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I Am Very Touchy Feely

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    I never was. People make used to make jokes

    about me for being emotion-less. Idk what happened to me there. I need to go back to the old me, just a little. Moderation is the best.
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 3, 2014

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    Love to Be Touched

    I really love to have physical contact with my significant other. I mean that I love to hold hands, cuddle, lay together, give an affectionate rub or touch from time to time for no reason. This use to drive my ex crazy cause she always said don't touch me, but my girlfriend now...
    SoMuchToSay SoMuchToSay 36-40, M 9 Responses Apr 24, 2008

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    Always

    If I'm with someone I love I can't keep my hands to myself. Why would you want to anyway?
    commoner2000 commoner2000 66-70, M 1 Response Jan 7, 2012

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    I'll Admit It I Like Hugs.

    My family wasn't very demonstrative as I was growing up. I don't remember touching much. My friends would hug me and I would think this is awkward. I remember when I let go and let myself enjoy the contact. I was 22 and my friend was a hugger she would just say gimme a hug and...
    moonspun moonspun 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 7, 2011

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    I love being very touchy feely with others.

    I love hugging and kissing others and think nothing about it. It is common in my own family. I learned this from my mother.
    loveswalkingbeaches loveswalkingbeaches 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 4, 2014

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    I'm Actually Not a Touchy Feely Person

    Or a fan of public displays of affection... But until recently when things started getting more serious with my boyfriend i realised that i sorta am. I realised how nice another persons skin feels. I always wanna touch him. I never used to be like that at all, and...
    jasminjane jasminjane 18-21, F Feb 16, 2009

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    Holding Hands

    I love the gentle intimacy of holding hands, one of the simplest gestures and the connection it creates.
    southern1970 southern1970 41-45, M Mar 16, 2013

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    I thought I was not, I was far from being the

    touchy feely type. I was always like all sarcastic when it comes to feelings, making jokes and laughing, mostly making fun of others (not in a mean way), and I was REALLY good at it lol! Only to realise that I can be very touchy feely indeed! Very affectionate, in a funny way...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F Dec 14, 2014

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    It's really weird that I am very shy

    and touchy feely at the same time. I always touch to the person I'm talking and I hug and kiss (on cheek of course you pervs >_< ) my friends or family and I'm not a perv. And I'm very shy too!
    Kakurenbo Kakurenbo 18-21, F Feb 8, 2014

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    I tend to be that way with people im

    comfortable with. I love touch so it comes as no shock that Iam this way.
    cartoonfan4ever cartoonfan4ever 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 22

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    I am a very touchy and feely type of woman.

    I love hugging, kissing, smelling, touching, feeling my partner that I am with.
    classyandclassicalfemale classyandclassicalfemale 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 22

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    This Is Me!

    I have always been a very touchy feely person for as long as I can remember.  It is one of the most important ways that I connect with people.  And I very much agree with emptyheart!  You can tell how I feel about you by paying attention to my arms and hands. I am...
    SmilingSueAnn SmilingSueAnn 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 4, 2009

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    This is why I hate long distance relationships

    it just doesn't seem real, as if they're not really there.
    Awer1 Awer1 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 23, 2014

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    Uuuummmm, Touchy And Feely

     I love being able to touch and feel a woman anytime and almost anyplace knowing she loves being touched. I went shopping with a friend one day at he local grocery store and she was wearing a short skirt and to my surprise no panties. We were walking down the dogfood aisle and...
    Pmacphoto Pmacphoto 66-70, M 2 Responses May 23, 2012

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    Only to Her

    I am touchy feely because reaching out with a hand and feeling you and having that connection is my way of silently tell you how much I love you and how much I care.  when I am running my hand along your arm or hand it's not because I'm bored, it's not because I think it...
    SAlan SAlan 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 22, 2009

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    It's True, But I Don't See Anything Wrong With It

        ~ I mean, as long as I'm not hurting anyone, or not touching inappropriately, which I never do. Then why can't I be touchy feely with the ones I love. Ex was NOT a touchy guy. lol. So I learned to curb my impulses, but damn I missed that part of my...
    Wynhaven Wynhaven 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 6, 2009

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    Always Have Been

    I love to be hugged and to give hugs when they are needed. I will hug a stranger but that can be kind of uncomfortable if you don't know the person. My family is that was. It was the way I was raised and it has never left me. If you were to walk up to me in the street and tell me...
    rondat rondat 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 19, 2012

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    Body Language

    I am the type of person who likes to touch. My hands pretty much can tell you how I feel about someone. For example:   If I cross my arms or hold my hands tightly together..I don't like you. If I reach out and touch your arm while talking to you...I'm interested. If I...
    emptyheart emptyheart 41-45, F 7 Responses Jan 3, 2009

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    I Love The Feeling....

    Of skin touching skin. I just love to touch and to be touched, it is an amazing feeling to be touched by one that you love, and to feel their energy transferred to your own body. I love to massage my boyfriend, and I can feel him melt under my fingers. I know he makes me melt...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 2, 2011

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    Human Touch Needed!

     Touchy feely would be great about now. Just the show of affection would be a great start. Anyone availible ?
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 14 Responses Apr 28, 2009

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    At Least In Theory

    I think I get very "touchy feely" when I feel some sort of intense emotion. I mean, I give quick hugs when saying hello and goodbye, but... Like I know when I feel sad, a nice long hug is a good remedy. I love my neices more than anyone else in the world, so getting big...
    Trapt Trapt 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 26, 2009

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    i feel the reason i am this way is because

    as a child and generally in my household we never hugged, kissed, said 'i love you' or anything like that. And since i was never a part of any kind of extra curricular activities outside of school...i watched a lot of tv. And family shows were big on my list. So i always saw...
    lonelysoul1088 lonelysoul1088 26-30, M Nov 23, 2014

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    I don't mean to be but I am.

