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I Am Waiting Until Marriage

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    I can't think of a better gift to give my

    husband than my virginity. He'll be my first and only and I'll love him even more because of that.
    TheDancingRaindrops TheDancingRaindrops 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 24

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    Is it bad to **********

    even tho I am waiting until marriage? If I stop I feel like I would spontaneously combust!!!
    futurestar94 futurestar94 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    Here's To Values

    Why does society think of virgins as losers? Why is it considered "cool" to be having sex by 13? I'm not ashamed to stand up and say I'm waiting until marriage, for that special man.
    jecoeurpourcoeur jecoeurpourcoeur 13-15, F 4 Responses Dec 1, 2011

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    Ughh

    Even though it's really hard because there is some really sexy men out here. Why does God make such sexy people?
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 21, 2013

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    I'm waiting but also being tempted.

    I'm trying so hard to keep from giving in but I'm starting to wonder is it really worth the wait if its so tempting?
    Sexychocolatee Sexychocolatee 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    Purity!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yea For Purity Ringsxd

    I was not pure during this past summer. No, I did not sleep with a boy, I ***********! I felt so guilty! My Aunt Belinda bought me a ring with a cross on it for my 16th birthday that I wear on my left ring finger. My friend's are not Christians well one of them is Catholic (Still...
    christiannow13 christiannow13 16-17, F Nov 9, 2013

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    the reasons why i dont want to do anything sexual before marriage : reason number 1 : what if i had sex with my girl friend before marriage , and after few days i met with...
    lifetriangle lifetriangle 22-25, M 7 Responses a week ago

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    I wish I did but I can't take it back. I plan on being abstinent . Waiting for that special person . 1 year and almost 4months . I will stay on this journey . Till I meet the guy...
    REALWORDS823 REALWORDS823 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    It was someone I hated, a week before first sleeping with my boyfriend (now fiancé). And I'm so glad I did, for a few reasons. Partly because of the physical aspects. For me, it...
    MissIntent MissIntent 18-21, F Mar 27

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    I was 15, he was 23. He said he "loved" me the night we had sex, and we were in a relationship.. But his behavior changed imensley after we had sex. He stopped wanting to come...
    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 27

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    kanak277sharma kanak277sharma 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I wanted to wait...and then I didn't..and I don't regret it.
    AYTGItsMeMaddie AYTGItsMeMaddie 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    Been with the same man for three years and we make love at least once a week. He was and still is my first EVERYTHING except kissing. I'm happy I didn't wait because its another...
    SurpriseMeToday SurpriseMeToday 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I was 15 when I first began to experiment. We were a little crazy and acted like typical teenagers. I found out later that his parents supported the experience because they wanted...
    kdone kdone 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    I kinda wish I had though. I didn't just throw it around or anything, I was in a relationship with them, but I wish I had saved it for my husband. But, he didn't save it either...
    Srkelly89 Srkelly89 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    Update from Opposite Land Even though I normally have sex 3-4 times a week with my beloved post sexless marriage lover, I haven't had sex for a week. Why? He is sick with...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 14 Responses Apr 10

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    Does anyone really leave this group without leaving the marriage? I don't think its possible, interested to hear opinions. Thanks.
    meme111111 meme111111 36-40, M 2 Responses 49 mins ago

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    I am 36 years old. I shock many when they find out about my inexperience and lack of knowledge of most things romantic. I am still waiting for my first real kiss. I am still...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Before and After … Nearing 8 months after my separation, I reflect on the emotional desert I have called my marriage. During those years, I was starved for a smile or a hug. A...
    SleeplessKnight SleeplessKnight 41-45, M 11 Responses Apr 6

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    I asked for a divorce 2 months ago. He moved out 2 weeks ago. Divorce will be final in 6 months. I wrote all my stories in I live in a sexless marriage group. I have been a member...
    Cucly80 Cucly80 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 2

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    We met when we were 18 and started dating when we were 21, but didn't marry until age 28. Before we got engaged, in my mind I was preparing to end the relationship because I was...
    lifetwistsandturns lifetwistsandturns 36-40, F Apr 5

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    I'm a little bit tired of sexlessness one-up-manship that's been taking place in this forum recently. We haven't had sex in 15 months.... Reply: that's nothing We've had sex...
    elkclan elkclan 41-45, F 22 Responses 1 day ago

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    so, i'm finally in problem solving mode I guess. I was talking to a friend and realized- I have been waiting to get a job to get out of this. Which is reasonable. However, I need...
    braverthanithink braverthanithink 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    Normal.... There are many stories on here about after leaving marriages and having normal relationships. Well I haven't left my marriage yet. I have talked to a lawyer and...
    jencpa jencpa 31-35, F 12 Responses Apr 11

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    "You'll never leave where you are, until you decide where you want to be." Saw this on a sign today and it seems to sum up my position. I saw my trusted counselor last week that...
    tresses tresses 36-40, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    Part 2: the warning signs The changes really started to happen in November. We had a vacation planned. On the vacation we did it 2 times, would have only been once but I yapped at...
    unexpectedlove15 unexpectedlove15 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 30

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    For the last 18 years I have been promised change by my refuser. I have now asked him to put his money where his mouth is. I have requested that a substantial amount of Money be...
    tresses tresses 36-40, F 6 Responses Apr 8

