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I Am Working On Changing My Life

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    Its Been A Long Time..................... - and i've just come back to see what's going on.I found this site by accident,about a year and a half ago.I was an absolute mess.My wife...
    takinitwell takinitwell 36-40 Aug 18, 2010

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    Annwithlove Annwithlove 26-30, F 42 mins ago

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    I know I am changing, after so many years of plodding along, trying to please everybody while coping with one problem after another...and another.. too damn tired to fight back...
    RobLucy4964 RobLucy4964 46-50, M 3 Responses Mar 28

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    Since I've started this new job my workload seemed a bit more chaotic there for a few days. Working at the law office and then coming home to dishes, dinner, freelance, and...
    TheJoneses TheJoneses 22-25, F Mar 26

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    Hey guys... I also wanted to change my life... Especially for the better. I figured out how to do it and I'd like to share it with you all. (I am aware this might all sound very...
    xxersabooxx xxersabooxx 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 29

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    Hey guys... I figured out how to feel better about myself, and be happier and I'd like to share it with you all. (I am aware this might all sound very hippie like...but I'm just...
    xxersabooxx xxersabooxx 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I have one more year of undergraduate classes and then another year of clinicals. Lately I've been thinking about joining the military. The air force is accepting single parents...
    nanababie nanababie 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I am 28 and recently diagnosed with lupus, a pretty serious autoimmune disease. I have been in a job situation that is abusive (if I had the money for lawyers, I could have a HUGE...
    lks04c lks04c 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I've had so much heartache in my life. I never have truly let go of my past relationships, and they are continuing to weigh me down. I have been struggling with depression for the...
    cherryblossom257 cherryblossom257 26-30, F Mar 16

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    I came to a recent understanding about my time. I am not to live by my own free will. My natural instinct directs me in a way that made me come to realize its not my own feelings I...
    WarzJack WarzJack 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    Life is cruel sometimes but you have to push through- you'll be all right :) People have bullied me and hurt me before- and it still greatly impacts my self-esteem today. But you...
    calmingmelody calmingmelody 13-15, F Mar 27

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    He walked into the room and my heart immediately started beating quickly. I knew of him and his reputation, but it was the first time I ever seen him up close. That all sounds...
    Skinnylove29 Skinnylove29 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Life is a illusion, it gives you a taste of every possible emotion and feeling that exists. It's an illusion because you may never feel tomorrow what you feel today. It's changing...
    Norajean1109 Norajean1109 18-21, F Apr 3

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    Because of laws, I cannot do what I dream to do. I cannot be free. For the next 2 1/2 years, I'm stuck. I cannot be my own person until then. I want to change my life. I want to...
    ForeverIsOver ForeverIsOver 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am in my youth, approaching full adulthood, working my *** off. I like to think I'm mature for my age. But everyone says that. So I don't care. I like me regardless. I'm hoping...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    So I'm just going to go on a little rant here (it's a bit long)...there are just some things I need to get out and I don't really have anyone to talk to that would understand..any...
    ashh7 ashh7 18-21, F Mar 23

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    So I'd caught the eyes of a mocking bird outside my kitchen window perched, while I was doing dishes. He'd just stared at me and it was as if I'd felt his symbolism. I'm working...
    magentafoxfire magentafoxfire 18-21, F Mar 23

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    Mine sucks. I am in grad school. But I need a solid plan starting sometime before I am finished with grad school. I'm going to start working on it this weekend. It's partially...
    SashaAmazon SashaAmazon 31-35, F Apr 2

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    When I graduate high school, I'm going to start a new life. A clean slate. I'm going to keep a couple of friends and get rid of the other ones that weren't there for me. I'm going...
    GeorgiaPeach03 GeorgiaPeach03 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    I Believe you are meant to meet everyone you have met or have not met yet in your whole life.
    Returnoflordtyrant Returnoflordtyrant 26-30, M 1 hr ago

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    I'm in the process of changing my life.
    Anonymousboy777 Anonymousboy777 16-17, M Mar 30

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    Don't get me wrong - I've had a beautiful life so far. I have a boyfriend who loves me for me but sometimes I guess I don't know what he sees in me. We have a beautiful house and...
    Underduck Underduck 31-35, F Apr 2

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    April 4. Negotiating Conflicts. Recovery is about more than walking away. Sometimes it means learning to stay and deal. It's about building and maintaining relationships that work...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Apr 4

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    Brief background: 22 years old, engaged (been together 5 years and getting married this summer), I have a degree in Secondary Education, been working consistently ($250/day) since...
    Discontented01 Discontented01 22-25, F Apr 7

