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I Am Worried About My Mother

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    She Is So Ill

     i wake up at 3 am to find her gasping for air.she turn scared.she paces the floor.i try and try to calm her.but the illness has her in its grip.i give her a cool rag.talk calmly .is this the one that finally does her in?i am always scared it will.it is just me and her.and...
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 2 Responses Oct 12, 2009

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    She Has Ddd and Chf.

    but what really scars me is how low her blood pressure drops.as low 76/52.i `m almost certain she well go to sleep and never wake up.so every night i tell her i love you,and that she`s a wonderfull mother.just in case.
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 1 Response Mar 17, 2009

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    She's Not Taking Care of Herself

    my mother has endometriosis, and right now she needs to have an operation but she keeps canceling the appointment. this will be the 3rd time and im very worried. she gets afraid and uses excuses not to go through with it. i understand that its scary, i know that its not an easy...
    FromTheHeartOfaWoman FromTheHeartOfaWoman 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 12, 2008

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    Mama,i Am Very Worried

     MAMA,I AM VERY WORRIED.Sometimes i really am in a crying mood after seeing my mother having physical and mental problems.When i used to worry mama and my brother and i used to fight with each other,mama used to says and says"you are decreasing my life,for Gods sake don...
    fairy99 fairy99 13-15, F Dec 18, 2010

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    Mama,i Am Very Worried

     MAMA,I AM VERY WORRIED.Sometimes i really am in a crying mood after seeing my mother having physical and mental problems.When i used to worry mama and my brother and i used to fight with each other,mama used to says and says"you are decreasing my life,for Gods sake don...
    fairy99 fairy99 13-15, F Dec 18, 2010

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    I'm Sorry Mommy...

    For a month or so my mom has started getting extremely depressed every time my dad is away for work. And it's MY fault. No point in trying to pass the blame. I'm just sooo f***** up right now! My parents found out about my bulimia only a little while ago, and since then I went to...
    Liptongal Liptongal 16-17, F 1 Response May 11, 2012

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    Depressed And Lonely

    My mom and myself are as different as chalk and cheese. Due to that we fight all the time as she does stuff I consider stupid and dangerous and because while she will admit there are problems with her life she will not take any action to resolve them. I do not like having...
    Tigerlilly25 Tigerlilly25 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 20, 2011

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    Lost

    my parents had a big fight b4 cuz i think my dad's been cheating. my mom's so depressed and stressed out that she almost killed herself. she's so weak and her parents(my grands) are dead long ago. she thinks no one loves her. everything cooled off a little after that. but lately...
    KissinCoffin KissinCoffin 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 18, 2009

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    She Has Been Very Sick For Years

    My mom was in a comma for no apparent reason about 5 years ago.  She came out of that and seemed to be fine for quite a while.The next year she started getting sick a lot.  She spent a lot of time in and out of the hospital for the next year or so, before they discovered that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 11, 2011

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    She's a Ahard smoker

    My mother has been smoking since she was 16. She's 60 now. She never stopped smoking. My father says she smoked during her two pregnancies too.  She's a doctor and yet she's smoking. And how! About a packet a day! A lot of the doctor folk do, but it is annoying to think...
    Boann Boann 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 16, 2008

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    My Mother Is Getting Worse

    a couple of years ago, my mother had a stroke that affected her entire right stide, she has troube walking and driving. But she is also a diabetic and her blood sugars have been really high, and i am afraid that she is giving up so she can go and be with my father who passed...
    swatches swatches 41-45, F 4 Responses May 27, 2007

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    My mother who is 50 years old has a

    phychological problem she constantly think and belive that my father is controlling her and her body and that he has a device planted in her ear causing her to get lose motion high sugar sleepless nights and so on and she is hurting him newly and she refuses to take any medicine...
    busyhoma busyhoma 31-35, F Aug 14, 2014

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    My Poor Mom....

    The past few years have been very, very difficult for me and my family, particularly my mother, and it appears it is only getting worse now. Mom began having problems with her gall bladder about two years ago. Serious pain, nausea and other issues began.  At...
    redandfrisky redandfrisky 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 29, 2009

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    I Hate To See Her Like This...

    I'm so worried for my mom. You see shes shes scared/hates to know shes getting old and out of date as she says. It really scares her and makes her upset. Thankfully it hasn't been so bad until 2 weeks ago... See her jobs not to hard she a Secretary and takes calls and calls...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 30, 2013

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    Oh man I am so worried. I have the most awful pain in the right side of my waist. Had it for several days (about 3-4) but the past 2 days it has been so painful when I move and...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 3 Responses Feb 1

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    I was worried I would end up either with the wrong guy. Who would not be funny, sweet, smart and tall. I'm scared I may not work the job I want to have. I'm almost worried about...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    I have had my cat TJ since he was only 5 weeks old and he has been my best friend since. He could even tell when I was upset and would come up to me when I was crying and would sit...
    kaylaleean kaylaleean 18-21, F Feb 14

