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I Am Waiting Until Marriage

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    I am a senior in college,

    not unattractive (if I may brag ever so slightly), athletic, in a relationship and still a virgin. I say all this, not to seem holier than thou, but just to show that I could have had opportunities to sleep around if I'd wanted that. Now, I do desire sex. It seems very appealing...
    MyUnspokenWord MyUnspokenWord 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Here's To Values

    Why does society think of virgins as losers? Why is it considered "cool" to be having sex by 13? I'm not ashamed to stand up and say I'm waiting until marriage, for that special man.
    jecoeurpourcoeur jecoeurpourcoeur 13-15, F 4 Responses Dec 1, 2011

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    Is it bad to **********

    even tho I am waiting until marriage? If I stop I feel like I would spontaneously combust!!!
    futurestar94 futurestar94 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    Purity!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yea For Purity Ringsxd

    I was not pure during this past summer. No, I did not sleep with a boy, I ***********! I felt so guilty! My Aunt Belinda bought me a ring with a cross on it for my 16th birthday that I wear on my left ring finger. My friend's are not Christians well one of them is Catholic (Still...
    christiannow13 christiannow13 16-17, F Nov 9, 2013

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    I can't think of a better gift to give my

    husband than my virginity. He'll be my first and only and I'll love him even more because of that.
    TheDancingRaindrops TheDancingRaindrops 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 24, 2014

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    SylenaEverlasting SylenaEverlasting 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 20, 2014

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    Abstinence

    I'm a fourteen-year-old girl and I'm a devout Catholic.  When I was twelve years old, I asked my mom to buy me a purity ring, and so, we went online and ordered one.  It's a little silver ring with the words "true love waits" engraved in it.  I've worn it ever...
    xxkatykisskillxx xxkatykisskillxx 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 8, 2010

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    I'm waiting but also being tempted.

    I'm trying so hard to keep from giving in but I'm starting to wonder is it really worth the wait if its so tempting?
    Sexychocolatee Sexychocolatee 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2014

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    Ughh

    Even though it's really hard because there is some really sexy men out here. Why does God make such sexy people?
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 21, 2013

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    Ever since I was 13, I've had the desire

    and want to abstain myself until marriage. I used to wear a purity ring from the Silver Ring Thing until the pool severely tarnished it. Yet, those beliefs have still lingered with me today. The temptation associated is tough, but I feel that the best thing I could give my...
    arianemariexx arianemariexx 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 1, 2014

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    I chose not to wait until I was married to have kids. When I was in high school, I felt my boyfriend and I were so much in love. We professed each other's love for one another...
    juliewardatbeach juliewardatbeach 36-40, F 6 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I was raped at 14 didn't give myself till I was 20 and he lied said he loved me then ran off. I got a bi polar disorder and had sex with 10 guys after that. I'm 21 now and I am now...
    piperweant piperweant 18-21, F 15 Responses Apr 7

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    I didn't wait tell marriage to have sex but i guess it's to late now I didn't even like it at all it just everyone around me didn't wait tell marriage so I just said lets do this
    tackett2002 tackett2002 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    No, I did not wait either to have sex before marriage. I started having sex when I was 16 and was on the pill at that time so I would not get pregnant. My mother made sure of...
    singlefemaleonvacation singlefemaleonvacation 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I never intended to wait for marriage to have sex. I was very sexually active in high school and in college. I had a couple of kids before tying the knot. My parents were very...
    oldernudistfemale oldernudistfemale 51-55, F 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    No I did not wait until I was married to enjoy the good life in bed with the opposite sex. I started having sex when I was a young teenager. Like so many other women, I was a...
    olderfemalewithredhair olderfemalewithredhair 41-45, F 8 Responses Mar 20

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    I lost my virginity when I was 15. I wouldn't say it was a fairytale or even my boyfriend. Like you I felt I was missing something in my life. I did it purely for the experience...
    heishell heishell 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    I had been a virgin until the night I became engaged at 23. This is when my boyfriend and I engaged in having sex with one another. I am so much in love now as well as I was then...
    michelleroberts76 michelleroberts76 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    Today was the day I told my mother about it.... We were in the middle of a topic that was already heated and then she wanted me to release anything else into the open... I burst...
    xxblasianxx xxblasianxx 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    No I did not wait until I was married to have sex. I am now a few weeks pregnant and planning a summer wedding. I will be another bride, who is very pregnant, walking down the...
    americanfemaleonvacation americanfemaleonvacation 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 10