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    Sometimes i feel like changing my name ..selling all my home contence gathering together the few things that really mean anything to me and money of coarse then just going away...
    swizzlstick swizzlstick 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    I'm just a lazy programmer. Everyday was a nightmare for me. I wake up around 8am and travel to work. Arrive at work about 10am and first things to done is to read many e-mails...
    ohmoomtang ohmoomtang 22-25, M Mar 20

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    I want a drastic change immediadely,but i can't have it,sometimes you just need to calm down and leave the change come to you,go with the flow like river to the sea, you flow and...
    blackweirdcat blackweirdcat 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I was abused and molested by my father for 8 years. My mother never realized it because she was so stuck on her failing marriage. At school I was bullied. Made to be a freak...
    dacraww dacraww 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    I'm 17 this year and I originally wanted to become a doctor , not because I was extremely passionate about medicine or anything but just because I had good grades and found it...
    rebekahmak rebekahmak 18-21, F Mar 25

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    I don't know why but lately I have been getting angry at the smallest thing. I don't want to talk to my parents(I'm not mad at them I honestly just don't know why I don't want to...
    rcola rcola 16-17, M Mar 31

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    Which is why I'm changing it
    Anonymousboy777 Anonymousboy777 16-17, M Apr 5

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    April 7. Those Old Time Feelings. "I still have bad days. But that's okay. I used to have bad years." —Anonymous Sometimes, the old feelings creep back in. We may feel fearful...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Apr 7

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    I've always been a late bloomer. As such, college frightened me. What do I want to be? How the hell should I know?! I went anyways, after being repeatedly told that you have two...
    Dollfaise Dollfaise 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I wonder since when was it that I stopped being suicidal, how long has it been I went to sleep crying and wishing that I would just never wake up. Now and probably for a long...
    Summ3rRain Summ3rRain 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Too many times I find myself letting anxieties and fears control my thought patterns and actions. Into my 20s I had many factors that led me to believe that life was nothing but...
    simulatedexistence simulatedexistence 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    It finally sinks in why I've been in so much pain for so long. Living with a husband who showed many traits of a narcissist, and sharing my childhood with a narcissistic sister...
    moongirl62 moongirl62 51-55, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I extend my reach for each grain of sand that falls through the hour glass of time, yet they fall through the cracks of my fingers. I am not going through the motions of life. I am...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F Mar 16

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    I am watching Grease on TV Such a classic Made more special by us having done the musical at school Given my current mood though it makes me wonder and a little incredulous I had...
    cailinAlainn cailinAlainn 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I'm only 30 but I feel like I'm 70. I feel like I'm at the end of the line. I was a workaholic. My first job was right after school. When I was in college, I tend to work during...
    hopefulunderdog hopefulunderdog 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    I had it rough growing up. The first 5 years of my life were very traumatic. Born prematurely and at 24 weeks. Spent the next 6 months of my life in an incubator being fed...
    Findingteesh Findingteesh 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    All my life I have lived with limits on my life. I have let the words and the mistakes of my love ones stop me from living my dream. I never wanted to be a biology major or a...
    odis22 odis22 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    I would like to just leave my entire life behind. I have the money to buy a one way ticket to any country and just enjoy the simplicity of life. I don't like being 19 and working 4...
    Azithor Azithor 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am a newbie. I read a few of these posts. No offense to the young people out there, but I am 45. I have had a stable work history bcz I just stay even if I'm not happy. Jobs are...
    staycalm7 staycalm7 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    I am 21, a guy going through life pretty unsure of everything. I have been to collage twice now going on a third and hopefully final time for game development. Right now I am...
    siffier siffier 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    My dream in life is to be a famous vocalist and actor, face plastered on every magazine, a role model for the youths of the future. I was close, so close... I am an award winning...
    x5m45h1ngx x5m45h1ngx 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    Well I started working out again and this is my second week of working out non stop everyday except the weekends. And I've been eating healthy, 5 meals a day and I feel great!
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    It's 2.07am. So forgive me if this is a bit incoherent. I did an internet search on 'i hate my life' (without quotation marks of course), and was pleased (in a masochistic sort of...
    TheEndIsNotNigh TheEndIsNotNigh 31-35, F Apr 3

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    Feeling so alone again. I hate my life, I hate every event that has been going on. I've tried being strong and finding some kind of hope to hang on to bit that was just taken from...
    klivemarie klivemarie 22-25, F Apr 3

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    Yes I am a working man. I like working on cars and on houses.
    Chase1997 Chase1997 16-17, M Apr 5

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    I am 53 and have been working in the same business for over 30 years. In the past few months I was asked to resign by new management and by mutual agreement we stuck a deal. I...
    Midnightghost Midnightghost 46-50, M 3 Responses Mar 20

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    I want to make changes in my life. For the better! I'm tired of being stuck here and just working and coming home and repeat. I want to do something inspiring with it!! I want to...
    cameron20 cameron20 18-21, M Mar 24

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