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I Am Very Touchy Feely

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    Tactile....

    Touchy-feelytactilehowever you want to describe it, that's me... an hand brushing a shoulder, rubbing your back, a kiss to your head, your temple, rubbing my hand through your hair, a hug, a squeeze, contact that's what its all about for me.... doesn't matter if your male or...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 14, 2011

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    i feel the reason i am this way is because

    as a child and generally in my household we never hugged, kissed, said 'i love you' or anything like that. And since i was never a part of any kind of extra curricular activities outside of school...i watched a lot of tv. And family shows were big on my list. So i always saw...
    lonelysoul1088 lonelysoul1088 26-30, M Nov 23, 2014

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    Holding Hands

    I love the gentle intimacy of holding hands, one of the simplest gestures and the connection it creates.
    southern1970 southern1970 41-45, M Mar 16, 2013

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    As a female, I am a very touchy

    and feely with family and friends. I love hugging and kissing others. I feel so loved when I am hugged and kissed by others.
    debbielovescruises debbielovescruises 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 29, 2014

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    Always Have Been

    I love to be hugged and to give hugs when they are needed. I will hug a stranger but that can be kind of uncomfortable if you don't know the person. My family is that was. It was the way I was raised and it has never left me. If you were to walk up to me in the street and tell me...
    rondat rondat 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 19, 2012

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    Love It..

    I love to touch and to be touched.. Hugs, hand holding, casual caresses, all of it's wonderful.. I believe there's a connection when you touch someone.. It's the simplest way of showing affection..
    LilSixShooter LilSixShooter 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 28, 2011

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    Even in ways that aren't intimate.

    If there's a display in a shop... Imma touch it. If I'm talking to someone and their arm is on the table... Imma touch it. If someone has a hairstyle that I notice is different... Guess what. Imma touch it.
    uberfuzz uberfuzz 22-25, M Jun 29

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    I love being very touchy feely with others.

    I love hugging and kissing others and think nothing about it. It is common in my own family. I learned this from my mother.
    loveswalkingbeaches loveswalkingbeaches 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 4, 2014

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    This Is Me!

    I have always been a very touchy feely person for as long as I can remember.  It is one of the most important ways that I connect with people.  And I very much agree with emptyheart!  You can tell how I feel about you by paying attention to my arms and hands. I am...
    SmilingSueAnn SmilingSueAnn 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 4, 2009

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    I became a very touchy

    and feely female at an early age. I watched my mother as she would hug and kiss us kids and other family members plus her male and female friends. She taught me well in being touchy and feely too. I love hugging and kissing my family members and my friends as well. I must...
    bethanyinusa bethanyinusa 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    Uuuummmm, Touchy And Feely

     I love being able to touch and feel a woman anytime and almost anyplace knowing she loves being touched. I went shopping with a friend one day at he local grocery store and she was wearing a short skirt and to my surprise no panties. We were walking down the dogfood aisle and...
    Pmacphoto Pmacphoto 70+, M 2 Responses May 23, 2012

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    I'll Admit It I Like Hugs.

    My family wasn't very demonstrative as I was growing up. I don't remember touching much. My friends would hug me and I would think this is awkward. I remember when I let go and let myself enjoy the contact. I was 22 and my friend was a hugger she would just say gimme a hug and...
    moonspun moonspun 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 7, 2011

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    I'm A Hugger

    First I should say I'm not a stranger hugger.  I've been put in that position many times where someone I have never seen before goes in for the hug and I cave and give a meaningless hug while secretly feeling a bit frustrated.  But if I know you, If I like you - chances are I'm...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 18, 2012

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    I am a very touchy and feely mom with my girls

    and to my girlfriends. I was raised that way, by my mother, and I see no problem with being touchy and feely with others.
    susanbornin1969 susanbornin1969 41-45, F Jul 9

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    I did not grow up with a lot of affection.

    And I'm not one of those who is always touching people, who has to hug you when she sees you. On occasion I'll run across a person I feel the need to touch. I usually find this baffling but follow the need. My husband's cousin lives in the same town as us. His wife is basically...
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F Mar 22

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    This is why I hate long distance relationships

    it just doesn't seem real, as if they're not really there.
    Awer1 Awer1 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 23, 2014

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    I never was. People make used to make jokes

    about me for being emotion-less. Idk what happened to me there. I need to go back to the old me, just a little. Moderation is the best.
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 3, 2014

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    Not overly so, I don't go up to perfect

    strangers and start rubbing them down and groping them...(I may need to rethink that) Ha! Yea, ummm no! I will not do that. If I am in a relationship I am.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 26

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    I don't mean to be but I am.