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    I lost my virginity when I was 15. It was not magical but it started me on the road I am today. I am small, will always be small. I guess I looked like an innocent, German, white...
    dakota4oneday dakota4oneday 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 19

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    I posted one of these a while back.... I'm still virgin... D: I want to lose it before I'm 17 years old and I WILL! (I have 3.5 years) But I wonder who I will chose or who will...
    ButIStillLoveYou ButIStillLoveYou 13-15 12 Responses Mar 22

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    I also didint wait til martiage I was 15 when I lost my virginity and no it wasnt a fairytale I was a children minister daughter and that daughter od a teacher at my school and I...
    tlizzy531 tlizzy531 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    So the guy I am dating right now, well we have had sex in his truck, the only thing is, his family doesn't know about it and his family is just soo great:D his sister and I are...
    TrenaWeatherby TrenaWeatherby 22-25, F 15 Responses Mar 27

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    i was pregnant on my wedding day .... it was really thrilling .... from college i had lots of fun dating guys and i almost had sex with all my boyfriends ... yumm...
    nicegirl007 nicegirl007 26-30 3 Responses Mar 28

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    I started engaging in having sex prior to getting married. I was a junior in high school and was at my school prom. After the dance, my boyfriend and I went parking at a local...
    maryannelamb maryannelamb 46-50, F 10 Responses Mar 31

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    I lost my virginity at 16 to my sister friend.. My sister was jealous that he liked me and that he wanted to date me and because he was 19. He came over to my place and it just...
    QueenB14 QueenB14 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    i lost my virginity at 18. i dont regret the act, only the person it was with...oh well.
    WorkInProgress2012 WorkInProgress2012 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 1

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    I was also raped at 17 and am bipolar and had multiple partners after it is a very hard thing to deal with
    tlizzy531 tlizzy531 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    Guys are overly sensitive days. I was talking to this guy and we kinda did "it" and then right after we were so fine again everything is great. Than all the sudden he goes off...
    Justherewaiting98 Justherewaiting98 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 8

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    I was 13, she 15. My first girlfriend. It started off as nothing more than a little fooling around and before I realised what was going on, we were both naked and it was happening...
    scottdominic94 scottdominic94 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 9

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    my first wife got pregnant before we were married. now I have 7 grown kids and single.
    spankyouhard spankyouhard 56-60, M 11 Responses Apr 9

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    i was 15 yrs old sleeping with the 34 year old lady across the street. She was amazing to me....
    needtobloved needtobloved 41-45, M 3 Responses Apr 10

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    I was 15 when I lost my virginity. I was at a party. I regret it because i had no feelings for the guy. It just happened.
    Ang012685 Ang012685 26-30, F 8 Responses Apr 11

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    I am in love w a man a his gf is pregnant
    Toolieee Toolieee 18-21, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    i just had the best sex of my life... we did 69 and made love for what seemed like a life time
    sheenbean23 sheenbean23 18-21, F 8 Responses a week ago

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    I gave myself to boyfriend of almost 2.5 when I was 19. We are still together today and plan on getting married.
    miceteree miceteree 18-21, F a week ago

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    First experience, at 15 with a 42'ish year old. I would call it "Being Taken" rather than my first experience. She did teach me a lot actually. 22 years down the road now.
    SoulHealer9221 SoulHealer9221 36-40, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I love sex too much to not have it!
    ilovenickiminaj ilovenickiminaj 22-25, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    Is it bad that I am slightly addicted to sex?
    bre101 bre101 18-21, F 20 Responses 1 day ago

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    My ex dumped me last Wednesday for no apparent reason. Since those past 9 days I have had sex with 14 different guys. On the weekdays I do right after I get home from school...
    vball313 vball313 13-15, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    The first guy I ever had sex with had a 10 inch erect ****. I wish I'd waited.. Mostly because every other guy looks shrunk..
    SparkledRed SparkledRed 18-21, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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