I Am Worried About My Mother

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    She Is So Ill

     i wake up at 3 am to find her gasping for air.she turn scared.she paces the floor.i try and try to calm her.but the illness has her in its grip.i give her a cool rag.talk calmly .is this the one that finally does her in?i am always scared it will.it is just me and her.and...
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself
    36-40
    2 Responses Oct 12, 2009

    My Poor Mom....

    The past few years have been very, very difficult for me and my family, particularly my mother, and it appears it is only getting worse now. Mom began having problems with her gall bladder about two years ago. Serious pain, nausea and other issues began.  At...
    redandfrisky redandfrisky
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jun 29, 2009

    I'm Sorry Mommy...

    For a month or so my mom has started getting extremely depressed every time my dad is away for work. And it's MY fault. No point in trying to pass the blame. I'm just sooo f***** up right now! My parents found out about my bulimia only a little while ago, and since then I went to...
    Liptongal Liptongal
    16-17, F
    1 Response May 11, 2012

    She Has Been Very Sick For Years

    My mom was in a comma for no apparent reason about 5 years ago.  She came out of that and seemed to be fine for quite a while.The next year she started getting sick a lot.  She spent a lot of time in and out of the hospital for the next year or so, before they discovered that...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 11, 2011

    Mama,i Am Very Worried

     MAMA,I AM VERY WORRIED.Sometimes i really am in a crying mood after seeing my mother having physical and mental problems.When i used to worry mama and my brother and i used to fight with each other,mama used to says and says"you are decreasing my life,for Gods sake don...
    fairy99 fairy99
    13-15, F
    Dec 18, 2010

    Obsession - Recently my mother hasn't been

    talking to me at all or looking at my work with me and she's been going to bed a lot later recently and I think it has something to do with her staying up to watch Graham Norton, I swear it is like she's obsessed with the Graham Norton show and watches it constantly - she's...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13
    22-25, M
    Aug 22, 2015

    She's Not Taking Care of Herself

    my mother has endometriosis, and right now she needs to have an operation but she keeps canceling the appointment. this will be the 3rd time and im very worried. she gets afraid and uses excuses not to go through with it. i understand that its scary, i know that its not an easy...
    FromTheHeartOfaWoman FromTheHeartOfaWoman
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 12, 2008

    I Hate To See Her Like This...

    I'm so worried for my mom. You see shes shes scared/hates to know shes getting old and out of date as she says. It really scares her and makes her upset. Thankfully it hasn't been so bad until 2 weeks ago... See her jobs not to hard she a Secretary and takes calls and calls...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 30, 2013

    My Mother Is Getting Worse

    a couple of years ago, my mother had a stroke that affected her entire right stide, she has troube walking and driving. But she is also a diabetic and her blood sugars have been really high, and i am afraid that she is giving up so she can go and be with my father who passed...
    swatches swatches
    41-45, F
    4 Responses May 27, 2007

    Lost

    my parents had a big fight b4 cuz i think my dad's been cheating. my mom's so depressed and stressed out that she almost killed herself. she's so weak and her parents(my grands) are dead long ago. she thinks no one loves her. everything cooled off a little after that. but lately...
    KissinCoffin KissinCoffin
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Mar 18, 2009

    Depressed And Lonely

    My mom and myself are as different as chalk and cheese. Due to that we fight all the time as she does stuff I consider stupid and dangerous and because while she will admit there are problems with her life she will not take any action to resolve them. I do not like having...
    Tigerlilly25 Tigerlilly25
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 20, 2011

    She's got cancer, she's on heroin

    and she drinks constantly, she smokes cigarettes, she's been passing out because her blood pressure is destroyed because something's wrong with her heart, she's losing a ton of weight from the cancer and heroin.. I love her so much, she's all My siblings and I have left besides...
    stellar3658 stellar3658
    18-21, F
    Sep 13, 2015

    Mama,i Am Very Worried

     MAMA,I AM VERY WORRIED.Sometimes i really am in a crying mood after seeing my mother having physical and mental problems.When i used to worry mama and my brother and i used to fight with each other,mama used to says and says"you are decreasing my life,for Gods sake don...
    fairy99 fairy99
    13-15, F
    Dec 18, 2010

    My mother who is 50 years old has a

    phychological problem she constantly think and belive that my father is controlling her and her body and that he has a device planted in her ear causing her to get lose motion high sugar sleepless nights and so on and she is hurting him newly and she refuses to take any medicine...
    busyhoma busyhoma
    31-35, F
    Aug 14, 2014

    She Has Ddd and Chf.

    but what really scars me is how low her blood pressure drops.as low 76/52.i `m almost certain she well go to sleep and never wake up.so every night i tell her i love you,and that she`s a wonderfull mother.just in case.
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself
    36-40
    1 Response Mar 17, 2009

    She's a Ahard smoker

    My mother has been smoking since she was 16. She's 60 now. She never stopped smoking. My father says she smoked during her two pregnancies too.  She's a doctor and yet she's smoking. And how! About a packet a day! A lot of the doctor folk do, but it is annoying to think...
    Boann Boann
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 16, 2008

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