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I Am Very Confused

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    Confusion About Things

    My confusion is twisting around inside my head. I’m confused about the present and the future. I’m confused because I don’t know what to do. I feel like my friends don’t care for me, but what can I do? I don’t know if I’ll make the...
    Rawa Rawa 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 31, 2008

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    Thriteen Years Later and Am Just As Confused As I Was Then.

    When I was 17 I was in an exclusive relationship with an older man.  After about six months I fell madly in love with his younger brother.  One night when Jeff (my boyfriend), went to buy liquor I felt overcome by passion and desperation, because I figured this was my...
    act140 act140 26-30 Jul 4, 2008

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    Coming Out Story

    H i! You may find this interesting.    Please pass this on too... it can be helpful to someone http://www.amazon.com/Figuring-Out-N-S-B/dp/0979216303 http://www.myspace.com/figuringitoutbook Figuring IT Out by NSB - A Coming Out Story. This books has been rated...
    grehyzz grehyzz 26-30 Dec 3, 2008

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    Very Confused Today

    i am confused about whats going on between me and my husband. a friend of his joe and his gf are majorly fighting right now and he told me that joe told him that his gf is cheating on him.. messed up ..so his gf keeps calling our house phone. but hes told me that it was joe. well...
    alwaysbeafriend alwaysbeafriend 26-30, F Jun 17, 2007

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    I just saw an experience about people enjoying

    pretending to be pregnant. 😱 I'm actually 33 weeks pregnant and I can't imagine why anyone would want to even pretend to be pregnant. It's not fun and it's not pretty.
    x0UnionJack0x x0UnionJack0x 22-25, F 1 Response May 23

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    Confused On What to Do.

    I moved with my friend to Tyler after I broke up with my girlfriend, which we lived together. I planned to go to collage there so I decided why not get a head start and get my own apartment and already have everything prepared to start school. While I was there I met this amazing...
    exodus19 exodus19 19-21 3 Responses Feb 8, 2008

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    Not As Sure As I Think

    There really hasn't been anything I have ever been to sure about. I always doubt myself with decisions I have, mostly about school. I currently have one career but I only want to do it part time. I love being a massage therapist but only want to do it part time so I don't get...
    truthliesbelow truthliesbelow 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 7, 2010

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    Alone and Just Frustrated

    OK so im a 20 year old male and im a virgin who has never been kissed, i dont know if im bisexual, gay or straigth or wahtever, and I feel that this is not gonna change, i feel like this will continue until i die, alone.  im confused as to why i have come to...
    joeboxer joeboxer 19-21, M 1 Response Mar 25, 2008

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    So, I just turned 18 in January

    and moved in with my dad (from my mom's place which was a psychologically abusive environment in which I raised my two younger brothers, took care of her house, and was kept in solitary confinement for the past three years whilst being homeschooled on an online curriculum...
    Iwantacreativeusername Iwantacreativeusername 18-21, F 4 Responses May 6

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    I Know That I Love Her So Much...

    yeah.....She is so beautiful...she is my friend and she is straight...I have told her about my feelings,now she knows everything..but she still continue treat me as friend and it hurts a lot...I am so confused..I don't know what I must do...I think I mustn't make her fall in love...
    4bidden 4bidden 16-17, F 1 Response May 23, 2012

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    Confussed.com

    i am 28 now and have been battling depression and axiety since i was 19!i dont think i feel things anymore, not the way i should, i feel numb a lot of the time until things hit me then i feel so much i cant copei am confused about my sexuallity and who i  am and because i...
    gemima12 gemima12 26-30, F Jul 28, 2011

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    I Need Help..stepmother?

    I'm a girl  22 years old about 8 months ago I started a relationship with a boy of 24 years, my relationship with him is great, is a super friendly guy who has shown me in many Sometimes I want with plenty of details and facts, the problem is that he has got a ...
    Jessy22 Jessy22 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 19, 2010

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    Obsession..

    I had a huge crush on a guy in school. But nothing ever happened about it. Its been 20 years since he left school.. We never stayed in touch.. Never met again.. Recently I found him on Facebook, through a mutual friend. I sent him a request without thinking twice about it. He...
    bluedolphin bluedolphin 31-35, F Aug 22, 2013

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    Am Very Confused....

    i beary understand wat i feel about lots of stuff in my life n i just dont know what 2 do.is it that i am an alexithymic or wat?
    ciru ciru 18-21, F 3 Responses May 24, 2011

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    Can anyone explain to me

    if male depressions and mid-life crisises are real or just grossly exaggerated?
    cvaca2014 cvaca2014 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 14

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    Confused

    I have a girlfriend and I do love her but the last two days I spent my best friend and almost all the time he put his arm around me or held me in his arms. we told each other once that we don't love each other but now i'm neither sure that he doesn't nor that i don't...
    GothGrrrl GothGrrrl 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 17, 2007

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    Dimond In The Rough

    I very confused about a lot                    But this Our Friendships means everything in the world to me. The past is in the past I say   But I remember past mistakes and do not want to repeat them. Also the more I find out about you the more I want to know
    CMA1234 CMA1234 46-50, F Dec 3, 2011

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    Confusion

    I am so confused!  I was under the impression that if you practiced a religion, you should care about your fellow man.  I just talked to an old friend who worked where I used to work before it closed down.  This facility re-named itself.  I won't get into how...
    trishhebel trishhebel 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2009

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    Ex Acting Strange.

