I Am Way Too Nice

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    My Girlfriend Says

    My girlfriend says my niceness is breaking our relationship. I'm apparently too nice. :'( She says I'm always trying to help others and that it's tearing our relationship apart. I help everyone I see, even my exes.. if they need something I make sure I help them out. I wish I...
    Millie0213 Millie0213
    26-30, F
    Oct 7, 2012

    Just Always!

    I'm pretty easy-going and I get along with just about everybody! Lately, I've been finding that I've been used, perhaps abused because I'm a nice guy. There are lots of great people out there, and perhaps I'm a little naive. When I've let someone off the hook because I feel it's...
    aardvarkno2 aardvarkno2
    22-25, M
    Jan 2, 2011

    Then I Realized I Have No Back Bone

    Well... my story starts when i met my now ex boyfriend, we dated for a 6months... broke up for 4 months, got back together for another 6 when he left to calgary and since i was in school i told him i couldnt leave til i was done- im not quitting school to move away...
    Mel8899 Mel8899
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 12, 2009


    I am waaay too nice. Which is something that, whether they know it or not, people take advantage of. 
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 7, 2008

    I Know I'm Way Too Nice But I Know How To Handle It.

    I was raised in an environment where I felt I had no freedom to make mistakes. I grew up around people who's moods were sporadic and unpredictable. To feel in control, I tried to be perfect but it backfired. I became a lost child, so alone, so needing. The inner child...
    healthspring healthspring
    41-45, F
    Sep 23, 2012

    I'm trying to please others way too often.

    Sometimes it would be better to stick with my own opinion.
    lindahe lindahe
    31-35, F
    Feb 19, 2015

    I can't be happy unless I make others happy.

    It's weird but I just feel like a failure whenever I can't make a person happy.
    cherrypop321 cherrypop321
    13-15, F
    1 Response Feb 15, 2015

    I always end up falling in love with someone

    who just takes advantage of my generosity and kindness to the point of depletion. And they rarely ever give back.
    Ladyjolie Ladyjolie
    31-35, F
    May 30, 2014
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