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I Am Waiting Until Marriage

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    Purity!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yea For Purity Ringsxd

    I was not pure during this past summer. No, I did not sleep with a boy, I ***********! I felt so guilty! My Aunt Belinda bought me a ring with a cross on it for my 16th birthday that I wear on my left ring finger. My friend's are not Christians well one of them is Catholic (Still...
    christiannow13 christiannow13 18-21, F Nov 9, 2013

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    I'm waiting but also being tempted.

    I'm trying so hard to keep from giving in but I'm starting to wonder is it really worth the wait if its so tempting?
    Sexychocolatee Sexychocolatee 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 20, 2014

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    Ever since I was 13, I've had the desire

    and want to abstain myself until marriage. I used to wear a purity ring from the Silver Ring Thing until the pool severely tarnished it. Yet, those beliefs have still lingered with me today. The temptation associated is tough, but I feel that the best thing I could give my...
    arianemariexx arianemariexx 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 1, 2014

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    Abstinence

    I'm a fourteen-year-old girl and I'm a devout Catholic.  When I was twelve years old, I asked my mom to buy me a purity ring, and so, we went online and ordered one.  It's a little silver ring with the words "true love waits" engraved in it.  I've worn it ever...
    xxkatykisskillxx xxkatykisskillxx 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 8, 2010

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    I can't think of a better gift to give my

    husband than my virginity. He'll be my first and only and I'll love him even more because of that.
    TheDancingRaindrops TheDancingRaindrops 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 24, 2014

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    I am a senior in college,

    not unattractive (if I may brag ever so slightly), athletic, in a relationship and still a virgin. I say all this, not to seem holier than thou, but just to show that I could have had opportunities to sleep around if I'd wanted that. Now, I do desire sex. It seems very appealing...
    MyUnspokenWord MyUnspokenWord 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 12, 2015

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    Is it bad to **********

    even tho I am waiting until marriage? If I stop I feel like I would spontaneously combust!!!
    futurestar94 futurestar94 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    Im 26 and have been in a relationship

    for about 4 years. Waiting has been really difficult which leads to frustration and anger and fights. it'll probably be another 10 years before we can get married due to my just beginning college and unemployment. She's working but min. wage with a Masters degree. We're living...
    Shadowbolt89 Shadowbolt89 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 27, 2015

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    Ughh

    Even though it's really hard because there is some really sexy men out here. Why does God make such sexy people?
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 21, 2013

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    SylenaEverlasting SylenaEverlasting 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 20, 2014

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    Here's To Values

    Why does society think of virgins as losers? Why is it considered "cool" to be having sex by 13? I'm not ashamed to stand up and say I'm waiting until marriage, for that special man.
    jecoeurpourcoeur jecoeurpourcoeur 13-15, F 4 Responses Dec 1, 2011

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    does any other girl enjoy anal? I always here girls talking about how it hurts or its gross, but I love it it makes me ******* and I can't from vaginal sex guess I'm a freak lol.
    xxxcaxxx xxxcaxxx 22-25, F 16 hrs ago

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    My old post is still here. This sums up kinda who I am sexually.
    myawksxlife2 myawksxlife2 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I heard that people become more sensitive in the internet. That's kind of true. Some things that we feel embarrassed if saying face-to-face, feel less embarrassed if we write in...
    rainyrainsky rainyrainsky 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I think there are different cases in long distance marriages. I believe the emotional challenges is different even though they are all "long distance marriages". The list below...
    rainyrainsky rainyrainsky 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    waiting is wasting and if i had waited until marriage i would have wasted half my life. i will never get why people dont start having fun when they feel ready.
    sira93lbfm sira93lbfm 22-25, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    I was 13 with another boy, reading an old Penthouse magazine. Came across a gay letter in the letter/story section and we both got the same idea. It was great and I will never...
    DanielleRene DanielleRene 18-21, T 2 days ago

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    Was when I was 15. Was after school, I stayed to watch the football practice and wait for my boyfriend at the time to get done. On the way home the conversation went to sex and...
    JessicaRenolds JessicaRenolds 18-21, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    To be honest who the **** did, I know "devote" Christians who let loose
    FT141 FT141 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    It always feels like I'm waiting for you...it shouldn't be like that. I miss the feeling of knowing you're there even when you're not by my side. Can I still tell myself that I'm...
    RememberTomorrow RememberTomorrow 31-35, M 3 days ago

