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I Am Worried About My Best Friend

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    I'm so worried about her.

    She has many family issues and in school she isn't paying attention to class anymore. I try to help her as much as i can but if she can't help herself, How can I?
    RandomExistence RandomExistence 13-15, M Mar 25

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    Help I Need Urgent Advise! He Is Physically Abusing Her.

    I just found out that my best friend is physically abusing his girlfriend. I really don't know what to do. I'm not even supposed to know what's going on as she told my wife and asked for it not to be mentioned. The abuse is quite serious, and the man in question is a very good...
    immortalman immortalman 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 8, 2012

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    She Deserves Better

    She's with this glob of nonsesnse that she calls her husband. He's a waste of oxygen really. He's violent, but only with women because he isn't man enough to hit a guy, or even hit a girl while another guy is around. How pathetic is that? He's a compulsive liar, which wouldn't...
    ladyzantorian ladyzantorian 18-21, F Jan 26, 2012

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    He Dosen't Believe I Can Worry, But I Do.

    My best friend and I have known each other for a very long time. He lives in the same community as me and many of my other close friends. He helps watch me when I need it. I have Narcassitic rage and he helps me stay calm. He has been there for me the most out of all of my...
    Pertence Pertence 18-21, M Nov 29, 2012

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    My Friend Problem

    Recently, my friend has become very stressed about our homework and has been crying a lot at school. She phoned me up for an hour last night asking me the same questions, and even though me, all of her friends and our teachers have tried to convince her she's doing the right...
    echo365 echo365 13-15 Oct 13, 2012

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    So Worried About My Devloping Stoner, Lazy, Do Nothing, Manipulative Best Friend. Please help .

    Today I saw a therapist for the FIRST TIME in my life... I didn't bull **** anything and told her everything that I thought about my friendship with my best friend. I should have had other friends to talk about but thats basically all I've had is one best friend and my sister for...
    hellomelanie11 hellomelanie11 16-17, F Jun 18, 2010

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    Losing My Best Friend.

    She was my best friend. Even more than my friends I'd known much longer. We met when we were little but we were both really mature. She measured up even though she was two years younger. She was like a little sister. She looked up to me and I led her in the right path. We would...
    Alexthehuman Alexthehuman 13-15, F Aug 7, 2013

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    A Film For You

    What do you believe? What do you value? What keeps you alive to live? I have written a movie entitled “The Monarchs Whisper” about young man who is faced with all three of these questions. Questions that we may have all asked or may be seeking an answer to… The Monarchs...
    deepwilliams deepwilliams 46-50, M Dec 28, 2011

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    I am worried about two of my best friends.

    I am angry at one of them. This weekend, they have both been bringing up suicide far too often. The first one I am concerned for, the other made me angry. First, he kept saying random thing about suicide over Facebook and couldn't say anything else, just random quotes. Then, he...
    SkinnyLove03 SkinnyLove03 13-15, F Feb 3

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    Worried About My Best Friends!

    I seems to me like every single one of them has something going on lately. I'm worried. Worried that for some reason i'm the one leading them on the path to self destruction. I am worried that I am somehow impacting their lives negatively even though I try to have the opposite...
    hippiegirlxox hippiegirlxox 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2012

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    Very Worried About Her

    I am worried about my best friend, which is also my cousin. She just moved out to California..to get her Masters... I know she's 24...but I'm worried...Mostly about her losing soooo much weight. She has lost 100 pounds from her original weight..she's getting too skinny. She...
    QueenOfHearts QueenOfHearts 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 9, 2009

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    Very Much

    He's also my boyfriend. He suffers from depression and things I cannot seem to figure out. I wrote the entire story in 'I sent my boyfriend to a psychologist'.
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente 18-21, F Aug 17, 2008

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    I Need Advice, Ive Ran Out Of Ideas To Help Her.

    well my BEST FRIEND is kayanna, we are "besties foe lyfe" haha we;; anyways we hung in a group of 5 girls at the small school i used too attend, well out of all of them me and kayana got along the best and idk we went to eachother and told eachother EVERyTHING! we had so many...
    shygirl1331 shygirl1331 13-15, F Mar 29, 2012

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    Suspicious Of Her Boyfriend...

