I Am Waiting Until Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 86 People

    Here's To Values

    Why does society think of virgins as losers? Why is it considered "cool" to be having sex by 13? I'm not ashamed to stand up and say I'm waiting until marriage, for that special man.
    jecoeurpourcoeur jecoeurpourcoeur
    13-15, F
    4 Responses Dec 1, 2011

    two more months!!! I'm getting married in June.

    I think I am going to make it.
    typhoidmary typhoidmary
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 9

    I'm waiting but also being tempted.

    I'm trying so hard to keep from giving in but I'm starting to wonder is it really worth the wait if its so tempting?
    Sexychocolatee Sexychocolatee
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jan 20, 2014

    Is it bad to **********

    even tho I am waiting until marriage? If I stop I feel like I would spontaneously combust!!!
    futurestar94 futurestar94
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Dec 1, 2013

    Ever since I was 13, I've had the desire

    and want to abstain myself until marriage. I used to wear a purity ring from the Silver Ring Thing until the pool severely tarnished it. Yet, those beliefs have still lingered with me today. The temptation associated is tough, but I feel that the best thing I could give my...
    arianemariexx arianemariexx
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 1, 2014
    SylenaEverlasting SylenaEverlasting
    16-17, F
    6 Responses Aug 20, 2014

    Hm still not sure. I quite like this idea of

    waiting until marriage but I know there aren't many guys that are willing to do this anymore..
    ParisMaisie16 ParisMaisie16
    16-17, F
    6 Responses Feb 19

    Purity!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yea For Purity Ringsxd

    I was not pure during this past summer. No, I did not sleep with a boy, I ***********! I felt so guilty! My Aunt Belinda bought me a ring with a cross on it for my 16th birthday that I wear on my left ring finger. My friend's are not Christians well one of them is Catholic (Still...
    christiannow13 christiannow13
    18-21, F
    Nov 9, 2013

    I am a senior in college,

    not unattractive (if I may brag ever so slightly), athletic, in a relationship and still a virgin. I say all this, not to seem holier than thou, but just to show that I could have had opportunities to sleep around if I'd wanted that. Now, I do desire sex. It seems very appealing...
    MyUnspokenWord MyUnspokenWord
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Apr 12, 2015

    Ughh

    Even though it's really hard because there is some really sexy men out here. Why does God make such sexy people?
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 21, 2013

    Abstinence

    I'm a fourteen-year-old girl and I'm a devout Catholic.  When I was twelve years old, I asked my mom to buy me a purity ring, and so, we went online and ordered one.  It's a little silver ring with the words "true love waits" engraved in it.  I've worn it ever...
    xxkatykisskillxx xxkatykisskillxx
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jun 8, 2010

    Im 26 and have been in a relationship

    for about 4 years. Waiting has been really difficult which leads to frustration and anger and fights. it'll probably be another 10 years before we can get married due to my just beginning college and unemployment. She's working but min. wage with a Masters degree. We're living...
    Shadowbolt89 Shadowbolt89
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jun 27, 2015

    I can't think of a better gift to give my

    husband than my virginity. He'll be my first and only and I'll love him even more because of that.
    TheDancingRaindrops TheDancingRaindrops
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 24, 2014

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