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I Am Waiting Until Marriage

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    SylenaEverlasting SylenaEverlasting 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 20

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    Is it bad to **********

    even tho I am waiting until marriage? If I stop I feel like I would spontaneously combust!!!
    futurestar94 futurestar94 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    Ughh

    Even though it's really hard because there is some really sexy men out here. Why does God make such sexy people?
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 21, 2013

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    Purity!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yea For Purity Ringsxd

    I was not pure during this past summer. No, I did not sleep with a boy, I ***********! I felt so guilty! My Aunt Belinda bought me a ring with a cross on it for my 16th birthday that I wear on my left ring finger. My friend's are not Christians well one of them is Catholic (Still...
    christiannow13 christiannow13 16-17, F Nov 9, 2013

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    Here's To Values

    Why does society think of virgins as losers? Why is it considered "cool" to be having sex by 13? I'm not ashamed to stand up and say I'm waiting until marriage, for that special man.
    jecoeurpourcoeur jecoeurpourcoeur 13-15, F 4 Responses Dec 1, 2011

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    I'm waiting but also being tempted.

    I'm trying so hard to keep from giving in but I'm starting to wonder is it really worth the wait if its so tempting?
    Sexychocolatee Sexychocolatee 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    I can't think of a better gift to give my

    husband than my virginity. He'll be my first and only and I'll love him even more because of that.
    TheDancingRaindrops TheDancingRaindrops 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 24

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    Abstinence

    I'm a fourteen-year-old girl and I'm a devout Catholic.  When I was twelve years old, I asked my mom to buy me a purity ring, and so, we went online and ordered one.  It's a little silver ring with the words "true love waits" engraved in it.  I've worn it ever...
    xxkatykisskillxx xxkatykisskillxx 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 8, 2010

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    http://thoughtcatalog.com/samantha-pugsley/2014/08/i-waited-until-my-wedding-night-to-lose-my-virginity-and-i-wish-i-hadnt/ I saw this yesterday and it almost broke my heart. One...
    PurpleFlyingKites PurpleFlyingKites 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    I did not wait until marriage to have sex and get pregnant too. I was very sexually active in high school and in college.
    brunettemom brunettemom 41-45, F 4 Responses 1 hr ago

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    i don't really think you have to wait until marriage unless you're very religious. BUT i don't think you should wait for someone long term, special & they deserve it without...
    Davonnaaa Davonnaaa 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 15

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    I was 13 and he was 14 we had been "dating" for a year and a half. Everyone thought we were going to get married right out if high school, including our parents. We did it while...
    lilHuman lilHuman 22-25, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    As a guy it is difficult to wait because we have a biological predisposition to mate often, but society says that's bad. Before the concept of marriage, our species did what it...
    iDispense iDispense 36-40, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Is there such a thing as a "magical" first time? I hear people talk about wishing they had waited or they are waiting for it to be "special" My wife was a virgin, so we waited...
    Jpfunjunky Jpfunjunky 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 8

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    He was a pretty italian boy. And he knew he was pretty. He wasn't dark like most italian boys. The smooth deep color of his completion made up for the egotistical boy he really was...
    skybaby0 skybaby0 18-21 4 Responses Aug 4

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    Waiting doesn't make any sense to me... I'm not judging anyone, I just dont get it. I'm surprised people still do that, but that's maybe because around where I live it's very very...
    anniecherry anniecherry 26-30, F 10 Responses Aug 7

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    Up until now, I never had a boyfriend, and I haven't had any tempting offers for sex...so I guess you can say that I am a virgin by default. However, as I get older I am seeing...
    AlbSoShy95 AlbSoShy95 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I don't understand why 14 year olds are having sex all of the time. Dating is a passage to marriage and is serious. If you can't see a future with them, then why bother?
    Anon1700 Anon1700 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 6

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    Waited till I was 20/21. Felt stupid to do it sooner with some boy from school. Wanted to wait for someone more impressive. My first was Jewish, so that was good. Not a love...
    DesireHappy DesireHappy 41-45, F Aug 8

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    How could you wait for marriage
    happkarma happkarma 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 30

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    Whats your thoughts on Sex before marriage? Preserve and make it more special or do the deed?
    PabLopez PabLopez 22-25, M 7 Responses Aug 9

