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I Am Very Touchy Feely

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    If All Else Fails, I Touch Myself

    Is this reality?  Am I awake?  Am I in love?  Lots of questions require touching.  I can reach out and touch someone with words, miy mind or my fingertips.  Lots of options.  I try to be multi-optional.  I went through some sensativity training...
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 4 Responses Apr 28, 2008

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    Body Language

    I am the type of person who likes to touch. My hands pretty much can tell you how I feel about someone. For example:   If I cross my arms or hold my hands tightly together..I don't like you. If I reach out and touch your arm while talking to you...I'm interested. If I...
    emptyheart emptyheart 41-45, F 5 Responses Jan 3, 2009

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    Holding Hands

    I love the gentle intimacy of holding hands, one of the simplest gestures and the connection it creates.
    southern1970 southern1970 41-45, M Mar 16, 2013

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    Tactile....

    Touchy-feelytactilehowever you want to describe it, that's me... an hand brushing a shoulder, rubbing your back, a kiss to your head, your temple, rubbing my hand through your hair, a hug, a squeeze, contact that's what its all about for me.... doesn't matter if your male or...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 14, 2011

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    Human Touch Needed!

     Touchy feely would be great about now. Just the show of affection would be a great start. Anyone availible ?
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 14 Responses Apr 28, 2009

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    This Is Me!

    I have always been a very touchy feely person for as long as I can remember.  It is one of the most important ways that I connect with people.  And I very much agree with emptyheart!  You can tell how I feel about you by paying attention to my arms and hands. I am...
    SmilingSueAnn SmilingSueAnn 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 4, 2009

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    At Least In Theory

    I think I get very "touchy feely" when I feel some sort of intense emotion. I mean, I give quick hugs when saying hello and goodbye, but... Like I know when I feel sad, a nice long hug is a good remedy. I love my neices more than anyone else in the world, so getting big...
    Trapt Trapt 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 26, 2009

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    Love to Be Touched

    I really love to have physical contact with my significant other. I mean that I love to hold hands, cuddle, lay together, give an affectionate rub or touch from time to time for no reason. This use to drive my ex crazy cause she always said don't touch me, but my girlfriend now...
    SoMuchToSay SoMuchToSay 31-35, M 9 Responses Apr 24, 2008

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    I Found Out The Hard Way Not Everyone Is

    I tend to be more reserved about it since then though.Sometimes it's really hard not to. I know who lets me hug them and then I tend to assume others won't.I do tend to get surprised by someone every once in a while but I do not have a problem with it. being surprised isn't...
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2011

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    I'm Actually Not a Touchy Feely Person

    Or a fan of public displays of affection... But until recently when things started getting more serious with my boyfriend i realised that i sorta am. I realised how nice another persons skin feels. I always wanna touch him. I never used to be like that at all, and...
    jasminjane jasminjane 18-21, F Feb 16, 2009

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    Only to Her

    I am touchy feely because reaching out with a hand and feeling you and having that connection is my way of silently tell you how much I love you and how much I care.  when I am running my hand along your arm or hand it's not because I'm bored, it's not because I think it...
    SAlan SAlan 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 22, 2009

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    Love It..

    I love to touch and to be touched.. Hugs, hand holding, casual caresses, all of it's wonderful.. I believe there's a connection when you touch someone.. It's the simplest way of showing affection..
    LilSixShooter LilSixShooter 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 28, 2011

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    I'm A Hugger

    First I should say I'm not a stranger hugger.  I've been put in that position many times where someone I have never seen before goes in for the hug and I cave and give a meaningless hug while secretly feeling a bit frustrated.  But if I know you, If I like you - chances are I'm...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 18, 2012

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    Always Have Been

    I love to be hugged and to give hugs when they are needed. I will hug a stranger but that can be kind of uncomfortable if you don't know the person. My family is that was. It was the way I was raised and it has never left me. If you were to walk up to me in the street and tell me...
    rondat rondat 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 19, 2012

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    I Love The Feeling....

    Of skin touching skin. I just love to touch and to be touched, it is an amazing feeling to be touched by one that you love, and to feel their energy transferred to your own body. I love to massage my boyfriend, and I can feel him melt under my fingers. I know he makes me melt...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 2, 2011

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    I'll Admit It I Like Hugs.

    My family wasn't very demonstrative as I was growing up. I don't remember touching much. My friends would hug me and I would think this is awkward. I remember when I let go and let myself enjoy the contact. I was 22 and my friend was a hugger she would just say gimme a hug and...
    moonspun moonspun 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 7, 2011

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    It's True, But I Don't See Anything Wrong With It

        ~ I mean, as long as I'm not hurting anyone, or not touching inappropriately, which I never do. Then why can't I be touchy feely with the ones I love. Ex was NOT a touchy guy. lol. So I learned to curb my impulses, but damn I missed that part of my...
    Wynhaven Wynhaven 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 6, 2009

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    Always

    If I'm with someone I love I can't keep my hands to myself. Why would you want to anyway?
    commoner2000 commoner2000 61-65, M 1 Response Jan 7, 2012

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    I don't mean to be but I am.

    Especially the people I love always just squeezing, tickling, pinching, someone I love. It's like I have to just squeeze them and love on them. Hell even my animals. I'm not sure where it comes from i guess I'm just extra loving. 😁😘❤️
    brineff91 brineff91 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 26

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    It's really weird that I am very shy

    and touchy feely at the same time. I always touch to the person I'm talking and I hug and kiss (on cheek of course you pervs >_< ) my friends or family and I'm not a perv. And I'm very shy too!
    Kakurenbo Kakurenbo 18-21, F Feb 8

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    The feels they give me are annoying a little bit. I'm scrolling through twitter and bam, sexy pic of Niall wtf. Now I feel feely. Don't friggin touch me😭
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