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    The nuns would be saddened perhaps. There are regrets now, I guess, with the truth of it, because my desire to know what sex was like, overwhelmed my moral sense inspired by the...
    Wishart95 Wishart95 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    You can learn a lot about a man by his perception of marriage. Somen think of marriage is a government conspiracy, another man can think marriage is only good for having sex with a...
    niceguycursed niceguycursed 31-35, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I've never been very fond of marriage. No, my parents never got married. No, I didn't really want them to get married nor did I not want them to. I think I just realized after...
    lunarrose123 lunarrose123 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Everything is changing continuously in a pace hardly imaginable. I'm almost nothing like the person I was two years ago, finances changed drastically (and thereby my lifestyle and...
    Gentle153 Gentle153 26-30, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My husband and I did not wait for marriage . In fact I was 8 months pregnant at my wedding lol OPPS
    Cynthia79 Cynthia79 36-40, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Haha that would have been so silly, waiting until marriage... how much fun I would have missed! ;)
    sxylaura sxylaura 16-17, F 8 Responses 5 days ago

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    Aaaaaaaah! I am hurting so much!! (To those of you who are eager to say, "I told you so, you just got what you deserved": How about waiting a day or two before pointing that out...
    BinaryBill BinaryBill 61-65, M 11 Responses 5 days ago

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    Is it somehow me? I need some honest advice/thoughts from complete strangers. So I have been married for just over 2 years and haven't had bouncy cuddles for just over a year. I...
    Goneburger76 Goneburger76 36-40, M 10 Responses 5 days ago

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    I want to have sex so badly. I love sex. I've slept with 4 guys and I'm totally okay with that. I actually want to sleep with more people. I haven't had an ****** from sex or even...
    helplesslyhopelessly helplesslyhopelessly 18-21, F 10 Responses a week ago

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    One man, one woman. No sex until marriage. Traditional Christian vows including "to love, honor and Obey" for brides. Husband as undisputed head of the family and sole provider...
    MrsAshleyR MrsAshleyR 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    So I thought sex was like a ***** (obviously), and I remember trying to give it as hard and fast to a girl as possible. That was hilarious in hindsight. Oh, and I lasted like 15...
    lajohnnyguy2 lajohnnyguy2 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 4

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    My new husband was a single child and lived a sheltered life. We have only been married a few weeks now, and since he comes from a religious family, we lived strictly apart until...
    bakeddolores bakeddolores 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 3

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    you see I'm on the wrestling team and at my school and on my wrestling team you get so much crap for being a virgin I mean that crap is just incredible you get from people and the...
    dylan014 dylan014 13-15, M 4 Responses Feb 2

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    11 years old my first time.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Feb 1

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    So no one on my family knows this. I didn't wait till I got married to have s*x with a guy. The reason none of them know is cause they are all Christians and would be upset with me...
    MsKennedy MsKennedy 22-25, F 43 Responses Feb 1

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    Where to find a strong, confident, yet compassionate and spiritually enlightened man? I fear my chances fade with every passing day. I doubt I will find one on OK Cupid or POF...
    Carissimi Carissimi 56-60, F 12 Responses Jan 31

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    So this boy I like has been texting me but our convo always goes back to my butt and how much he loves it and wants to smack it and stuff and I'm kings heavy so im desperate for...
    TankTopQueen TankTopQueen 13-15, F 7 Responses Jan 31

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    I am 14 and last summer I lost my virginity to a girl so I wouldn't have to go back to school still a virgin. she was actually a friend of the family and lives on a farm. we did it...
    dylan014 dylan014 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 30

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    From the moment I had my first sexual thought, I was way too curious to be a "good girl". Even on the cusp of puberty I was playing "show me yours, show you mine" with boys. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Jan 30

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    I'm glad I didn't. Although, it took me many years to really narrow down my sexual identity. I kept seeking out sex cause I never found it to be fully gratifying. So, I kept...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jan 26

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    There's this guy I had a crush on and I ended up hooking up with him. He doesn't want ANYONE to know, like he's being anal about it, even parking far away from my house so my...
    Letterbomb365 Letterbomb365 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 25

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