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I Am Very Touchy Feely

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    It's True, But I Don't See Anything Wrong With It

        ~ I mean, as long as I'm not hurting anyone, or not touching inappropriately, which I never do. Then why can't I be touchy feely with the ones I love. Ex was NOT a touchy guy. lol. So I learned to curb my impulses, but damn I missed that part of my...
    Wynhaven Wynhaven 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 6, 2009

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    This is why I hate long distance relationships

    it just doesn't seem real, as if they're not really there.
    Awer1 Awer1 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 23, 2014

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    It's really weird that I am very shy

    and touchy feely at the same time. I always touch to the person I'm talking and I hug and kiss (on cheek of course you pervs >_< ) my friends or family and I'm not a perv. And I'm very shy too!
    Kakurenbo Kakurenbo 18-21, F Feb 8, 2014

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    Holding Hands

    I love the gentle intimacy of holding hands, one of the simplest gestures and the connection it creates.
    southern1970 southern1970 41-45, M Mar 16, 2013

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    I became a very touchy

    and feely female at an early age. I watched my mother as she would hug and kiss us kids and other family members plus her male and female friends. She taught me well in being touchy and feely too. I love hugging and kissing my family members and my friends as well. I must...
    bethanyinusa bethanyinusa 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    Always Have Been

    I love to be hugged and to give hugs when they are needed. I will hug a stranger but that can be kind of uncomfortable if you don't know the person. My family is that was. It was the way I was raised and it has never left me. If you were to walk up to me in the street and tell me...
    rondat rondat 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 19, 2012

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    I'm A Hugger

    First I should say I'm not a stranger hugger.  I've been put in that position many times where someone I have never seen before goes in for the hug and I cave and give a meaningless hug while secretly feeling a bit frustrated.  But if I know you, If I like you - chances are I'm...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 18, 2012

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    I never was. People make used to make jokes

    about me for being emotion-less. Idk what happened to me there. I need to go back to the old me, just a little. Moderation is the best.
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 3, 2014

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    There's Nothing Like The Human Touch.

    I admit it! I like to touch, but not how you may all think. A few of us have really connected as friends here on EP. Can you imagine what it would be like if we were face to face? Can you feel me holding your hands in mine when you just want me to listen? Can you feel my arms...
    roughNready roughNready 51-55, F 6 Responses Aug 17, 2010

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    I did not grow up with a lot of affection.

    And I'm not one of those who is always touching people, who has to hug you when she sees you. On occasion I'll run across a person I feel the need to touch. I usually find this baffling but follow the need. My husband's cousin lives in the same town as us. His wife is basically...
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I don't mean to be but I am.

    Especially the people I love always just squeezing, tickling, pinching, someone I love. It's like I have to just squeeze them and love on them. Hell even my animals. I'm not sure where it comes from i guess I'm just extra loving. 😁😘❤️
    brineff91 brineff91 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 26, 2014

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    I'm Actually Not a Touchy Feely Person

    Or a fan of public displays of affection... But until recently when things started getting more serious with my boyfriend i realised that i sorta am. I realised how nice another persons skin feels. I always wanna touch him. I never used to be like that at all, and...
    jasminjane jasminjane 18-21, F Feb 16, 2009

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    I am a very touchy and feely type of woman.

    I love hugging, kissing, smelling, touching, feeling my partner that I am with.
    classyandclassicalfemale classyandclassicalfemale 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 22

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    I love being very touchy feely with others.

    I love hugging and kissing others and think nothing about it. It is common in my own family. I learned this from my mother.
    loveswalkingbeaches loveswalkingbeaches 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 4, 2014

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    I Found Out The Hard Way Not Everyone Is

    I tend to be more reserved about it since then though.Sometimes it's really hard not to. I know who lets me hug them and then I tend to assume others won't.I do tend to get surprised by someone every once in a while but I do not have a problem with it. being surprised isn't...
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2011

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    Only to Her

    I am touchy feely because reaching out with a hand and feeling you and having that connection is my way of silently tell you how much I love you and how much I care.  when I am running my hand along your arm or hand it's not because I'm bored, it's not because I think it...
    SAlan SAlan 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 22, 2009

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    At Least In Theory

    I think I get very "touchy feely" when I feel some sort of intense emotion. I mean, I give quick hugs when saying hello and goodbye, but... Like I know when I feel sad, a nice long hug is a good remedy. I love my neices more than anyone else in the world, so getting big...
    Trapt Trapt 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 26, 2009

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    I tend to be that way with people im

    comfortable with. I love touch so it comes as no shock that Iam this way.
    cartoonfan4ever cartoonfan4ever 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 22

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    Always

    If I'm with someone I love I can't keep my hands to myself. Why would you want to anyway?
    commoner2000 commoner2000 66-70, M 1 Response Jan 7, 2012

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    This Is Me!

