I Am Very Confused

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 330 People


    I have a girlfriend and I do love her but the last two days I spent my best friend and almost all the time he put his arm around me or held me in his arms. we told each other once that we don't love each other but now i'm neither sure that he doesn't nor that i don't...
    GothGrrrl GothGrrrl
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 17, 2007

    I'm 51 working and it's very difficult to find

    jobs at this age when you resign. I have to take care of my parents age
    pkana pkana
    51-55, F
    Oct 26, 2014

    So I started dating this guy When I first met

    him I got the initial feeling that he was gay When I started talking to him he seemed really masculine So I was relieved But then later on he starts acting more and more feminine Basically, physically acting like a girl with his mannerisms I was concerned He also acts...
    Justventingg Justventingg
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 22, 2015

    What Am I Supposed to Do With What I've Obtained?

     I don't get life. I know you live, i know you love, i know you die. But what happens to those who are hurt and don't want to love. I've just recently gotten out of a fake relationship. I know it was stupid and immature. I met this guy on line through a so-called-friend. His...
    strikesthetears strikesthetears
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 14, 2009

    I don't get why some people can't handle the

    truth. It's the truth! Live with it!
    Sakihiro Sakihiro
    18-21, F
    Mar 10, 2015

    My Bestfriend's Brother...

    Okay so these past weeks have been very stressful! My bestfriend (let's call her Lola) has an older brother(let's call him Josh) and lately things have changed. Lola and I have been friend since seventh grade, we are now in eleventh grade but I've never really talked to her...
    Wierdo1234 Wierdo1234
    18-21, F
    Aug 26, 2011

    46 Days & Counting...

    As a teenager, moving quickly into adulthood, I am always very confused. My 18th Birthday is in 46 days. My love life has my head spinning in circles. My family has me wanting to strangle some of them. And my life is just falling apart infront of me. Short, sweet, and to the...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Oct 10, 2009

    Today is my ex's birthday should I message him ?

    Breaking the ice would probably give him the idea I want him back. I feel so confused and unhappy :(
    BreakingTheRules BreakingTheRules
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Sep 20, 2015

    Confused On What to Do.

    I moved with my friend to Tyler after I broke up with my girlfriend, which we lived together. I planned to go to collage there so I decided why not get a head start and get my own apartment and already have everything prepared to start school. While I was there I met this amazing...
    exodus19 exodus19
    3 Responses Feb 8, 2008

    Not As Sure As I Think

    There really hasn't been anything I have ever been to sure about. I always doubt myself with decisions I have, mostly about school. I currently have one career but I only want to do it part time. I love being a massage therapist but only want to do it part time so I don't get...
    truthliesbelow truthliesbelow
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 7, 2010

    I thought Physics was tough,

    but guess what, chemistry is waiting for me to get my mind blown again *_*
    boom991 boom991
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jan 16, 2015

    Thriteen Years Later and Am Just As Confused As I Was Then.

    When I was 17 I was in an exclusive relationship with an older man.  After about six months I fell madly in love with his younger brother.  One night when Jeff (my boyfriend), went to buy liquor I felt overcome by passion and desperation, because I figured this was my...
    act140 act140
    Jul 4, 2008

    Some random EP member sent me a message asking

    if I have snap chat or kik. I told her no, I don't, I don't talk to enough people to bother having either. Her reaction? "whatever bye, I'm blocking you" I'm so very confused.
    dontyouunderstand dontyouunderstand
    1 Response May 14, 2015

    "I Am Very Confused"

    I have been away from going to church for many years now. In the last couple of years it has weighed heavy on my heart to go back. See the thing is I have never been in a relationship with anyone that was a Christain. I tend to end up with guys that will not step foot into a...
    cmost cmost
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jun 17, 2007

    I Need Help..stepmother?

