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I Am Very Touchy Feely

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    Love It..

    I love to touch and to be touched.. Hugs, hand holding, casual caresses, all of it's wonderful.. I believe there's a connection when you touch someone.. It's the simplest way of showing affection..
    LilSixShooter LilSixShooter 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 28, 2011

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    I Found Out The Hard Way Not Everyone Is

    I tend to be more reserved about it since then though.Sometimes it's really hard not to. I know who lets me hug them and then I tend to assume others won't.I do tend to get surprised by someone every once in a while but I do not have a problem with it. being surprised isn't...
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2011

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    I became a very touchy

    and feely female at an early age. I watched my mother as she would hug and kiss us kids and other family members plus her male and female friends. She taught me well in being touchy and feely too. I love hugging and kissing my family members and my friends as well. I must...
    bethanyinusa bethanyinusa 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 6

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    ONEPIECE749 ONEPIECE749 18-21, M Aug 11

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    I love being very touchy feely with others.

    I love hugging and kissing others and think nothing about it. It is common in my own family. I learned this from my mother.
    loveswalkingbeaches loveswalkingbeaches 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 4

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    I Love The Feeling....

    Of skin touching skin. I just love to touch and to be touched, it is an amazing feeling to be touched by one that you love, and to feel their energy transferred to your own body. I love to massage my boyfriend, and I can feel him melt under my fingers. I know he makes me melt...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 2, 2011

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    Uuuummmm, Touchy And Feely

     I love being able to touch and feel a woman anytime and almost anyplace knowing she loves being touched. I went shopping with a friend one day at he local grocery store and she was wearing a short skirt and to my surprise no panties. We were walking down the dogfood aisle and...
    Pmacphoto Pmacphoto 66-70, M 2 Responses May 23, 2012

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    Body Language

    I am the type of person who likes to touch. My hands pretty much can tell you how I feel about someone. For example:   If I cross my arms or hold my hands tightly together..I don't like you. If I reach out and touch your arm while talking to you...I'm interested. If I...
    emptyheart emptyheart 41-45, F 6 Responses Jan 3, 2009

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    At Least In Theory

    I think I get very "touchy feely" when I feel some sort of intense emotion. I mean, I give quick hugs when saying hello and goodbye, but... Like I know when I feel sad, a nice long hug is a good remedy. I love my neices more than anyone else in the world, so getting big...
    Trapt Trapt 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 26, 2009

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    Love to Be Touched

    I really love to have physical contact with my significant other. I mean that I love to hold hands, cuddle, lay together, give an affectionate rub or touch from time to time for no reason. This use to drive my ex crazy cause she always said don't touch me, but my girlfriend now...
    SoMuchToSay SoMuchToSay 31-35, M 9 Responses Apr 24, 2008

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    Only to Her

    I am touchy feely because reaching out with a hand and feeling you and having that connection is my way of silently tell you how much I love you and how much I care.  when I am running my hand along your arm or hand it's not because I'm bored, it's not because I think it...
    SAlan SAlan 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 22, 2009

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    It's True, But I Don't See Anything Wrong With It

        ~ I mean, as long as I'm not hurting anyone, or not touching inappropriately, which I never do. Then why can't I be touchy feely with the ones I love. Ex was NOT a touchy guy. lol. So I learned to curb my impulses, but damn I missed that part of my...
    Wynhaven Wynhaven 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 6, 2009

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    Always Have Been

    I love to be hugged and to give hugs when they are needed. I will hug a stranger but that can be kind of uncomfortable if you don't know the person. My family is that was. It was the way I was raised and it has never left me. If you were to walk up to me in the street and tell me...
    rondat rondat 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 19, 2012

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    Tactile....

    Touchy-feelytactilehowever you want to describe it, that's me... an hand brushing a shoulder, rubbing your back, a kiss to your head, your temple, rubbing my hand through your hair, a hug, a squeeze, contact that's what its all about for me.... doesn't matter if your male or...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 14, 2011

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    There's Nothing Like The Human Touch.

