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I Am Very Confused

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    Alone and Just Frustrated

    OK so im a 20 year old male and im a virgin who has never been kissed, i dont know if im bisexual, gay or straigth or wahtever, and I feel that this is not gonna change, i feel like this will continue until i die, alone.  im confused as to why i have come to...
    joeboxer joeboxer 19-21, M 1 Response Mar 25, 2008

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    "I Am Very Confused"

    I have been away from going to church for many years now. In the last couple of years it has weighed heavy on my heart to go back. See the thing is I have never been in a relationship with anyone that was a Christain. I tend to end up with guys that will not step foot into a...
    cmost cmost 36-40, F 4 Responses Jun 17, 2007

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    Confusion

    I am so confused!  I was under the impression that if you practiced a religion, you should care about your fellow man.  I just talked to an old friend who worked where I used to work before it closed down.  This facility re-named itself.  I won't get into how...
    trishhebel trishhebel 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2009

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    Confused

    I have a girlfriend and I do love her but the last two days I spent my best friend and almost all the time he put his arm around me or held me in his arms. we told each other once that we don't love each other but now i'm neither sure that he doesn't nor that i don't...
    GothGrrrl GothGrrrl 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 17, 2007

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    Not As Sure As I Think

    There really hasn't been anything I have ever been to sure about. I always doubt myself with decisions I have, mostly about school. I currently have one career but I only want to do it part time. I love being a massage therapist but only want to do it part time so I don't get...
    truthliesbelow truthliesbelow 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 7, 2010

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    Confussed.com

    i am 28 now and have been battling depression and axiety since i was 19!i dont think i feel things anymore, not the way i should, i feel numb a lot of the time until things hit me then i feel so much i cant copei am confused about my sexuallity and who i  am and because i...
    gemima12 gemima12 26-30, F Jul 28, 2011

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    Confused On What to Do.

    I moved with my friend to Tyler after I broke up with my girlfriend, which we lived together. I planned to go to collage there so I decided why not get a head start and get my own apartment and already have everything prepared to start school. While I was there I met this amazing...
    exodus19 exodus19 19-21 3 Responses Feb 8, 2008

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    Coming Out Story

    H i! You may find this interesting.    Please pass this on too... it can be helpful to someone http://www.amazon.com/Figuring-Out-N-S-B/dp/0979216303 http://www.myspace.com/figuringitoutbook Figuring IT Out by NSB - A Coming Out Story. This books has been rated...
    grehyzz grehyzz 26-30 Dec 3, 2008

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    Confusion About Things

    My confusion is twisting around inside my head. I’m confused about the present and the future. I’m confused because I don’t know what to do. I feel like my friends don’t care for me, but what can I do? I don’t know if I’ll make the...
    Rawa Rawa 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 31, 2008

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    I Need Help..stepmother?

    I'm a girl  22 years old about 8 months ago I started a relationship with a boy of 24 years, my relationship with him is great, is a super friendly guy who has shown me in many Sometimes I want with plenty of details and facts, the problem is that he has got a ...
    Jessy22 Jessy22 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 19, 2010

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    Ex Acting Strange.

    Lately I've been encountering my ex more than usual and often finding him acting very strangely. We don't talk at all - the last time we ever did I made it clear that I didn't ever want him contacting me ever again.Recently I have caught him staring at me in and out of class. My...
    lntel lntel 18-21 1 Response Mar 21, 2012

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    46 Days & Counting...

    As a teenager, moving quickly into adulthood, I am always very confused. My 18th Birthday is in 46 days. My love life has my head spinning in circles. My family has me wanting to strangle some of them. And my life is just falling apart infront of me. Short, sweet, and to the...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 10, 2009

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    Obsession..

    I had a huge crush on a guy in school. But nothing ever happened about it. Its been 20 years since he left school.. We never stayed in touch.. Never met again.. Recently I found him on Facebook, through a mutual friend. I sent him a request without thinking twice about it. He...
    bluedolphin bluedolphin 31-35, F Aug 22, 2013

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    My Bestfriend's Brother...

    Okay so these past weeks have been very stressful! My bestfriend (let's call her Lola) has an older brother(let's call him Josh) and lately things have changed. Lola and I have been friend since seventh grade, we are now in eleventh grade but I've never really talked to her...
    Wierdo1234 Wierdo1234 16-17, F Aug 26, 2011

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    What Am I Supposed to Do With What I've Obtained?

     I don't get life. I know you live, i know you love, i know you die. But what happens to those who are hurt and don't want to love. I've just recently gotten out of a fake relationship. I know it was stupid and immature. I met this guy on line through a so-called-friend. His...
    strikesthetears strikesthetears 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 14, 2009

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    Not Convinced

    I have just been talking to a healer about illness and he firmly believes that we create every illness by negative thoughts. As a nurse I am very aware of the problems drugs, alcohol, poor diet and faulty thinking can cause And I definitely DO believe...
    Orangetas Orangetas 51-55, F 26 Responses Oct 10, 2009

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    I Know That I Love Her So Much...

    yeah.....She is so beautiful...she is my friend and she is straight...I have told her about my feelings,now she knows everything..but she still continue treat me as friend and it hurts a lot...I am so confused..I don't know what I must do...I think I mustn't make her fall in love...
    4bidden 4bidden 16-17, F 1 Response May 23, 2012

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    Dimond In The Rough

    I very confused about a lot                    But this Our Friendships means everything in the world to me. The past is in the past I say   But I remember past mistakes and do not want to repeat them. Also the more I find out about you the more I want to know
    CMA1234 CMA1234 46-50, F Dec 3, 2011

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    I have no idea what i'm doing .-.
    smallgirlbigdreams smallgirlbigdreams 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 15, 2013