    I'm a girl  22 years old about 8 months ago I started a relationship with a boy of 24 years, my relationship with him is great, is a super friendly guy who has shown me in many Sometimes I want with plenty of details and facts, the problem is that he has got a ...
    Jessy22 Jessy22
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 19, 2010

    Can anyone explain to me

    if male depressions and mid-life crisises are real or just grossly exaggerated?
    cvaca2014 cvaca2014
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jun 14, 2014

    Hello everyone! Story here again.

    Okay, so I recently got back into school. I'm currents in high school and my boyfriend of 7 months and I dated until summer vacation last year. We promised each other we'd always be together. Our goodbyes were the same. Tears, hugs, kisses. It was amazing but it all went to fast...
    StoryCx StoryCx
    Sep 3, 2014

    I tried commenting it came out wrong I have

    so much confused feelings how do you resolve them
    susangoga susangoga
    31-35, F
    Jul 22, 2015

    I Know That I Love Her So Much...

    yeah.....She is so beautiful...she is my friend and she is straight...I have told her about my feelings,now she knows everything..but she still continue treat me as friend and it hurts a lot...I am so confused..I don't know what I must do...I think I mustn't make her fall in love...
    4bidden 4bidden
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 23, 2012

    I'm recently divorced

    and enjoying being single getting in touch with who I am as a person. I was recently introduced to a very nice guy who I enjoy talking to time to time I explained to him I'm not interested in a relationship but we can be friends he recently ask me if I wanted to become roommates...
    allie101 allie101
    36-40, F
    1 Response Oct 15, 2015

    Very Confused Today

    i am confused about whats going on between me and my husband. a friend of his joe and his gf are majorly fighting right now and he told me that joe told him that his gf is cheating on him.. messed up ..so his gf keeps calling our house phone. but hes told me that it was joe. well...
    alwaysbeafriend alwaysbeafriend
    26-30, F
    Jun 17, 2007

    Alone and Just Frustrated

    OK so im a 20 year old male and im a virgin who has never been kissed, i dont know if im bisexual, gay or straigth or wahtever, and I feel that this is not gonna change, i feel like this will continue until i die, alone.  im confused as to why i have come to...
    joeboxer joeboxer
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 25, 2008

    This is about my best friends boyfriend

    who asks me weird questions sometimes. He knows I'm engaged to somebody else but he asks me stuff like 'do you like somebody else?' And sometimes when my friend is with him and I text her due to some reason, he takes the phone and texts and once he jokingly pretended to be my...
    deleted deleted
    Apr 30, 2015

    So this love triangle has been driving me

    insane! This guy has been friends with my sister for a while & I went on her phone, reading the messages he sent her saying he likes me & my sister. Lately she has got back with her ex & he ( the guy who likes me & my sister)has been spending more time with me. He's said now he...
    Claricalle10 Claricalle10
    22-25, F
    Jun 10, 2015


    I am so confused!  I was under the impression that if you practiced a religion, you should care about your fellow man.  I just talked to an old friend who worked where I used to work before it closed down.  This facility re-named itself.  I won't get into how...
    trishhebel trishhebel
    41-45, F
    1 Response Sep 30, 2009

    It is hard to see how everyone judge on you.

    I hate how i am in age of 36 while still enjoy the music and being so much interesting. People think that it is so easy to be in this age and still can enjoy life. I hate you all for thinking anyone who been himself and enjoy both being who they really are and music. It is so...
    sensitiveguy36 sensitiveguy36
    36-40, M
    1 Response Jul 22, 2015

    Dimond In The Rough

    I very confused about a lot                    But this Our Friendships means everything in the world to me. The past is in the past I say   But I remember past mistakes and do not want to repeat them. Also the more I find out about you the more I want to know
    CMA1234 CMA1234
    46-50, F
    Dec 3, 2011

    So I was cleaning a flip house

    for some extra cash today. I was finishing up and I was cleaning the staircase leading down to the basement with Clorox bleach spray cleaner. At the bottom of the stairs, I sprayed the trim work and all of a sudden the dust turned bright pink! I was dumbfounded. It hadn't happen...
    hayhaybanaynay hayhaybanaynay
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 30, 2014