    Especially the people I love always just squeezing, tickling, pinching, someone I love. It's like I have to just squeeze them and love on them. Hell even my animals. I'm not sure where it comes from i guess I'm just extra loving. 😁😘❤️
    brineff91 brineff91 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 26, 2014

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    I get yelled at because I give super long hugs.

    I just latch on to people. XD
    Knixveus5 Knixveus5 18-21, M Nov 30, 2014

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    I Found Out The Hard Way Not Everyone Is

    I tend to be more reserved about it since then though.Sometimes it's really hard not to. I know who lets me hug them and then I tend to assume others won't.I do tend to get surprised by someone every once in a while but I do not have a problem with it. being surprised isn't...
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2011

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    As a female, I am a very touchy

    and feely with family and friends. I love hugging and kissing others. I feel so loved when I am hugged and kissed by others.
    debbielovescruises debbielovescruises 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 29, 2014

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    I'm A Hugger

    First I should say I'm not a stranger hugger.  I've been put in that position many times where someone I have never seen before goes in for the hug and I cave and give a meaningless hug while secretly feeling a bit frustrated.  But if I know you, If I like you - chances are I'm...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 18, 2012

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    I became a very touchy

    and feely female at an early age. I watched my mother as she would hug and kiss us kids and other family members plus her male and female friends. She taught me well in being touchy and feely too. I love hugging and kissing my family members and my friends as well. I must...
    bethanyinusa bethanyinusa 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    There's Nothing Like The Human Touch.

    I admit it! I like to touch, but not how you may all think. A few of us have really connected as friends here on EP. Can you imagine what it would be like if we were face to face? Can you feel me holding your hands in mine when you just want me to listen? Can you feel my arms...
    roughNready roughNready 51-55, F 6 Responses Aug 17, 2010

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    Love It..

    I love to touch and to be touched.. Hugs, hand holding, casual caresses, all of it's wonderful.. I believe there's a connection when you touch someone.. It's the simplest way of showing affection..
    LilSixShooter LilSixShooter 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 28, 2011

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    I did not grow up with a lot of affection.

    And I'm not one of those who is always touching people, who has to hug you when she sees you. On occasion I'll run across a person I feel the need to touch. I usually find this baffling but follow the need. My husband's cousin lives in the same town as us. His wife is basically...
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    Tactile....

    Touchy-feelytactilehowever you want to describe it, that's me... an hand brushing a shoulder, rubbing your back, a kiss to your head, your temple, rubbing my hand through your hair, a hug, a squeeze, contact that's what its all about for me.... doesn't matter if your male or...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 14, 2011

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    Only after you get to know me am I a touchy-feely person but not with guys that's mainly reserved for girls highs fives, hand shakes fist bumps are mainly for the guys
    ECrierie ECrierie 16-17, M Apr 9

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    Excited for tomorrow night! Our first night together being single yay :) I'm looking forward to seeing how it feels, like will he be more giving and touchy feely and will I feel...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 9 Responses Mar 31

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    Just returned from a wonderful vacation in celebration of our anniversary. Beautiful weather and sites to see, and absolutely no nookie or touchy-feely.
    andie2007 andie2007 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    First I just want to say that I'm from Hungary so if i write something wrong, please forgive me. I don't know if what I have can be called haphephobia or not. I just can't stand...
    barrygard barrygard 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    You sort of think maybe it's just to damn hard, or maybe I've asked the wrong friggin people. How hard is it to give as good as you get? How long do you have to look around earth...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    I'm so crushing on a girl at work. she actually started flirting with me just after I came back to work from being off a while. she goes out of her way to talk to me every day. is...
    M04hawaii M04hawaii 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    so this girl from my school, is touchy feely and kinda protective to me, that time I only treat her as my sister, but now, I dont know, when I think of her I smile like **** XD...
    wereuniverse wereuniverse 16-17, F Apr 16

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    I hope I never cry in front of another human being again. However, I know this will be a challenge for me. I have low self-esteem, and I am easily hurt by harsh, unkind words. I...
    atpeacewithme atpeacewithme 31-35 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Was hanging out with a guy and he came over and we watched a movie. He started trying to get touchy feely and I told him I didn't want to do anything. He could tell something was...
    Redvelvet58 Redvelvet58 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Im in love with my best friend. Yes this is a normal topic to a lot of people, even if I'm a girl and she's a girl. I'm not sure what to do. I say I'm bisexual but I think I'm...
    Madamoiselle1 Madamoiselle1 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I have been hugging and kissing my girlfriends for over 33 years. I learned this from my mother. She was very much touchy and feely like I am today. It is no big deal about...
    maryannelamb maryannelamb 46-50, F Apr 3

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    honestly girls love me and my girlfriends cheating, I have. a lot of close girl friends I could talk into doing a little something with me but I don't. I try not to until were...
    skythuss skythuss 18-21, M Mar 31

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    Here is the scenario… Im in a committed relationship and have a friend who I believe has a crush on me…what do you guys think.. I am very femme, and I am not really outspoken...
    reyna35 reyna35 31-35, F 4 Responses