    Especially the people I love always just squeezing, tickling, pinching, someone I love. It's like I have to just squeeze them and love on them. Hell even my animals. I'm not sure where it comes from i guess I'm just extra loving. 😁😘❤️
    brineff91 brineff91 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 26, 2014

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    There's Nothing Like The Human Touch.

    I admit it! I like to touch, but not how you may all think. A few of us have really connected as friends here on EP. Can you imagine what it would be like if we were face to face? Can you feel me holding your hands in mine when you just want me to listen? Can you feel my arms...
    roughNready roughNready 51-55, F 6 Responses Aug 17, 2010

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    Always have been. all my good friends know this.

    There is no surprise when I give friendship hugs and kisses. To me it's an intimate of connecting with others. I love it when my friends touch me, unconditionally, in return
    michelley1999 michelley1999 18-21, F 8 Responses Jun 27

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    im always gripping someones hand,

    im a weirdo :/ i cant feel what's not felt
    miimii0069 miimii0069 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I am a very touchy and feely type of woman.

    I love hugging, kissing, smelling, touching, feeling my partner that I am with.
    classyandclassicalfemale classyandclassicalfemale 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 22

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    Body Language

    I am the type of person who likes to touch. My hands pretty much can tell you how I feel about someone. For example:   If I cross my arms or hold my hands tightly together..I don't like you. If I reach out and touch your arm while talking to you...I'm interested. If I...
    emptyheart emptyheart 41-45, F 7 Responses Jan 3, 2009

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    It's True, But I Don't See Anything Wrong With It

        ~ I mean, as long as I'm not hurting anyone, or not touching inappropriately, which I never do. Then why can't I be touchy feely with the ones I love. Ex was NOT a touchy guy. lol. So I learned to curb my impulses, but damn I missed that part of my...
    Wynhaven Wynhaven 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 6, 2009

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    I thought I was not, I was far from being the

    touchy feely type. I was always like all sarcastic when it comes to feelings, making jokes and laughing, mostly making fun of others (not in a mean way), and I was REALLY good at it lol! Only to realise that I can be very touchy feely indeed! Very affectionate, in a funny way...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F Dec 14, 2014

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    I Love The Feeling....

    Of skin touching skin. I just love to touch and to be touched, it is an amazing feeling to be touched by one that you love, and to feel their energy transferred to your own body. I love to massage my boyfriend, and I can feel him melt under my fingers. I know he makes me melt...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 2, 2011

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    It's really weird that I am very shy

    and touchy feely at the same time. I always touch to the person I'm talking and I hug and kiss (on cheek of course you pervs >_< ) my friends or family and I'm not a perv. And I'm very shy too!
    Kakurenbo Kakurenbo 18-21, F Feb 8, 2014

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    I tend to be that way with people im

    comfortable with. I love touch so it comes as no shock that Iam this way.
    cartoonfan4ever cartoonfan4ever 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 22

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    I Found Out The Hard Way Not Everyone Is

    I tend to be more reserved about it since then though.Sometimes it's really hard not to. I know who lets me hug them and then I tend to assume others won't.I do tend to get surprised by someone every once in a while but I do not have a problem with it. being surprised isn't...
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2011

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    I get yelled at because I give super long hugs.

    I just latch on to people. XD
    Knixveus5 Knixveus5 18-21, M Nov 30, 2014

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    I am a very touchy and feely female.

    I just enjoy and love touching my family and friends. Also, it is great being touched by others as well.
    momwithtwinsagain momwithtwinsagain 36-40, F 3 Responses May 29

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    Always

    If I'm with someone I love I can't keep my hands to myself. Why would you want to anyway?
    commoner2000 commoner2000 66-70, M 1 Response Jan 7, 2012

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    I really do. My cousin used to tie me up using rope and ballgag me and keep me like that for hours. Sometimes he would get touchy-feely while I was helpless but it never got...
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