    Am Very Confused....

    i beary understand wat i feel about lots of stuff in my life n i just dont know what 2 do.is it that i am an alexithymic or wat?
    ciru ciru
    18-21, F
    3 Responses May 24, 2011
    tuesdaythe17th tuesdaythe17th
    26-30, M
    Oct 18, 2014


    I had a huge crush on a guy in school. But nothing ever happened about it. Its been 20 years since he left school.. We never stayed in touch.. Never met again.. Recently I found him on Facebook, through a mutual friend. I sent him a request without thinking twice about it. He...
    bluedolphin bluedolphin
    31-35, F
    Aug 22, 2013

    Not Convinced

    I have just been talking to a healer about illness and he firmly believes that we create every illness by negative thoughts. As a nurse I am very aware of the problems drugs, alcohol, poor diet and faulty thinking can cause And I definitely DO believe...
    Orangetas Orangetas
    51-55, F
    26 Responses Oct 10, 2009

    How can I get that attached to someone

    so quickly. It's beyond my mind. It makes me so vulnerable and I don't like that. I don't like being alone, so I was thrilled to get a friend, but the feelings I have is nothing I have ever had before. It's scary as ****. In a way I want to end it like I always do, but the...
    LoneFox29 LoneFox29
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 17, 2014


    I have no idea what i'm doing .-.
    smallgirlbigdreams smallgirlbigdreams
    16-17, F
    1 Response Aug 15, 2013

    So, I just turned 18 in January

    and moved in with my dad (from my mom's place which was a psychologically abusive environment in which I raised my two younger brothers, took care of her house, and was kept in solitary confinement for the past three years whilst being homeschooled on an online curriculum...
    Iwantacreativeusername Iwantacreativeusername
    18-21, F
    3 Responses May 6, 2014


    i am 28 now and have been battling depression and axiety since i was 19!i dont think i feel things anymore, not the way i should, i feel numb a lot of the time until things hit me then i feel so much i cant copei am confused about my sexuallity and who i  am and because i...
    gemima12 gemima12
    26-30, F
    Jul 28, 2011

    Confusion About Things

    My confusion is twisting around inside my head. I’m confused about the present and the future. I’m confused because I don’t know what to do. I feel like my friends don’t care for me, but what can I do? I don’t know if I’ll make the...
    Rawa Rawa
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 31, 2008

    Ex Acting Strange.

    Lately I've been encountering my ex more than usual and often finding him acting very strangely. We don't talk at all - the last time we ever did I made it clear that I didn't ever want him contacting me ever again.Recently I have caught him staring at me in and out of class. My...
    lntel lntel
    1 Response Mar 21, 2012

    Coming Out Story

    H i! You may find this interesting.    Please pass this on too... it can be helpful to someone http://www.amazon.com/Figuring-Out-N-S-B/dp/0979216303 http://www.myspace.com/figuringitoutbook Figuring IT Out by NSB - A Coming Out Story. This books has been rated...
    grehyzz grehyzz
    Dec 3, 2008

    Where do you turn when the one

    who is usually your comforter is the one who caused the pain?
    MLH205 MLH205
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Jan 12, 2015

    I just saw an experience about people enjoying

    pretending to be pregnant. 😱 I'm actually 33 weeks pregnant and I can't imagine why anyone would want to even pretend to be pregnant. It's not fun and it's not pretty.
    x0UnionJack0x x0UnionJack0x
    22-25, F
    May 23, 2014

    Wtf ?! Literally went off EP

    for TWO MINUTES ?
    Rachel282 Rachel282
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 30, 2015


    what can i say other than what i already posted in my confession???? other than this is the first time i'm speaking out on a subject that can be ridiculed by all manner of people and religions..... it's only other people like me that can share the feelings that i have about being...
    Poppy9057 Poppy9057
    31-35, T
    4 Responses Jun 14, 2010
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