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I Am Worried About My Best Friend

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    He is the only friend i have.

    He always think of suicide (because of his strict Father, who does'nt allow him to go out cause he is afraid that his son will smoke cigarettes again and will lose his second kidney too) Once, he also tried to kill himself. I'm just worried that what if he kill himself? then i...
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 11

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    I am worried about my bestfriend,

    she's starting acting strange, not going out, not even leaving her room, she doesn't talk to anyone, she's pushing everyone away including me, and even her mum. She won't go out when asked, she constantly wants to be on her own, she's developed anxiety quite rapidly, I've never...
    asdfghjkl03 asdfghjkl03 16-17, M Jul 30

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    Very Much

    He's also my boyfriend. He suffers from depression and things I cannot seem to figure out. I wrote the entire story in 'I sent my boyfriend to a psychologist'.
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente 18-21, F Aug 17, 2008

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    Ilovemybestfriend

    I got a messages saying''ILOVEYOU'' but the first thing she said Ur my best friend and i dont want to lose you ur like a sister to me we used toplay and share are clothes we have different parents&different blood we have othertaste! Iloveyou with all my heartalways&forever...
    SugarMami SugarMami 13-15 Feb 10, 2012

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    I Am Really Worried

    A lot of homes in UK were hit by floods yesterday. Thousands of people were forced to leave their homes. Vast majority have no water, electricity… My friend lives near Thames River. I have tried to reach him but he is not answering. I am tad worried something might...
    spot spot 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 22, 2007

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    Is It Too Late?!

    Harumi has been my best friend since i can remember. But in the past two years she's changed so much, she's been bulimic for 18 months, she is constantly trying to change herself, from eye color to facial structure anything you can think of. She's a bright girl. A musician like...
    Artemis17 Artemis17 18-21, F Jun 10, 2010

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    Losing My Best Friend.

    She was my best friend. Even more than my friends I'd known much longer. We met when we were little but we were both really mature. She measured up even though she was two years younger. She was like a little sister. She looked up to me and I led her in the right path. We would...
    Alexthehuman Alexthehuman 13-15, F Aug 7, 2013

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    I am worried about two of my best friends.

    I am angry at one of them. This weekend, they have both been bringing up suicide far too often. The first one I am concerned for, the other made me angry. First, he kept saying random thing about suicide over Facebook and couldn't say anything else, just random quotes. Then, he...
    ghostsings ghostsings 13-15, F Feb 3

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    I'm Worried About My Best Friend

    I'm worried about my best friend.... We last talked on the phone Christmas day, she seemed quite happy, which is good.. We chatted for about an hour and all was well and she said i'll text you tomorrow”... Sometimes when i call she maybe feeling down but i usually manage...
    GoodGuy34 GoodGuy34 31-35, M 5 Responses Jan 5, 2008

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    I'm so worried about her.

    She has many family issues and in school she isn't paying attention to class anymore. I try to help her as much as i can but if she can't help herself, How can I?
    RandomExistence RandomExistence 13-15, M Mar 25

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    What If?

    I have never been as scared as I am right now. My best friend attempted suicide about a month ago. She said she felt she could trust me to help her as I attempted suicide recently too because of my own issues. I eventually persuaded her to tell our school counselor (We are both...
    Sylviesmurf Sylviesmurf 16-17, F Feb 22, 2013

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    Very Worried About Her

    I am worried about my best friend, which is also my cousin. She just moved out to California..to get her Masters... I know she's 24...but I'm worried...Mostly about her losing soooo much weight. She has lost 100 pounds from her original weight..she's getting too skinny. She...
    QueenOfHearts QueenOfHearts 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 9, 2009

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    My Friend Problem

    Recently, my friend has become very stressed about our homework and has been crying a lot at school. She phoned me up for an hour last night asking me the same questions, and even though me, all of her friends and our teachers have tried to convince her she's doing the right...
    echo365 echo365 13-15 Oct 13, 2012

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    Ouch

    My dad just walked in on me and found out what i was doing (writing on this site). he hates me. i know i am a mistake when i look into his eyes. just some stupid little kid who'd never been intended on. he grabs me, then keeps punching me in the stomach 15-16 times. he smells...
    poliwhirlandicecream poliwhirlandicecream 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 14, 2012

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    Wow

    Wow. I never new. she posted a story on this website a few minutes ago talking about her sisters and she was talking about a lot of deep stuff. I wish she told me before now. I have had a bad life, myself, and I could've helped her. I just hope she isn't fully gone.
    rockmusicanddbz rockmusicanddbz 13-15, F Jun 21, 2012

