with one another. It's kind bad...
    ponycupcake ponycupcake 18-21, F Aug 28

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    So, there's this guy in my class and it feels like I have a crush on him. I don't know what I like about him tho. He's funny. That's all. I don't know why my heart is choosing to...
    imsounknown imsounknown 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    I feel so stupid, because I thought I've already gotten over him. Maybe I didn't. I had spent months and months feeling so empty inside, slow fire inside me that was melting away...
    ThatAcappellaGirl ThatAcappellaGirl 18-21, F Aug 31

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    At some point tonight memories from my past started emerging. I started listening to music on my phone to try to alter the feelings and emotions rising up inside of me. I'm so...
    theShamanDon theShamanDon 26-30, M Sep 1

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    Long story short I am married and got caught texting another man... **** hit the fan since my H knows the guy and now life is upside down. I knew what I was doing was wrong but I...
    hbgirl24 hbgirl24 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    I got broken up with a week before our 6 year anniversary. My best friend (male) developed feelings for me. My ex started dating another girl, he was already friends with her, in...
    poptarteater poptarteater 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    Ughhhh. SOS. Help me figure this one out. Got stories? Advice? Help out a confused 16 year-old girl. You'll earn good karma.
    IvyEstelle IvyEstelle 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    My coworker Tim and I became very close in the past month. When he first started working at my store, the security guard and I had a lot of fun at his expense because we thought he...
    iridescenteyes iridescenteyes 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My answer was I'd tell my boss I wanna **** him. I'm shocked she didn't delete it lol
    MrsGigalowJr MrsGigalowJr 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    My boyfriend has been pressuring me to set a date for our wedding. So finally, I did. Within minutes, while talking about wedding ideas, he's barely listening and browsing Facebook...
    DreamChristine DreamChristine 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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