    My friend has this boyfriend. For the most part, they seem happy, but I can't bring myself to fully trust him. Why? My ex-girlfriend cheated on me with him. If he didn't respect the boundries of me and my relationship, why should I believe that he would respect the boundries of...
    mistaXbarreto mistaXbarreto 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 3, 2010

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    My friend has been smoking weed,

    taking pills, occasionally smoking cigarettes, and occasionally drinking alcohol for a couple years now and I've been worried about him. Today I tried to talk to him about his drug/alcohol use and I asked him to just hear me out. I knew I couldn't get him to give up something he...
    fallensietotum fallensietotum 13-15, F Apr 4

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    The Monarchs Whisper

    Hello, my name is Deep Williams and I am a filmmaker. About a year ago a story came to my mind when I was sitting quietly. 'Do a movie about suicide". I could not believe the overwhelming feeling I had after that encounter. I immediately began to write a screenplay and never...
    deepwilliams deepwilliams 46-50, M Dec 14, 2011

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    What If?

    I have never been as scared as I am right now. My best friend attempted suicide about a month ago. She said she felt she could trust me to help her as I attempted suicide recently too because of my own issues. I eventually persuaded her to tell our school counselor (We are both...
    Sylviesmurf Sylviesmurf 16-17, F Feb 22, 2013

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    To Jack

    You are my best friend, I hate that you might not be able to talk to me about some of the things you leave on my voicemail. I won't go into any detail here, but there was one thing you said that bothered me sweetpea.
    dreemz660 dreemz660 51-55, F Mar 18, 2010

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    My best friend deleted suddenly last week

    and she was having trouble with her husband cause he has mental problems so I am afraid he maybe did something and I'm really worried if she's safe.
    mrsatisfaction mrsatisfaction 51-55, M Feb 10

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    Wow

    Wow. I never new. she posted a story on this website a few minutes ago talking about her sisters and she was talking about a lot of deep stuff. I wish she told me before now. I have had a bad life, myself, and I could've helped her. I just hope she isn't fully gone.
    rockmusicanddbz rockmusicanddbz 13-15, F Jun 21, 2012

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    How Do I Help Her

    My best friend has been dating a guy I have known longer than I actually knew her. They seem to get along well and both have been married and have kids. She called me Thursday and told me something I couldnt believe! He has always traveled since the military and he keeps up with...
    TIDALWAVE TIDALWAVE 31-35 1 Response Oct 13, 2008

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    Ilovemybestfriend

    I got a messages saying''ILOVEYOU'' but the first thing she said Ur my best friend and i dont want to lose you ur like a sister to me we used toplay and share are clothes we have different parents&different blood we have othertaste! Iloveyou with all my heartalways&forever...
    SugarMami SugarMami 13-15 Feb 10, 2012

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    Powerless

    In October, I met this young lady who turned out to be the most amazing friend that I could ever ask for. I'm more closer to her than any of my relatives. She's such a wonderful person and I'm happy to have her friendship. Now, in this friendship, I feel powerless. As I'm in...
    MrShortStory MrShortStory 18-21, M Jan 21, 2013

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    Is It Too Late?!

    Harumi has been my best friend since i can remember. But in the past two years she's changed so much, she's been bulimic for 18 months, she is constantly trying to change herself, from eye color to facial structure anything you can think of. She's a bright girl. A musician like...
    Artemis17 Artemis17 18-21, F Jun 10, 2010

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    I Am Really Worried

    A lot of homes in UK were hit by floods yesterday. Thousands of people were forced to leave their homes. Vast majority have no water, electricity… My friend lives near Thames River. I have tried to reach him but he is not answering. I am tad worried something might...
    spot spot 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 22, 2007

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    He's Going Insane

    First of all, if you like to bash sick people (e.g. serial killers, pedophiles, etc.) and condemn them to hell, don't even bother to read this story.  That's not the point of this.  If you want to actually help, then read this and comment. So my friend has always been...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 22 Responses Jul 24, 2008

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    I Hate That I Can't Help.

    You are hurting so bad and there's nothing I can do to stop it. What's worse is the reason for your pain is a complete piece of **** who is selfish, immature, lazy and just plain shady. You have always deserved better than him. He has broken you down over the past 7-8 years and...
    TattooedMissez TattooedMissez 26-30, F May 30, 2012

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    My friend is pregnant,

    and planning on having an abortion tomorrow morning, well I guess its this morning. I have been really worried about it. At first I was okay with the idea, but since seeing how emotionally attached she already is to the baby, I am not sure if she is doing it for the right...
    annacole annacole 22-25, F Mar 5

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    I'm Always Worried About Her

    My best friend is my entire life, and I worry about her all the time. She's all I have, and I don't know what I would do if I lost her. I don't think she realizes how much I care because I'm really bad at saying what's on my mind and expressing emotions. I have the hardest time...
    skyhook2612 skyhook2612 18-21, F Jun 7, 2012

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    In Pain

    when ever im alone you neversay ''hi you ok'' all you do isjust go out with your friendsyou know what i was inlot of pain. I keep  on crying with tears but listen i dont givea **** im just mei dont need no1 for mebecause all of you lot are players and not a true friendSo...
    SugarMami SugarMami 13-15 Feb 10, 2012

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    Ouch

    My dad just walked in on me and found out what i was doing (writing on this site). he hates me. i know i am a mistake when i look into his eyes. just some stupid little kid who'd never been intended on. he grabs me, then keeps punching me in the stomach 15-16 times. he smells...
    poliwhirlandicecream poliwhirlandicecream 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 14, 2012

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    He is on his way to the hospital now.