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    Powerless

    In October, I met this young lady who turned out to be the most amazing friend that I could ever ask for. I'm more closer to her than any of my relatives. She's such a wonderful person and I'm happy to have her friendship. Now, in this friendship, I feel powerless. As I'm in...
    MrShortStory MrShortStory 18-21, M Jan 21, 2013

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    She is suicidal, she cut,

    she diagnosed with depression, she has anxiety. She was supposed to recover with me but we both failed. Rn, im on recovery but she didnt join me, everyday she cut, but everyday she tells everyone shes fine. Im so worried i dont want to lose her. She didnt believe shes worth it...
    saffaismail saffaismail 16-17, F Aug 10

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    He's Going Insane

    First of all, if you like to bash sick people (e.g. serial killers, pedophiles, etc.) and condemn them to hell, don't even bother to read this story.  That's not the point of this.  If you want to actually help, then read this and comment. So my friend has always been...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 22 Responses Jul 24, 2008

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    To Jack

    You are my best friend, I hate that you might not be able to talk to me about some of the things you leave on my voicemail. I won't go into any detail here, but there was one thing you said that bothered me sweetpea.
    dreemz660 dreemz660 51-55, F Mar 18, 2010

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    I Hate That I Can't Help.

    You are hurting so bad and there's nothing I can do to stop it. What's worse is the reason for your pain is a complete piece of **** who is selfish, immature, lazy and just plain shady. You have always deserved better than him. He has broken you down over the past 7-8 years and...
    TattooedMissez TattooedMissez 26-30, F May 30, 2012

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    How Do I Help Her

    My best friend has been dating a guy I have known longer than I actually knew her. They seem to get along well and both have been married and have kids. She called me Thursday and told me something I couldnt believe! He has always traveled since the military and he keeps up with...
    TIDALWAVE TIDALWAVE 31-35 1 Response Oct 13, 2008

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    She Deserves Better

    She's with this glob of nonsesnse that she calls her husband. He's a waste of oxygen really. He's violent, but only with women because he isn't man enough to hit a guy, or even hit a girl while another guy is around. How pathetic is that? He's a compulsive liar, which wouldn't...
    ladyzantorian ladyzantorian 18-21, F Jan 26, 2012

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    The Monarchs Whisper

    Hello, my name is Deep Williams and I am a filmmaker. About a year ago a story came to my mind when I was sitting quietly. 'Do a movie about suicide". I could not believe the overwhelming feeling I had after that encounter. I immediately began to write a screenplay and never...
    deepwilliams deepwilliams 46-50, M Dec 14, 2011

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    My friend has been smoking weed,

    taking pills, occasionally smoking cigarettes, and occasionally drinking alcohol for a couple years now and I've been worried about him. Today I tried to talk to him about his drug/alcohol use and I asked him to just hear me out. I knew I couldn't get him to give up something he...
    fallensietotum fallensietotum 16-17, F Apr 4

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    A Film For You

    What do you believe? What do you value? What keeps you alive to live? I have written a movie entitled “The Monarchs Whisper” about young man who is faced with all three of these questions. Questions that we may have all asked or may be seeking an answer to… The Monarchs...
    deepwilliams deepwilliams 46-50, M Dec 28, 2011

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    Suspicious Of Her Boyfriend...

    My friend has this boyfriend. For the most part, they seem happy, but I can't bring myself to fully trust him. Why? My ex-girlfriend cheated on me with him. If he didn't respect the boundries of me and my relationship, why should I believe that he would respect the boundries of...
    mistaXbarreto mistaXbarreto 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 3, 2010

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    He Dosen't Believe I Can Worry, But I Do.

    My best friend and I have known each other for a very long time. He lives in the same community as me and many of my other close friends. He helps watch me when I need it. I have Narcassitic rage and he helps me stay calm. He has been there for me the most out of all of my...
    Pertence Pertence 18-21, M Nov 29, 2012

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    Worried About My Best Friends!

    I seems to me like every single one of them has something going on lately. I'm worried. Worried that for some reason i'm the one leading them on the path to self destruction. I am worried that I am somehow impacting their lives negatively even though I try to have the opposite...
    hippiegirlxox hippiegirlxox 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2012

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    My best friend deleted suddenly last week

    and she was having trouble with her husband cause he has mental problems so I am afraid he maybe did something and I'm really worried if she's safe.
    mrsatisfaction mrsatisfaction 51-55, M Feb 10

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    I Need Advice, Ive Ran Out Of Ideas To Help Her.

    well my BEST FRIEND is kayanna, we are "besties foe lyfe" haha we;; anyways we hung in a group of 5 girls at the small school i used too attend, well out of all of them me and kayana got along the best and idk we went to eachother and told eachother EVERyTHING! we had so many...
    shygirl1331 shygirl1331 13-15, F Mar 29, 2012

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    I'm Always Worried About Her

    My best friend is my entire life, and I worry about her all the time. She's all I have, and I don't know what I would do if I lost her. I don't think she realizes how much I care because I'm really bad at saying what's on my mind and expressing emotions. I have the hardest time...
    skyhook2612 skyhook2612 18-21, F Jun 7, 2012

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    So Worried About My Devloping Stoner, Lazy, Do Nothing, Manipulative Best Friend. Please help .