    I have always been a very touchy feely person for as long as I can remember.  It is one of the most important ways that I connect with people.  And I very much agree with emptyheart!  You can tell how I feel about you by paying attention to my arms and hands. I am...
    SmilingSueAnn SmilingSueAnn 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 4, 2009

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    I thought I was not, I was far from being the

    touchy feely type. I was always like all sarcastic when it comes to feelings, making jokes and laughing, mostly making fun of others (not in a mean way), and I was REALLY good at it lol! Only to realise that I can be very touchy feely indeed! Very affectionate, in a funny way...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F Dec 14, 2014

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    As a female, I am a very touchy

    and feely with family and friends. I love hugging and kissing others. I feel so loved when I am hugged and kissed by others.
    debbielovescruises debbielovescruises 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 29, 2014

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    Love It..

    I love to touch and to be touched.. Hugs, hand holding, casual caresses, all of it's wonderful.. I believe there's a connection when you touch someone.. It's the simplest way of showing affection..
    LilSixShooter LilSixShooter 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 28, 2011

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    i feel the reason i am this way is because

    as a child and generally in my household we never hugged, kissed, said 'i love you' or anything like that. And since i was never a part of any kind of extra curricular activities outside of school...i watched a lot of tv. And family shows were big on my list. So i always saw...
    lonelysoul1088 lonelysoul1088 26-30, M Nov 23, 2014

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    I Love The Feeling....

    Of skin touching skin. I just love to touch and to be touched, it is an amazing feeling to be touched by one that you love, and to feel their energy transferred to your own body. I love to massage my boyfriend, and I can feel him melt under my fingers. I know he makes me melt...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 2, 2011

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    Human Touch Needed!

     Touchy feely would be great about now. Just the show of affection would be a great start. Anyone availible ?
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 14 Responses Apr 28, 2009

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    Body Language

    I am the type of person who likes to touch. My hands pretty much can tell you how I feel about someone. For example:   If I cross my arms or hold my hands tightly together..I don't like you. If I reach out and touch your arm while talking to you...I'm interested. If I...
    emptyheart emptyheart 41-45, F 6 Responses Jan 3, 2009

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    I get yelled at because I give super long hugs.

    I just latch on to people. XD
    Knixveus5 Knixveus5 18-21, M Nov 30, 2014

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    I'll Admit It I Like Hugs.

    My family wasn't very demonstrative as I was growing up. I don't remember touching much. My friends would hug me and I would think this is awkward. I remember when I let go and let myself enjoy the contact. I was 22 and my friend was a hugger she would just say gimme a hug and...
    moonspun moonspun 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 7, 2011

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    Love to Be Touched

    I really love to have physical contact with my significant other. I mean that I love to hold hands, cuddle, lay together, give an affectionate rub or touch from time to time for no reason. This use to drive my ex crazy cause she always said don't touch me, but my girlfriend now...
    SoMuchToSay SoMuchToSay 36-40, M 9 Responses Apr 24, 2008

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    Tactile....

    Touchy-feelytactilehowever you want to describe it, that's me... an hand brushing a shoulder, rubbing your back, a kiss to your head, your temple, rubbing my hand through your hair, a hug, a squeeze, contact that's what its all about for me.... doesn't matter if your male or...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 14, 2011

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    Uuuummmm, Touchy And Feely

     I love being able to touch and feel a woman anytime and almost anyplace knowing she loves being touched. I went shopping with a friend one day at he local grocery store and she was wearing a short skirt and to my surprise no panties. We were walking down the dogfood aisle and...
    Pmacphoto Pmacphoto 66-70, M 2 Responses May 23, 2012

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