    Lately I've been encountering my ex more than usual and often finding him acting very strangely. We don't talk at all - the last time we ever did I made it clear that I didn't ever want him contacting me ever again.Recently I have caught him staring at me in and out of class. My...
    lntel lntel 18-21 1 Response Mar 21, 2012

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    Not Convinced

    I have just been talking to a healer about illness and he firmly believes that we create every illness by negative thoughts. As a nurse I am very aware of the problems drugs, alcohol, poor diet and faulty thinking can cause And I definitely DO believe...
    Orangetas Orangetas 51-55, F 26 Responses Oct 10, 2009

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    ._.

    I have no idea what i'm doing .-.
    smallgirlbigdreams smallgirlbigdreams 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 15, 2013

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    46 Days & Counting...

    As a teenager, moving quickly into adulthood, I am always very confused. My 18th Birthday is in 46 days. My love life has my head spinning in circles. My family has me wanting to strangle some of them. And my life is just falling apart infront of me. Short, sweet, and to the...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 10, 2009

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    What Am I Supposed to Do With What I've Obtained?

     I don't get life. I know you live, i know you love, i know you die. But what happens to those who are hurt and don't want to love. I've just recently gotten out of a fake relationship. I know it was stupid and immature. I met this guy on line through a so-called-friend. His...
    strikesthetears strikesthetears 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 14, 2009

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    "I Am Very Confused"

    I have been away from going to church for many years now. In the last couple of years it has weighed heavy on my heart to go back. See the thing is I have never been in a relationship with anyone that was a Christain. I tend to end up with guys that will not step foot into a...
    cmost cmost 36-40, F 4 Responses Jun 17, 2007

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    Transgendered????

    what can i say other than what i already posted in my confession???? other than this is the first time i'm speaking out on a subject that can be ridiculed by all manner of people and religions..... it's only other people like me that can share the feelings that i have about being...
    Poppy9057 Poppy9057 31-35, T 5 Responses Jun 14, 2010

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    My Bestfriend's Brother...

    Okay so these past weeks have been very stressful! My bestfriend (let's call her Lola) has an older brother(let's call him Josh) and lately things have changed. Lola and I have been friend since seventh grade, we are now in eleventh grade but I've never really talked to her...
    Wierdo1234 Wierdo1234 16-17, F Aug 26, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I'm 21 and I "came out" (I don't know for sure what to classify myself as) a few days ago and have been feeling lost/depressed/alone/suicidal to a point, ever since. I was with my...
    sparkyj22 sparkyj22 18-21, F 18 hrs ago

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    I am always confused about life. It's so hard to understand. Sometimes language also confuses me. What do these words mean? I'm so confused. I'm in my head too long. I need to...
    ponycupcake ponycupcake 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    I'm so confused and I wanna scream because I swear yesterday I was second guessing our relationship and now I don't second guess it at all but now I'm second guessing not second...
    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F Jul 5

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      Can a marriage truely be repaired after one party has cheated? Has anyone been through or going through this now a? My husband and I have been married for 6 years, we have...
    sammieejai123 sammieejai123 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 6

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    I am really confused right now...my thoughts are blurred and my head hurts.I don't know what is right and what is wrong..I don't know if I should go with the wind or have self...
    sparkydream sparkydream 18-21, F Jul 6

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    I'm so confused about my gender and have been for a long time. I started putting my mom's stuff around 4 or 5, I battle the desire to dress all the time . Then growing up I liked...
    DawnR59 DawnR59 51-55, T 1 Response Jul 11

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    July 17. Love, in Words and Actions. Many of us have confused notions about what it means to be loved and cared about. Many of us were loved and cared for by people who had...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jul 17

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    I'm confused about my --- orientation. I haven't spoken much to boys. And I used to get easily scared if some boy called me for friendship or more. I've spend much of my time with...
    BridaPaulo BridaPaulo 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    I remember in high school I fell so hard for boy who messed with my head. We had some kind of connection for two years. No we didn't date but I know what we did have was special...
    Idreamtowaketofindthefate Idreamtowaketofindthefate 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    For while I been confused about my feelings for my guy friend. It's really odd. I usually know when I like someone. For a few weeks I been wondering do I like him or not? I could...
    Idreamtowaketofindthefate Idreamtowaketofindthefate 18-21, F Jul 4

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    You know something, this is gonna sound really like "seriously get over yourself and shut up" type of thing and like "get over it you're young!" etc etc but I don't really right...
    ThatAwkwardOne ThatAwkwardOne 16-17, M Jul 7

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    This is not like other experiences and I'm a bit embarrassed to say this. I normally have my period for 2 weeks and I only had it for 1 day. I'm a bit confused
    Frankineedles Frankineedles 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I confused, I words can't.
    Kayrouille Kayrouille 16-17, F Jul 8

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    So I used to be really happy and had lots of friends but over time I got really depressed from people being ******** and just stabbing me in the back and not caring. so after like...
    Ghost21z Ghost21z 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    Hello, New here....miserable and looking for advice, commiserators... anyone with similar symptoms... Any help, or relatable story would be so appreciated. I was recently...
    awildfly9 awildfly9 31-35, F Jul 19

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    I don't know what to do. I get advice to be strong and do what I want to do then that's the wrong advice that I'm too strong and not to rush into what I want to do. I'm so...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F Jul 24

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    I'm a young girl who doesn't know much. I'm confused about my sexual orientation. I think I might be bi. It might just be a phase. I told my best friend and she said she doesn't...
    carelihed carelihed 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I feel parranoid. I am suspicious the whole time of everything and everybody around me. It sucks. If somebody says good morning do you go and see where the sun is. My imagination...
    funnyface2014 funnyface2014 41-45 1 Response Jul 2

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