    Today I saw a therapist for the FIRST TIME in my life... I didn't bull **** anything and told her everything that I thought about my friendship with my best friend. I should have had other friends to talk about but thats basically all I've had is one best friend and my sister for...
    hellomelanie11 hellomelanie11 16-17, F Jun 18, 2010

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    I am worried about how my husband struggles

    with depression. He believe it is from demons that were placed on him. I am worried about out home business and if we can continue to get clients while he is unwell. I am worried about the basic day to day stuff let alone the very idea of starting a family when he is not well...
    NightOceanBreezes NightOceanBreezes 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    Help I Need Urgent Advise! He Is Physically Abusing Her.

    I just found out that my best friend is physically abusing his girlfriend. I really don't know what to do. I'm not even supposed to know what's going on as she told my wife and asked for it not to be mentioned. The abuse is quite serious, and the man in question is a very good...
    immortalman immortalman 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 8, 2012

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    My friend is pregnant,

    and planning on having an abortion tomorrow morning, well I guess its this morning. I have been really worried about it. At first I was okay with the idea, but since seeing how emotionally attached she already is to the baby, I am not sure if she is doing it for the right...
    annacole annacole 22-25, F Mar 5

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    In Pain

    when ever im alone you neversay ''hi you ok'' all you do isjust go out with your friendsyou know what i was inlot of pain. I keep  on crying with tears but listen i dont givea **** im just mei dont need no1 for mebecause all of you lot are players and not a true friendSo...
    SugarMami SugarMami 13-15 Feb 10, 2012

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    He is on his way to the hospital now.

    I just met him here but he is really very important to me.I am very worried because he is not even responding to any message i send him. Im just praying that everything will be okay.If that happens, ill be at peace
    fascisheanne fascisheanne 22-25, F Apr 19

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    Mcduck8982 Mcduck8982 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 6

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    So my friend is moving to Tanzania today. I won't see her for at least a year. She's doing some charity work, and I'm so proud of her...I really am...but...I kinda miss her already...
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    journeyrainbow journeyrainbow 16-17, F Sep 1

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    There's this guy that I met in 7th grade, and soon after we quickly became best friends. Then on valentines day that year he told me that he liked me. I didn't know how to respond...
    Littlemonkey2 Littlemonkey2 16-17, F Aug 29

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    There's this guy that I met in 7th grade, and soon after we quickly became best friends. Then on valentines day that year he told me that he liked me. I didn't know how to respond...
    Littlemonkey2 Littlemonkey2 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    Firstly, I've never used an online forum or anything like this before, so I'm kind of unsure about it. I'm not sure if I believe in talking to strangers on the Internet, but I need...
    merelyanonymous merelyanonymous 13-15, M Sep 7

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    I'm graduating from my university in December, and I'm worried about finding a full time job. I have a lot of trust in the universe and myself so I try to keep my doubts from...
    terrified2 terrified2 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    She has been my friend since first grade. We been super close for so many years. I only found out after I had gave up on her and now with my current boyfriend. She told me, I told...
    AirSlice AirSlice 18-21, F Aug 21

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    I am in love with my best friend - it all started in junior year when I met my best friend, I met her thanks to her sister that I had met the previous year, my best friend's sister...
    Silverfang40 Silverfang40 18-21, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Had a great day with my best friend yesterday ^_^ He's the opposite gender to me. He texted me asking if I wanted to come with him for his passport interview. After his interview...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    When I was 8 in grade to I met a girl who was very annoying. Then one day she called me over for a play date (I regret asking her to be best friends) so I asked to be best friends...
    catlover031 catlover031 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I had a "BFF" for 3 years. It all began when my friends constantly fought over stupid things. I became sick and tired of it, so I left the "group". (We are all friends still) I...
    KyokoXD KyokoXD 13-15, F Sep 1

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    Ok so I'm a girl and I think im in love with my girl best friend. It scares me a lot because I didn't think I could love a person so much. Our friendship started a few years ago...
    teddy237 teddy237 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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    This happened just this past weekend and I am still going thought a bit of shock. I've not really talked to them any. The must know something is up, but probably not sure what that...
    MelissaSmith24740 MelissaSmith24740 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 21

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