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I Am Very Nice But Sometimes I Explode

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    I Have A Limit Or A Time Bomb .

    Everyone who has talked to me or knows me, you know that i am a nice person and i respect everyone that shows the same respect for me. But when someone talks crap about me or disrespects me, then i do explode. I believe in self defense. Even if you talk crap about me behind my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 10, 2013

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    I Need to Regain Control....

    I would venture to say that I am semi independent. I pay my bills on time, take care of my kiddos pretty well and do a pretty ok job working at both of my jobs. But, for a long time I have battled with my anger.....and lost miserably in controlling it. I yell, scream and say...
    MegJgeM MegJgeM 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 2, 2009

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    Everyone Does It

    I am a very nice and loving person and been told i have a big heart. It takes alot to get me mad. I will do just about anything for anybody that needs my help. I will laugh with you and i will cry with you but one thing that gets me fired up, when you put your nose where it...
    kiki1956 kiki1956 56-60, F Mar 28, 2012

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    Oh Brother

    I'm very nice and calm...until someone presses my buttons. I have a horrible temper. in 7th grade during class, this girl was teasing me and I turned right around and got in her face and if it weren't for my teacher I would have slapped her really hard.
    cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal cassandrathethinkerbleedsteal 18-21, F Dec 4, 2007

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    Oh Girl...

    And becuase I'm normally nice, when I get mad people look at me like "where did that come from?" I just have this capacity to take enormous amounts of crap for the sake of getting something done, keeping the peace, etc. My friend Marcos is great about teaching me to be in...
    mbug44 mbug44 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 25, 2007

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    Just Me

    Sometimes it takes alot to make me explode, and sometimes it takes very little. I have ADHD but even that is no excuse for my behaviour sometimes. If somebody calls me names or hurts me, then it doesn't bother me that much and I don't explode easily, Only when somebofpdy hurts...
    ImOkayNow ImOkayNow 16-17, F Nov 5, 2011

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    You Better Run

    i am nice person but when i get mad boy but when i get mad you know you have done wrong cause all hell breaks lose i will sware my at you i will fight you i will break everthing in my path (BOOM BAM $##### **** WTF ) try me i person can only take so much and i takes a hell of a...
    pinkapp pinkapp 13-15, F Apr 4, 2011

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    Eating Away At Me

    you always see me.sitting there in the dark.i say "i'm fine! dont worry,"i lied.truthfully my heart is a black hole.sucking the happiness from my life.i show a smile, pretend everything is ok.it never is.will all my suffering end?could i turn to the knife for my help?its not like...
    taboo221 taboo221 13-15, F 4 Responses Dec 13, 2011

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    It Doesn't Happen Often!

    But it do happen! I have a very high tolerance and patience for others. It takes A LOT to set that fuse. I think I only exploded twice this year alone. :-D I'm pretty calm and cool, most of the time. I may get a little annoyed or agitated, but it mostly doesn't raise past...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 29, 2008

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    Me.

    I am a very kind person until someone repeatedly pushes my buttons. I find this hard to deal with in my life sometimes. I hate to explode. I let things build up...but, then I just let go and all hell breaks loose. I have actually scared people when Ive done this. They know the...
    picgirl picgirl 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 11, 2007

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    Who Doesn't Have A Meltdown On Occasion?

        I am the type of person that I go out of my way to help others. It was something my dad did, and I do that as well, because I feel like it honors his memory and I was amazed at how many people really loved my father. From the time I was maybe four, I always wanted to be...
    lonewolf1964 lonewolf1964 41-45, M Apr 28, 2012

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    From Zero To One Hundred

    This seems to be a major issue for me. I was raised where good manners were number one and in a religious household you must always turn the other cheek. I do think good manners are important and I love my lord. These things have been so ingrained into me that I end up getting...
    2rustno1 2rustno1 36-40 Mar 29, 2012

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    Stand Aside. Lunatic At Large

    My patience is tremendous. My bottle (bottled up) is humongous! When I get to that point though, I do explode. My family are the only ones to witness it, though. Thank goodness! They definitely stay out of my way and if they have to come in a room where I am, they try to sneak...
    silvermystics silvermystics 51-55, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2009

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    Ditto

    I am a very nice person, but i think i hold things in for way to long then when its brought up I just explode, I let it all out at once.  I wish I could change this about me.  I don't know if its my dna or if its just something i picked up over the yrs.  pam
    SouthernGirl08 SouthernGirl08 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 6, 2007

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    Happened This Evening

    Today i exploded and i am so guilt ridden bc i acted like such an infant with a potty mouth.I  also hurt the one I love most.I am probably not the calmest person to begin with, then top it off with my 'issues', i'll not get into them here it's too boring and repetitive lol...I...
    lunadelobos lunadelobos 41-45 4 Responses Apr 20, 2011

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    Nice....But If You Mess With the Ones I Love

    I have to say, I'm a very nice person, and try to be nice to everyone anytime. But I could just scream my heart out at somebody that messes with my friends, or family, or people like that. I tell them off no matter where we are. And I stay mad for that day, then the next I can...
    ROCKjunki42 ROCKjunki42 16-18, F Oct 24, 2007

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    Very Nice

    Very nice,That's me,When I'm at my best,Unfortunately,I'm only human,And sometimes,Self destruct!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Dec 27, 2011

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    So Sweet And Kind And Nice

    BUT WATCH OUT BECAUSE I WHIP OUT ON YOU! No seriously, I really can.. Some people teach their children to fight with hands, walk away, stand up for themselves... but in a way, my mom taught me to fight with words. I have always known ways to just tear people down and there have...
    WiltingBlossom WiltingBlossom 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 1, 2010