    I admit it! I like to touch, but not how you may all think. A few of us have really connected as friends here on EP. Can you imagine what it would be like if we were face to face? Can you feel me holding your hands in mine when you just want me to listen? Can you feel my arms...
    roughNready roughNready 51-55, F 6 Responses Aug 17, 2010

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    I'm Actually Not a Touchy Feely Person

    Or a fan of public displays of affection... But until recently when things started getting more serious with my boyfriend i realised that i sorta am. I realised how nice another persons skin feels. I always wanna touch him. I never used to be like that at all, and...
    jasminjane jasminjane 18-21, F Feb 16, 2009

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    As a female, I am a very touchy

    and feely with family and friends. I love hugging and kissing others. I feel so loved when I am hugged and kissed by others.
    debbielovescruises debbielovescruises 41-45, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm A Hugger

    First I should say I'm not a stranger hugger.  I've been put in that position many times where someone I have never seen before goes in for the hug and I cave and give a meaningless hug while secretly feeling a bit frustrated.  But if I know you, If I like you - chances are I'm...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 18, 2012

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    It's really weird that I am very shy

    and touchy feely at the same time. I always touch to the person I'm talking and I hug and kiss (on cheek of course you pervs >_< ) my friends or family and I'm not a perv. And I'm very shy too!
    Kakurenbo Kakurenbo 18-21, F Feb 8

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    Human Touch Needed!

     Touchy feely would be great about now. Just the show of affection would be a great start. Anyone availible ?
    cjpsf5 cjpsf5 41-45, M 14 Responses Apr 28, 2009

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    This Is Me!

    I have always been a very touchy feely person for as long as I can remember.  It is one of the most important ways that I connect with people.  And I very much agree with emptyheart!  You can tell how I feel about you by paying attention to my arms and hands. I am...
    SmilingSueAnn SmilingSueAnn 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 4, 2009

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    I'll Admit It I Like Hugs.

    My family wasn't very demonstrative as I was growing up. I don't remember touching much. My friends would hug me and I would think this is awkward. I remember when I let go and let myself enjoy the contact. I was 22 and my friend was a hugger she would just say gimme a hug and...
    moonspun moonspun 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 7, 2011

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    If All Else Fails, I Touch Myself

    Is this reality?  Am I awake?  Am I in love?  Lots of questions require touching.  I can reach out and touch someone with words, miy mind or my fingertips.  Lots of options.  I try to be multi-optional.  I went through some sensativity training...
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 4 Responses Apr 28, 2008

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    Always

    If I'm with someone I love I can't keep my hands to myself. Why would you want to anyway?
    commoner2000 commoner2000 66-70, M 1 Response Jan 7, 2012

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    I don't mean to be but I am.

    Especially the people I love always just squeezing, tickling, pinching, someone I love. It's like I have to just squeeze them and love on them. Hell even my animals. I'm not sure where it comes from i guess I'm just extra loving. 😁😘❤️
    brineff91 brineff91 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 26

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    Holding Hands

    I love the gentle intimacy of holding hands, one of the simplest gestures and the connection it creates.
    southern1970 southern1970 41-45, M Mar 16, 2013

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    While sexless it is not loveless. I often am ashamed because I don't always "get past" my own physical needs. Here's a little background. My wife, while not "touchy feely" is a...
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    I have spent most of my life as a very sympathetic compassionate touchy feely type of person. But having gone through a series of losses and betrayals in tge past few years, I...
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    I don't think I ever told some, in person, that I am here for them.. In fact out side of writing things down I have never really expressed my feelings so outwardly to someone.. I...
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    My mentor has gone crotchety. Grumpy. Touchy. Old ok. Paranoid why. Delusional why. Am i cursed. All who can help act like my dad. They know everything...
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    She is sensitive but not touchy. She is kind to all but has discernment. She is confident but not arrogant. She is who I hope to be.
    Rifkyroshan Rifkyroshan 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 7

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    It’s been a while since I’ve written here, but my heart is becoming unbearable again so I thought this would be a good place to work out my feelings. I made a real effort to...
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    My husband just doesn't seem to care. I tell him my feelings when crying and he says nothing and just gives me a look. He isn't touchy how I wish he was and she provokes situations...
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