I Am Very Shy Around Guys I Like

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    Petrified

    when I say shy. I pretty much mean I freeze up and am at a loss for words. nothing to say at all. Have enough trouble focusing on not looking dumb. I have never been successful in talking to guys in general. If I think this guy is cute or attractive on top of...
    Beingmeinstead Beingmeinstead
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Dec 24, 2009

    Awkward Turtle 🐢

    There's this guy at my school who is really really really really really really really really really really really really really really really REALLY CUTE!! And whenever i'm around him, my heart beats faster, i get anxiety and i don't know what to say to him. I wish i can just go...
    AquariusGirl150 AquariusGirl150
    18-21, F
    Oct 1, 2013

    Barriors, Chains, Fire & Dragons

    If you're good looking, i'll look at you for half a second before turning around and pretending i haven't seen you at all. I'm very shy, though most people say i'm feisty and outspoken. Feisty was not one of the words i would use to describe myself, but someone said i am. He's a...
    Kdamita Kdamita
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 7, 2011

    Fantasize About Them, But Don't Say A Word.

    I don't know why I do this, I guess I've been told that I'm ugly from the boys while growing up.  Now, I think I'm attractive enough, but still not good enough to be on their arm.  I'm not gorgeous.  I don't have any money, and my family is enough to make even ME...
    lilyiam07 lilyiam07
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 2, 2010

    I am like that too and

    if they were to talk to me I would just say few word and make my friend talk with him
    clobusan clobusan
    18-21, F
    Feb 24, 2014

    Guys..

    I hate being shy around guys.... It sucks. I cant even go around a guy without smiling or sayin something really stupid...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 5, 2012

    Clueless

    I don't know how to flirt at all.  But the bigger problem is I don't think guys like me.  I think I'm just a bit weird or something.  If I like a guy I would never tell him.  
    stella39 stella39
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Mar 2, 2010

    When I'm around a guy I like

    or find attractive, I say the dumbest things ever because I get really nervous and panic. So most of the time I just stay silent which probably makes them think I don't like them at all when they do try to talk to me ._. Sigh, I wish it wasn't so =3=
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 24, 2014

    Shyster>>>

    whenever I saw this guyy i would already start blushing giggling like a litte girl!!
    sweetsongbird sweetsongbird
    18-21, F
    Dec 5, 2011

    This is a little long

    so sorry. So today the guy i like took the day off school to come over cause i had the day off from exams. I met him at the station and we both kinda acted awkward which i found kinda cute and as we were waiting for the bus he was like play kicking me and would say something...
    Aimeelouisee Aimeelouisee
    18-21, F
    Sep 10, 2014

    Chances are if you're a guy,

    and you think that I'm awkward, it's probably because I think you're attractive.
    shycurlygirl shycurlygirl
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 4, 2014

    Oh I am hopeless around them.

    Cant talk, say stupid things then blush like crazy and want to go hide under the furniture. Most of the time I just don't say anything and just really quiet and they think I am a snob or something.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Aug 9, 2014
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