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    Another thing missing from this sexless marriage, besides intimacy, love and respect is fun and laughter. (Jeez, what exactly do I get from this marriage) I thought that I had...
    Gingersnapped Gingersnapped 51-55, F 13 Responses Mar 25

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    My dysfunctional childhood sometimes plays havoc on my peace of mind. I can partially blame staying in my marriage due to how I was raised, dragged through my Father’s four...
    ifoundmehere ifoundmehere 41-45, F 34 Responses Apr 13

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    It's over. All would be so much easier if I weren't so emotional about my own life. Unfortunately, when you are in a marriage that lacks love, and all that entails, you simply have...
    pointbreakgirl pointbreakgirl 36-40, F 24 Responses 3 days ago

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    My husband and I got married in March 2010 and had our first child by October that year. We had our second child January 2013 and by the end of that month my hubby told me he was...
    Itonlytakesone Itonlytakesone 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    America is going down majorly gay should be married once I have started this movement, I will not stop until gays everywhere can be married it's bull **** the American people deny...
    SeaBassStein SeaBassStein 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    My marriage is a complete joke!! We've been together almost 7 years & married for just 10 months. We get on fine as friends, but romantically there is nothing? I feel sooooo stupid...
    MemyselfandI80 MemyselfandI80 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    I always see advice from people on this board that one should seek legal counsel before they begin the journey towards ending their....well I guess legally it's termed a marriage...
    demisis demisis 36-40, M 10 Responses 2 days ago

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    Well it's been about 2 months since I last wrote about my little "situation". Unfortunately, not much has changed. I mean I could say that it's possibly a good thing because my...
    iDntCurr iDntCurr 22-25, F 20 Responses 1 day ago

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    Where do I start . I don't know if I'm in a bad marriage or I was just disillusioned to what marriage is. My husband rarely pays attention to me . We have lived out of state since...
    lynnethedreamer lynnethedreamer 36-40, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Better Single and Alone-- than Married and Lonely Okay, for those who think it is better to stay married with an un-affectionate and sexless spouse, here is why that is not...
    EinEngel EinEngel 46-50, F 15 Responses Mar 27

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    I've worked all night about every night this week. This morning I came home, I was ready for my well prepared "talk" with her and out of the blue she said she has had no sex drive...
    ugho ugho 46-50, M 5 Responses Mar 29

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    Quick update from Opposite Land... Just wanted to let everyone know that as of two weeks ago SSSG and I are the very proud parents of an amazing baby girl who has already brought...
    nyartgal nyartgal 36-40, F 24 Responses Apr 1

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    But I am getting so tired and my heart is so bruised and broken. Where are you? I really need you right now. I have been waiting so long for you...the one that i kiss goodnight...
    Arcavala Arcavala 31-35, F Apr 6

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    I have a really hard time communicating with my husband. We filed for divorce 6 months ago but then decided to let it go and reconcile. At the same time, other circumstances have...
    irismagnolia irismagnolia 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    So, today's a bit better. I didn't get much sleep but I got up anyways. I'm trying to get into a routine. So, I got up and forced myself to shower and put on clothes and makeup...
    braverthanithink braverthanithink 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 7

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    So, I went out and played cards tonight with a bunch of retired teacher friends. SO MUCH FUN! Also, in the break time I wrote a small bill of rights. I had a friend ask me what he...
    braverthanithink braverthanithink 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 10

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    Nice dinner .. nice conversation last night.. no limo but, that's alright... stayed the night with him... didn't do it all the way... . woke up with text from hubby.. came home and...
    caressablecat caressablecat 51-55, F 5 Responses Apr 13

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    Seriously need advice :(....Soo I'm new at this... I'm 23 years old.. Got married really young, have 2 babies, one of which was born this year. I've been married for 5 years. My...
    missme90 missme90 22-25, F 11 Responses a week ago

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    First I do love my wife but it's getting very ridiculous not having sex ever. We've been married 15 years and up until a couple years ago it seemed like we did it every night and...
    JRBWT JRBWT 31-35, M 10 Responses 3 days ago

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    Illusions That Kept Me Trapped in Sexless Marriage If you read my first EP story, you will get the impression that the sexlessness started with the conception of my child 4 years...
    SleeplessKnight SleeplessKnight 41-45, M 6 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Make that, that I used to live in a marriage that was becoming a sexless marriage. Today would have been our second anniversary. The story is complicated, but to make it short, she...
    soundtrackforantarctica soundtrackforantarctica 26-30, M 8 Responses Mar 25

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    Psychology Today has a couple of recent articles regarding "Does Sexless marriage justify adultery". The articles are reasonable and informed and the comments worthwhile. They...
    hl42 hl42 51-55, M 8 Responses 5 days ago

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    My back story - good jeebus, it's long. I feel that there have been a lot of questions that are better answered in a back story, because it's long and easier this way. I met...
    LynxKitty LynxKitty 36-40, F 9 Responses Mar 23

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    The rubble of our marriage I try not to look I try to change my focus to what else gives me happiness my children my friends my home my community I cannot help...
    Bobbie71 Bobbie71 41-45, F 16 Responses Mar 24

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