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    I sit at a table of mostly boys. They are all some off the best friends I've had (well, most of them. We'll get to that later). I am worried about a couple of them. I'm not...
    deedadeedalee deedadeedalee 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Please give me a reply. is everything fine there? i will not disturb you again. but i wish from Maa that everything should be fine there. Everything is good. No worries:) thanks to...
    noblerain noblerain 31-35 Feb 3

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    My mama is married and moving to Louisiana with her new husband. Luckily for me, I can stay with my grandma. My parents allowed me to see my boyfriend but I dont think my grandma...
    kaylaakionaa kaylaakionaa 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    It's so complicated I don't know how to type everything out here. She acts 'too perfect'. She acts like there's nothing wrong with her life, although there has to be. I've done...
    DarkLoser DarkLoser 13-15, F Feb 6

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    I havent seen my bf in about 3 weeks and a couple of my friends (and his) have been saying things like "I think he will break up with u when he gets back." I have had some bad...
    PYazmin PYazmin 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 17

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    All my parents are talking about is college, college, college. Someone ******* kill me.
    soulasoul soulasoul 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 5

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    dont know whats happening ...and what will happen....tensed about future
    coolguy5544 coolguy5544 26-30, M 3 Responses Feb 6

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    I really hope someone can give me advice on my chaotic situation. I got married very young to my first and only boyfriend. 18 years old. I ended up moving to a foreign country and...
    KellyAnn23 KellyAnn23 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 6

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    There's plenty to worry about. Will I get a good job that I even like? Will I get married or have children? When and how will I die? What kind of condition will the world even be...
    tgf12 tgf12 18-21, M Feb 13

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    my boyfriend... through a series of events is adopting his sisters baby... we have been dating for a month and half and i really do like him, but i am 18 and he is 20 and i am only...
    matthewnew matthewnew 18-21 2 days ago

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    I just might be his only friend right now.
    riobruno riobruno 18-21, F 5 hrs ago

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    I feel like he doesn't want to talk to me :c but I love him bla good night
    djneedslovetoox3 djneedslovetoox3 16-17, M Feb 7

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    Too bad I've already lost her
    justhatgurl justhatgurl 16-17, F Feb 8

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    "You do have a heart. Everyone does, it just takes the right person to touch it."
    StaceyNight StaceyNight 18-21, F Jan 28

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    I have never felt so helpless I no the situation you are in and I am scared for you as you shouldn't be there but there is nothing I can do and I no you will read this and think I...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 29

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    Update. The pain is sill there but has drastically decreased in pain today. No more yells of pain. I feel a lot better. The pain was also in the left side of my waist slightly...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 4 Responses Feb 2

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    Was severely constipated before. Made me think I THINK haven't done number 2 for a few days now.. Most constipated I've been in a long time. I hope it isn't connected to my waist...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 3 Responses Feb 3

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    I am terrified that I will get sick and he won't help me... Last evening, I had a dizzy meltdown with low blood sugar. I had to put dinner in and go lie down for a while. He gets...
    ridinabroom ridinabroom 51-55 Feb 5

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    Things just haven't been working out how I need them too . Hopefully I can get into a school meeting my requirements next year . Hopefully I can get back into a cosmetology program...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    Not even just cause things haven't gone how I wanted. But like anything can happen and it doesn't matter whether it's planned or not, so yes it does worry me. I don't know what...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    Anybody who isn't is a fool !
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 7

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    I am female crossdreamer without any desires of becoming a man or dress like a man
    Bluerosered Bluerosered 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 10

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    What's more stressful than moving to a new place that is hundreds of miles away from home? Moving with limited amount of money with no place to go to.. having to camp in the woods...
    snackings snackings 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 12

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    I think I might have gotten her to cut she saw the cuts on my arms and I told her it's no big deal it doesn't even hurt now she's cutting am I a horrible friend I feel like I am...
    sadnesskillsme sadnesskillsme 13-15, F Feb 13

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    don't know what to do with my life. it feels like i just wasted everything.
    kraine17 kraine17 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 16

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    Her boyfriend is a bastard. Beats her, controls her, calls her names and says she's fat. She can't ever leave the house. He's nuts. And he's nothing, he's nothing special at all...
    ashleythis ashleythis 31-35, F Feb 20

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    Is it better to stay at a full-time job you hate, (feeling totally depressed, unwell, bullied and demoralised, but paid regularly) than it is to quit and work casually at something...
    associatedbears associatedbears 41-45 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    My daughter is having surgery tomorrow morning. Suddenly our weather has changed they're now calling for snow. The hospital where she's having get surgery is an hour away. Why...
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have feelings for my husband's brother. We all get along so well, but damn if I don't want to kiss him some days.
    nerobust nerobust 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I know what I want to do and what I want to have, but I can't see me getting there. Sometimes I feel like I have no future, that maybe I won't be here long enough for me to have...
    imgivingupnow imgivingupnow 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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