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    Explode

    Me explode?  It takes me lots before I explode.  I keep it in until I cannot any longer and then, well we all know where it leads.  If anyone plans getting me nervous / frustrated in order for me to explode, well you haven't (general speaking) seen my bad side either.  I can...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Aug 24, 2011

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    Watch The Quiet Ones

    I got my sweet side and my you wanna piece of me? side. Depends on how you approach me and what you say as to which you will see. Some people have a knack for pushing your buttons, some ya didn't know you even had. They are a scratchin nails down the chalkboard. The fly in...
    DieKatzeSchreibt DieKatzeSchreibt 41-45 Jul 17, 2011

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    I Could Benefit From Some Anger Management

    As hard as that is to admit, I think I would benefit greatly from some anger management courses.   I get these idyllic, romantic notions in my head, about how things should be ~ all serene, all going my way, all under control and just beautifully flowing along. ...
    hippieheart hippieheart 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 12, 2008

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    Goodgirl/badgirl?

    I'm not a very emotional person, but lately I've been trying to be more expressive because I know that if I keep holding all my emotions inside I'm going to explode eventually and it won't be pretty. Ever since I was a kid I've had the same pattern in my life. Happy, bottled...
    imsohorridithurts imsohorridithurts 18-21 Jan 3, 2011

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    I smoke weed & stuff but I mean, that's not why I wanted to post under this... I wanted to just embrace the fact that I love people. I love getting to know people, I love...
    Dreamscape98x Dreamscape98x 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    i know things that others be like wow . i know how to do things to a person that get me in trouble .i listen to music that parents don't like .
    JesBeartiny6613 JesBeartiny6613 31-35 Jun 27

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    or so I have been told 😉
    82739cjz 82739cjz 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 14

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    I wish I would have known what an overly sensitive, selfish, flaky, irresponsible loser he'd turn out to be... then I wouldn't have to feel so pathetic.
    rerow rerow 18-21, F Jul 14

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    Sometimes I just like to be alone... I used to be much more of an introvert. Now I can hang out in big groups. Meet new people, etc. But sometimes, it's just too much. I just need...
    NNDY416 NNDY416 31-35, M Jun 28

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    ... but sometimes it's not easy.
    ConcreteSleeper ConcreteSleeper 31-35, M 2 days ago

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    I try to be nice but I get angry easily. So being nice doesn't always work out.
    100PercentMe 100PercentMe 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I try to be nice but people just annoy me so I fail at being nice
    kaye95 kaye95 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    Okay I have my child already but other kids just seem to aggravate me I try so hard to be nice but kids really grind my gears my son I love him but other people kids just make my...
    Meshak1994 Meshak1994 18-21, F Jun 30

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    my friends say I am really nice but if someone messes with me I can turn from an angel to demon. I also forgive and forget to easily. I am craving a fist fight right around now.
    NathansInTrouble NathansInTrouble 18-21, M Jul 5

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    I have been told that I am nice....but I will let you be the judge.
    melbourneonly melbourneonly 46-50, M Jul 11

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    i use to be just a shy, and quite girl but sometimes i refuse to want to talk to people at all. i hate this other side of me sometimes, so i try my best to not be any antisocial...
    Saya4ever Saya4ever 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I feel like screaming! Just to get the anger out. I love my life but sometimes...there's a small rage inside that wants to grow into a volcano. Just angry at everything. Right now...
    ADifferentRoad ADifferentRoad 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    I have friends. Some. But sometimes, it's so taxing to be around them. I don't reply to their messages. It's been two weeks now. They're mad. I want to say sorry but I'm not sure I...
    sharksarepeople sharksarepeople 18-21 4 Responses Jul 13

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    Reminiscences are strange considerations. As I think about the answers to questions I'm asked I find myself that little girl again... I am only nineteen, but sometimes I'm seven...
    Paca24 Paca24 18-21, F a week ago

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    Don't know why but sometimes I'm just not in the mood to talk to people and shut them out...majority of the time I'm fine...usually when someone is bitching/complaining I shut out...
    Dollers24 Dollers24 18-21, M 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    I'm 13 about to be 14, and I'm always unhappy and depressed. I don't really understand why because I dont have that bad of a life. I mean my familys not exactly the Bradys but I...
    emmy63637 emmy63637 13-15, F Jul 6

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    Do any other married but lonely people here feel emotionally paralyzed by the loneliness in your marriage? I do. It is not every single day but often enough to be significant to me...
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    This will probably end up upsetting & offend some one. To those people, I would like to say: TO FREAKING BAD!!! This experience is My own person belief. You don't like it, I don't...
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    I'm alone since my husband passed away. I don't feel lonely , though. My life is full with my children and dear friends. But I still prefer to have some time for myself. I like to...
    ascentofawoman67 ascentofawoman67 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    I guess I'm pretty strong. Rehab made me a fighter. But sometimes I don't feel like it.
    KrissyBearRawr KrissyBearRawr 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I hate c**doms but it's necessary for safe sx but sometimes I ask my bf to use it just before he c*m bcz with doing this is not exciting that much. I also appreciate my bf for...
    jkmkjk jkmkjk 22-25 Jul 13

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    I will not bow down to you because you are nice to me. You're supposed to be nice without wanting something in return, it's called being a decent human being. Too many males have...
    kbeary kbeary 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Well then if you want to help someone who wont let you in then Let Go! Be there if they ask or need you or just listen. Sometimes people have their reasons n just want to be alone...
    Janeysunshine Janeysunshine 36-40, F 2 hrs ago

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