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    I have always been attracted to older men but I really stepped it up when I was 15. I started dating a man 15 years my senior. He treated me like his daughter and I treated him...
    kittygurl66 kittygurl66 26-30, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    I don't regret my decision to have sex before marriage. I was 17 and he was 19. It wasn't with the ideal person, and it wasn't great either, but I changed from that experience.
    thoughtfulgirl thoughtfulgirl 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    it is important to wait until you find someone who you truly love. Im 15 and didn't wait but i understand the consequences of this experience. Everyone thinks I'm too young to...
    irinacedeno irinacedeno 13-15, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    Junior in high school. He didn't mean a thing to me. I purposely got drunk because I knew id be too nervous to do it sober. Wish I had waited until I had been in love. My current...
    maddiejuliet maddiejuliet 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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    No big deal now. I met him online. He was born in the Philippines. He was my first and only. We were married and i was never with anyone else and until he showed me his true colors...
    violet1698 violet1698 31-35, F 11 Responses Aug 5

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    I was 14 and she was 16. I had an addiction to ************ around the time so I lasted longer then she did but she blew me until I came afterwards so we were both happy. Great...
    Pantyskater14 Pantyskater14 31-35, M 3 days ago

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    I was 23, kinda of late bloomer...did not date much in high school...my first was with a younger lady who was 21, but much more experienced...she was recently divorced and had a 2...
    Groundhog69 Groundhog69 41-45, M 53 mins ago

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    17 and a virgin. Hate on it, I'm not ashamed. :)
    EmiTru EmiTru 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    Oops. It wasn't heterosexual either. Oops. But it was consensual! Yay to consent! My parents would probably have a long talk with me if they knew. Oops.
    truekvlt truekvlt 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 30

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    Does anybody wait these days? Honestly wouldn't you want to know before you tie the knot? A little experience in the sack is never a bad thing. Just don't be stupid about it. I...
    smokethis smokethis 51-55, M 2 Responses Jul 30

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    Being pregnant alone 😒 I've had better days.
    happkarma happkarma 18-21, F 10 Responses Jul 30

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    I lost it last year after the homecoming dance. My boyfriend and I drove to the same spot we first kissed and where he first told me that he loved me so it was very special. It...
    sunflowerpet sunflowerpet 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    I was a freshman in high school and I was dating a junior and of course I thought he was my entire world. I let him control me and I never had a boyfriend before so I though this...
    owens321bam owens321bam 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 31

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    Worst moment of my life .. I was 17 when lost my virginity to a guy who was one of my brother friends. it lasted like 3 mins although it didn't hurt much i cried cause the thought...
    danyel92 danyel92 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 31

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    I kind of regret loosing mine cause was so young at the time.
    LeviCroll LeviCroll 13-15, F 13 Responses Jul 31

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    I didn't want to , but he forced me into it .
    abbyhh25 abbyhh25 16-17, F 11 Responses Jul 31

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    Nope, i was 18 when i had sex. I wasn't married, (still aren't) with my at the time girlfriend.
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M Aug 7

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    Nope I was 14 years old. Now I'm 18 and look back and think wtf was I thinking?! The guy and I use to be so close now him and I don't talk at all. He's an *******. Lol
    LovingASoldier320 LovingASoldier320 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    I lost my virginity when I surrendered to a senior male student
    Mohini99 Mohini99 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 7

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    i had met this boy over the internet.. he was my best friend's ex ( she had left him cause she didn't love him). so he proposed and we met in a parc, he wasn't that handsome but...
    Ensamflicka Ensamflicka 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    But I did lose my virginity to my husband! So it evens out :)
    aburns aburns 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 9

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    Why would I wait that long for terrible sex? LOL
    dirtydarkness dirtydarkness 26-30, F 19 Responses Aug 11

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    What happens if you get married wait for the special person and they end up being a **** shag hahahahaha I am not one to take risks
    maddieXxx maddieXxx 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 15

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    I had sex with a man and he turned out to be nuts...guess giving my virginity to him at 15 was stupid
    musixgirl4ever musixgirl4ever 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 16

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    I was 17 when I lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 6 months. His family is highly religious (mormon), and I had a fear of sex. It wasn't like the passionate love making you see...
    thattallchick thattallchick 16-17, F 7 Responses Aug 20

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    Nah, most people I know didn't either. I'm not sure why anyone would to be honest. Sex isn't special, only people are.
    sunkern sunkern 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 20

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    I had unprotected sex two days ago I took plan b emergency birth control pills yesterday. He didn't come inside me I'm pretty sure. He pulled out but I'm still scared I thought I...
    misfitoutsider misfitoutsider 13-15, F 10 Responses Aug 22