    I just met him here but he is really very important to me.I am very worried because he is not even responding to any message i send him. Im just praying that everything will be okay.If that happens, ill be at peace
    fascisheanne fascisheanne 22-25, F Apr 19

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    I'm Worried About My Best Friend

    I'm worried about my best friend.... We last talked on the phone Christmas day, she seemed quite happy, which is good.. We chatted for about an hour and all was well and she said i'll text you tomorrow”... Sometimes when i call she maybe feeling down but i usually manage...
    GoodGuy34 GoodGuy34 31-35, M 5 Responses Jan 5, 2008

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    I am worried about how my husband struggles

    with depression. He believe it is from demons that were placed on him. I am worried about out home business and if we can continue to get clients while he is unwell. I am worried about the basic day to day stuff let alone the very idea of starting a family when he is not well...
    NightOceanBreezes NightOceanBreezes 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    My best friend (both male, both 34, he's married 2 kids, and I'm single and live alone) for the past 5 years has been at my house every Friday, Saturday and Sunday. It's becoming...
    crb80 crb80 31-35, M 1 Response 18 mins ago

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    So I have a dilemma. It's a little nsfw though. I met this guy and we hit it off. He's my best friend in this tiny town that I live in. We joke all day and can spend hours nonstop...
    sylbi sylbi 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 hr ago

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    So I've been asocial for years. I have never made a friend after 10th grade, and lost track of my older friends too, both intentionally and unintentionally. I spent two years in a...
    AcknxaChy AcknxaChy 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    We've been best friends for over four years now. He's gay so we could honestly talk about everything and anything. We could walk through the mall talking about how cute that guy...
    kay5262 kay5262 18-21, F Jul 16

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    I edited this a little bit, I didn't know if I wanted you guys to know everything that had happened afterwards but I'm not as nervous as I was before. So I'm bi and yes I fell in...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    The void I felt as I fell apart was, at least to what I could imagine in my mind, probably equal to what you felt when I'd left you in the hospital. I began to feel very sad. I...
    justderek justderek 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 11

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    What Have I DONE!?!?!? Or not done as is the case today. I had homework and a quiz for one of my summer classes and I did not get anything done. The website has locked me out of...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    So I have mixed feelings for my best guy friend. and he likes my best girlfriend. the thing is she knows that i have mixed feelings for him , but he likes her and she likes him...
    GiaZol GiaZol 16-17, F Jul 8

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    So I have been friends with this girl for over a year and now we are honestly best friends. I haven't been this close to someone ever in my life. We met at work and after a couple...
    cj177 cj177 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My guy and girl best friend started rumors that I was sleeping with my crush, who also had a crush on me. My crush and I had admitted it to one another, but at the time we weren't...
    RaielleMae RaielleMae 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    Falling in love with your best friend probably is one of the most wonderful (kilig) or inspiring things that can happen your love life.:) I've experienced it, I realized that I...
    BakerQueen14 BakerQueen14 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    Since i already read a lot of stories in here maybe its time for me to share my story. So i have a secret crush to my girl best friend. We've been friends since we were in...
    stupid26 stupid26 18-21, M Jul 2

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    So my best friend, her brother, another guy friend and I went on a long holiday weekend getaway. We all slept in the same room and the first night there we all drank. Her brother...
    alya07 alya07 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    I had a best friend. We started talkin to two other best friends and became a group of 4. But my best friend started hating one of my other friends and would always leave and get...
    HarlieMarie HarlieMarie 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    So me and my best friend made a trip to NYC for fun for a week and we just got back today. While we were there I managed to meet a really cool girl. We hung out multiple times...
    Sevenup1 Sevenup1 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 11

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    I have dreams about my best friend who completely hates me, at least I think she does. Last night, I kept waking up in the middle of the night after dreams. I had 5 dreams and each...
    basketballislife15 basketballislife15 13-15, F Jul 14

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    My best friend was Jordan and I meet her when I was like 7 believe it or not we first met in a church which was ironic cause she's an atheist and I'm undefined now. Anyway we got...
    DarkRun421 DarkRun421 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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