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    Very Confused Today

    i am confused about whats going on between me and my husband. a friend of his joe and his gf are majorly fighting right now and he told me that joe told him that his gf is cheating on him.. messed up ..so his gf keeps calling our house phone. but hes told me that it was joe. well...
    alwaysbeafriend alwaysbeafriend 26-30, F Jun 17, 2007

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    Transgendered????

    what can i say other than what i already posted in my confession???? other than this is the first time i'm speaking out on a subject that can be ridiculed by all manner of people and religions..... it's only other people like me that can share the feelings that i have about being...
    Poppy9057 Poppy9057 31-35, T 5 Responses Jun 14, 2010

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    Am Very Confused....

    i beary understand wat i feel about lots of stuff in my life n i just dont know what 2 do.is it that i am an alexithymic or wat?
    ciru ciru 18-21, F 3 Responses May 24, 2011

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    Thriteen Years Later and Am Just As Confused As I Was Then.

    When I was 17 I was in an exclusive relationship with an older man.  After about six months I fell madly in love with his younger brother.  One night when Jeff (my boyfriend), went to buy liquor I felt overcome by passion and desperation, because I figured this was my...
    act140 act140 26-30 Jul 4, 2008

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    I am 13 I am confused why people actual real live people are talking to me right now... What's special about me. Is it because they expect something? What do they expect? Are we...
    EmotionaLila EmotionaLila 13-15, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    i'm in quite a complicated situation so i'll explain from the very beginning. i'll change the names because i want this to stay confidential. i am a girl currently aged 17, and...
    e197x e197x 16-17 Mar 23

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    I am quite confused over a few things that may be relatively difficult for me to explain. In the past few years life has been... odd. I say this not because I am struggling with...
    pneumaGrey pneumaGrey 16-17, T 1 Response Mar 29

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    I broke up with my bf of 6 years, not because I didn't love him or care about him. But because we went through a lot and I had a lot to get over. So I broke up with him so I...
    feelinglost84 feelinglost84 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    So a guy I've liked for a long time now wants to kiss me, but he doesnt want to have any commitment. He just wants to kiss me, period. I've never had my first kiss, and he said he...
    defi4nce defi4nce 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I am so confused about my ex. We've been separated for just over a year. I left him but I don't regret that decision. He was an alcoholic and it got to the point that he was...
    FreedomtoFly FreedomtoFly 26-30, F Apr 6

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    It's really not a relationship yet. He's my best friend and I feel all the wonderful emotional connections that come with a serious relationship. But I don't feel the physical...
    Madii144 Madii144 18-21 2 Responses Mar 21

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    Super confused- my crush doesn't mind cuddling on the couch while watching a movie, holding hands, or kissing. But ever since my drunken stupor I feel like now he's pulling away...
    Peanutnumber22 Peanutnumber22 22-25, F Mar 21

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    I feel confused Like i donno wat to do with my life I want a job and i even got 2 offers but im a student too and well the parents said i shud first complete my studies But then i...
    swordsmith swordsmith 16-17, F Mar 23

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    I don't know why but lately I have been getting angry at the smallest thing. I don't want to talk to my parents(I'm not mad at them I honestly just don't know why I don't want to...
    rcola rcola 16-17, M Mar 31

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    Soooooo confused............................ Well i know i am not straight. I have this friend who is a girl and i love her. But i had a few bfs that i loved too. And that is not...
    LunaOanaAris LunaOanaAris 16-17, F Apr 2

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    Really confused about my gender and feel all alone. I was born a boy however I have always been called gay or a sissy since childhood. I wonder if any guys are attracted to a...
    FemGayBottom FemGayBottom 26-30, T Apr 3

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    I'm so confused with my life, like what the ****? I don't even know anymore, but I won't give up
    alexnewsom alexnewsom 16-17, M Apr 4

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    boy, this is defiently an experiment for me.. putting my bussiness out in the open for the world to see.. haha here goes nothin.. well i am married for litttle over 3 years...
    brebsky brebsky 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 7

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    Dunno hw to say.....but is it that I observed or all out here are this way...???? means y every new person has a masked personality...ppl chat smooth n sophisticated bt gradually...
    Mughee Mughee 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I am feeling lost, i dont know where is the right direction of life. I dont know why i feel like there's always something missing in me. And i dont know what it is and how to find...
    mhyne mhyne 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I didn't expect to be 30 yrs old and still feeling so lost n confused.. What's going on???
    Kathyis30 Kathyis30 26-30, F Apr 10

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    Feeling upset about myself. Trying to understand what my flaws are and why I may be a bad choice for people to have as a "special someone".I used to be very quiet and shy when I...
    Shiznitone Shiznitone 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 11

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    honestly, im a bit confused with this side. my friend told me bout this site. and i hope i got sth positive here :)
    ordinarygirldreams ordinarygirldreams 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Hey guys! I'm not confused about my religion, but if anyone wants to talk, or needs a prayer request about religion let me know! I'm a Christian, southern baptist. Anything at all...
    ssuummeerr2 ssuummeerr2 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My boyfriend moved away for a job and to be near family. He never broke up with me. He calls and he won't tell me to move on. I really love him. He seemed upset about going away...
    Hummingbirdgirl Hummingbirdgirl 26-30, F 23 hrs ago

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    I'm still very new to this site. I started feeling my way around it. Out of the blue someone I'd never had contact with EVER called imback05 left me a message "I'm his friend. Don...
    LindaNKVermey LindaNKVermey 41-45, F 12 hrs ago

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    I'm in limbo with my other half. Have been since mid Feb. We are currently seperated yet she claims to want and try to make it work. At the same time she's seeing another guy...
    dtin dtin 36-40, M 5 hrs ago

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