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I Am Very Lonely and Anxious

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    Not Bored. Just Lonely.

    I have been married a little over a year. I left my work to move to a tourist destination with my husband for his job. I have an MBA. There are things for me to do here in every direction I turn. I am not bored, just lonely. I usually enjoy my own company, but lately I feel...
    Ceebear7 Ceebear7 31-35, F Aug 29, 2013

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